JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023


@JustPearlyThings Gets Confronted With This Question


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10 minutes

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2,024

Sentence count

194

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Misogyny

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In this episode, the guys talk about what it's like to grow up in an abusive family and how to deal with it. They also talk about the fact that women are actually more violent than men, and why this is a problem.

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00:00:00.000 If you have a child, what, are you going to have a woman change? 1.00
00:00:02.240 So what, you bring home millions of dollars
00:00:05.260 and you have to change the diaper?
00:00:06.800 That's crazy.
00:00:07.320 I don't do it all the time.
00:00:11.520 If anything, it was 98% too, but how?
00:00:14.940 I'm not even, no, no, no.
00:00:15.760 Sometimes you got to do it yourself.
00:00:17.200 Gary, if I bring millions of dollars for my wife,
00:00:19.740 I shouldn't change one diaper on earth.
00:00:22.440 If you love her, you will.
00:00:23.500 I don't even love the baby if it gives a shit.
00:00:25.540 If the baby takes a shit, I don't love you anymore.
00:00:28.180 Wait, I'm not saying that they should be changing diapers,
00:00:33.120 but I would say education is,
00:00:35.000 it used to be a more structured hierarchy.
00:00:37.620 It used to have a hierarchy and it used to be more structured,
00:00:40.380 but now it's just wild.
00:00:42.420 Here's the hierarchy.
00:00:44.080 Men don't listen to women. 1.00
00:00:45.900 If I'm on a road trip for about two weeks
00:00:47.920 and I come back from Vegas or something like that,
00:00:50.340 the kids are running wild.
00:00:52.020 I basically have to go in there and I can't be their friend.
00:00:55.420 I got to yell at them.
00:00:56.480 I do this, do this.
00:00:58.320 And then they start steadily down within 24 hours
00:01:00.560 because you need a man.
00:01:02.500 No woman can teach a boy how to become a man, period. 1.00
00:01:05.620 I can tell you, I'm one of four girls.
00:01:08.140 19 years ago, my father died.
00:01:10.480 And ever since he died, there's been mayhem in the family
00:01:13.660 that never existed while he was alive.
00:01:16.640 And he was a nice, even keeled, calm guy.
00:01:18.760 He wasn't a tyrant, but for some reason,
00:01:20.800 he knew how to keep everything pulled together.
00:01:24.800 And it's one anecdotal story, but it really was a loss.
00:01:30.260 Pearl, would you be a liberal if it wasn't for your father?
00:01:33.540 Oh, I would be.
00:01:34.120 I'd be in like a hippie in a bus somewhere. 0.99
00:01:36.400 There you go.
00:01:36.800 A strong male figure.
00:01:38.180 Pearl, you were a liberal last year to me.
00:01:40.100 Now you're a black pill.
00:01:41.820 A liberal last year?
00:01:42.860 You weren't as hardcore.
00:01:44.660 No, no, I was never liberal.
00:01:47.580 Really?
00:01:48.260 No, no, never liberal.
00:01:49.940 So how long have you hated women?
00:01:51.840 So, but okay, so I'll answer, I'll get to that next,
00:01:56.300 but I want to answer your question first,
00:01:57.840 because you asked why is there this distrust in men?
00:02:00.060 It's because women respond really quickly to propaganda. 1.00
00:02:03.020 And there's been a propaganda wave since like the 60s
00:02:05.780 saying the men are abusive, you can't trust the men.
00:02:08.320 This has been going on for over 50 years.
00:02:11.120 And women actually have no idea 1.00
00:02:12.580 that women are actually more violent than men, 0.98
00:02:14.640 yet men are always the ones accused of abuse.
00:02:17.160 Amber Heard, shout out to Amber Heard.
00:02:18.900 So, and because what is true violence?
00:02:21.260 Who kills the innocent? 0.87
00:02:22.840 Women kill even babies after they're born 1.00
00:02:25.460 and the elderly more than men.
00:02:28.000 It's not even close.
00:02:29.180 Then we look at abusive relationships
00:02:30.920 when it's one-sided,
