JustPearlyThings - IS MARRIAGE A GOOD DEAL FOR MEN IN 2023？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP150

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00:02:14.620 second row okay laura from london um 30s and uh single 30s yeah 30 what yeah because every time 0.62

00:02:24.080 you look at me like this oh i don't look at you you know i i think you i actually was surprised the

00:02:41.680 first time you look young that was why i looked at you like that all right fine go ahead hi i'm

00:02:46.440 ryanne i'm from london and i'm 28 years old hi i'm danika i'm 30 years old and i'm from london as

00:02:53.480 well uh troy 47 and i'm from london and i'm a dating coach do you want an interesting fact i'm three

00:03:01.820 percent albanian according to my dna wow three percent albanian where are you

00:03:06.860 husband what are you saying i'm albanian as well what wow there you go um is it cheaper

00:03:13.880 i'm a sheep what's my sheep sheep sheep uh um sheep what's it what are you saying

00:03:18.020 yeah we're all from the mountains

00:03:22.980 why we're so you know

00:03:26.680 adonis i'm 30 years old from new york city informative content creator

00:03:32.680 i'll be 41 single and i was gonna say i'm a regular but all these guys car oh this is wicked

00:03:42.120 everyone's a regular here oh yeah i don't think i'm new

00:03:45.780 i was like oh yeah we do have a lot of repeats today this is great yeah yeah go ahead uh my name

00:03:54.580 is neema and uh i have my uh show in new york city on november 17th um at city winery and i also

00:04:03.120 have my new book on how to not be a bitch 1.00

00:04:06.980 yes yes is that dedicated to yourself or to women published on dng is that for men or women that should 0.95

00:04:16.480 be for men yeah yeah no no why are they giving you a new age men you know it's interesting you know 0.96

00:04:22.780 that's interesting be a man is seen as a good thing or be a bitch or a woman is seen as a bad 1.00

00:04:28.980 thing no i don't think i don't think be a woman is seen as a bad thing if you say you're acting like 0.97

00:04:36.680 a woman right now is that usually is that usually good or bad but if i say you acting like a woman 0.97

00:04:41.060 right now it's usually a negative behavior it is yeah yeah all right go ahead china 1.00

00:04:47.400 i mean i feel like i feel like i've my name is china how many shows have you been on at this

00:04:54.000 point oh your shows yeah just i don't know like you can't even count right i can't count but

00:04:59.000 what am i am i regular my panelists what am i what what am i now i don't know man my name is china

00:05:07.460 demandam's voice and yeah everyone i feel like everyone knows me i just keep going viral every

00:05:11.640 single day now and and and and yeah it's it's shout out to all the blogs that keep posting me

00:05:16.180 um yeah demandam's voice my name is china on on on youtube and stuff so um china i'm so glad you're

00:05:24.220 here today why is that i am so glad you're here um i actually decided that we're going to start the

00:05:29.760 show with a certain clip that china sent me so you know so you know um china how old are you

00:05:36.680 i'm just 10 49 okay so you're 39 so i'm seeing this growing number of older men

00:05:42.420 right older like around 30 or late 30s early 40s that have never married no that have been right so

00:05:49.940 you're you're 41 right you're 30 47 47 39 all of you guys never married it's interesting right i know

00:05:59.080 you're you married but but you got married later too yeah i got married at 42 and so you know a lot

00:06:04.100 of times they ask the question to the men why aren't you marrying these women you know so why

00:06:09.880 aren't you getting married and china just had the funniest clip you know where he really answered

00:06:17.460 the question why aren't why aren't why aren't the guys marion okay go ahead

00:06:34.100 why aren't they riot why aren't they riot why aren't they riot

00:06:57.880 spirit

00:07:00.320 that girl spinning around 1.00

00:07:06.860 I think the first time I saw that,

00:07:35.280 that was so funny.

00:07:37.660 Where was that?

00:07:39.020 That was in Brixton,

00:07:40.420 an event called Shout Out to Pod and Party,

00:07:43.280 Noise and Banter.

00:07:44.060 Yeah, that was the event.

00:07:44.860 And I was a guest,

00:07:45.700 and like you said,

00:07:46.820 they asked me.

00:07:48.460 I got a question, bro. 1.00

00:07:50.500 How do you have the balls, 0.99

00:07:52.240 the balls to do that in a full black? 1.00

00:07:56.040 You know what I'm going to say. 1.00

00:07:58.060 Say it, say it, say it. 0.92

00:07:59.040 You do that in a full black environment 0.98

00:08:00.960 with a whole bunch of black women 1.00

00:08:02.320 in a black community 1.00

00:08:03.300 and have the balls to say that. 1.00

00:08:05.580 But she was right. 0.97

00:08:06.700 You have some points of what she was making, 0.96

00:08:08.260 but that's some balls. 0.96

00:08:10.640 That's some balls. 1.00

00:08:11.560 I'll be honest with you. 0.99

00:08:13.300 Pearl was like,

00:08:14.460 yeah, you're going to need some security.

00:08:15.580 Yeah, we're going to need time.

00:08:18.860 I remember he was saying

00:08:19.780 I should come to the next one.

00:08:20.940 I'm like, oh God, me and you.

00:08:23.500 Omar is coming. 1.00

00:08:25.480 Pearl needs to come to the next one, 1.00

00:08:26.900 but 100%, yeah,

00:08:27.560 we're going to have some security.

00:08:28.280 Did you expect them to go that mental about it, though?

00:08:31.080 Because it seemed fair enough to me, really.

00:08:32.540 I'll be real with you.

00:08:35.320 I was going to answer it completely differently.

00:08:37.320 So, you know,

00:08:39.440 another lady, 1.00

00:08:40.340 I was on a panel

00:08:41.040 and she from my podcast,

00:08:44.380 not in a man,

00:08:45.340 she actually asked me a question.

00:08:46.540 Why aren't you married, right?

00:08:47.460 And I was trying to explain.

00:08:48.360 So I was about to articulate

00:08:49.160 why I'm not married and explain

00:08:51.060 all my friends,

00:08:52.540 which are my age range,

00:08:53.500 which are doing well,

00:08:53.980 which are not married

00:08:54.520 because of obviously what's going on.

00:08:56.120 They wouldn't let me do that.

00:08:57.120 They started heckling me.

00:08:58.280 They started doing that thing

00:08:59.240 in a room full of women. 1.00

00:09:00.300 Oh, so what?

00:09:01.260 So then I was like,

00:09:02.400 okay, well,

00:09:03.340 if you want,

00:09:03.780 they don't want to get that chai.

00:09:05.020 They want the menace chai. 1.00

00:09:06.760 But you went to the ends.

00:09:08.420 You went to the ends of Briggs.

00:09:10.080 What do you expect?

00:09:11.420 Well, the truth of the matter

00:09:12.660 is we're in a post-marriage society.

00:09:14.380 Most people just don't know it yet.

00:09:15.860 I mean,

00:09:16.020 they're predicting 50% of women 0.90

00:09:17.760 at marrying age

00:09:19.120 are going to be single and childless.

00:09:20.720 And then on top of that,

00:09:21.600 the 50% of women 0.87

00:09:22.640 that do get married 0.99

00:09:23.420 half will divorce.

00:09:24.340 So that leaves one in four

00:09:25.400 that'll be with a guy 1.00

00:09:27.100 and their old age.

00:09:27.940 What was going to be

00:09:29.480 your other answer?

00:09:32.880 No, I've explained it before.

00:09:34.780 Like, end of the day.

00:09:35.380 So here's the thing, right?

00:09:36.480 I can have accountability.

00:09:37.900 I've made bad choices

00:09:38.600 in the past with women.

00:09:39.760 So that's the first start.

00:09:40.980 I think men, you know,

00:09:43.220 but also for us men,

00:09:44.180 we don't really probably

00:09:44.880 get into marriage mind

00:09:45.840 into your 30s, I think.

00:09:47.220 You know,

00:09:48.020 I was literally...

00:09:48.520 Don't get into marriage.

00:09:49.680 I was literally thinking

00:09:50.880 about this particular situation,

00:09:54.060 you know,

00:09:54.700 getting to my 30s

00:09:55.600 and I'm thinking like,

00:09:56.320 yo,

00:09:57.000 shouldn't I be having kids

00:09:57.940 or getting married at this moment?

00:09:58.960 You know,

00:09:59.320 it hits into place.

00:10:00.640 But then I think to myself,

00:10:01.620 I don't think that

00:10:03.500 marrying for men for love

00:10:06.280 is the main priority anymore.

00:10:08.400 I think that you have to

00:10:09.280 marry for business.

00:10:10.720 And once you think

00:10:11.700 marry for business,

00:10:13.180 then your perspective changes.

00:10:14.080 You should have to marry for love. 1.00

00:10:21.780 You should be able

00:10:23.260 to marry for love.

00:10:23.940 But unfortunately,

00:10:24.540 I mean,

00:10:24.680 it's no surprise, is it,

00:10:25.780 that dudes are getting married less? 0.76

00:10:27.160 I mean, look at the laws.

00:10:28.560 Look at how set against guys it is.

00:10:32.240 And we take away...

00:10:33.380 And the other thing as well

00:10:34.320 is that,

00:10:35.500 let's be frank,

00:10:36.300 guys are programmed biologically

00:10:38.200 to want to spread their seed.

00:10:39.900 Okay.

00:10:40.300 Now, I don't think...

00:10:41.880 I don't think that that goes away

00:10:44.060 with age, personally.

00:10:45.380 So you've got to be very sure

00:10:46.940 that the person

00:10:47.400 that you're married to...

00:10:48.300 No, no, seriously.

00:10:49.060 Seriously.

00:10:49.400 No, seriously.

00:10:50.140 Seriously, Matt.

00:10:50.660 Well, you know...

00:10:51.900 Me at 16 was completely different

00:10:54.260 than me at 30.

00:10:55.180 Me at 16,

00:10:56.660 I'm 47,

00:10:57.320 exactly the same.

00:11:00.100 But, Po,

00:11:00.580 I feel like a lot of my friends

00:11:02.620 want to get married.

00:11:03.380 Like, you know me,

00:11:04.060 I started this journey very,

00:11:05.840 you know,

00:11:06.480 like I said,

00:11:07.220 my three sisters are married,

00:11:08.180 my brother's married,

00:11:08.740 my parents are married

00:11:09.260 for over 40 years.

00:11:10.120 That's your culture, right?

00:11:10.940 Yeah, that's my culture.

00:11:11.800 Where you from?

00:11:12.540 Cameroon.

00:11:12.900 I want to be married

00:11:14.300 is something smart.

00:11:15.320 Me too.

00:11:15.760 It's an ideal for me.

00:11:16.800 I won't have babies out of wedlock.

00:11:18.240 I don't do baby mamas. 1.00

00:11:19.920 You know,

00:11:20.320 I put that out there, right?

00:11:22.080 And I've governed my choices by that.

00:11:24.600 But at the same time,

00:11:25.540 I also understand, like...

00:11:27.640 See,

00:11:28.200 men actually want to marry for love.

00:11:30.840 Yeah.

00:11:31.040 And that's what really messes us up.

00:11:32.420 Yeah, yeah.

00:11:32.900 Like, because we actually

00:11:33.800 want to marry for love.

00:11:34.840 Bro, you're 100% correct.

00:11:37.040 But then when it comes down

00:11:38.100 to the situation,

00:11:38.880 you're sitting there,

00:11:39.420 you're looking,

00:11:39.900 you're like,

00:11:40.120 after majority of men get married

00:11:42.340 and then the divorce happens,

00:11:44.080 it all comes down to the business.

00:11:45.620 Oh, I own this house.

00:11:46.920 You own that.

00:11:47.560 The bank accounts.

00:11:48.420 Now it's business.

00:11:49.100 So that's why I say

00:11:49.900 you have to marry for business.

00:11:51.820 You can't marry for love

00:11:52.900 or you'll lose.

00:11:54.020 You mean like marry

00:11:54.600 with a business head?

00:11:56.140 If you're going to marry somebody, 0.67

00:11:57.840 I would assume that the best way

00:11:59.300 at this moment in time,

00:12:00.400 because trial and error,

00:12:01.860 most of the guys

00:12:02.460 who sit down and get married

00:12:03.560 at any age

00:12:04.580 at this moment in time,

00:12:05.260 once the divorce happens,

00:12:06.780 it's like lawyers.

00:12:07.580 Why are you thinking about divorce?

00:12:08.720 Yeah, but what if a woman said that? 1.00

00:12:10.060 Then the woman thinks everything. 0.93

00:12:11.960 I'll actually tell you

00:12:13.940 why they think about divorce,

00:12:15.460 because the divorce rate

00:12:17.120 is between 40 and 50%.

00:12:19.200 Dating, courtship,

00:12:21.080 before marriage

00:12:22.000 has extended

00:12:22.760 from average six months,

00:12:24.540 100 years ago,

00:12:25.560 to three years today.

00:12:26.600 So it takes you three years

00:12:27.620 to get a ring on average.

00:12:30.160 According to Pew data,

00:12:31.460 63% of men under 30

00:12:33.160 are single,

00:12:34.460 and roughly half of them

00:12:35.980 have given up on relationships.

00:12:37.580 And in divorce,

00:12:38.520 women get custody 90% of the time. 0.98

00:12:40.720 Only 20% of dads

00:12:42.020 get weekly visitation.

00:12:43.320 27% of dads

00:12:44.640 get no visitation rights.

00:12:46.780 Yeah, so, yeah.

00:12:48.540 The reason why

00:12:50.440 it takes longer

00:12:51.340 for the courtship phase now

00:12:52.540 is because guys know

00:12:53.580 that they've got to vet

00:12:54.280 more properly.

00:12:55.180 Because back in the day,

00:12:56.100 you know,

00:12:56.880 like when my parents got married,

00:12:58.100 it was pretty much,

00:12:59.560 you know,

00:13:00.060 a fait accompli.

00:13:00.760 You get married,

00:13:01.300 you're going to stay together,

00:13:01.920 that's it kind of thing.

00:13:02.760 Or certainly my grandparents.

00:13:04.180 These days,

00:13:04.760 because the divorce rate

00:13:05.880 is so high,

00:13:06.520 and because of the way

00:13:07.100 the laws are,

00:13:08.220 the guy's got to be very sure

00:13:09.600 that he's with the right woman.

00:13:10.700 So he's going to spend

00:13:11.140 a lot more time

00:13:12.140 with that woman.

00:13:13.200 And do women divorce 0.99

00:13:14.340 for good reasons,

00:13:15.660 typically?

00:13:16.320 No.

00:13:16.980 So I'm going to tell you,

00:13:18.080 I'm going to tell you,

00:13:18.680 the most frequently cited

00:13:20.260 reasons are trivial.

00:13:21.480 They include things like

00:13:22.900 emotional disconnect,

00:13:25.240 irreconcilable differences,

00:13:26.620 and lack of time together.

00:13:28.460 You only give away

00:13:29.180 seven reasons, though,

00:13:30.520 while they're in marriage.

00:13:32.360 She only gets seven reasons 0.93

00:13:33.560 why you could divorce someone.

00:13:35.120 Yeah, and you would think

00:13:35.820 they would be like,

00:13:36.700 you know,

00:13:37.040 the big things,

00:13:37.860 like adultery,

00:13:38.680 abuse, you know.

00:13:39.880 Oh, you know,

00:13:40.560 I saw the clip

00:13:41.580 when you were on Piers yesterday.

00:13:43.560 What was that?

00:13:44.320 One of the women 0.98

00:13:45.100 told a story

00:13:45.900 about somebody who was 60,

00:13:47.220 and she divorced her husband

00:13:48.300 because she was like,

00:13:49.660 oh, I haven't lived my life,

00:13:50.820 I've only experienced life

00:13:51.620 as a married wife

00:13:52.400 and as a mother,

00:13:54.020 and now I want to go out

00:13:55.160 and experience life

00:13:55.960 differently as a woman.

00:13:56.880 I thought that was

00:13:57.440 an incredibly sad story

00:13:58.820 because she's got to 60.

00:14:00.760 You know,

00:14:01.540 she spent a lifetime

00:14:02.320 with her husband,

00:14:02.960 and then she's just like,

00:14:03.540 oh, I want to do

00:14:04.480 the eat, pray, love thing.

00:14:05.360 Oh, it's common.

00:14:06.420 It's not,

00:14:07.160 oh, I'll say it's not uncommon.

00:14:08.740 I mean, a lot of them

00:14:09.380 just did the separation.

00:14:10.680 They didn't, like,

00:14:11.160 divorce on paper,

00:14:12.100 but there's a reason

00:14:13.360 we're in this mess.

00:14:14.360 There's a reason, like,

00:14:15.080 why the younger women 0.99

00:14:16.000 are so lost.

00:14:16.860 It's because I really think

00:14:18.180 there's been two generations 1.00

00:14:19.200 of shitty wives, 1.00

00:14:20.520 bad wives, 1.00

00:14:21.620 bad mothers, yeah. 0.99

00:14:23.460 Depends.

00:14:23.780 Because what I see

00:14:25.640 in the generation above us

00:14:28.160 is they had very little

00:14:30.000 wife skills.

00:14:30.780 A lot of them tended to work.

00:14:32.060 None of them really believed

00:14:32.960 in obeying and submitting

00:14:33.920 to their husband,

00:14:34.600 so it's like us,

00:14:35.580 we don't know anything.

00:14:36.700 Then the generation before that 0.95

00:14:38.440 tends to be women 1.00

00:14:39.740 that stayed married.

00:14:40.720 They might know how to sew,

00:14:41.600 how to cook,

00:14:42.100 but they didn't have

00:14:42.660 the right mindset

00:14:43.380 because the propaganda

00:14:44.260 started really heavy

00:14:45.320 in the 50s and 60s,

00:14:46.700 and so they taught

00:14:47.620 their daughters,

00:14:48.360 no, you always have to have

00:14:49.060 a backup plan.

00:14:49.820 You have to work,

00:14:50.900 and so you see, like,

00:14:52.160 the generation above us,

00:14:53.560 which I would say,

00:14:54.120 like, 40 to 60-year-old women, 0.66

00:14:55.400 and I call them 1.00

00:14:56.040 the generation of shitty wives, 1.00

00:14:57.640 and the 60 to 80-year-old women 0.99

00:15:01.360 stayed married more so,

00:15:03.300 but they just passed on,

00:15:04.440 like, the bad mindset

00:15:05.300 to their daughters,

00:15:06.160 and when I've interviewed

00:15:07.840 80 to 100-year-old women,

00:15:09.760 which are less,

00:15:10.360 you know, they die,

00:15:11.040 so they're less and less,

00:15:12.240 but they seem to be

00:15:14.660 a lot more, like,

00:15:15.840 they believe in obeying

00:15:16.920 their husbands,

00:15:17.460 so it seems like

00:15:18.340 we've actually had

00:15:19.020 not one, not two,

00:15:19.980 but three generations 1.00

00:15:20.840 of shitty wives. 1.00

00:15:21.640 No wonder none of us 1.00

00:15:22.660 are making it down the aisle.

00:15:23.720 But as well,

00:15:25.160 if you're going to get

00:15:26.120 shacked up,

00:15:26.640 if you're going to marry somebody,

00:15:27.720 you know, the whole thing,

00:15:28.420 the TragCon thing

00:15:29.180 that gets thrown at people

00:15:30.100 when they argue

00:15:30.680 against marriage a lot

00:15:31.560 is like, well,

00:15:32.140 you're going to die alone, 1.00

00:15:33.040 you're going to be miserable, 1.00

00:15:33.860 you're going to be in your deathbed, 0.99

00:15:34.900 and you're not going to have

00:15:35.480 anybody there and all of that,

00:15:36.700 but the thing is,

00:15:37.260 if I marry somebody,

00:15:38.040 and then at 60,

00:15:39.160 she thinks,

00:15:40.000 oh, stop that,

00:15:40.640 I want to go and,

00:15:41.260 you know,

00:15:41.560 sow my wild oats

00:15:42.240 for the next couple of decades,

00:15:43.800 I'm going to die alone anyway.

00:15:44.980 So what was the point of it?

00:15:46.320 So when everyone laughed

00:15:47.220 when I said,

00:15:47.860 oh, you know,

00:15:48.220 everyone got up and uproared,

00:15:49.320 oh my God,

00:15:49.700 he said,

00:15:50.120 you know,

00:15:50.980 who wants to marry you? 1.00

00:15:52.040 But essentially,

00:15:53.560 they thought that

00:15:54.140 I was talking about the room.

00:15:55.580 See, the room represents

00:15:56.880 what's actually out there.

00:15:58.540 A bunch of baby mommas 1.00

00:15:59.500 were in there,

00:16:00.060 and they didn't like the fact

00:16:00.980 that I was telling them that,

00:16:01.900 yeah,

00:16:01.960 but you are, right?

00:16:02.820 And it's going to affect

00:16:03.520 what's going on, right?

00:16:04.580 Then there's a bunch of women 1.00

00:16:05.640 that are screaming

00:16:06.320 and they're heckling me

00:16:07.120 when I'm a guest

00:16:07.760 and I'm trying to speak.

00:16:08.940 These are all rude things.

00:16:10.060 These are very masculine, 0.97

00:16:10.820 unfeminine things, right?

00:16:11.820 So when I'm saying to them

00:16:13.660 that, oh, you,

00:16:16.220 I'm not saying,

00:16:16.740 it's because this room

00:16:17.820 represents some of the women

00:16:19.180 that, and for me,

00:16:20.560 I'm seeing the women 0.98

00:16:21.500 that I would want to be with,

00:16:22.480 a lot of beautiful women 0.99

00:16:23.640 in that room.

00:16:24.040 Yeah, yeah.

00:16:24.480 When you attach the attitude

00:16:25.720 or attach all of the,

00:16:26.740 I'm like,

00:16:27.260 I'm a guest speaker.

00:16:28.720 I shouldn't be getting this energy,

00:16:30.140 but I will give the energy back.

00:16:31.600 And because,

00:16:32.980 and because they're giving

00:16:33.820 all of that energy,

00:16:34.900 it just makes you just want

00:16:35.720 to just send it right back.

00:16:37.000 And you send it back

00:16:37.680 in such a way

00:16:38.240 that everyone's like, wow.

00:16:39.080 And they feel it inside

00:16:39.960 because yes,

00:16:40.540 nobody wants to marry you 0.96

00:16:42.160 because we don't want

00:16:43.220 to deal with this.

00:16:44.160 And me as a man,

00:16:44.940 I would rather be like,

00:16:46.280 I'd rather be a 47-year-old man

00:16:48.120 that's got my stuff together

00:16:49.060 with no kids

00:16:49.680 and no baby mom.

00:16:50.320 Well, you have to understand

00:16:51.200 100 years ago,

00:16:52.340 the average guy got a virgin 0.91

00:16:54.360 that was roughly 120 pounds

00:16:56.700 that typically could help him,

00:16:59.040 maybe like 100,

00:17:00.100 150 years ago,

00:17:00.980 but typically was like

00:17:01.900 helping on the farm.

00:17:03.520 So she helped him

00:17:04.280 with housework.

00:17:05.180 She had all these recipes

00:17:06.260 from scratch

00:17:07.260 where it's like,

00:17:08.920 you know,

00:17:09.620 today the average woman's 1.00

00:17:10.880 170 pounds.

00:17:14.120 It's like,

00:17:14.720 we can't even do

00:17:15.580 the like not fat thing.

00:17:17.820 Like we can't even,

00:17:19.180 that's like the bear,

00:17:20.120 that it's like the average woman

00:17:21.420 slept with it

00:17:22.120 between five and eight partners.

00:17:23.680 And this is,

00:17:24.760 you know,

00:17:24.900 and everyone says that's low.

00:17:26.300 So let's be honest,

00:17:27.080 it's probably a bit higher,

00:17:28.320 you know,

00:17:28.800 like just based on

00:17:30.020 what everyone says.

00:17:30.980 You know,

00:17:31.200 China,

00:17:31.460 you made a really great point,

00:17:32.700 you know,

00:17:33.000 about those particular

00:17:33.880 character traits

00:17:34.500 and those particular women, 1.00

00:17:35.380 the hackling,

00:17:36.380 the disrespect towards

00:17:37.220 your masculinity

00:17:38.020 and that particular presence

00:17:39.120 when in that video

00:17:40.140 it was dominantly female there.

00:17:42.920 But you chose

00:17:43.800 that particular area.

00:17:45.240 You know,

00:17:45.500 you knew going to Brixton,

00:17:46.620 you knew that

00:17:47.200 these particular type of,

00:17:48.360 I wouldn't say 100%,

00:17:50.120 then that means

00:17:50.860 that you like more of a,

00:17:53.240 if I was thinking

00:17:53.700 of a perfect type

00:17:54.380 of new modern day woman,

00:17:55.940 of a,

00:17:56.280 you know,

00:17:56.720 not traditional,

00:17:57.940 but like a new

00:17:58.500 modern day woman, 1.00

00:17:59.180 we like Beyonce.

00:18:00.980 Oh,

00:18:01.400 that's not an example.

00:18:02.860 I think Beyonce

00:18:03.500 is a perfect example.

00:18:04.220 I'll be real here.

00:18:04.880 I'll be real.

00:18:06.200 I didn't see no Beyonce

00:18:07.620 in there,

00:18:08.040 my God.

00:18:08.260 Let's come back to reality.

00:18:10.460 No, no, no.

00:18:11.280 Let's come back to reality

00:18:12.200 to your home.

00:18:12.600 You don't think,

00:18:13.400 so you don't think

00:18:14.060 there are independent women 0.77

00:18:15.060 who are actually intellectual

00:18:16.080 who can hold...

00:18:16.640 What does independent

00:18:16.820 mean for you,

00:18:17.340 first of all?

00:18:17.980 Explain what independence means.

00:18:19.320 For me as a guy,

00:18:20.180 for you,

00:18:20.520 in your perspective,

00:18:21.640 because we're all talking

00:18:22.260 from our own expectors.

00:18:23.660 For me as,

00:18:24.440 I can explain.

00:18:25.500 For me as a guy,

00:18:26.220 when I look at a female, 0.99

00:18:27.440 one of the things

00:18:27.940 that matters to me is

00:18:29.180 on my worst day,

00:18:31.080 can she be there for me?

00:18:32.860 You're talking from self.

00:18:34.420 Yeah, as a guy,

00:18:35.320 like I said.

00:18:36.020 For me as a guy,

00:18:37.420 when I look for a woman 1.00

00:18:39.080 or I think about a woman,

00:18:40.260 I need to know,

00:18:41.500 is she thinking about the future

00:18:42.760 or is she thinking

00:18:43.300 about her emotional now?

00:18:44.340 On my worst day,

00:18:45.140 can she be there for me?

00:18:46.420 And if I want to say,

00:18:47.240 oh, I want to build

00:18:47.740 this corporation,

00:18:48.620 is she going to say,

00:18:49.080 good luck,

00:18:49.440 or she'll say,

00:18:49.760 well, what's the first

00:18:50.340 couple steps?

00:18:51.300 There's a different type

00:18:51.940 of mentality of women. 0.94

00:18:53.020 And when I reference Beyonce,

00:18:54.520 I'm not talking about

00:18:55.140 her star power.

00:18:56.080 I'm talking about

00:18:56.640 how she can look at

00:18:57.460 a corporation or a business

00:18:58.620 and say,

00:18:59.260 you want to own title, Jay-Z?

00:19:00.720 Well, this is what

00:19:01.240 we're going to do.

00:19:01.760 I know a couple of artists,

00:19:02.660 we can bring them here

00:19:03.440 and work with you

00:19:04.380 to actually become

00:19:05.200 that massive male,

00:19:08.040 masculine figure.

00:19:09.040 That's the type of woman 1.00

00:19:09.840 that I believe in

00:19:10.640 this modern day generation

00:19:11.880 is outshined,

00:19:14.760 I would say,

00:19:15.260 at this moment in time.

00:19:15.980 So it's not like,

00:19:17.200 oh, it's not realistic.

00:19:18.380 No, there are women 1.00

00:19:19.200 out here in this world,

00:19:20.340 but you just have to,

00:19:21.480 you're not going to find them.

00:19:22.160 The girls that I'm saying,

00:19:43.040 the girls that are chilling

00:19:44.360 and hanging out,

00:19:45.660 the girls that have 0.77

00:19:46.380 this type of character trait,

00:19:47.340 they're not going to be

00:19:47.720 sitting on the block

00:19:48.380 and bricks and they're

00:19:49.000 going to be in different

00:19:49.520 environments.

00:19:52.160 Let me just speak

00:19:52.920 on behalf of the girls

00:19:53.900 in Brixton,

00:19:54.400 because I love the girls 0.95

00:19:55.060 in Brixton.

00:19:55.620 Shout out to the girls 1.00

00:19:56.240 in Brixton.

00:19:56.940 Where is Brixton?

00:19:58.160 South London.

00:19:59.740 South London.

00:20:00.880 Like what?

00:20:01.800 So you know what it is,

00:20:02.800 yeah?

00:20:03.020 They're not chilling

00:20:03.520 on the ends.

00:20:05.000 You know what I mean.

00:20:07.540 Okay, so.

00:20:08.680 Wait, what's wrong

00:20:09.640 with Brixton?

00:20:10.500 Not as wrong.

00:20:11.880 Not as wrong with Brixton.

00:20:12.900 Hold on.

00:20:13.960 It's not wrong with Brixton.

00:20:15.040 We're just talking about like.

00:20:16.220 Babies, you're from the U.S. 1.00

00:20:17.080 You can't comment

00:20:17.600 on under right now.

00:20:18.780 We're talking about

00:20:19.420 the demographic.

00:20:19.820 So what he's done is,

00:20:21.760 right, he's seen all the

00:20:23.020 women, right, and it 1.00

00:20:23.940 seems like, it seems

00:20:25.040 very loud.

00:20:26.220 A lot of people said,

00:20:27.140 I can't believe you was

00:20:27.780 there.

00:20:28.100 Like, I don't know how

00:20:28.680 you handled it.

00:20:29.100 I felt bad for you.

00:20:29.680 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:30.080 A lot of people did say

00:20:30.860 that to me, right?

00:20:31.660 And I get it, and I get

00:20:32.660 it, right?

00:20:33.360 But part of what I'm doing

00:20:34.300 as the mandem's voice is,

00:20:35.420 I believe that, like,

00:20:37.000 in the U.K., not a lot

00:20:38.060 of people, there's a lot,

00:20:39.880 it's like crabs in a bucket,

00:20:41.380 crabs in a barrel, right?

00:20:42.040 I don't know how it is

00:20:42.700 over there, right?

00:20:43.420 You chose an environment

00:20:44.500 where there's a lot of

00:20:45.200 females having fun.

00:20:49.820 What I like about Pearl

00:20:51.780 is Pearl puts people

00:20:52.740 together and sits people

00:20:53.580 together, not necessarily

00:20:54.440 that you might not sit

00:20:55.480 with, right?

00:20:56.120 So what I do is, Pearl's

00:20:58.040 got a very big platform,

00:20:59.280 and I also feel myself

00:21:00.600 as a black content creator

00:21:01.560 that I like to take myself

00:21:02.920 when I go viral and take

00:21:04.000 my platform to other

00:21:04.920 smaller platforms and take

00:21:06.400 some of the things that

00:21:07.100 I've learned.

00:21:07.740 And that's what I do,

00:21:09.600 so I get my energy,

00:21:10.860 and I try to follow it

00:21:11.900 to little things.

00:21:12.460 So the reason why you're

00:21:13.400 going to see me somewhere

00:21:14.140 like that, because those

00:21:15.340 are...

00:21:15.580 I mean, I just think all

00:21:16.600 women are pretty much 1.00

00:21:17.480 the same.

00:21:18.320 Yeah, I mean...

00:21:19.040 Let me finish, let me

00:21:24.020 finish, let me finish.

00:21:24.980 I think there's better

00:21:25.940 choices and worse choices,

00:21:28.100 but I've seen...

00:21:29.240 I'll give you an example.

00:21:30.520 You know, I interviewed

00:21:30.980 a guy last week, right?

00:21:32.920 And he married a girl

00:21:34.460 that was homeschooled

00:21:35.600 and a virgin,

00:21:36.300 and you know what she did?

00:21:37.400 She did. 1.00

00:21:38.060 Fucked his ass up 1.00

00:21:39.040 in divorce court. 1.00

00:21:39.860 Now he hasn't seen

00:21:40.500 his kid in three years.

00:21:41.600 I've seen women 1.00

00:21:43.000 that are Muslim that did it.

00:21:44.920 I've seen women that 1.00

00:21:45.760 are from Africa that did...

00:21:47.460 I've seen it.

00:21:47.980 So it really just led me

00:21:49.460 to the conclusion

00:21:50.200 there's no good women 1.00

00:21:51.360 because I've also seen, 1.00

00:21:52.720 you know, absolute whores 1.00

00:21:54.440 make really good 1.00

00:21:55.340 long-term girlfriends

00:21:56.580 and wives. 0.99

00:21:57.100 So my thing is,

00:21:59.380 I think there's high-risk women 1.00

00:22:00.720 and low-risk women.

00:22:01.900 Absolutely.

00:22:02.400 But you never really know.

00:22:03.700 Absolutely.

00:22:04.240 Look, Brixton

00:22:04.860 is very gentrified.

00:22:06.100 I mean, like,

00:22:06.480 my father was brought up,

00:22:08.220 was born near Brixton,

00:22:09.280 and, you know,

00:22:09.660 shout out to the Brixton

00:22:10.400 massive because it's...

00:22:11.320 You know, it's a good place.

00:22:13.500 It's a fun place.

00:22:14.460 But look, the point is,

00:22:15.280 if he'd have done that talk

00:22:16.720 and it had been in Chelsea,

00:22:18.200 do you think it would have been

00:22:18.860 a lot different?

00:22:19.580 No.

00:22:20.000 Probably not.

00:22:20.540 Because, like,

00:22:21.100 one of my best friends

00:22:22.100 who lives in Chelsea,

00:22:24.320 you know,

00:22:24.500 he's from that side of town,

00:22:25.500 he lives in Chelsea,

00:22:26.060 he's just been completely 0.93

00:22:27.320 screwed over 1.00

00:22:28.180 by a woman

00:22:29.120 from that demographic

00:22:30.040 who's basically

00:22:31.280 taken his kid,

00:22:32.660 he hasn't got access

00:22:33.280 to the kid,

00:22:33.780 he's been completely 0.98

00:22:34.760 screwed over. 0.93

00:22:35.300 But there's a reason

00:22:38.860 it's a...

00:22:39.400 I'll get to this,

00:22:40.200 but there's a reason

00:22:40.920 it's a global movement.

00:22:42.520 It's because women 1.00

00:22:43.200 aren't special. 0.98

00:22:44.060 We're freaking all the same.

00:22:45.200 But that's a culture.

00:22:46.460 That's a culture difference

00:22:48.400 what I'm talking about

00:22:48.980 with you.

00:22:49.440 When it comes out to you,

00:22:50.400 you knew,

00:22:50.900 and the reason I reference

00:22:51.680 Brixton is because

00:22:52.340 you know 100%.

00:22:53.580 You're chilling at the edge.

00:22:54.640 You're chilling

00:22:54.920 with the community.

00:22:56.500 You know what I mean?

00:22:57.240 So you know

00:22:58.020 they're going to get banned.

00:22:59.440 But on some level

00:23:01.360 is I don't separate myself

00:23:03.100 from the community,

00:23:03.740 so it's like

00:23:05.480 those are still my women. 1.00

00:23:07.000 So they might be lost

00:23:07.860 or they might be misled.

00:23:08.800 They're not lost.

00:23:09.220 You know what you don't expect.

00:23:10.760 But part of my job

00:23:11.580 is that I have to do that.

00:23:13.260 And yes,

00:23:14.100 it may come with a target

00:23:15.140 on my back,

00:23:16.040 but at least I've got to say it.

00:23:17.280 So I'm going to answer

00:23:18.260 your question.

00:23:18.880 You said what did he do

00:23:19.940 for the kid?

00:23:21.440 No, a lot of times nothing.

00:23:22.960 A lot of times women 1.00

00:23:23.840 just get angry

00:23:24.740 and spiteful

00:23:25.520 and just decide

00:23:26.280 no, no, thank you.

00:23:27.700 Yeah, and I do understand that.

00:23:31.600 I've got also male friends

00:23:32.940 who's definitely experienced that.

00:23:34.560 But then on the other hand,

00:23:36.100 you do have the men 1.00

00:23:37.180 who will fuck over a woman 1.00

00:23:38.800 and turn a woman 1.00

00:23:40.720 into doing such spiteful things.

00:23:42.560 So there needs to be

00:23:43.480 accountability on both sides.

00:23:44.620 I'll get to you.

00:23:45.420 Wait, what do you think

00:23:47.020 he would have to do

00:23:47.820 to deserve to not see his blood?

00:23:50.100 DNA.

00:23:50.640 Okay, all right.

00:23:51.300 Fair enough.

00:23:51.620 All right.

00:23:53.480 Nothing.

00:23:54.300 There's no reason to not.

00:23:54.900 Well, there isn't no reason.

00:23:55.840 No, no, no.

00:23:56.320 There isn't.

00:23:57.320 All right.

00:23:57.740 Okay.

00:23:57.960 There isn't no reason

00:23:59.720 for you not to see your blood.

00:24:01.960 But there is.

00:24:03.120 So it's unacceptable.

00:24:04.260 No, it is unacceptable.

00:24:05.400 However,

00:24:06.760 where accountability

00:24:07.460 needs to be taken

00:24:10.060 is there are things

00:24:11.380 that men will poke

00:24:12.400 and keep on doing at a woman. 1.00

00:24:13.940 Remember, we are women. 0.95

00:24:14.900 We're females. 1.00

00:24:15.620 Yeah, we've got emotions.

00:24:16.780 We're not like a male.

00:24:18.400 Yeah.

00:24:18.880 So we're not going to tolerate.

00:24:20.300 So I have to disagree with you.

00:24:26.700 I think there is no reason

00:24:28.400 for a woman to ever,

00:24:30.940 like there's nothing

00:24:31.740 a man can do to deserve that.

