JustPearlyThings - @JWALLER Educate Young Men on Women and Money

00:00:00.080 Justin Waller, have YouTube, Jay Waller, also have quite a bit of real estate in America and construction.

00:00:05.980 So, as everyone knows, I help guys online in every area of life.

00:00:13.220 You've seen my channel, you probably know, and then we do our best to help guys develop themselves

00:00:17.780 and get in a position where they can come in the war room or join the real world, etc.

00:00:21.980 So, you're a bit different in the online space.

00:00:26.880 Because you had a whole, like you ran a whole construction company before you even got on YouTube, right?

00:00:34.700 Yeah, I had a whole life and still do have a whole life outside of YouTube.

00:00:38.000 Oh, you still do that?

00:00:38.800 Oh, yeah, I have 200 employees.

00:00:40.580 Oh, I thought you sold it or something.

00:00:43.200 No, no, no, no.

00:00:44.780 We just had our best first quarter ever.

00:00:47.540 And last year we broke all our revenue goals.

00:00:50.440 The company is in a place now where I have adult, I'm the youngest person in my office.

00:00:55.080 So, I have legitimately professional adults that run the place that get bonus quite well to run the company.

00:01:02.520 And so, the business is 13 years old.

00:01:05.700 And so, for that reason, you know, there's a lot of systems in place.

00:01:09.760 There is a lot of deep-rooted relationships with vendors and customers and clients.

00:01:14.680 And a lot of the guys in the field have been with me for a long time.

00:01:17.820 So, yeah, it runs.

00:01:19.360 It runs like a top.

00:01:20.120 Now, I do get daily reports every day.

00:01:22.180 And if there's something I don't like, I'll drill into that and I'll make phone calls.

00:01:25.240 But generally, it's just to one person in whatever business, whether it's in the real estate business or the construction business or even this online business.

00:01:33.080 I call one person.

00:01:35.580 I think there was a study that said a manager can only manage about five to six people max.

00:01:40.520 And so, now, I have somebody in the construction company that manages everyone and I'll talk to that person.

00:01:48.260 And if I really have a life or death conversation, which has not happened this year, and we're in, what, April or May?

00:01:55.260 I can't remember.

00:01:56.720 April.

00:01:59.160 And so, that's how that happens.

00:02:01.120 I just get a report from each business each day.

00:02:02.900 And if I see something, I'll pick up the phone and call.

00:02:04.400 But generally, it runs quite well.

00:02:07.260 And then we do quarterlies.

00:02:08.540 I want to do that.

00:02:09.960 Yeah?

00:02:10.260 Yeah.

00:02:10.700 You just call one person.

00:02:12.640 Yeah.

00:02:12.920 No, I get it.

00:02:13.740 I get it.

00:02:14.360 But, you know.

00:02:15.940 I know what you mean, though, like about building the systems.

00:02:18.280 Because we just did that with, like, recruiting.

00:02:20.840 So, it's, like, so nice when they start to be able to do it on their own and you don't have to interfere.

00:02:26.200 Right.

00:02:26.440 So, every, like, so every person in your organizational board, I don't know if you have one, but every person in our organizational board has five roles and responsibilities.

00:02:34.700 And there's a statistical metric attached to it.

00:02:37.600 So, I get those metrics every day for the office positions.

00:02:41.480 And it trickles down from the field.

00:02:43.360 And I know every job we're on, what foreman is running that job, if it's on track, off track, the whole thing.

00:02:50.640 From my office staff to my managers, I know how much money we made today. 0.99

00:02:53.940 I know every son of a bitch that spent a penny. 0.99

00:02:57.060 Like, that's all there. 0.99

00:02:58.120 I know what AR is.

00:02:59.280 It's just this big report.

00:03:00.800 I just tell Siri to read it.

00:03:02.320 And I just, I keep driving and just listen to it.

00:03:05.040 And if I hear something I don't like, then pick up the phone or text.

00:03:10.000 I am not.

00:03:10.540 I got to learn how to do that.

00:03:11.980 Yeah, I'll show it to you when we get done.

00:03:12.920 Yeah.

00:03:14.400 So, you're also, it's also really interesting because you said you came from Louisiana.

00:03:19.220 Yeah, I was born in Louisiana and raised.

00:03:21.000 So, and now you're successful.

00:03:23.940 You have a social media following.

00:03:26.440 You're in great shape.

00:03:27.900 You live this crazy life.

00:03:30.540 How does, how does one get there?

00:03:32.280 Like, where did, where did this start?

00:03:34.940 It's funny you say that.

00:03:35.940 I made a post last night in the war room, actually.

00:03:38.500 Um, I'd made a post that I paid my dad's house off and somebody said to me, I'm really upset

00:03:45.380 with myself.

00:03:46.180 I had this goal to do that and I had done it yet.

00:03:48.380 And he was talking about, like, how far it should be.

00:03:52.140 And the reason I bring it up is because what I said to him is a lot of times you have internal

00:03:56.520 growth.

00:03:56.860 So, for me, I was taking care of my fitness long before I was on the internet.

00:04:02.420 I was taking care of my business.

00:04:04.080 I was trying to have the best style I, I was conscious of, you know, in Louisiana and I

00:04:11.080 was reading books and I was doing all these things.

00:04:13.300 So, it was all this internal growth.

00:04:14.880 So, when the time came where I went to go online, I feel like it was substantially easier for

00:04:23.260 people to accept me in the online space, being that as I had done all these things, like in

00:04:28.500 the real world, particularly around business, because a lot of people that I do interviews

00:04:34.120 with and spend time with, they make their money from the internet.

00:04:38.120 And I think when you, when you look at particularly the guys, they're like, you do what for a living?

00:04:44.200 That's how you got here.

00:04:45.280 Okay, I respect that.

00:04:46.360 I'll collab with you.

00:04:47.480 And so, in a lot of ways, I think I grew.

00:04:50.360 Like, so if Myron and Walt respected me in some way, they let me come on the show or had

00:04:55.340 me on the show.

00:04:56.480 Rolo, Tate, Sterling, all those people.

00:04:59.500 I just think there's a certain level of respect I got from the internal growth I had done over

00:05:04.720 a decade.

00:05:05.460 And they're like, oh, no, that makes sense.

00:05:07.020 You can come on.

00:05:07.740 You'll do well, you know.

00:05:09.260 And I have them to think for in a lot of ways.

00:05:11.240 And you coming on your show. 0.99

00:05:12.460 I mean, this is a big fucking channel. 0.99

00:05:13.580 It's a million, that's a million stuff. 0.98

00:05:15.120 Yeah, but it wasn't when you came on.

00:05:17.600 I get that.

00:05:18.240 When you came on.

00:05:18.780 But the point I'm making is, is for me, how do I go from Louisiana to London with you?

