Is Female Cheating Is Worse Than Male Cheating？
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about micro-cheating and why it's a red flag. I also talk about the anti-suffragettes and their advice on how to deal with micro-ch cheating in a healthy relationship.
Transcript
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Decide the best course of action, whatever that may be.
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Whenever it's like a female, because, okay, female cheating is a lot more emotional than
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Like, it's just like the hot chick was there, right?
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But when women cheat, it's much more emotional.
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It tends to be with a coworker at work, and they just seem to get their feelings involved
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Um, but it's interesting how when she talks about male cheating, she says it's a red
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flag, but things that are more associated with female cheating, she says the relationship
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This does not mean the relationship is necessarily doomed, just that it might require a bit more
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So she's saying you might need to put more attention into the relationship.
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Well, you know, men need sex, women need attention.
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So she's essentially in this article, bailing out women from female cheating, saying that
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Uh, but I'm just really tired about all this psychology mumbo jumbo to just excuse women
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So we have the conclusion here, understanding and addressing behaviors that border on infidelity
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require acknowledging that there is not a one size fits all solution.
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The right solution is unique to you and your partner.
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If you sent secrets being kept that cause feelings of betrayal, engage in open dialogue with
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Um, clear communication rooted in empathy and understanding is the cornerstone of a long
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Now I know, I know this is like a wild thought and maybe I'm wrong.
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You know, all of you in the comments, but communication is more of like a female thing.
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Like men don't communicate really to feel better, right?
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Where women on the other hand, you know, we communicate, we just want to let out our emotions.
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So, um, essentially when we say clear communication rooted in empathy and understanding is the cornerstone
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of long-term relationship satisfaction, what I hear is, listen to your woman bitch.
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Listen, basically your woman's feelings about micro cheating are valid, no matter how stupid they are.
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So if you see him like an attractive girl's picture on Instagram, your feeling about it is 100% valid.
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It is 100% valid to bother him about every feeling that you have.
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And he must listen with empathy and understanding.
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This is what I hear when I hear this psychology mumbo jumbo.
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And that's why, guys, a lot of times I just don't even really, I don't really see therapy
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Especially when it's a female therapist, it just tends to be do what the woman wants.
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So, um, I was scrolling on TikTok last night and I came across a video of a woman getting
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And this is something that I really want to push.
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And I really want people to understand the anti-suffragettes were not badass women.
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They were not these, they were not even well liked.
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They typically were women that hated their husbands.
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They typically were, um, the feminists of today.
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The, the first, the, the suffragettes, when the Titanic sank, okay, and mind you, most
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of the people that died on the Titanic were men.
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And the, the anti-suffragettes came out and said, if a woman had built the ship, that wouldn't
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And then you, you see the common arguing tactics.
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That was just some, no, they were planning assassinations.
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Um, they were really just whores, um, man haters and women that hated their husbands.
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And you can see it if you really look at their writings, which we're going to show now.
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So this is marriage advice from an anti-suffragette.
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This is 105 year old marriage advice for young women from a suffragette.
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You know, the bad-ass women who fought for our right to vote.
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And I don't know what her husband did, but it could not have been good.
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But if you must, avoid the beauty men, flirts, and the bounders, tellers, dummies, and the football enthusiasts.
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A fire lighter, coal getter, window cleaner, and yard swiller.
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Most men are lazy, selfish, thoughtless, lying, drunken, clumsy, heavy-footed, rough, unmanly brutes, and need taming.
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So I noticed one choice of words that the woman used in that video, the woman who wrote it, right?
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And it really goes back to, feminists always want to mess up the natural order of the world.
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As you guys know, I believe there's a natural order in the world.
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And when women try to tame men, that means he's following you.
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And it's so funny because she named some pretty, like, difficult jobs, I would say, especially back then.
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So it's like a lot of times the words that we use to describe men and what men want are really words that would be better used to describe women and what we want.
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How many women have said they've dated a narcissist?
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But in all honesty, guys, look at, like, open your eyes.
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And it doesn't really matter what the studies say or whatever.
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I really think we need to focus on what we see.
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Who is more narcissistic, men or women, when most women have an Instagram account with butt pics on it?
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And you really see this where women were addicted to social media.
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So, again, I really think women are much more narcissistic than men, yet we call men narcissists.
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I think women are much lazier than men, yet she's calling the guys lazy.
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A lot of times the left will come and study, study, study.
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And I'm not saying research isn't important, but we can't discount what we see in front of our eyes.
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And there's more women that were opposed to women voting than were for it.
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And it's really funny because if you guys look up these writings, the women of the time,
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they talk about how they didn't like the anti-suffragettes.
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And they talk about how this was the beginning of the breakdown of the family unit.
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I think a third of kids now are born into single mother homes.
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And half eventually grow up in a single mother home.
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The family unit is so broken that couples can't even stay together until they actually have the child.
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Couples will be broken up when the kid is born.
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And, you know, that's supposed to be like, you know, a good time.
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And it's like in this modern era, everything is so different.