00:24:33.340 I think women that do that should, 1.00

00:24:34.680 like, and I don't even think

00:24:35.840 we should give them an out

00:24:36.980 or an excuse.

00:24:37.880 Like you're poking the bear.

00:24:39.340 No, I'm not saying it's an excuse.

00:24:41.520 I'm just giving you the scenarios

00:24:43.020 which happen a lot.

00:24:45.160 So like what?

00:24:46.660 So in regards to like

00:24:48.880 two people in a relationship,

00:24:50.420 let's say if a guy

00:24:51.240 is constantly cheating

00:24:52.060 on his woman,

00:24:52.840 if he's constantly disrespecting her,

00:24:54.460 if he's constantly

00:24:55.100 not showing any attention

00:24:57.640 or emotion.

00:24:58.260 Why'd she make a kid 1.00

00:24:59.020 with a cheater?

00:25:00.860 Maybe she didn't know.

00:25:01.820 Because the cheating,

00:25:02.280 it's actually,

00:25:02.880 you don't know.

00:25:03.480 The cheating either happens after

00:25:04.860 or the sneaky.

00:25:05.800 I don't believe it.

00:25:07.500 I think that's funny.

00:25:08.280 I actually, to her point,

00:25:10.140 I once had a niece

00:25:11.160 on her 18th birthday.

00:25:13.780 She said,

00:25:14.760 maturing is realizing

00:25:17.140 you don't need

00:25:18.140 a man.

00:25:19.720 That's when her father

00:25:20.980 and I looked at each other

00:25:22.340 in disgust.

00:25:24.480 Later that night,

00:25:25.640 two robbers

00:25:26.840 broke into the house

00:25:28.440 and threatened

00:25:30.340 to kidnap her.

00:25:32.200 That's when she screamed 1.00

00:25:33.440 and pleaded

00:25:34.520 for her father and I

00:25:36.180 to come save her.

00:25:38.400 That's when

00:25:39.260 we took off

00:25:40.660 our hat

00:25:42.460 and showed that

00:25:43.700 we were actually

00:25:44.300 the robbers.

00:25:44.880 Oh my God.

00:25:48.680 My niece,

00:25:49.460 but hold on.

00:25:50.720 Hold on.

00:25:51.300 Hold on.

00:25:52.500 Hold on.

00:25:52.840 Hold on.

00:25:53.220 But my niece learned

00:25:54.920 a very big lesson

00:25:56.420 that night. 1.00

00:25:58.340 Don't be a bitch. 1.00

00:25:58.880 Later, 1.00

00:25:59.140 now she hasn't,

00:25:59.920 now she hasn't spoken

00:26:00.840 to us since then.

00:26:02.660 I don't blame her.

00:26:03.820 And now she does

00:26:04.700 OnlyFans.

00:26:05.540 Whoa.

00:26:06.220 Oh.

00:26:07.120 You sent her over the edge. 0.97

00:26:08.540 You sent her, bro.

00:26:09.400 Wait, we need to talk about this.

00:26:10.660 No, but I think

00:26:11.720 a lot of that is

00:26:13.220 because I don't think,

00:26:14.800 I think she's just

00:26:15.280 too embarrassed

00:26:15.740 to admit she was wrong.

00:26:17.660 And ladies, 0.99

00:26:18.320 Well, maybe she doesn't,

00:26:19.180 no, no.

00:26:19.560 Maybe she thinks

00:26:20.280 that that behavior

00:26:21.100 was like messed up.

00:26:22.820 Well, ladies, 1.00

00:26:23.120 It's traumatic.

00:26:23.940 Did you just make a viral?

00:26:24.760 This is for y'all.

00:26:25.520 Wait, wait, wait.

00:26:26.800 Ladies, ladies. 0.99

00:26:27.720 Hold on, hold on.

00:26:28.500 This is for y'all.

00:26:29.420 This is Alpha King

00:26:30.200 rule number 344.

00:26:32.940 Women don't need 1.00

00:26:34.320 a man.

00:26:35.580 But statistics have shown

00:26:37.080 if they don't have one,

00:26:38.940 they become bitter,

00:26:39.820 overweight, 1.00

00:26:41.920 and bitchy. 1.00

00:26:43.180 Plus, 0.97

00:26:43.520 I disagree with that.

00:26:44.540 They're more likely

00:26:45.280 to be kidnapped.

00:26:47.900 Take it.

00:26:48.520 Take it.

00:26:50.420 Take it.

00:26:53.320 Take it too.

00:26:54.400 Ain't nobody tried

00:26:55.100 kidnapping me

00:26:55.640 all the years

00:26:56.140 that I've been single.

00:26:56.860 No, you can't say that.

00:26:58.000 You can't say that.

00:26:59.380 There's a lot of things

00:27:00.540 you have to back up.

00:27:01.380 You can't say that.

00:27:02.140 What the culture

00:27:02.620 of that woman is, 0.65

00:27:03.280 the way she's brought up,

00:27:04.220 there's a lot of factors.

00:27:05.080 You can't be like,

00:27:05.780 oh, vulnerable woman,

00:27:06.540 she's been single.

00:27:07.560 Boo-hoo her. 1.00

00:27:08.220 No.

00:27:08.360 I've been okay.

00:27:10.040 I've been single

00:27:10.480 a long time.

00:27:11.080 That's wild.

00:27:11.960 So I have a question.

00:27:13.280 But then you come

00:27:13.760 into the masculine energy.

00:27:14.680 I have a question.

00:27:15.200 I have a question.

00:27:16.280 So what happens

00:27:17.480 if someone breaks

00:27:18.200 into your apartment?

00:27:19.680 I just call them.

00:27:21.240 You think you could...

00:27:21.840 Wait, wait, wait, wait,

00:27:22.740 wait, wait, wait,

00:27:23.360 please.

00:27:23.760 Go ahead.

00:27:24.080 What do you do?

00:27:25.460 There's a few steps

00:27:26.280 I'll take.

00:27:26.740 Okay, okay.

00:27:27.140 What's step one?

00:27:28.140 Try to be brave

00:27:29.080 and head on

00:27:30.120 and deal with them.

00:27:30.960 Omar is in your apartment. 0.98

00:27:32.140 Yeah, I'll try

00:27:32.680 to throw something

00:27:33.160 at Omar.

00:27:33.740 What?

00:27:34.060 I'll be tactical.

00:27:35.740 That's gonna fail.

00:27:36.520 Okay, okay.

00:27:37.460 So when that fails,

00:27:38.340 what do you do?

00:27:38.980 What do you do?

00:27:39.220 Call the men.

00:27:39.900 The Albanian men 0.99

00:27:40.640 that'll come rescue me. 1.00

00:27:42.380 How long will the Albanian men 1.00

00:27:44.120 take to get there

00:27:44.580 when Omar's right before me?

00:27:45.500 Okay, so...

00:27:46.340 Don't worry.

00:27:47.040 We'll find out

00:27:47.640 where Omar lives.

00:27:48.320 Don't worry.

00:27:48.840 Okay, so you do need that.

00:27:50.680 Of course.

00:27:51.120 I'm not disagreeing with that.

00:27:52.740 I was just adding.

00:27:53.840 But it's so crazy

00:27:54.580 how confident

00:27:55.360 and comfortable...

00:27:56.460 You know,

00:27:56.960 as a guy,

00:27:57.880 as a guy who sits down

00:27:58.700 in this particular situation,

00:28:00.220 you know,

00:28:00.600 every day when I walk out,

00:28:02.020 it's a possibility

00:28:02.800 of getting into

00:28:03.460 a confrontational situation

00:28:04.680 without me actually

00:28:05.640 wanting to be

00:28:06.320 in that particular situation.

00:28:07.560 And every day,

00:28:08.480 mentally,

00:28:09.160 as a man,

00:28:09.960 we are prepared

00:28:10.840 to deal with

00:28:12.040 whatever situation happens.

00:28:14.140 You have to automatically

00:28:15.500 think of the negatives

00:28:16.600 before you think of the positive

00:28:17.560 while being a man.

00:28:19.220 The fact that you can sit here

00:28:20.520 and say,

00:28:21.500 if Omar...

00:28:22.000 If Omar...

00:28:22.940 Me looking at Omar right now.

00:28:24.620 So, Pearl,

00:28:25.060 if you remember last week,

00:28:27.420 you was literally

00:28:28.580 having this conversation

00:28:29.320 with the...

00:28:31.000 I was sat over there

00:28:31.880 and then she was saying,

00:28:32.760 oh, they would do this

00:28:33.520 and do that

00:28:34.080 if a man stepped in the room

00:28:35.220 and all of this stuff.

00:28:36.340 And in actual fact,

00:28:37.140 oh, yeah,

00:28:37.420 shout out to...

00:28:37.900 It was Jazz.

00:28:38.440 She was saying that

00:28:39.200 because King actually pulled her up

00:28:41.100 and she was like,

00:28:41.800 she'll get involved 0.97

00:28:42.380 if her brother was doing something.

00:28:43.540 She'll get involved, right?

00:28:45.360 Unfortunately,

00:28:45.680 you've heard about

00:28:46.320 that 15-year-old girl

00:28:47.080 that got starred,

00:28:47.820 R.I.P.

00:28:48.240 to...

00:28:48.400 I think her name was...

00:28:49.000 Was it...

00:28:49.720 Ileana?

00:28:50.960 Ileana.

00:28:51.460 R.I.P.

00:28:51.840 to 15-year-old Ileana.

00:28:52.920 No, initially it was said

00:28:55.460 that she was stabbed

00:28:56.840 because by her ex-boyfriend,

00:28:58.180 but now it's found

00:28:58.760 that it wasn't even

00:28:59.560 had anything to do with her.

00:29:00.820 She was protecting her friend.

00:29:02.860 Protecting her friend, yeah?

00:29:03.960 It was a guy?

00:29:05.020 Yeah.

00:29:05.960 He was a 17-year-old boy

00:29:07.340 and she was a 15-year-old girl

00:29:08.960 and he stabbed her yesterday.

00:29:10.600 But initially it was...

00:29:12.140 He tried to give flowers,

00:29:13.160 but we thought that

00:29:13.920 he stabbed his girlfriend.

00:29:15.120 I knew there was more to the story.

00:29:16.800 That didn't make any sense to me.

00:29:17.660 Okay, but what I'm trying to say is,

00:29:19.140 yeah, women, 1.00

00:29:20.020 you have to understand violence.

00:29:21.580 You don't understand violence.

00:29:23.520 Her friend tried to step in to help

00:29:25.440 because, you know...

00:29:27.240 But us men know

00:29:28.040 when you step in to help,

00:29:29.640 this is the result, yeah?

00:29:31.300 And I'm trying to make you understand

00:29:33.060 when you're talking about this,

00:29:34.260 oh, I will do this,

00:29:35.060 I will be brave.

00:29:35.800 You don't understand violence.

00:29:37.300 Bravery has nothing to do with violence.

00:29:39.300 When real men step in violent men,

00:29:42.020 your life can be on the line.

00:29:43.500 And the reason why I want to say this

00:29:44.760 is because women seem to have some idealistic... 1.00

00:29:47.260 It's some imaginary thing about beef,

00:29:48.880 I'll do this, 1.00

00:29:49.480 I will hit him in the nuts. 1.00

00:29:50.420 No, you won't. 1.00

00:29:51.040 You're not prepared.

00:29:51.740 You're not going to do this

00:29:52.740 with real violent people.

00:29:54.320 And we just,

00:29:54.800 I need to put that out,

00:29:55.520 there's a lot of violent people out there.

00:29:56.820 Because even as a man,

00:29:57.900 even as a man,

00:29:58.720 we're not prepared

00:29:59.520 or we're not sure

00:30:00.380 if we actually are ready

00:30:01.300 for that particular...

00:30:01.960 Whenever you go to a man 0.64

00:30:03.700 you don't know,

00:30:04.640 this is the last,

00:30:05.340 this could be your last breath.

00:30:06.180 Yeah, exactly.

00:30:07.180 It can be.

00:30:07.860 And men understand this, right?

00:30:08.980 But women don't realize that. 1.00

00:30:10.060 No, they don't.

00:30:10.400 So the only reason I'm saying it to you,

00:30:11.480 my dear,

00:30:11.780 it's only because I understand,

00:30:13.460 I get it.

00:30:14.280 But part of the reason

00:30:15.080 we speak like this

00:30:15.840 is because us men,

00:30:16.580 we understand violence.

00:30:17.420 And the ideal thing,

00:30:19.020 women are supposed to be protected. 1.00

00:30:20.480 They should have a man in the home. 0.99

00:30:21.900 They should have,

00:30:23.120 if you haven't got a man,

00:30:24.080 you should have a son in the home

00:30:25.120 because us men with sons

00:30:26.100 will defend our mothers.

00:30:27.920 But if you have nobody

00:30:29.080 in your community to protect you,

00:30:30.660 then when you get scenarios like this,

00:30:31.780 which can happen,

00:30:33.080 ultimately you will start looking to men

00:30:34.900 because it's not women you're looking to. 0.99

00:30:36.540 So that's all I'm saying.

00:30:37.400 And obviously RIP to that young girl, man.

00:30:39.040 It's just so sad.

00:30:40.520 So sad.

00:30:41.180 So I'm curious.

00:30:43.440 So back to the marriage topic.

00:30:45.720 Who here thinks they'll be married?

00:30:48.320 Raise your hand.

00:30:50.100 One, two, three, four, five.

00:30:52.820 Put two.

00:30:53.540 Oh, you're already married.

00:30:55.120 King, you're not involved.

00:30:56.440 Okay.

00:30:56.920 Okay.

00:30:57.200 You two don't?

00:30:58.960 I don't think so.

00:31:00.560 Not legally married.

00:31:01.720 Okay.

00:31:02.000 Do you think you'll have like kids someday?

00:31:04.720 It's not top of my list.

00:31:07.240 Okay.

00:31:07.580 To be honest.

00:31:08.280 It's just,

00:31:08.840 that's just a personal thing.

00:31:10.000 I think it's a very personal thing

00:31:11.120 for each individual person.

00:31:13.400 You know,

00:31:14.040 I get a lot of pushback from that

00:31:15.340 because people say that

00:31:16.120 your life is not complete

00:31:17.500 if you don't have children.

00:31:18.840 I personally don't believe that.

00:31:20.080 I think that you can create meaning

00:31:21.540 in your life with multiple ways.

00:31:23.420 I mean,

00:31:23.680 Jesus did it.

00:31:25.220 Absolutely.

00:31:25.940 Absolutely.

00:31:26.780 But that's just a personal thing.

00:31:28.240 And, you know.

00:31:28.940 I mean,

00:31:29.080 I've got my nephews and all that.

00:31:30.720 And also,

00:31:32.060 I've got this,

00:31:32.760 my second family

00:31:33.500 who've got like loads and loads of kids

00:31:35.180 that I've known since birth.

00:31:37.820 Okay.

00:31:38.220 So what makes you guys want

00:31:41.200 to have a family?

00:31:42.740 Oh,

00:31:43.040 what?

00:31:43.580 Oh,

00:31:43.920 that's amazing.

00:31:45.140 I've got a daughter already.

00:31:45.900 Okay.

00:31:46.140 You've got a daughter.

00:31:47.100 Why don't we,

00:31:47.580 I want to start with the men

00:31:48.460 and then we're going to go to the women.

00:31:49.460 So why don't you start

00:31:50.260 and you,

00:31:50.760 and you.

00:31:53.040 I grew up with a single mom

00:31:54.500 and a brother and a sister

00:31:56.380 and just to watch her struggle.

00:31:57.780 But the feeling that,

00:31:59.300 to see how,

00:32:01.640 there's a different type of feeling

00:32:02.560 that you have when you have a child.

00:32:03.860 And I can see other parents have it.

00:32:05.600 I can see this different type of feeling

00:32:06.940 that a feeling

00:32:08.700 that you just don't experience within life.

00:32:10.300 I want to get married.

00:32:11.500 I want to have,

00:32:12.440 but I have to be very selective.

00:32:13.520 I'm not going to just marry anybody.

00:32:15.520 I have to make sure,

00:32:16.440 like I said earlier to you guys,

00:32:18.560 I have to do it for business.

00:32:20.980 It's not for love.

00:32:22.020 I have to think about,

00:32:23.040 no,

00:32:23.400 seriously.

00:32:24.460 No,

00:32:25.040 for real.

00:32:25.820 I really think about like,

00:32:27.860 I can only,

00:32:29.000 I want to marry for love,

00:32:30.740 but for business.

00:32:31.760 Can we grow a million dollar corporation?

00:32:34.520 Can we,

00:32:35.060 I don't start relationships.

00:32:36.300 It's not about everything,

00:32:37.160 babes.

00:32:37.440 It's not about money.

00:32:38.120 I agree with you,

00:32:39.600 but I just think it's how you're attaching it to money.

00:32:43.080 Maybe the phrasing.

00:32:43.580 Maybe the phrasing.

00:32:43.880 Yeah,

00:32:44.080 it's a phrase,

00:32:44.620 but I fully get it.

00:32:45.500 You understand what I'm saying?

00:32:46.360 It's not about,

00:32:47.200 for me.

00:32:48.040 Troy,

00:32:48.440 what do you think of that?

00:32:49.820 Well,

00:32:50.240 I think it,

00:32:50.860 I mean,

00:32:51.100 I'm a bit of an old romantic in a way.

00:32:52.720 I think you should be,

00:32:53.580 I think it's a shame.

00:32:55.040 No,

00:32:55.320 no,

00:32:55.500 seriously.

00:32:55.840 I think it's a shame that we can't marry for love.

00:32:57.920 I think,

00:32:58.220 I think the ideal for me,

00:32:59.480 if I was going to get married,

00:33:00.560 I would want it to be for love.

00:33:02.180 And I would,

00:33:02.700 but unfortunately the culture doesn't seem to support that.

00:33:05.060 Yeah,

00:33:05.260 exactly.

00:33:05.460 You know what I'm saying?

00:33:06.280 Like,

00:33:06.440 I don't want to be,

00:33:07.000 I don't want to be dealing with a woman. 1.00

00:33:08.580 I don't want to be dealing with a woman and thinking, 1.00

00:33:10.460 hmm,

00:33:10.840 you know,

00:33:11.080 can we,

00:33:11.440 can we become this amazing power couple?

00:33:13.200 Are we going to do the Jay-Z Beyonce thing?

00:33:14.700 Like,

00:33:14.860 I don't want to be thinking that.

00:33:15.940 I want to be thinking,

00:33:16.740 because,

00:33:17.140 because I,

00:33:17.720 because I see love as something pure and something distinct from that.

00:33:20.680 But that's one particular moment.

00:33:22.160 My biggest feel.

00:33:23.160 I don't know if,

00:33:23.780 I don't know if most women make good business. 1.00

00:33:25.980 No,

00:33:26.220 but you know what?

00:33:28.840 Guys,

00:33:28.940 guys,

00:33:29.200 guys,

00:33:29.400 honestly,

00:33:29.920 I actually relate to the black people here.

00:33:32.740 What?

00:33:34.320 I mean,

00:33:34.440 I can actually relate to the black people here because many women have told me,

00:33:40.260 uh, 1.00

00:33:40.620 the size of my cock is like a black man. 1.00

00:33:43.040 I mean, 1.00

00:33:44.040 bro,

00:33:44.480 pause,

00:33:44.780 you have to say pause.

00:33:45.400 You have to say pause.

00:33:47.180 You have to say pause.

00:33:48.480 You have to say pause.

00:33:49.840 I mean,

00:33:50.340 I mean,

00:33:50.760 I don't know.

00:33:51.760 I don't know.

00:33:53.160 I mean,

00:33:53.680 how do you respond to that?

00:33:54.680 I don't know.

00:33:55.440 Exactly.

00:33:55.620 How do you respond to that?

00:33:56.760 I mean,

00:33:57.080 ladies, 1.00

00:33:57.620 how do you respond to that?

00:33:58.360 I'm clear.

00:34:00.840 Maybe just don't.

00:34:02.040 No,

00:34:02.320 no,

00:34:02.480 no,

00:34:02.620 no.

00:34:02.780 You have to respond to that.

00:34:04.360 You have to respond to that.

00:34:05.320 All right.

00:34:05.600 First,

00:34:05.980 first,

00:34:06.320 I'm going to say this.

00:34:08.020 Um,

00:34:08.840 you know,

00:34:09.320 you can't,

00:34:09.740 you can't respond to that.

00:34:10.740 You can't respond to that. 0.97

00:34:12.040 You can't refer to black people as black people. 0.88

00:34:13.580 Yeah.

00:34:14.200 You can't refer to that.

00:34:16.200 I was going to say.

00:34:17.260 Hold on.

00:34:17.680 Let me just say this.

00:34:18.220 Let me just say.

00:34:18.620 Yeah.

00:34:18.980 I love you.

00:34:19.680 I swear.

00:34:20.440 No homo, 1.00

00:34:21.160 pause or laugh.

00:34:21.860 You know what I mean?

00:34:22.720 Just the,

00:34:23.360 but you just can't refer to black people as black people.

00:34:25.440 That's the only thing that fit,

00:34:27.060 but we understand what you're saying.

00:34:28.240 We understand your attention.

00:34:29.260 We rock with you.

00:34:29.720 I don't know,

00:34:30.160 man. 0.62

00:34:30.360 What's the obsession with black, 1.00

00:34:31.560 with our black men's things?

00:34:32.500 I don't know, 0.63

00:34:32.920 man.

00:34:33.080 What is it,

00:34:33.620 man?

00:34:33.820 Come on.

00:34:34.140 You know the vibe.

00:34:35.300 I love black men.

00:34:36.100 I love you.

00:34:36.580 You man and Adam 22.

00:34:37.940 What's up with you,

00:34:38.560 man,

00:34:38.740 man?

00:34:38.880 You man and Adam 22,

00:34:39.920 man.

00:34:40.040 What's up with you,

00:34:40.680 man,

00:34:40.860 man?

00:34:40.980 You man love our things,

00:34:41.860 man.

00:34:41.980 Well,

00:34:42.080 I'll go on for that one.

00:34:42.580 Well,

00:34:42.860 that's a whole other story,

00:34:44.080 isn't it?

00:34:44.300 Anyway,

00:34:44.700 okay.

00:34:45.740 We need to get back on to,

00:34:46.700 yeah,

00:34:46.840 exactly.

00:34:47.140 Okay.

00:34:47.920 Back on to,

00:34:48.400 back on to,

00:34:48.420 back on to marriage,

00:34:49.720 marriage.

00:34:50.480 Okay,

00:34:50.980 so.

00:34:51.620 I think people should,

00:34:52.320 I think people should be able to, 1.00

00:34:53.240 I think the problem is the culture is fucked. 1.00

00:34:55.120 That's the problem. 1.00

00:34:55.860 People should be able to marry for love.

00:34:57.180 It shouldn't be this big business thing.

00:34:58.500 It shouldn't be like,

00:34:59.060 oh my God,

00:34:59.760 like what's our 10 year plan going to be?

00:35:01.540 Why?

00:35:01.880 It should be,

00:35:02.200 because,

00:35:02.800 because I don't know,

00:35:03.400 because that's what love is.

00:35:04.320 Love is,

00:35:04.760 love is,

00:35:05.120 love is something that comes in and it can eventually go in like a month or a year or two years.

00:35:09.920 Honestly,

00:35:10.560 honestly,

00:35:11.060 okay.

00:35:11.280 I've,

00:35:11.460 I've interviewed hundreds of chicks, 1.00

00:35:13.520 hundreds.

00:35:14.640 Okay.

00:35:14.980 I've talked to lots of entrepreneurs.

00:35:22.140 And no,

00:35:23.720 even,

00:35:24.040 even outside of that,

00:35:25.200 women that make money through Instagram. 0.99

00:35:31.040 And the women that I actually believe make money, 1.00

00:35:35.120 like,

00:35:35.580 I believe it talking to them,

00:35:37.520 maybe five,

00:35:39.600 10 out of hundreds.

00:35:41.400 I think if you're looking,

00:35:42.560 women tend to make terrible financial decisions. 1.00

00:35:45.040 Actually,

00:35:45.520 it's why we have so much debt.

00:35:47.440 I think like,

00:35:48.760 honestly,

00:35:49.120 if you're looking for a business partner.

00:35:53.220 So are you saying that you're not a good business partner?

00:35:55.900 I would say,

00:35:57.260 you know,

00:35:57.740 I'm a bit of an exception because I was raised by a guy that's extremely successful.

00:36:04.540 I don't think most women come from that. 1.00

00:36:06.860 There are exceptions to every rule,

00:36:08.860 but what,

00:36:09.400 what women have had the upbringing with 10 siblings and a bunch of entrepreneurs in the family that were actually like the people that have achieved my dad's level of success is like.

00:36:19.800 One percent,

00:36:21.800 half a percent.

00:36:23.320 So,

00:36:23.660 okay.

00:36:24.260 Miracles happen.

00:36:26.300 The other problem,

00:36:27.760 the other problem,

00:36:28.600 the other problem,

00:36:29.480 though,

00:36:29.580 and my dad helps me a lot too.

00:36:31.480 The other problem,

00:36:32.040 and no,

00:36:32.420 he doesn't bankroll everything.

00:36:33.860 You ask.

00:36:36.080 Bank of mom and dad,

00:36:37.300 bank of mom and dad.

00:36:38.240 The other problem is that,

00:36:39.860 that,

00:36:40.840 that having a woman in your life,

00:36:42.840 having a close relationship with a woman can sometimes get in the way of your career aspirations.

00:36:46.740 If,

00:36:47.320 and you could say,

00:36:48.260 okay,

00:36:48.460 if you pick the wrong woman, 0.90

00:36:49.500 whatever.

00:36:50.200 But I think that in my experience,

00:36:52.020 I think women like the results of the work. 1.00

00:36:54.480 You know,

00:36:54.660 they like you to be successful.

00:36:55.880 They like the,

00:36:56.880 maybe they like the money.

00:36:57.700 They like the fact that you've,

00:36:58.660 you've accomplished certain things.

00:36:59.640 They don't look quite so much like you actually doing the work.

00:37:03.220 So if I say to,

00:37:04.160 if I say to the woman I'm with,

00:37:05.300 right,

00:37:05.540 this weekend,

00:37:06.020 I'm going to be working.

00:37:06.980 I'm going to be sat in my room.

00:37:07.920 I'm going to be writing a book.

00:37:08.820 I'm going to be there 12 hours a day.

00:37:10.180 You can go and do your own thing.

00:37:11.440 A lot of the time,

00:37:12.400 they're not very happy with that.

00:37:13.600 You know,

00:37:14.000 because,

00:37:14.280 because they want the attention.

00:37:16.700 So that,

00:37:17.120 that is an actual detriment to my,

00:37:19.800 to my career aspirations.

00:37:20.640 And even just hiring men and women,

00:37:22.460 it's like women always want vacation. 1.00

00:37:24.580 Jesus Christ.

00:37:26.300 Women need vacation. 1.00

00:37:27.560 They need vacation.

00:37:28.280 Then he goes to it.

00:37:29.040 Then he goes to it.

00:37:29.680 No,

00:37:29.780 look here,

00:37:30.080 look here.

00:37:30.460 I mean,

00:37:30.980 it's just,

00:37:31.900 and I'm not like,

00:37:32.940 you know,

00:37:33.280 I,

00:37:33.500 I'm not saying there aren't smart,

00:37:35.160 talented women out there.

00:37:36.660 I'm not like there are,

00:37:37.740 there are exceptions,

00:37:39.380 but they don't like,

00:37:39.980 I'm like,

00:37:40.340 if you,

00:37:40.540 if you want,

00:37:41.280 as a rule,

00:37:42.020 guys looking for a business partner,

00:37:43.540 I'm like,

00:37:43.880 I'd say that's a terrible plan.

00:37:45.540 I think,

00:37:45.800 I think,

00:37:47.120 I think that if,

00:37:48.560 if you're with a woman that supports you in your business,

00:37:52.240 and is like there for you through the growing of the business and is there to support you,

00:37:56.580 then I think it absolutely can work.

00:37:58.500 And that's,

00:37:58.760 yeah,

00:37:58.980 exactly.

00:37:59.480 Yeah.

00:37:59.860 That's what I think.

00:38:00.200 I'm going to be honest with you.

00:38:02.900 No,

00:38:02.980 no,

00:38:03.140 it can,

00:38:03.360 it can work.

00:38:04.560 It can work.

00:38:05.280 Let me just clarify this.

00:38:07.160 That's my advice.

00:38:07.760 I never make business a pleasure.

00:38:08.700 I grew up,

00:38:09.820 I grew up with a,

00:38:10.820 I grew up with a single,

00:38:11.880 a single mother,

00:38:12.860 but my mother was a ride or die. 1.00

00:38:14.300 She was literally that type of woman, 1.00

00:38:15.800 you know,

00:38:16.480 and that's the type of woman I want. 1.00

00:38:18.120 A ride or die woman. 1.00

00:38:19.320 Yeah.

00:38:19.520 I'm going to be honest with you.

00:38:22.180 Wait,

00:38:22.400 wait,

00:38:22.560 wait,

00:38:22.620 King,

00:38:23.180 what were you going to say?

00:38:24.140 I think it's,

00:38:25.580 I listened to what you've said,

00:38:27.980 but I just think you really don't understand the true nature of women because the reality 1.00

00:38:31.940 is what you,

00:38:34.240 what you,

00:38:34.860 what you're saying you want.

00:38:35.940 I think what you should be asking for is a submissive woman, 1.00

00:38:38.300 not a business partner because a business partner isn't necessarily a submissive woman. 1.00

00:38:43.500 She could be submissive and a business partner. 0.91

00:38:44.840 No,

00:38:45.060 no,

00:38:45.260 no,

00:38:45.460 no,

00:38:46.020 no,

00:38:46.220 no,

00:38:46.420 no,

00:38:46.620 because you mentioned Beyonce and it's funny that you mentioned Beyonce because you

00:38:49.800 have this perception that Beyonce is this business mogul,

00:38:53.260 but do you actually believe that Beyonce is the one that has pushed her career to where

00:38:56.420 it is right now?

00:38:57.300 Or do you believe she has a team of men that have helped up?

00:38:59.880 No,

00:39:00.180 Beyonce,

00:39:00.700 hold on,

00:39:01.060 don't discredit.

00:39:01.640 Jay-Z,

00:39:02.200 her husband being one of them.

00:39:03.540 Hold on,

00:39:03.820 hold on,

00:39:04.020 hold on.

00:39:04.540 Matthew knows.

00:39:05.400 Hold on.

00:39:05.820 Yeah,

00:39:05.960 exactly.

00:39:06.300 That's what I'm saying.

00:39:06.780 Don't discredit Beyonce.

00:39:07.980 She put a lot of work in on that. 0.99

00:39:09.200 She's a talented artist.

00:39:11.580 She's a talented performer,

00:39:12.840 not a talented entertainer.

00:39:14.620 Don't compare.

00:39:16.080 Britney's very talented,

00:39:17.140 but there's a lot of men around her that push her career,

00:39:21.160 but Britney's very talented. 1.00

00:39:21.860 But Beyonce's on a whole other level.

00:39:23.560 But my point is that if you want,

00:39:25.540 if you want a woman to help you build. 0.62

00:39:27.960 Not help.

00:39:28.920 No,

00:39:29.140 but what I'm saying,

00:39:29.820 but the words you said,

00:39:30.880 I'm just saying,

00:39:31.340 if you want a woman to build this empire with, 0.99

00:39:34.400 you don't want a business partner.

00:39:36.100 You want a woman that will literally support you in whatever decisions you choose to make,

00:39:40.220 not helping you make decisions.

00:39:41.960 No,

00:39:42.160 no,

00:39:42.260 no,

00:39:42.360 no,

00:39:42.460 no,

00:39:42.560 just clarify,

00:39:43.240 just clarify.

00:39:44.740 My woman has her own thing that she got going on. 1.00

00:39:47.660 I have my own thing that I have going on.

00:39:49.940 And we compromise and meet in the middle.

00:39:51.520 I'm going to be real.

00:39:52.440 What happens to the family?

00:39:53.240 What happens to the kids if she has her own thing going on? 1.00

00:39:55.660 What do you mean?

00:39:56.220 What happens to your family?

00:39:57.240 What happens to your home?

00:39:58.080 What happens to your kids?

00:39:58.860 We create,

00:39:59.440 first of all,

00:40:00.060 it's me and her first.

00:40:01.320 And then we create that into the future.

00:40:03.900 I have to be honest.

00:40:05.760 So you would,

00:40:06.500 you would,

00:40:06.860 you would take out time from your own career to help her out.

00:40:09.900 The more successful you get,

00:40:11.060 the easier it is for you to delegate.

00:40:12.460 Oh,

00:40:12.540 so now you've got a nanny. 0.99

00:40:14.420 No,

00:40:14.820 I'm talking about with the business.

00:40:16.180 No,

00:40:16.380 I'm talking about with the business.

00:40:17.320 Basically what I'm trying to say to you.

00:40:18.360 I have to,

00:40:18.860 I have to be honest.

00:40:19.620 This doesn't sound like real.

00:40:21.460 For real.

00:40:21.840 Are you serious?

00:40:22.480 Sounds like what girls say to me. 1.00

00:40:23.400 So hold on,

00:40:23.800 hold on.

00:40:24.220 So you're telling me,

00:40:24.960 hold on.

00:40:25.280 You're telling me right now,

00:40:26.880 you're telling me that you've never met women who actually do business,

00:40:30.560 are submissive,

00:40:32.160 are progressive.

00:40:33.600 I would say miracles happen.

00:40:36.180 So you think I'm in a miracle?

00:40:37.700 Are you saying I'm in a miracle?

00:40:39.260 I would say most,

00:40:40.940 most women, 0.99

00:40:41.880 the women that I have met that I would,

00:40:44.560 that I like,

00:40:45.080 cause the,

00:40:45.500 the like maybe 10 women off the top of my head that I'm like, 1.00

00:40:48.440 okay.

00:40:48.720 Cause usually like if you ask chicks about how they make money, 1.00

00:40:52.400 it's like,

00:40:52.860 you ask them like two or three questions.

00:40:55.480 It's like,

00:40:56.160 it's like nothing.

00:40:58.000 And so,

00:40:58.820 so the women that I've met that I would actually believe,

00:41:01.340 I would say the majority of women that are successful are pretty 1.00

00:41:04.680 masculine.

00:41:06.080 I would say the majority probably aren't super submissive.

00:41:09.740 I would say again,

00:41:10.520 you know,

00:41:10.780 miracles happen.

00:41:11.700 I know a couple,

00:41:12.560 but you know,

00:41:13.480 on,

00:41:13.760 on a balance of probabilities,

00:41:15.220 I just wouldn't really.

00:41:16.740 One of the things,

00:41:17.300 hold on before that.

00:41:18.140 One of the things I learned about women in general is that there's a 1.00

00:41:20.600 hierarchy of women. 0.85

00:41:21.860 Okay.

00:41:22.480 So women would see, 0.67

00:41:23.640 you could show a girl,

00:41:25.020 different girls, 0.70

00:41:25.720 different looks of particular girls.

00:41:27.340 Some girls will say she's cute. 1.00

00:41:28.520 And then some girls said, 1.00

00:41:29.120 wow,

00:41:29.260 like her style,

00:41:29.900 like her aesthetic.

00:41:30.480 I like the way she moves.

00:41:31.820 Cool.

00:41:32.360 If you look for the type of girls that are approved by certain women, 0.94

00:41:37.300 then that's the type of grade you should be going for.

00:41:39.500 Whoa.

00:41:39.880 Whoa.

00:41:39.940 And I'm not talking about sexual.

00:41:41.440 Approved by who?

00:41:42.400 Hold on.

00:41:42.800 You understand what I'm saying?

00:41:43.440 Approved by who?

00:41:44.000 There's a,

00:41:44.260 no,

00:41:44.620 no,

00:41:44.760 no,

00:41:44.880 no,

00:41:44.940 listen,

00:41:45.280 there's a hierarchy.

00:41:46.320 There's a hierarchy.

00:41:47.040 Let me,

00:41:47.300 let me give you some advice.

00:41:48.240 I want to need some women on this. 1.00

00:41:49.600 Hold on,

00:41:49.800 hold on.

00:41:50.360 Hold on.

00:41:50.780 Hold on.

00:41:51.380 You have to understand.

00:41:52.160 Actually,

00:41:52.300 I want to,

00:41:52.780 no,

00:41:52.880 no,

00:41:53.000 no,

00:41:53.240 no,

00:41:53.420 no,

00:41:53.520 hold on.

00:41:54.480 Okay.

00:41:54.960 So let me,

00:41:55.440 let me get this straight.

00:41:56.700 You want the women that are approved by other women on the higher. 1.00

00:42:00.100 There's a,

00:42:00.460 I just need a yes or no,

00:42:02.280 please.

00:42:02.580 I can't give you,

00:42:03.220 I can't give you,

00:42:03.720 that's not,

00:42:04.060 it's not my statement.

00:42:04.780 All right,

00:42:04.880 go ahead.

00:42:05.180 Go ahead.

00:42:05.500 Just,

00:42:05.820 just please make this simple.

00:42:07.080 Don't go on a tangent,

00:42:08.000 please.

00:42:08.260 You're trying to get some women. 1.00

00:42:09.640 Hold on.

00:42:10.620 Okay.

00:42:11.180 On this hierarchy,

00:42:12.400 it's women that are approved by other women on the hierarchy. 1.00

00:42:15.280 Yes or no?

00:42:16.400 No.

00:42:17.040 Okay.

00:42:17.480 Okay.

00:42:17.960 Okay.

00:42:18.320 So then what is it?

00:42:19.700 Yeah.

00:42:20.060 All right.

00:42:20.720 So I've,

00:42:22.100 from what I've learned and let's just give a little bit of background about me.

00:42:25.680 I've worked in the clubs.

00:42:26.880 I was acrobatic dance.

00:42:27.940 I was artist director for a couple of different.

00:42:29.480 So I've been around the block.

00:42:30.880 All right.

00:42:31.200 From multiple different ways.