00:02:32.500 meaning one party's hitting the other
00:02:33.800 and they're not just beat, you know,
00:02:34.920 some couples, they just beat each other up, 1.00
00:02:36.720 like Krishan, Blueface. 0.95
00:02:38.360 I don't know what you're talking about.
00:02:39.460 But when it's one-sided,
00:02:40.320 it's 70% of the time it's the women. 1.00
00:02:42.580 And if you want to include under-reported,
00:02:45.040 like I would argue it's under-reported
00:02:46.740 because men aren't really going to report it 0.91
00:02:48.400 like women are, 1.00
00:02:49.420 I would argue it's higher than that.
00:02:51.220 Women are very, very, yeah. 1.00
00:02:53.220 And I would even argue that there's more,
00:02:55.180 I would argue there's more stories
00:02:56.780 of women beating their kids than there are men. 0.99
00:02:59.140 Women are very, very violent, 1.00
00:03:00.740 but the media has convinced us otherwise.
00:03:03.100 Well, it doesn't hurt, Pat,
00:03:04.260 like once you're past the age of 12.
00:03:05.840 Yeah, I know.
00:03:06.240 I remember the first time my mom like hit 1.00
00:03:10.800 because she's seen me with this wooden spoon.
00:03:12.480 I remember the first time she did it
00:03:13.980 and she didn't, like it didn't hurt.
00:03:17.320 With the wooden spoon?
00:03:18.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:18.940 And I was like, oh, this doesn't even hurt.
00:03:21.680 Yeah, do it again, mom. 0.99
00:03:23.580 Wait, are you part Italian or something?
00:03:25.120 I thought that was just in our genes.
00:03:27.060 No, no, I'm Irish.
00:03:28.040 You guys are Irish too.
00:03:29.400 Yeah, we're one eighth Irish, right?
00:03:30.860 I'm a quarter Irish.
00:03:32.160 You never used the wooden spoon.
00:03:33.680 You would just throw like slippers.
00:03:35.460 I think a couple months ago you threw a bottle at me.
00:03:38.000 No, what do we do?
00:03:40.080 There's no microphone in between you guys.
00:03:42.260 You guys have to keep moving it.
00:03:43.680 Keep moving it.
00:03:44.520 When you rewatch this,
00:03:45.780 you guys will be totally deafened.
00:03:47.900 I'm serious.
00:03:48.540 I've come after you like fewer times
00:03:51.420 than I can count on one hand,
00:03:52.700 but sometimes it was never like a beating.
00:03:56.580 It was just like it.
00:03:57.660 You got to beat up kids.
00:03:58.940 You have to beat up kids.
00:04:00.280 My move was the BIF.
00:04:02.060 Yeah, and this is the other thing.
00:04:05.100 And I'm not saying every mom is going to be violent,
00:04:07.780 but I'm saying by and large,
00:04:08.760 women are much more violent than men. 1.00
00:04:10.660 It's like not even close.
00:04:12.460 I wonder if it's,
00:04:13.320 I haven't really given that any thought,
00:04:14.620 but I wonder if it's just because
00:04:15.800 a man doesn't have to hit a child
00:04:18.400 to get the child in control
00:04:20.880 because he looks scary.
00:04:21.560 Depends on the child.
00:04:23.080 For generally speaking,
00:04:24.780 because he looks imposing and he's scary,
00:04:27.280 where a child looking at me,
00:04:28.860 you know,
00:04:29.160 I'm skinny and scoochy voice.
00:04:31.060 I think it's because women yell so often, 1.00
00:04:34.860 the kids just block that shit out. 0.50
00:04:36.580 But when a man yells,
00:04:37.880 he doesn't do it that often,
00:04:39.320 so it has more weight.
00:04:40.780 Scarcity builds value.
00:04:42.280 I don't think that would explain
00:04:44.040 women killing the innocent, 1.00
00:04:45.720 so infants and the elderly.
00:04:47.520 I just think women are more emotional. 1.00
00:04:49.240 They just get these flashes of emotion
00:04:50.740 and just can't control it.
00:04:52.340 Women are biblically of the devil. 1.00
00:04:55.520 That's why Eve was tempted,
00:04:57.100 not Adam.
00:04:58.320 And Eve was given paradise
00:05:00.380 and she said,
00:05:01.440 I want more.
00:05:03.320 Every woman is given the greatest house
00:05:05.420 with a millionaire
00:05:06.040 and then they cheat
00:05:07.140 with a nightclub security guard.
00:05:09.160 Dude, I'm a sweaty nightclub security guard.
