JustPearlyThings - November 30, 2023


@JWALLER Educate Young Men on Women and Money


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37 minutes

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691

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00:00:00.080 Justin Waller, have YouTube, Jay Waller, also have quite a bit of real estate in America and construction.
00:00:05.980 So, as everyone knows, I help guys online in every area of life.
00:00:13.220 You've seen my channel, you probably know, and then we do our best to help guys develop themselves
00:00:17.780 and get in a position where they can come in the war room or join the real world, etc.
00:00:21.980 So, you're a bit different in the online space.
00:00:26.880 Because you had a whole, like you ran a whole construction company before you even got on YouTube, right?
00:00:34.700 Yeah, I had a whole life and still do have a whole life outside of YouTube.
00:00:38.000 Oh, you still do that?
00:00:38.800 Oh, yeah, I have 200 employees.
00:00:40.580 Oh, I thought you sold it or something.
00:00:43.200 No, no, no, no.
00:00:44.780 We just had our best first quarter ever.
00:00:47.540 And last year we broke all our revenue goals.
00:00:50.440 The company is in a place now where I have adult, I'm the youngest person in my office.
00:00:55.080 So, I have legitimately professional adults that run the place that get bonus quite well to run the company.
00:01:02.520 And so, the business is 13 years old.
00:01:05.700 And so, for that reason, you know, there's a lot of systems in place.
00:01:09.760 There is a lot of deep-rooted relationships with vendors and customers and clients.
00:01:14.680 And a lot of the guys in the field have been with me for a long time.
00:01:17.820 So, yeah, it runs.
00:01:19.360 It runs like a top.
00:01:20.120 Now, I do get daily reports every day.
00:01:22.180 And if there's something I don't like, I'll drill into that and I'll make phone calls.
00:01:25.240 But generally, it's just to one person in whatever business, whether it's in the real estate business or the construction business or even this online business.
00:01:33.080 I call one person.
00:01:35.580 I think there was a study that said a manager can only manage about five to six people max.
00:01:40.520 And so, now, I have somebody in the construction company that manages everyone and I'll talk to that person.
00:01:48.260 And if I really have a life or death conversation, which has not happened this year, and we're in, what, April or May?
00:01:55.260 I can't remember.
00:01:56.720 April.
00:01:59.160 And so, that's how that happens.
00:02:01.120 I just get a report from each business each day.
00:02:02.900 And if I see something, I'll pick up the phone and call.
00:02:04.400 But generally, it runs quite well.
00:02:07.260 And then we do quarterlies.
00:02:08.540 I want to do that.
00:02:09.960 Yeah?
00:02:10.260 Yeah.
00:02:10.700 You just call one person.
00:02:12.640 Yeah.
00:02:12.920 No, I get it.
00:02:13.740 I get it.
00:02:14.360 But, you know.
00:02:15.940 I know what you mean, though, like about building the systems.
00:02:18.280 Because we just did that with, like, recruiting.
00:02:20.840 So, it's, like, so nice when they start to be able to do it on their own and you don't have to interfere.
00:02:26.200 Right.
00:02:26.440 So, every, like, so every person in your organizational board, I don't know if you have one, but every person in our organizational board has five roles and responsibilities.
00:02:34.700 And there's a statistical metric attached to it.
00:02:37.600 So, I get those metrics every day for the office positions.
00:02:41.480 And it trickles down from the field.
00:02:43.360 And I know every job we're on, what foreman is running that job, if it's on track, off track, the whole thing.
00:02:50.640 From my office staff to my managers, I know how much money we made today.
00:02:53.940 I know every son of a bitch that spent a penny.
00:02:57.060 Like, that's all there.
00:02:58.120 I know what AR is.
00:02:59.280 It's just this big report.
00:03:00.800 I just tell Siri to read it.
00:03:02.320 And I just, I keep driving and just listen to it.
00:03:05.040 And if I hear something I don't like, then pick up the phone or text.
00:03:10.000 I am not.
00:03:10.540 I got to learn how to do that.
00:03:11.980 Yeah, I'll show it to you when we get done.
00:03:12.920 Yeah.
00:03:14.400 So, you're also, it's also really interesting because you said you came from Louisiana.
00:03:19.220 Yeah, I was born in Louisiana and raised.
00:03:21.000 So, and now you're successful.
00:03:23.940 You have a social media following.
00:03:26.440 You're in great shape.
00:03:27.900 You live this crazy life.
00:03:30.540 How does, how does one get there?