00:42:32.720 You can sit down and find different types of women who are visually beautiful, 1.00

00:42:36.080 the body,

00:42:36.620 all this type of stuff.

00:42:37.520 And women will look at her and be like, 1.00

00:42:39.280 she's showing her body up on social media.

00:42:41.680 But then you'll find another woman who doesn't show her body on social media, 1.00

00:42:44.700 who has a perfect type of aesthetic,

00:42:46.660 who literally is well put together.

00:42:50.760 And women will say, 1.00

00:42:51.580 I like this woman.

00:42:52.280 I respect her.

00:42:52.920 I want to follow her.

00:42:53.580 I want to see what she's doing.

00:42:54.840 But that's the difference.

00:42:56.020 I'm so confused right now.

00:42:57.560 I don't know.

00:42:59.100 Do you understand what I'm saying?

00:43:00.300 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:43:01.200 You understand what I'm talking about.

00:43:03.500 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, hold on.

00:43:06.720 Guys, guys,

00:43:07.820 if we're going to go by the women approved by other women,

00:43:10.800 then you have the most followed women are Taylor Swift, 1.00

00:43:14.580 Selena Gomez, Cardi B, and Nicki Minaj.

00:43:17.300 No, we're not talking about that.

00:43:18.220 We're not talking about that approval.

00:43:19.240 Oh, God.

00:43:19.620 That's reaching engagement.

00:43:20.620 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:43:21.240 That's reaching engagement.

00:43:22.340 Let me, wait, let me.

00:43:23.420 That's reaching engagement.

00:43:24.600 Wait, wait, wait.

00:43:25.640 No, she did not understand this.

00:43:27.100 What you just explained is what she just said.

00:43:28.760 Let me give you some advice, wait, wait, hold on, wait, wait.

00:43:30.520 Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.

00:43:31.640 Do you see how combative girl in the black is and hostile? 0.94

00:43:35.640 And then look at the guy.

00:43:36.520 We're not going to do that.

00:43:37.240 Nah, she's not combative. 1.00

00:43:38.620 Nah, she's not combative. 1.00

00:43:39.440 Hold on.

00:43:40.440 She's not hostile.

00:43:41.060 Hold on.

00:43:41.940 Hold on.

00:43:42.680 She's expressive.

00:43:43.340 Okay, okay, okay, everyone.

00:43:45.020 10 seconds.

00:43:45.540 Hostile.

00:43:46.100 Do you know what the word hostile means?

00:43:47.700 Hold on.

00:43:48.180 If you all see how combative and hostile the girl in the black is, then, now, if you look 0.90

00:44:05.240 at the gay guy on that side, who's sitting crisscross applesauce, he's more feminine than 0.94

00:44:14.000 her. 0.95

00:44:16.000 Okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 0.99

00:44:18.580 Not gay. 1.00

00:44:19.580 Please wait. 0.99

00:44:20.580 Please wait.

00:44:21.580 China, China, stop.

00:44:22.580 Okay, go ahead.

00:44:23.580 Go ahead.

00:44:24.580 I'm going to let you go.

00:44:25.580 Yeah, so what I was saying is exactly what you just explained in regards to the women 0.87

00:44:29.880 on Instagram and the prim and proper, she literally just named two sets of women, Selena Gomez, 1.00

00:44:35.540 Taylor Swift, that's the prim and proper one.

00:44:37.460 Yeah.

00:44:38.460 Cardi B and Nicki Minaj.

00:44:39.460 Those are entertainers.

00:44:40.460 Those are entertainers.

00:44:41.460 Oh my gosh, they're still women. 1.00

00:44:42.460 What do you mean?

00:44:43.460 They are still women. 0.62

00:44:44.460 It doesn't matter.

00:44:45.460 It doesn't matter.

00:44:46.460 It doesn't matter what they do for a living.

00:44:47.460 No, hold on.

00:44:48.460 Stop.

00:44:49.460 It doesn't matter what they do for a living.

00:44:50.460 We're just speaking on a whole.

00:44:51.460 Either you're trying to understand or you're not trying to understand.

00:44:52.460 There's a difference.

00:44:53.460 No, I have to wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, okay, thank you, thank you.

00:44:59.120 You're just making no sense.

00:45:00.120 How?

00:45:01.120 Either you're trying to.

00:45:02.120 Okay, wait, wait, let me speak because I'm trying to speak to you, bro, because I got

00:45:04.720 some years on you, bro.

00:45:05.840 And you know what you're doing?

00:45:06.840 You're doing what women do when they try to build a better, like an invisible man, like 1.00

00:45:11.540 they'll be like, I want a man that's emotionally ready for me.

00:45:13.840 I want a man that's six foot. 0.92

00:45:14.960 I want a man to be six figures. 0.99

00:45:16.400 Then I want a man to be a killer.

00:45:17.900 Then I want a man to also write poetry. 0.71

00:45:19.720 Then I want a man to sing.

00:45:20.900 Then I want a man to rap. 0.98

00:45:21.900 Like, what you're doing is.

00:45:23.100 So what do you look for in a woman? 1.00

00:45:24.100 No, because.

00:45:25.100 What do you look for in a woman? 1.00

00:45:26.100 No, no, wait, wait.

00:45:27.100 It's not.

00:45:28.100 No, it's not.

00:45:29.100 I'm curious.

00:45:30.100 I want to know.

00:45:31.100 You've got ears on me.

00:45:32.100 Wait, wait, wait, listen.

00:45:33.100 Educate me.

00:45:34.100 Baby, you've got a lot.

00:45:35.100 You've got a lot.

00:45:36.100 Let's talk.

00:45:37.100 Let's talk.

00:45:38.100 Life hasn't smacked you in the face.

00:45:39.100 You've got a lot.

00:45:40.100 How can I educate you if you're not listening?

00:45:41.100 Yeah, I'm ready.

00:45:42.100 So what I'm trying to say to you is, yeah, your job is not to build with a woman like that, bro. 1.00

00:45:44.400 If you want to do that, you need to pick her in your teens. 1.00

00:45:47.200 Well, now when you're 30s now, you're supposed to have it built.

00:45:49.200 You're not supposed to be talking about I'm supposed to get a woman. 0.94

00:45:51.200 A woman at this point is not supposed to hold your hand. 1.00

00:45:53.200 I know it feels like you want it to happen because I want it to happen too.

00:45:57.200 But at this point in your life, you need to go build and then have something ready for her to come and she can add on to it.

00:46:03.200 You don't need to start saying, you know what, you need to start going because it's sounding like 50-50.

00:46:07.200 It's sounding like you want to bring a woman inside to help build your dream, but you're not supposed to do that.

00:46:11.200 Wait, hold on.

00:46:12.200 The man is supposed to lead.

00:46:13.200 So when she finds you, you're supposed to lead in her.

00:46:15.200 You're talking about I want a woman to build with and build an empire. 1.00

00:46:18.200 All she needs to do is be a submissive good wife and able to bear you children. 1.00

00:46:21.200 And that's it.

00:46:22.200 And you need to do the rest, my guy.

00:46:23.200 There we go.

00:46:24.200 Can I clap?

00:46:25.200 Can I clap?

00:46:26.200 Can I clap?

00:46:27.200 That was very on point.

00:46:29.200 Can I respond?

00:46:30.200 Of course.

00:46:31.200 I respect that.

00:46:32.200 From that point of view, you know?

00:46:33.200 But right now we're living in 2023 with women a lot more capable than they once were. 1.00

00:46:37.200 Oh, don't do that, bro.

00:46:38.200 Because you're going to feed the feminism with this, bro. 1.00

00:46:41.200 Basically, you're saying, this is what the feminists live of. 1.00

00:46:44.200 We are capable.

00:46:45.200 We don't need no men, bro. 0.55

00:46:46.200 So you want a masculine woman? 1.00

00:46:47.200 Digilence and masculine is two different things.

00:46:49.200 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:46:50.200 I'll be honest with you.

00:46:51.200 What you're asking for-

00:46:52.200 Hold on.

00:46:53.200 I can't come back to two people at the same time.

00:46:54.200 Give me one person.

00:46:55.200 I'll be honest with you.

00:46:56.200 Hold on.

00:46:57.200 Let me, you have a conversation real quick.

00:46:58.200 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:46:59.200 Wait, let me say something.

00:47:00.200 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:47:01.200 Oh, my gosh.

00:47:02.200 Okay.

00:47:03.200 It's like the men are fighting.

00:47:04.200 All right, all right.

00:47:05.200 No, he's making a good point.

00:47:06.200 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:47:07.200 Because I waited for a while.

00:47:08.200 Wait, wait, China. 0.97

00:47:09.200 Wait, wait, okay.

00:47:10.200 I'm going to let you go.

00:47:12.200 And then you can go.

00:47:13.200 And then you can go.

00:47:14.200 All right.

00:47:15.200 Well, I'm trying to say, right, yeah?

00:47:16.200 You're doing your thing.

00:47:17.200 You're on your bag now.

00:47:18.200 You're building, right?

00:47:19.200 All you really need for a woman is to respect you and to see your vision, right? 0.99

00:47:23.200 Then she'll come and support your vision.

00:47:25.200 But what you don't need to do is start making a woman feel like she needs to build your vision.

00:47:28.200 And that's what I'm trying to say.

00:47:29.200 So the language you were using was looking like, you know what?

00:47:31.200 I want a woman to come and I want to help me. 0.98

00:47:33.200 And if she doesn't see my...

00:47:34.200 All she really has to do is just be with you and believe in you.

00:47:37.200 That's enough.

00:47:38.200 That's enough.

00:47:39.200 You're 100% right.

00:47:40.200 And I know it's 2023.

00:47:41.200 Hold on.

00:47:42.200 I don't disagree with you.

00:47:43.200 I agree with you.

00:47:44.200 Women are independent, get in their bag. 1.00

00:47:45.200 But sometimes, us as men, we need to allow a woman to get into a feminine and be like, 0.99

00:47:49.200 you know what?

00:47:50.200 Actually, I'm going to trust you.

00:47:51.200 And how can we lead as men?

00:47:53.200 If we keep saying one half, you know what? 0.77

00:47:55.200 I want a woman to cook. 1.00

00:47:56.200 I want me to do this submit.

00:47:57.200 And then the other half were like, you know what?

00:47:58.200 I want her to come and pay the bills and come invest in my business. 1.00

00:48:00.200 Bo! 0.99

00:48:01.200 Hold on.

00:48:02.200 I agree with you 1,000%.

00:48:03.200 It's hustling backwards.

00:48:04.200 Hold on.

00:48:05.200 I agree with you 1,000%.

00:48:06.200 But the majority of the women I engage with, they're already... 1.00

00:48:08.200 Well, the majority of the women I used to engage with, they're already doing their own thing. 1.00

00:48:12.200 They're already moving and in motion.

00:48:14.200 I've been in a four-year relationship.

00:48:15.200 So that dynamic and that mentality is already instilled.

00:48:18.200 She has her thing.

00:48:19.200 I have my thing.

00:48:20.200 And that's what I want.

00:48:22.200 I don't want a girl that's just not going to do nothing. 1.00

00:48:24.200 You know what?

00:48:25.200 You know what's interesting?

00:48:26.200 I kind of see where you're both coming from.

00:48:27.200 Okay?

00:48:28.200 Because hear me out.

00:48:29.200 Hear me out.

00:48:30.200 One, I think this business partner...

00:48:31.200 Sorry. 0.99

00:48:32.200 That's stupid to me. 1.00

00:48:33.200 That's like the dumbest thing. 1.00

00:48:34.200 We're in a terrible business. 0.99

00:48:35.200 No offense.

00:48:36.200 But on the other hand, I do understand where he's coming from with like, guys don't want a girl that's just doing nothing.

00:48:41.200 True.

00:48:42.200 You know?

00:48:43.200 Like I think, and it doesn't have to necessarily be like a job, but you don't want to ever date someone that's lazy.

00:48:47.200 True.

00:48:48.200 True.

00:48:49.200 I think the worst thing in the world is to be dating a woman who's just sitting around on her phone and just doing... 1.00

00:48:52.200 But Troy...

00:48:53.200 But at the same time...

00:48:54.200 Hold on, you want that?

00:48:55.200 China.

00:48:56.200 China, you want that?

00:48:57.200 I'm going to be honest with you.

00:48:58.200 You don't want your girl to do nothing.

00:48:59.200 No, no, but hold on a second.

00:49:00.200 Whenever we do this, this is like when women say like, oh, you know what? 1.00

00:49:02.200 He's in the...

00:49:03.200 Like, bro, none of us, never in my life have I ever linked a waste woman of a girl that does nothing. 0.97

00:49:08.200 It's never in my life.

00:49:09.200 So...

00:49:11.200 It sounds like that's your default.

00:49:12.200 I'm going to keep it real.

00:49:13.200 Come on, bro.

00:49:14.200 It sounds like it's your default.

00:49:15.200 No, no, I don't think so.

00:49:16.200 I don't think so.

00:49:17.200 My thing is this, yeah.

00:49:18.200 Go ahead, go ahead.

00:49:19.200 I mean, I think you just...

00:49:20.200 I think...

00:49:21.200 Go ahead.

00:49:22.200 I think China's got... 0.99

00:49:23.200 No, his point is correct.

00:49:24.200 Would you say...

00:49:25.200 He's got a good point about the...

00:49:26.200 I've dated boss...

00:49:27.200 Bro, I spoke about boss...

00:49:28.200 Listen.

00:49:29.200 Listen.

00:49:30.200 No.

00:49:31.200 Don't make me tell you about my baddies and what they got, bro.

00:49:34.200 Don't do this.

00:49:35.200 Like, here's the thing.

00:49:36.200 I've dated women that got everything. 1.00

00:49:37.200 They don't need nothing from me.

00:49:38.200 Yeah.

00:49:39.200 I've dated baby mamas that got everything. 1.00

00:49:40.200 All they want is a man because they got everything.

00:49:42.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:49:43.200 They got their business.

00:49:44.200 There's a lot of women that are in their bag that are doing their thing, bro. 1.00

00:49:46.200 Exactly.

00:49:47.200 All I'm saying is when I meet these women, I don't say to them, you need to invest in my business. 0.92

00:49:50.200 No, no, no, no.

00:49:51.200 That's not what I'm saying.

00:49:52.200 But don't imply that I'm saying that.

00:49:53.200 Don't imply that I'm saying that. 0.99

00:49:54.200 No, but I'm saying she don't got to do nothing other than be a boss bitch. 1.00

00:49:56.200 That's it. 0.99

00:49:57.200 Have your piece.

00:49:58.200 Have your stuff.

00:49:59.200 Yeah.

00:50:00.200 And then that's it.

00:50:01.200 Yeah, but that's not what I'm saying though.

00:50:02.200 No, but it feels like...

00:50:03.200 No, it doesn't matter what it feels like.

00:50:04.200 I'm telling you that's not what I'm saying.

00:50:05.200 Okay, what are you saying?

00:50:06.200 Tell me.

00:50:07.200 What are you exactly saying?

00:50:08.200 Because it's kind of confusing. 0.99

00:50:09.200 Boss bitches. 1.00

00:50:10.200 I don't want to say boss bitches, but women, women who are successful. 1.00

00:50:14.200 Boss women, sorry. 1.00

00:50:15.200 Yeah, boss women. 1.00

00:50:16.200 Women who are successful, who have their own passion, their own thing that they got. 1.00

00:50:18.200 They're driven and digitally on their own job.

00:50:20.200 That's more I'm interested in.

00:50:22.200 Those type of particular women. 1.00

00:50:23.200 But why would you not be?

00:50:24.200 I thought all men are. 0.95

00:50:26.200 You want to be with a woman who's got stuff going on, but in terms of... 1.00

00:50:30.200 That's not what it sounds like.

00:50:31.200 It sounds like you guys wanted a regular degular, chill in the house, wash clean, don't do nothing.

00:50:37.200 Who wants that? 1.00

00:50:38.200 No one wants that.

00:50:39.200 No one wants that.

00:50:40.200 In terms of marriage.

00:50:41.200 That's what it sounds like.

00:50:42.200 And even if I do want a regular degular, just chill at home. 0.99

00:50:45.200 What is wrong with that?

00:50:46.200 Yeah, but that's not what I want though.

00:50:48.200 Okay, look.

00:50:49.200 I mean, I just...

00:50:50.200 I have a question.

00:50:51.200 I have a question to the men.

00:50:53.200 So, I know a chick, these women are rare, but she was homeschooled. 1.00

00:50:57.200 Okay.

00:50:58.200 She didn't go to college.

00:50:59.200 She just works a part-time job.

00:51:01.200 And what she does is she's at home and she knows about...

00:51:05.200 She has her own recipe book.

00:51:08.200 Makes like 20 different meals from scratch.

00:51:12.200 She works with children.

00:51:15.200 So, part-time job is like...

00:51:16.200 I think she works as like a nanny or something. 0.96

00:51:18.200 Would you prefer that or a career woman? 1.00

00:51:21.200 I prefer that.

00:51:23.200 I think ultimately...

00:51:25.200 Define a career woman. 0.97

00:51:26.200 But they're rare.

00:51:27.200 If you bring it back to this question about marriage, because what we're talking about

00:51:30.200 here is who would you choose as a life partner you're going to get legally contracted to.

00:51:34.200 For me personally, I think it's got to be somebody who's kind of got to just step out the way

00:51:38.200 as far as the business stuff's concerned.

00:51:40.200 I don't think they should be involved.

00:51:41.200 I think they should give you the time and the space and the focus that you need to work on your stuff.

00:51:46.200 Now, if she's doing her own thing, you know, in her own right, absolutely fine.

00:51:50.200 Because you're right.

00:51:51.200 I don't want to be with some girl who's just doing, you know, sod all and she's just looking at things all day. 1.00

00:51:56.200 But I do think that the most important thing, and I personally in my own life I've found this quite difficult to find,

00:52:01.200 is a woman who will give me that time and give me that space in order to do the stuff that I need to do in order to build myself. 1.00

00:52:08.200 Yeah, I completely respect that.

00:52:09.200 It works both ways.

00:52:10.200 I think the most important thing is, no matter how much, how successful a woman is, 1.00

00:52:16.200 no matter how much of a boss woman she is, what is most important is that the moment you're getting married to a woman, 0.68

00:52:21.200 she needs to be able to, at that moment, put family before her career.

00:52:25.200 Yeah.

00:52:26.200 Because the fact that she's been able to be successful up to that point just shows that yes,

00:52:31.200 she's hardworking, she has good values.

00:52:33.200 But there's a problem when, even in marriage, she's still trying to pursue her career to the highest points. 0.81

00:52:39.200 Yeah.

00:52:40.200 Because then that affects the children, that affects the good of the home.

00:52:43.200 And that's the point. 1.00

00:52:44.200 We're not saying we want women that are just lazy and don't do shit. 1.00

00:52:47.200 But the point is, she needs to be able to understand her role in the family. 0.99

00:52:51.200 Yeah, I agree.

00:52:52.200 So I want to pull up a clip of me from Piers Morgan yesterday, because it kind of talks about this.

00:52:58.200 I'm going to pull it up.

00:53:01.200 Yeah.

00:53:03.200 And then we'll do the tweet.

00:53:05.200 Pearl, actually, actually, real quick, if I may, just before we start.

00:53:09.200 Yeah.

00:53:10.200 I see your shirt there, and I actually disagree that women shouldn't vote. 1.00

00:53:16.200 I met a bitch once. 1.00

00:53:18.200 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:53:19.200 Actually, sorry. 0.99

00:53:20.200 She has some nice tits, and I don't want to call her that. 1.00

00:53:24.200 I met a girl, woman, and she actually wasn't that stupid. 1.00

00:53:29.200 Oh, my God. 1.00

00:53:30.200 Overall, I agree with your shirt.

00:53:33.200 Are you confused like I'm confused?

00:53:36.200 Are you guys all from the same place?

00:53:39.200 See?

00:53:40.200 What's it going on?

00:53:42.200 It's impossible to get Pearl left. 1.00

00:53:44.200 That shit is the hardest. 0.99

00:53:45.200 It takes me like 10 episodes, but finally. 1.00

00:53:47.200 Shit. 0.99

00:53:48.200 Okay, let's pull up the clip. 0.99

00:53:49.200 Let's pull it up.

00:53:50.200 Let's pull it up.

00:53:51.200 Let's pull it up.

00:53:52.200 Let's pull it up.

00:53:53.200 That was hard.

00:53:54.200 I'll tell you.

00:53:55.200 Let's pull it up.

00:53:57.200 Welcome back to Piers Morgan on Send Send.

00:53:58.200 See what model Emily Raduchowski, one of my favorite dimwits, sparked controversy by claiming 1.00

00:54:01.200 they're getting divorced before 30 is chic.

00:54:03.200 claiming that getting divorced before 30 is chic so it seems that a lot of ladies are getting 1.00

00:54:10.840 divorced before they turn 30 and as someone who got married at 26 has been separated for a little

00:54:19.400 over a year 32 i don't think there's anything better if there is nothing better than being in

00:54:26.160 your 30s still being hot maybe having a little bit of your own money figuring out what you want

00:54:31.620 to do with your life for all of those people who are stressed or feeling stressed about that about

00:54:37.080 being divorced like it's a it's it's good congratulations congratulations god she's 0.99

00:54:44.800 ridiculous uh well divorce is certainly becoming more common and marriage itself is becoming a 0.97

00:54:49.740 fierce frontier in the raging culture wars on one side there are feminists rejecting and dating 1.00

00:54:53.920 concept on the other so-called trad wives who think it binds our societies together well try to why 1.00

00:55:00.320 spend their days due to the cooking and cleaning or their husbands go to work esther williams who's a 1.00

00:55:05.720 25 year old trad wife has amassed hundreds of thousands of followers by showing off her trad wife 1.00

00:55:10.780 life online she even gave up a job to be the perfect wife so is she and others like her saving society 1.00

00:55:18.220 or are they selling out the sisterhood well joining me now is traditional wife and influencer esther williams

00:55:23.440 and in the studio the socialist and author grace blakely and youtuber pearl davis this might be the best

00:55:28.460 lineup in the history of television for a debate of this nature so i'm very excited all right esther

00:55:35.220 williams let's start with you is the the trad wife sell it to me why do you think we should all go back 0.61

00:55:40.980 to having trad wives in marriages um well i believe that well i actually don't believe that everyone

00:55:51.280 should be a traditional wife i think that it is a choice and i think it's a lovely choice if a woman

00:55:56.960 wants to simply be a wife and a mother and that's enough for her and it's it's a simple way of

00:56:04.500 living with traditional gender rules um it's balanced and we don't have to do it all as women i think

00:56:12.000 we've proven that um it's possible but at what cost right right and and in terms of what being a trad

00:56:20.720 wife involves what do you think it means to be a trad wife 1.00

00:56:25.220 well to adhere to traditional gender roles so what i mean by that is the husband he is the provider

00:56:33.480 of the home he goes out he works and he he he knows how to protect his family if need be and

00:56:41.080 the wife she's the homemaker she does the cooking she does the cleaning and she takes care of the 1.00

00:56:47.220 home and children if there are any and um herself of course so that's it's adhering to traditional

00:56:54.460 gender roles okay grace i'm sure you thoroughly agree with this look i mean what um what asu's just

00:57:00.380 said about the fact that women should be able to choose obviously i completely agree and you know men

00:57:03.940 should be able to choose as well i think the feminist critique of traditional gender roles and gender

00:57:08.240 ideology isn't that some people like to stay at home and others don't it's that you shouldn't be

00:57:12.380 bound to pursue a certain life based on the sex that you were born into at birth the one issue i do

00:57:17.960 have is i know actually um someone a friend of mine whose sister got involved in the trad wife

00:57:23.180 movement in the u.s basically and she was quite young she got married to someone who was like

00:57:26.480 this is what we're doing you're going to be a trad wife and basically came to regret it um she felt

00:57:31.080 like she'd been controlled like her life became very small and she couldn't get out she couldn't escape

00:57:35.620 because you know she'd lost all her friends and and this has become basically her entire life

00:57:39.720 and it concerns me uh that sometimes we see this narrative on social media that women have to be 1.00

00:57:45.240 a certain way in order to get a husband um so you have to be this like particular model of femininity 1.00

00:57:50.660 for people to love you and i think that's really sad because i don't think anyone should have to shave

00:57:54.520 off any parts of themselves to be loved or to you know find a husband or you know anything like that

00:57:59.620 all right pearl what do you think um i think it's i think it's a good that we're seeing a return to

00:58:05.780 traditionalism yeah i think it's a good thing how wait wait i keep going how's it gone for you and

00:58:15.700 when you look at it and see how women have progressed do you think it's been largely a force for good or do 0.98

00:58:22.500 you think as the trad wives did it perhaps we've lost that sense of gender rules one of a better phrase 1.00

00:58:28.840 which actually worked very well i mean i mean we've seen families disappear you know i saw a study

00:58:35.060 the other day that said only 25 percent of i mean this is an american step an american household to

00:58:40.320 families so um i guess there's positives and there's negatives but it's like at what cost

00:58:45.420 you know what's 80 like 85 um 150 years ago the average woman had seven kids 85 percent of people

00:58:51.560 were married i mean you know there's also much higher infant mortality and women died very young

00:58:57.060 and you know i mean women were more depressed than ever before we're on antidepressants um i mean

00:59:01.940 women over the age of 45 are the least happy demographic there are a lot of very the issue the

00:59:07.540 issue that's reasons for that and the issue you have is women like emily ratkowski you know marriage 1.00

00:59:12.560 again i've said this before marriage isn't marriage anymore the average marriage is seven years we have

00:59:16.580 things like no fault divorce leave if you're unhappy so what does that mean marriage isn't marriage

00:59:21.260 anymore because there have been so many marriages in the course of history where people have been

00:59:25.440 very unhappy either the man or the woman has been very unhappy and they've been forced basically to

00:59:29.020 stay in a marriage it could have been an abusive marriage it could have been an abusive marriage

00:59:32.360 marriage and that would you know we have one life why would you spend it with someone who doesn't make 1.00

00:59:36.180 this is a problem we have with women like women would you don't tend to be better people than us 1.00

00:59:42.120 yeah they really do they tend to no no no they tend to do the right thing

00:59:46.620 i mean there's a reason we have phrases like a man of his word right yeah a woman of her word 0.99

00:59:53.440 men will actually stick things out women when she gets hard we just leave and you're proving 1.00

00:59:59.040 my point what was your first answer my happiness right of course everyone deserves to be happy

01:00:05.900 everyone deserves to be love the family doesn't work when it's about you it's supposed to be about

01:00:09.920 your kids and that's the problem that's the problem everyone no there's a balance and a compromise

01:00:15.780 in relationships am i allowed to talk now what about knowing understanding yourself learning to

01:00:25.440 you know no one understand another person eventually potentially if you want to bring children into

01:00:29.440 the world and teaching them how to do that as well teaching them to balance a sense of their own

01:00:32.920 identity with the love that they have for another person and you know for example i know um an older

01:00:38.540 woman actually is a friend of our family who um got divorced at about 60. she had you know this

01:00:43.200 lovely family they were together since they were 18 and she said i got to a point after i'd stopped

01:00:47.580 being a mother and you know i was just kind of getting on i realized i'd lost my sense of who i was

01:00:52.320 and i didn't really feel like i knew who i was anymore because i'd always just been a wife and

01:00:56.340 a mother and i wanted to go out and explore that and i think that's fantastic what is traditionalism

01:01:01.000 um i don't know what you think traditionalism i would say i would say a modern mentality is me

01:01:06.160 before the family i would say traditional traditionalism is the family before me especially

01:01:11.800 in women and so and so and so and so what i actually it's interesting you said 60 year olds because

01:01:16.280 you know i've interviewed 600 700 people roughly in the past year and a half i've done hundreds of shows

01:01:21.880 interviewing people about relationships and what i find is the 60 year olds tend to

01:01:26.440 a lot of those women led their daughters astray you know there's a reason we're in this mess right 0.95

01:01:32.600 a lot of those women had the wrong mentality when it came to marriage and had exactly the mentality 1.00

01:01:37.360 that you're talking about which is that one should prioritize balancing one's own sense of identity

01:01:41.720 with compromise and relationship with someone else it's myself before the marriage but that's again

01:01:45.480 and it's really unfortunate because i would say the women of our generation really are are suffering

01:01:50.520 because of the advice of the women of the past that's interesting point here right which is that

01:01:53.560 we do live in a very individualistic society and we're all told actually i think a lot of the time

01:01:58.280 in our relationships as well you have to be a certain way if you want to receive love you have to

01:02:02.680 abide by these uh these norms you have to be a certain level of attractiveness you have to earn a

01:02:06.840 certain amount of money it's all about you and that's not what love is all right let me bring

01:02:10.760 it all right listen it's actually been very interesting this is let me bring it back in

01:02:14.600 st so instead of trad values like my wife puts the bins out for example right i don't i've never asked

01:02:21.240 her to she's just adopted that role in our house so i never put the bins out i don't know if i should

01:02:26.200 feel ashamed of myself i do other stuff but i don't put the bins out as a trad wife do you put your

01:02:31.320 bins out is that part of the gender rule of the 50s is that what used to happen or 0.91

01:02:37.560 does the man supposed to do that i mean how do these rules work in reality

01:02:43.400 to be honest it it has nothing it i don't want to say nothing it doesn't necessarily have anything to

01:02:49.800 do with the 50s and the 60s um especially in our household i i enjoy the aesthetic um and i think

01:02:57.080 that's where people get a little mixed up with my channel but um i well to answer your question

01:03:02.360 actually i don't put the trash bins out my husband does that but i think we we have this um this thing

01:03:09.160 in our household where he does most of the outdoor work i do all the indoor work of course he works and

01:03:14.760 provides and i'm the homemaker that's what works for us but in relation to in relation to what right

01:03:20.600 in relation to what pearl said is it's part of a sense of being dutiful and having no problem

01:03:27.880 actually with being dutiful in a marriage uh yes i believe that traditionalism can it is putting um

01:03:37.880 your family before yourself and i think it it is um it is having those traditional values that were once

01:03:46.040 definitely more in place and um god family and love and we live in a very selfish society now

01:03:55.240 you know you see self-love printed everywhere right and um women i'm speaking of divorce and marriage 0.98

01:04:03.560 women are leaving marriage far more easy easier than uh men and they are um doing it because they 0.59

01:04:11.160 think there's something better out there for them that the grass is greener on the other side and

01:04:16.040 they're finding out that is wrong and they're going through divorce after divorce and um you know

01:04:21.320 marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond where two become one under god and that's beautiful and you

01:04:27.480 have to protect that at all costs and and i think part of that is putting your partner's needs before

01:04:33.400 your own every single day and i try and do my best and i think of my husband as much as i can and

01:04:39.560 what would please him and make him happy so i wanted to we can cut it now sorry i wanted to

01:04:44.840 obviously i don't i i wouldn't dare to express i want it you can you know a lovely way to think

01:04:48.920 about relationships if it's so i wanted i wanted to cut it there and i wanted to point something else

01:04:55.080 out that you might have gone over some people's heads what was the biggest difference between the

01:05:03.560 feminists next to me in the trad way we have to answer that question with logic first what makes 1.00

01:05:10.200 a woman a woman her ability to suck cock 1.00

01:05:19.880 now what makes a traditional life a woman who sucks china okay so now is it now is it anti-feminist 1.00

01:05:29.160 i'm gonna have to say something for a woman to suck cock i need to say something no exactly 1.00

01:05:33.960 okay so what right right so so the answer to the question is no okay so what makes a woman a woman 1.00

01:05:39.640 is an adult but true true true true feminism is a burning desire for cock okay yeah and the same goes 1.00

01:05:50.120 for the role of a traditional wife wait wait hold on a second guys bro you keep talking over everybody 0.99

01:05:55.560 like you don't let other people talk or not like is it just your show or who's show is it bro

01:06:01.000 honestly

01:06:11.560 like eight people it's not okay bro i'm gonna have to answer that first

01:06:14.280 you have a little respect you want me to just keep talking over you

01:06:17.640 bro bro bro bro just keeps talking over everybody bro like are we gonna have floor rules

01:06:22.360 bro bro bro are we gonna have cop no you don't respect me you don't respect nobody

01:06:25.080 you're raising your voice at me bro no but you don't respect nobody

01:06:27.400 i'm okay guys guys guys guys guys we need to we need to all right let's let's let's

01:06:43.000 you're talking about guys i don't want to have to cut your mics guys let's just have respect for 0.84

01:06:50.440 you can we can we put it together king king he's being a bully he's being a bully i'm being a bully 0.95

01:06:57.160 you're bullying guys guys guys bro are you a victim what's wrong with you i'm being china bro there's 0.97

01:07:01.640 other people like i'll let you talk but you keep calling me a bully bro i keep talking over you but 0.62

01:07:06.600 you keep talking over me china just let him let him get him no but no no no i'm just saying okay

01:07:12.280 guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys guys you're having a man screaming at me you just

01:07:19.160 call me a bully and you're cutting off my mic guys guys guys guys guys guys i love how the women are 1.00

01:07:24.920 nice and quiet and chill loving life this is this is traditional women right here 0.99

01:07:30.040 all right um can i can i get the room please all right um pearl can you continue to show i think

01:07:36.920 we've got a great representation going on here guys i love it

01:07:45.240 yeah but but we're trying to call everyone to order so if it's not you i cut his mic on yours so

01:07:51.080 it's because both of you no relax it's because both of you aren't trying to listen listen to this i'm

01:07:55.720 relaxing it but you've had a man talk listen everybody super chats super chats later yeah

01:08:01.400 we're good wait hold on super chats i want the super chats to to speak about what's happened now

01:08:06.120 because you're gonna have me acting like i'm acting man i'm actually moving very calm bro i'm moving

01:08:10.120 very all right but we need to get to the show that's the problem so if we if if if pearl is calling your

01:08:16.120 both your attention i'm calling both of you are not listening what do you want me to do i respect

01:08:20.280 oh i respect the pole a lot good so that's what i'm trying to get back to the show i'm just trying

01:08:26.360 to move on i'm trying to what was it like i understand you can you repeat what you just said

01:08:31.960 excuse me excuse me excuse me can you guys literally just stop please like i'm trying to

01:08:36.680 i'm trying to like make a point okay so it's okay so so the one the one thing that i was going to say

01:08:42.520 that i i noticed with that clip you guys remember the clip that we just watched okay you guys remember

01:08:47.960 it so um i the biggest thing that i noticed was female narcissism because the one woman was 1.00

01:08:54.600 thinking about her husband and the other woman couldn't like like she literally thought that i

01:09:00.280 was interrupting her when when she was interrupting me the whole time yeah i mean and the first thing

01:09:06.760 she said was i can only give if it's reciprocal i think it was but when you're in a traditional family

01:09:13.160 unit it's not about you right you just do right and when you think of the most like feminine like

01:09:18.680 who you i'm sure you guys have a grandma aunt whoever is she counting like oh i did this much for him

01:09:24.120 and that's why like so usually when women say oh i can only do it like it can't be unreciprocated like

01:09:29.000 it says more about her i think he was a very sad thing really i mean i think i think grace is actually

01:09:33.320 very attractive she's probably more attractive than the the trad wife but i'm not a big fan of trad wives 1.00

01:09:37.640 generally i think the whole thing's a little bit corny i think it's a bit cheesy i don't really buy it i don't

01:09:41.800 really buy it having said that i think that the um the trad wife on that clip i think she was talking

01:09:45.960 a lot of sense and i think what grace was saying it was actually really sad i mean the story about

01:09:49.560 the 60 year old woman who just ditched her husband because she felt like she wanted to go

01:09:53.080 and find herself i think that's a terribly terribly sad story i really do and and equally the whole

01:09:58.280 emily razikowski thing it's just sort of like i mean even putting families aside what about the

01:10:03.400 bond between the man and the woman right you've fallen presumably fallen in love with this woman

01:10:06.920 you're like right this is us we're together it's ride or die you and me babe and then five years

01:10:11.480 seven years later the woman's just like oh actually do you know what there's a whole like 1.00

01:10:15.080 green pastures out there so sod you and then she just buggers off and then and then you wonder why 0.91

01:10:19.800 people are guys aren't getting married but why would i get married when the likely prognosis of that

01:10:24.520 marriage is that in seven to ten years the woman's just going to go do you know what actually chad the

01:10:28.520 pool boy's quite cute i think i'll just uh i think i'll just ditch this i think yeah why would i make

01:10:32.760 a why would i make a legal contract around that depending on how long they've been together prior to

01:10:37.720 them obviously getting married i would like to think that not necessarily i want to hear what

01:10:43.880 she said would say that again um yeah so i would like to think that how long that you're together

01:10:48.280 before the engagement for the marriage plays a big part so a big part in what big part in actually the

01:10:54.520 whole marriage like staying together for a certain period of time um knowing like for the lady for 0.98

01:11:00.920 example she's just said after what five years she just said yeah no forget basically yeah clearly

01:11:07.720 to me that seems like you weren't you you haven't been with your partner for a long time it might be

01:11:12.200 worse it might be worse if you've been together before because then you've got more time to get

01:11:15.080 bored of each other there's a main problem because i i mean i've got a master's degree in psychology so

01:11:21.800 i'm kind of just kind of dissecting a lot of things all that we're seeing is very self-centered very

01:11:26.920 egoistic conversations either this either there's a lot of expectations

01:11:30.920 expectations and the whole picture pictured on you know the image of what a perfect man or woman

01:11:35.240 should be the problem that we're having is no one's turning around to be like how can i improve

01:11:38.640 myself how can i better myself what can i do to be a better person today or a better wife or a

01:11:43.600 better husband there's a lot of external factors instead of internal factors well i guess the trad

01:11:47.920 woman's doing we need to i guess the trad woman's trying to do that isn't she the trad woman is trying 1.00

01:11:52.720 to be doing that yeah but do you see how do you see do you see how that instills like a form of

01:11:57.400 anxiety between all men this whole idea like that you can be in a relationship for 10 years and then

01:12:02.620 next thing you know she ups and leaves in the world tomorrow but it works both ways guys but women 1.00

01:12:08.640 divorce more than men yeah women divorce more than men hold on hold on hold on women divorce you've had