00:05:27.040 Right.

00:05:27.120 I think that any young man, if he wants to exit a small town, if he works on his stuff

00:05:34.100 in his small town and develops himself, if he were to go out and then try to take that

00:05:39.320 internal growth and outwardly grow, that that's a possibility, whether you live in Louisiana

00:05:44.820 or Ohio or Indiana or what have you.

00:05:48.360 So in fact, I think it's probably a pretty good strategy because if you live in a small 1.00

00:05:52.200 town and you just up and move to Miami, it's going to be shit. 0.97

00:05:57.200 I think it's a much better decision to truly grow internally and truly get confident where 0.96

00:06:02.580 it's a little bit boring because you're going to need a lot of money to come to London, a

00:06:06.700 lot of money to go to Dubai, a lot of money to go to Miami.

00:06:11.340 I just think it's a better place to be.

00:06:13.040 And the funny thing is, before I went online, I don't think I was as proud.

00:06:19.000 But what I've come to learn is the further I get away from home, the more proud I am

00:06:23.120 of where I come from, you know, and I don't ever want to like leave that behind because

00:06:27.400 I think it's the part that people find to be genuine about a person, like where they're

00:06:31.440 from, you know, and the fact that they stay close to that, you know, when I leave here

00:06:36.620 and I go to my room tonight, we're putting country music on or doing whatever I have 0.71

00:06:40.980 to do while I'm folding my shit and putting it up. 0.87

00:06:42.800 Who's your favorite country artist? 0.99

00:06:44.900 George Strait or Al Dean, I have to say.

00:06:47.220 Okay, good choice.

00:06:47.900 Yeah.

00:06:48.200 I mean, you can't not like Morgan Wallen.

00:06:51.140 I'm such a Morgan Wallen fan. 0.99

00:06:53.240 Yeah, no shit. 0.99

00:06:53.920 You hear his new song? 1.00

00:06:54.760 Have you heard Sand in My Boots?

00:06:58.580 No, I haven't heard that one.

00:07:00.680 No way.

00:07:01.860 It's good.

00:07:02.680 It's good.

00:07:03.140 I like the one he just released.

00:07:04.720 It's, um...

00:07:06.620 I don't want to sing it, but I, like, I hit it in my head.

00:07:09.220 I can't.

00:07:09.900 Um, My Hometown, I like that one.

00:07:12.860 Nice.

00:07:13.280 Yeah.

00:07:13.640 I think good country music is good for your soul.

00:07:16.480 It's like the only music that hasn't been corrupted, in my opinion, completely.

00:07:21.100 It got a little poppy, but I think it, I think it's like a good religion.

00:07:25.460 It stayed to its roots in a way.

00:07:27.240 Yeah.

00:07:27.680 Like it's not letting anybody break any crazy laws.

00:07:29.800 I thought about coming out with a red pill, a country, side note. 0.93

00:07:33.920 You sing?

00:07:35.440 Uh, you know.

00:07:36.540 What?

00:07:37.680 Ask Tristan.

00:07:39.320 Wow.

00:07:40.240 Look it, we could, I could play the guitar.

00:07:42.200 You could sing.

00:07:42.600 Yeah, maybe.

00:07:42.960 Yeah.

00:07:43.220 We could do it.

00:07:43.820 It could be a red pill album.

00:07:45.880 Yeah, it could at least be a TikTok.

00:07:47.520 Yeah.

00:07:49.260 Yeah.

00:07:50.000 So, Louisiana, um, did you have siblings?

00:07:52.780 Were you close with your parents?

00:07:53.940 What was that like?

00:07:55.300 No, so it was broken home for sure.

00:07:57.160 Um, mom cheated on my dad multiple times with guys from church.

00:08:00.900 From church?

00:08:01.540 Yeah, from church.

00:08:02.660 Yeah.

00:08:03.820 30.

00:08:05.080 What kind of church was it?

00:08:07.000 Normal, non-denominational.

00:08:08.760 Really?

00:08:09.300 It was kind of crazy.

00:08:09.900 When I was a kid, we'd go to church and people were like speaking in tongues and falling on 0.99

00:08:13.200 the floor and shit. 0.98

00:08:14.780 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:15.140 They would speak in tongues?

00:08:16.580 You ever seen that?

00:08:17.960 Um, on YouTube, never in person.

00:08:19.960 Oh, I've seen it in person.

00:08:20.920 It's crazy.

00:08:21.900 North Louisiana, man.

00:08:22.840 Is it real? 1.00

00:08:24.080 I think it's bullshit. 1.00

00:08:25.340 Yeah. 1.00

00:08:26.120 I think it's bullshit when people put their hands in the air and like close their eyes 0.96

00:08:29.800 and sort of like act like they're getting lifted and stuff. 0.96

00:08:32.700 I, I am, I try not to be sacrilegious ever.

00:08:36.980 I've just seen some things, man.

00:08:38.600 It's just like, oh, you're doing this, but you're, you're saying this, but you're doing

00:08:41.900 that.

00:08:42.360 Yeah.

00:08:43.100 You know, and what is the red pill? 1.00

00:08:44.960 It's like calling everything out for its bullshit. 0.99

00:08:47.520 It's really just the pursuit of truth. 0.99

00:08:49.180 Right.

00:08:49.720 So I've seen some things and it just kind of turned me off in time, but, uh, yeah, two

00:08:54.560 guys from church.

00:08:55.580 So you're from a broken home.

00:08:57.620 Your mom cheated on your dad.

00:08:59.280 Oh yeah.

00:08:59.920 And then they got, they were going to put us in a foster home for sure.

00:09:02.680 There was a lot of violence.

00:09:03.600 They were going to, if we'd have gone again, there was a bit of violence going on.

00:09:06.820 So, um, it just, my mom.

00:09:11.340 Yeah.

00:09:11.860 Tough, tough situation for sure.

00:09:13.580 And so, um, then you graduated high school and what, where'd you go next?

00:09:19.580 Yeah.

00:09:19.940 So it was kind of one of those things where I didn't know how to get out of my town unless

00:09:25.940 I played sports.

00:09:27.200 And so I played football, baseball, basketball until my junior year.

00:09:31.800 And then I found out that baseball scholarships were partial and I didn't want to play D7 basketball,

00:09:37.780 you know?

00:09:38.200 So I ended up quitting those to gain some weight and play football.

00:09:41.380 So I went and played football and then when I got done, I had a construction management

00:09:46.400 degree, but it was 2009.

00:09:48.980 So there were no jobs.

00:09:50.320 So I dug ditches for a while until I figured it out.

00:09:54.220 So how did you start your company?

00:09:57.120 Yeah, you figured it out.

00:09:58.320 That's not, you know?

00:09:59.120 Yeah, I know.

00:09:59.640 I mean, the guys.