00:03:32.280 Like, where did, where did this start?
00:03:34.940 It's funny you say that.
00:03:35.940 I made a post last night in the war room, actually.
00:03:38.500 Um, I'd made a post that I paid my dad's house off and somebody said to me, I'm really upset
00:03:45.380 with myself.
00:03:46.180 I had this goal to do that and I had done it yet.
00:03:48.380 And he was talking about, like, how far it should be.
00:03:52.140 And the reason I bring it up is because what I said to him is a lot of times you have internal
00:03:56.520 growth.
00:03:56.860 So, for me, I was taking care of my fitness long before I was on the internet.
00:04:02.420 I was taking care of my business.
00:04:04.080 I was trying to have the best style I, I was conscious of, you know, in Louisiana and I
00:04:11.080 was reading books and I was doing all these things.
00:04:13.300 So, it was all this internal growth.
00:04:14.880 So, when the time came where I went to go online, I feel like it was substantially easier for
00:04:23.260 people to accept me in the online space, being that as I had done all these things, like in
00:04:28.500 the real world, particularly around business, because a lot of people that I do interviews
00:04:34.120 with and spend time with, they make their money from the internet.
00:04:38.120 And I think when you, when you look at particularly the guys, they're like, you do what for a living?
00:04:44.200 That's how you got here.
00:04:45.280 Okay, I respect that.
00:04:46.360 I'll collab with you.
00:04:47.480 And so, in a lot of ways, I think I grew.
00:04:50.360 Like, so if Myron and Walt respected me in some way, they let me come on the show or had
00:04:55.340 me on the show.
00:04:56.480 Rolo, Tate, Sterling, all those people.
00:04:59.500 I just think there's a certain level of respect I got from the internal growth I had done over
00:05:04.720 a decade.
00:05:05.460 And they're like, oh, no, that makes sense.
00:05:07.020 You can come on.
00:05:07.740 You'll do well, you know.
00:05:09.260 And I have them to think for in a lot of ways.
00:05:11.240 And you coming on your show.
00:05:12.460 I mean, this is a big fucking channel.
00:05:13.580 It's a million, that's a million stuff.
00:05:15.120 Yeah, but it wasn't when you came on.
00:05:17.600 I get that.
00:05:18.240 When you came on.
00:05:18.780 But the point I'm making is, is for me, how do I go from Louisiana to London with you?
00:05:27.040 Right.
00:05:27.120 I think that any young man, if he wants to exit a small town, if he works on his stuff
00:05:34.100 in his small town and develops himself, if he were to go out and then try to take that
00:05:39.320 internal growth and outwardly grow, that that's a possibility, whether you live in Louisiana
00:05:44.820 or Ohio or Indiana or what have you.
00:05:48.360 So in fact, I think it's probably a pretty good strategy because if you live in a small
00:05:52.200 town and you just up and move to Miami, it's going to be shit.
00:05:57.200 I think it's a much better decision to truly grow internally and truly get confident where
00:06:02.580 it's a little bit boring because you're going to need a lot of money to come to London, a
00:06:06.700 lot of money to go to Dubai, a lot of money to go to Miami.
00:06:11.340 I just think it's a better place to be.
00:06:13.040 And the funny thing is, before I went online, I don't think I was as proud.
00:06:19.000 But what I've come to learn is the further I get away from home, the more proud I am
00:06:23.120 of where I come from, you know, and I don't ever want to like leave that behind because
00:06:27.400 I think it's the part that people find to be genuine about a person, like where they're
00:06:31.440 from, you know, and the fact that they stay close to that, you know, when I leave here
00:06:36.620 and I go to my room tonight, we're putting country music on or doing whatever I have
00:06:40.980 to do while I'm folding my shit and putting it up.
00:06:42.800 Who's your favorite country artist?
00:06:44.900 George Strait or Al Dean, I have to say.
00:06:47.220 Okay, good choice.
00:06:47.900 Yeah.
00:06:48.200 I mean, you can't not like Morgan Wallen.
00:06:51.140 I'm such a Morgan Wallen fan.
00:06:53.240 Yeah, no shit.
00:06:53.920 You hear his new song?
00:06:54.760 Have you heard Sand in My Boots?
00:06:58.580 No, I haven't heard that one.
00:07:00.680 No way.
00:07:01.860 It's good.
00:07:02.680 It's good.
00:07:03.140 I like the one he just released.
00:07:04.720 It's, um...
00:07:06.620 I don't want to sing it, but I, like, I hit it in my head.
00:07:09.220 I can't.