01:12:14.680 your say let me just say something because i haven't said anything for the whole like um so

01:12:19.620 basically yeah and then you can reply uh basically women yes maybe divorce is more with women however 1.00

01:12:27.280 what about we were talking earlier about um when a woman sort of helps build with a guy and then when

01:12:32.740 the guy dumps her and he's successful and then he finds someone else or he's like toy girl or whatever

01:12:38.260 you know the next the the next young pretty thing he that girl so that's that's like that's like 0.97

01:12:43.300 propaganda to be honest no i've seen even i mean you might have seen exceptions but no no exception no

01:12:50.140 i'm telling you like the numbers don't back you up i mean women are women are women you can actually 0.99

01:12:56.360 you can you can you can you can no no i'll give you i'll tell you i'll tell you you can actually you

01:13:00.900 can actually look up like the age that like people divorce on average yep and who files but when women 1.00

01:13:07.300 actually even i mean you can get it's usually like you can get them divorce websites you can get

01:13:13.320 well you you can i'm telling you you can get them from the uk the u.s they're they're usually quite

01:13:18.240 similar yeah yes yes yes so i mean but i mean we can also just look in normal reality when women 1.00

01:13:25.280 go on tiktok and talk about why they got divorced you know i'm the i'm the biggest one to not believe

01:13:30.400 stats but i i think you kind of have to look at what you see in reality and and and the truth of the

01:13:36.000 matter is you could even look at numbers um like from before the 60s and you could also because

01:13:40.640 another way you can like look at what's going on in the times is you take eyewitness accounts

01:13:44.500 so like um people that were alive during the time what they wrote about and it women were more 1.00

01:13:50.160 likely to divorce even before no fault divorce like when i have to that actually can i add to that

01:13:54.780 before i mean when we're comparing to 100 years ago and today let's look a lot of factors like let's

01:13:59.920 look at the food that we're eating the products the hygiene products that women are using 1.00

01:14:03.560 there's a lot of chemicals we've got a lot of in imbalance in our chemicals in our bodies today

01:14:07.980 which function our perspective our mentality well yeah i mean we're both well we're both kind of 0.99

01:14:13.660 messed up yeah men and the women i totally agree that's why we're so fat we're so fucked in their 0.98

01:14:18.120 head maybe yeah yeah no i totally i totally i totally agree you know but but but food our air 0.98

01:14:23.880 everything is right right but but my point is women tend to file for divorce and the idea that like 1.00

01:14:29.940 men tend to leave for younger women women file uh 70 80 of the time so women like men aren't really 0.95

01:14:36.940 filing for divorce like that and then if you just want to look in like reality there's reasons that

01:14:41.640 men say it's cheaper to keep her happy wife happy life it's because they're not really divorcing like 0.98

01:14:45.920 that you know why emily ratikowski divorced uh uh well just the same yeah i don't agree that she just 0.95

01:14:56.120 is like uh glamorizing um divorce i because i think it is a contractual agreement i've said this before

01:15:03.000 and and actually that trad wife woman said it as well if you are going into a legally binding contract

01:15:08.540 a marriage you are you must be thinking about it you can't you have to have some kind of discernment

01:15:13.520 that you're like this has to be like someone that i want to build a future with otherwise what are

01:15:18.760 you doing unless you're a gold digger or um or you're marrying for some kind of trust fund or

01:15:23.700 whatever it is other than that like exactly and i mean i mean it was mia khalifa who said something

01:15:28.600 similar wasn't it a couple of months ago made it similar to cut a video and i think i think where

01:15:32.480 grace was was wrong is to say if you're actually marrying somebody and then seven years down the line

01:15:37.900 you just change your mind i think that's wrong because you've entered into a legally binding

01:15:40.920 like illegally and morally and morally binding contract if you're just dating them that's a

01:15:46.060 different thing if you guys are just dating okay fine but why actually get married but that's right 0.88

01:15:50.880 and the other thing too is she said what about your happiness but it's like why are you relying on

01:15:56.740 someone else to make you happy exactly never do that you know the problem with the problem is life

01:16:02.540 is is very long and there's a lot of ups and downs and i mean you're not going to be happy the whole

01:16:06.140 time and the issue is that i think some women you know they get into the relationship it goes a 1.00

01:16:10.040 little bit flat for a while and then they're like oh shit the grass is greener okay let's let's just 0.96

01:16:13.980 check out of this and we'll go and go and try over there and like the trad wife said i mean the grass

01:16:17.780 isn't always greener you know yeah um but i think there's external factors as well that can come into

01:16:23.020 play i mean the economy that the financial state that somebody is living in does that deter someone's

01:16:29.600 well if he's a bro if he's a broke boy she should leave him

01:16:31.760 let's just let's just let's just let's just ask a hypothetical hypothetical question let's say there's

01:16:36.640 someone that's very wealthy and then all of a sudden the economy crashes and then what

01:16:40.060 build again okay build again you gotta build again i'll tell you i'll tell you so we actually

01:16:47.700 we actually take um this is why i say men are better people yeah okay yeah because like when women 1.00

01:16:53.800 for example when women win the lottery women tend to leave their husbands where men tend to stay with 0.78

01:16:58.600 their wives when women get promoted they're they're more likely to divorce like i mean it's 1.00

01:17:04.920 the same that's why i say women are the same we have the same trends and patterns not i mean not 0.98

01:17:08.840 every woman does the same thing but every woman has an inclination to do is that ego do you think we 1.00

01:17:14.400 have more of an ego than men um a materialistic maybe ego i mean i just think we're hardwired to

01:17:19.560 want men that provide for us yeah yeah and i and i think a lot of times when we start to out earn them

01:17:24.240 we think they're better that we're better than them usually we're in useless jobs

01:17:27.600 yeah yeah yeah because you i mean i'll even use myself as an example it's like i talk into a

01:17:32.380 microphone and but i see like i saw a woman with my same job she was like a tv presenter i don't know 1.00

01:17:38.780 if you guys ebony williams maybe you know she's a 39 40 year old tv presenter which is what talking 1.00

01:17:45.060 into a microphone so like and she was talking about she wouldn't date a bus driver but when you think

01:17:50.720 about it a bus driver is a more necessary job than the girl talking into a mic you know 1.00

01:17:55.440 um so the last the last thing i wanted to bring up today actually was um so back to like the

01:18:03.580 narcissism point right and what i see is this extreme narcissism and men just telling us what

01:18:08.420 we want to hear and one of the themes i just kind of think of things as like patterns and trends

01:18:13.780 and one trend i see is men convincing women that we're just young forever and hot for a lifetime

01:18:20.040 yeah so um i wanted to show you guys a tweet that i had that just really ruffled some feathers and you

01:18:26.720 guys can tell me if you think it's too offensive or don't don't feel like you have to hold back

01:18:31.240 okay um so i said should we pull this up the the do the last one i sent you i think it's the

01:18:39.220 the wait hold on it's follow

01:18:43.980 the the no yeah okay okay so i had i had a tweet and this tweet had wives and mothers tweeting me

01:18:54.500 their selfies i said no 35 year old women aren't that hot ouch none will compete with the average 1.00

01:19:02.240 in shape 21 year old don't shoot the messenger so i want to know and so this is the response i'm

01:19:10.840 so basically she just gave us the keys on how to get the women okay okay so so no wait wait guys 1.00

01:19:18.480 please please guys wait i want to ask the women this question am i wrong it's debatable for me

01:19:25.960 it is you know why it is i've seen some really good looking 35 year old women on twitter okay as 1.00

01:19:33.920 well i have i have you've seen some good looking 35 year old women yeah and they typically are more 1.00

01:19:39.100 good looking than the average 21 year old like we go to a college campus and those 35 year old women 1.00

01:19:45.880 i mean well it's going to be two different things though isn't it because at the end of the day

01:19:49.880 where 35 year old woman is probably going to be more wrinkled no not at all spending more money 1.00

01:19:56.160 no no no no no but they're gonna look they're gonna and again i have a question are the 35 year

01:20:02.460 old women more wrinkled than the 21 year old women 1.00

01:20:05.200 i'm gonna go i'm gonna go with the women first then i'm gonna come to the guys please 1.00

01:20:10.800 i personally feel like it depends okay yeah obviously that's all right cool we're not talking

01:20:16.680 about going out to do anything to your face if i let's let's yeah yes let's look at the 21 year

01:20:21.380 old woman okay okay can i just say so i work with clubs and and also i do some stuff around like

01:20:28.400 student stuff right and um i've seen students and i've seen the young kind of girls going to clubs

01:20:34.480 at the moment no because they don't look after themselves they're not hot they're not remember i

01:20:39.900 said wait wait wait let's read it again go back i know i know the average can i just no no no no i

01:20:45.420 said the average in shape because it doesn't count if we're like like fatties they don't count you know 0.98

01:20:50.880 what i mean like fatty like we all know a fatty at 35 and a fatty at 21 and don't want like like we're 0.75

01:20:57.020 not like fatties don't count so i said the average you know because it's like they would be hotter

01:21:02.680 they just ruin their beauty right but also there are a lot of like um sort of 21 year olds that

01:21:07.620 haven't got like a style yet they haven't got this yeah they haven't found themselves they don't

01:21:11.460 so i have a question i have a question i have a question do men usually really care about your style

01:21:16.800 yes no do they how you do they yeah okay okay do you agree until they want to take the clothes off

01:21:23.300 yeah i mean are men usually is that the determining factor your style well it's the whole package isn't 0.99

01:21:30.340 no i don't want to see if your ass looks fat in a sundress exactly okay okay okay so so okay so 1.00

01:21:36.440 you don't care about wrinkles you just want ass basically let's go guys guys trying to wait wait 0.99

01:21:43.000 so so so we go back to am i am i wrong is this is this go back please go back up no i don't think 0.93

01:21:49.300 you are i think i love the fact that you've got reality and humor in one tweet and i appreciate that 0.97

01:21:55.080 so you know we always they always bring me up j-lo but it's like bitch are you j-lo 1.00

01:21:59.620 and it's like i don't you know like i mean come on okay sure a 9.5 in her prime is gonna be a 7 at 0.81

01:22:09.280 35 but like you know and you know what i you know and i i got such a visceral reaction i had a very

01:22:16.780 similar one where i had wives and mothers tweeting their selfies at me and then and then pictures of 0.85

01:22:22.800 myself to prove that they were hotter that they were just hotter than me and there and then i had

01:22:30.360 women calling me bitter and just evil when really my only point is 35 year old women used to have a 1.00

01:22:38.220 family and they cared more about their character rather than their looks and it wasn't the end of

01:22:44.560 the world that there was a new round of 22 year olds yeah yeah and so to me this spoke more to female 0.54

01:22:50.700 narcissism because we can't hear you know i'm i'm 26 right and at 26 100 years ago they would have

01:22:59.840 said you're an old maid now i understand i understand we're in 2023 where that's not the

01:23:07.440 norm but i'll still say you know the average 20 year old chick is gonna be hotter and that's okay 1.00

01:23:13.160 it's not you know i didn't say bad person i didn't say ugly and i also put i was very specific i said

01:23:18.720 that hot because what does that hot mean that's like pretty sexy by 35 you should be more beautiful 0.97

01:23:24.800 why your ass out there's women that are really hot and then they open their mouths and it's like 1.00

01:23:29.740 it's like it's like at 35 you know you're supposed to kind of put it away like we're supposed to like 1.00

01:23:34.440 age you know like dress a little less slutty yeah it's getting the opposite now yeah but you know

01:23:41.440 it was so very interesting every time we have this episode here i always learn something new from

01:23:46.480 listening to women speak and they always tell on themselves it's just like you said it women are 1.00

01:23:52.360 really actually all the same yeah they might be very it varies they are worse and they are better but

01:23:58.500 they all have the same programming think about it like this i'm very sure now that most women don't 1.00

01:24:03.620 actually know what men want from women because the reality is the men that women claim they want 0.90

01:24:09.360 that's the top quality men those kind of men are not looking for your total package in fact those

01:24:16.100 kind of men want to be the men that discover a gem that's hidden yes so if you're someone that

01:24:22.600 already knows all your style you already know this that only signals to the man that you want that

01:24:27.240 you've been around the block but men like the journey as well the whole process no but you're

01:24:32.540 literally telling me what men want or what men like i'm telling you the fact that the kind of men you

01:24:37.120 want the kind of men that you would look at and be like yes i'm glad i got this man he's not looking

01:24:42.300 for some woman that is completely packaged and she knows her style she's in her baby girl era no 1.00

01:24:49.500 that's not what they want they want to literally discover a gem that no one has found yeah diamond

01:24:53.840 in the rough so nema you had your thoughts on this yeah i mean so women are tweeting their 1.00

01:25:00.900 selfies to you to prove they're hot because you publicly said younger women are hotter how dare i 1.00

01:25:07.200 wow um okay so uh younger women have prettier pussies my twitter is at nema yamini 0.99

01:25:20.220 how old are you wow this guy how old are you 43 so why do you need to be worrying and 0.99

01:25:28.340 and also why do you want to see other people exactly things are you not married exactly are you not

01:25:34.640 married this is this is a bad example of a guy that i wouldn't want to marry i'd rather be on my

01:25:39.940 own with cats well i mean statistically you're gonna be

01:25:43.240 bring it home bring it home if that's my choice i'm done i mean statistically only one of us is

01:25:50.200 gonna make it so you know look around you're right though pearl it's about the narcissism of the age

01:25:56.900 isn't it the narcissism of women specifically in this case where it's like why is it so why is it 0.99

01:26:01.780 that these days every woman has to be hot why is it i've got to be hot i've got to be fucking sexy 0.99

01:26:06.320 i've got to be like what's wrong with cute why not just be cute why not just be cute why not be 0.99

01:26:10.400 why is it not acceptable to be introverted or bookish or a little bit nerdy or whatever what

01:26:14.860 is every single woman it has to be about this hotness and not just when they're young but as 0.97

01:26:19.320 they go into their 30s their 40s their 50s you know it just seems like yet what happened to growing

01:26:25.060 old gracefully or just accepting the the point in your life that you are at they don't want to lose

01:26:30.220 control they don't want to lose control i think that women get to a point where you know they're the 1.00

01:26:35.020 hottest they've ever been maybe 1920 and every guy's talking to them they can't walk down the

01:26:39.100 street without a guy coming to say hello to them and then once you get over to 35 you stop getting

01:26:43.440 those compliments they're always competing with the guys aren't they yeah without compliments my life

01:26:48.600 is still blessed i don't need someone else to give me validation if you're so secure within yourself

01:26:52.660 appearance can only do so much for you darling the fact that you had to reply to that the fact that

01:26:58.000 you had to reply to that well some might see otherwise can i ask you a question if you got dressed up

01:27:02.580 yeah and you went out yeah for whole i'm talking about in a general perspective okay if a woman's 0.99

01:27:06.420 dressing up for a special occasion and she's feeling a sound way fine but not on every single

01:27:10.400 day if no one ever recognized you see if when you walked out and you was like invisible and like you

01:27:14.940 just no one saw you at all how would that make you feel even better you would like it's giving pretty

01:27:19.800 privilege you're missing my point here i'm just saying we don't always need um outside kind of

01:27:27.920 validation okay the fact of the matter sorry the fact of the matter is you can go out like honestly

01:27:33.280 if you've ever seen me walking the street i look like a homeless person and you still get people

01:27:37.120 talking to you because there are just random people that are going to do that it doesn't matter who

01:27:41.460 you are that's happened forever do you think that's a bad thing or a good i don't really like

01:27:46.680 it how often do you talk to guys i don't exactly exactly hold on look what you just said i don't 0.96

01:27:52.220 like in the street no freaking way i'm going somewhere if they don't shoot your shot in the 0.77

01:27:57.280 street hold on hold on if they don't shoot your shot you never will no yeah but in the street 0.56

01:28:03.720 but what if he thinks his future wife and you shouldn't then he then he then we'll meet in

01:28:08.660 a place that is like wow that's crazy i can't relate it could be tesco's it could be anyway like

01:28:16.320 okay okay tesco could be kind of fun like i got a question when's the last time when's the last time

01:28:23.180 you when's the last time you asked the guy out oh well no that's not i know you know right so you

01:28:29.780 basically saying guys don't interact with me because i don't ask you out so don't interact

01:28:34.040 when i'm walking in the street and i look like a homeless person let me be what can i can i wait

01:28:39.560 guys guys i'm going somewhere i just want to point i want to point something out here i want to point

01:28:43.460 now don't take this person women will always whine imagine imagine someone comes up to you and says 1.00

01:28:51.540 you're beautiful you want to go out now most people would just take it as a compliment you know i might

01:28:57.120 not be interested but i mean hey that's a not that's a nice thing women we just always have 1.00

01:29:02.860 this tendency to complain you know someday someday you're still cute you know what i mean not that hot 0.97

01:29:08.660 but you know you're you're pretty you're pretty woman right one day you're gonna be old and ugly 1.00

01:29:18.380 and you will miss we'll miss the we'll miss the guys no i know seriously you know and 0.87

01:29:22.940 over 45 it's like half of us get on antidepressants we're gonna be all alone

01:29:27.860 refuse you know okay but yeah i hope for you you know i'm just saying statistically right

01:29:32.300 yeah and then it's like um you know i think that will miss the attention on some level

01:29:38.560 no i really do i do you'll be like and i've heard amy schumer joke about this where she's like

01:29:43.560 yeah when i was younger i was like oh i can't believe they're approaching me and now i'm older i'm

01:29:47.340 like please that's a certain mentality that's a certain type of person but i think it's all

01:29:54.600 depends where you are so like if you're i don't know in a more sociable area fine i wouldn't shoot

01:30:00.980 someone down if i was say at a bar or at a cafe or something so but if i'm walking and i and i well

01:30:05.960 he's like there's less competitors let me go now

01:30:08.740 this is why men don't approach anymore it's so wild because it's like it's like confusing for men

01:30:16.760 to like how are they supposed to know when to not exactly yeah they do get a bit scared this is like

01:30:21.280 like then guys are like forget it this is too much i think it's just ungratefulness that's what it

01:30:25.760 comes down to it i literally feel like yeah because i'm gonna tell you why hold on i'm gonna tell you

01:30:30.540 i'm gonna tell you why because you guys haven't put yourselves out there we had to get numb to

01:30:34.780 rejection we had to constantly get rejected and get numb to it you guys can't take rejection as

01:30:39.140 a lot as a i've been a model most of my life oh no interesting being interested in somebody and

01:30:45.380 being a model is two different things is part of the job that's different that's different it's

01:30:49.460 completely different it's the same thing you build a thick skin no no it's not you've never walked up

01:30:54.080 to it hold on you just to clarify you just said that you don't walk up to strangers and say hey

01:30:58.500 you're beautiful i want to talk to you so you would never be able to look at somebody's face and

01:31:01.940 them say what you know how in front of everybody imagine being on the street you some girl says

01:31:07.700 don't touch me leave me loud and you're trying to whoa whoa whoa someone's trying to touch you in

01:31:11.740 the street that's a red flag but not even but not but not but not but not even just to attempt to

01:31:16.000 get to know you you automatically say don't you know like i said it just comes down to ungratefulness

01:31:21.220 it's creepy it's creepy okay wait wait wait wait wait wait wait okay okay creepy right

01:31:26.960 wait wait wait wait please wait please wait guys um so so it's creepy but what if what if he looks

01:31:34.640 so who's who's your celebrity crush i don't really have a celebrity please please give me an answer

01:31:41.120 please a real answer let's not do the woman thing come on no honestly um okay i'll say matt rife as

01:31:47.760 a comedian okay so okay do you find him but you find him attractive he's attractive okay so if he

01:31:54.560 comes up to you you still find it creepy maybe it depends no you wouldn't like don't do the woman

01:32:01.280 thing don't lie like we're not liars okay if he's hot maybe give him extra time okay but see but do you

01:32:08.320 see how confusing this is but he has to be really freaking hot otherwise i'm just i'm not because honestly i

01:32:14.800 i want to go where i'm going and i'm if i'm looking like this i don't but how does he know that he's

01:32:18.640 hot for you how does he know he doesn't well how does he know like what you think is looking like

01:32:23.440 this because men just kind of find women hot you know they're like yeah exactly they don't even see

01:32:29.680 like that's like like fashion like men don't even see it well i've got some input i've got some

01:32:33.680 input on this because i do i do dating coaching and we get we actually get guys to you know to approach

01:32:38.000 women in real life and i i personally think that's a good thing because i think what is 1.00

01:32:41.600 about this society is that we're all on our phones we're choosing potential partners by

01:32:45.440 swiping on a phone which seems to me to be really weird but i would agree if somebody's like super

01:32:51.040 busy and they're they're obviously in a rush or whatever yeah it's it's bad for them to approach

01:32:54.720 that but i i still don't think even in 2023 even in the west even in woke london i still don't think

01:33:00.800 it's a bad thing if you think somebody's nice to walk up and say hey listen i just saw you i thought

01:33:04.880 you looked really nice i wanted to come over and say hello now if she's not interested she says no

01:33:08.400 sorry i've got a boyfriend i'm not interested whatever absolutely fine have a great day see

01:33:12.640 you later if she is interested or at least there's a glimmer of you know kind of reciprocation there

01:33:18.000 carry on the conversation i don't think that's a bad thing and i think it's bad i think it's

01:33:21.440 unfortunate in this society that it's becoming prescribed behavior and when you travel outside

01:33:26.400 the west you go to latin america or even parts of eastern europe actually it's a lot more acceptable

01:33:30.640 it's only in these countries like america because now because now you're giving your dating

01:33:34.640 selection up to these apps no no yeah your whole thing really if no guy if no guy walks up to you

01:33:40.880 in real life and interacts with you your whole dating experience will be under the control of

01:33:44.960 majority of these apps so depending on that algorithm determines what type of guy you get

01:33:49.600 and then you're gonna have to compete with all women from all age groups yeah i just think it's

01:33:53.760 the same if people can't talk to each other anymore yeah but i just think i think there's a time and a

01:33:57.840 place is all i'm saying and i think when you're walking and you're in a rush and you definitely look like

01:34:02.160 you're not just hanging about waiting to have a conversation with a stranger i think i think

01:34:07.760 i think women just like don't know what they want and i think i mean no i think i think this

01:34:13.200 sounds like craziness i've known laura for like years and yeah that's a thing not on the street but 1.00

01:34:22.160 we're actually quite social yeah so we're always at events and yeah different parties and all that

01:34:27.680 and that's when i meet she will allow people like yeah i will interact i'm not i'm not an animal i

01:34:33.120 just think it's like crazy to expect the men know when you want or don't want to i think if you're

01:34:38.000 walking down the street i just think if you're like if you're all right well if you're in starbucks

01:34:42.400 what if you're in starbucks you're in the queue and then there's a guy behind you in the queue and

01:34:45.280 he starts talking to you would that be okay i mean yeah that's happened okay it's okay because you have

01:34:51.360 time can i point something else can i point something i think the disconnect here is the fact that what you feel is

01:34:57.680 perfectly okay like it's okay to have that as as in like you don't like it when people approach

01:35:01.760 you in the street but the problem is when you look at it as when a man approaches you then you

01:35:07.200 have this visceral reaction because like we're saying men don't know if that's your preference

01:35:12.560 or that's what the other girl's preference is we just know that some girls like it some girls don't 0.91

01:35:16.640 so if we're going to be scared and say we don't know if she's gonna like it then we're not

01:35:20.560 gonna approach anyone at all but king that's what i do i've said it before and i've said to men men

01:35:25.920 stop approaching women stop it i agree 2023 stop it stop approaching women do not go up to them 1.00

01:35:31.360 when you go outside do not entertain them a woman so women can let you know if they're interested in 1.00

01:35:35.680 you i don't believe in that one when a woman's walking past you should just try to grab first 0.99

01:35:39.040 of all never touch a woman that's not your woman don't even touch her first of all yeah well 2023

01:35:42.960 this is how you catch a case right no i'm like like like what is my advice going to be to men and

01:35:48.960 young men especially at work i've said before do not speak to no women at work because what pearl

01:35:53.280 proved is what one man is creepy but another man actually is not so creepy right he becomes a crush

01:35:57.840 right no but but so if a guy moves to you at work and you don't like him it becomes oh work workplace

01:36:03.840 misconduct but if you find him cute you're not complaining yeah but so but how does a man know

01:36:08.240 so it's basically a man's not going to know that till he goes through so my thing is to men is

01:36:11.760 men stop we need to like so it's 20 i keep saying it's 2023 right and the reason i keep saying it's because

01:36:16.560 it's very dangerous for us men as single men we need to protect ourselves at all times you keep seeing

01:36:20.720 you saw what's happening with the russell brand scenario as well like men women need to outline

01:36:25.520 it and make it intentions very very very clear to you so women can a woman can look at you she can 0.99

01:36:31.040 smile at you she can drop something she can they subtle things that you women language yeah indication 1.00

01:36:36.480 eye contact but a lot of guys don't know those things but you yeah they do it's okay so you lean

01:36:41.680 in a little bit and i can't and i come the rest of the way exactly but a lot of guys don't know those

01:36:45.600 names hold on that's only comes but that only comes to experience men i want to i want to bring

01:36:50.160 up the other tweets that i had oh yeah i want to see you guys i had some more so i wanted good

01:36:57.840 well i look at here's the thing i never say it individual person if the shoe fits it's not my fault

01:37:05.040 it is not my fault i do not make you be alive so i said all these fitness chicks are cope because i 0.73

01:37:11.840 would see all these women that were like in shape and they'll tweet me their bodies i'm like thank 0.99

01:37:15.920 you for that all these fitness chicks are coping that they're still as hot at 35 no ladies you can't 1.00

01:37:23.840 be that hot at 35 22 year olds will out compete you don't shoot the messenger and i had some more

01:37:32.720 um you know then they'll say pearl this is out of hand then i said then i said the delusion is so sad

01:37:39.680 that you guys think you're still as hot at 35 no not really sorry to break the news now did i say

01:37:48.480 ugly no did i say unattractive no but i mean i i think that this is and i'll tell you how i had

01:37:58.240 this thought i thought about the most beautiful 35 year old women that i knew and i thought i could 0.99

01:38:03.280 find a hotter chick on any college campus it just wouldn't be that hard like it but you could also 1.00

01:38:09.120 find a lot of really ugly chicks on college it's true it's true but unfortunately unfortunately the 1.00

01:38:13.440 harsh the harsh reality is that is that men are in part attracted to to youth and fertility that's

01:38:19.680 that's you know and if you look at there's that famous uh chart isn't there i think it was taken

01:38:23.440 from ok cupid where it looks at men's ages as they get older and who they're attracted to and it's

01:38:28.000 it's around the 23 year old mark you know and men are getting into like 30 40 50 60 and they're

01:38:33.200 still attracted to 23 years with women it shifts slightly the other way as they get older they're

01:38:37.200 attracted to somewhat older guys so you know and and i'm not saying it's right i'm not saying it's

01:38:42.160 good but it's a bio it's a biological factor we can't really escape and you can't you cannot compete

01:38:47.520 i'm sorry at 35 you will not out compete a 22 year old so you could get a mid 22 year old yeah and

01:38:53.360 she's theoretically oh she's absolutely hotter and and men are practical if they want marriage and 0.84

01:38:58.880 children what the 30 years so you know so paul the difference between men and women is is like 0.86

01:39:03.360 so for men it would be it would be fitness and physicality so so an older man will understand

01:39:08.960 that a younger man would have better physicality and fitness than him if it's football or something

01:39:13.200 like that right and they wouldn't try to really bully yes you will get some men are older that

01:39:17.040 they keep themselves in shape and they're gonna have a better metabolism yes i get it but

01:39:21.280 the general rule will be the younger men will be fitter and will be stronger right um and we get that

01:39:26.560 we understand that that's fine but why is it so hard for women to understand that if you're 35 that are

01:39:32.240 21 even an average one is probably gonna have a tighter bum than you probably gonna have more 0.96

01:39:36.560 subtle breasts than you firmer figure and it's okay because guess what guess what they still beauty 1.00

01:39:41.920 as you get older like this thing where and when we talk about aging gracefully you're about to enter

01:39:45.680 a whole different life why are you trying to compete with people in your 21 22 and us men we don't

01:39:52.000 try to compete with younger men we don't we we actually see ourselves in younger men whereas women

01:39:56.640 tend to hate on younger women you know why because they see the women that they used to be you know why

01:40:00.960 because their trophy is their visual look women walk around and them looking this way and having 1.00

01:40:06.960 this is their trophy for men it's more about for men it's more about how much money we got how much

01:40:11.840 properties we own how much assets we have but for women it's more about the way i look how beautiful

01:40:17.360 i am how many men want me well it used to be a family talk talk now oh yeah now i forgot about

01:40:25.200 that thing actually i want to actually i want to actually i want to actually point out um this other

01:40:32.400 chick i'm gonna i'm gonna send this to you king now i think there's very few women that live in reality 1.00

01:40:37.600 i wanted to point out something that you said and i want to point this out you have a gut reaction women

01:40:42.160 in general we just have a gut reaction to cope yes that's what i call cope where i said where i said

01:40:47.280 um i wish i wish you were gonna have to pull it back so i remember um where you i said oh but the 22

01:40:53.440 year olds are gonna out compete you and you said but yeah and then you said something about them being

01:40:59.040 uglier fatter you said the one hot 22 in the campus yes but there's a whole load of others that are not

01:41:06.400 hot but i but in all honesty i don't compete with 22 year olds um i just do my own thing i don't 0.90

01:41:12.240 well see you don't know you are well i'll tell you i'll tell you so i'll tell let me let me let me

01:41:17.840 explain you as a you as a woman you only find 20 of men is attractive if you told me the last guy

01:41:23.920 you dated whatever showed me his picture guarantee he's in the top 20 of men i've never had any woman

01:41:29.920 prove me wrong on this okay i've never never never never he's probably top 20 percent of height

01:41:34.640 income something so knowing that you are competing with 22 year olds we just don't know it because 0.96

01:41:41.360 half of those men got hella bitches you know so you know and and but the problem is that's another 0.99

01:41:49.840 thing um why do i want a guy that's gonna be with hella bitches i want one man i'll answer this 1.00

01:41:58.640 question because you pick them now i know you might say i'm different and i'm an exception but i 0.97

01:42:04.400 don't believe you i think i think if you showed me yeah you could show me the last guy you you

01:42:11.360 dated whatever you know he would likely be in the top 20 of men and that's the thing women don't know

01:42:16.800 the reality of the people they're dating so we we think we're the only one and we're special and we're

01:42:22.160 not competing but it's a competition baby y'all's fair and love and war you know you know what tall

01:42:28.160 short big small it really doesn't matter i found that when it comes to women only one thing really 1.00

01:42:36.640 matters and it's the size of your schlong 0.97

01:42:44.960 i'm screwed i'm screwed but i'm screwed or a small one yeah that's good pause yeah exactly 0.93

01:42:55.680 okay i was in new york um i must have hit london yeah can you pull up can you pull up the next tweet 0.97

01:43:03.280 that no not that one the next one i sent you on instagram she's getting bare views right now i 1.00

01:43:07.840 know yeah yeah you look good though yeah stop simping stop simping like this is it's not simping

01:43:14.560 she goes keep it real she's trying to keep it real you don't want me to say you don't want me to

01:43:19.920 say what i was going to say i don't want to throw you underneath the bus my guy all right cool i don't

01:43:23.040 want to say all right cool i'll let you out don't send me up she looks okay she looks okay in that

01:43:29.920 short but it's probably filters and stuff no i sent you another one king just now just now it's the last

01:43:35.120 one but yeah and these women and so then it's like they'll they'll it's really weird women have this 1.00

01:43:42.720 thing where they start to like psychoanalyze me you know that's why i did my therapy video you know

01:43:48.480 but i feel like you're gonna come up way more messed up after that therapy session i know i know

01:43:53.440 i know that's a therapy sessions usually due to women i mean when i saw that you come through the 1.00

01:43:59.120 door and i was like no not did you tell me you was doing that i just started laughing i was just like

01:44:03.920 okay yeah so i had um this this chick on twitter she seems like the only one that lives in reality 0.94

01:44:09.920 you guys should follow her because everyone she's a woman in her 30s she's in her 30s this woman 1.00

01:44:15.920 and um she doesn't cry when i say that the 30 something year olds are less hot than the 20 0.95

01:44:23.360 something you're i love her i'm a fan and so she tweets men are most attractive at 30 than at 80.

01:44:31.200 now tell me why don't i have male selfies now where are the men arguing and saying

01:44:40.240 you know where mine got millions of views this only got 8 000 where where was the

01:44:46.240 why why is it that men can accept like i i would say men maybe peak around i don't know 45 35 depending

01:44:54.080 on the because the 80 year olds don't have the internet that's true

01:45:04.320 or or if i said you know women prefer rich men to poor men do you think they'd tweet me their bank

01:45:10.560 it counts the men just excited they say well i know this one poor man to be fair i mean i think

01:45:20.640 80 is like is pushing it a bit but i mean certainly i i have seen debate on twitter recently about like

01:45:25.360 this this whole older guy thing because a lot of women and some some sort of simply guys are pushing 0.94

01:45:30.000 back on the idea that men you know get better with age oh they they get better with age that well

01:45:34.880 there's there's a lot of women uh women who are trying to sort of redress the balance of the wall 1.00

01:45:39.520 and saying like oh it's it's complete bs to say that women get better in their 30s and 40s what age

01:45:44.080 do you think men peak at 47 i'll i'll be honest okay so okay so i've said this last time like and i think

01:45:53.040 there seem to be something that as you get older it gets worse because because i think we had an image

01:45:57.360 of what older men looked like when was younger yeah and i'll be honest with you like if you looked at your

01:46:01.520 teacher if you looked at certain people that are overweight they didn't have a good life but this

01:46:05.680 when i look at you know some of the men in the men of the world today in their 50s 60s and how they

01:46:10.880 live and what they've done they look crazy crazy really enjoying right and me as a man that's going

01:46:15.440 to be my 40s in the next decade right everyone's oh you look so young you've got a young spirit it's

01:46:19.120 because the world hasn't crushed me bro yeah yeah i think i think it's very i think it's very dependent

01:46:24.000 on the guy to be honest i think a lot of men become crushed by the time it's like if the world hasn't

01:46:29.360 crushed you if you haven't felt that like i don't have any kids i haven't had like no

01:46:33.360 women take me to court taking my kids no baby mama drama like i enjoy the things that i do my personal

01:46:37.600 life i'm not struggling like you're not going to feel but a lot of men by the time they get to this

01:46:41.200 they have been beaten up yeah it's crazy because because when you said when you said that she was

01:46:46.320 like 39 yeah you know me as 30 i looked at you was like he looks great i'm gonna look great at 39

01:46:52.960 so question what on average what age do you think men peak at well i i think

01:46:58.800 i think 30s and definitely late 30s i think are really good i mean late 30s for me were really

01:47:03.120 really good i have to say better than my 20s a lot better than my 20s i think i enjoyed yeah

01:47:09.200 but it's only now i'm getting my gears like i'm starting i'm really enjoying now so i don't even

01:47:14.160 so i'm kind of confused and all the things that i want to do and plan to do it's going to come with

01:47:18.720 time so it's only going to get better right that's what i think oh how old is andrew tate 36.

01:47:25.040 okay so i have a question just raise i'm just curious raise your hands who thinks men peak

01:47:29.280 at 25. definitely not who thinks men peak at 30. i think it can begin just raise it please raise

01:47:37.360 hands okay let's who thinks men peak at 35 30 35 okay who thinks men peak at 40.

