JustPearlyThings - May 26, 2023


Is Pearl Going To Be On Joe Rogan


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

206.87617

Word Count

1,751

Sentence Count

158

Misogynist Sentences

25

Hate Speech Sentences

11


Summary

In this episode, I sit down with anti-feminist, feminist, anti-oppression advocate, and all-around great human being, Amy Poehler. Amy is the host of the hit YouTube show, "Amy Poehler's Anti-Feminist Reactions" and is one of the most influential voices in the anti-feminist movement. We talk about how she got started in her career, why she started the show, and why she thinks women should be allowed to be who they want to be.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 Well, I appreciate you coming on, and I think this is more of a laid-back conversation,
00:00:05.880 but two like-minded individuals, but I admire your work. You're very successful.
00:00:10.260 You're originally from Chicago, ended up in London, volleyball, semi-pro, basketball too?
00:00:16.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:00:16.780 So you're a woman of many talents, got a degree?
00:00:19.640 Well, I'm kind of on. I dropped out. Well, I got an undergraduate degree,
00:00:26.280 but I was in school for my master's overseas in England, and I kept failing my classes.
00:00:31.660 She's a PhD.
00:00:33.160 Well, I didn't want to be a PhD. It was part of the volleyball program, so I was like, fine, I'll do it.
00:00:40.220 I just picked what I thought would be the easiest degree, but then I got so busy with the YouTube stuff took off,
00:00:48.400 I just kept failing my classes, unfortunately, because I didn't turn things in.
00:00:52.540 Oh, my gosh. Hey, real quick, is the chat up, Trey?
00:00:57.500 Okay, I don't see it on my end, but that's okay. I'm not logged in.
00:01:00.440 So if you see a super chat that comes on and it's something significant, go ahead.
00:01:04.300 Okay, good. So why did you stay in London? That's my question.
00:01:10.420 Why did I stay?
00:01:12.640 So the show, I didn't expect it to take off as fast as it did.
00:01:18.180 But why did you start a show? Who inspired you to do what you're doing?
00:01:22.200 Okay. Who inspired me? I would say I was a big fan of Kevin Samuels.
00:01:27.180 Right on.
00:01:27.560 And I thought he was really helpful, like the stuff he was saying.
00:01:31.220 So a lot of the first early shows was me saying, oh, my gosh, this is the concept we're going to talk about.
00:01:37.400 They're saying we don't like nice guys, we like bad boys. What do you guys think?
00:01:40.660 And I was kind of bringing my friends together and saying, what do you guys think of this stuff?
00:01:44.440 Or something like that.
00:01:47.620 And what was your friends' responses?
00:01:50.380 I mean, it was mixed.
00:01:51.760 Like the first one, I think she called men like pedophiles for liking younger women.
00:01:57.780 I don't get that.
00:01:58.620 What is that? Is that a defense mechanism or is that just a, I'm going to push your buttons, I'm irritated at you?
00:02:05.280 I think it's just a shaming tactic that feminists need to compete.
00:02:07.580 Insult, shame, and guilt.
00:02:08.780 Yeah.
00:02:09.140 Right?
00:02:09.840 Kevin Samuels.
00:02:11.000 Yeah.
00:02:11.960 But so some, but what actually took, what took off my channel wasn't even the, it wasn't even the show.
00:02:19.720 It was a reaction series.
00:02:20.860 Because what I would do is there would be girls that I would explain a concept to.
00:02:24.580 And they would start to have the wheels like turn.
00:02:27.300 They'd be like, when I would say, oh, the pay gap isn't real.
00:02:29.760 You know, get these men out of our sports.
00:02:31.300 Just like basic stuff.
00:02:32.620 And I would take the girls after the show and say, hey, watch this video with me.
00:02:36.360 Right.
00:02:36.760 And actually a lot of girls like came back and said their entire perspective on things changed because they did the reactions.
00:02:42.480 Like, like these would be like three, like sometimes four hour reactions.
00:02:45.960 We would just sit down and like watch a hour.