00:07:09.900 Um, My Hometown, I like that one.
00:07:12.860 Nice.
00:07:13.280 Yeah.
00:07:13.640 I think good country music is good for your soul.
00:07:16.480 It's like the only music that hasn't been corrupted, in my opinion, completely.
00:07:21.100 It got a little poppy, but I think it, I think it's like a good religion.
00:07:25.460 It stayed to its roots in a way.
00:07:27.240 Yeah.
00:07:27.680 Like it's not letting anybody break any crazy laws.
00:07:29.800 I thought about coming out with a red pill, a country, side note.
00:07:33.920 You sing?
00:07:35.440 Uh, you know.
00:07:36.540 What?
00:07:37.680 Ask Tristan.
00:07:39.320 Wow.
00:07:40.240 Look it, we could, I could play the guitar.
00:07:42.200 You could sing.
00:07:42.600 Yeah, maybe.
00:07:42.960 Yeah.
00:07:43.220 We could do it.
00:07:43.820 It could be a red pill album.
00:07:45.880 Yeah, it could at least be a TikTok.
00:07:47.520 Yeah.
00:07:49.260 Yeah.
00:07:50.000 So, Louisiana, um, did you have siblings?
00:07:52.780 Were you close with your parents?
00:07:53.940 What was that like?
00:07:55.300 No, so it was broken home for sure.
00:07:57.160 Um, mom cheated on my dad multiple times with guys from church.
00:08:00.900 From church?
00:08:01.540 Yeah, from church.
00:08:02.660 Yeah.
00:08:03.820 30.
00:08:05.080 What kind of church was it?
00:08:07.000 Normal, non-denominational.
00:08:08.760 Really?
00:08:09.300 It was kind of crazy.
00:08:09.900 When I was a kid, we'd go to church and people were like speaking in tongues and falling on
00:08:13.200 the floor and shit.
00:08:14.780 Yeah.
00:08:15.140 They would speak in tongues?
00:08:16.580 You ever seen that?
00:08:17.960 Um, on YouTube, never in person.
00:08:19.960 Oh, I've seen it in person.
00:08:20.920 It's crazy.
00:08:21.900 North Louisiana, man.
00:08:22.840 Is it real?
00:08:24.080 I think it's bullshit.
00:08:25.340 Yeah.
00:08:26.120 I think it's bullshit when people put their hands in the air and like close their eyes
00:08:29.800 and sort of like act like they're getting lifted and stuff.
00:08:32.700 I, I am, I try not to be sacrilegious ever.
00:08:36.980 I've just seen some things, man.
00:08:38.600 It's just like, oh, you're doing this, but you're, you're saying this, but you're doing
00:08:41.900 that.
00:08:42.360 Yeah.
00:08:43.100 You know, and what is the red pill?
00:08:44.960 It's like calling everything out for its bullshit.
00:08:47.520 It's really just the pursuit of truth.
00:08:49.180 Right.
00:08:49.720 So I've seen some things and it just kind of turned me off in time, but, uh, yeah, two
00:08:54.560 guys from church.
00:08:55.580 So you're from a broken home.
00:08:57.620 Your mom cheated on your dad.
00:08:59.280 Oh yeah.
00:08:59.920 And then they got, they were going to put us in a foster home for sure.
00:09:02.680 There was a lot of violence.
00:09:03.600 They were going to, if we'd have gone again, there was a bit of violence going on.
00:09:06.820 So, um, it just, my mom.
00:09:11.340 Yeah.
00:09:11.860 Tough, tough situation for sure.
00:09:13.580 And so, um, then you graduated high school and what, where'd you go next?
00:09:19.580 Yeah.
00:09:19.940 So it was kind of one of those things where I didn't know how to get out of my town unless
00:09:25.940 I played sports.
00:09:27.200 And so I played football, baseball, basketball until my junior year.
00:09:31.800 And then I found out that baseball scholarships were partial and I didn't want to play D7 basketball,
00:09:37.780 you know?
00:09:38.200 So I ended up quitting those to gain some weight and play football.
00:09:41.380 So I went and played football and then when I got done, I had a construction management
00:09:46.400 degree, but it was 2009.
00:09:48.980 So there were no jobs.
00:09:50.320 So I dug ditches for a while until I figured it out.
00:09:54.220 So how did you start your company?
00:09:57.120 Yeah, you figured it out.
00:09:58.320 That's not, you know?
00:09:59.120 Yeah, I know.
00:09:59.640 I mean, the guys.
00:10:00.220 I feel like I've told this story so many times.