01:47:45.520 who thinks men peak at 50. i still think that too yeah okay so we've gotten like 47 49. i mean i

01:48:01.600 i didn't i didn't i didn't meet my wife until my late 30s and uh i'm 43 and to to you know his point

01:48:08.320 earlier i'm i'm pretty happily married i pearl and i were having this discussion earlier that you know i

01:48:13.440 actually don't feel bitter bitter towards women because i have a woman a wife that respects me

01:48:18.160 she admires me she's not beating me she's not hitting on me she doesn't have guy friends she

01:48:22.800 goes meets for drinks she doesn't happy though she's not well she's not high maintenance she's 0.54

01:48:29.680 a great mother she's a great mother so there are a portion of men who were able to get a lot of women 0.97

01:48:35.040 they were ladies men they were great with getting women and they're actually able to get a wife that 0.95

01:48:39.840 respects them and loves them and honestly for i would say that as art the second oldest guy in

01:48:44.640 the room i really do think that marriage and starting a family is the happiest way in existence

01:48:50.080 for a man and being with a bunch of women and then be loyal to your wife and have her be loyal to you

01:48:54.560 if you find a good woman yeah and that's the closest you'll be to god how long have you guys been married

01:48:59.840 for i've been i've only had one woman since my late 30s okay nice have you ever cheated you know

01:49:12.400 i mean how many times have you cheated sorry no no no because because because honestly like all jokes

01:49:17.360 aside i don't like to joke around about you know three things one is uh homosexuality the other 0.59

01:49:22.640 marriage about pedophilia and the other is about adultery so once i got once i you look here this is my

01:49:27.600 my finger if you can see it i can see it once i got that ring on i i get on you and i have a

01:49:32.880 daughter so you know i don't want my daughter to grow up without a father yeah okay good did you

01:49:39.120 that's adultery in mainstream society in our cinema in the united states we've normalized adultery that's 1.00

01:49:44.560 a top ten commandment as a man of faith i'm against that i have a very strong view on that when you

01:49:49.600 when you met her how did you know that she was the one how did you know right this is this is this is

01:49:54.560 it for now you know you know when i met her i was doing private equity deals and despite having

01:49:59.760 a you know pretty good income she didn't know that i was successful i met her at an airbnb i was

01:50:04.960 staying like a hippie in a tiny room in in on a spanish island and the the host said to me there's

01:50:11.760 two german girls in the other room and when i got on the balcony i saw the way her eyes lit up when she 0.99

01:50:16.880 saw me i honestly feel like as a man that one of the best things you can do is not show flash if you

01:50:24.080 can't if you can't get a woman driving a regular car if you can't get a woman without showing like 1.00

01:50:29.120 whatever is the best woman you can get without showing off anything just off you yeah that is

01:50:35.920 that is the real you that is a woman that really really loves you for who you are and to your point

01:50:41.760 when you said earlier is she with you on a day that's bad my wife was with me when i got sick once

01:50:48.480 or for example one day i was bleeding and i couldn't stand on my feet my wife held me my wife

01:50:53.840 held me you know what i'm saying and i met the world to you to this day you still would never forget

01:50:57.840 that moment i'll never forget that yeah yeah exactly and to your point you know you you're very mature

01:51:04.240 to understand that in your 20s um it's because i've been around i've literally been in the clubs i've

01:51:09.600 been around i've had i've had fun across the world and then eventually men get to this point where

01:51:15.520 it's always cold like it's just cold you could be around as many girls as you want but until you

01:51:20.960 find the right woman that can actually i think emptiness yeah it's a it's a empty lonely road for

01:51:27.520 men you know why bro because there seems to be something like i said this before um like for men

01:51:33.760 women tend to think that being single for men is lit like it can be lit it can be lit let me not let me 0.97

01:51:39.360 let me let me let me let me know it can be lit but everything gets boring after a while right and

01:51:46.960 everything becomes empty and especially with age like you start understanding done i want to start

01:51:52.720 sounding like all these spirits energy and a transfer of energy and i really don't want to be transferring

01:52:02.080 my energy with someone that i just don't want you know what i mean that's very that's a very good

01:52:05.760 point and that's one of the that's one of the problems with if you're leading a lifestyle that's

01:52:09.280 a bit more promiscuous because what you're actually doing is is you're bringing a lot of different

01:52:13.680 energies into your life and some of those energies are not necessarily very good so yeah so essentially

01:52:18.800 right so when you so people forget so when you sleep around right cool you sleep around people you

01:52:22.960 got from remember whatever you're sleeping around with you become and so if she's trash girl then 1.00

01:52:28.960 technically if you allow her access to you then you become trash and i know sometimes men don't want to 0.95

01:52:32.640 think like yeah i think right what are you what are you thinking no no sleep around no no no no 0.76

01:52:38.880 because she might no because she might sleep with some guy that's my up and he's got bad energy now 1.00

01:52:43.920 i come and lay down with her and now his energy is transferring to me and now i've got bad luck in

01:52:47.840 my life like there's certain times you link certain girls and all of a sudden once you your whole life

01:52:52.560 is going to be ruined now yeah i believe those because those are demon going demon time bro you're

01:52:56.400 a hundred percent on point because i got to this point where i like i literally my mentality changed my

01:53:02.160 mentality changed as a guy just stopped interacting with like if i see a whole bunch of guys talking

01:53:06.560 to one girl and she comes over to talk to me i'm just like nah you go talk to those guys and engage

01:53:10.800 with those guys yeah i like but what if she's not interested in those guys and she's interested in

01:53:14.960 you i think that's like sure i i i'm interested in what your your face was just kind of funny when

01:53:20.080 he was talking about the energy so what were you no i kind of i i kind of agree with him on the energy

01:53:27.200 scene look here's the thing right i think there's there's two sides to this right i think on the one

01:53:30.880 hand you know your story beautiful story and i'm i'm glad you know i'm really happy for you man

01:53:34.720 because that sounds brilliant and that's the kind of woman that's the kind of woman that i think we

01:53:38.400 would all we would all like to meet i do i do think though it's not necessarily easy in this day and age

01:53:43.520 to meet a woman of that caliber and the other the other issue that i've got is that i yeah it's sleeping

01:53:49.360 around it kind of gets old on the one hand but in another way it kind of doesn't you know what i mean

01:53:53.760 and i think guys are always going to have that and it's great you know you can make you can make that

01:53:57.520 value you can make that commitment to yourself and to your wife that you're not gonna you're

01:54:00.800 gonna be monogamous and that's absolutely fine people can absolutely make that choice but for

01:54:04.800 me i think that would be difficult because i would you know that moment be honest be honest you know

01:54:11.600 that moment no because that will be going against you know my fundamental belief male male no not beliefs

01:54:17.840 my fundamental male drive which is basically variety i think we all want security and we all want variety

01:54:23.040 at the same time but that's the problem i can be honest with you yeah like listen at this point

01:54:27.440 where i can have as much variety as i want i can do whatever i want i can have variety every single

01:54:31.840 day i want and live my best life but the whole point of when you have all this variety in actual

01:54:35.920 fact you don't want can i can i that's true that's true wait wait wait but it's like you've only

01:54:41.920 you're 39 you're not married so you've never even really tried monogamy what do you mean like what

01:54:46.960 what's real true monogamy well how long is it no so so so i mean if you think about true monogamy

01:54:55.200 is one partner for a lifetime yeah but it's like people are monogamous for like two years and then

01:55:00.560 they hear like oh that's not my fault i'm not i'm not i know i'm not saying like but i'm saying like

01:55:06.480 it's interesting because people push monogamy but i really like what is true have you really done it

01:55:11.680 like seven years eight years no no really because a true marriage is like 50 years if you like

01:55:17.840 typically right we live to be 80 90 so it's like you know it's it's interesting because i have a hard

01:55:24.560 time believing that if you were 10 20 30 years in you would have zero drive to do anything okay okay

01:55:33.520 okay you're talking about 10 20 30 years in yeah okay i'm not going to talk about that i want to talk

01:55:38.240 about right now yeah no because i because she's saying i don't know okay we can't look into the

01:55:42.160 future i would say that's that's the path i want to go along pearl's not so convinced cool what's that

01:55:47.120 what's i'm not convinced the monogamous um no no no i'm not i'm not saying you don't mean it i i think

01:55:56.160 i think i'm just i'm a bit more of like a realist right so wait wait wait please don't

01:56:01.040 let me finish let me finish yes and i think men will always have the drive to cheat yeah that's true 0.72

01:56:18.160 please don't please stop okay so so and i'm saying that i think that in a 20 30 40 year marriage

01:56:25.920 you would have that drive not every man acts on it but like this idea that like you you're just

01:56:32.880 going to only want monogamy for a lifetime really because he's trying to get this point on for a

01:56:39.920 minute now i've been trying to get this one i agree with you can i make can i make one point you see

01:56:44.480 you're saying at the moment you're saying yeah it gets old it gets you know and the bad energies and

01:56:48.320 blah blah blah and that's fine but like paul said what if you're what if you're 20 years in with some

01:56:52.960 some part of the sexist like like you're you're living in the lap of luxury let me just say one

01:56:59.440 thing i think two things i think the two things could be true at the same time i think i think monogamy

01:57:04.400 um is a desirable thing i get why people want it i get why people want that security but i also think

01:57:09.280 that you can't just wish your way around the desire for for for variety so be honest be honest right

01:57:17.280 now be honest you know that moment that everybody goes through when they all when they're single for a

01:57:22.000 long time and you get home after hooking up with a girl whatever yeah and it's just quiet in your

01:57:26.800 house yeah and you just feel that emptiness yeah empty you you know what i'm talking we've all been

01:57:31.600 at that position where you're sitting here you have all these girls in your phone but as soon as you 0.87

01:57:34.640 get home the house is just empty yeah can i can actually can i well that's like every sunday for me

01:57:43.120 i'd also like to point out that there's no guarantee that you wouldn't feel lonely in a marriage i know

01:57:48.000 many men i interview men all the time that felt extremely lonely in a marriage so this idea that

01:57:54.480 like you get married and like all of the sudden you'll never feel lonely again if you're lucky

01:57:59.680 yeah but that's why but that's the reason i tell people all the time don't don't focus so much on

01:58:05.680 the love of your marriage build something outside of your marriage so you have one two most people just

01:58:10.720 get in love and have relationships they get it together and then the love is what keeps them together

01:58:14.320 well i just think yeah at this stage right i at this stage you're looking to settle down

01:58:19.280 no no no no i will yeah i will look to settle down but i'm not chasing it yeah

01:58:25.520 can i just say women always want men that experience so how do you think they're going 0.99

01:58:28.480 to get the experience unless they fuck about oh whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa at 30 right 1.00

01:58:33.440 because women will complain to be like oh they don't know how to have sex properly 1.00

01:58:36.400 i like this i like that they have to go out and actually experiencing it she's right yeah she's

01:58:41.120 right but the point can i just can i just say the point the point that these guys are making

01:58:47.200 about this sort of the emptiness of the loneliness and the x the existential gloom of the the bachelor

01:58:51.840 you know playboy lifestyle is absolutely true but that doesn't mean that monogamy is brilliant

01:58:56.160 either true so in the end do you have to choose your own poison no no i think listen to this i'll be

01:59:01.760 honest with you that's our life i mean i think there's there's winners and losers in life i think

01:59:06.320 there's some bachelor content yeah yeah i mean i think there's some bachelors that but i don't

01:59:10.960 think we should be i don't know i think there's some family men that have an amazing like it just

01:59:15.440 but i don't think we should be i don't know like i i don't think we should be shooting it down because

01:59:19.200 you know you don't you don't you don't you don't sound like you got faith in me like pearl

01:59:23.840 i'll tell you i'll tell you what what i don't have faith in what i do have i

01:59:30.000 i i think in general most men like yourself would like to settle down and have a family yeah yeah i think

01:59:36.160 in general, the men that want to and find the right girl will do it. Okay. Um, whether, you

01:59:41.440 know, I think that's increasingly tougher in today's market. I think there's going to be a

01:59:45.140 lot of guys that don't find a girl that's worth the risk in all honesty, but I think it's selling

01:59:51.180 a dream to say that men will be happy monogamous for a lifetime. I typically find that the men

01:59:56.820 that say that have not been married long enough for me to really consider it monogamy. It's one

02:00:03.140 thing to say it in your thirties and your forties, but fifties sixties seventies, you know, life,

02:00:10.080 life is long. So, you know, true monogamy, I think we've almost lost what true monogamy

02:00:15.460 is because how many people have been with one partner for a lifetime? And then you get to

02:00:20.640 60 and then your wife decides to leave because she hasn't lived in full life yet. This is 0.66

02:00:27.480 not to hate on anybody. This is not like I genuinely, I love, I love it when like I get stories all

02:00:32.600 the time of people sending me like they're, oh, I'm so happy. I used to work and I did

02:00:36.980 like, I watched your show. I stopped working. I stayed home or like I did, you know, I get

02:00:41.200 these stories all the time and it's like, it warms my heart a little bit, especially, especially

02:00:45.460 when I like find out there's like women that, you know, think kind of the same way. I get

02:00:49.300 a little, you know, but, but it doesn't, what? I know I will in a second, but it doesn't,

02:00:54.400 you know, discount reality. Yeah. And I feel like every time I come here, a little bit

02:00:59.260 or my marriage dream gets crushed. I'll tell you what I believe will be the

02:01:03.640 future. And this isn't, I don't say this in a happy way, but I think we're going to

02:01:07.700 see birth rates similar to Japan. Japan is at 0.52. That's their birth rate.

02:01:12.700 Wowza. It's gone down. Yeah. Yeah. Um, I, you know, um, there's different reasons. The

02:01:18.480 women, yeah, I think we're going to see the people that are sexless go up. Is that a government 1.00

02:01:22.800 thing though? Well, yeah, I mean, there's a lot of things going on. I don't, I don't, I don't really

02:01:26.380 know. I don't know Japan's like culture economy like that. I just, if I had to

02:01:30.680 guess South Korea is similar, I think the trends seem to start there and then

02:01:35.860 they come here. You've got a big incel culture though as well, haven't you? In

02:01:39.720 Japan. So I think maybe, well, I think that's going to, I think that's going to 0.99

02:01:43.540 increase too. I think there's going to be more incels here. I mean, the quality of

02:01:47.360 life is going downhill anyway. So there's a lot of factors. I think you're going to, I

02:01:50.720 think men just naturally weigh the risks and the rewards. And I think right now the

02:01:54.960 women are less rewarding than ever. And the risks are higher than ever. Some 1.00

02:01:58.860 guys will find their unicorn and I think that's beautiful, but I'm not in the

02:02:02.080 business of selling. I'll be honest with you, my worst nightmare, I've said it

02:02:05.720 before, and I don't know if I said it on this platform, but my worst nightmare is

02:02:09.060 being a baby daddy on a weekend dad. And the reason why I said it is because

02:02:14.600 first of all, I need my weekends. I've got stuff to do. I get busy, but nothing more

02:02:19.580 expensive than paying for a child outside of, basically you're financing two

02:02:22.560 homes. But more importantly, it's like, what can I do within that day and a

02:02:26.160 half? There's nothing I can do, right? And because of that, and because I'm

02:02:29.820 passionate, you guys, I'm a very passionate person. And I know what girls

02:02:33.180 can do to me. Like, no girl can do anything unless you have leverage over me 1.00

02:02:37.480 so I can walk away. The moment you have my child, I have to call you back.

02:02:40.280 Yeah.

02:02:40.600 I have to call. Every single time I have to call. Well, some men don't. 0.82

02:02:42.980 You're right. And that's, that's the issue is even if you don't get married, you

02:02:46.500 still are entered into a system where the women automatically have 1.00

02:02:50.580 leverage. And when women get leverage, for some reason, we do the wrong thing. 1.00

02:02:54.180 It's true.

02:02:54.620 Now, I'm not, I'm not saying that there aren't women that are awesome and 0.98

02:02:58.200 special, but I just think if I had to predict 10 years in the future, I don't

02:03:02.720 say that I'm, I'm not in the business of selling dreams. I'm not a Steve Harvey

02:03:06.180 type of chick. You know what I mean? I just think I would predict that 0.95

02:03:10.300 marriages will go down. I would predict there's going to be less children and

02:03:14.060 families. And I would predict that half of the women will be single, a quarter

02:03:18.260 divorced and a quarter married. And out of the married ones, it's like kind of

02:03:23.100 half and half with happiness, you know? So I'm just, you know, I'm not happy

02:03:28.980 about this, but you know, until I see, I would really love to see Elon Musk. I see

02:03:34.220 him pushing for families and I would really love to see him pushing for family

02:03:38.440 court reform. Cause I think that's when you'll start to see men saying, okay, you

02:03:42.980 know, yeah, she did only fans, but now she can't steal my children, you know? 1.00

02:03:47.820 You know, and I don't start, not only, I'm just only fans is a joke, but, but you

02:03:53.700 guys get the idea. Like, yeah. Okay. The women, they have problems, but we can work 1.00

02:03:57.620 with them. She can't leave me and take my shit. 1.00

02:03:59.820 Yeah. Although I think, was it even Matt Walsh? I mean, the one thing that Matt 1.00

02:04:03.140 Walsh was probably right about, um, when he was on, he did his little segment about you

02:04:07.620 recently on his show pub was that the family court reform is going to take so

02:04:11.400 long, you know, it would take a long time, wouldn't it, to change those laws.

02:04:15.320 And so that is the question of, well, what did the dudes do now? You know, that's

02:04:19.020 the issue. It's not really necessarily what I tell people to do. I'm just saying

02:04:23.620 this is going, if we, if the laws do not change, this will happen. Like there is no,

02:04:29.080 there, I don't see any evidence to suggest otherwise. Yeah. But it's very

02:04:33.420 interesting to see a guy like China, who's from a completely different culture to me, 1.00

02:04:37.220 completely different side of the world. And we have similar values about, I don't

02:04:40.640 want to be a Debbie dad. I don't want to be the baby daddy. I, that's. 0.98

02:04:44.300 Can I tell you something you said to me, come from a single part of me from a

02:04:46.940 single, um, mother home. Right. And it's, so you have the men that are raised from a 0.88

02:04:51.920 single mother. You said you saw a struggle, right? You saw those things, right?

02:04:54.540 Yeah. And it's funny that you would think that most men that would see that

02:04:58.220 their mother struggling would go out to become the best version of themselves. 1.00

02:05:01.380 And, you know, to be the man that their dad wasn't around, but they tend to go and

02:05:04.340 recreate the exact same thing they come from. So, but then you

02:05:07.180 get the other hand, men like you that won't get that, but they will see their

02:05:11.020 mom's struggle and they're actually going to be like, right, I want to become

02:05:13.420 married and they haven't seen it. And it's weird because I have friends on the

02:05:17.560 other side and have also friends on the other side, on the other side. And, and

02:05:20.980 when I just hear it, it's just makes me think that why is it that men want that?

02:05:25.840 Why is it that you, why do you feel that's something that you need to provide?

02:05:28.420 Is that something, is it because you didn't have it? Is it because you saw your mom struggle?

02:05:31.180 I would never want any child to feel the way I felt when I was younger.

02:05:34.180 Sorry, what was that? It was basically my father would call me. He called me one time

02:05:39.020 on my birthday. He said, what you want? What you want for your birthday? By that time,

02:05:41.420 50 Cent was popular. Yeah. He's like, yo, I could buy you this new 50 Cent game that

02:05:44.960 just came out. And I'm like, nah, I just want to hang out with you. Bulletproof. Yeah.

02:05:47.720 But yeah, you know, I was like, no. Bulletproof is fire. Finished it. But still got the game.

02:05:54.460 But yeah. And I said, I just want to hang out with you. He says, okay, I'll come, I'm

02:05:59.060 come pick you up and get some ice cream. Okay. I'll be sitting downstairs waiting. Hour

02:06:03.560 past, still waiting. My mother come downstairs. Hey, you want to go get some ice cream and

02:06:08.220 go do these different type of things? So it's people handle it differently. You know,

02:06:12.260 everyone goes through trauma. Every single person has some kind of form of trauma, maybe

02:06:16.360 from their childhood. Everyone goes through trauma. But as a guy, you adapt from it. You

02:06:20.720 use that as a shrink. Yeah. But as a guy, for me to see that into, you know, me and my brother

02:06:25.820 went through the same thing. Our mentalities are completely different. But to see that

02:06:28.960 and to see how hard she worked, to see how she had us like 15, 16 years old. It's not

02:06:33.180 why you want a strong woman, because you saw your mom being a strong woman. So you want

02:06:36.140 a strong woman to build her? I knew if she had somebody as diligent as her next to her, 0.99

02:06:40.280 it would have been even more epic. You know what? But you know, it's possible that because

02:06:45.740 she was a strong woman, that's why she didn't have a stable relationship. I think that she 0.99

02:06:50.020 was just too young, too immature at the time. And this is just like from interviewing

02:06:54.380 like hundreds of people. Because I find that... But that is true. That is true. She was very...

02:06:58.780 I kind of find like when I find men that like, and this isn't like a personal thing, but like,

02:07:03.660 but it's like when I find that guys that want the strong women tend to come from single

02:07:08.720 mother homes. Not really. I don't want to use the word strong. Let's use digitally.

02:07:12.340 Yeah, but when they use traits that tend to describe more masculine, it's because they usually

02:07:17.500 had a masculine mom. Hey, you know what, Pearl? Actually, you know, I have a theory. It's like,

02:07:21.780 you know, Deion Sanders, I think his father wasn't there. His uncle wasn't really there.

02:07:26.580 And he's just this amazing father. He's an amazing family man. So, you know, with me,

02:07:30.720 I grew up with a single mother who was very strong. And, you know...

02:07:34.360 And you married a little now.

02:07:35.420 Well, hold on. Well, my wife gives me something I never had. And my mom was very loving to me.

02:07:43.740 It almost seemed like it might have been a chore for my mom to love me, man. She didn't have that warm,

02:07:49.160 warm love towards me. So, you know what I did? Hold on. You know what I did? I picked a wife

02:07:53.060 that, by disposition, is very warm, cuddly, friendly, patient. Just the nicest, sweetest woman.

02:08:00.980 One of the nicest, sweetest women I've ever met. And you know what she does for my daughter? 1.00

02:08:04.120 She'll wake up at three, five, six. It doesn't matter. She is an outstanding mother and extremely

02:08:10.460 warm to my daughter. And I just want to say something to you, man. I can buy a lot of things

02:08:14.540 as a high net worth individual. But I can't buy a warm, loving mother from my daughter.

02:08:19.420 And that's the one thing I can't buy. So that's what I got from my daughter.

02:08:22.240 It's crazy that you say that because that's literally the one thing my mother said to me

02:08:26.400 when I started growing up. She said,

02:08:28.740 I wish I hugged you more. You know, she said... She literally looked at me.

02:08:32.740 That's deep, man. I wish I hugged you more.

02:08:34.360 My mom never said that to you.

02:08:35.540 But she probably got that from her mother. It's normally generational...

02:08:38.220 Her mother... That's deep. That's deep. She said that, man.

02:08:40.540 Yeah. You know? And I was just like, yeah, but I got the point.

02:08:44.620 How old's your mom? 0.58

02:08:46.180 Young. Like, I don't know. She's about to be 50, 49, 48, around that age.

02:08:50.660 That's like the age. That's what I call like the age of shitty wives, to be honest. 1.00

02:08:55.320 It's like 40 to 60 because it's like they either like fucked up. 1.00

02:08:59.160 They either got divorced, had a kid out of wedlock. 0.98

02:09:02.160 No, she was married. My mother was married. She just had us at a very young age.

02:09:05.820 She got married. She got divorced though, right?

02:09:08.380 No, she's actually... She's still married. 0.99

02:09:10.200 Oh, I totally thought you said divorced.

02:09:12.740 No, they're just not together, but she's still married.

02:09:15.240 Okay, but they're not... They're not... Okay, so why'd you... What was the point of that?

02:09:19.000 I'm just saying.

02:09:19.780 Okay, so they're not together. Okay, so...

02:09:22.160 But, like, the technicality. All right, so 40 to 60, like, it's the generation I call, like, shitty wives 1.00

02:09:29.280 because the 60 to 80-year-olds told their daughters to always have a backup plan, go to work. 1.00

02:09:34.480 40 to 60, they tended to...

02:09:37.540 They were the ones that got divorced. 0.60

02:09:38.880 They were the ones that had the careers and, like, were kind of the more masculine ones

02:09:44.400 because they had the wrong information from their moms.

02:09:46.420 That's just kind of what I found.

02:09:47.120 I have a question, though.

02:09:48.520 What is this obsession with the Western world and this...

02:09:53.280 We need hugs and cuddles and all this unfettered love from our parents.

02:10:01.140 King grew up in Nigeria with a heart.

02:10:03.740 Like, life is tough.

02:10:06.100 Your parents go through a lot to provide for you to make sure you don't die, to make sure you literally survive.

02:10:11.920 And then people grow up and they're complaining, oh, my mom didn't hug me enough.

02:10:15.320 Like, what the hell is that?

02:10:16.200 Nah, King, you know what?

02:10:18.500 King, King, King, King, King.

02:10:20.720 I think African and Middle Eastern culture do have some similarities, especially in particular because of Islam.

02:10:26.780 So, as a Middle Eastern man, my father was Iranian, my mother's Jewish, but my father built the toughness in me.

02:10:33.400 And I think that a lot of Middle Eastern fathers have that in common with African fathers.

02:10:37.160 And I say that respectfully.

02:10:38.060 And one last thing, I live in a German village, basically, in a German city.

02:10:42.480 And in the German city that I live, almost the little village that we are, so many people are happily married.

02:10:48.800 And so many people live long lives.

02:10:50.440 It's a simple lifestyle.

02:10:51.860 When you come to these big cities, you see this ratchetness, this gutterness.

02:10:56.120 And respond to King as a Westerner.

02:10:57.880 But wait, it's coming.

02:10:59.220 As a Westerner.

02:10:59.660 Wait, it's coming.

02:11:01.880 It doesn't really matter.

02:11:03.100 I get messages from people in the country.

02:11:06.180 And some places, I would say, are 20 years behind.

02:11:09.360 But if you look at birth rates, promiscuity rates, it's all spreading.

02:11:16.100 Abortion rates.

02:11:17.360 Sorry to be doom and gloom and join the decline.

02:11:20.380 Can I just say something back to King?

02:11:23.040 So, King's bringing some, like, alpha masculinity into the dialogue here.

02:11:27.020 Because, actually, if you go back generations, if you go back to my grandparents' generation and then my great-grandparents' generation,

02:11:33.220 also, actually, the parental role, particularly the father, you know, the father was often kind of absent.

02:11:39.160 The father was out doing his stuff, you know, going and doing his business.

02:11:41.700 He wasn't – fathers were often these very remote, distant figures.

02:11:45.040 And motherly love, you know, sometimes it would depend on the woman.

02:11:47.700 But is it a case that we've become – and I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but are we becoming somewhat softened, you know?

02:11:53.540 So we feel this need for this great love for our parents.

02:11:55.860 I mean, back in the day, kids in Britain, you know, in the upper classes, you'd just get sent away to school at the age of seven. 0.99

02:12:00.860 They wouldn't even see their fucking parents. 0.98

02:12:02.200 True, but I do believe there's a certain amount of love that young men need, young boys need, man. 1.00

02:12:07.500 Especially in the pivotal point when they're dealing with their masculinity, with testosterone in the teenage years.

02:12:11.940 And, once again, I don't want to keep talking about that, you know, that issue with the girl that got stabbed at R.I.P., Liana.

02:12:16.640 But, you know, she was stabbed by a 17-year-old boy.

02:12:18.800 And we don't know who raised him.

02:12:20.220 And one of the things I do want to ask is who raised him is because – like, one of the things I said, when you have teens that are struggling in their masculinity without a male role model in the house,

02:12:29.960 to teach them how to deal with it, I was quite – I went through the same thing.

02:12:33.940 I didn't – obviously, didn't end up on the wrong way of things.

02:12:36.660 But I know people that did.

02:12:38.560 And I was quite fortunate to have my father in my life.

02:12:41.200 But my dad was a diplomat, and he spent half of his life away traveling.

02:12:44.080 So then you still get the same effect because my mom raised me.

02:12:46.660 And when your mom raises you, you pick up some of the traits or reaction quick or whatever.

02:12:50.780 Where my dad is – actually, my dad is very calm, man.

02:12:53.640 He's never shied at me.

02:12:54.640 He's never raised his hand to me.

02:12:55.780 Nothing.

02:12:56.000 It comes down to one particular thing is my mother said, you have no empathy for people.

02:13:02.340 You don't feel soft.

02:13:03.680 You need a cat or a dog to take care of people because especially growing up in these inner cities, you grow up in these inner cities, you start to become very vicious.

02:13:10.440 Do you feel your dad was very loving even though he had a – he traveled a lot?

02:13:16.060 No, yeah, no.

02:13:18.080 Yes, yes, that's my guy.

02:13:19.740 Like, the only thing that – one of the things that I regret, not even regret, is just that he made so many – we were the first generation,

02:13:25.060 so he made so many sacrifices because of his job, right?

02:13:27.520 And it's just that – and I saw what my mom did as well.

02:13:30.120 My mom – all my sisters are business, like, bosses, and they're right, but they're all married, right?

02:13:34.200 And so was my mom.

02:13:34.840 She bought houses, did everything, but she always submitted to my dad.

02:13:36.660 But I just couldn't do that because out of everything my dad did, all I ever think is that I wanted more time with him.

02:13:43.140 Do you get me?

02:13:43.600 Yeah, yeah.

02:13:44.040 But in order for me to be here and have opportunities, he had to make that sacrifice.

02:13:46.660 I just feel like – I just feel like – because my dad was gone a lot growing up, like, working.

02:13:51.160 I'm like, eh, life goes on.

02:13:54.440 Sorry.

02:13:55.060 Yeah, but it's true because –

02:13:56.280 Sorry.

02:13:56.560 You know, it's like, ah, oh, well.

02:14:00.400 Yeah, but it's true because the one difference I notice is, like, in Africa, the reason why a lot of kids don't have this same kind of reaction –

02:14:09.060 Dependency.

02:14:09.700 Yeah, it's because from when you're young, if you're in the lower class, if you're born into a lower class, what tends to happen is you start to work from a very young age.

02:14:21.800 If you're born into a higher class, you get put into a lot of activities.

02:14:26.100 So, either ways, you're busy as a kid. 0.97

02:14:28.820 You're not sitting around waiting for your dad to come and hug you or your mom to come and do all of that crap. 0.99

02:14:34.240 Yeah. 0.97

02:14:34.420 Because reality is, the way we show love in Africa is by providing.

02:14:38.500 Yeah, exactly.

02:14:38.940 It's not about feelings.

02:14:40.740 It's, have you eaten today?

02:14:41.840 Yes.

02:14:42.380 Do you have a roof over your head?

02:14:43.620 Yes.

02:14:44.200 Yeah.

02:14:44.380 Are you sleeping on the streets?

02:14:46.080 No.

02:14:46.780 That's how you know your parents love you.

02:14:48.140 It's not by them telling you, oh, come, let me give you a hug and all that.

02:14:50.720 It doesn't mean that they don't love you.

02:14:52.100 I mean, it's so sad.

02:14:53.180 I don't, listen.

02:14:54.040 I travel a lot.

02:14:54.640 I travel a lot for work, just like your dad.

02:14:56.960 And, you know, I bet you your father missed you a lot, man.

02:14:59.840 I know I miss my daughter right now.

02:15:01.040 I won't see you.

02:15:01.500 I haven't seen her in about four or five days.

02:15:03.040 I miss her.

02:15:03.420 I bet your father missed you even though he was traveling.

02:15:05.880 Yeah.

02:15:06.020 But it's easier.

02:15:06.540 You can see your, you can get on the phone and you can see me.

02:15:09.940 We had to do the phone card.

02:15:10.920 You had to wait for the line to get, no, it was, you know, it was, it was those days.

02:15:15.220 Right.

02:15:15.520 And I just, it's only now, Pearl doesn't, Pearl, like, you know, Pearl had, Pearl, I had brothers and sisters, but it's only now I realize how limited time I've had with him.

02:15:24.680 That's all I'm saying to you.

02:15:25.580 Like, and because he lives in African travel still a lot, it's just that I realize the sacrifice is made.

02:15:31.640 And that's all it is.

02:15:32.340 I just think as you get older, you just start to see when everyone keeps talking about me, me, me.

02:15:36.500 Yeah.

02:15:37.040 I look at what my mom and dad did, and I don't think I, I couldn't be away from my woman or my woman be away from me just for our kids.

02:15:43.680 And that's all I'm saying, Pearl.

02:15:44.540 That's it.

02:15:44.900 Yeah.

02:15:45.080 No, no, I guarantee.

02:15:45.660 So I'm going to, I'm going to read Super Chats for a second, guys.

02:15:48.600 I haven't gotten to them all.

02:15:49.300 But your father did think about you a lot.

02:15:50.700 I guarantee you.

02:15:51.600 I know I think about my daughter.

02:15:53.320 Okay.

02:15:53.960 So Doug MPA says, who needs OnlyFans when you can follow Pearl on Instagram?

02:16:00.420 Yay! 0.99

02:16:02.940 What?

02:16:03.780 Hey, premium.

02:16:04.820 Premium.

02:16:05.520 Wow.

02:16:05.800 Keep calling out these old birds so they can keep sending pictures for research purposes.

02:16:14.440 90 Frito Pie.

02:16:16.000 If women didn't care what their friends thought of their boyfriend, they would be happier. 1.00

02:16:19.920 But the fact remains, they have to have their cake and eat it, too.

02:16:23.580 A beautiful 35-year-old will never be an ugly 19-year-old.

02:16:28.020 Patrice O'Neill.

02:16:28.920 It's hard to explain in text what women like, but it's too simple for men to get. 1.00

02:16:34.080 But FS Claire, when we are watching why men shouldn't get married, reality is questionable

02:16:40.620 when it highlights something they don't like.

02:16:43.580 In no other instance would we support people signing a contract rate or a contract with

02:16:48.800 a failure rate marriage has.

02:16:50.860 CryptoSmith.

02:16:51.740 Men don't divorce once they level up. 0.99

02:16:53.940 That's what women do. 1.00

02:16:54.880 Think about it.

02:16:55.460 Men don't care about their partner's finances or ability to provide. 0.99

02:16:59.120 Women care a lot about that. 1.00

02:17:00.900 Yeah, guys, that's why I say men are better people because when they get, yeah, yeah, yeah,

02:17:04.440 you think I'm kidding?

02:17:05.520 You think I'm kidding?

02:17:06.500 I know people think I troll, but like, I mean, you know, sometimes I might make jokes, but

02:17:11.660 usually you can tell when I say men are better people, I mean it to its entirety.

02:17:15.900 And the reason I mean it is because I look at what women have done when we've gotten 1.00

02:17:19.600 power and leverage and it's usually something along the lines of abusing men in the court

02:17:27.920 system, in the marriage system, at work, the women will cry and whine that the men harass 0.99

02:17:36.220 them at work.

02:17:38.440 And it's like, I just can't stand it.

02:17:40.840 It just drives me freaking nuts.

02:17:42.340 The men are harassed at work.

02:17:43.940 They don't complain.

02:17:45.120 They get bullied at work.

02:17:46.220 They don't whine.

02:17:46.660 And women just love to whine and complain. 1.00

02:17:49.360 And men, when they get money, they tend to provide for a wife and their kids.

02:17:53.280 When women get money, they tend to keep it for themselves, divorce their husbands. 1.00

02:17:58.840 And, you know, I'm not saying there aren't exceptional, amazing women. 0.96

02:18:01.860 There are.

02:18:02.280 But when I look at us as a whole, yeah, they're better people.

02:18:05.540 I don't know what to tell you.

02:18:07.220 Now, and, you know, and then I know the one argument I get is, well, the men commit the

02:18:11.680 crime.

02:18:12.100 And I'm like, well, that's like saying a woman that can't commit a crime. 1.00

02:18:15.280 Like, they can't do the stuff men do.

02:18:17.400 But when we look at infants and the elderly, you know who kills them the most? 0.99

02:18:20.620 Women. 0.99

02:18:21.060 It's like crazy. 0.99

02:18:22.600 Carlos.

02:18:23.240 Okay.

02:18:23.980 You're letting yourself get trolled, China. 0.97

02:18:26.020 Don't feed the troll. 0.93

02:18:27.980 Doug MPA.

02:18:28.440 I'm chilling now.

02:18:29.060 I'm chilling now. 1.00

02:18:29.420 Nina is a scumbag. 1.00

02:18:30.800 He says nothing of substance and is crass for no reason. 1.00

02:18:33.600 Please don't have him on the show again.

02:18:35.300 Easily one of the worst guests.

02:18:37.360 Hat of police.

02:18:38.500 Who is it now?

02:18:39.400 Whose show is it?

02:18:40.580 Roadman.

02:18:41.460 Doug MPA.

02:18:42.300 Everyone listen to the Mandem's voice.

02:18:44.480 China.

02:18:44.900 He's the realest out in the streets. 0.98

02:18:46.820 New York black dude would build an empire with a woman? 1.00

02:18:49.640 Question mark. 0.99

02:18:51.200 Bro is talking like a textbook simp. 0.99

02:18:53.380 Too many American black men are simps. 1.00

02:18:56.420 Parkules. 1.00

02:18:57.080 Look up the articles.

02:18:58.140 Women are more likely to delete children if the woman loses custody. 1.00

02:19:02.340 Men are more likely to delete themselves.

02:19:05.600 Yeah, guys.

02:19:06.580 Guys, I just have to be honest.

02:19:09.380 Like, I'm just an honest person.

02:19:11.560 And every time, at first, I didn't actually think like this, but I kept looking at data

02:19:16.100 and numbers. 0.98

02:19:17.420 And I was like, goddamn, ladies, this is not good. 0.99

02:19:20.600 Like, okay, enter Black Dragon. 0.99

02:19:23.460 The problem with modern marriages is the fact that women expect to be taken care of for the 1.00

02:19:27.420 rest of their lives while men only have a wife until she finds better options or time 0.99

02:19:33.220 gets hard.

02:19:34.380 Doug MPA, follow Pearl on Twitter, not Instagram.

02:19:39.080 Sorry.

02:19:40.400 Yeah, you gave. 0.82

02:19:41.160 I was like, what the hell? 0.90

02:19:42.460 Stop speaking on my Insta.

02:19:45.620 I was like, my Insta's not like that.

02:19:48.540 Okay.

02:19:49.840 There's a difference between a wife and a woman who is married. 1.00

02:19:52.360 A wife represents a family and a husband by letting people know the world that she is married.

02:19:57.280 Actually, I have a question.

02:19:58.080 Do you think the majority of married women today are wives? 0.99

02:20:07.100 Wait, is that what?

02:20:09.140 I'm talking about like future wives or traditional wives.

02:20:11.940 No, no.

02:20:12.440 So I think there's a difference between someone who's married and a wife. 0.71

02:20:16.800 You know, Cardi B is married. 1.00

02:20:18.440 Is she a wife? 1.00

02:20:19.580 So, you know, when I think of a wife, this is what I think of personally.

02:20:24.600 Maybe you guys have a different thought.

02:20:26.320 But I think the number one thing as a wife that you need to do, it's actually not cooking. 1.00

02:20:32.100 It's not wearing a dress.

02:20:33.360 It's not cleaning.

02:20:34.440 Okay.

02:20:34.920 I think it's obeying your husband and submitting to his authority.

02:20:40.600 I know women that I would consider traditional and they put the family first too.

02:20:44.680 But I consider them traditional and they don't know how to cook.

02:20:48.020 They don't know how to clean.

02:20:49.200 Their house, they outsource everything.

02:20:51.140 This is an exception.

02:20:51.920 Most Americans can't live like this.

02:20:53.740 But they literally outsource everything and she works where her husband tells her to work.

02:20:58.060 She does what her husband tells her to do.

02:21:00.740 And that's it.

02:21:01.900 And I would still consider her traditional because she's still putting the family first.

02:21:05.740 They just have a different strategy of how to do it.

02:21:07.880 Right?

02:21:08.640 So that's my question.

02:21:10.660 Are the majority of women married today? 1.00

02:21:13.120 Do they obey their husbands? 1.00

02:21:14.580 And submit to his authority and put the family first?

02:21:19.520 By that definition, absolutely not.

02:21:21.100 Because of a divorce race, then no. 0.99

02:21:23.560 I mean, we really should not scold women for being narcissistic, selfish, terrible, or bad. 0.97

02:21:30.960 They were born that way. 0.96

02:21:34.220 It's not their fault.

02:21:36.280 I think a lot of women, certainly that I've come into contact with in London, it's a cliche to say it, but they want the wedding. 1.00

02:21:49.700 They want the Instagram wedding.

