Instagram Model Wants A Traditional Man
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with Rado, a full-time model on social media, to talk about what it's like being a woman in the dating world, and how to balance a career and a family life.
Transcript
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When's the last time you cooked for like a dinner party?
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Like I cooked for my family and they enjoyed it.
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I made some salmon, some roast potatoes, and a nice salad on the side.
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I feel like you've got a lot of hard questions.
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So like, first of all, you have a job, you do something for work.
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So as a full-time model on Instagram, you probably have some gentlemen that are approaching you pretty frequently and saying,
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Yeah, like where do you go and how do you get there?
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Well, I was, when I was 25, like I wasn't going.
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Like, well, I did, but let's say 22, I didn't have the money to go on a plane and just be traveling.
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So some, of course, I'd be paying for my own travel.
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Is this like a modeling travel thing or somebody's like, well, come do a shoot.
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I'll get a booking abroad and they sort that all out.
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What are some places you've gone in the last two years?
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So I've been like Gran Canaria, like mainly like the European areas, basically like Gran Canaria.
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I literally went there twice since January to now.
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Same modeling agency in Portugal was hiring you for something?
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So do you have more, your friends are more girlfriends or boyfriends?
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And your husband is, as Rado explained here, he's working in his office, like he's not home,
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During that time, your friends come to you and ask you to go for a spa night.
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But what if the guy you're dating, he's like, you know, he's pretty serious about you.
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And he's like, look, we can take this relationship to the next level, but you got to shut down
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Basically, you have to turn off your social media accounts.
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I know you're putting yourself out there, but you have to take your Instagram down.
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Yeah, these are guys that can pay for everything.
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So if these are guys that can pay for everything, I would say that is perfectly fine by me.
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If you're helping me to build another business that's outside of that social media world,
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Why would he be helping you build another business?
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Because you're taking me away from my business.
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Like, the guy would say, I'm going to retire you.
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Um, how, have you dated since your last relationship?
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Gosh, like I said, these men, maybe it's just the guys I go for.
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Like, do they approach you on Instagram or Tinder?
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I'll be on set, on shoots, and they'll be, like, trying to, like, sneak it in.
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No, I'm saying, like, you get to be, you get to work full time.
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So, for example, for me, I'm very good at networking.
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So, when I go to on set, like, I like to, I make sure that I network with production or
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I make good professional relationships with people so that they're able to just reach out
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Do you feel like you present yourself like a wife?
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Someone that's there for them that's loving, that's caring.
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No, I'm saying, like, when he's picking a wife, he wants a wife and a mother, right?
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Yeah, so I'm saying, when we're marketing or, like, when you're trying to, you know,
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Like, do you think it's good for a wife and a mother to have her, like, her tits out on
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I mean, I feel like, I feel like people forget.
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No, no, no, not forget, but, like, not forget the pictures.
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But, for example, like, there's a difference between the old-fashioned way and the new
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Now, everyone's on Instagram and on social media doing these kind of.
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But you still want the traditional guy to take care of you.
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You still are looking for a traditional guy to take care of you.
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But I didn't say no to saying if he was to retire me and saying stuff.
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But why would he want that when that stuff's out there?
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Because it's like, how are you going to get that outcome?
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You're in a room with guys that make millions of dollars.
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And we don't walk down the street and that doesn't happen, right?
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And so, but it's like when you have a chance like that.
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And they look at your Instagram and see your boobs out.
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I mean, to be honest, for me, if you want to judge me by that, that's fine.
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I understand that that's a part of what you see.
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Well, no, it's not anything about who you are as a person.
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But that's what I'm showing, basically, is what you're saying.
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That's like the first, like, thing that you would get from me is my social media.
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What do you think guys would assume when they see that?
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For me, I do not judge people by their social medias.
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People portray one thing on there, and then they're different in real life.
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Like, rather than mitigating that, you just accentuated more.
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But the signaling, you know, it's like, I don't know about you guys, but, like, would you feel comfortable, let's say, considering taking a woman seriously?
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When I say seriously, I don't mean, like, taking her on a trip and, like, having some fun.
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I mean, like, would you consider a woman to introduce your parents to get married to if 3,000 guys have liked her boobs on Instagram?
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Like, she said that you said that you were dating Leslie with, like, really bad guys, like douchebags and stuff.
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Do you think that a guy like us or someone outside that has a lot of possibilities will see that and will say, okay, I want to date her?
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Anyhow, you know, social media is more like the dating platform these days, isn't it?
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Do you think they will consider when they're looking at those pictures to date you for a long-term relationship?
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Yes, because I feel like there's more people out there that put out more...
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Like, if I see that, I see kind of expensive date, easy sex.
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And then what they're trying to say is this is what you're portraying and then maybe this is why that's the treatment you're getting.
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Like, women that don't, like, dress like this on social media, it's not hard to get courted in 2023.
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And so I'm saying, like, if you keep putting this stuff out there, like, that's what you're going to get.
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Sometimes you have to kiss a thousand frogs to get your prints.
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And it's like they tell us that we can do this stuff and it's going to turn out okay.