00:10:00.220 I feel like I've told this story so many times.

00:10:01.720 I hate to be boring if anybody's ever seen this.

00:10:03.580 I've never, I've never.

00:10:04.500 So this is what happened.

00:10:05.220 I worked for a company called Austin Bridge and Road and I was digging ditches or cleaning

00:10:12.440 off catch basins and getting, you know, stuff for catch basins is what catches the water

00:10:17.140 under the road.

00:10:18.760 And I did that for a while.

00:10:20.060 That job ended.

00:10:20.660 So I moved to Baton Rouge and I would wait tables at Texas Day Brazil and I would put up 0.54

00:10:26.160 metal buildings or go apply for jobs during the daytime.

00:10:29.000 And what ended up happening was they were building this hospital job and I went to it once and

00:10:36.220 the lady's like, you can't see the boss. 1.00

00:10:38.140 I'm like, yes, ma'am.

00:10:38.700 Yes, ma'am.

00:10:39.180 I go back.

00:10:40.480 Can I see, is he, is he available?

00:10:42.500 She's like, you, you can't come and see the boss. 1.00

00:10:45.360 Well, so I think it was the third or the fourth time I went, I ended up talking to her about 0.97

00:10:50.320 shit on her wall and her kids because she had photos up and this is a job trailer on 0.98

00:10:54.500 construction site. 1.00

00:10:55.340 The hospital's not done.

00:10:56.440 They're building it.

00:10:57.100 And she goes, you know what?

00:10:59.220 Stay right there.

00:11:00.800 And I had my little resumes because I'd go hand them out during the day trying to get

00:11:03.880 a construction job.

00:11:05.700 And it had nothing on it, by the way.

00:11:07.260 All it was is I played football and I had a construction management degree.

00:11:12.680 But in 2009, there was not as much work.

00:11:15.060 We were in the recession.

00:11:16.060 So, oh, grizzled 50 something year old white man comes in and he goes, are you Justin?

00:11:20.760 I'm like, yes, sir.

00:11:21.540 He goes, come with me.

00:11:22.920 So we go back in the job trailer, plops down in his seat.

00:11:27.100 And he leans back and he's like, and I'm just like, slide it to him, right?

00:11:32.020 He looks at it and he looks at me and he looks at it and he looks at me and he flops it down

00:11:35.380 on the table and he goes, you mean to tell me that you've come in here three or four times?

00:11:40.680 I know about you coming in here to talk to the boss to get a job on a $40 million hospital

00:11:45.820 project and I'm like, yes, sir. 1.00

00:11:48.940 He took a deep breath and he looked at me and he goes, I like that shit. 1.00

00:11:52.800 He gave me a job. 1.00

00:11:53.800 Boom.

00:11:54.180 Got a job.

00:11:55.660 And what I did was I went to the bank.

00:12:00.040 You had to have a net worth of $10,000.

00:12:02.620 And I had read Rich Dad Poor Dad my junior year of college.

00:12:05.600 We're on the way to play Arkansas.

00:12:07.360 And it was a bus trip.

00:12:08.700 It was short and like I, you know, tried to get through it right.

00:12:11.840 So I knew I wanted to have a business.

00:12:13.120 I understood the quadrants as they would say, like employee, business owner, and gets to

00:12:17.980 investor, all those things.

00:12:20.060 And so what I did is I went to the bank and I was like, listen, they're paying me per

00:12:24.380 diem.

00:12:25.560 I can live off of that.

00:12:27.200 Why don't you take my whole check and put it in this other account because I want to

00:12:29.940 save up $10,000 because you had to have a net worth.

00:12:32.620 You could have put my whole family together.

00:12:34.640 It would have been negative something.

00:12:36.440 You know what I'm saying?

00:12:37.660 So I'm like, let's leave them out of it.

00:12:40.160 Let me see.

00:12:41.380 Let me see if, you know, if I can save this money up.

00:12:44.320 And sure enough, after six months, I, you know, I saved the six, excuse me, $10,000 up

00:12:49.420 and applied for my contractor's license.

00:12:52.240 And that was 13 years ago.

00:12:54.980 So.

00:12:56.160 And where did you get this like drive from?

00:12:59.120 Because it doesn't sound like either of your parents really, it sounds like they pushed

00:13:03.600 you into business or anything.

00:13:05.280 No, no, not at all.

00:13:06.260 Yeah, because it's like, for me, it's, it's just expected.

00:13:10.500 That's like what everyone does.

00:13:11.600 But for you, it's so interesting to hear when people come from like a background that

00:13:16.940 maybe wasn't conducive, like the best place to grow up and they still end up like crazy

00:13:21.540 successful.

00:13:22.460 I think what happens is some people and there are two of these people who are sitting here.

00:13:28.040 Some people see what their atmosphere has to offer and they follow it.

00:13:33.580 Some people like me see their atmosphere and know what they don't want to become.

00:13:39.540 And it was just simply that for me.

00:13:41.600 And then you have to think too, high testosterone, young American, red-blooded, ambitious, sports

00:13:48.120 background, competitive.

00:13:50.000 And I wouldn't even say I'm that competitive, really.

00:13:52.340 Like I don't compare myself to people ever, ever, ever.

00:13:55.260 And it's not because I'm like super against it.

00:13:57.180 I just don't feel that way.

00:13:58.540 It would be disingenuous for me to be like, I don't compare myself to other people because

00:14:03.000 I love myself.

00:14:04.000 No, I just really don't feel that way.

00:14:05.200 I'm just, I do love myself.

00:14:07.420 And for the, you know, so I don't know exactly where it came from in regards to like what

00:14:13.620 sparked it.

00:14:14.420 But I do quite enjoy it.

00:14:17.880 And I think that's probably has something to do with it.

00:14:19.940 And I also think it's a bigger risk to have a really good job and be capped out than it'll

00:14:26.440 ever be to fail.

00:14:27.600 I'd much rather fail.

00:14:28.460 I go bankrupt tomorrow. 0.99

00:14:29.740 I would get a job that was shit enough that when I got caught working on my business, they'd 0.99

00:14:34.740 fire me and I wouldn't care. 0.99

00:14:35.580 I think a lot of people get caught in that trap.

00:14:39.040 They get that really good job and that mortgage has got to get paid. 0.99

00:14:43.200 And if they lose that job, they're fucked. 0.99

00:14:46.320 And I was just as happy in a shitty apartment that I am in my place in Miami or my new house 0.99

00:14:50.940 in Dubai is going to be, you know, so I actually think it's harder for you.

00:14:58.820 Really?

00:14:59.420 I do.

00:14:59.840 I hear every day how I had it very easy.

00:15:02.500 No, I get that.

00:15:03.220 But it's perception though.

00:15:04.420 Yeah.