00:10:01.720 I hate to be boring if anybody's ever seen this.
00:10:03.580 I've never, I've never.
00:10:04.500 So this is what happened.
00:10:05.220 I worked for a company called Austin Bridge and Road and I was digging ditches or cleaning
00:10:12.440 off catch basins and getting, you know, stuff for catch basins is what catches the water
00:10:17.140 under the road.
00:10:18.760 And I did that for a while.
00:10:20.060 That job ended.
00:10:20.660 So I moved to Baton Rouge and I would wait tables at Texas Day Brazil and I would put up
00:10:26.160 metal buildings or go apply for jobs during the daytime.
00:10:29.000 And what ended up happening was they were building this hospital job and I went to it once and
00:10:36.220 the lady's like, you can't see the boss.
00:10:38.140 I'm like, yes, ma'am.
00:10:38.700 Yes, ma'am.
00:10:39.180 I go back.
00:10:40.480 Can I see, is he, is he available?
00:10:42.500 She's like, you, you can't come and see the boss.
00:10:45.360 Well, so I think it was the third or the fourth time I went, I ended up talking to her about
00:10:50.320 shit on her wall and her kids because she had photos up and this is a job trailer on
00:10:54.500 construction site.
00:10:55.340 The hospital's not done.
00:10:56.440 They're building it.
00:10:57.100 And she goes, you know what?
00:10:59.220 Stay right there.
00:11:00.800 And I had my little resumes because I'd go hand them out during the day trying to get
00:11:03.880 a construction job.
00:11:05.700 And it had nothing on it, by the way.
00:11:07.260 All it was is I played football and I had a construction management degree.
00:11:12.680 But in 2009, there was not as much work.
00:11:15.060 We were in the recession.
00:11:16.060 So, oh, grizzled 50 something year old white man comes in and he goes, are you Justin?
00:11:20.760 I'm like, yes, sir.
00:11:21.540 He goes, come with me.
00:11:22.920 So we go back in the job trailer, plops down in his seat.
00:11:27.100 And he leans back and he's like, and I'm just like, slide it to him, right?
00:11:32.020 He looks at it and he looks at me and he looks at it and he looks at me and he flops it down
00:11:35.380 on the table and he goes, you mean to tell me that you've come in here three or four times?
00:11:40.680 I know about you coming in here to talk to the boss to get a job on a $40 million hospital
00:11:45.820 project and I'm like, yes, sir.
00:11:48.940 He took a deep breath and he looked at me and he goes, I like that shit.
00:11:52.800 He gave me a job.
00:11:53.800 Boom.
00:11:54.180 Got a job.
00:11:55.660 And what I did was I went to the bank.
00:12:00.040 You had to have a net worth of $10,000.
00:12:02.620 And I had read Rich Dad Poor Dad my junior year of college.
00:12:05.600 We're on the way to play Arkansas.
00:12:07.360 And it was a bus trip.
00:12:08.700 It was short and like I, you know, tried to get through it right.
00:12:11.840 So I knew I wanted to have a business.
00:12:13.120 I understood the quadrants as they would say, like employee, business owner, and gets to
00:12:17.980 investor, all those things.
00:12:20.060 And so what I did is I went to the bank and I was like, listen, they're paying me per
00:12:24.380 diem.
00:12:25.560 I can live off of that.
00:12:27.200 Why don't you take my whole check and put it in this other account because I want to
00:12:29.940 save up $10,000 because you had to have a net worth.
00:12:32.620 You could have put my whole family together.
00:12:34.640 It would have been negative something.
00:12:36.440 You know what I'm saying?
00:12:37.660 So I'm like, let's leave them out of it.
00:12:40.160 Let me see.
00:12:41.380 Let me see if, you know, if I can save this money up.
00:12:44.320 And sure enough, after six months, I, you know, I saved the six, excuse me, $10,000 up
00:12:49.420 and applied for my contractor's license.
00:12:52.240 And that was 13 years ago.
00:12:54.980 So.
00:12:56.160 And where did you get this like drive from?
00:12:59.120 Because it doesn't sound like either of your parents really, it sounds like they pushed
00:13:03.600 you into business or anything.
00:13:05.280 No, no, not at all.
00:13:06.260 Yeah, because it's like, for me, it's, it's just expected.
00:13:10.500 That's like what everyone does.
00:13:11.600 But for you, it's so interesting to hear when people come from like a background that
00:13:16.940 maybe wasn't conducive, like the best place to grow up and they still end up like crazy
00:13:21.540 successful.