00:02:48.740 Thomas Sowell, Jordan Peterson, Kevin Samuels.
00:02:51.300 Thomas Sowell is amazing.
00:02:52.680 Yeah.
00:02:52.940 I love him.
00:02:53.680 He's actually, that's my dream person that I want to interview.
00:02:56.340 I was going to ask you.
00:02:57.400 I don't want to skip, but since you're there, if you could have anybody on your podcast that's alive, who would it be?
00:03:01.780 Thomas Sowell.
00:03:02.660 Wow.
00:03:03.200 Mostly because the other ones I think I'll get, but he's a bit older.
00:03:06.800 So I just feel like he's in his 90s.
00:03:09.420 I'm like everyone else.
00:03:10.480 Like, I think I'm going to get Jordan Peterson at some point.
00:03:13.200 Really?
00:03:13.860 I just have a feeling.
00:03:15.260 I think a lot of the people that I would have wanted to.
00:03:17.580 Do you think you'll ever be invited to like a Joe Rogan show?
00:03:22.580 I think so at some point.
00:03:24.080 I think you will.
00:03:24.680 Yeah.
00:03:25.620 I think for the documentaries I'm doing, I will.
00:03:28.880 And Matt Walsh?
00:03:30.520 I think, yeah.
00:03:31.920 That would be amazing.
00:03:33.120 Yeah.
00:03:33.280 I mean, I think the Daily Wire, you know, Ben Shapiro, Matt Walsh.
00:03:36.340 Yeah, I can see that.
00:03:37.220 Yeah.
00:03:37.580 Because you're, you know, you are obviously, you're a woman and you're an anti-feminist.
00:03:43.100 Would you say anti-feminist?
00:03:44.380 Yes.
00:03:44.740 So you see it from the guy's perspective, and I don't want to say you're the Andrew Tate
00:03:49.340 of a woman version, but that's what, that's what you're describing as.
00:03:52.320 They call me that.
00:03:53.140 Yeah.
00:03:53.620 So, so, you know, when, when people see you, cause I, it's funny because there's a podcaster,
00:03:57.940 I won't say her name, but she's, she, she's like, oh, I, she saw you.
00:04:01.700 She doesn't like you.
00:04:02.600 Right.
00:04:03.320 No.
00:04:03.760 And she said, she, she said, I'm not a feminist.
00:04:05.960 I go, yeah, you are.
00:04:06.640 I did a debate with her and she saw one of your things and she cannot get past and understand
00:04:12.480 why women will think like you.
00:04:15.580 So maybe you can talk about the value of why you think the way you do.
00:04:19.180 Well, what, what was she mad about?
00:04:22.120 What are feminists always mad about?
00:04:23.980 Well, you said she thought she wasn't a feminist.
00:04:25.840 So what, she was like one of the conservative feminists.
00:04:27.980 No, she just, she says she's not a feminist, but she doesn't know what she is.
00:04:31.060 She's delusional.
00:04:31.820 Right.
00:04:32.000 So my point is, is that I think women that are, I call it, they're in the
00:04:36.620 matrix, right?
00:04:37.680 We call it in the matrix and they're running around in this bubble and they think that
00:04:42.060 it's okay for their behavior and what they do is right.
00:04:45.800 And that they don't want to lose their identity being with a man.
00:04:49.020 This is the number one response I'm getting in the new trend.
00:04:51.220 I lost my identity.
00:04:52.600 I needed to find myself.
00:04:55.180 What do you mean you needed to find yourself?
00:04:57.780 Like, I'm sorry, everyone around you influences you.
00:05:01.020 So what do you lose?
00:05:02.120 Do you lose yourself when you become friends with a girl?
00:05:04.880 Because she influences you.
00:05:06.260 Do you lose yourself with your parents when you spend time with them?
00:05:09.540 Right.
00:05:09.760 It's a little stupid.
00:05:11.020 I think what it is, is these younger women identify themselves by their Instagram.
00:05:17.280 Their whole life is social media, right?
00:05:19.280 Right.
00:05:19.840 And I call it the fan, female attention necessity disorder.
00:05:24.600 That's my new term.
00:05:25.940 And without social media, they lose their mind because of all the attention.
00:05:29.780 The abundance of attention versus the high value man has abundance and can pick and choose
00:05:34.500 who he wants to be with.