00:15:04.980 It's perception.

00:15:06.100 Like I always say about rich children, it's like being born in the zoo in captivity.

00:15:11.100 Let's say you're a lion.

00:15:11.880 You get born in the zoo.

00:15:12.600 You get fed every day.

00:15:13.900 The zoo closes.

00:15:15.060 They kick you out into the jungle, but you don't know how to hunt.

00:15:18.400 And for you, it's the gap in perception, right? 0.99

00:15:24.940 So anything short of being a white trash from Louisiana, I'm doing better than I started. 1.00

00:15:30.740 For you to even get to where your father got you guys is a lot of fucking work. 1.00

00:15:35.560 Oh, I will not. 0.99

00:15:36.280 Right?

00:15:36.500 I will not get to where my father is.

00:15:38.440 But you do understand.

00:15:39.300 I don't want to want that life path.

00:15:40.260 But to be clear, you do understand.

00:15:41.320 Yeah.

00:15:41.640 So maybe for you, it's a freedom thing or something else?

00:15:44.060 What is it?

00:15:44.640 What do you mean?

00:15:45.300 What drives you?

00:15:46.720 What?

00:15:46.960 I'm interviewing you now.

00:15:47.580 Oh, my dad.

00:15:48.500 He owns a software company.

00:15:50.700 Oh, nice.

00:15:51.500 So he includes the same amount of people, roughly like 200.

00:15:54.720 Yeah.

00:15:55.220 He sold it, though, so he doesn't anymore.

00:15:57.740 Nice.

00:15:57.920 But I just, I would never see myself getting this that big.

00:16:03.880 And if I did, like, I'd need someone else to manage it.

00:16:06.200 Because I just, I'm a woman.

00:16:07.660 I don't like managing people.

00:16:09.180 Yeah.

00:16:09.280 I'm too agreeable, you know.

00:16:11.140 Are you?

00:16:11.940 Yeah. 1.00

00:16:13.700 You need to hire a bitch. 1.00

00:16:15.380 What? 1.00

00:16:15.880 You need to hire a bitch. 1.00

00:16:17.120 A bitch? 1.00

00:16:17.840 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:16:18.560 They're the best.

00:16:19.940 Especially one that loves you.

00:16:21.340 Yeah.

00:16:22.100 If you, like, you know how they say behind every good man is a strong woman?

00:16:25.620 Mm-hmm.

00:16:26.500 Sometimes women are really good managers. 1.00

00:16:28.560 I have women in very important management roles. 1.00

00:16:31.520 Mm-hmm.

00:16:32.200 So, but toughen up or find one.

00:16:36.280 Yeah, I just, I just think 200 people, that would be a lot.

00:16:39.280 I don't.

00:16:40.160 It's a lot, but if you understand, if you understand, like, scaling and stuff like that, think about it.

00:16:45.160 People do it all the time.

00:16:46.200 Tell me.

00:16:47.160 How do you scale?

00:16:48.100 How do you scale?

00:16:48.720 Yeah, I don't, I don't know.

00:16:49.980 Well, systems.

00:16:51.400 Mm-hmm.

00:16:52.280 Hiring systems.

00:16:53.480 Okay.

00:16:53.720 Understanding the psychology of the, it's a very long conversation.

00:16:57.220 Okay.

00:16:57.640 But we can, we can have a scaling conversation.

00:16:59.980 Probably, it's a, it's a whole different show.

00:17:01.620 You know, this is, this is like, that's too far.

00:17:03.620 It's a, it's a, it's long-winded.

00:17:04.560 It's not a, it's not a five-second.

00:17:06.000 It'll be an hour from now, and you'll be like, okay, well, it was good talking to you.

00:17:12.100 Okay, we can, we can.

00:17:13.140 It took me a decade to figure out, I tell you.

00:17:14.860 We can come back to, to scaling.

00:17:16.820 Yeah, we can.

00:17:17.300 We can come back.

00:17:18.840 Okay, so you started your business.

00:17:21.720 How did you get into the red pill space?

00:17:25.900 I.

00:17:26.740 Would you consider yourself red pill, manosphere, like, what would you label yourself?

00:17:30.840 I wouldn't want to, but I think it's inevitable that I can't get away from.

00:17:34.940 It's like one of those things, right?

00:17:38.580 So, when I was in my 20s, I dealt with a lot of guilt around monogamy.

00:17:45.500 And so, I'd watch Richard Cooper, or, or watch Rolo, or I'd watch Myron, and then I found 0.99

00:17:52.680 this Tate guy, and I'm like, that motherfucker is saying shit I've been saying for years 1.00

00:17:58.280 that pisses people off. 0.99

00:17:59.820 And, um, I joined the war room, and I had to start, I decided to start a channel, because

00:18:08.840 I'd met Sterling.

00:18:10.400 And Sterling's like, yo, you should start a channel.

00:18:12.220 And I'd always kind of wanted to, but I refused to let myself until I was like a super liquid

00:18:17.940 millionaire, right?

00:18:19.300 Because I saw that there was a bit of deceit in the online space.

00:18:23.340 No.

00:18:24.780 Really?

00:18:25.840 No.

00:18:26.360 No way.

00:18:27.100 The cap?

00:18:28.540 Yeah.

00:18:28.980 I never, I never knew.

00:18:30.160 Never.

00:18:30.880 No.

00:18:31.760 Um, and so, I saw that, and then I had the conversation with Sterling, and I went to Miami, and I was

00:18:39.460 like, dude, I'm moving here.

00:18:41.140 There's just nothing else for me in Louisiana.

00:18:43.640 I didn't feel alive anymore.

00:18:45.360 And that's where your construction company is.

00:18:47.580 Yeah, but I mean, we're nationwide.

00:18:49.160 Oh, okay.

00:18:49.580 Yeah, we all 50 states and the Caribbean.

00:18:52.100 So, but that's what happened.

00:18:53.160 So, I did that, and I'm with Sterling.

00:18:57.000 Tate comes into town.

00:18:58.800 Tate's like, yo, come eat dinner with me.

00:19:01.800 I'm like, cool.

00:19:02.500 So, I'll go see Andrew.

00:19:03.540 He's like, listen, I know you're starting a channel, and you could do this, this, and

00:19:08.520 this, and I'm sure you would kill it, but I think you got the magic.

00:19:12.300 I already got this thing going.

00:19:13.480 We're helping all these people.

00:19:15.140 All these lives are changing.

00:19:16.920 I'm doing this thing with the real world.

00:19:19.580 And these kids are making money.

00:19:21.500 Like, we're boys.

00:19:23.280 Like, let's get closer, and like, let's work together.

00:19:26.720 And I kind of looked at it like NATO.

00:19:29.080 You know what I'm saying?

00:19:30.160 Okay.