00:13:22.460 I think what happens is some people and there are two of these people who are sitting here.
00:13:28.040 Some people see what their atmosphere has to offer and they follow it.
00:13:33.580 Some people like me see their atmosphere and know what they don't want to become.
00:13:39.540 And it was just simply that for me.
00:13:41.600 And then you have to think too, high testosterone, young American, red-blooded, ambitious, sports
00:13:48.120 background, competitive.
00:13:50.000 And I wouldn't even say I'm that competitive, really.
00:13:52.340 Like I don't compare myself to people ever, ever, ever.
00:13:55.260 And it's not because I'm like super against it.
00:13:57.180 I just don't feel that way.
00:13:58.540 It would be disingenuous for me to be like, I don't compare myself to other people because
00:14:03.000 I love myself.
00:14:04.000 No, I just really don't feel that way.
00:14:05.200 I'm just, I do love myself.
00:14:07.420 And for the, you know, so I don't know exactly where it came from in regards to like what
00:14:13.620 sparked it.
00:14:14.420 But I do quite enjoy it.
00:14:17.880 And I think that's probably has something to do with it.
00:14:19.940 And I also think it's a bigger risk to have a really good job and be capped out than it'll
00:14:26.440 ever be to fail.
00:14:27.600 I'd much rather fail.
00:14:28.460 I go bankrupt tomorrow.
00:14:29.740 I would get a job that was shit enough that when I got caught working on my business, they'd
00:14:34.740 fire me and I wouldn't care.
00:14:35.580 I think a lot of people get caught in that trap.
00:14:39.040 They get that really good job and that mortgage has got to get paid.
00:14:43.200 And if they lose that job, they're fucked.
00:14:46.320 And I was just as happy in a shitty apartment that I am in my place in Miami or my new house
00:14:50.940 in Dubai is going to be, you know, so I actually think it's harder for you.
00:14:58.820 Really?
00:14:59.420 I do.
00:14:59.840 I hear every day how I had it very easy.
00:15:02.500 No, I get that.
00:15:03.220 But it's perception though.
00:15:04.420 Yeah.
00:15:04.980 It's perception.
00:15:06.100 Like I always say about rich children, it's like being born in the zoo in captivity.
00:15:11.100 Let's say you're a lion.
00:15:11.880 You get born in the zoo.
00:15:12.600 You get fed every day.
00:15:13.900 The zoo closes.
00:15:15.060 They kick you out into the jungle, but you don't know how to hunt.
00:15:18.400 And for you, it's the gap in perception, right?
00:15:24.940 So anything short of being a white trash from Louisiana, I'm doing better than I started.
00:15:30.740 For you to even get to where your father got you guys is a lot of fucking work.
00:15:35.560 Oh, I will not.
00:15:36.280 Right?
00:15:36.500 I will not get to where my father is.
00:15:38.440 But you do understand.
00:15:39.300 I don't want to want that life path.
00:15:40.260 But to be clear, you do understand.
00:15:41.320 Yeah.
00:15:41.640 So maybe for you, it's a freedom thing or something else?
00:15:44.060 What is it?
00:15:44.640 What do you mean?
00:15:45.300 What drives you?
00:15:46.720 What?
00:15:46.960 I'm interviewing you now.
00:15:47.580 Oh, my dad.
00:15:48.500 He owns a software company.
00:15:50.700 Oh, nice.
00:15:51.500 So he includes the same amount of people, roughly like 200.
00:15:54.720 Yeah.
00:15:55.220 He sold it, though, so he doesn't anymore.
00:15:57.740 Nice.
00:15:57.920 But I just, I would never see myself getting this that big.
00:16:03.880 And if I did, like, I'd need someone else to manage it.
00:16:06.200 Because I just, I'm a woman.
00:16:07.660 I don't like managing people.
00:16:09.180 Yeah.
00:16:09.280 I'm too agreeable, you know.
00:16:11.140 Are you?
00:16:11.940 Yeah.
00:16:13.700 You need to hire a bitch.
00:16:15.380 What?
00:16:15.880 You need to hire a bitch.
00:16:17.120 A bitch?
00:16:17.840 Oh, yeah.
00:16:18.560 They're the best.
00:16:19.940 Especially one that loves you.
00:16:21.340 Yeah.
00:16:22.100 If you, like, you know how they say behind every good man is a strong woman?
00:16:25.620 Mm-hmm.
00:16:26.500 Sometimes women are really good managers.
00:16:28.560 I have women in very important management roles.
