@JWALLER BREAKS DOWN Male Nature To Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, the guys discuss cheating and why it is a waste of time. They discuss why cheating should never be tolerated and how to deal with it in the dating world. They also talk about why men cheat and why they should never do it.
Transcript
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Do you know the candy store analogy? Can you tell us? Yeah, I've heard Tate say it before.
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So basically, the way I've heard him explain it, I've never used it, but a man starts his life off
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at the bottom of a mountain and he fights his ass off and he gets hit by rocks and he gets torn up
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and his ass handed to him and he gets beat up and he falls down the mountain, has to start over,
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goes bankrupt. He finally fights and fights and fights and claws away and he gets to the top of
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the mountain and he gets into the candy shop and he eats his first piece of candy and they tell him
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that's the only piece he can have. And generally, a man that's done all of that work is going to be
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like, fuck you, I'm going to take over the whole store. Because very, very, very few men will ever
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get up that mountain. It's called the 1% for a reason and it is a fucking dogfight. And that's
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what he's referring to. It's the thing that drives men. Now, there's a lot of men out there that'll
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say, oh, that's bullshit. No, using it as a dating strategy. Any man that could love his wife,
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tuck his kids in at night, be a good man, provide for his entire family, be there as a father, be a
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provider, be the hero for his family and sleep with a couple of women every now and then would do it.
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And anybody that says otherwise is a fucking liar, straight up. And look, I know that sucks and it's
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not fair. It is completely not fair, but it is the reality of the world. And I think sometimes
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when we talk about these subjects, we get lost between the realities of the world and the emotions
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because I know it hurts. It does. But it is absolutely true.
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Their silence agrees. That's what I was going to say.
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Their silence agrees with me. And look, man, I'm sorry.
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Yeah. And I get it. And like I said before, if I could pay a million dollars to cut it off,
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I actually would. I would actually cut it off. I think it's a waste of time.
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Oh, yeah, it is. It's in us all. It's in every one of us.
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It's just it's just the fact that a lot of men don't want to climb that mountain.
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And so they'll trade off things that they don't actually want to do to get some piece of candy.
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But the men that really want to hustle want the whole fucking store.
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And generally, that's the man that you're going to admire and look up to because he has ambition.
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You believe in him. And most of all, you trust him to take care of you.
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That's all I'm saying. And I don't mean to be disrespectful, but I genuinely want you to hear me
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because I fear that if young women that are young and beautiful, like you girls are,
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are taking advice from older women that are not happy, you are going to find yourself in that same position.
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I'm saying it. Look, as as heated as it got, I'm saying this out of love, not not to put you down.
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I genuinely believe it. And I'm also not manipulating you because I'm not trying to get with any of you.
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I'm going to get on a plane in a couple of days. You know what I'm saying?
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But please let me leave this with you or watch it again. Any man that could, would.
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I often say I'm not doing anything that any other man would not do if he could.
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I'm curious. Did any of you change your opinion on cheating after listening to him or after having this conversation tonight?
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I hate that it's called cheating in the first place.
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I hate that. Because the cheating is a triggering part, you know, like if he set you down, like pretty teeth said, you know,
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she's like, I wouldn't like it, but I would appreciate the truth.
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Yeah. It's the deceit that really is going to upset you because he's killing himself for you.
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He loves you more than anything. He'd take a bullet for you and the slags on the side, dude,
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he don't even want them in his bed at night. He's in love with you.
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Yeah, because it's, you know how you guys get emotional for no reason?
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So are you saying it's just like an ego stroke?
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No, that's the point. It's not about ego at all.
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Men that sleep with women just to feel better about themselves are super insecure.
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No, no, it is more like, it is more like this primal thing inside of you that will not get out of your fucking head.
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Does the fact that 8,000 years ago, 17 women reproduced for every one man, does that mean anything to you?
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That always in history, there's always been more women reproducing for men?
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I think historically, yeah, but like, we try and adapt like we're humans, we're, you know, creatures of adaptation.
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Like, I would try my best to adapt if I didn't, if something didn't sit right with me.
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Okay, so if in modern society, we're going back to that, like we're trending more towards sharing men?
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No, to be fair, I don't even like to share my food, so best believe I'm not sharing my men.
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You have, again, because we spoke about you've been in situationships, so you were sharing a guy.