00:19:30.720 It's like, I'll build all together.

00:19:33.100 But really, we're just like the same army.

00:19:35.560 And...

00:19:36.000 So, this was you, Tate, Sterling, and who else?

00:19:41.140 Well, who was really hanging out over the years has been me, Tate, Sterling, sartorial shooter,

00:19:46.500 Jewel, and T.

00:19:49.140 And, of course, I'm really close to Luke.

00:19:51.480 You know, like, when I go to bye, I go to see Luke.

00:19:53.620 Dylan Madden, I go see.

00:19:55.080 So, it's just like being on a football team again.

00:19:58.200 You know?

00:19:58.920 And I thought back to the times where I was happiest in my life, and it was absolutely college football.

00:20:04.040 And then I started to question myself as to why.

00:20:08.060 Oh, because all we did was hang out together all the time, lift weights, do the equivalent of making money, whatever that might be.

00:20:17.360 We always had each other's back.

00:20:19.580 We went into arenas together in, like, war.

00:20:22.500 And I'm like, oh, it's just like football.

00:20:27.140 No, that's so true.

00:20:28.460 Because guys always, like, talk about their college football days.

00:20:32.060 Like, it's like the best.

00:20:32.300 And I don't.

00:20:33.160 I super don't.

00:20:34.620 I don't bring it.

00:20:35.500 Like, I am not an Uncle Rico.

00:20:36.780 I actually take a lot of pride in that.

00:20:38.860 But what I do talk about is the experiences.

00:20:40.920 No, but that's probably why.

00:20:42.520 Because when else in their life are they going to get?

00:20:44.580 Never.

00:20:45.480 Also, why I think military guys have so much trouble when they come home.

00:20:48.080 You drive a million-dollar tank shooting.

00:20:53.380 You're basically Rambo all day fighting for your country. 1.00

00:20:56.320 You have, like, this deep-rooted thing that you're proud of that you're doing, which is your purpose at the time.

00:21:00.660 Like us, trying to help young men with the real world in the war room. 0.99

00:21:04.580 And then you come home to, like, some shit job. 0.98

00:21:08.580 And you got to bag groceries or, like, stock a warehouse and drive a warehouse forklift. 1.00

00:21:12.120 Fuck that. 1.00

00:21:12.580 I get it. 1.00

00:21:13.340 Completely.

00:21:13.680 And men are discouraged.

00:21:14.780 I think a lot of times in relationships, men are discouraged from having male friends.

00:21:19.620 Like, the woman gets jealous or the woman starts nagging.

00:21:22.840 Because, I mean, let's be honest.

00:21:24.720 Like, guys get up to trouble sometimes when they're with the, I mean, in our view, right?

00:21:29.600 Like, you know, so. 0.97

00:21:31.380 Yeah, he's like, dude, I killed five people in Iraq and I got some fucking Karen telling me to come home for the streetlights to come on? 0.99

00:21:37.140 Yeah. 1.00

00:21:37.360 Get the fuck out of here. 0.97

00:21:38.040 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:21:38.940 I fought for, if it weren't for me, you wouldn't even live in this country.

00:21:42.260 Right.

00:21:42.580 Or this country would be run by somebody else.

00:21:45.720 You know, you'd be a war bride. 1.00

00:21:47.200 It's the craziest thing, man.

00:21:48.520 Like, people don't, like, and I'll never understand what it's like to be a veteran.

00:21:51.820 I know this.

00:21:52.740 If I see one, yes, sir, let me open this door.

00:21:55.280 Can I buy you that beer?

00:21:56.660 And I do the same thing for construction workers.

00:21:59.900 Dude, I do it all the time. 1.00

00:22:00.960 If I see a construction guy in line, fuck that. 1.00

00:22:03.120 You ain't paying for shit, bro. 1.00

00:22:04.800 I do it all the time. 0.99

00:22:06.860 Because people don't understand what it takes to make this world go around.

00:22:09.140 And that's something that I think that as women, like, particularly women don't understand.

00:22:14.780 No, and I'll tell you, because even, I started my channel reacting to, like, content.

00:22:20.860 So when I started, I would react to Kevin Samuel's role.

00:22:24.000 Like, everyone, you know, just like you, I was on the other side, right?

00:22:27.500 But I was just watching.

00:22:29.040 And people could kind of see me go from, like, blue pill to red pill in, like, real time.

00:22:33.520 And one of, I remember watching one of Kevin Samuel's streams saying, like, you couldn't, like, live without men.

00:22:39.920 And I'm like, well, I mean, can't you just get an apartment?

00:22:43.080 And, like, but I never thought about it as.

00:22:44.880 Yeah, I don't see it in the real matter-of-fact way.

00:22:46.860 Yeah, I didn't think about it in the society way.

00:22:49.980 Let me ask you a question.

00:22:50.820 Yeah.

00:22:51.040 When I just pulled up with those security guards Tate sent me, those mountains.

00:22:56.980 I want some.

00:22:58.500 Right?

00:22:59.100 And I'm walking towards you, and I'm looking at that construction site.

00:23:03.280 All men. 0.93

00:23:03.940 All men. 0.93

00:23:04.520 All men. 0.93

00:23:05.680 All men. 0.93

00:23:07.020 And if they're digging, right, and if they don't shore that correctly, and one of them's down in the hole and it collapses, woman won't die. 0.56

00:23:15.100 They might just leave the man down there.

00:23:17.840 You know what I'm saying.

00:23:18.940 Yeah.

00:23:19.380 It's an ugly, ugly truth of the world.

00:23:22.560 Everything in this room was built by a man. 0.98

00:23:27.080 And you know what I realized, too?

00:23:28.560 It's like we almost give women these, like, high-paying, like, cushy jobs that I don't think are as valuable in society as, like, we think. 0.99

00:23:38.340 So it's like we almost have these girls in these, like, tech jobs that I think are inflated, to be honest. 0.99

00:23:44.240 Well, tech jobs are inflated, to be fair.

00:23:46.640 Yeah, but I just see, like, women start to think, like, we're better than men a lot of the times. 1.00

00:23:52.220 And it's just like, well, men.

00:23:53.980 And now I realize it's like men literally run the world.

00:23:56.380 They run the infrastructure of society.

00:23:57.940 So it's like, when do we ever talk about that?

00:24:00.900 Yeah.

00:24:01.200 And in a lot of ways, it's supported by women.

00:24:03.160 I would never take anything away from women in the workplace, though.

00:24:05.900 My most important employee is a woman, and it's by a landslide. 1.00

00:24:10.340 And she makes well into six figures. 1.00

00:24:12.120 I wrote her a $30,000 bonus check at Christmas.

00:24:15.040 I just took her to Florida with me on the beach.

00:24:17.580 Like, woman's important. 0.99

00:24:20.320 I don't disregard women's importance.