00:16:31.520 Mm-hmm.
00:16:32.200 So, but toughen up or find one.
00:16:36.280 Yeah, I just, I just think 200 people, that would be a lot.
00:16:39.280 I don't.
00:16:40.160 It's a lot, but if you understand, if you understand, like, scaling and stuff like that, think about it.
00:16:45.160 People do it all the time.
00:16:46.200 Tell me.
00:16:47.160 How do you scale?
00:16:48.100 How do you scale?
00:16:48.720 Yeah, I don't, I don't know.
00:16:49.980 Well, systems.
00:16:51.400 Mm-hmm.
00:16:52.280 Hiring systems.
00:16:53.480 Okay.
00:16:53.720 Understanding the psychology of the, it's a very long conversation.
00:16:57.220 Okay.
00:16:57.640 But we can, we can have a scaling conversation.
00:16:59.980 Probably, it's a, it's a whole different show.
00:17:01.620 You know, this is, this is like, that's too far.
00:17:03.620 It's a, it's a, it's long-winded.
00:17:04.560 It's not a, it's not a five-second.
00:17:06.000 It'll be an hour from now, and you'll be like, okay, well, it was good talking to you.
00:17:12.100 Okay, we can, we can.
00:17:13.140 It took me a decade to figure out, I tell you.
00:17:14.860 We can come back to, to scaling.
00:17:16.820 Yeah, we can.
00:17:17.300 We can come back.
00:17:18.840 Okay, so you started your business.
00:17:21.720 How did you get into the red pill space?
00:17:25.900 I.
00:17:26.740 Would you consider yourself red pill, manosphere, like, what would you label yourself?
00:17:30.840 I wouldn't want to, but I think it's inevitable that I can't get away from.
00:17:34.940 It's like one of those things, right?
00:17:38.580 So, when I was in my 20s, I dealt with a lot of guilt around monogamy.
00:17:45.500 And so, I'd watch Richard Cooper, or, or watch Rolo, or I'd watch Myron, and then I found
00:17:52.680 this Tate guy, and I'm like, that motherfucker is saying shit I've been saying for years
00:17:58.280 that pisses people off.
00:17:59.820 And, um, I joined the war room, and I had to start, I decided to start a channel, because
00:18:08.840 I'd met Sterling.
00:18:10.400 And Sterling's like, yo, you should start a channel.
00:18:12.220 And I'd always kind of wanted to, but I refused to let myself until I was like a super liquid
00:18:17.940 millionaire, right?
00:18:19.300 Because I saw that there was a bit of deceit in the online space.
00:18:23.340 No.
00:18:24.780 Really?
00:18:25.840 No.
00:18:26.360 No way.
00:18:27.100 The cap?
00:18:28.540 Yeah.
00:18:28.980 I never, I never knew.
00:18:30.160 Never.
00:18:30.880 No.
00:18:31.760 Um, and so, I saw that, and then I had the conversation with Sterling, and I went to Miami, and I was
00:18:39.460 like, dude, I'm moving here.
00:18:41.140 There's just nothing else for me in Louisiana.
00:18:43.640 I didn't feel alive anymore.
00:18:45.360 And that's where your construction company is.
00:18:47.580 Yeah, but I mean, we're nationwide.
00:18:49.160 Oh, okay.
00:18:49.580 Yeah, we all 50 states and the Caribbean.
00:18:52.100 So, but that's what happened.
00:18:53.160 So, I did that, and I'm with Sterling.
00:18:57.000 Tate comes into town.
00:18:58.800 Tate's like, yo, come eat dinner with me.
00:19:01.800 I'm like, cool.
00:19:02.500 So, I'll go see Andrew.
00:19:03.540 He's like, listen, I know you're starting a channel, and you could do this, this, and
00:19:08.520 this, and I'm sure you would kill it, but I think you got the magic.
00:19:12.300 I already got this thing going.
00:19:13.480 We're helping all these people.
00:19:15.140 All these lives are changing.
00:19:16.920 I'm doing this thing with the real world.
00:19:19.580 And these kids are making money.
00:19:21.500 Like, we're boys.
00:19:23.280 Like, let's get closer, and like, let's work together.
00:19:26.720 And I kind of looked at it like NATO.
00:19:29.080 You know what I'm saying?
00:19:30.160 Okay.
00:19:30.720 It's like, I'll build all together.
00:19:33.100 But really, we're just like the same army.
00:19:35.560 And...
00:19:36.000 So, this was you, Tate, Sterling, and who else?