02:21:51.060 They like the idea of it.

02:21:52.640 I think they like the actual business of being married less than they like the idea of it.

02:21:58.520 So it's more of a sort of a box-ticking exercise where it's like, right, I'm 28, right, okay, I better get a ring on it and, you know, do all the stuff.

02:22:08.260 And then five, six years later, you know, go south, they get divorced, and that's it.

02:22:12.640 I actually forgot one thing I wanted to add for the wife. 1.00

02:22:16.220 And this is how I do tests, right, to see.

02:22:19.440 Women don't know. 1.00

02:22:20.140 I test them all the time.

02:22:21.240 Now, this is not to say that I am the epitome, right?

02:22:27.500 Well, but I am saying I do little tests to, like, kind of see where women's heads are at. 1.00

02:22:32.540 And how does she respond when you say that she's not the greatest thing since sliced bread?

02:22:39.100 Because women are some wives are kind of supposed to have humility. 1.00

02:22:44.940 So when women are tweeting at me their selfies because I say they're not that hot, I think, well, this woman's married, but it's kind of weird.

02:22:53.560 She's tweeting me her, you know, it's a bit.

02:22:55.440 Yeah, well, you know what?

02:22:56.480 I think a lot of men make the mistake of even marrying women that are on social media doing stuff like that.

02:23:00.880 Like, my wife doesn't do stuff like that. 1.00

02:23:02.460 She's not on social media.

02:23:03.580 People say to me, oh, how do you make these jokes?

02:23:05.340 And what does your wife think? 1.00

02:23:06.960 Well, first of all, my wife is German.

02:23:08.060 She doesn't really watch social media.

02:23:09.480 But not only that, she's not really on social media.

02:23:11.460 Like, when you're on your phone, you can see how long you're actually on social media.

02:23:14.640 It's like one hour a week for her.

02:23:16.120 A lot of people are not on social media like that.

02:23:19.060 A lot of you guys can actually avoid a lot of this by just marrying a woman who has a good relationship with her dad and her mom.

02:23:26.300 Her parents are still together.

02:23:27.900 Her grandparents were together.

02:23:29.240 You look at four out of her five best friends.

02:23:31.060 They're in happy relationships.

02:23:32.060 Now, if I'm going to stay here, say, oh, my relationship, my marriage is perfect.

02:23:35.840 I never get angry. 1.00

02:23:36.760 No, I'm a moody son of a bitch. 1.00

02:23:37.980 My wife deals with me, too. 1.00

02:23:39.040 But does she piss me off occasionally?

02:23:41.700 Yeah, she might take too long to make dinner. 0.97

02:23:43.840 She may make me wait 15 minutes. 0.65

02:23:45.960 No, sometimes she makes me wait 20, 25 minutes to go somewhere. 0.92

02:23:49.940 I get pretty pissed off if you want to know the truth.

02:23:52.320 But it's pick your hard work.

02:23:54.880 Do you want your hard work to be your marriage and having a family and being closer to God?

02:23:59.420 What is natural for a man is to start a family, get married, become a father.

02:24:04.200 And the woman's natural role is to be a loving, nurturing mother. 0.98

02:24:09.040 Why do you want to be involved in this degeneracy of banging a bunch of women and promiscuity? 0.96

02:24:15.860 And one more thing. 0.99

02:24:16.940 Every woman you bang, every woman you bang, you lose a piece of yourself, man.

02:24:22.200 I told you, Troy.

02:24:23.000 Yeah. 0.88

02:24:23.420 If you bang a lot of women, you know, if you bang a lot of women, man, you start losing a piece of yourself. 0.96

02:24:29.000 But you're still practicing, though, right? 0.86

02:24:30.860 How many women you go to sleep with before you disappear? 0.99

02:24:36.200 I have a question.

02:24:38.000 How old is your wife?

02:24:39.040 My wife is about 11 years younger than me.

02:24:40.980 And just so you know.

02:24:41.680 So she's like 30-something.

02:24:43.280 Yeah.

02:24:43.560 And you know what?

02:24:44.180 I'm just curious.

02:24:45.400 Pearl, Pearl. 0.97

02:24:45.760 My wife's about 11 years younger than me.

02:24:47.380 But you want to know what?

02:24:47.940 I know my testosterone is pretty high because I just got tested about a month ago.

02:24:51.740 But just so you know, I was immature.

02:24:54.020 It took me to my late 30s to really understand, can I be with this woman?

02:24:58.640 And I want to say one more thing to you.

02:24:59.900 This is the biggest problem I have with social media. 1.00

02:25:03.240 The guys in their 20s and 30s, they're so obsessed with, am I fucking, am I fucking, am I getting pussy, am I getting pussy? 1.00

02:25:08.500 Let me tell you, when I see my daughter's eyes and the way she smiles at me, my heart melts. 1.00

02:25:13.280 My life is way more important than me just going and fucking a woman. 1.00

02:25:16.420 First of all, it's about being, when you see the love, you know, your father, he's so happy when you're going to go in a few weeks to see him for his birthday. 0.99

02:25:22.740 That's going to be the best gift.

02:25:23.900 When he's in bed with his mom, with your mom, and no one's there.

02:25:27.000 And he talks about all the gifts his 10 kids give him.

02:25:29.420 I guarantee he's going to say the number one gift was my princess.

02:25:32.780 To him, you're his princess.

02:25:34.520 Pearl, she came for my birthday. 0.91

02:25:37.760 And that's why I said what happened.

02:25:39.220 You're not a man.

02:25:39.840 You're not a man with a daughter.

02:25:41.780 I am.

02:25:42.140 You'll never know what that feels like.

02:25:43.340 But I know your father, without even meeting him, he's going to say, my princess Pearl came.

02:25:47.520 I don't think he's ever called me.

02:25:48.020 Yeah, but Mary's mad. 1.00

02:25:51.280 Sorry, I don't know.

02:25:52.100 I don't think you'd have to know my dad.

02:25:53.900 He's going to watch this now and call you princess when you get into it.

02:25:56.160 Hey, princess.

02:25:57.160 But, um, no, what was I going to, so, how old, your wife's in her 30s, though, right?

02:26:01.780 31.

02:26:02.220 31, yeah.

02:26:02.920 So, the thing is, with this new generation, they're all on social media.

02:26:07.980 Like, you can't, and the data is going to indicate this, too.

02:26:11.520 Like, the risk-taking of teens is going down.

02:26:14.500 Like, there's less with licenses, less with real, everything's online.

02:26:18.100 I don't say this in a happy way.

02:26:20.220 Risk-taking?

02:26:21.200 Like, teenagers now are less risky than they were in the last generation.

02:26:26.660 Oh, right.

02:26:27.260 And it's because, and I could see this totally with my little sisters.

02:26:30.260 Like, my, it's funny, my youngest sister, she's 10 years younger than me.

02:26:35.200 And, oh, my gosh, yeah, she's, like, on her Discord all the time.

02:26:38.800 She's, like, a little gamer, you know, but they're all, like, totally online.

02:26:43.560 There's, like, nobody.

02:26:44.360 So, what percentage, let me ask you, what percentage of women and men in marriages do you think are actually happy?

02:26:52.900 At what age?

02:26:54.020 Just at 40, 50, at 80?

02:26:59.960 I would say people are generally happy in their 30s, early 40s.

02:27:06.060 I think something seems to switch in their, like, mid-40s to 50s.

02:27:11.380 How long does someone marry before they get unhappy?

02:27:15.580 What's the average, then?

02:27:16.340 I mean, if we're going to look stats, it's, like, seven to eight years before they divorce.

02:27:20.620 I think the woman initiates at, like, six. 0.88

02:27:22.860 So, maybe the ages I gave you were a little.

02:27:25.620 Is that the seven-year-itch thing?

02:27:26.760 Yeah, yeah.

02:27:27.720 So, if I had to guess, and the reason I would say this is I think most men aren't happy with an overweight wife.

02:27:34.920 I would, and I've polled men on this.

02:27:37.520 Is it a W if your woman gains 50 pounds? 1.00

02:27:40.020 I would say out of 100 marriages, half will divorce, so that at least indicates that they were unhappy.

02:27:49.340 Out of the half that stay, I would say it's 50-50.

02:27:53.340 So, I would say if you get married, it's a 25% chance.

02:27:56.680 Well, you talk about overweight women. 1.00

02:27:58.640 You know, it's interesting because I dated fashion models in New York that were very skinny, 1.00

02:28:01.900 and I had a hard time actually getting erection to skinny women. 1.00

02:28:05.520 But I like women that are thick. 1.00

02:28:07.360 And I know on Twitter somebody said, oh, simps say they like thick women. 1.00

02:28:11.060 No, my father, the most alpha men, one of the most alpha males I know, Middle Eastern Iranian man, 0.99

02:28:15.940 he said, I like thick women. 1.00

02:28:17.460 Middle Eastern men like thick women. 1.00

02:28:19.000 We value big tits, big thighs, you know, big ass. 1.00

02:28:23.540 We value that. 1.00

02:28:24.480 It's a cultural trait.

02:28:25.700 So, you know, the idea of what's beauty to one man is not necessarily beauty to another.

02:28:31.360 That's absolutely true.

02:28:32.380 I mean, I've got friends.

02:28:33.140 I've got friends that, like, in my group of friends, right, there's dudes,

02:28:35.840 and they've got completely different tastes.

02:28:37.580 You would think that there would be one standard, and there really isn't.

02:28:40.160 So I totally feel it.

02:28:41.040 But what's overweight?

02:28:41.860 Yeah, but I think there's a difference between thick and obese.

02:28:44.460 Yeah, that's all right.

02:28:45.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0.96

02:28:46.460 And there's a lot of women that just get crazy. 1.00

02:28:51.020 Like, and I think if you took, so out of the 50% that stay married, right,

02:28:55.020 I think if you took out the cheaper-to-keeper, which is a good percentage of men that are just like, 1.00

02:29:00.140 I don't want to lose half my shit. 0.96

02:29:02.420 I think there's a good percentage of men that stay together because of, you know, religion, right? 0.99

02:29:07.540 Not saying that's necessarily a bad thing, right?

02:29:09.700 But I think, like, what would you count as a successful marriage?

02:29:12.940 I would say people that look back and say, you know, I'm happy I signed that paper.

02:29:16.920 This was a good person to spend my life with.

02:29:19.260 They don't, we don't argue all the time.

02:29:21.320 They don't make me miserable, right?

02:29:22.980 I would guess that half, you get the women that gain weight, 1.00

02:29:30.060 the ones that stay together for religion and the cheaper-to-keepers.

02:29:33.260 Out of the 50%, I would say maybe 25% stay.

02:29:38.140 So what would you say is the best thing for, based on your stats, based on everything that we just said,

02:29:42.960 what do you think is the best thing for a guy to do in this modern-day age about marriage and kids and stuff like that?

02:29:48.340 She's going to tell you not to get married. 0.92

02:29:49.700 No, no, so I don't really, I just think it depends what your outcome is and what level of risk you want to take on.

02:29:56.100 I think, yeah.

02:29:56.640 Do you know what I mean?

02:29:57.100 So, like, my thing is I just don't like men making decisions without informed consent.

02:30:02.620 And most men have no idea what they are signing up for when they sign that paper or have that child.

02:30:09.780 I would, like, I think it's going to differ.

02:30:12.120 Like, the factory worker is going to have a different answer than, say, the plumber.

02:30:15.760 But, like, a woman like you, you're successful, you're progressive, you do a lot of different things, you're highly intelligent,

02:30:20.720 you can have multiple different conversations.

02:30:23.100 How would you think a guy should handle a woman like you? 1.00

02:30:29.020 You're still on the market, right?

02:30:30.540 That's a broad, that's a broad, how should I be handled?

02:30:33.980 I would say, I would say.

02:30:35.120 Oh, I didn't take you as one of those type of women. 1.00

02:30:37.260 I didn't take you as one of those.

02:30:38.760 That's the question, I'm like, I think typically, you know, the, the, how do, that's, like, not a really good question, you know what I mean?

02:30:47.320 Should he ask you to marry him on the first date?

02:30:49.680 No, no, no, no.

02:30:50.400 I mean, that's happened to me before.

02:30:52.720 I really want to know, I really want to know.

02:30:54.560 Can he tell us?

02:30:55.420 Hold on, I really want to know, because you're very opinionated, you have a lot of different perspectives, and I want to know.

02:30:59.880 Right, what do you want to know?

02:31:01.100 I want to know for a woman. 0.95

02:31:02.160 How am I handled, you know?

02:31:04.500 We're getting kind of nosy now.

02:31:06.100 I didn't take you as one of those type of women, but okay. 1.00

02:31:08.720 No, I'm not, but you know.

02:31:10.380 Everyone's going to watch this video for how to pull up on Pearl now.

02:31:12.700 That's what I'm saying.

02:31:13.280 No, no, no.

02:31:13.620 I just want to know.

02:31:14.600 I just, I just think that, I just think, you know, every guy has to pick for himself.

02:31:19.220 I think there's men like Nima who go to Germany and find what sounds like an exceptional, awesome chick.

02:31:25.680 And I'd say for guys like that, you know, sounds great, sign up.

02:31:29.840 I think there's some men that never find a woman that's worth the risk, you know?

02:31:34.240 I think, here's what I think.

02:31:36.100 I think it's got to be completely individual.

02:31:38.000 I think you've got to make an informed decision.

02:31:39.840 I think if you do get married, you've got to make sure that you, you know, you vet as much as you can.

02:31:43.660 And I'm a little bit skeptical about vetting, because I think it's very hard to know how somebody's going to behave 15, 20 years down the line under pressure.

02:31:50.520 But nevertheless, you know, you've obviously got to make sure you're with the right woman.

02:31:54.300 And you've got to be prepared to go the hard yards with that.

02:31:57.240 But I think if that's, if that's not something that you're feeling in the depths of your soul, if there's guys who are thinking, well, I'm just not sure if that's really what I want to do with my life.

02:32:06.160 I think that now in 2023, going into 2024, if you want to remain single, you know, I'm just saying, if you want to remain single, if you want to continue dating, if you want to have a different sort of life, that is perfectly possible.

02:32:18.280 Now, I think the whole, Rollo talked about this years ago, the whole lonely old man myth, I think is a myth.

02:32:25.340 I don't think it has to be like that.

02:32:26.940 It's not a death sentence. 0.99

02:32:27.900 So all of these trads on Twitter who say to yourself, oh, you're going to die alone and all this sort of shit. 0.97

02:32:31.280 But men have always died alone, so it's not a business. 0.91

02:32:33.260 Even I was thinking, like, if you're going to sell, if you're going to, so if someone says, what car should you buy?

02:32:40.020 Well, it depends.

02:32:40.740 You would ask, like, 10 questions, right?

02:32:43.040 Like, do you have a family?

02:32:44.580 Do you have, like, I grew up, my parents had a 16-passenger van.

02:32:48.820 What is that?

02:32:50.840 You know, every guy has a different situation.

02:32:53.920 There's some men that honestly don't make enough money, aren't good-looking enough that women will respect them.

02:32:59.520 But here's the problem, though.

02:33:00.920 You're right.

02:33:01.240 It's about an informed decision.

02:33:02.520 And the problem with some of these trads and the Matt Walshes of this world and people like that is what they're basically saying is just wife, sub, chick up.

02:33:08.860 You know, and it's almost indiscriminate.

02:33:10.620 And they don't, and they'll just hand.

02:33:12.000 No, no, no, no, Troy.

02:33:12.920 She has to pray.

02:33:14.160 Oh, okay.

02:33:15.740 And they just, any sort of objection or any sort of potential problems that you might bring up, they'll hand wave them away and say, yeah, that doesn't matter.

02:33:22.100 You know, just find a high-quality woman. 1.00

02:33:23.320 And I think that's problematic for young women. 1.00

02:33:25.140 And I think it dismisses, like, female nature.

02:33:28.540 And the truth of the matter is, remember, 100 years ago, 85% of women were virgins.

02:33:34.980 85.

02:33:35.680 The average woman was 120 pounds. 1.00

02:33:38.280 So what does that tell you about female nature? 1.00

02:33:40.060 There's a reason that we buy the stupidest fashion trends. 1.00

02:33:44.520 You'll see us with these giant holes one year. 1.00

02:33:47.220 Then we have the puffs.

02:33:48.320 Like, we all, well, it's because women tend to go with trends. 1.00

02:33:51.780 And if being single is trendy, women tend to do it. 1.00

02:33:55.340 Perpah, as literally the only married man here and a dad, I think that a lot of you young men have this really dark image of marriage.

02:34:05.160 And I must be a simp because I'm married. 0.99

02:34:07.500 I spent 10 years working in New York City nightclubs fucking a lot of women. 1.00

02:34:11.060 And you want to know something? 0.99

02:34:12.520 Nothing brings me happiness and more close to God than when my little princess looks at me in my eyes in the morning in bed next to me.

02:34:18.820 And I also see my wife there.

02:34:20.720 You know, I'm more happier that way.

02:34:22.900 And I feel that all of you young men are better off being sober, not smoking, not drinking, praying, being married, having a family, being loyal to your wife.

02:34:32.360 This is the way of the highest level of fulfillment and happiness in life that I have found. 0.99

02:34:37.680 I would be dishonest and lying in a fraudulent charlatan to tell you fucking bitches is the best way for the deepest sense of happiness and purpose in your life. 1.00

02:34:46.700 And that's what I want. 1.00

02:34:47.600 It's just not.

02:34:48.320 That's what I want.

02:34:49.320 But Nima, Nima, I think you're conflicting the issues and you're kind of minimizing the point.

02:34:59.400 I get what you're saying and what you're saying is true for a man like you. 0.97

02:35:02.840 But you're forgetting that the average man, which is the majority, is not the man like you.

02:35:08.360 The average man doesn't have access to the kind of resources you have, doesn't have, would probably never get access to the kind of respect that women can give to you. 0.99

02:35:17.060 That's a fact.

02:35:18.040 So no matter how hard he works, no matter how much he wants to be married, if he gets into a marriage, he's more than likely going to be faced with disrespect than respect.

02:35:26.640 Yeah.

02:35:27.080 Nima, could I ask a question?

02:35:28.460 Do you think that the fact that you've met a woman who is, you know, sounds like an outstanding woman, do you think you were helped in that by the fact that you spent that playboy period of time in New York City?

02:35:37.680 You know how to handle women.

02:35:38.920 You're obviously a very articulate, intelligent, you know, good-looking guy, et cetera, et cetera.

02:35:42.300 So you're ticking a lot of boxes here.

02:35:44.140 So if there's an average guy who's like 22 and he's reading Matt Walsh tweets and he's like, oh, okay, I'm just going to wife up Sheila from the office, his outcomes may not be as favorable as yours.

02:35:54.220 Yeah.

02:35:54.460 I mean, there's something to be said.

02:35:55.540 I mean, I was the last one out of my social circle to get married.

02:35:59.020 I mean, I was the most immature one. 1.00

02:36:01.240 I loved fucking women. 1.00

02:36:02.080 I probably had a sex addiction, you know? 1.00

02:36:03.840 Yeah.

02:36:04.000 So now that I'm with one woman, is it hard for me when I go out?

02:36:07.540 I still feel like young women may look at me. 1.00

02:36:09.780 And when I'm at the boxing gym yesterday, you know, I saw a woman and she was showing me her fat ass. 1.00

02:36:14.920 And obviously, I was turned on. 1.00

02:36:16.320 Obviously, obviously.

02:36:17.180 No, but really, I was turned on.

02:36:19.060 But when I look at my ring, you know, I realize what's most important to me.

02:36:23.440 And that's what my grandma, before she passed away, my grandma looked at me in my eyes.

02:36:26.960 And she said to me and my wife, a few weeks before she died, she said, be good to each other.

02:36:32.020 My grandma didn't raise me to cheat on my wife and be degenerate. 1.00

02:36:35.320 She raised me to be a man of faith and be a good father and a good husband and be sober, don't drink, don't smoke, be a good man, be a man of honor and integrity and character.

02:36:44.200 I would be dishonest if I said, in an awful role model for any young man, if I promoted that sort of degeneracy, this is the problem in our society.

02:36:52.120 Many of you don't have loyal fathers, loyal mothers who love each other and lead by example. 0.98

02:36:57.080 What we do have in society is the shit economy, the world going completely south. 0.99

02:37:03.060 So you have to think about this kind of fact. 0.99

02:37:04.420 Because it's not only, do you know what I mean, the relationships we have with one another.

02:37:07.240 And I think what you're saying sounds really nice.

02:37:11.320 It does.

02:37:11.700 Wait, wait, wait, let me finish.

02:37:14.680 I am a man of faith.

02:37:16.040 I'm a man of faith.

02:37:16.960 Let me finish.

02:37:17.600 All right, go ahead.

02:37:17.920 But I'm just not in the business of selling dreams.

02:37:22.420 She's in the business of crushing them. 1.00

02:37:23.540 No, I'm not in the business of crushing them.

02:37:25.600 But I think a lot of times men are very naive to family court and what it's like for an average man in America.

02:37:33.440 And the average man makes about $45,000 a year.

02:37:37.580 He's 5'8 in overweight.

02:37:39.500 Now, we can get rid of the overweight thing. 0.93

02:37:41.700 But most men are average earners and will be average earners for a lifetime.

02:37:46.600 And the truth of the matter is that none of these podcasters that are the success hustlers, whatever, could do what we do without the average men that build this country.

02:37:56.280 And unfortunately, average women do not respect average men.

02:38:00.320 How strong would you say, and I ask this respectfully, and you know, I got a lot of love for you.

02:38:07.120 How strong is faith in your life?

02:38:09.320 I'm Catholic.

02:38:10.260 But is faith strong to you?

02:38:12.040 Do you pray on a daily basis, for example?

02:38:14.140 I would call myself a bad Catholic.

02:38:17.880 I would say there's better Catholics and there's worse Catholics. 1.00

02:38:23.480 But I honestly don't really like when people use their faith to win an argument.

02:38:28.660 No offense.

02:38:30.340 It's just like, I don't think it's like, I don't really like to make it part of like a brand.

02:38:36.040 Like it feels like wrong to me.

02:38:37.600 No, because I, no, but you know what it is, Pearl?

02:38:39.220 As a 43-year-old talking to an educated 26-year-old woman, I think that if more people prayed on a daily basis and they married someone that had also had faith, we would avoid a lot of these.

02:38:50.500 And I get this argument a lot.

02:38:54.580 But the question is, what's our standard for a faithful woman? 0.99

02:38:58.260 So, and I'm going to break it down for you.

02:39:00.580 So, and the issue is, so I looked at the numbers because all these trad cons will say, oh, just find a good woman, just find a good woman.

02:39:06.280 One out of four are still divorced of people that attend church.

02:39:10.360 That's not an insignificant number.

02:39:12.300 So three out of four stay together.

02:39:13.640 Wait, let me, let me, let me finish.

02:39:15.180 And we can, we can agree, right?

02:39:16.840 The women of today are worse than yesterday. 1.00

02:39:19.360 So I don't see that number getting smaller.

02:39:22.540 I see it getting bigger.

02:39:24.060 So then, so then, wait, wait.

02:39:26.300 So what, what is my standard for a faithful woman? 0.94

02:39:29.360 Wouldn't you agree it's a virgin?

02:39:31.120 Because those women that really take their faith seriously will wait till they're married. 1.00

02:39:35.020 Well, you only have 4% of women waiting. 1.00

02:39:38.120 So, you know, I'm just not in the business of selling dreams.

02:39:42.040 Pearl, but look at, but look at the attitude there.

02:39:44.180 Let's just, let's look at the same statistic.

02:39:46.080 And I want all the young men to hear me when I say this.

02:39:48.340 She said one out of four still get a divorce. 1.00

02:39:51.640 You can look at it like that, but you can also look at it as three out of four.

02:39:55.040 Don't.

02:39:55.700 Well, I, and I think, and I think that maybe attitude, but I think that's maybe from your point of view,

02:40:01.760 because I've seen, I've seen, wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:40:04.660 I have interviewed men on the other side of this.

02:40:08.500 And I don't think, you know, the death that goes through a man's eyes when he knows that he cannot see his daughter or his son for years.

02:40:16.780 How about, have you interviewed happily married men?

02:40:18.980 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, yes.

02:40:21.580 Yes, I have.

02:40:22.260 I know, I know there are happily married men.

02:40:24.620 I'm not, I'm not saying that.

02:40:26.220 And I, and the, and the thing is like the trad cons often get triggered by, by these stories or whatever.

02:40:32.320 But my point is they are not uncommon and they are not rare.

02:40:35.780 I agree.

02:40:36.320 And so, and so there are women that manipulate, like they haven't seen their kid in years. 1.00

02:40:40.940 They've lost half their income.

02:40:42.260 Any person that has worked in father's rights, fathers getting custody of their children knows that those men,

02:40:48.400 there are so many men that commit suicide.

02:40:50.280 And this isn't like, if you took a pill and there was a 5% chance of dying, you would never take it.

02:40:56.220 We hear about these COVID shots, right?

02:40:57.760 Everybody's going on and on and on about all the people that died from the COVID shots.

02:41:01.500 But we don't go on and on and on about all the men that die from marriage every year.

02:41:05.460 It is not uncommon.

02:41:07.520 And I don't say this to, to, you know, I don't say this to be a doom and gloomer,

02:41:14.060 but we have to look at what the reality of the situation is and inform men of what it actually is.

02:41:19.900 Because a 22-year-old that gets married because he wants to be religious and do the right thing,

02:41:25.440 he has no idea what he's signing up for.

02:41:28.400 Besides, I was going to add on the faith thing, because I'm also Catholic.

02:41:31.820 I was born and raised Catholic.

02:41:33.240 Prayer is not a good indicator of someone's faith.

02:41:37.320 Anyone can pray.

02:41:38.580 And this is what I notice a lot of religious people don't even realize.

02:41:42.500 Faith doesn't dictate how religious you are.

02:41:45.260 What actually tells how religious someone is is their character,

02:41:50.360 what they do on a day-to-day basis outside of prayer.

02:41:53.240 Because the reality is prayer can literally just be a way that someone can use to deceive you.

02:41:58.560 King, I would say, as literally the only, it seems like,

02:42:02.120 maybe I'm not, I don't know the soul of everybody here,

02:42:04.140 but as a man of faith, I'm definitely isolated here.

02:42:07.980 And I want to say to you.

02:42:08.920 No, you're not.

02:42:09.960 I'm basically in the same, King.

02:42:12.080 You're a father.

02:42:12.820 You're a father also.

02:42:13.400 I am a father.

02:42:14.180 Well, if you're so pure, you can sense that in other people, then, you know.

02:42:17.340 Well, but hold on, King.

02:42:18.000 I'm also about 15, 18 years older than you, right?

02:42:20.180 Yeah.

02:42:20.480 So I say this, you know, I want to tell you on the other side of your 40s,

02:42:24.760 there are a lot of men that are happily married and fathers, man.

02:42:27.800 Yeah, no, I'm not arguing with that.

02:42:28.800 I was talking about the prayer thing.

02:42:29.640 No, I'm just saying.

02:42:30.280 I was talking about the prayer thing.

02:42:31.440 What I'm saying is prayer has nothing to do with someone's faith.

02:42:34.920 I agree, people don't have to pray.

02:42:36.720 Even in Catholic, in our Christian religion, it says it in the Bible,

02:42:41.520 that faith without works is dead.

02:42:43.520 So you can have all the faith, all the prayer in the world,

02:42:45.580 but if you don't go out into the world and actually put action to your stuff,

02:42:48.640 nothing is going to happen.

02:42:50.220 Actions are important.

02:42:51.040 No doubt about it.

02:42:51.740 I just want to emphasize to people that are watching,

02:42:54.160 it's not all doom and gloom.

02:42:55.300 I know a lot of guys in their 40s that are happily married.

02:42:57.560 But you're in a different generation.

02:42:59.120 Yeah, that's true.

02:42:59.560 That's the thing, like, I'm telling you.

02:43:01.240 And you're in a different class.

02:43:03.620 Yeah, that's what I was about to say.

02:43:05.220 Most people are not in the situation you are.

02:43:07.940 Most people would never be around the kind of people you're around.

02:43:10.160 Exactly.

02:43:10.600 And the kind of people you're around are a minority,

02:43:12.780 not the majority.

02:43:13.540 And I had this similar, I had a very similar view

02:43:16.540 when I first came into Red Pill because I'm from an upper class area.

02:43:21.500 That's why you're like, oh, have you seen happily married people?

02:43:24.220 Hell yeah.

02:43:24.740 Yeah, like, yes, most people I grew up around were married.

02:43:27.800 But I realized that I was in a bubble.

02:43:30.600 And that is not the same situation for working class America. 0.92

02:43:35.840 And I will never shit on the average man

02:43:38.440 and tell him to just become a multimillionaire 0.88

02:43:40.540 when we need those men to survive in society.

02:43:43.700 So just become, that's what they'll say, just become 1%.

02:43:47.360 Well, they're like, can I get that?

02:43:50.200 But even them, Paul, I mean, I know plenty of people,

02:43:53.420 like upper class people here, and they're suffering the same issues.

02:43:57.060 Oh, I totally do.

02:43:58.040 Like, that's the thing, too.

02:43:59.660 Because, again, I'm on the other, like, because growing up,

02:44:02.460 most people were married.

02:44:03.840 I didn't do this caveat.

02:44:05.500 Now I'm a little bit older,

02:44:06.740 and you actually start to hear about some of their issues,

02:44:10.020 and they start to get divorced.

02:44:12.880 Like, you're seeing a lot of, like, people, like,

02:44:14.760 growing up, 20-year marriages, 30-year marriages,

02:44:17.960 a lot of them are getting divorced.

02:44:19.640 And, you know, I don't say this in a happy way.

02:44:22.820 I didn't choose to make this generation.

02:44:25.140 Like, I was just born here.

02:44:26.980 But, like, I've seen it on the other end.

02:44:30.280 So what do we do?

02:44:31.620 The only, just my personal opinion,

02:44:34.340 I really don't see anything changing until you switch the laws.

02:44:37.840 I think that there should be lawsuits filed.

02:44:40.260 I think we need, like, you should have billionaires,

02:44:43.400 like Elon Musk, who's saying,

02:44:44.560 oh, family, have kids, have kids. 0.99

02:44:46.940 I'm like, well, you're a freaking billionaire. 0.82

02:44:49.640 And I'm like, the only way average men are going to sign up 0.93

02:44:53.320 is if we change the laws to make them more fair.

02:44:56.580 Like, it should be at least 50-50 default custody.

02:44:59.740 Men should be entitled to see their children.

02:45:02.960 Yeah, because that's one of the things that makes me, like,

02:45:05.340 petrified as a guy to be in a, like, committed relationship

02:45:08.540 is, like, the fallout.

02:45:10.780 We've grown up seeing the fallout of how men get treated

02:45:13.660 compared to this whole situation.

02:45:15.260 It's like, oh, my God, if I marry this woman 1.00

02:45:17.620 and we get divorced, she takes half of everything I own.

02:45:19.680 She takes the kids. 1.00

02:45:20.620 I have no responsibility, no control of anything.

02:45:23.700 So to see you, and this is one of the things I've seen

02:45:26.000 that we have in common, one of these things.

02:45:29.020 My brother.

02:45:30.060 One of these things.

02:45:30.840 Hold on.

02:45:31.100 One of the things we have in common is

02:45:32.320 because we've had access to engage with the type of woman 1.00

02:45:34.760 that we've wanted to engage with,

02:45:36.120 we've been in the nightclubs,

02:45:37.220 we've been in this environment.

02:45:38.180 It's, okay, we filled our thirst meter

02:45:40.340 for the engagement of female, you know?

02:45:42.340 So we can sit down and say, okay,

02:45:43.540 this is not something that I'm actually lustful for anymore.

02:45:46.080 I want something more simplistic.

02:45:47.580 So when I sit down and watch you

02:45:48.740 and listen to your story about how you look at your daughter's eyes

02:45:51.620 and you have your wife and stuff like that,

02:45:53.340 me at this level where I already had my plenty of women and stuff, 1.00

02:45:57.780 yeah, that's what I want.

02:45:58.740 That sounds nice.

02:45:59.600 That sounds amazing.

02:46:00.800 But to the average person, that's probably unrealistic

02:46:03.480 because they haven't even engaged with about half

02:46:06.240 or even 2% of the type of women you've engaged with, you know?

02:46:08.820 They have the, no offense.

02:46:10.680 And someone in the chat put the issue

02:46:12.880 is Pearl ignores the fact that you have the same risks

02:46:15.180 even if you're not married.

02:46:16.240 That's not true.

02:46:17.180 And I think what they typically do is they'll conflate,

02:46:20.600 like men commit suicide that aren't married as well.

02:46:23.380 And I think the numbers are-ish similar.

02:46:25.760 Under 30 of the highest married men.

02:46:27.340 Yeah, but the thing is those men, if I had to guess,

02:46:31.020 that's the men that are not sexually selected

02:46:33.780 and just tend to be more, I mean,

02:46:36.500 men just have more problems in general.

02:46:38.580 But if you're going to say you're not at risk, you're-

02:46:41.420 Well, it's a very specific set of risks

02:46:44.100 that you are taking on when you sign that legal document, isn't it?

02:46:47.000 I mean, I get the risks,

02:46:48.820 but when I see like my brother and his wife

02:46:51.260 and their two sons,

02:46:52.600 I just know that they're going to be together forever.

02:46:55.380 Yeah.

02:46:56.100 That's-

02:46:56.580 Descendant.

02:46:57.180 Yeah.

02:46:57.600 How long have they been together?

02:46:59.500 Since May.

02:47:01.540 Since May, since May.

02:47:02.780 But you could just tell.

02:47:03.700 Well, and you know, I just, you know,

02:47:06.540 God, I'm such a doomer.

02:47:07.740 I'm such a-

02:47:08.220 If you've become a-

02:47:09.000 And I don't even mean this to be a doomer.

02:47:10.920 I've just noticed when people tell me about these couples,

02:47:13.320 it tends to be under 15 years

02:47:16.440 and they kind of dwindle out over 20, 25, 30.

02:47:20.000 Monogamy is supposed to be 50, remember? 1.00

02:47:22.560 How long is that?

02:47:23.700 I mean, you're supposed to be with someone for a lifetime.

02:47:25.340 It's a question.

02:47:27.300 Which, what do you think is the average number

02:47:29.320 so when you can even think about marriage?

02:47:31.680 The average what?

02:47:32.620 Like the number, not even age.

02:47:34.560 Like how long do you need to be in a relationship

02:47:36.280 with a woman or a guy to even think about that?

02:47:38.320 I think-

02:47:38.940 No, that's too early.

02:47:40.700 You don't even know each other by that time.

02:47:41.780 Okay, so I think that women are a roll of the dice. 1.00

02:47:45.280 I think men will- 1.00

02:47:48.420 Men are like, it's funny.

02:47:49.540 They make a rule.

02:47:50.440 They're like, they will find a way to like around it.

02:47:53.060 The average man, on average,

02:47:54.600 it takes a man three years to marry you.

02:47:56.420 So you have to date him for three years.

02:47:58.400 So ladies, if you're a certain age,

02:48:00.820 it's going to take you three.

02:48:01.920 And so, but I really, even like what Troy was saying,

02:48:09.220 I have talked to men that vet girls for 10 years,

02:48:12.440 then they got a kid and went crazy.

02:48:14.480 I have talked to men that dated women for six months

02:48:16.760 that were amazing wives. 1.00

02:48:18.600 I just think women are a roll of the dice. 1.00

02:48:20.700 Pick your poison.

02:48:21.280 I think it's really difficult to talk about this issue, isn't it?

02:48:24.780 Because it's a very emotive issue.

02:48:26.320 And clearly there are men, you know,

02:48:28.680 and we've heard what Neiman said.

02:48:30.100 I mean, there are men who are incredibly happy

02:48:32.700 with their wives and their children mean everything to them.

02:48:35.380 And it's incredibly moving to hear those stories.

02:48:38.120 And there's no doubt that these things exist.

02:48:40.940 But I guess the problem on the other side

02:48:43.260 is that you have to look at the figures.

02:48:45.920 You have to look at the stats

02:48:46.940 and you have to hear some of the anecdotal stuff

02:48:48.520 from the other side as well.

02:48:50.360 And so I don't really know.

02:48:52.280 The only answer I think is that everyone

02:48:54.340 has to look into themselves

02:48:55.520 and make that decision for themselves.

02:48:56.780 No, you know what it is?

02:48:57.500 There needs to be a new road map for men. 0.96

02:49:00.840 And what I was saying before to Pearl,

02:49:02.580 I think like before marriage used to be something

02:49:04.540 that was you would give somebody something

02:49:06.620 because they was giving you something,

02:49:07.760 virginity, chastity, you know.

02:49:09.640 But now I think marriage has to be something

02:49:12.060 as a reward for a woman now.

02:49:14.400 Before it was like, it was a gift.

02:49:16.180 It was like, yeah.

02:49:16.720 But now it's a reward.

02:49:17.960 So you have the baby first. 0.86

02:49:19.360 You live the life first.

02:49:20.460 And then reward you marriage

02:49:22.320 because how can you...

02:49:24.160 What are you actually getting?

02:49:26.100 Do you understand what I'm trying to say to you?

02:49:27.080 So I believe in marriage, right?

02:49:29.000 But we can't be giving...

02:49:30.080 We have to reward you with marriage now.

02:49:31.720 So I'm going to marry you.

02:49:32.980 I would have.

02:49:33.420 If you was a virgin,

02:49:34.180 but you're not a virgin now.

02:49:35.500 And so...

02:49:36.280 No, but there's some things

02:49:37.860 that we might need to change now, right?

02:49:39.280 But I'm still going to marry you.

02:49:40.780 But I'm not going to give it to you straight away.

02:49:42.260 But the leverage a lot of women will use though 1.00

02:49:44.700 is that, you know,

02:49:45.440 you guys are together for two or three years.

02:49:47.120 I don't know.

02:49:47.260 That's tricky.