00:24:23.900 They're often accountants.

00:24:25.560 They often do the payroll.

00:24:27.140 They're often very organized.

00:24:29.260 They are often very, very good negotiation situations.

00:24:33.240 I call my Trojan horses.

00:24:35.520 I'll get a phone call.

00:24:37.140 Hey, Justin, I got this job in Kentucky.

00:24:38.860 He said this, this, and this.

00:24:40.320 I'm like, and that he'll give it to us if we'll do it for this.

00:24:43.500 I'm like, cool.

00:24:44.380 Tell him this, and when you do, he's going to say this when he does say that and call me back.

00:24:49.960 She'll call me back.

00:24:51.020 She's like, got it.

00:24:51.800 All right, cool.

00:24:52.160 Checkmate.

00:24:52.500 Bye.

00:24:52.840 Boom.

00:24:54.780 Women are disarming. 1.00

00:24:57.460 So if I call that guy, he's automatically got his guard up.

00:25:01.740 With a woman, he can put his guard down, and you can get to a real conversation about what makes sense, 1.00

00:25:06.360 and it's not a dick measuring contest. 0.86

00:25:08.840 Men, you know how I was telling you you were being a girl earlier when we were off the camera? 0.85

00:25:13.120 Yeah.

00:25:13.800 When men are being like that, it's because their ego is in front of what actually needs to happen to get it done. 1.00

00:25:19.300 I'm like, no, fuck him. 1.00

00:25:21.560 But it actually makes sense, right? 1.00

00:25:23.660 I mean, you talk about monogamy.

00:25:25.020 You're like, yeah, but I couldn't do it.

00:25:26.360 You understand it, but obviously you can't do it.

00:25:28.920 So for men, have the same thing.

00:25:30.800 It's on different subjects, right?

00:25:32.600 So when I talk about scaling and I talk about, hey, it's a long conversation,

00:25:36.080 it's understanding all the dynamics involved and setting not only the systems up,

00:25:41.460 but the comm lines up and communication lines up in the right way.

00:25:45.000 I don't call my men when they get in trouble for not tying off on a building.

00:25:49.520 I have Noelia call them, and she speaks very sweet to them in Spanish, because if I call them, 0.99

00:25:53.900 hey, Facundo, tie off on the fucking roof. 0.99

00:25:56.920 Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da, Spanish. 1.00

00:25:58.500 I'm like, hey, shut the fuck up. 1.00

00:25:59.460 I'll fire you. 1.00

00:26:00.560 Whereas Noelia, because I don't want to fire Facundo.

00:26:03.820 Noelia calls them, okay, I do for you, no problem.

00:26:08.780 Or the war.

00:26:09.840 I didn't have to fight that war, because I understand the dynamic. 0.72

00:26:12.780 And it's not this sexual thing, it's just not a dick measuring contest, 0.97

00:26:18.000 because if I call him, I have to threaten him. 0.87

00:26:21.460 Because he's like, oh, you know, the boss, right? 1.00

00:26:24.180 Fuck the boss. 1.00

00:26:24.900 Right. 1.00

00:26:25.780 Noelia calls, I do for you.

00:26:28.680 Different gang.

00:26:30.580 So you said it was like NATO, the war room?

00:26:35.680 I say it's like NATO, but it's a bunch of brands coming together.

00:26:39.080 So I think more like Sterling had a brand first, right?

00:26:41.400 Sterling is very much involved, you know?

00:26:44.860 I have a brand, but I was always kind of on the team, if you will.

00:26:49.680 You know, like I kind of started off that way,

00:26:51.280 because I had that early conversation with Andrew.

00:26:53.420 But yeah, it's like a bunch of powerful people get together

00:26:57.240 and make something great, you know?

00:27:00.600 Nothing else I'd rather do than to be, instead of,

00:27:04.200 and it's easy for me to say, right,

00:27:06.260 but I can look at these other creators, they're by themselves.

00:27:09.260 And for that reason, a lot of times all they do 0.99

00:27:12.320 is end up talking shit about people. 0.99

00:27:14.720 You see what I'm saying? 0.99

00:27:15.900 Yeah.

00:27:16.720 And I'm not trying to out anybody,

00:27:19.420 but I'd much rather have what I have.

00:27:22.020 The only reason I bring up the security guard team

00:27:23.740 and Tate and everything is because he's like,

00:27:26.000 hey, man, I want you safe in London.

00:27:29.580 I'm sending people. 0.99

00:27:32.280 Other people in the space that work alone and talk shit, 0.99

00:27:34.420 they don't get that. 0.99

00:27:35.220 Good luck, you know?

00:27:37.680 Or it's just like family stuff.

00:27:39.240 Like, I took his mom to lunch yesterday.

00:27:42.700 You know?

00:27:43.020 Like, we're family, bro.

00:27:44.580 How is she doing?

00:27:45.840 She's got to be a wreck. 1.00

00:27:47.140 She's a wonderful woman.

00:27:48.260 Yeah.

00:27:48.760 Wonderful woman.

00:27:49.520 She did a great job, clearly. 0.90

00:27:51.660 So, yeah.

00:27:53.420 All's good.

00:27:59.120 So, when was that that you guys got together?

00:28:02.540 That was three years ago?

00:28:03.800 Yeah, around about.

00:28:04.560 Three years ago.

00:28:05.720 Okay.

00:28:06.980 And tell me a little bit more about the War Room.

00:28:09.280 So, what do you guys do?

00:28:10.860 The War Room is a place where you go

00:28:13.440 to develop yourself in every way.

00:28:15.140 You get new consciousness.

00:28:16.320 You start to understand how the world works on a macro.

00:28:20.440 And then you learn how to develop yourself on a micro.

00:28:23.500 So, there's many events.

00:28:25.820 There's events about money

00:28:26.940 and how to run a business, how to scale.

00:28:29.520 There's events about

00:28:30.840 how to network with high-level individuals.

00:28:34.640 Satorial runs a great event called Penetrating the Elite

00:28:36.860 where you learn everything from fashion

00:28:39.100 to the little things that a wealthy man's looking for

00:28:41.580 from somebody else.

00:28:42.500 Oh, give me an example.

00:28:43.900 Like this watch.

00:28:46.320 Are the cufflinks.

00:28:47.400 So, the watch matches the...

00:28:50.020 Oh, that's nice.

00:28:50.640 And the little...

00:28:51.640 Like just the little things are down to, you know,

00:28:55.100 he calls it a wealthy man's uniform.

00:28:58.360 Okay.

00:28:59.140 You know, it's the subtle things in the tailoring.

00:29:01.740 Mm-hmm.

00:29:02.260 The inside of a jacket

00:29:03.660 that you just might see at a glance.

00:29:05.040 Yeah, I wouldn't know this.