00:05:12.380 A $10 an hour nightclub security guard
00:05:14.820 and these women would leave 1.00
00:05:15.960 their million dollar homes
00:05:17.360 to run around with a sweaty security guard
00:05:20.840 that's poor.
00:05:21.700 For a couple hours.
00:05:22.940 But...
00:05:23.260 That's the point.
00:05:26.520 A couple hours ruins their marriage.
00:05:28.480 That's how evil women are. 1.00
00:05:29.680 You could give them millions of dollars
00:05:30.980 and they want more.
00:05:32.260 Unless they have a beta male,
00:05:33.540 then they'll stay.
00:05:34.740 Well, it was always a beta.
00:05:35.760 Yeah, there.
00:05:36.440 There you go.
00:05:36.780 You're not going to cheat on that.
00:05:37.640 Going back to the...
00:05:40.640 There's the evil.
00:05:41.660 No, here's the evil.
00:05:42.460 Go ahead.
00:05:42.880 Going back to the education
00:05:43.920 and she even mentioned
00:05:45.060 the over-sexualization of kids.
00:05:47.820 I mean, right now,
00:05:48.760 I'm seeing indoctrination over education
00:05:51.000 and I think to blame women 1.00
00:05:52.940 for being teachers
00:05:53.940 for that type of education,
00:05:55.460 I think we should be blaming our power.
00:05:59.560 You know, who's controlling...
00:06:00.720 Wait a second.
00:06:01.360 Who's teaching this garbage
00:06:02.680 to their kids?
00:06:04.020 It's not men 1.00
00:06:05.640 who are promoting homosexuality. 0.87
00:06:07.980 It is women
00:06:08.660 who are promoting homosexuality. 0.87
00:06:10.940 It's the school kids,
00:06:12.360 the teachers
00:06:12.860 who are promoting that garbage
00:06:14.340 to the kids.
00:06:14.780 You don't think it's our culture
00:06:15.560 and they're telling the women?
00:06:16.560 Yeah, they let women have... 1.00
00:06:17.800 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:18.580 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:06:19.560 I need to...
00:06:20.020 Wait, wait, wait.
00:06:20.760 Who makes the culture?
00:06:22.820 Who is the culture catering to? 0.95
00:06:24.380 No, who are they catering to?
00:06:26.620 Who is the culture?
00:06:27.420 I don't know.
00:06:27.440 I think they're trying
00:06:28.100 to distract society
00:06:29.180 and they're trying
00:06:29.600 to distract the family unit. 0.64
00:06:30.020 But this is another way
00:06:31.460 that women dodge accountability. 1.00
00:06:33.860 Women are the culture. 1.00
00:06:35.560 Women transplant the culture. 1.00
00:06:37.240 Women are the ones 1.00
00:06:37.920 that are raising the kids.
00:06:39.400 And on top of that,
00:06:40.140 the media is catering to women. 0.98
00:06:42.420 And so we always blame
00:06:43.460 our poor decisions
00:06:44.680 when really it's like
00:06:46.100 everything's catering to the women. 1.00
00:06:47.920 That's what I'm trying to say
00:06:48.560 is the media,
00:06:49.340 which is predominantly ran by men,
00:06:51.160 the government,
00:06:51.680 which is predominantly ran by men
00:06:53.160 is catering to women
00:06:54.300 to...
00:06:54.800 To what women want. 1.00
00:06:56.360 Exactly, because they know
00:06:57.360 it's going to destruct us.
00:06:58.740 They know they're breaking
00:06:59.500 the family unit.
00:07:00.040 Right, but I'm saying,
00:07:00.920 like, okay,
00:07:01.540 so I know that
00:07:03.040 if I can get paid
00:07:03.800 to deal drugs,
00:07:05.160 it's not their fault
00:07:07.460 for their being buyers.
00:07:09.040 It's the drug dealer's fault
00:07:10.200 for doing it.
00:07:11.060 So if women are doing OnlyFans 1.00
00:07:12.900 and doing that stuff,
00:07:13.660 it's your own fault
00:07:14.260 for doing it.
00:07:14.720 I think that's what I'm saying.
00:07:15.560 I'm saying women are the buyers 1.00
00:07:16.980 because you just said
00:07:17.920 media caters to women, 1.00
00:07:20.120 so they're the buyers, right?
00:07:21.840 Right.
00:07:22.380 Who is catering? 0.78
00:07:23.340 The media, right?
00:07:24.100 I'm saying the women 1.00
00:07:24.940 are the ones buying.
00:07:26.560 So why are you blaming them
00:07:28.000 for selling?
00:07:28.480 There's a cause and effect.