02:49:47.940 And then she's like,

02:49:49.240 okay, well,

02:49:49.740 if you're not going to put a ring on it,

02:49:51.060 you know, in the end,

02:49:51.720 I'm going to look somewhere else.

02:49:52.620 You can't do that.

02:49:53.400 You've got a baby.

02:49:55.880 Don't do it that way around.

02:49:57.060 No, but I'm saying,

02:49:58.880 we have to do it.

02:49:59.600 I'm trying to figure out a new way for men, right? 0.98

02:50:01.340 I mean, honestly, China...

02:50:02.720 Oh, God.

02:50:03.700 She's going to do it again. 1.00

02:50:04.620 She's going to do it again. 1.00

02:50:05.320 Go on.

02:50:05.780 Go on.

02:50:06.900 The truth of the matter is,

02:50:08.520 and I've talked to divorce attorneys on this,

02:50:10.580 and they say,

02:50:11.100 I do not fear marriage.

02:50:12.760 Marriage is not what I fear.

02:50:15.560 You can get married,

02:50:16.980 have an ironclad prenup,

02:50:18.460 and be virtually okay for the most part.

02:50:21.500 There's exceptions,

02:50:22.740 but this is what they tell me, okay?

02:50:24.620 But I do fear children,

02:50:26.400 because once you have a child,

02:50:28.160 she has the leverage.

02:50:29.360 There's no if, ands, or buts.

02:50:30.840 There's nothing you can do.

02:50:32.200 That woman has the leverage, 1.00

02:50:33.880 because the legal system will back her. 1.00

02:50:36.520 You might get lucky,

02:50:37.760 and get a judge that takes your side,

02:50:40.000 but the judges are pretty feminist, 1.00

02:50:42.420 and they probably won't.

02:50:44.440 So, unfortunately...

02:50:46.800 So my plan is not going to work?

02:50:47.900 No.

02:50:48.240 My point is when you have a child,

02:50:52.040 like, it's really just,

02:50:53.400 these are the risks.

02:50:54.500 Yeah.

02:50:54.960 Do I want to take it and gamble or not?

02:50:57.980 And some men are going to say,

02:51:00.920 yes, yes,

02:51:01.760 it is absolutely worth it to have a family.

02:51:04.040 And for them, I applaud them.

02:51:05.280 I say, great, amazing, go do that.

02:51:07.480 But I'm just not in the business of selling dreams.

02:51:10.480 I think we, like,

02:51:11.560 people always ask, like,

02:51:12.220 what are you in this for?

02:51:13.660 Reality.

02:51:14.060 I just think we need to, like,

02:51:15.720 be in what is real and what is true.

02:51:17.720 And the truth of the matter is

02:51:19.180 that when men have children, 0.69

02:51:21.020 they are not their children.

02:51:22.520 They are always the woman's children. 1.00

02:51:24.560 But there's one topic

02:51:25.520 that a lot of people are not talking about is,

02:51:27.920 how do you women feel about that, 1.00

02:51:29.920 knowing that we have this psycho anxiety

02:51:32.200 about even committing,

02:51:34.020 being in a relationship,

02:51:34.700 or even having kids with you?

02:51:35.720 Like, we have to literally think, like,

02:51:37.140 oh, my God,

02:51:37.880 she can ruin my whole life.

02:51:39.280 Yeah, because, bro, they don't care.

02:51:40.200 I'm so scared.

02:51:41.440 They don't care.

02:51:42.140 They don't care.

02:51:42.720 They do, I think, well...

02:51:43.620 It's so crazy.

02:51:44.340 I'm scared.

02:51:45.140 They do, because a lot of women 1.00

02:51:47.220 start a relationship with the hope

02:51:49.700 that they're going to get married, right?

02:51:50.920 And then two, three years down the line,

02:51:53.200 that breaks up.

02:51:54.100 For whatever reason,

02:51:54.940 usually it could be one or the other,

02:51:57.240 or they'd go their separate ways.

02:51:58.500 But I think character and discernment

02:52:00.720 are the things you need to really take into...

02:52:03.800 You really need to...

02:52:04.620 If you're serious about having a partner,

02:52:06.980 a husband, or a wife,

02:52:09.100 you really need to,

02:52:10.060 and I do believe faith helps with that,

02:52:12.140 I think, discernment

02:52:13.580 and knowing that the character

02:52:14.940 of the person you're with,

02:52:16.320 as long as they're not lying

02:52:17.460 through their teeth...

02:52:18.260 But what happened to women 1.00

02:52:19.020 that didn't want to do it alone?

02:52:20.280 What happened to women 1.00

02:52:20.840 that wanted to create, like,

02:52:22.340 they wanted to...

02:52:23.560 Like, there used to be something

02:52:24.880 where women wanted to have the family, 1.00

02:52:26.820 then they wanted to meet with other,

02:52:28.360 you know, maybe the soccer moms, 1.00

02:52:29.480 the gym moms,

02:52:29.960 they'll do things,

02:52:30.660 they'll do the PTA,

02:52:31.580 they'll come...

02:52:32.040 No, but you see,

02:52:33.440 this is the point.

02:52:34.100 This is why this podcast exists.

02:52:36.320 Men need to start understanding

02:52:37.820 female nature. 1.00

02:52:38.980 The problem in society today

02:52:40.680 is that men don't understand

02:52:42.060 female nature. 1.00

02:52:42.880 What you just said

02:52:43.860 never existed.

02:52:45.020 The reason why that existed

02:52:46.240 back in the day

02:52:46.960 is because that was the trend.

02:52:48.260 So that's why women... 1.00

02:52:49.160 I remember that.

02:52:50.100 No, that was...

02:52:50.640 No, the point is that

02:52:51.800 because that was the trend then.

02:52:53.700 That was what society pushed.

02:52:55.180 So that's what women did. 1.00

02:52:56.840 Now society is pushing

02:52:57.880 a different thing

02:52:58.640 and that's what women are doing. 1.00

02:53:00.200 So it depends on what is pushed

02:53:01.900 in the mainstream.

02:53:03.180 And that's why marriages are... 1.00

02:53:04.980 Like, that's why it's so messed up

02:53:06.560 because we have an entire...

02:53:08.080 Like, think about the fact

02:53:09.160 that women make less money 1.00

02:53:10.420 and we make 80%

02:53:11.780 of consumer buying decisions.

02:53:13.820 All of the media

02:53:14.820 is marketed towards us

02:53:16.860 being strong and independent,

02:53:18.940 towards us leaving our husbands,

02:53:21.400 being single, going out.

02:53:22.920 Like, all of this stuff

02:53:24.140 is marketed to us.

02:53:25.260 Most women don't want to be married. 1.00

02:53:26.920 They don't want to be wives. 1.00

02:53:28.660 So...

02:53:29.020 And I've talked to women 0.97

02:53:30.040 that literally homeschooled

02:53:32.340 four children

02:53:32.960 and she told me

02:53:33.600 she felt so lonely

02:53:35.180 because there just were not

02:53:37.020 other women 0.95

02:53:37.600 that wanted to do that.

02:53:39.020 So basically the question is...

02:53:40.440 It takes a village

02:53:40.940 to raise a child.

02:53:41.620 So you can imagine

02:53:42.620 a woman being isolated

02:53:44.460 by herself.

02:53:45.420 So she's not going to want to do that.

02:53:46.340 She's going to want to do

02:53:46.740 what her friends are doing.

02:53:47.720 That's what women tend to do. 1.00

02:53:49.600 So basically the question is

02:53:50.800 where are the wives? 1.00

02:53:52.000 That's basically the question.

02:53:53.120 Well, I would argue

02:53:54.020 that three generations ago.

02:53:56.460 So you're saying right now...

02:53:57.520 I would say that

02:53:59.660 if you talked to...

02:54:00.560 And there's little telltale signs

02:54:02.260 that I do

02:54:02.720 to see if a woman's 1.00

02:54:03.720 really a wife

02:54:04.340 and it goes back to...

02:54:05.620 What are your signs?

02:54:06.120 Do you...

02:54:06.960 I need to know.

02:54:08.360 For all the men...

02:54:09.340 No tattoos.

02:54:10.080 This is a good question.

02:54:11.380 One, how does she react 1.00

02:54:12.700 when she's told 1.00

02:54:13.380 she's not the shit? 1.00

02:54:14.440 Does she argue with you? 1.00

02:54:15.880 And none of these

02:54:17.040 are guarantees

02:54:17.660 so please don't come back

02:54:18.980 to me later.

02:54:20.460 And so the other thing

02:54:23.000 I usually will say

02:54:24.400 is I ask like...

02:54:25.980 When she asks about

02:54:27.020 submission, obedience,

02:54:28.620 like how does she feel

02:54:29.680 about that?

02:54:30.140 What was her parents'

02:54:31.260 relationship like?

02:54:33.060 But I would say

02:54:34.140 like the biggest things

02:54:35.560 that you get

02:54:36.400 is does she feel

02:54:37.140 like she needs

02:54:37.600 a backup plan?

02:54:39.860 Instagram's a backup plan.

02:54:42.160 You know?

02:54:42.740 But really it's quite rare.

02:54:44.460 We're in 2023 babies

02:54:45.760 so it's like...

02:54:47.420 You know?

02:54:48.000 But I just really think

02:54:49.680 that like we've had

02:54:50.720 two generations of women 0.96

02:54:52.160 leading the women

02:54:53.100 of today astray

02:54:54.220 that have never heard

02:54:55.180 what men want

02:54:55.920 because the last

02:54:56.500 two generations of women 0.99

02:54:57.500 just didn't give a shit. 0.99

02:54:58.240 But there are exceptions 0.97

02:55:00.900 so don't remember

02:55:02.120 there are exceptions.

02:55:04.200 You see me losing hope

02:55:05.500 and you're like

02:55:05.820 no, there are exceptions.

02:55:08.080 I wanna...

02:55:09.040 I wanna...

02:55:09.660 But it's tough

02:55:10.700 because if you look

02:55:11.740 at the numbers

02:55:12.500 the future...

02:55:13.540 Like this is what

02:55:14.820 they're predicting.

02:55:15.760 But now you're seeing...

02:55:16.600 Hold on, hold on.

02:55:17.060 Right now that you're seeing

02:55:18.360 there are men

02:55:19.000 who are interested

02:55:19.880 in having wives.

02:55:21.340 Like there are huge...

02:55:22.040 Oh, there's always...

02:55:22.740 There's a shortage of wives. 1.00

02:55:24.480 That's the issue.

02:55:26.020 There's a shortage.

02:55:26.740 I don't think there's a problem

02:55:27.540 with men that wanna be married.

02:55:28.980 Like I think...

02:55:29.640 I meet a lot of men

02:55:30.500 that do wanna be married 0.98

02:55:31.480 but here's the thing.

02:55:32.820 You sacrifice so much

02:55:33.780 or you risk so much, right?

02:55:35.340 And then like...

02:55:36.280 Who wants to marry you? 1.00

02:55:37.820 It's literally...

02:55:38.480 No, because...

02:55:38.900 Are you pointing at me?

02:55:40.520 No, not to you.

02:55:41.400 I was listening.

02:55:42.300 But you would say to me

02:55:43.260 the demographical girl

02:55:44.140 but you would just listen

02:55:44.860 to the loud noise.

02:55:45.600 There was some women 1.00

02:55:46.360 in there that are educated.

02:55:47.700 You know,

02:55:47.960 they own their own staff.

02:55:48.980 Right?

02:55:49.500 But it's just the same thing

02:55:50.540 as a man.

02:55:51.980 You don't wanna be

02:55:52.820 battling your women. 0.98

02:55:53.820 Yeah. 0.95

02:55:53.940 It shouldn't be that hard

02:55:55.140 and when you're trying

02:55:56.780 to just speak to them

02:55:58.060 and then you're having

02:55:59.000 to do that

02:55:59.680 then you just understand

02:56:01.260 the battle that you have to go.

02:56:02.380 So why would I wanna walk to you

02:56:03.520 and it's...

02:56:04.260 You know what?

02:56:04.720 There's no harmony, I think.

02:56:05.900 I might see you

02:56:06.660 and I might think to myself

02:56:07.580 oh my God,

02:56:08.160 you're my future wife

02:56:09.140 and I go up to you

02:56:10.100 and then...

02:56:10.900 Boom.

02:56:11.100 It takes a lot for a man

02:56:12.060 to go up to a woman.

02:56:12.700 You think it's easy

02:56:13.360 because you women 1.00

02:56:14.000 don't do it, right?

02:56:14.720 And then you just destroy me.

02:56:16.420 You make me feel

02:56:17.280 to be a creep or weird dude, right?

02:56:19.280 No, but...

02:56:19.820 I know what you mean.

02:56:20.780 No, but I'm not...

02:56:21.560 But do you understand

02:56:22.400 how he feels?

02:56:22.940 And I've said before

02:56:26.220 women don't care about men's... 1.00

02:56:27.960 Feelings.

02:56:28.620 ...or their mental health

02:56:29.760 only on social media

02:56:30.600 and buzzwords

02:56:31.100 and women are like 1.00

02:56:31.560 no, yes we care

02:56:32.400 but they don't

02:56:32.980 because whenever men speak

02:56:34.060 and you just said like

02:56:35.080 you know,

02:56:36.720 he's creepy.

02:56:37.760 I get it

02:56:38.360 but a man's not thinking

02:56:39.580 he's creepy

02:56:39.940 he's thinking

02:56:40.260 oh my God

02:56:40.760 there's a beautiful woman 0.53

02:56:41.580 that I wanna go speak to

02:56:42.560 if he comes to you

02:56:43.380 in a mad way

02:56:44.300 that's creepy.

02:56:45.680 But I think

02:56:46.540 where do we get to

02:56:48.240 when men can't even 0.98

02:56:49.160 approach women

02:56:49.840 because they don't wanna be

02:56:51.000 put on Instagram

02:56:51.560 or something like that

02:56:52.960 so I just think

02:56:53.560 sometimes you women 1.00

02:56:54.380 have to understand

02:56:54.880 how hard it is

02:56:55.460 for us men

02:56:56.120 and you're not

02:56:56.680 making it any easier.