00:29:06.180 No, you wouldn't know.

00:29:06.660 Yeah, I know.

00:29:06.960 You never know.

00:29:07.740 Like I can tell you're well-dressed,

00:29:09.100 but I would never look at the inside.

00:29:11.220 So, a well-dressed man can tell the difference

00:29:13.400 between a suit off the rack

00:29:14.620 and a suit that was tailored.

00:29:16.580 Really?

00:29:16.980 Or custom.

00:29:17.480 Yeah.

00:29:18.180 Yeah, you can tell.

00:29:19.020 So, you guys go through things like that?

00:29:21.140 We do table etiquette.

00:29:22.260 Everything.

00:29:22.760 Table etiquette.

00:29:23.780 Everything.

00:29:24.460 I'm telling you,

00:29:25.260 the event that Satora runs

00:29:26.380 is a world-class event.

00:29:29.640 Everything from table etiquette,

00:29:31.460 how to speak,

00:29:33.040 to just everything.

00:29:34.460 Eye contact, handshakes.

00:29:35.840 They practice handshakes at that event.

00:29:37.700 It's very, very important.

00:29:39.380 Wow, this sounds great.

00:29:40.720 Yeah, it's called making men.

00:29:42.960 It's like,

00:29:43.220 if there's a woman version of this. 1.00

00:29:44.600 And that's the thing,

00:29:45.300 you know,

00:29:45.500 and I get messages every day from women like, 1.00

00:29:47.120 can I join the war room?

00:29:47.860 Of course you can't.

00:29:48.920 You know, it's not for that.

00:29:50.340 Who are we to tell you how to be a woman? 1.00

00:29:52.020 Right.

00:29:52.880 But one thing I think the red pill kind of,

00:29:55.600 and it's not that they get wrong,

00:29:56.780 but they let the message come off the wrong way,

00:29:58.800 is that I don't think the red pill is against women. 0.93

00:30:02.860 I think that if you really love women,

00:30:05.520 you'll build strong men,

00:30:06.780 not despite a woman,

00:30:07.960 but for women. 1.00

00:30:09.260 And I think the red pill

00:30:10.580 has helped my relationships with men,

00:30:13.020 to be honest,

00:30:13.680 like, especially like my dad and my brothers.

00:30:16.380 Like when you guys,

00:30:18.060 I listened to something

00:30:19.800 where they were talking about

00:30:20.680 how love or respect is to men

00:30:23.400 as like love is to women.

00:30:25.840 And it just,

00:30:27.120 like me and my little brother,

00:30:28.720 I just used to like,

00:30:30.800 the more I like,

00:30:32.200 didn't,

00:30:32.560 you know,

00:30:32.760 he's a little brother,

00:30:33.700 so you don't always want to listen to him

00:30:35.060 or take his opinion,

00:30:35.900 you know,

00:30:36.160 because you're like younger than me.

00:30:37.800 But the more I would like respect his opinion,

00:30:41.220 I realized like I got along better with him,

00:30:43.240 better than everyone else in my family,

00:30:44.860 because he's just a bit of a headstrong,

00:30:46.860 you know?

00:30:48.240 And so I think if like,

00:30:49.700 if we can get past the part

00:30:51.160 where we're triggered

00:30:51.980 and really just like listen,

00:30:54.080 it helps us,

00:30:56.060 it helps us understand men better.

00:30:58.380 100% agree.

00:30:59.420 And particularly around like

00:31:00.780 dynamics of relationships.

00:31:03.880 It's like,

00:31:05.220 like we were talking about

00:31:06.220 before the cameras came on again,

00:31:07.640 I hate to keep bringing it up,

00:31:09.240 but.

00:31:09.680 Monogamy.

00:31:10.440 Monogamy, right?

00:31:11.960 Like,

00:31:13.340 men and women

00:31:14.120 don't understand each other right there.

00:31:16.800 And if they did,

00:31:18.440 I think less people,

00:31:19.620 go ahead, yeah.

00:31:21.380 I thought you were going to pull up our chart.

00:31:23.000 Oh, we can't.

00:31:25.840 But,

00:31:26.580 but it's,

00:31:27.740 it's so true.

00:31:28.480 It's,

00:31:28.660 it's,

00:31:29.220 if men and women could understand each other more

00:31:31.440 and redefine their definition of what it looks like,

00:31:34.940 I think it would be much healthier.

00:31:37.180 And I think we could see families again for sure.

00:31:39.460 Yeah.

00:31:39.600 You triggered me a little bit last time you were on the show.

00:31:42.100 Did you?

00:31:42.400 Good.

00:31:42.840 A little bit.

00:31:43.620 I was a little triggered.

00:31:44.740 Were you mad?

00:31:45.420 No,

00:31:45.960 no,

00:31:46.160 I was,

00:31:46.680 I wasn't mad.

00:31:47.640 I'm never mad,

00:31:48.760 but it was like,

00:31:49.780 when you were saying that my dad was cheating,

00:31:52.060 I was like,

00:31:52.280 my dad wouldn't do that.

00:31:54.000 Yeah,

00:31:54.300 but you're a girl.

00:31:54.840 You don't want to believe it.

00:31:56.040 I'll tell you this,

00:31:57.080 respectfully,

00:31:57.920 if I had to bet a million dollars,

00:32:00.180 I would have to put it on.

00:32:01.680 He did it at least once

00:32:02.620 because I know how men are.

00:32:05.240 Right.

00:32:06.160 You know what I'm saying?

00:32:06.900 And I also know that the woman would not have had to be attractive.

00:32:10.540 Just different.

00:32:11.780 Yeah.

00:32:12.140 You know,

00:32:13.120 and it's hurtful as it is.

00:32:15.000 And,

00:32:15.580 and I remember because you told me that was my worldview and I'm thinking to myself, 1.00

00:32:18.560 you shove your worldview up your ass. 0.99

00:32:20.220 I know just how they are. 1.00

00:32:22.760 And,

00:32:23.140 and I think what really makes that tough is one might be under the assumption that had your father done that,

00:32:31.140 and I'm not saying he did,

00:32:32.300 he would be a bad man. 1.00

00:32:33.560 I would say bullshit. 1.00

00:32:35.300 I would say he took care of his family. 1.00

00:32:37.940 He provided for your mother and never left her for a younger woman. 0.94

00:32:41.020 Took care,

00:32:43.180 made you an incredible person,

00:32:44.580 made your brother a good person and out supporting society.

00:32:48.640 Right.

00:32:49.940 That's a 1% man. 0.99

00:32:51.420 Just because he got some pussy on a Tuesday one time has nothing to do with who he is. 1.00

00:32:56.480 And I think society fucks that up. 1.00

00:32:58.340 They say there's this great guy and he did very,

00:33:00.500 very good, 1.00

00:33:00.860 but he slept with that one bitch. 1.00

00:33:02.900 I actually, 1.00

00:33:03.720 I agree with you.

