Jeff St James Schools Two Feminists ｜ Pearl Reacts
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage between women and men, with some arguing that it s bad for men to get married, and others saying it s good for them. I think we need to stop acting like grown boys and become men.
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now, many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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Seventy-four percent or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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If you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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And that's the thing, like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings,
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leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, to alcohol,
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to get...
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into the population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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That is our trailer for the divorce documentary, which last show we got $400 worth of donations.
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We're trying to get to $100,000 and we're recently at $31,897.
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As you guys know, video production is expensive.
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And for $10,000, $20,000, I'll let you guys add in a personalized message to your ex-wife.
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So if you have something you want to say to her, you can go on my divorce documentary.
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Today we are reacting to Jeff James, and he is a licensed therapist, and he's basically cooking.
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So if you go to theaudacitynetwork.com, we are on the App Store.
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And if you want to join our community, you go to pearlinvite.com, and you can apply to be part of our members-only community.
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It's a one-time lifetime fee, and then you're in it for life.
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So if I'm going to say no, I'm going to say no.
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If I'm going to disagree, I'm going to disagree.
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And men not going through the natural maturation process as teenagers, as early adults, because they literally don't have the opportunity to with women.
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We can't be shocked anymore that there's an environment that's festering of boys and young men who, unfortunately, have a strong distaste.
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And I would argue, not even for women in general, women in the Western cultures and countries.
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This is why they're running to the other countries and cultures where men are at least still seen as valuable, relevant, important.
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I mean, I, you know, I think that like anything in the West to redress any kind of any imbalance in anything, we've had to go to some crazy level to the other side and come to a middle thing.
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And the only thing I have to say to my ex is, damn, you got fat.
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And he wants you to know that you look like a beluga whale now.
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And he's glad he got out when he could because he got you when you were thin.
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And good luck to the simp that puts up with that.
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Anyway, this show, this show, PayPal me, Hannah Pearl Davis at gmail.com.
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It's in the, oh, I know you guys are thinking, Pearl, why do you charge so much money?
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Look, guys, do you know what it costs to put a documentary?
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Do you know what, do you know, like, do you know what this stuff costs?
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I have to hire editors, producers, lighting people.
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But you did, you, you, in England, you, you said you were working at Will.
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I hired, I made one bad choice that wasted money.
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You know, sometimes when you're putting some together, that was one.
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Two, the second issue that we had was that I got demonetized.
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In a few months, you know, I might be able to put it together myself.
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But, you know, I'm trying to, I'm not supposed to say that.
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Why do we have to have shows like Adolescents that, quite frankly, are pretty late in the game in terms of its culture?
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And like you said, I talk to quite a lot of my friends, you know, who are all parents.
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And they had no idea what, I mean, I knew about it.
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I'm doing this podcast and I see these comments all the time and I was very aware of it.
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And I'm like, you have teenage children and young adult children.
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When you're in a marketing environment where both parents got to work long hours?
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So what was the reaction when you saw the show Adolescence, which is, like, based in self-consumer?
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I understand why I believe it's the third most-watched show on Netflix history after being out there for a short amount of time, which is crazy.
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If you've ever been unemployed, at least you have free time.
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But it's wildly, wildly off in most ways in which they try to categorize what's actually going on.
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But the first is they clearly did not use an expert on incel culture.
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Any expert, go on YouTube when you get the chance and type in incel experts review adolescence and see all the data they have in comparison to how the show tried to cover it to a degree.
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And it was only four episodes, so there was only so much, of course, that they could do.
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But I'm going to tell you one thing that I loved and I think they did get right.
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And I don't know if people actually picked it up enough.
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The first is when the two detectives were walking through.
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And they're trying to engage with the students.
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And it's very clear, like, they're just missing it.
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Like, they're just getting all this resistance.
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They're not really getting anywhere in terms of their investigation.