00:19:41.140 Well, who was really hanging out over the years has been me, Tate, Sterling, sartorial shooter,
00:19:46.500 Jewel, and T.
00:19:49.140 And, of course, I'm really close to Luke.
00:19:51.480 You know, like, when I go to bye, I go to see Luke.
00:19:53.620 Dylan Madden, I go see.
00:19:55.080 So, it's just like being on a football team again.
00:19:58.200 You know?
00:19:58.920 And I thought back to the times where I was happiest in my life, and it was absolutely college football.
00:20:04.040 And then I started to question myself as to why.
00:20:08.060 Oh, because all we did was hang out together all the time, lift weights, do the equivalent of making money, whatever that might be.
00:20:17.360 We always had each other's back.
00:20:19.580 We went into arenas together in, like, war.
00:20:22.500 And I'm like, oh, it's just like football.
00:20:27.140 No, that's so true.
00:20:28.460 Because guys always, like, talk about their college football days.
00:20:32.060 Like, it's like the best.
00:20:32.300 And I don't.
00:20:33.160 I super don't.
00:20:34.620 I don't bring it.
00:20:35.500 Like, I am not an Uncle Rico.
00:20:36.780 I actually take a lot of pride in that.
00:20:38.860 But what I do talk about is the experiences.
00:20:40.920 No, but that's probably why.
00:20:42.520 Because when else in their life are they going to get?
00:20:44.580 Never.
00:20:45.480 Also, why I think military guys have so much trouble when they come home.
00:20:48.080 You drive a million-dollar tank shooting.
00:20:53.380 You're basically Rambo all day fighting for your country.
00:20:56.320 You have, like, this deep-rooted thing that you're proud of that you're doing, which is your purpose at the time.
00:21:00.660 Like us, trying to help young men with the real world in the war room.
00:21:04.580 And then you come home to, like, some shit job.
00:21:08.580 And you got to bag groceries or, like, stock a warehouse and drive a warehouse forklift.
00:21:12.120 Fuck that.
00:21:12.580 I get it.
00:21:13.340 Completely.
00:21:13.680 And men are discouraged.
00:21:14.780 I think a lot of times in relationships, men are discouraged from having male friends.
00:21:19.620 Like, the woman gets jealous or the woman starts nagging.
00:21:22.840 Because, I mean, let's be honest.
00:21:24.720 Like, guys get up to trouble sometimes when they're with the, I mean, in our view, right?
00:21:29.600 Like, you know, so.
00:21:31.380 Yeah, he's like, dude, I killed five people in Iraq and I got some fucking Karen telling me to come home for the streetlights to come on?
00:21:37.140 Yeah.
00:21:37.360 Get the fuck out of here.
00:21:38.040 Yeah, yeah.
00:21:38.940 I fought for, if it weren't for me, you wouldn't even live in this country.
00:21:42.260 Right.
00:21:42.580 Or this country would be run by somebody else.
00:21:45.720 You know, you'd be a war bride.
00:21:47.200 It's the craziest thing, man.
00:21:48.520 Like, people don't, like, and I'll never understand what it's like to be a veteran.
00:21:51.820 I know this.
00:21:52.740 If I see one, yes, sir, let me open this door.
00:21:55.280 Can I buy you that beer?
00:21:56.660 And I do the same thing for construction workers.
00:21:59.900 Dude, I do it all the time.
00:22:00.960 If I see a construction guy in line, fuck that.
00:22:03.120 You ain't paying for shit, bro.
00:22:04.800 I do it all the time.
00:22:06.860 Because people don't understand what it takes to make this world go around.
00:22:09.140 And that's something that I think that as women, like, particularly women don't understand.
00:22:14.780 No, and I'll tell you, because even, I started my channel reacting to, like, content.
00:22:20.860 So when I started, I would react to Kevin Samuel's role.
00:22:24.000 Like, everyone, you know, just like you, I was on the other side, right?
00:22:27.500 But I was just watching.
00:22:29.040 And people could kind of see me go from, like, blue pill to red pill in, like, real time.
00:22:33.520 And one of, I remember watching one of Kevin Samuel's streams saying, like, you couldn't, like, live without men.
00:22:39.920 And I'm like, well, I mean, can't you just get an apartment?
00:22:43.080 And, like, but I never thought about it as.
00:22:44.880 Yeah, I don't see it in the real matter-of-fact way.
00:22:46.860 Yeah, I didn't think about it in the society way.
00:22:49.980 Let me ask you a question.
00:22:50.820 Yeah.