00:05:35.840 And so my terminology with fan is that if you take their, I lost my identity, I couldn't
00:05:42.680 have my Instagram, and I'd never give my Instagram up for a man.
00:05:47.840 You're choosing that as your identity over a relationship with a man.
00:05:51.920 You see where I'm going?
00:05:53.280 Yeah.
00:05:53.440 So I think this whole self-proclaimed, I lost my identity.
00:05:58.040 I didn't know who I was.
00:05:58.860 I don't understand that.
00:06:00.440 Now, you talk with a lot of women on your show.
00:06:02.140 Yes, I do.
00:06:02.420 So do you hear this response a lot?
00:06:05.160 Like, I don't want to be controlled.
00:06:07.500 I'm not going to be submissive.
00:06:08.900 I'm not going to give them my IG.
00:06:10.400 Can you talk a little bit about why you think they're doing that?
00:06:12.920 Because you get a lot of that in London.
00:06:14.840 I mean, I think that most people in our generation have never seen a truly traditional relationship.
00:06:19.780 Because even if their parents are married, I think most women run the show in marriages
00:06:23.400 today.
00:06:25.460 Really?
00:06:26.040 Yeah.
00:06:26.700 Yeah.
00:06:27.320 Because I think the way that the laws are set up, the women have to run the show.
00:06:32.600 Because if me and you are in a deal, right?
00:06:34.880 And you can easily, and if you walk away from the deal, you lose everything.
00:06:38.740 If I walk away, I gain everything.
00:06:40.220 You're always going to be trying to make me happy.
00:06:42.880 So you have leverage.
00:06:44.040 Yeah.
00:06:44.720 And so I think that like most, even married couples today, I think the women runs the
00:06:49.040 show.
00:06:49.500 I think most people have never seen a truly traditional relationship.
00:06:52.920 And I think most people have never seen a woman like support a man.
00:06:56.900 So my question then would be, when women say it's not about money, but then I say, well,
00:07:02.640 why don't you live together?
00:07:03.500 You don't need to be married.
00:07:04.500 Why do you feel they need to be married?
00:07:05.700 Is it for leverage and money or both or either one?
00:07:08.760 So going back to what we were just talking about, why do you think women want to be married
00:07:14.040 then?
00:07:14.260 Is it to have leverage and control and have access to the money?
00:07:18.380 Or because if you propose what I'm about, I'm about relationships.
00:07:23.540 Okay.
00:07:23.860 If you want to have multiple partners, fine.
00:07:25.620 I don't, you know, Jay Waller.
00:07:27.020 He likes to date a lot.
00:07:28.580 Great.
00:07:29.180 And that's his deal and nothing against it.
00:07:30.880 Go for it.
00:07:31.300 I've been with the same woman for four years.
00:07:33.420 I don't need to go out.
00:07:35.040 I could.
00:07:35.520 She could.
00:07:35.980 She says, yeah, if you want.
00:07:36.820 But I'm so busy grinding, right?
00:07:38.520 We're trying to go to the next level.
00:07:40.080 But my point is we're in a long-term relationship.
00:07:43.380 Some women hate that.
00:07:44.780 Is it because they don't have leverage or is it because they don't have access to the
00:07:48.260 money if it fails or both?
00:07:50.980 I think women want status when they get married.
00:07:53.240 So they want the status of being a wife and they want a wedding day.
00:07:55.840 I don't think most women really have thought.
00:07:57.500 If you ask a girl a question about her wedding, she has a million responses.
00:08:01.620 But if you ask her, like, yeah, yeah.
00:08:03.220 If you ask her, like, I mean, how many people, where do you want to get married, all this
00:08:07.380 stuff.
00:08:08.040 But they never answer any questions about, like, what the marriage would actually look like.
00:08:13.060 So they have no idea.
00:08:14.240 No.
00:08:14.680 No, because, again, I think that most people have never seen it.
00:08:18.660 I think most people, they either had parents that hated each other.
00:08:22.040 They had parents that the woman ran the show.
00:08:24.460 I mean, I'm not saying it doesn't happen.
00:08:25.820 It does.
00:08:26.180 But I think today it's like, it's.