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Y'all are sharing guys right now, but we're beating a dead horse, right?
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Well, we keep coming back to the same, we keep coming back to the same point, because you guys, whenever, whenever Justin, whenever Justin makes the, or somebody makes the point and says, well, no, this is how men are wired, this is how they're programmed, these are the things that they want.
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Then somebody on the couch or wherever says, oh, but not all of them, like, like you did.
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And it's kind of like, but no, but we keep, we keep beating the same horse.
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Not all of them necessarily will act on it, but that's partly down to, okay, there's going to be a few unicorns who aren't going to act on it because they're super amazing, whatever guys.
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But for the most part, for the most part, they're not going to act on it because then they don't have the ability to, because they're not high enough in the food chain.
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The guys who are at the top, they are going to act on it.
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Like, I think I can personally relate because at a certain point you have a connection that's distinct enough with someone that it takes a long time for that urge to come back.
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Even for me, I'll be like, you know what, I could like really vibe with someone.
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But part of me knows that in like a year, maybe two, some people have been together for 20 years.
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That's one of the reasons I didn't have a relationship when I was younger because I thought, I don't want to do that.
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But I realized, bro, I'm always, it's just human nature, novelty.
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I thought something was wrong with me and I thought I was all fucked up and I hated myself for a long time.
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I broke up with Miss Louisiana in college because I felt like I couldn't do it and I didn't want to be a piece of shit.
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And I went and tried to pray about it and do all this church stuff.
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And I come to find it was just a pattern that would not leave me.
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Was that because of something to you with yourself?
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Hungry and horny to a man is pretty much the same thing.
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I do agree that it's nothing to do with the looks.
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No, that is the first thing that I actually 100% agree with you on.
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She could be the ugliest girl in the world, but he's still going to do it.
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You know, you've got steak at home, but sometimes you just fancy going out for a McDonald's.
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And it's like this thing is people demonize it and act like, you know, it is wired into us.
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If I could pay to get rid of that feeling, I would absolutely do it.
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But I guess it's like a bit more, a better feeling for us girls to know that he's sat there saying that if he could get rid of it, he would.
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It's like if you're saying that you could, I'd get rid of this if I could.
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Yeah, see, that's reassurance for us girls, but you don't probably think that you're reassuring as saying that.
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That's just something that you personally believe.
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But I'm just saying for us girls, that is reassurance to know that a man wants to do that.
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I think modern women don't really hear these things, though.
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There's not many men that can say it and get away with it.
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I think party things is a safe space in some ways.
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But let me tell you something else about you guys.
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Women that I see will see me say this, and they'll see me anyway.
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Many, many, many men cannot say what I'm saying and get away with it.
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And for that reason, I'm trying to be graceful right now because I feel like earlier it got heated.
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But truly, if I could get rid of it, yeah, if I could get rid of it, I truly mean that.
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For the ladies, what questions do you guys have for men that you don't understand about men?
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I think my confusion is what does the man that fights through all these battles and gets to the candy store and tries to take it over, what does that look like in today's world?
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I think that's the problem with us younger women.
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It's not like back in the day where it was clear.
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You know, so we're just like, the words like rappers and footballers and, you know, Drake get thrown into these conversations.
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And it's like, oh, yeah, that's what a high-value man is.
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It's like, what does that guy look like in today's society?
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But I don't think you have to be Drake to be high value.
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You know, I don't like the alpha, the beta, the high value.
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But I think a man that completely takes care of business and can give you a life that you would have never had otherwise.
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Not by belittling you, but by loving you and empowering you to level up to where he's trying to go.
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So you can be on his arm when he's at that event.
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And that's why I asked you the question I asked you earlier.
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But when you have a real man in front of you, he wants to build you up.
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That's why we can't even say that people are high value men until you actually like that.
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Like Drake, to be honest, I've never really seen him in a proper relationship.
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Now, I will say that it's probably smart to protect the queen in that regard.
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If Drake is smart, he'll never let you see her.
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But hopefully, if that woman exists, he's building her up.
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He's almost doing everything he can to put every amount of knowledge in her so she's qualified to be with him at the Grammys.
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Listen, baby, you gotta, you gotta dress like, you can talk like this when they do this, do this.
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He's, I pick you so I develop you and I protect you from the world.
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Like, I'm here to protect you from this, me and you.
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