JustPearlyThings - Jordan Peterson Agrees With Me

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00:00:44.800 Cross, London. Okay, so today we have a couple of different topics. Guys, I feel like I've

00:00:51.540 been talking back and forth to the Daily Wire all week. I don't know why we can't have a

00:00:56.240 debate. Okay, a discussion on the pros and cons of marriage in 2023. So Ben Shapiro tweeted. He

00:01:04.780 didn't say at me. Okay, he didn't at me, guys, but Ben, just at me next time, okay? All right,

00:01:11.180 so Ben says, marriage is good and you should get married. Marriage will make you a better person.

00:01:16.460 You should date with an eye towards marriage, seeking commonality of values, the single most

00:01:21.240 important foundation for a lasting marriage. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk. I disagree.

00:01:26.920 Where do I disagree? I want to break down every single one of Ben's statements. So marriage is

00:01:31.900 good. I do believe that the ideal marriage of two virgins getting married and staying married for a 0.98

00:01:39.300 lifetime, I do believe that is good. You should get married. I do not believe it is always in men's

00:01:45.820 best interest in 2023 to get married. I think that maybe wealthier men have an easier time with

00:01:52.880 marriage than broke men. Then we have to realize that the average man in this country is about 5'9",

00:01:58.020 5'10", makes about $55,000 a year and is about 180 pounds. These are all give or take depending on

00:02:06.160 which website you look on. But a lot of times their prescriptions really depend on the guy.

00:02:12.000 And when we look at the average woman who's about 170 pounds, 5'5", one out of three has had an 1.00

00:02:18.880 abortion, one out of four has had an STD, and 90% have been on birth control at some point in their

00:02:24.620 lives, I would argue that it is not always in men's best interest to get married. And telling men to get 1.00

00:02:30.820 married without warning them of the risks and telling them and giving them every opportunity to

00:02:35.940 protect themselves really is, I would argue, negligent. I believe it is negligent to tell men, by and large,

00:02:44.520 that they should just get married. As much as I, as a Catholic, would love to see the return of families

00:02:50.260 and traditionalism, I would argue you will never see that until you change the laws. What the tradcons

00:02:56.260 will often say is, well, it'll take so much time to change the laws. In the meantime, you should just get

00:03:01.440 married. Well, my question is, why would the institutions change if they keep having willing

00:03:06.320 customers that sign up? So Ben says marriage will make you a better person. I would argue that is

00:03:12.120 very dependent on the man and the wife. There are absolutely nagging, belittling wives that make 1.00

00:03:17.980 marriage a living hellhole for men. And no, it does not make them a happy, healthier person. Ben says you

00:03:25.140 should date with an eye towards marriage, seeking a commonality of values, the single most important

00:03:30.500 foundation for a lasting marriage. Ben is really selling here that if you just find a woman with a

00:03:36.180 commonality of values, that it is not the risks, that it is not as risky as the pearl doom and gloomer

00:03:43.540 will say. Now, some of this is an inference, so, you know, take it with a grain of salt. But I would

00:03:49.780 argue that even a 10% chance of getting your life absolutely destroyed in divorce is still pretty risky.

00:03:56.780 We all know that even amongst religious couples, the divorce rate is still 25, 35, 45%. And what

00:04:04.140 happens is we go back and forth with the trad cons and they'll say, oh, well, it's lower than you guys

00:04:08.840 are saying. You're doom and gloomers. And what I typically see them do is manipulate the stats.

00:04:14.440 Now, how do they do that? If the average age of divorce is 46, I would argue you're not painting a

00:04:20.520 full picture by using the stats of men in their 20s and 30s. I know many men that were very happily

00:04:26.780 married in their 20s and 30s before getting their lives absolutely destroyed in their 40s and 50s.

00:04:33.260 A more honest answer would be surveying the men in their 60s and 70s what their opinion is on marriage.

00:04:40.800 If I had to guess, it would be very different than the men married today. The other issue is,

00:04:46.840 is they downplay the difference in the time period that we are in. Most women have been addicted to 0.99

00:04:52.240 attention from the time they were very, very young. This creates a completely different pool

00:04:57.080 of women that men have to choose from. The women are more slutty and overweight than ever. And really, 1.00

00:05:03.680 when we don't acknowledge these things and tell men to just get married with a system that profits off

00:05:08.880 of them having their lives ruined, there's no real solution because you're not even acknowledging

00:05:14.660 the problem. You're downplaying that it exists. I would argue that is negligent.

00:05:19.400 Of the single most important foundation for a lasting marriage, I would agree commonality of

00:05:24.560 values. However, I do not think that is a foolproof plan. Ben Shapiro is an extremely high

00:05:30.980 IQ individual. I am sure it was very apparent from a young age to Ben's family, friends, and community

00:05:37.600 that he was going to be a success. I don't think you could talk to Ben Shapiro for more than five

00:05:42.800 minutes without noticing this guy is crazy smart. Women notice that type of things. The level of 0.98

00:05:49.040 respect that Ben Shapiro is going to get in a room is very different from the average man.