00:07:29.860 But I'm saying
00:07:30.900 it's women's own fault. 1.00
00:07:32.020 But to solve a problem,
00:07:33.100 you have to stop the cause.
00:07:34.360 You can't just blame the effect.
00:07:35.740 You have to solve the cause.
00:07:36.540 Well, what?
00:07:36.940 And the cause is
00:07:37.460 close the legs. 0.76
00:07:38.740 Yeah.
00:07:39.220 That's what it comes down to.
00:07:40.140 Close the damn legs. 1.00
00:07:40.880 I agree with that.
00:07:41.680 I don't think, yeah.
00:07:42.560 As long as the legs are closed,
00:07:44.100 you won't have any of these issues.
00:07:45.180 But that's my point
00:07:46.640 is we always push it back
00:07:48.040 on the men somehow.
00:07:49.840 I think it's both to blame.
00:07:51.840 How is it men are to blame?
00:07:53.720 I don't understand.
00:07:54.400 If a woman keeps your legs closed, 1.00
00:07:55.900 how is a man to blame for anything?
00:07:57.400 Now we're talking about sex.
00:07:59.180 I'm talking about education
00:08:00.020 in the media.
00:08:00.640 It all comes down to that.
00:08:02.060 It all comes down to that.
00:08:04.000 Men also have choices.
00:08:05.840 And men have allowed the women 1.00
00:08:08.040 to go...
00:08:09.460 Men have always been pigs.
00:08:11.640 It's only when the women 1.00
00:08:12.600 became pigs too.
00:08:13.840 That's when the whole
00:08:14.740 goddamn problem started.
00:08:15.780 We just went through the stats.
00:08:17.360 Only 10% of men
00:08:18.960 have had more than one
00:08:20.720 sexual partner in the past year.
00:08:22.760 Well, culturally speaking,
00:08:25.260 culturally speaking,
00:08:26.460 men have allowed this to happen.
00:08:28.860 86% of women have kids.
00:08:32.820 Okay?
00:08:33.120 Only 60% of men have kids.
00:08:35.420 Do the math.
00:08:35.920 That tells you everything you need to know.
00:08:36.960 And the other thing is
00:08:38.600 most men had no choice.
00:08:41.860 How did men have a choice 0.99
00:08:43.500 in the policies
00:08:44.180 that are passed in the media?
00:08:46.440 More women had a choice in this 1.00
00:08:48.240 than men had a choice.
00:08:49.980 Women weren't allowed to vote. 1.00
00:08:52.620 And this is...
00:08:53.320 Hallelujah!
00:08:54.980 This is what I was trying to say.
00:08:56.180 It doesn't take a day to build Rome.
00:08:58.820 This is the men's choice 1.00
00:09:00.360 over time that's led to this.
00:09:01.880 But wait, but what percent...
00:09:02.720 You took a day to ruin Rome.
00:09:03.920 Get your vote.
00:09:05.320 Fuck out of here.
00:09:06.320 What percent of men
00:09:07.380 had a choice in that decision?
00:09:09.340 I think by letting us vote, I guess.
00:09:11.640 But that's the point.
00:09:13.160 Why didn't you guys speak?
00:09:14.260 Back then,
00:09:15.060 back then,
00:09:15.600 there was only a small percentage
00:09:16.960 of men that even were involved in that.
00:09:20.060 I mean, it happened
00:09:20.920 in men are the leader.
00:09:21.840 And the swing...
00:09:22.080 So if men lead the country 0.86
00:09:23.380 and what's going on in the country,
00:09:24.540 then you have to look at the leader.
00:09:26.340 Look at the...
00:09:26.920 Like, what are you talking about?
00:09:28.160 What I'm talking about
00:09:29.460 is that most men
00:09:30.520 had no say in women voting. 1.00
00:09:32.500 Is that true or not true?
00:09:33.620 I think men had a say
00:09:35.020 since they were leading the country.
00:09:36.780 No, did most men
00:09:37.800 have a say in women voting? 1.00
00:09:39.640 Did most men get to vote on that?
00:09:41.940 I have no idea.
00:09:42.920 Okay, but that's what I'm telling you.
00:09:44.680 The men voted in the men 0.65
00:09:46.660 who made those decisions.
00:09:47.760 But most people
00:09:48.400 did not vote back then.
00:09:50.020 That's the point.
00:09:51.140 A small percentage of men
00:09:52.540 made yes.
00:09:53.920 That is the point.
00:09:54.780 Most men had no say. 0.95
00:09:56.640 So when you say,
00:09:57.800 oh, it's the men
00:09:58.820 that let them do that,
00:10:00.060 I'm saying most men
00:10:01.000 had no say in that.