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In this episode, we discuss the importance of feminism and the role of women in society. What is feminism and what does it mean to be a feminist? What is the point of feminism? Why is it important to empower women? What does feminism mean and why do we need it?
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simple way to put it what do you think i agree with what she's saying 100 did you actually agree
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or you're just trying to get to the next person no i agree with what she's saying i think that a
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lot of i think the term feminism has been almost changed in modern day time and made into almost
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like women need to overpower men and women need to take over the world kind of energy
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i hear that no i don't agree okay what do you think um feminism is made to empower women and show
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men the importance of women in society what's the importance of women in society what what's the
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importance of women in society we are society that's not that what's your importance what's
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your role in society if it's so important if you're that's the point of empowering you
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what's your role well i'm not being funny um without where would the world be without women
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like where would you you've come from a woman you've learned most of what you've growing up
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who brought you up was it your mother or your father who's so who's got core duties why do men go so hard
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so the importance of a woman is motherhood no not just motherhood come back to me i have to think
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about it but women you seem pretty set in stone on that i think we just saw feminism in real time
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you said that it's in our role is really important and then you just said motherhood which is that
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existed before the feminist movement motherhood has always been important yeah it's always been
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respected all right you're right and it's pinnacle how do you think the world's going to continue to
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go on without motherhood we agree so would you be here if you didn't have a mother we agree 100
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exactly so what is the feminist movement done to prove that well the feminist movement if you're
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talking about what um what's it what's going on now the empowerment all this girl boss thing that's
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going on right now no that's modern feminism that's what it's evolved to but feminism in itself is made to
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make the world see the value they used to plan assassinations in the early 1900s or feminist
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well um yeah terrorist groups that men and women you know it's equality isn't it women can be
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terrorists too true that's why i think feminism in my opinion is the problem when people want to label
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things you don't want all of the same things we're all very different women we have different experience
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different careers different ones so if you start saying feminism you start labeling everybody it's
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a problem because a black woman's freaking experience is not the same as a white woman so we
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our feminism doesn't look the same so when everybody's saying oh women empower yourselves
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we can't empower ourselves the same way some women work some don't so we have a mother some women are
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not mothers he's like don't put me under the same what is a black woman what does that have to do
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with feminism it has to do with feminism because for example for me just knowing the difference between
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my empowerment and the empowerment of my white girlfriends it's very different i have bigger
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struggles to overcome so when somebody's telling me oh feminism empower yourself we're all the same
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no we're not we're quite different the same way that i don't believe that racism is actually something
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that many people should be speaking on because even that black experience is totally different depending
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on where you're from what class you come from so women are not all the same just because we are women
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this is like everything you're saying is why people think that feminists are just chatting because like what
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does racism so i don't really care and i brought feminism as a as a comparison point because i'm
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just trying to explain that when you put people in the same bag every single time it causes problems
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so you don't actually get to understand what the genuine problem is and you start saying oh we want
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this but then you don't know what it's victim mindset yeah it's it's having a victim mindset i'm black
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i'm a woman i need empowerment i need no it's not a victimization it's a fact because i know i lived that
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experience you may not and on top of that i'm also an immigrant so i already know that my experience is
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different so when i'm talking about empowerment and you're an immigrant too there's a lot of
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ways you're victimizing yourself i'm not victimized i'm empowering myself because i'm a g i made it
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through the problem i don't really care about whether or not it was a situation but that's
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wokeness you empower yourself by victimizing yourself no i empower myself by understanding that
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perhaps i may have a bigger hill to climb so i'll train harder it's what you're leading with though
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it's certainly what you're leading with your race your gender and your immigration of course you're
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leading with that is that your identity you can understand that when i'm a feminist too what
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about what you've done in the world instead of all of these other things in the world okay then why
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not leave with those i'm an educator as well okay and i understand the difference between me going into
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that that job versus other people i work with different types of racism what i'm trying to say
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is i'm not trying to make this about racism i'm simply making a comparison to explain but you did
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no no no you certainly did and let me tell you why because i'm making a comparison so it's an analogy
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to explain another problem when you put everybody in the same basket it doesn't work that's why
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feminism doesn't work it's not a good thing because i don't relate to feminists because the problems
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are not just caused by gender the problems are caused by these other factors that you're talking
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about yes but it's caused by so many different things there's different elements to it so don't
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box me in so that's why i don't think feminism is good you neglect the people that actually do need
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empowering and i don't think it's fair to say that she shouldn't lead with her race and all of these
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things because when you look at us the first thing you do see is my race if i am a tv presenter you're
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not it's the first thing i see when it's the first thing you say when i see you i see a woman i
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don't see a black girl maybe that's just you but the majority you're gonna already have this stigma
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of me because here's the problem with you doing that i say this with love but if you have that
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top of mind all the time you're gonna suppress yourself but that's literally that's life like
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that's gonna you're gonna suppress yourself we can't change it and that is like that's like me
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assuming that y'all are gonna hate me because i'm a straight white male why would i think that about
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you guys when we could just get along so i don't understand like why are you being so challenging when i
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said because because i hate to hear it coming out of your mouth because it's a poisonous thing for
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you to think next to feminist and i'm saying whatever your empowerment movement is is not the
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same as mine so don't actually label me to be in that situation and say oh women want oh i'm not
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labeling you i'm simply telling you what exactly what you said no no no exactly what you said what do
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you think about feminine i said i'm black i'm an immigrant all this that's literally what you just said
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that's exactly what you said okay let me rephrase it so you can understand it please so essentially
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if i stand next to a feminist yeah for example a white woman i don't relate to you because i'm
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black okay wait wait wait let me finish can i finish you're about to say i can't box myself in with
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you because i'm black that's not what i'm saying say it then what i'm saying is i am not the same woman
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as you what i want and what i see to be empowerment is not the same whether it's culturally whether it's
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racially whether it's professionally academically personally whatever we are all very different women
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cannot be boxed into the same box because we're not the same because you're different races because
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of different experiences as women so you're making an anti-feminist you're you're making an anti-feminist
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argument but but you want to have other you want to have other things to complain about i've got i've
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got a lot of victim balance yeah i know the things that are not right and i know the things that are
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right it's not just black and white there's gray areas in the middle that's why i mentioned for
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example things like race is a gray area in the middle that makes it say oh yeah feminism may not
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actually be as accurate as people are saying that is why people come across feminists and they don't
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know what they want because one wants this the other one wants this and the other one wants this
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because they are different and that is why feminism in my opinion is destructive and i don't think
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she's playing victim i think she's just acknowledging a serious issue in society what racism yes are we
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gonna act like racism doesn't exist it doesn't racism is not a problem that's how they keep people
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broken at the bottom and arguing about nothing and thinking that they're victims all the time like a
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problem it's not it's not a problem when you believe it your it's a problem then isn't it okay
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my point is your existence is a sum of your beliefs and your thoughts and if you're always thinking that
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i'm a victim because i'm black i'm not a feminist because of this i'm an immigrant then you know what's
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going to happen you're going to stay poor you're going to stay unhappy and you're going to see racism
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everywhere at a certain level of wealth and at a certain level of status people never discuss things
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like race people never discuss like i'm an immigrant so it was hard you just want to get to the next
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point yeah that's why racism is okay winners winners only see green because the truth of the
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matter is like i own a business right i have a bunch of employees if somebody turns up and does their job
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and they're profitable for my company i cannot afford to give a about their race religion hair
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with gender any of that stuff because it's too hard to find people that work really hard you know i was
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