00:05:53.820 He has amassed a net worth of over $50 million, according to Google. And being that he's worth over

00:06:00.180 $50 million, he's going to have a very different experience in marriage. So Jordan Peterson actually

00:06:06.960 weighed in. And I think he's taken my side. I think I think I'm dividing the daily wire on this.

00:06:12.960 And I want to point out that the older men are much more taking Pearl's side than the younger men,

00:06:22.060 which again, supports my original hypothesis was that was that Andrew Clavin says that Pearl has a

00:06:29.240 point. And the younger men call me a doom and gloomer and call the men cry babies, you know,

00:06:37.380 and just say, get married anyway. Now, Jordan Peterson comes in, and I am a Jordan Peterson fan.

00:06:44.920 So Jordan Peterson weighs in and says, but Ben Shapiro, the divorce and custody laws need upgrading.

00:06:51.340 So this idea that all of the right wing is just saying, oh, men, sign up anyway. Imagine, imagine,

00:06:58.680 okay, you had to sign, you got a contract, okay, imagine. And this contract says that your partner

00:07:07.140 has all of the leverage. And this contract says, your business partner is paid to leave you. Yes,

00:07:15.060 they're paid to break this contract. And this business partner will be rewarded for ruining

00:07:20.940 your life financially and emotionally. If we take the religion out of it, because the facts don't

00:07:27.520 care about your religion. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm a Catholic, but we have to be honest here.

00:07:33.060 You would never sign that contract. But the truth of the matter is until child custody laws change,

00:07:39.340 you will not see women act different. And, and my appeal to the Daily Wire is let's advocate for

00:07:47.200 these laws. I want to see 20 videos on everyone's channel advocating for this stuff because you guys are

00:07:53.420 the most influential voice in the media, I would argue. I don't know many people you could argue,

00:07:58.960 maybe Fox News, but I really don't know many people that have as much pull as the Daily Wire.

00:08:04.540 Why is this not the number one issue on all platforms instead of just waving away

00:08:09.200 men's real concerns and saying, get married anyway. So I tweet and I'm asking, we, it doesn't even have

00:08:16.320 to be a debate, but a real conversation about solutions in this society. So is that a no from the Daily

00:08:22.360 Wire to have a debate on marriage? It should be a good discussion if you want the truth to come out

00:08:27.100 and the facts are on your side. Why not have it? It was important enough. And guys, it was actually

00:08:31.960 five Daily Wire hosts. I forgot. It was important enough for five of your hosts to respond to me.

00:08:37.820 Let's set a date. Pearl, 26 year old Pearl. Okay. I got Matt Walsh, Jeremy Boring. Was it boring?

00:08:48.280 I've been saying Boeing this whole time. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Ben Shapiro and Andrew Klavan

00:08:53.920 and Jordan Peterson, five hosts to respond to me. Yet I'm being told no for a debate,

00:09:02.180 but we've talked about this all week. Okay. Andrew Klavan said, and I want to, I want to break

00:09:06.860 this down. Long before you or Tate or any of the red pills, I was an outspoken anti-feminist,

00:09:12.440 but also an anti-misogynist. Femininity with its work of soul-making and homemaking is a spiritual

00:09:18.220 value. And both the right and left have become materialists. So degrading the feminine sphere 1.00

00:09:24.380 that now people can't even define what the word woman and think a man in a dress will suffice.

00:09:33.080 I don't, is he accusing me of misogyny? I don't know. I don't, I'm not even saying he is or he isn't,

00:09:39.080 but it's like, I'm like, okay, so can we debate? And he's like, before the red pill,

00:09:48.440 I was an outspoken anti-feminist and anti-misogynist. Okay. Femininity with its work

00:09:54.940 of soul-making and homemaking is a spiritual value. Okay. We don't. Okay. And both the left

00:10:04.080 and the right have become materialists. So degrading the feminine sphere that now people 1.00

00:10:10.880 can't even define what the, okay, I don't, what does that have to do with the debate?

00:10:14.800 This is why I was confused. Okay. So of course, as parallel, so of course, as pearly things has

00:10:19.880 noted, marriage is broken. True. Okay. So I agree with pearl. That's what I hear. But to,

00:10:25.440 but to deride the institution and denigrate women, is he accusing me of denigrating women?

00:10:31.640 How many times on the show have I said, there are exceptional, awesome women out there, 1.00

00:10:37.000 but the stats are not on our side, ladies, not in 2023. Okay. These aren't ideas that can be debated.

00:10:44.680 They are just inarticulate cries. Oh no. Andrew, this sounds like something like a chick would say 0.99

00:10:54.440 to psychoanalyze me. They're inarticulate cries of pains from, of, from souls in a materialistic hell.

00:11:02.900 Okay. You can't, okay. This, this part I really disagreed with. You can't treat bodies as sex toys

00:11:09.380 and then complain when you wake up in bed with an abusive pimp or a crazy whore. Andrew, Andrew, 1.00

00:11:15.360 you're 70 years old. Okay. So you might not know the reality of the situation. Um, okay. What is a

00:11:22.540 whore? We have to define first. What, what is a whore? Um, really there are not enough wives to go 1.00

00:11:28.820 around. There are not enough wives to go around for the average man. There are more only fans, 0.96

00:11:35.900 workers, sex workers, and cam models than there are teachers in this country under the age of 35. 0.94

00:11:42.200 So, and it's kind of, and he's kind of, again, putting it back on the men. It's so interesting.

00:11:47.760 Whenever men have a complaint, we have such a gut instinct to just tell them it's their fault. 1.00

00:11:53.020 Pimps and whores are vicious people. What did you expect? Andrew, the truth of the matter is 1.00

00:11:58.660 typically the men that are actually getting screwed in marriage are men that wanted traditionalism. 0.94

00:12:06.300 The guys that are pimps that are out screwing everybody, they don't get married. What incentive 0.89

00:12:13.800 would those men have to settle down when they have all of the women? Do you think that Drake will get

00:12:21.520 married? Do you think most of these men that have access to all of the women will get married? Some do,

00:12:30.540 and we can look at exceptions, but I would argue that most men that get screwed in divorce that I

00:12:37.460 have spoken to actually were good men that wanted to be traditional. And really the situation happened

00:12:45.120 because they had a predatory woman. They had a woman that they thought was something that she wasn't.

00:12:52.280 And really saying, what did you expect to a guy that hasn't seen his kids in two years,

00:13:01.520 has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars trying to get his children, I would argue is wrong.

00:13:10.780 It's wrong and it's not correct. The men that are getting screwed in divorce are not the pimps. 0.74

00:13:16.340 They are the good men that want to do the right thing. But the issue is when we have the incentive 0.87

00:13:23.080 structure that we do, even good women will, even seemingly good women, when they're not feeling 0.84

00:13:30.860 the right way, will sign up. On top of that, we have an entire media dedicated to telling women that 0.99

00:13:37.420 we're amazing and special and that the man is just not doing enough. Look at how even one of the

00:13:44.240 Daily Wire hosts reacted to the Crowder divorce. When Candace Owens covered the Crowder divorce, 1.00

00:13:50.420 she alleged that Steven Crowder was emotionally abusive. What is emotional abuse? This woman was

00:13:57.440 a stay-at-home housewife with a nanny crying emotional abuse. This is the world that we are living in.

00:14:04.580 And all of the media slandered his name. Crowder is a traditional guy. If this happened to a rich,

00:14:12.860 successful media personality that believes in Christian values, what chance does the average

00:14:20.520 man have? I just heard a couple from our show. Today, I just ran into him. I was going for a walk.

00:14:26.580 Ran into a couple from our show. They're getting married. I'm overjoyed. I love seeing people have

00:14:32.740 a happy ending. But what I don't love is men thinking they're signing up for one thing and getting

00:14:37.700 absolutely destroyed later because they have no idea what they're signing up for. And the truth of

00:14:44.120 the matter is the facts don't care about your religion. Yes, I am a Catholic. It does not make

00:14:50.640 me happy to talk about these things. But the truth of the matter, when we look at the numbers, when it

00:14:56.120 comes to issues regarding divorce, the numbers are not on our side. The truth of the matter is many of

00:15:03.420 the men at the Daily Wire are out of touch for two reasons. One, they are a 1% man in society.

00:15:09.840 I'm sorry, but most men's lives do not involve them becoming multi-millionaire rich famous men.

00:15:16.920 Now, you could argue that maybe they weren't that at one point, but women are experts at selecting 1.00

00:15:22.120 for the traits that make a man successful later. I believe that the only solution is changing the

00:15:28.280 laws. And I question why they keep coming at the red pill instead of having a real conversation

00:15:34.060 about changing the divorce laws. So I beg you, I plead with you, Daily Wire, please, even if it's

00:15:41.220 not with me, have a real conversation about solutions about marriage. Question the politicians that you're

00:15:47.700 interviewing this election season about how they're going to advocate for men's issues and more

00:15:53.480 importantly, children's issues this election season. Children deserve a mother and a father and children

00:15:59.660 deserve two parent households. With the incentive structure that you have, you will see marriage 0.69

00:16:04.780 disappear regardless of myself, the Tates or any other red pill influencer.

JustPearlyThings - October 06, 2023

Jordan Peterson Agrees With Me

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