00:33:05.540 Yeah.

00:33:05.860 I think like,

00:33:07.420 I don't,

00:33:08.240 I don't agree.

00:33:08.700 I don't think my dad cheated.

00:33:09.980 I'm going to say that.

00:33:11.020 I'm not saying he did.

00:33:11.880 I'm saying if he had.

00:33:13.960 But I think if my dad was in your position,

00:33:18.140 and I think most men,

00:33:19.240 if they're in your position or the position of like many athletes or whatever,

00:33:24.380 where women are like chasing them and hunting them down, 1.00

00:33:28.080 I don't think there's a lot of men that would say no over like a 50 year period.

00:33:32.540 So I actually,

00:33:33.060 I agree with you.

00:33:33.760 No.

00:33:34.060 Yeah.

00:33:34.340 No chance.

00:33:35.200 So here,

00:33:35.560 here's the other thing too,

00:33:36.940 is that you take a man that uses monogamy and loyalty as a mating strategy. 1.00

00:33:44.420 You know,

00:33:44.620 look at a guy like me or my friends and be like, 1.00

00:33:46.860 those guys are a piece of shit, 1.00

00:33:48.120 baby. 1.00

00:33:48.400 I would never.

00:33:49.980 No,

00:33:50.220 no,

00:33:50.360 no.

00:33:51.340 Women mistake a guy that can't get it for loyalty. 1.00

00:33:54.700 Big mistake people make big mating strategy of more beta type guys. 1.00

00:34:01.620 They're trading sexual exclusivity for something they can't get regularly,

00:34:08.560 which is sex.

00:34:10.660 And they give up all their research resources for it.

00:34:14.420 And they want to act like I'm a bad guy.

00:34:17.120 But just before we turn this camera on,

00:34:18.700 I showed you a woman that was throwing herself at me.

00:34:23.560 And what did you see me send her back?

00:34:27.060 You said no in some way.

00:34:28.940 You showed,

00:34:29.080 you said,

00:34:29.600 Oh,

00:34:29.960 a photo.

00:34:30.600 You sent her a photo of her family.

00:34:32.480 Boom.

00:34:33.300 Now, 1.00

00:34:34.320 who's the asshole now? 0.99

00:34:36.380 Kids were so cute too. 1.00

00:34:38.240 I know.

00:34:39.480 But you said you didn't judge her.

00:34:41.080 I was like,

00:34:41.340 how do you not judge that?

00:34:42.600 I'm not judging her.

00:34:43.280 I see it so much.

00:34:44.800 I still have Facebook.

00:34:46.620 Okay.

00:34:48.360 It's disgusting how many married women hit on me on Facebook. 1.00

00:34:52.980 It's disgusting. 0.98

00:34:55.600 So,

00:34:57.480 for me,

00:34:58.700 I,

00:35:00.200 instead of getting mad,

00:35:01.180 I play ball.

00:35:01.700 I understand hypergamy.

00:35:04.800 Yeah.

00:35:05.300 So you could get mad at the game or you could play it.

00:35:07.760 I could play.

00:35:08.720 And I just choose.

00:35:09.820 And look,

00:35:10.760 was a woman attractive? 0.99

00:35:12.120 Yeah.

00:35:14.420 I just,

00:35:15.140 like,

00:35:15.380 here's my thing.

00:35:17.160 Number one,

00:35:17.540 I don't want to,

00:35:17.880 I don't want to sleep on a bad conscience.

00:35:19.160 And I see those,

00:35:19.860 I see those kids.

00:35:20.760 And I'm just like,

00:35:22.180 I had that happen to me.

00:35:24.700 You had that happen to you?

00:35:25.820 Oh,

00:35:25.980 with your,

00:35:26.240 yeah.

00:35:28.240 Then,

00:35:28.620 then I'm watching my dad and my stepdad roll around the grass in the front yard. 1.00

00:35:31.720 It's bullshit. 1.00

00:35:32.780 Why? 1.00

00:35:33.960 Why?

00:35:34.280 It's not like I'm not in abundance.

00:35:37.340 I'm the,

00:35:37.880 I'm one of very few men that will ever tell that woman no. 0.97

00:35:41.520 And you saw what she said.

00:35:42.740 I'm like,

00:35:43.020 pick somebody else.

00:35:43.680 She's like,

00:35:43.960 no,

00:35:44.100 I want you. 0.82

00:35:46.080 Hypergamy. 1.00

00:35:47.060 Because if she was just a whore, 1.00

00:35:48.220 she would just go fuck somebody. 1.00

00:35:49.900 It's hypergamy. 1.00

00:35:50.720 It's,

00:35:51.060 it's a cross and up,

00:35:51.860 right?

00:35:52.900 It's exactly what,

00:35:53.840 it's a prime example of hypergamy.

00:35:56.340 Do you think women can ever be happy with a guy that doesn't fulfill her hypergamy? 1.00

00:36:01.880 Like,

00:36:02.020 do you think that?

00:36:02.960 I think,

00:36:03.440 I think that if I was a normal guy,

00:36:05.060 I didn't mean to cut your question off.

00:36:06.720 Go ahead.

00:36:07.220 But I want to answer the first one.

00:36:08.720 If I were just some normal dude,

00:36:10.740 I would not marry a woman that would not commit to leaving social media. 1.00

00:36:15.940 Because it ruins it.

00:36:17.740 It ruins it.

00:36:19.040 Look,

00:36:19.200 back in the 80s,

00:36:19.880 my dad might have seen one or two women that were beautiful outside of my mom. 1.00

00:36:26.000 And he might've seen them in a parking lot one time and never saw them again.

00:36:29.580 You know?

00:36:30.660 And so,

00:36:31.820 in that way,

00:36:32.520 it made things a lot easier for people.

00:36:34.900 I think,

00:36:35.060 I don't think it's easy for women. 1.00

00:36:37.000 Because women, 1.00

00:36:38.280 either they marry a normal guy,

00:36:40.340 and they get flooded with every guy that is statistically better than them in some way.

00:36:45.780 And they are naturally hypergamous by their primal needs.

00:36:49.160 Right? 1.00

00:36:49.600 So I'm not out here saying like women are shit. 1.00

00:36:52.680 And then men, 1.00

00:36:55.140 they go online and they're like me or my friends,

00:36:58.820 and they get the selection of all the women they want. 1.00

00:37:01.780 And I might sleep with sex. 0.99

00:37:03.840 As many of you know, 0.94

00:37:04.880 I was just banned on TikTok.

00:37:07.440 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.

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JustPearlyThings - November 30, 2023

@JWALLER Educate Young Men on Women and Money

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