02:56:57.860 It's lack of communication

02:56:59.000 from women I think 0.85

02:56:59.780 if a woman just turns around 1.00

02:57:00.720 and says

02:57:00.940 listen I'm not interested

02:57:01.700 have a good evening

02:57:03.240 do you know what I mean

02:57:03.720 and in a polite way

02:57:04.900 that's normally

02:57:05.700 what I would do

02:57:06.360 I don't turn around

02:57:06.840 and be like 1.00

02:57:07.080 oh fuck off 1.00

02:57:07.660 do you know what I mean 1.00

02:57:08.340 That's called beautiful air

02:57:09.680 beautiful air is when

02:57:11.200 a guy comes up to you

02:57:12.480 you don't like him

02:57:13.220 you might be speaking to him

02:57:15.080 and then

02:57:15.520 you're so nice to him

02:57:16.760 that he tries to get

02:57:17.200 your number

02:57:17.420 and he's like

02:57:17.600 sorry I got a man

02:57:18.300 or sorry

02:57:18.800 you know what

02:57:20.960 they respect you

02:57:21.600 because of the way

02:57:22.140 you treated

02:57:22.560 you know what I mean

02:57:24.280 I'm a strong believer

02:57:25.160 there's no need

02:57:26.220 to disrespect

02:57:26.720 or belittle a man

02:57:28.700 or think

02:57:29.180 or get your ego up

02:57:30.200 just because the guy

02:57:30.860 is trying to speak to you

02:57:31.960 just be nice

02:57:32.960 thank you

02:57:33.920 but no thank you

02:57:34.820 that's what I do

02:57:36.780 I mean

02:57:37.020 I don't see a reason

02:57:38.500 to be rude

02:57:39.120 when's the last time

02:57:39.800 you asked the guy out

02:57:41.040 when's the last time

02:57:41.520 you asked the guy out

02:57:42.240 it's been a while

02:57:42.820 I've just been avoiding

02:57:43.480 the whole

02:57:44.080 so how about this

02:57:46.800 because I feel like

02:57:47.720 the attitude here

02:57:48.840 is so hopeless

02:57:50.980 and it's so many

02:57:52.560 it's so like

02:57:54.800 quitter

02:57:55.340 it's like a quitter

02:57:56.080 it's like someone

02:57:56.560 it's like a dead man

02:57:58.080 walking

02:57:58.480 it is better to love

02:58:00.220 and have lost

02:58:00.820 and never have loved

02:58:01.640 at all

02:58:01.920 and I just want to say

02:58:02.620 even the working class guy

02:58:03.820 even to your point

02:58:05.060 or even the guy

02:58:06.060 that works as a plumber

02:58:06.980 that works as a firefighter

02:58:08.300 that's a laborer 1.00

02:58:09.280 that works as a

02:58:10.360 you know

02:58:10.920 a cashier

02:58:11.780 or a bartender

02:58:12.520 every man can exercise

02:58:14.800 five, six days a week

02:58:16.100 every man can eat 0.93

02:58:17.120 a whole food

02:58:18.160 plant based diet

02:58:19.320 for example

02:58:19.880 every man can read

02:58:20.860 one book every month

02:58:22.160 every man

02:58:23.040 can be involved

02:58:24.520 in his community

02:58:25.200 and volunteer

02:58:25.820 I gotta disagree with you

02:58:27.760 but hold on

02:58:28.580 if every man

02:58:30.260 that's a laborer 1.00

02:58:31.580 takes his time

02:58:32.640 to do his self development

02:58:33.820 and he looks great naked 1.00

02:58:35.200 and he's fucking his wife good 1.00

02:58:37.100 and he's educating himself 1.00

02:58:38.360 and he's stacking his money

02:58:39.420 and he's working hard

02:58:40.280 and he's reading

02:58:40.880 and he's a sexy 0.76

02:58:42.260 beast

02:58:42.820 then I think 0.66

02:58:43.820 less women 1.00

02:58:44.860 would not respect

02:58:45.900 their man

02:58:46.640 my woman respects me

02:58:47.980 no my wife respects me

02:58:49.460 and I think

02:58:50.280 I have a question

02:58:51.340 I have a question

02:58:52.660 I have a question

02:58:53.280 do you think

02:58:54.100 do you think Tom Brady

02:58:55.120 is in good shape

02:58:55.920 absolutely

02:58:57.000 he's a beast

02:58:57.400 okay do you think

02:58:58.040 he's on his A game

02:58:59.240 yeah and he

02:59:00.920 and he

02:59:02.200 I know you're going

02:59:02.620 and he still got divorced

02:59:04.120 yeah but you want to know

02:59:04.960 something there's

02:59:05.500 but for everyone

02:59:06.420 but we don't first of all

02:59:07.520 know what happened there

02:59:08.260 but I just want to say

02:59:09.000 Tom Brady is one example

02:59:10.940 we can't relate

02:59:12.180 to these famous people

02:59:13.140 though come on

02:59:13.620 I could give you

02:59:16.900 okay I just interviewed

02:59:17.920 a guy last week

02:59:19.000 okay and you could

02:59:19.740 you could tell me

02:59:20.440 ask me

02:59:21.020 tell me if he's better

02:59:22.160 to have loved and lost

02:59:23.320 than to

02:59:24.280 or whatever he said

02:59:25.620 better to have loved

02:59:26.460 and lost right

02:59:27.180 so

02:59:27.440 yeah yeah

02:59:28.580 so this guy was

02:59:29.400 a Bollywood actor

02:59:30.820 with a modeling contract

02:59:32.140 and he was on his way up

02:59:34.680 I forgot he was on

02:59:35.780 like some Netflix special

02:59:37.200 right

02:59:37.700 and he had one kid

02:59:39.240 with a woman

02:59:39.860 and basically

02:59:41.980 what happened

02:59:42.780 is he hasn't seen

02:59:43.480 this kid in two years

02:59:44.660 two years

02:59:45.780 he has not seen

02:59:46.520 he doesn't know

02:59:47.260 who's influencing

02:59:48.060 that child

02:59:48.800 to the point

02:59:49.640 he has heard

02:59:50.260 that the kid

02:59:50.900 will not call him

02:59:51.700 dad anymore

02:59:52.380 no wait

02:59:53.000 so his legacy

02:59:54.660 is gone

02:59:55.240 the kid does not

02:59:56.440 acknowledge him

02:59:57.160 as his father

02:59:57.940 and they're now

02:59:59.040 switching his last name

03:00:00.240 hasn't seen the kid

03:00:01.740 in two years

03:00:02.700 on top of that

03:00:04.180 this woman

03:00:04.800 got him fired

03:00:06.080 because they said 0.99

03:00:07.800 that he raped 0.99

03:00:08.660 that he raped her 0.99

03:00:09.860 like ten years ago 0.98

03:00:11.080 even though they were

03:00:12.280 married or whatever

03:00:13.400 she was so into him

03:00:15.720 she changed religions

03:00:17.080 for this man

03:00:17.860 so it wasn't like

03:00:19.500 she didn't respect him

03:00:20.640 in the beginning

03:00:21.240 okay but you know

03:00:22.380 wait wait wait wait

03:00:23.240 so now

03:00:24.600 he

03:00:25.740 and he told me

03:00:26.560 he said you know

03:00:27.060 sometimes I just think

03:00:28.040 about committing suicide

03:00:29.860 just because it's like

03:00:31.000 what do I have now

03:00:32.120 his kid's gone

03:00:33.460 he can't work

03:00:35.660 because he

03:00:37.240 everyone thinks

03:00:38.900 he's an abuser 0.99

03:00:39.680 rapist 1.00

03:00:40.660 and on top of that 1.00

03:00:42.800 I mean his wife's

03:00:45.420 gone too

03:00:45.920 like so I just

03:00:47.600 don't know how

03:00:48.480 in good faith

03:00:49.460 like if we're being

03:00:50.340 truly honest

03:00:51.760 with ourselves

03:00:52.420 you can say

03:00:53.480 it's better to have

03:00:54.460 loved and lost

03:00:55.340 for that guy

03:00:56.020 in that situation

03:00:56.980 and that is not

03:00:58.660 uncommon

03:00:59.600 okay so

03:01:00.360 I want to really

03:01:01.640 address this

03:01:02.420 I also want to add

03:01:04.000 one more thing

03:01:04.520 he was in his

03:01:05.660 40s I think

03:01:07.680 okay

03:01:07.960 so it's not like

03:01:08.920 he's a you know

03:01:09.620 if that happens to you

03:01:10.600 at 28 you can rebuild

03:01:12.200 you can figure it out

03:01:13.280 okay so put a

03:01:14.360 so let's just take

03:01:15.600 a bigger context here

03:01:16.720 let's look at

03:01:17.380 in general

03:01:18.240 can I give a

03:01:19.260 guarantee that

03:01:20.480 this will not happen

03:01:21.560 to you

03:01:21.820 no but I can say

03:01:23.180 you can have

03:01:23.720 higher probability

03:01:25.100 when in the United

03:01:26.200 States about 67%

03:01:27.700 of the people

03:01:28.740 have obesity

03:01:29.980 about one more

03:01:31.260 than one third

03:01:31.900 of the people

03:01:32.360 are overweight

03:01:33.220 if out of 10

03:01:34.680 of those men

03:01:35.300 that are labor class

03:01:36.480 they go to the gym

03:01:37.460 five days a week

03:01:38.320 they eat clean

03:01:39.400 at home

03:01:39.960 organic

03:01:40.620 they're reading

03:01:41.440 one book a month

03:01:42.260 they're investing

03:01:43.220 in their community

03:01:44.060 and making

03:01:44.440 volunteering

03:01:45.080 and reading

03:01:46.600 a good book

03:01:47.160 whether it's

03:01:47.520 the Bible

03:01:47.920 Quran

03:01:48.340 or the Torah

03:01:48.960 and they're

03:01:50.440 making a real

03:01:51.620 effort for self

03:01:52.640 improvement

03:01:53.020 on a continual

03:01:53.840 basis

03:01:54.200 and they're

03:01:54.740 working on their

03:01:55.460 mental attitude

03:01:56.300 on a daily basis

03:01:57.240 hold on

03:01:58.560 I do think

03:01:59.420 out of 10

03:01:59.840 of those men

03:02:00.500 you're right

03:02:01.360 maybe 3 of them

03:02:02.320 would still cheat

03:02:02.960 on them

03:02:03.260 and leave them 0.81

03:02:03.680 but I think

03:02:04.420 7 of them

03:02:05.120 maybe not

03:02:05.560 there's 2

03:02:06.860 differences

03:02:07.740 I hear the

03:02:08.340 obesity thing

03:02:09.220 a lot

03:02:09.580 like okay

03:02:10.100 there's 70%

03:02:10.920 but you can

03:02:11.320 make different

03:02:11.820 choices

03:02:12.240 the difference

03:02:13.160 is I think

03:02:13.860 that's a

03:02:14.200 fundamental

03:02:14.560 misunderstanding

03:02:15.480 of female

03:02:16.140 nature

03:02:16.540 women feel 0.99

03:02:17.160 one thing

03:02:17.620 one day

03:02:18.060 they feel

03:02:18.500 another thing

03:02:19.080 the other

03:02:19.460 but is it

03:02:20.200 important

03:02:20.560 for your man

03:02:21.160 to be attracted

03:02:21.540 to you

03:02:21.880 wait

03:02:21.960 so I'm not

03:02:22.760 saying it's not

03:02:23.560 important

03:02:23.920 but what I'm

03:02:24.960 saying is

03:02:25.400 what you eat

03:02:26.080 is in your

03:02:26.520 control

03:02:27.020 when you're

03:02:27.480 married

03:02:27.760 it is not

03:02:28.340 in your

03:02:28.620 control

03:02:29.040 there is

03:02:29.900 no way

03:02:30.640 you can

03:02:30.980 I've talked

03:02:31.740 to you

03:02:31.940 okay

03:02:32.120 I just

03:02:32.520 spoke to

03:02:33.280 a guy

03:02:33.460 that was

03:02:33.740 a 2 time

03:02:34.640 MLB

03:02:35.720 champion

03:02:36.460 baseball

03:02:37.100 so you're

03:02:37.860 telling me

03:02:38.220 a 2 time

03:02:39.240 MLB

03:02:39.880 champion

03:02:40.320 just should

03:02:40.860 have did

03:02:41.180 more

03:02:41.400 I'm talking

03:02:41.780 about

03:02:42.000 you can

03:02:42.240 improve

03:02:42.500 your odds

03:02:42.900 but at

03:02:45.380 what percent

03:02:46.220 of men

03:02:47.200 does this

03:02:47.640 have to

03:02:48.000 happen

03:02:48.300 to

03:02:48.620 for it

03:02:49.880 to be

03:02:50.220 negligence

03:02:50.940 you will

03:02:51.300 have a

03:02:51.580 much higher

03:02:52.060 rate

03:02:52.340 of success

03:02:53.980 if as a

03:02:54.760 man

03:02:54.920 you take

03:02:55.280 responsibility

03:02:55.920 for looking

03:02:56.580 good

03:02:56.880 for your

03:02:57.620 wife 1.00

03:02:57.960 naked 0.99

03:02:58.460 you have

03:02:59.740 a responsibility 1.00

03:03:00.400 for fucking 1.00

03:03:01.140 you have 1.00

03:03:01.660 the responsibility 1.00

03:03:02.240 for fucking 1.00

03:03:02.920 I agree 1.00

03:03:04.120 with you

03:03:04.420 I look good 0.95

03:03:06.940 naked 0.82

03:03:07.240 I'm going to keep 0.77

03:03:07.800 it real

03:03:08.120 plus

03:03:08.460 so

03:03:09.080 and I'm not

03:03:13.920 saying that

03:03:14.460 that's not a

03:03:16.340 part of it

03:03:16.940 but again

03:03:17.840 it always goes

03:03:18.720 to women

03:03:19.100 feel one way

03:03:20.160 and they feel

03:03:20.840 another

03:03:21.180 inconsistency

03:03:21.680 I have

03:03:22.300 talked to

03:03:22.880 men

03:03:23.260 that I

03:03:23.780 mean

03:03:23.940 we can

03:03:24.320 do

03:03:24.460 famous

03:03:24.920 examples

03:03:25.400 of men

03:03:25.780 that

03:03:25.980 literally

03:03:26.560 had

03:03:27.060 everything

03:03:27.500 and yet

03:03:28.680 their wife

03:03:29.320 still left

03:03:30.200 yeah because

03:03:30.860 we're not even

03:03:31.460 taking into

03:03:31.860 consideration

03:03:32.260 the birth

03:03:33.100 what's it

03:03:34.880 called

03:03:35.140 the pills

03:03:36.500 that these

03:03:36.820 women take 1.00

03:03:37.260 for birth

03:03:37.660 control

03:03:38.020 so even

03:03:39.920 if your

03:03:40.320 woman might 1.00

03:03:40.840 be attracted

03:03:41.640 to you

03:03:41.980 at the

03:03:42.240 beginning

03:03:42.560 and she

03:03:43.160 goes off

03:03:43.520 the pill

03:03:43.900 which most

03:03:44.600 women have 0.95

03:03:44.980 been on

03:03:45.240 the pill

03:03:45.560 you might

03:03:46.780 look good

03:03:47.320 and she

03:03:47.860 might

03:03:48.040 still not

03:03:48.620 be attracted

03:03:49.000 to you

03:03:49.260 after like

03:03:49.580 five years

03:03:50.040 yeah

03:03:50.680 if you

03:03:51.920 took a

03:03:52.680 pill

03:03:53.020 right

03:03:53.600 and

03:03:54.460 if they

03:03:55.720 issued a

03:03:56.320 pill

03:03:56.540 and 2%

03:03:57.180 of people

03:03:57.620 died

03:03:58.060 that would

03:03:58.940 be considered

03:03:59.440 negligent

03:04:00.160 they would

03:04:00.820 be

03:04:01.000 sued

03:04:02.700 and I know

03:04:03.380 this isn't

03:04:03.900 like a fun

03:04:04.560 reality

03:04:05.140 I don't say

03:04:05.720 this in a

03:04:06.120 happy way

03:04:06.620 but again

03:04:07.420 I'm not

03:04:08.220 in the

03:04:08.560 business

03:04:08.900 of selling

03:04:09.600 dreams

03:04:10.040 and I

03:04:11.140 just think

03:04:12.120 that a lot

03:04:13.220 of times

03:04:13.620 when you say

03:04:14.020 oh just

03:04:14.400 work out

03:04:15.120 just do

03:04:15.660 this

03:04:15.960 do this

03:04:16.340 do this

03:04:16.660 it sounds

03:04:17.540 nice

03:04:17.860 but the

03:04:18.220 truth

03:04:18.460 of the

03:04:18.720 matter

03:04:18.940 is the

03:04:19.300 media

03:04:19.700 is telling

03:04:20.240 women 1.00

03:04:20.520 to do

03:04:20.900 the wrong

03:04:21.320 thing

03:04:21.620 her friends

03:04:22.300 are telling

03:04:22.820 her to do

03:04:23.320 the wrong

03:04:23.820 thing

03:04:24.180 social media

03:04:25.320 is telling

03:04:25.940 her to do

03:04:26.400 the wrong

03:04:26.820 thing

03:04:27.060 and on top

03:04:27.520 of that

03:04:27.780 she is

03:04:28.380 paid

03:04:29.180 she is

03:04:30.180 given

03:04:30.640 money

03:04:31.000 and nobody

03:04:31.960 if we took

03:04:32.680 the emotion

03:04:33.240 out of it

03:04:33.900 right

03:04:34.160 if that was

03:04:34.560 a business

03:04:35.080 deal

03:04:35.500 everyone would

03:04:36.380 say oh my

03:04:37.120 god I would

03:04:37.540 never take

03:04:38.400 that deal

03:04:38.880 but because

03:04:39.820 we're really

03:04:40.280 attached to

03:04:41.120 it

03:04:41.360 we don't like

03:04:42.300 the way

03:04:42.540 these numbers

03:04:43.140 make us

03:04:43.640 feel

03:04:44.100 right

03:04:44.640 which I

03:04:45.080 understand

03:04:45.640 you know

03:04:47.360 I think a lot

03:04:48.780 of times

03:04:49.060 we have a

03:04:49.360 hard time

03:04:49.800 having like

03:04:50.220 a real

03:04:50.660 conversation

03:04:51.380 about it

03:04:51.920 but the

03:04:52.260 truth is

03:04:52.720 the majority

03:04:53.300 of men

03:04:53.740 will not

03:04:54.340 win

03:04:54.660 Pearl if

03:04:55.020 you have

03:04:55.240 a hundred

03:04:55.580 men

03:04:56.000 that are

03:04:56.500 physically

03:04:56.820 fit

03:04:57.280 capable

03:04:58.060 they're

03:04:58.780 continuously

03:04:59.280 educating

03:04:59.840 themselves

03:05:00.300 they're eating

03:05:01.120 clean

03:05:01.540 they look

03:05:02.020 good naked 1.00

03:05:02.520 they're fucking 1.00

03:05:03.040 their wife 1.00

03:05:03.500 good

03:05:03.800 I think

03:05:04.700 out of a hundred

03:05:05.360 in that

03:05:06.340 control group

03:05:07.920 in that control

03:05:09.040 group compared

03:05:09.640 to a randomized

03:05:10.400 group

03:05:10.880 I think

03:05:11.580 in that control

03:05:12.220 group

03:05:12.440 you have

03:05:12.740 way more

03:05:13.200 men

03:05:13.520 whose wife

03:05:14.020 are happy

03:05:14.360 with them

03:05:14.600 I think

03:05:15.140 that women 0.97

03:05:15.580 are women 0.97

03:05:16.060 and if that

03:05:16.640 were true

03:05:17.140 then the men

03:05:17.740 in Hollywood

03:05:18.320 would just

03:05:18.900 have amazing

03:05:19.580 long

03:05:20.020 successful

03:05:20.660 marriages

03:05:21.020 I'm talking

03:05:22.000 about percentages

03:05:22.680 I'm talking

03:05:23.220 about percentages

03:05:23.800 I think

03:05:24.360 okay well

03:05:24.920 then we could

03:05:25.600 take athletes

03:05:26.600 and entertainers

03:05:27.540 they're all

03:05:27.980 very good

03:05:28.580 looking

03:05:29.100 a lot of

03:05:29.780 them are cheating

03:05:30.100 on their lives

03:05:30.660 but you

03:05:32.560 said

03:05:33.120 your standard

03:05:34.720 was looks

03:05:35.480 and right

03:05:36.320 now I'm

03:05:36.540 trying to

03:05:36.860 explore that

03:05:37.460 idea

03:05:37.720 now you're

03:05:38.040 changing it

03:05:38.800 and I'm

03:05:41.440 saying okay

03:05:41.880 let's explore

03:05:42.580 looks

03:05:43.060 well when

03:05:44.040 you look

03:05:44.340 at Hollywood

03:05:44.940 when you

03:05:45.800 look at

03:05:46.260 athletes

03:05:47.140 their marriages

03:05:48.160 don't really

03:05:48.760 last long

03:05:49.400 I also think

03:05:50.440 women can 1.00

03:05:50.960 get the 1.00

03:05:52.220 ick

03:05:52.640 as they

03:05:53.560 call it

03:05:53.940 these days

03:05:54.380 for other

03:05:55.500 reasons other

03:05:56.060 than looks

03:05:56.640 you know

03:05:57.020 like I've

03:05:58.080 known many

03:05:58.380 dudes

03:05:58.660 decent looking

03:05:59.340 dudes

03:05:59.600 they're with

03:05:59.860 a girl

03:06:00.260 for three

03:06:01.260 four years

03:06:01.640 or whatever

03:06:01.900 and then she

03:06:02.280 just goes

03:06:02.680 off him

03:06:03.060 for some 1.00

03:06:03.400 stupid 1.00

03:06:03.700 fucking 1.00

03:06:03.960 thing 1.00

03:06:04.200 that he

03:06:04.440 did

03:06:04.760 and it's

03:06:05.320 not because

03:06:05.720 he's not

03:06:06.020 in shape

03:06:06.300 I would

03:06:07.180 agree with

03:06:07.560 you in

03:06:07.780 terms of

03:06:08.100 self-improvement

03:06:08.720 I think

03:06:09.000 everybody

03:06:09.400 should be

03:06:10.100 regardless

03:06:11.000 everybody

03:06:11.540 should be

03:06:11.900 self-improving

03:06:12.400 the whole 0.98

03:06:12.660 damn time 0.99

03:06:13.160 I think 0.99

03:06:13.380 we should

03:06:13.580 be going

03:06:13.800 to the gym

03:06:14.320 I think

03:06:14.620 we should

03:06:14.880 be reading

03:06:15.460 you know

03:06:16.300 Navelle

03:06:17.280 Ravikant

03:06:17.900 talks about

03:06:18.340 reading for

03:06:18.720 an hour

03:06:19.000 a day

03:06:19.460 very few

03:06:19.920 people do

03:06:20.320 it

03:06:20.460 we should

03:06:20.680 be doing

03:06:20.960 that

03:06:21.280 we should

03:06:21.640 be enriching

03:06:22.660 ourselves

03:06:22.900 in many

03:06:23.160 different ways

03:06:23.700 but whether

03:06:25.080 that's really

03:06:25.880 I would agree

03:06:26.600 with you

03:06:26.860 probably over

03:06:27.480 100 people

03:06:28.060 it's going

03:06:28.340 to improve

03:06:28.680 the odds

03:06:29.040 of a proportion

03:06:29.580 of those

03:06:29.920 people

03:06:30.240 but is it

03:06:31.180 really going

03:06:31.980 to change

03:06:32.260 the dollar

03:06:32.540 because she

03:06:32.860 might just

03:06:33.260 get she

03:06:33.720 might just

03:06:38.720 even more

03:06:39.100 than that

03:06:40.380 actually

03:06:40.740 the reality

03:06:41.820 is like

03:06:42.500 that premise

03:06:43.060 of everyone

03:06:44.040 should improve

03:06:44.780 is not a

03:06:45.540 good argument

03:06:46.160 because

03:06:46.800 let's assume

03:06:48.480 everyone

03:06:49.100 wants to

03:06:49.740 improve

03:06:50.100 and everyone

03:06:50.600 wants to

03:06:50.820 go to gym

03:06:51.220 everyone

03:06:51.400 wants to

03:06:51.600 start making

03:06:51.980 money

03:06:52.340 women are 1.00

03:06:53.360 still only

03:06:53.800 going to

03:06:54.100 go for

03:06:54.420 the top

03:06:54.780 10

03:06:55.040 at the end

03:06:55.420 of the day

03:06:55.740 so even

03:06:56.040 if everyone

03:06:56.400 improves

03:06:56.860 women will 1.00

03:06:57.480 just raise

03:06:57.840 their standards

03:06:58.300 higher

03:06:58.680 that's what's

03:06:59.580 going to happen

03:06:59.880 the impetus

03:07:00.120 is always

03:07:00.520 on the guys

03:07:01.020 isn't it

03:07:01.380 the impetus

03:07:01.820 is always

03:07:02.320 well the guys

03:07:03.020 are going to

03:07:03.320 shape up

03:07:03.760 then

03:07:03.980 you know

03:07:04.420 you've got

03:07:04.820 to do

03:07:05.060 better

03:07:05.320 in order

03:07:05.880 so even

03:07:10.260 if every

03:07:10.800 guy was

03:07:11.180 to start

03:07:11.460 going to

03:07:11.700 the gym

03:07:12.020 because

03:07:12.420 every guy

03:07:12.740 is not

03:07:12.920 going to

03:07:13.120 go to

03:07:13.340 the gym

03:07:13.540 and we're

03:07:14.460 all going

03:07:14.760 to look

03:07:14.940 the same

03:07:15.260 some men

03:07:16.200 are still

03:07:16.460 short

03:07:16.700 some men

03:07:17.020 are still

03:07:17.300 tall

03:07:17.520 so women 0.99

03:07:18.380 will still

03:07:18.840 always select

03:07:19.840 for the best

03:07:20.760 out of the

03:07:21.400 bunch

03:07:21.720 and the thing

03:07:22.220 is every metric

03:07:23.040 people give

03:07:23.920 me

03:07:24.300 they'll be

03:07:25.000 like okay

03:07:25.460 just find

03:07:26.040 a church

03:07:26.500 goer

03:07:27.180 like and

03:07:27.920 then I'll

03:07:28.200 say okay

03:07:28.600 these are the

03:07:29.160 numbers for

03:07:29.860 church goers

03:07:30.700 and the numbers

03:07:31.440 are still

03:07:32.260 bad

03:07:33.500 I'm sorry

03:07:34.820 one out of

03:07:35.460 four

03:07:35.820 divorce

03:07:36.900 which I

03:07:37.500 it's arguably

03:07:38.460 higher than

03:07:39.160 that but

03:07:39.700 I'm going to

03:07:40.380 go with the

03:07:40.700 number they

03:07:41.140 give me

03:07:41.580 25%

03:07:42.460 that's still

03:07:43.880 bad

03:07:44.560 that is still

03:07:45.180 risky

03:07:45.860 we're talking

03:07:47.780 about a game

03:07:48.280 of probabilities

03:07:48.900 here

03:07:49.260 would you agree

03:07:50.100 on that

03:07:50.460 this is a game

03:07:52.060 of probabilities

03:07:52.440 I would say

03:07:53.420 I would say

03:07:54.080 this is a game

03:07:54.760 of risks

03:07:55.360 versus rewards

03:07:56.280 I agree

03:07:56.580 so I would say

03:07:58.320 that every single

03:07:59.060 man can take

03:07:59.680 full ownership

03:08:00.480 and responsibility

03:08:01.300 over looking

03:08:02.300 good naked 1.00

03:08:02.960 fucking his 1.00

03:08:03.660 wife good 1.00

03:08:04.160 going to the

03:08:04.660 gym five six

03:08:05.240 days a week

03:08:05.780 reading one

03:08:06.360 book a month

03:08:06.920 working really

03:08:07.820 hard saving

03:08:08.480 his money

03:08:08.880 living below

03:08:09.420 his means

03:08:09.940 those are

03:08:11.760 variables that

03:08:12.520 every single

03:08:13.160 man can own

03:08:13.980 and take

03:08:15.100 account of

03:08:15.440 and being sober

03:08:16.140 not being a

03:08:16.760 drunk

03:08:16.920 and even if

03:08:17.780 you do that

03:08:18.340 you will still

03:08:18.900 have a good

03:08:19.520 chance of getting

03:08:20.280 divorced

03:08:20.560 but you have a

03:08:21.000 much higher

03:08:22.140 it will be less

03:08:23.940 likely but you

03:08:24.720 will still have

03:08:25.400 a good chance

03:08:25.700 but you have

03:08:26.040 a higher probability

03:08:26.900 of success

03:08:27.440 it will be more

03:08:29.220 likely that you

03:08:30.080 will succeed

03:08:30.880 but you still

03:08:31.780 have a significant

03:08:32.940 chance of divorce

03:08:34.660 which is for a lot

03:08:37.260 of men

03:08:37.760 suicide

03:08:38.720 hold on

03:08:39.240 I got a question

03:08:40.380 I really got a question

03:08:41.120 and I know you laugh

03:08:43.000 but I'm telling you

03:08:44.140 I've spoken

03:08:45.320 if you've seen

03:08:48.200 what men look like 0.98

03:08:49.720 when they can't

03:08:50.380 access their children

03:08:51.360 it's not really funny

03:08:52.460 it's really

03:08:53.280 I know a guy

03:08:54.860 who hasn't seen

03:08:55.440 his daughter

03:08:55.840 for years

03:08:56.600 and I just

03:08:57.880 want to emphasize

03:08:58.720 but I want to know

03:09:00.040 a question

03:09:00.420 I got a question

03:09:01.980 I want to know

03:09:02.460 based on everything

03:09:03.660 that you two females 0.66

03:09:04.860 have heard

03:09:05.640 right

03:09:06.000 I'm excluding Pearl

03:09:07.480 because she's a 0.99

03:09:08.380 conversationalist

03:09:09.260 I give you

03:09:10.180 average type of woman 1.00

03:09:11.640 I'm not talking about

03:09:14.940 that was a test

03:09:19.980 that was a test

03:09:20.540 are they mad

03:09:21.180 average

03:09:21.900 yeah I'm talking about

03:09:22.840 like as of like

03:09:23.900 normal people

03:09:24.500 you know

03:09:24.880 based on all the things

03:09:26.460 that men have to go through

03:09:27.440 and everything that they

03:09:28.160 just said

03:09:28.540 the discomfort

03:09:29.220 the way that we

03:09:30.340 basically got our hands tied

03:09:31.460 how do you feel

03:09:33.060 about hearing this

03:09:34.880 happening to men

03:09:35.940 so I think it

03:09:37.240 I think like

03:09:38.620 that is a risk

03:09:39.740 and I think that

03:09:41.040 love should

03:09:42.100 conquer it

03:09:43.060 but I

03:09:43.540 but I do think

03:09:44.480 love conquers the world

03:09:45.120 so you don't care

03:09:46.480 no I do care

03:09:47.580 I do care

03:09:48.300 I do think that

03:09:49.580 you know

03:09:50.140 ideally

03:09:51.200 like if I get married

03:09:52.540 I do not want to get divorced

03:09:54.080 I do not want to be that

03:09:55.120 stat

03:09:55.560 that Pearl keeps saying

03:09:57.060 I don't want to be

03:09:57.880 in the broken down family

03:09:59.240 with like a kid

03:10:00.300 that doesn't see his father

03:10:01.240 that's horrific

03:10:01.760 but to hear that

03:10:02.560 I'd rather be single

03:10:03.740 personally

03:10:04.400 than go through

03:10:06.340 than not have the discernment

03:10:08.080 than not have the discernment

03:10:09.900 or the

03:10:10.340 you have to have a bit of trust

03:10:12.060 you have to go

03:10:13.000 some way

03:10:14.040 if you are

03:10:15.020 it depends who you're mixing with though

03:10:16.400 right

03:10:16.620 if you go out

03:10:17.420 and you're meeting people

03:10:18.300 and you're just meeting people

03:10:20.280 in the wrong environment

03:10:21.200 I don't think you understand the question

03:10:22.320 but I'm just explaining to you

03:10:24.020 do I care what men think about it

03:10:25.780 yes I do care

03:10:26.540 no do you care

03:10:27.500 do you care about the effects

03:10:29.120 that it's having on men

03:10:30.520 yes I care

03:10:31.540 because it's directly affecting

03:10:33.940 everyone in society

03:10:35.360 so of course I care

03:10:36.660 that's not what we want

03:10:38.380 however

03:10:38.940 I do think

03:10:40.120 that men

03:10:40.880 have a responsibility

03:10:41.700 to be a bit more discerning

03:10:43.120 and not go straight 1.00

03:10:44.040 for the big ass 1.00

03:10:45.280 or whatever it is 0.99

03:10:45.920 and not actually think about 0.99

03:10:46.920 but what if we like the big ass 0.99

03:10:47.880 you can light the big ass 0.99

03:10:50.760 but realize that there's more to it 0.99

03:10:52.340 just go for a smaller one

03:10:53.240 if you want to get married

03:10:53.860 but even if you call

03:10:56.220 I call them low risk

03:10:57.340 and high risk women 0.61

03:10:58.460 like you know

03:10:59.700 chest tattoo

03:11:00.860 high risk

03:11:01.660 older

03:11:04.020 high risk

03:11:06.180 younger

03:11:06.820 lower risk

03:11:07.700 so

03:11:07.960 but the thing is like

03:11:09.200 there's no guarantee

03:11:10.300 my favorite test

03:11:12.200 my favorite test

03:11:13.020 for a wife

03:11:13.880 is to tell her

03:11:14.660 to open her mouth 0.99

03:11:15.420 real wide

03:11:16.460 just so I can see

03:11:17.600 if I could fit it in

03:11:19.020 I think the thing that

03:11:21.240 your German wife did 1.00

03:11:21.960 when you first met them

03:11:22.660 wow

03:11:23.020 I think

03:11:24.140 I think the crazy thing about this is

03:11:25.500 the shocking part about this is

03:11:26.980 if this was

03:11:27.920 the roles were reversed

03:11:28.840 and this was men

03:11:29.520 people would be like

03:11:30.940 oh my god

03:11:31.920 how are you going through

03:11:32.740 this stressful

03:11:33.380 anxiety filled situation

03:11:34.780 throughout your life

03:11:35.540 now men do go through

03:11:36.460 a lot to be honest with you

03:11:37.260 but the fact that

03:11:38.060 there's a lot of pressure

03:11:38.400 and there's a lot of

03:11:39.420 but we're all going through

03:11:40.380 are you advocating for men

03:11:41.100 are you advocating for men

03:11:42.760 over there

03:11:43.140 I've always advocated for men

03:11:44.760 I don't know

03:11:45.200 I'm just listening

03:11:46.040 I've always advocated for men

03:11:47.260 I understand

03:11:48.140 I understand that you say

03:11:49.000 that we all go through

03:11:49.860 yeah we all go through things

03:11:51.040 we are all going through things

03:11:52.480 but we're talking about

03:11:53.160 something that directly impacts

03:11:54.480 by women to men

03:11:55.660 we're talking about something

03:11:56.340 that women and men 0.58

03:11:57.260 have full control over

03:11:58.140 and you're sitting here

03:11:59.240 watching multiple different men

03:12:00.680 from multiple different cultures

03:12:01.620 from all across the world

03:12:02.400 sit down and tell you

03:12:03.240 we're going through a lot

03:12:04.660 right now

03:12:05.120 and we're still trying

03:12:06.440 to be men

03:12:06.960 but we don't know

03:12:08.060 our hands are tied

03:12:08.760 we have a lot of pressure

03:12:09.540 anxiety

03:12:09.940 I want to point out something

03:12:12.060 when men talk about

03:12:13.920 their problems

03:12:14.620 women always have 1.00

03:12:15.360 like this tendency

03:12:16.700 to find a way

03:12:17.380 to blame them

03:12:18.440 so you see

03:12:19.920 like her first reaction

03:12:21.700 was well 1.00

03:12:22.560 you're going for the big ass 1.00

03:12:24.140 like what did you expect 1.00

03:12:25.040 it's okay

03:12:26.680 it's okay

03:12:27.020 it's not just you

03:12:27.980 it's like every chick 0.84

03:12:29.040 but

03:12:29.320 I've just done so many of these

03:12:31.560 and it's funny

03:12:33.760 men kind of have

03:12:34.600 the same tendency too

03:12:35.980 where they're like

03:12:36.540 well you should have

03:12:37.240 worked out

03:12:38.020 and so it's like

03:12:40.820 I don't know

03:12:41.520 men just really

03:12:42.120 don't get empathy

03:12:43.020 like that

03:12:43.800 I don't feel like

03:12:44.960 y'all feel bad

03:12:45.580 or even feel like

03:12:46.380 yo that's crazy

03:12:47.080 I think it's communication

03:12:48.540 between men and women 0.90

03:12:49.440 but this podcast

03:12:50.700 is all about communication

03:12:51.680 I think communication

03:12:52.480 makes it worse

03:12:54.960 I think communication

03:12:55.960 with a logical mind

03:12:57.400 a woman has a logical mind 1.00

03:12:58.480 no none of us do

03:12:59.940 I don't even

03:13:00.640 none of us

03:13:01.260 like come on

03:13:01.820 let's go make the emotions

03:13:02.680 no we're all too emotional

03:13:03.960 look at the natural response

03:13:05.420 that she gave

03:13:05.960 I asked a particular question

03:13:07.200 and she said

03:13:07.540 but we're all going through

03:13:08.480 and it's like yo

03:13:09.420 I think society

03:13:10.540 has like messed us all up

03:13:12.260 we're all messed up

03:13:12.980 I'm not married

03:13:14.020 do you want to be married?

03:13:15.820 wait wait wait

03:13:16.420 I have a question

03:13:17.620 wow

03:13:19.160 I ain't gonna ring

03:13:21.020 I have a question

03:13:22.520 I have a question

03:13:23.160 who creates society

03:13:25.220 and the culture

03:13:26.040 well

03:13:27.120 at the moment

03:13:28.300 we have a whole

03:13:29.480 heap of people

03:13:30.580 but it's predominantly

03:13:31.780 men at the moment

03:13:32.460 it's the women 1.00

03:13:32.800 so no

03:13:33.280 so who's

03:13:34.560 who's the media

03:13:35.340 marketed towards

03:13:36.280 women 1.00

03:13:37.340 depends what

03:13:37.940 don't be in denial

03:13:38.620 no it depends

03:13:39.480 which media

03:13:39.980 wait wait wait

03:13:40.580 wait so

03:13:41.080 no no no

03:13:41.760 let us

03:13:42.240 shh

03:13:42.740 are you talking about news

03:13:43.740 okay okay okay

03:13:44.560 listen listen listen

03:13:45.800 if women make 80% 0.90

03:13:47.500 of consumer buying decisions

03:13:48.960 who is the media

03:13:50.600 marketed towards

03:13:51.540 with that notion

03:13:53.080 it would be women 0.95

03:13:53.980 okay

03:13:54.480 who is music marketed towards

03:13:56.280 both

03:13:57.220 no

03:13:57.620 come on

03:13:58.640 try again

03:13:59.120 try again

03:14:00.200 look at

03:14:00.800 look at the songs

03:14:01.560 on the radio

03:14:02.080 who are the songs

03:14:02.880 marketed to

03:14:03.580 both

03:14:04.680 it depends

03:14:05.260 it's not

03:14:05.660 it's not

03:14:06.300 so if women are making 1.00

03:14:07.440 80% of consumer buying decisions

03:14:09.200 think about this again

03:14:10.240 who is

03:14:11.200 who is it marketed towards

03:14:12.440 it depends in the charts

03:14:13.760 right now

03:14:14.280 please please be honest

03:14:15.320 I am being honest

03:14:16.180 it depends on the artist

03:14:17.140 I'm telling you

03:14:18.120 it's mostly women 1.00

03:14:18.800 okay

03:14:19.080 okay okay

03:14:19.900 so next

03:14:20.720 next we're gonna go

03:14:21.360 to institutions

03:14:22.320 colleges

03:14:23.660 who are they marketed towards

03:14:25.020 generally don't know

03:14:26.580 both

03:14:26.940 students

03:14:28.200 try again

03:14:29.580 try again

03:14:30.160 try again

03:14:30.800 I don't

03:14:31.720 I think

03:14:32.120 so now women 1.00

03:14:33.240 are almost 70%

03:14:34.420 of college applicants

03:14:36.020 true

03:14:36.300 okay

03:14:37.100 so

03:14:37.500 where

03:14:37.840 in the UK

03:14:38.500 both

03:14:39.120 America and the West

03:14:40.360 okay

03:14:41.060 okay

03:14:41.480 now who are

03:14:42.380 who are the universities

03:14:43.340 marketed towards

03:14:44.260 generally don't know

03:14:46.340 because when I

03:14:47.160 when I was at uni

03:14:47.900 it was

03:14:48.700 try it

03:14:49.160 try it

03:14:49.540 I have more guys

03:14:50.700 okay

03:14:50.900 so if 70% of applicants

03:14:52.720 if there's more female applicants 0.99

03:14:54.500 now than before

03:14:55.200 yeah

03:14:55.380 then it's gonna be

03:14:56.000 more female 0.94

03:14:56.560 80%

03:14:56.920 okay

03:14:57.380 who is it marketed towards

03:14:59.080 I guess females 0.99

03:15:00.680 but I'm not aware

03:15:01.460 okay

03:15:01.800 okay

03:15:02.100 this is just a thought exercise

03:15:06.140 okay

03:15:06.680 you said women three times

03:15:08.180 okay

03:15:08.620 okay

03:15:09.400 so

03:15:09.800 so

03:15:10.160 now I have a question

03:15:11.020 I have a question

03:15:11.500 if the woman is 0.99

03:15:12.380 typically spends more time

03:15:14.140 you forgot one more question

03:15:14.880 wait

03:15:15.040 one more question

03:15:15.820 who is raising the kids

03:15:17.620 hmm

03:15:18.100 so

03:15:19.220 like

03:15:20.240 I don't know

03:15:21.320 who is allowed to raise the kids

03:15:23.340 we just

03:15:24.180 we just did a whole show

03:15:24.960 the majority

03:15:25.340 you mean

03:15:25.800 who are the majority of people

03:15:27.940 raising the kids

03:15:28.800 yeah

03:15:29.500 who knows

03:15:30.060 no no

03:15:30.480 okay

03:15:30.760 I don't have kids

03:15:31.540 okay okay

03:15:31.660 so let me

03:15:32.200 let me get this straight

03:15:33.020 we just did a whole show

03:15:34.200 we just did a whole show

03:15:35.440 this is

03:15:35.760 women 1.00

03:15:36.100 okay

03:15:36.720 thank you

03:15:37.260 thank you

03:15:40.440 so

03:15:41.120 who is responsible

03:15:42.400 for the culture

03:15:43.220 I still think

03:15:46.740 no because

03:15:47.960 wait

03:15:48.360 when you're

03:15:48.880 okay

03:15:49.320 I know what you're saying

03:15:50.320 about raising

03:15:51.020 whatever the women 0.99

03:15:51.840 are

03:15:52.240 whatever

03:15:52.820 however

03:15:53.300 when you're making laws

03:15:54.320 and stuff

03:15:54.840 it's predominantly

03:15:55.740 men

03:15:56.420 that's not culture

03:15:57.280 wait wait wait

03:15:57.740 wait wait

03:15:57.980 please stop

03:15:59.160 please stop

03:15:59.620 I'm making a point guys

03:16:00.840 so wait wait

03:16:01.400 so now you're gonna say the laws

03:16:02.600 right

03:16:02.920 okay

03:16:03.280 okay

03:16:03.680 who is

03:16:04.900 who is the majority

03:16:05.920 of the population

03:16:06.860 it's about 50-50

03:16:08.440 isn't it

03:16:08.820 nope

03:16:08.900 nope

03:16:09.240 it's a slightly more

03:16:10.480 what gender

03:16:10.960 okay

03:16:11.520 who is

03:16:12.420 who is the biggest

03:16:13.300 swing voter group

03:16:14.340 maybe women 1.00

03:16:15.980 so

03:16:17.400 who are laws

03:16:18.340 created for

03:16:19.260 women 1.00

03:16:20.780 so

03:16:22.520 who are responsible

03:16:24.180 for these laws

03:16:24.960 fine fine

03:16:25.500 women 1.00

03:16:25.860 now I do think

03:16:30.580 simps are an equally

03:16:31.720 big of a problem

03:16:32.540 big simps

03:16:33.000 I do think

03:16:33.540 I do really hate simps

03:16:35.100 so I'm not

03:16:36.220 I'm not trying to

03:16:36.940 the simps

03:16:37.500 let all this happen

03:16:38.620 right

03:16:38.840 they should have been like

03:16:39.760 oh no

03:16:40.480 these women are getting 1.00

03:16:41.300 out of hand guys

03:16:42.140 let's take this away

03:16:43.120 right

03:16:43.440 like women's sports 1.00

03:16:45.320 I think men should stop 1.00

03:16:46.280 I love

03:16:46.820 I love volleyball

03:16:47.720 personally

03:16:48.760 but I'm just so sick 1.00

03:16:49.580 of seeing these bitches 1.00

03:16:50.240 whine 1.00

03:16:50.660 I'm like

03:16:51.620 take this away

03:16:52.200 I would just cut it

03:16:53.020 but they keep

03:16:53.580 complaining about the pay

03:16:54.720 because they don't

03:16:55.160 make any money

03:16:55.700 but different

03:16:56.240 different day

03:16:56.740 but you know

03:16:58.260 so it's like

03:16:58.900 who's responsible

03:16:59.600 for the culture

03:17:00.360 now I don't say this

03:17:02.020 you know

03:17:02.460 to hate on women

03:17:03.780 but it just seems like

03:17:04.620 whenever we get power

03:17:05.480 it just goes

03:17:06.100 what about

03:17:07.600 what about

03:17:08.300 Margaret Thatcher

03:17:09.180 oh my god

03:17:10.160 no

03:17:10.440 let's not get politics

03:17:11.900 so I don't

03:17:13.000 I don't

03:17:14.260 so

03:17:14.980 so

03:17:15.740 so

03:17:16.060 okay

03:17:16.340 she privatized everything 0.83

03:17:17.560 we'll go

03:17:18.340 we'll actually

03:17:18.980 we'll actually go

03:17:19.960 I don't know much

03:17:20.960 about Margaret Thatcher

03:17:22.520 and herself

03:17:23.000 but I will give you

03:17:24.020 a little bit of history

03:17:24.940 on queens

03:17:25.720 and women in power 1.00

03:17:26.900 let me give you a hint

03:17:28.920 do you think it's good

03:17:29.560 or bad

03:17:30.060 oh god

03:17:32.140 the answer's not women 1.00

03:17:33.120 no

03:17:33.520 no

03:17:33.700 I will

03:17:34.580 I will acknowledge

03:17:35.460 there have been

03:17:36.260 some queens in history

03:17:37.500 that have done great things

03:17:38.720 there are exceptions

03:17:39.580 to every rule

03:17:40.660 some women were raised 1.00

03:17:42.540 to do that

03:17:43.300 they're usually

03:17:43.960 you know

03:17:44.500 raised by a high status guy

03:17:46.220 that's typically

03:17:46.820 however

03:17:47.360 women are more likely 1.00

03:17:48.980 to wage war

03:17:49.920 women are more likely 1.00

03:17:51.620 to spend

03:17:52.300 and that's why

03:17:53.680 women shouldn't vote 1.00

03:17:57.040 great ad

03:17:58.980 I see how you did that

03:18:00.300 thank you

03:18:01.120 thank you everybody

03:18:03.140 where can somebody buy that

03:18:04.520 so guys get this

03:18:05.540 at the audacity network

03:18:07.080 dot shopify

03:18:08.980 the link to that

03:18:10.880 is in the description

03:18:11.740 thanks everyone for coming

03:18:13.020 let's do a round of applause

03:18:14.300 okay why don't everyone

03:18:18.020 do final thoughts

03:18:19.240 tonight

03:18:19.680 so here

03:18:20.500 go around

03:18:21.180 and then we'll do

03:18:21.660 second row

03:18:22.240 we lost her

03:18:23.120 where'd the chick 1.00

03:18:23.840 in the middle go

03:18:24.600 she had enough 0.99

03:18:25.240 oh yeah well

03:18:26.540 and I thought we were being

03:18:27.760 I thought she was my friend

03:18:29.060 some people have trains

03:18:30.660 or whatever

03:18:31.100 so go ahead

03:18:31.980 go ahead

03:18:32.260 okay final thought

03:18:33.860 everyone love everyone

03:18:35.080 have some respect

03:18:36.320 for each other

03:18:36.960 if we all live with respect

03:18:38.360 with love and peace

03:18:39.360 we shall thrive

03:18:40.460 as a community

03:18:41.140 that's it

03:18:42.080 peace love

03:18:42.620 that is not true at all

03:18:44.000 I just needed to

03:18:46.760 go ahead

03:18:47.140 I would say

03:18:49.160 I respect what everyone

03:18:51.160 said here

03:18:51.740 I hope a lot of you

03:18:53.040 have a good attitude

03:18:54.900 and have some hope

03:18:55.980 and be a little bit

03:18:57.280 more romantic

03:18:57.920 and also

03:18:58.960 if you want to learn 0.99

03:19:00.120 how to not be a bitch 1.00

03:19:01.320 this is my book 1.00

03:19:03.200 published by D&G

03:19:04.940 and on November 17th

03:19:06.340 I'll be at the City Winery

03:19:07.420 in New York City

03:19:08.100 doing a hometown show

03:19:09.180 on November 17th

03:19:10.680 I think I agree

03:19:13.560 with Laura as well

03:19:14.480 I think

03:19:14.920 just I think

03:19:15.600 a lot more understanding

03:19:16.360 between one another

03:19:17.140 and growth

03:19:17.740 and we did mention

03:19:19.340 earlier on

03:19:19.720 about the average person

03:19:21.140 and I'm launching

03:19:22.320 a podcast actually

03:19:23.420 tomorrow

03:19:23.820 with talking to

03:19:25.320 every single

03:19:25.720 London worker

03:19:27.040 that's an average individual

03:19:28.540 just listening

03:19:29.240 to normal stories

03:19:30.240 so bringing back

03:19:31.600 the voice

03:19:32.000 of the everyday person

03:19:33.260 I think we forget

03:19:34.400 the average individual

03:19:35.660 so

03:19:35.980 who's your first show with

03:19:37.320 a bus driver

03:19:38.300 a woman bus driver

03:19:39.140 oh very cool

03:19:40.440 very cool

03:19:41.480 so we're launching tomorrow

03:19:42.440 I like that idea

03:19:43.180 the podcast called

03:19:44.720 London's Working

03:19:45.360 so it will be launched

03:19:46.300 on YouTube tomorrow

03:19:47.180 so yeah

03:19:48.160 thank you

03:19:50.020 Troy

03:19:51.960 yeah I'm Troy

03:19:53.860 thank you for having me on

03:19:55.120 Pearl as always

03:19:55.760 it's been a great show

03:19:56.560 I think that

03:19:57.800 having a sort of

03:19:59.100 lifestyle of promiscuity

03:20:00.300 and being a playboy

03:20:01.380 and just having this

03:20:02.740 continuous one night stands

03:20:03.840 and stuff

03:20:04.120 I don't think that's

03:20:04.820 a recipe for happiness

03:20:06.400 I think it can

03:20:07.240 you know

03:20:07.840 as people have said

03:20:08.640 it does become pretty empty

03:20:09.740 it becomes pretty same

03:20:10.600 and all the rest of it

03:20:11.280 having said that

03:20:12.320 I think long term monogamy

03:20:13.760 is problematic as well

03:20:15.160 and I think that

03:20:16.920 obviously you know

03:20:17.740 we've heard a lot

03:20:18.300 about the risks

03:20:19.020 involved with marriage

03:20:19.980 and so on and so forth

03:20:21.140 so I think it's just

03:20:22.440 it's got to be down

03:20:23.060 to the individual right

03:20:23.940 and there's an element of

03:20:25.780 I don't want to say

03:20:26.680 choose your own poison

03:20:27.360 because that's a very

03:20:27.820 unromantic way of putting it

03:20:29.080 but I think you've got to

03:20:30.060 make the decision for yourself

03:20:31.040 okay where do I want to

03:20:32.060 which way do I want to go

03:20:33.900 and then you've just

03:20:34.460 got to go with that

03:20:35.000 and run with it

03:20:35.540 you know and accept

03:20:36.100 there might be some risks

03:20:36.920 but that's just life

03:20:37.880 there's going to be risks

03:20:38.460 whatever you do

03:20:39.140 and I don't think

03:20:40.060 that one is a definite

03:20:41.160 route to happiness

03:20:41.860 and the other is a definite

03:20:42.680 route to unhappiness

03:20:43.500 I think that you know

03:20:44.340 people have different outcomes

03:20:45.280 depending on their individuality

03:20:46.860 we have got a dating boot camp

03:20:49.700 coming up in Mexico City

03:20:51.000 on the 5th to the 8th of October

03:20:52.400 so if you're interested in that

03:20:53.520 you can drop me an email

03:20:54.700 troy at realtroyfrancis.com

03:20:56.480 and just follow me on YouTube

03:20:57.480 which is at realtroyfrancis

03:20:58.880 thank you

03:20:59.920 first thing I'll say is

03:21:04.940 for the guys who don't

03:21:06.840 do not have as much

03:21:07.940 accessibility to the type

03:21:08.900 of women that you want 0.99

03:21:09.540 my best advice for you guys

03:21:10.780 the more success you get

03:21:12.540 the more types of women 1.00

03:21:13.520 you'll be able to engage with

03:21:14.640 so work on yourself

03:21:16.000 same thing that these guys

03:21:17.100 were saying earlier

03:21:17.580 work on yourself

03:21:18.180 put a lot more effort

03:21:19.140 into becoming more successful

03:21:20.140 in your particular field

03:21:21.080 and you'll have a lot more

03:21:22.140 opportunities to get into

03:21:22.940 more engagements for women

03:21:24.320 but at the same time

03:21:25.360 you'll reach to a level

03:21:26.080 where you don't really want

03:21:27.620 to engage with multiple

03:21:28.280 different women 0.97

03:21:28.720 you'd rather have that

03:21:29.460 one single family oriented

03:21:31.200 and you'll move forward

03:21:32.060 Pearl

03:21:32.780 just to clarify

03:21:34.080 it's my first time

03:21:34.920 being on this show

03:21:35.860 and I had so many

03:21:37.340 perspectives on

03:21:38.620 what type of person

03:21:39.320 you'll be

03:21:39.700 especially being American 0.98

03:21:40.600 especially being black

03:21:41.560 and to be honest

03:21:43.260 for real

03:21:44.840 I'm gonna keep it real

03:21:45.520 you know

03:21:45.800 I'm gonna keep it real

03:21:46.500 I was wondering

03:21:48.440 how this would go

03:21:49.260 the whole time

03:21:50.060 you know

03:21:50.400 and surprisingly

03:21:51.380 this whole conversation

03:21:52.340 has been very informative

03:21:53.460 yeah there's a little jazz

03:21:54.660 but this is a show

03:21:55.260 this is how we gotta

03:21:55.840 make it interesting

03:21:56.340 but I don't feel like

03:21:57.520 you know

03:21:57.840 throughout this particular

03:21:58.840 broadcast

03:21:59.260 I don't feel like

03:22:00.420 that you've

03:22:01.100 stepped over the line

03:22:02.220 the only thing

03:22:02.860 that was stepped over

03:22:03.420 the line a little bit

03:22:04.100 was calling people

03:22:04.660 black people 0.96

03:22:05.180 and gay 0.92

03:22:05.560 but

03:22:05.860 we address that

03:22:07.260 what am I supposed

03:22:09.540 to call them

03:22:10.900 purple

03:22:11.220 yeah I don't know

03:22:11.920 but China

03:22:13.740 another thing

03:22:14.760 bro

03:22:15.480 you're a solid dude

03:22:17.060 I really rock with you

03:22:18.100 bro

03:22:18.320 and I'm happy that

03:22:19.380 you was even here today

03:22:20.540 real talk

03:22:21.300 no I respect that

03:22:22.440 thank you bro 0.99

03:22:22.900 from a black

03:22:23.480 from America 0.94

03:22:24.100 to a black 0.95

03:22:24.740 in the UK 0.96

03:22:25.540 bro

03:22:25.980 no I love for that

03:22:27.260 I respect it

03:22:30.560 my name is Adonis Crash Boom

03:22:32.140 you can find me on YouTube

03:22:33.180 Instagram

03:22:33.620 TikTok

03:22:34.020 I'm out here

03:22:35.440 interviewing these London people

03:22:36.640 and then

03:22:37.060 just debumping the situation

03:22:38.540 that Americans 0.99

03:22:39.260 are not all dumb 1.00

03:22:40.100 and it's just 0.99

03:22:40.840 entertainment

03:22:41.440 informative content

03:22:42.480 don't take it too seriously

03:22:43.420 learn

03:22:43.880 and share her live stream

03:22:45.580 share this video

03:22:46.300 share the content

03:22:47.140 yes

03:22:47.920 had fun today

03:22:50.400 thanks Pearl

03:22:51.000 for having me again

03:22:51.860 follow me on

03:22:53.380 social media

03:22:54.820 I'll be the artist

03:22:56.140 nice

03:22:57.280 yeah

03:22:57.680 my name is

03:22:58.520 China

03:22:58.700 the man

03:22:59.060 and voice

03:22:59.460 thank you to Pearl

03:23:00.300 thank you to all the

03:23:01.160 panellists

03:23:01.660 today

03:23:02.180 it's always a pleasure

03:23:02.920 to be on the show

03:23:03.700 shout out to

03:23:04.160 King the producer

03:23:04.820 shout out to

03:23:06.000 all

03:23:06.520 new century

03:23:07.300 consultants

03:23:08.760 and yeah man

03:23:09.700 make sure you subscribe

03:23:10.260 to my channel today

03:23:10.920 I hit 2000 subs today

03:23:12.160 let's go

03:23:13.140 so yeah

03:23:15.600 and yeah

03:23:16.200 like a lot of content

03:23:17.220 has been going viral

03:23:17.980 so yeah

03:23:18.660 just thank you to everyone

03:23:19.360 that keeps tuning in to me

03:23:20.500 and thanks to everyone

03:23:21.900 that you know

03:23:22.520 that comes on platforms

03:23:23.440 with me

03:23:23.760 and gives me the opportunity

03:23:24.480 to grow a little bit

03:23:26.740 you know

03:23:27.060 so yeah

03:23:27.620 do you want me to answer

03:23:28.380 do you want me to answer

03:23:29.460 do you want me to answer

03:23:30.620 yeah

03:23:32.180 but yeah

03:23:32.940 and yeah

03:23:33.860 just shout out

03:23:34.400 to all the blogs

03:23:35.120 and everybody

03:23:35.680 that's posting

03:23:36.300 and sharing the content

03:23:37.140 because like

03:23:37.880 we can't do it alone

03:23:38.780 and like you said

03:23:39.520 like sometimes

03:23:40.460 it can look a bit wild here

03:23:41.860 but it's a bit of WWE

03:23:43.140 it's a bit of entertainment

03:23:44.240 but at the end of the day

03:23:45.400 it's always a good show

03:23:46.480 and there's always all love

03:23:47.100 at the end of it

03:23:47.580 yeah

03:23:47.960 all right guys

03:23:50.300 make sure you get

03:23:51.940 your women shouldn't vote 1.00

03:23:53.260 t-shirt today

03:23:54.100 I don't know what more

03:23:54.980 I have to do to convince you

03:23:56.380 this was a terrible idea

03:23:58.720 now look at

03:24:00.040 we love the shout out

03:24:01.800 to the mothers out there

03:24:03.080 that are amazing

03:24:03.960 the awesome wives 1.00

03:24:05.300 you know

03:24:05.540 I don't want to

03:24:06.440 be too down

03:24:07.340 but you guys barely exist anymore

03:24:09.700 sorry

03:24:10.240 but I do appreciate

03:24:13.460 you know

03:24:14.120 the ones

03:24:14.900 that I do know

03:24:15.440 some amazing mothers and wives 1.00

03:24:16.880 so guys

03:24:18.200 make sure you like the video

03:24:19.460 and sign up for our email list

03:24:21.320 to be notified

03:24:22.340 when we do our next event

03:24:23.480 a couple of you came to it

03:24:24.840 you know it's fun

03:24:25.400 and I think we're going to do

03:24:26.800 an actual live show soon

03:24:28.480 with an audience

03:24:29.140 we're going to sell tickets

03:24:30.060 so I think it'll be fun

03:24:31.000 like the video

03:24:31.620 I'll talk to you next time

03:24:32.900 yeah

03:24:33.460 guys

03:24:33.480 yeah

03:24:34.020 yeah

03:24:34.500 yeah

03:24:34.560 yeah

03:24:34.800 yeah

03:24:36.300 yeah

03:24:36.960 yeah

03:24:38.080 yeah

03:24:38.300 yeah

03:24:38.860 yeah

03:24:40.080 yeah

03:24:40.740 yeah

03:24:42.660 yeah

03:24:43.100 yeah

03:24:45.720 yeah

03:24:46.700 yeah

03:24:46.720 Yeah

03:24:47.640 yeah

03:24:49.340 yeah

03:24:49.920 yeah

03:24:50.420 yeah

03:24:53.840 yeah

03:24:54.780 yeah

03:24:55.580 yeah

03:24:58.340 yeah

03:24:58.700 yeah

03:24:59.300 yeah

03:24:59.840 yeah

03:25:00.360 yeah

03:25:01.340 yeah

03:25:01.740 yeah

03:25:01.820 yeah

03:25:02.520 yeah

JustPearlyThings - September 28, 2023

IS MARRIAGE A GOOD DEAL FOR MEN IN 2023？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP150

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JustPearlyThings - September 28, 2023

IS MARRIAGE A GOOD DEAL FOR MEN IN 2023？ ｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP150

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IS MARRIAGE A GOOD DEAL FOR MEN IN 2023？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP150