JustPearlyThings - Jordan Peterson And Ben Shapiro's HEATED Takes On Marriage ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 54

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00:00:46.180 Okay. So today we have a couple of different topics. Guys, I feel like I've been talking back

00:00:52.260 and forth to the Daily Wire all week. I don't know why we can't have a debate. Okay. Okay. A

00:00:58.200 discussion on the pros and cons of marriage in 2023. So Ben Shapiro tweeted, he didn't say at me.

00:01:05.900 Okay. He didn't at me guys, but then just at me next time. Okay. All right. So Ben says,

00:01:11.980 marriage is good and you should get married. Marriage will make you a better person.

00:01:16.480 You should date with an eye towards marriage, seeking commonality of values. The single most

00:01:21.240 important foundation for a lasting marriage. Thank you for coming to my Ted talk. I disagree.

00:01:26.480 Where do I disagree? I want to, I want to, I want to break down every single one of Ben's

00:01:30.680 statements. So marriage is good. I do believe that the ideal marriage of two virgins getting married 0.99

00:01:37.680 and staying married for a lifetime. I do believe that is good. You should get married. I do not

00:01:43.860 believe it is always in men's best interest in 2023 to get married. I think that maybe wealthier men

00:01:51.400 have an easier time with marriage than broke men. Then we have to realize that the average man in

00:01:56.500 this country is about five, nine, five, 10 makes about $55,000 a year and is about 180 pounds.

00:02:03.960 These are all give or take depending on which website you look on. But a lot of times their

00:02:09.880 prescriptions really depend on the guy. Um, and when we look at the average woman, who's about 170 pounds, 1.00

00:02:15.940 five, five, um, one out of threes had an abortion. One out of four has had an STD and 90% have been on

00:02:23.120 birth control at some point in their lives. I would argue that it is not always in men's best 0.84

00:02:28.040 interest to get married and telling men to get married without warning them of the risks and

00:02:33.000 telling them and giving them every opportunity to protect themselves really is, um, I would argue

00:02:40.240 negligent. I believe it is negligent to tell men by and large, they should just get married as much as 1.00

00:02:46.860 I, as a Catholic would love to see the return of families and traditionalism. I would argue you will

00:02:53.080 never see that until you change the laws. What the trad cons will often say is, well, it'll take so

00:02:58.560 much time to change the laws. In the meantime, you should just get married. Well, my question is why

00:03:03.520 would the institutions change if they keep having willing customers that sign up? So Ben says marriage

00:03:09.000 will make you a better person. I would argue that is very dependent on the man and the wife. There 0.99

00:03:14.520 are absolutely nagging, belittling wives that make marriage a living hell hole for men. And no, it does 0.98

00:03:21.680 not make them a happy, healthier person. Ben says you should date with an eye towards marriage, seeking

00:03:27.420 a commonality of values, the single most important foundation for a lasting marriage. Ben is really

00:03:33.680 selling here that if you just find a woman with a commonality of values, that it is not 0.97

00:03:38.560 the risks, that it is not as risky as the pearl doom and gloomer will say. Now, some of this is

00:03:45.420 an inference. So, you know, take it with a grain of salt. But I would argue that even a 10% chance

00:03:52.060 of getting your life absolutely destroyed in divorce is still pretty risky. We all know that even amongst

00:03:58.220 religious couples, the divorce rate is still 25, 35, 45%. And what happens is we go back and forth with

00:04:05.840 the trad cons and they'll say, oh, well, it's lower than you guys are saying. You're doom and gloomers.

00:04:10.620 And what I typically see them do is manipulate the stats. Now, how do they do that? If the average age

00:04:17.040 of divorce is 46, I would argue you're not painting a full picture by using the stats of men in their

00:04:23.180 20s and 30s. I know many men that were very happily married in their 20s and 30s before getting their

00:04:29.600 lives absolutely destroyed in their 40s and 50s. A more honest answer would be surveying the men in

00:04:36.420 their 60s and 70s what their opinion is on marriage. If I had to guess, it would be very

00:04:43.400 different than the men married today. The other issue is, is they downplay the difference in the

00:04:48.900 time period that we are in. Most women have been addicted to attention from the time they were very, 1.00

00:04:54.000 very young. This creates a completely different pool of women that men have to choose from. 1.00

00:04:59.420 The women are more slutty and overweight than ever. And really, when we don't acknowledge these 1.00

00:05:05.300 things and tell men to just get married with a system that profits off of them having their lives 1.00

00:05:10.540 ruined, there's no real solution because you're not even acknowledging the problem. You're downplaying

00:05:16.460 that it exists. I would argue that is negligent. The single most important foundation for a lasting

00:05:22.580 marriage, I would agree commonality of values. However, I do not think that is a foolproof plan.

00:05:28.960 Ben Shapiro is an extremely high IQ individual. I am sure it was very apparent from a young age to

00:05:35.480 Ben's family, friends, and community that he was going to be a success. I don't think you could talk

00:05:41.180 to Ben Shapiro for more than five minutes without noticing this guy is crazy smart. Women notice that 0.98

00:05:47.380 type of things. The level of respect that Ben Shapiro is going to get in a room is very different

00:05:52.360 from the average man. He has amassed a net worth of over $50 million, according to Google.

00:05:58.240 And being that he's worth over $50 million, he's going to have a very different experience in

00:06:04.240 marriage. So Jordan Peterson actually weighed in. And I think he's taken my side. I think I think

00:06:10.600 I'm dividing the daily wire on this. And I want to point out that the older men are much more

00:06:18.260 taking Pearl's side than the younger men, which again, supports my original hypothesis was that

00:06:25.480 Andrew Clavin says that Pearl has a point. And the younger men call me a doom and gloomer and call

00:06:34.780 the men cry babies, you know, and just say, get married anyway. Now, Jordan Peterson comes in and I

00:06:42.280 am a Jordan Peterson fan. So Jordan Peterson weighs in and says, but Ben Shapiro, the divorce and custody

00:06:49.660 laws need upgrading. So this idea that all of the right wing is just saying, oh, men, sign up anyway.

00:06:57.680 Imagine, imagine, okay, you had to sign, you got a contract, okay, imagine. And this contract says

00:07:06.300 that your partner has all of the leverage. And this contract says your business partner is paid to

00:07:13.520 leave you. Yes, they're paid to break this contract. And this business partner will be rewarded for

00:07:20.560 ruining your life financially and emotionally. If we take the religion out of it, because the facts 0.90

00:07:27.200 don't care about your religion. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm a Catholic, but we have to be honest here.

00:07:32.320 Um, you would never sign that contract. But the truth of the matter is until child custody laws

00:07:38.940 change, you will not see women act different. And, and my appeal to the daily wire

00:07:44.100 is let's advocate for these laws. I want to see 20 videos on everyone's channel advocating for this

00:07:51.980 stuff because you guys are the most influential voice in the media. I would argue, I don't know many

00:07:57.780 people you could argue, maybe Fox news, but I really don't know many people that have as much

00:08:02.560 pull as the daily wire. Why is this not the number one issue on all platforms instead of just waving

00:08:08.720 away men's real concerns and saying, get married anyway. So I tweet and I'm asking we, it doesn't 0.69

00:08:15.960 even have to be a debate, but a real conversation about solutions in this society. So is that a no

00:08:21.700 from the daily wire to have a debate on marriage? It should be a good discussion. If you want the truth

00:08:26.580 to come out and the facts are on your side, why not have it? It was important enough. And guys,

00:08:31.580 it was actually five daily wire hosts. I forgot. It was important enough for five of your hosts to

00:08:37.080 respond to me. Let's set a date. Go to Pearl, 26 year old Pearl. Okay. I got Matt Walsh, Jeremy

00:08:46.040 Boring. Was it boring? I've been saying Boeing this whole time. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Ben Shapiro and

00:08:53.000 Andrew Klavan and Jordan Peterson, five hosts to respond to me. Yet I'm being told no for a debate,

00:09:02.180 but we've talked about this all week. Okay. Andrew Klavan said, and I want to, I want to break this

00:09:07.040 down long before you or Tate or any of the red pills. I was an outspoken anti-feminist, but also

00:09:12.840 an anti-misogynist. Femininity with its work of soul-making and homemaking is a spiritual value 0.94

00:09:18.880 and both the right and left have become materialists. So degrading the feminine sphere 1.00

00:09:24.380 that now people can't even define what the word woman and think a man in a dress will suffice.

00:09:33.000 I don't, is he accusing me of misogyny? I don't know. I don't, I'm not even saying he is or he isn't,

00:09:39.060 but it's like, I'm like, okay, so can we debate? And he's like, before the red pill, I was an

00:09:49.080 outspoken anti-feminist and anti-misogynist. Okay. Femininity with its work of soul-making and

00:09:56.520 homemaking is a spiritual value. Okay. We don't. Okay. And both the left and the right have become

00:10:05.660 a materialist. So degrading the feminine sphere that now people can't even define what the, okay, 1.00

00:10:12.600 I don't, what does that have to do with the debate? This is why I was confused. Okay. So of course,

00:10:17.320 as parallel, so of course, as pearly things has noted, marriage is broken. True. Okay. So I agree 0.80

00:10:23.400 with Pearl. That's what I hear. But to do, but to deride the institution and denigrate women, 1.00

00:10:29.840 is he accusing me of denigrating women? How many times on the show have I said,

00:10:34.120 there are exceptional, awesome women out there, but the stats are not on our side, ladies, not in 1.00

00:10:39.480 2023. Okay. These aren't ideas that can be debated. They are just inarticulate cries. Oh no. Andrew,

00:10:51.100 this sounds like something like a chick would say to psychoanalyze. They're inarticulate cries of pains 1.00

00:10:58.280 from, of, from souls in a materialistic hell. Okay. You can't, okay. This, this part I really

00:11:06.160 disagreed with. You can't treat bodies as sex toys and then complain when you wake up in bed with an 0.75

00:11:12.200 abusive pimp or a crazy whore. Andrew, Andrew, you're 70 years old. Okay. So you might not know 1.00

00:11:18.260 the reality of the situation. Um, okay. What is a whore? We have to define first. What, what is a whore? 1.00

00:11:25.620 Um, really there are not enough wives to go around. There are not enough wives to go around for the 1.00

00:11:33.680 average man. There are more only fans, workers, sex workers, and cam models than there are teachers in

00:11:39.660 this country under the age of 35. So, and it's kind of, and he's kind of, again, putting it back

00:11:46.000 on the men. It's so interesting. Whenever men have a complaint, we have such a gut instinct to just tell

00:11:51.620 them it's their fault. Pimps and whores are vicious people. What did you expect? Andrew, the truth of the 1.00

00:11:57.980 matter is typically the men that are actually getting screwed in marriage are men that wanted 0.91

00:12:05.020 traditionalism. The guys that are pimps, that are out screwing everybody, they don't get married. 0.96

00:12:12.780 What incentive would those men have to settle down when they have all of the women? Do you think that 1.00

00:12:20.420 Drake will get married? Do you think most of these men that have access to all of the women will get 0.68

00:12:29.380 married? Some do, and we can look at exceptions, but I would argue that most men that get screwed in 0.88

00:12:36.500 divorce that I have spoken to actually were good men that wanted to be traditional. And really, the

00:12:43.920 situation happened because they had a predatory woman. They had a woman that they thought was something 0.98

00:12:51.200 that she wasn't. And really, saying what did you expect to a guy that hasn't seen his kids in two

00:13:00.860 years, has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars trying to get his children, I would argue, is wrong.

00:13:10.860 It's wrong and it's not correct. The men that are getting screwed in divorce are not the pimps. They are 0.51

00:13:16.720 the good men that want to do the right thing. But the issue is, when we have the incentive structure

00:13:23.580 that we do, even seemingly good women, when they're not feeling the right way, will sign up. On top of

00:13:33.840 that, we have an entire media dedicated to telling women that we're amazing and special and that the

00:13:39.800 man is just not doing enough. Look at how even one of the Daily Wire hosts reacted to the Crowder

00:13:46.540 divorce. When Candace Owens covered the Crowder divorce, she alleged that Steven Crowder was

00:13:52.700 emotionally abusive. What is emotional abuse? This woman was a stay-at-home housewife with a nanny 1.00

00:13:59.740 crying emotional abuse. This is the world that we are living in. And all of the media slandered his name.

00:14:08.340 Crowder is a traditional guy. If this happened to a rich, successful media personality that

00:14:16.080 believes in Christian values, what chance does the average man have? I just heard a couple from our

00:14:23.520 show. Today, I just ran into him. I was going for a walk. Ran into a couple from our show. They're

00:14:27.920 getting married. I'm overjoyed. I love seeing people have a happy ending. But what I don't love is men

00:14:35.180 thinking they're signing up for one thing and getting absolutely destroyed later because they have

00:14:40.100 no idea what they're signing up for. And the truth of the matter is the facts don't care about your

00:14:46.620 religion. Yes, I am a Catholic. It does not make me happy to talk about these things. But the truth

00:14:53.780 of the matter, when we look at the numbers, when it comes to issues regarding divorce, the numbers are

00:14:59.780 not on our side. The truth of the matter is many of the men at the Daily Wire are out of touch for two

00:15:05.760 reasons. One, they are a 1% man in society. I'm sorry, but most men's lives do not involve them 0.95

00:15:12.920 becoming multimillionaire rich, famous men. Now, you could argue that maybe they weren't that at one

00:15:19.620 point, but women are experts at selecting for the traits that make a man successful later. I believe 0.96

00:15:26.220 that the only solution is changing the laws. And I question why they keep coming at the red pill instead

00:15:32.520 of having a real conversation about changing the divorce laws. So I beg you, I plead with you,

00:15:38.500 Daily Wire, please, even if it's not with me, have a real conversation about solutions about marriage.

00:15:46.060 Question the politicians that you're interviewing this election season about how they're going to

00:15:51.080 advocate for men's issues and more importantly, children's issues this election season. Children

00:15:57.140 deserve a mother and a father and children deserve two-parent households. With the incentive structure 0.95

00:16:03.140 that you have, you will see marriage disappear regardless of myself, the Tates, or any other

00:16:09.960 red pill influencer. Now, what I've noticed is there are a couple lies that we have in society and it's

00:16:16.800 often pushed by the right and the left. One lie that I see is that men are not emotionally intelligent.

00:16:25.280 If the idea is that women are these emotionally intelligent beings, then I think I wouldn't see women 1.00

00:16:34.160 left and right really acting like children. Now, you could argue with me all you want, but after you

00:16:41.000 interview 600, 700 people on shows and on the street, you really see that women act more like children 1.00

00:16:47.920 than men do, I would argue. But let's pull up this clip.

00:16:52.040 You know, recently there's been a lot of articles pointing out how men are far less emotionally

00:16:56.440 intelligent than women and how that's been ruining their relationships. Oh yeah, you know, 1.00

00:17:00.320 I always say the wife's more intelligent than me. Emotionally, of course. You know, it's unfortunate,

00:17:04.680 but it's an apartment that we lack in. Last week we're at the airport, our plane gets delayed an hour,

00:17:08.880 whereas my natural instinct would be to say, it is what it is, there's nothing we can do.

00:17:12.660 Britney had the emotional intelligence to realize this is a big deal, we should be arguing with anyone who

00:17:17.960 will listen, and in general, just going ballistic, regardless of whether or not it'll help. Look,

00:17:22.360 it's not about whether or not it helps. No. For example, say you plan an outdoor event and it

00:17:26.880 begins to rain, an emotionally unintelligent person like myself might suggest some sort of

00:17:31.320 alternative or contingency, or maybe we'll do it on another day, as opposed to realizing that this is

00:17:36.280 in fact the end of the world and you should be flying off the handle. You know, whether you're

00:17:40.280 reading an article about COVID coming back or your Uber Eats driver brings you the wrong order,

00:17:44.100 we as men do not have the emotional intelligence to realize that not only is this something we

00:17:48.200 should be freaking out about, but we should also be becoming actively hostile to others who are

00:17:52.620 remaining calm. Now, why is this funny? Because it's true. Women, guys, women, we just have all these

00:18:01.600 emotions. We just, look, look, guys are a lot more logical. They don't, they experience a lot less

00:18:09.640 frustration. I envy it sometimes, you know, we'll have a problem at work and I'll start freaking out

00:18:16.140 and the guys here will just say it is what it is. Let's just figure out how to fix it. And let's see

00:18:20.900 if the, the comment section takes their side or argues. Okay. This is the dumbest, most incel-ish

00:18:27.580 conversation I've seen all week. If only these two understood words and context. Now, wait, wait, 1.00

00:18:33.880 look at the picture. Look at the picture of this guy. Does that seem like a man that isn't an incel?

00:18:39.640 I'm sorry. Did I have to say it? I mean, okay, come on. Keep going. Keep going. EQ and IQ are not

00:18:47.960 mutually exclusive. So glad men like this are single and sexless en masse now. Now, look,

00:18:54.140 they always make up these words that really can't be measured to make women feel special.

00:19:01.280 And one of those is emotionally intelligent or emotional intelligence. And I'm like, why do the most

00:19:08.300 radical, crazy chicks I know talk about this? Are you, are you really emotionally intelligent? 1.00

00:19:16.620 Really? What does that even mean? What is that? Like, really? I mean, come on, guys, come on.

00:19:24.280 But you know, maybe Pearl's just a doom and gloomer and I'm just a hater. I don't know.

00:19:28.680 Yeah, just a hater. Just a hater. Let's look at the interviews from the emotionally intelligent women. 1.00

00:19:34.380 So there are women that think it's actually a fair fight for women to box Floyd Mayweather with all 1.00

00:19:42.260 their emotional intelligence. Let's pull it up. Would that be like a fair fight?

00:19:46.000 I believe so. Yes. I don't think that biology necessarily equates to someone's skill range.

00:19:52.960 Yes. Do you think that would be a fair fight?

00:19:55.120 Yes.

00:19:55.560 If the organization forced the female boxers to have to compete and had no choice. 1.00

00:19:59.000 If they're identifying as a woman, they're a woman. 0.98

00:20:03.240 So a female boxer in his same weight class? Yes. At that point, she would be a woman.

00:20:07.600 And I think it's problematic to say that a woman cannot be as strong as Floyd Mayweather.

00:20:11.260 It's fine then if a man is fracturing a woman's fault. 0.97

00:20:15.240 Well, again, trans women are women, so it would be a woman. 0.99

00:20:19.820 Do you think trans women are women? 0.98

00:20:22.080 No. No.

00:20:22.960 Well, I mean, that's that's where we disagree.

00:20:28.060 Fox.

00:20:28.700 Oh, that's it.

00:20:30.200 Fell in. Fox.

00:20:31.620 Holy cow. 0.89

00:20:32.940 Game over.

00:20:34.100 That was sweet, huh?

00:20:35.560 Did you like that?

00:20:37.140 Yeah.

00:20:39.720 Look, guys.

00:20:42.940 I have played volleyball for 16 years of my life.

00:20:46.900 I have a game Saturday, if anyone wants to go.

00:20:49.780 Um, I've, I've literally played volleyball 16 years of my life.

00:20:55.200 Um, I have deadlifted 300 pounds, squat 250.

00:21:01.160 I am strong for a woman.

00:21:03.380 But the key factor is for a woman. 1.00

00:21:06.740 I know that I could never, ever, ever compete with a man.

00:21:11.160 And it's funny because the women that advocate for stuff like this always look overweight and unathletic. 1.00

00:21:17.860 When I speak to women that are actually in sports, even the more feminist women will agree that we do not want to compete with men. 0.81

00:21:27.340 On behalf of female athletes, I beg you, please stop fighting for this. 1.00

00:21:32.400 Stop allowing men to compete in women's sports. 1.00

00:21:35.680 I remember when I was 18 and I was a freshman in college playing volleyball.

00:21:40.060 I remember when Caitlyn Jenner won the Courage Award.

00:21:43.040 At the time, I did not really care.

00:21:45.460 It didn't affect my life.

00:21:47.220 But it's funny how 10 years later, social media becomes real life.

00:21:51.940 I attended one of my friends' volleyball tournaments here in England.

00:21:55.800 I saw men competing in the women's division.

00:21:58.760 So much so that I even saw an entire team of mostly men competing.

00:22:04.060 This is not fair and it will absolutely result in women getting injured. 0.88

00:22:08.360 Just because I, as a girl that has played volleyball for over 16 years, can, in fact, compete with some unathletic men, does not mean I can compete with the majority of men.

00:22:19.860 And the truth of the matter is, a man could train in volleyball for two, three, maybe four years and outcompete a woman that's trained for 16.

00:22:29.180 We have to work twice as hard to do half as much.

00:22:33.260 If that.

00:22:35.140 So please, I beg you, stop putting men into our sports. 1.00

00:22:39.540 I do not want to live in a world where I see women's sports overtaken by men. 0.92

00:22:44.360 This is disgusting and vile and will result in women getting injured and being sexually assaulted. 0.90

00:22:49.800 No, we don't want them in our locker rooms. 0.99

00:22:52.000 No, we don't want them in our divisions.

00:22:53.900 And no, we don't want a special division made for trans people.

00:22:57.460 Get out of our sports and sign up for the biological division that you qualify for.

00:23:03.780 And when I spoke about this, about the men playing in the women's division, good old Pearl received an email from her club saying that I can't talk about this.

00:23:13.040 Well, no, I will continue to talk about this and I don't care whatever repercussions I face.

00:23:18.640 Kick me out of the division.

00:23:20.120 Men playing in the women's division is wrong and I will not stand for it. 1.00

00:23:23.740 And I will continue to complain as long as they keep putting men in our division.

00:23:28.860 Let's look at the comments section.

00:23:30.740 Thank God these emotionally intelligent women just gave their takes. 1.00

00:23:35.420 How can anyone logically sit there and argue that?

00:23:38.720 They do know that even men can't beat Floyd.

00:23:41.700 I agree with the comments section. 0.97

00:23:43.580 This is absolutely ridiculous. 0.97

00:23:46.000 Get the men out of our sports. 1.00

00:23:48.140 So speaking of crazy women, there is a woman that is going viral right now for giving her spouse a hall pass to cheat after she cheated. 1.00

00:23:56.880 Let's pull it up. 0.85

00:23:58.000 So after I cheated on my husband, I gave him a hall pass.

00:24:01.520 But here's the reason why I did that is because I didn't want to take the responsibility of getting rid of all demons that I opened up my marriage to.

00:24:09.760 And usually this is what people do when they cheat.

00:24:13.980 They want their spouse to cheat on them back so it would give them a reason to feel better in some way. 0.58

00:24:21.300 But let me tell you, that's the wrong way to do it.

00:24:24.540 It's the wrong way to go about it because at the end of the day, you make matters worse.

00:24:28.740 And even though I knew that that option was put forth in front of me, I knew that wasn't the right choice.

00:24:33.340 Because that's not the way that we try to rebuild a marriage.

00:24:36.720 If you want to stay in a marriage that's still on a downfall and just ride it out downhill, that's up to you if you want to make that choice.

00:24:44.380 But I was not about to make that same choice if I know I also have another option of getting back in the face of God,

00:24:50.820 praying for my marriage, praying for my wife, and trying to do the things and correct the wrongs that we had that led us into that position.

00:24:57.700 Okay, let's look at the comments section.

00:24:59.920 This was done by our producer, King.

00:25:01.720 Ew. We all know whose idea it was to do this video.

00:25:05.140 Take the pants back, bro. The skirt doesn't fit you. 0.99

00:25:08.260 And he's absolutely right.

00:25:10.020 Women, please stop talking about your relationship problems on social media. 0.97

00:25:14.420 This is a bad idea. I would not recommend zero out of ten.

00:25:18.700 Rocky on acid. You couldn't pay me to embarrass my man like this girl. 1.00

00:25:22.460 Keep your relationship off the internet. No one cares.

00:25:25.320 Yes, exactly.

00:25:27.040 I'm all for couples working out problems.

00:25:29.280 But typically, this should be done privately.

00:25:32.540 Now, and really, ladies, publicly saying that you cheated on your husband, many men will work through it.

00:25:39.600 As you see, look at the women does the wrong thing. 1.00

00:25:42.160 The man does the more right thing, right? 1.00

00:25:44.840 I mean, he's still letting his chick do all this crazy shit. 1.00

00:25:47.620 But this idea that it's a good idea to just talk about your relationship issues on social media is bad. 0.98

00:25:54.080 And I'd like to say the man really needs to take control here.

00:25:57.480 What you see is a guy allowing his chick to do whatever she wants in a relationship.

00:26:01.960 She can cheat and get away with it. 1.00

00:26:03.860 And now she can brag about her cheating on social media. 0.99

00:26:07.040 And there is zero consequence because he's supporting her doing it.

00:26:10.340 But the simping is off the chains.

00:26:14.140 All of the people on the comments probably are single and making fun of this guy.

00:26:17.780 At least he has a girl. 0.67

00:26:18.800 First get a girl, then complain. 1.00

00:26:20.520 Such incels.

00:26:21.740 And this is the other thing.

00:26:23.300 It's so funny because you see this double entendre.

00:26:26.340 The crowd will say, oh, it's so wrong for these men to sleep around.

00:26:30.160 But then if they don't sleep around, then they're incels. 0.98

00:26:32.780 It's like a lose-lose, gotcha moment.

00:26:35.120 But this is craziness and this is the level of Christian wives. 1.00

00:26:40.680 As they always would tell me, go to a church and find a Christian wife. 0.87

00:26:44.500 Well, this is a problem everywhere.

00:26:46.600 And until we switch the incentive structure and have actual consequences for women, 1.00

00:26:52.200 we will see no change.

00:26:53.820 This woman is coming on social media and talking about her cheating. 1.00

00:26:57.740 Imagine the level of disrespect.

00:27:00.160 So I always get asked about what do I think about passport bros?

00:27:04.360 I do think that women are better in other countries. 1.00

00:27:08.000 Yes, I do.

00:27:09.180 I think that they're a bit thinner.

00:27:10.900 I think they're a bit more feminine.

00:27:12.860 However, I do think that social media is going to change women forever. 0.99

00:27:18.320 I don't say this in a happy way, but you can't uninvent this technology.

00:27:22.800 And we have to adapt to survive.

00:27:25.560 What I see in other countries is they are 20 years behind.

00:27:28.980 A lot of the cultural trends that we see in the West.

00:27:32.340 However, I do see certain clips that make me think,

00:27:36.360 huh, maybe there are certain things that will never be socially acceptable in non-Western countries.

00:27:42.160 There is a clip that I think is quite old, but I thought it was hilarious,

00:27:45.340 of them asking about gay marriage in Africa.

00:27:48.780 Let's pull it up.

00:27:49.440 We equally reject attempts to prescribe new rights that are contrary to our values, norms, traditions, and beliefs.

00:28:02.320 We are not gays.

00:28:04.060 Do you hear that?

00:28:09.380 We are not gays.

00:28:11.180 And the comments, they say, we are not gays.

00:28:13.620 Say it louder. 0.99

00:28:14.640 I love these African countries that don't give a shit with these liberal white countries. 0.99

00:28:18.880 Thank good for them. 0.99

00:28:20.240 And this is amazing.

00:28:21.920 I've seen clips of people talking about how in Nigeria, it's illegal to be gay.

00:28:26.940 I say that's amazing.

00:28:28.420 Now, what do you guys mean?

00:28:30.060 What do you mean, Pearl?

00:28:30.780 I don't think we should be pushing to make gay marriage a normal thing. 1.00

00:28:35.480 I don't think we should be celebrating gay weddings. 1.00

00:28:38.100 Look, I don't think the police are dying to waste a bunch of police resources

00:28:43.100 about what people are doing in their bedroom.

00:28:46.220 This used to be a private thing, but now it is public and celebrated,

00:28:51.060 and we have an entire month dedicated to this.

00:28:54.200 I don't, you know, if someone is gay, everybody has a different sin. 0.99

00:28:57.540 I'm not planning on spending my day thinking about it.

00:29:01.560 And in most places in the world, I would imagine there are some gay people,

00:29:05.620 but they keep it quiet and hush-hush and do not wear it on their sleeve.

00:29:10.120 That is where I have a problem.

00:29:12.520 I think this is amazing.

00:29:13.820 And if you guys want to see more clips of non-Western countries talking about gay marriage,

00:29:19.820 send them to me.

00:29:20.920 Also, guys, like the video on your way out.

00:29:23.560 Make sure you get yourself a Women Shouldn't Vote t-shirt. 0.98

00:29:26.060 The link to that should be in the description.

00:29:28.000 Like the video, and I'll talk to you next time.

JustPearlyThings - October 05, 2023

Jordan Peterson And Ben Shapiro's HEATED Takes On Marriage ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 54

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