00:22:51.040 When I just pulled up with those security guards Tate sent me, those mountains.
00:22:56.980 I want some.
00:22:58.500 Right?
00:22:59.100 And I'm walking towards you, and I'm looking at that construction site.
00:23:03.280 All men.
00:23:03.940 All men.
00:23:04.520 All men.
00:23:05.680 All men.
00:23:07.020 And if they're digging, right, and if they don't shore that correctly, and one of them's down in the hole and it collapses, woman won't die.
00:23:15.100 They might just leave the man down there.
00:23:17.840 You know what I'm saying.
00:23:18.940 Yeah.
00:23:19.380 It's an ugly, ugly truth of the world.
00:23:22.560 Everything in this room was built by a man.
00:23:27.080 And you know what I realized, too?
00:23:28.560 It's like we almost give women these, like, high-paying, like, cushy jobs that I don't think are as valuable in society as, like, we think.
00:23:38.340 So it's like we almost have these girls in these, like, tech jobs that I think are inflated, to be honest.
00:23:44.240 Well, tech jobs are inflated, to be fair.
00:23:46.640 Yeah, but I just see, like, women start to think, like, we're better than men a lot of the times.
00:23:52.220 And it's just like, well, men.
00:23:53.980 And now I realize it's like men literally run the world.
00:23:56.380 They run the infrastructure of society.
00:23:57.940 So it's like, when do we ever talk about that?
00:24:00.900 Yeah.
00:24:01.200 And in a lot of ways, it's supported by women.
00:24:03.160 I would never take anything away from women in the workplace, though.
00:24:05.900 My most important employee is a woman, and it's by a landslide.
00:24:10.340 And she makes well into six figures.
00:24:12.120 I wrote her a $30,000 bonus check at Christmas.
00:24:15.040 I just took her to Florida with me on the beach.
00:24:17.580 Like, woman's important.
00:24:20.320 I don't disregard women's importance.
00:24:23.900 They're often accountants.
00:24:25.560 They often do the payroll.
00:24:27.140 They're often very organized.
00:24:29.260 They are often very, very good negotiation situations.
00:24:33.240 I call my Trojan horses.
00:24:35.520 I'll get a phone call.
00:24:37.140 Hey, Justin, I got this job in Kentucky.
00:24:38.860 He said this, this, and this.
00:24:40.320 I'm like, and that he'll give it to us if we'll do it for this.
00:24:43.500 I'm like, cool.
00:24:44.380 Tell him this, and when you do, he's going to say this when he does say that and call me back.
00:24:49.960 She'll call me back.
00:24:51.020 She's like, got it.
00:24:51.800 All right, cool.
00:24:52.160 Checkmate.
00:24:52.500 Bye.
00:24:52.840 Boom.
00:24:54.780 Women are disarming.
00:24:57.460 So if I call that guy, he's automatically got his guard up.
00:25:01.740 With a woman, he can put his guard down, and you can get to a real conversation about what makes sense,
00:25:06.360 and it's not a dick measuring contest.
00:25:08.840 Men, you know how I was telling you you were being a girl earlier when we were off the camera?
00:25:13.120 Yeah.
00:25:13.800 When men are being like that, it's because their ego is in front of what actually needs to happen to get it done.
00:25:19.300 I'm like, no, fuck him.
00:25:21.560 But it actually makes sense, right?
00:25:23.660 I mean, you talk about monogamy.
00:25:25.020 You're like, yeah, but I couldn't do it.
00:25:26.360 You understand it, but obviously you can't do it.
00:25:28.920 So for men, have the same thing.
00:25:30.800 It's on different subjects, right?
00:25:32.600 So when I talk about scaling and I talk about, hey, it's a long conversation,
00:25:36.080 it's understanding all the dynamics involved and setting not only the systems up,
00:25:41.460 but the comm lines up and communication lines up in the right way.
00:25:45.000 I don't call my men when they get in trouble for not tying off on a building.
00:25:49.520 I have Noelia call them, and she speaks very sweet to them in Spanish, because if I call them,
00:25:53.900 hey, Facundo, tie off on the fucking roof.
00:25:56.920 Da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da, Spanish.
00:25:58.500 I'm like, hey, shut the fuck up.
00:25:59.460 I'll fire you.
00:26:00.560 Whereas Noelia, because I don't want to fire Facundo.
00:26:03.820 Noelia calls them, okay, I do for you, no problem.
00:26:08.780 Or the war.
00:26:09.840 I didn't have to fight that war, because I understand the dynamic.
00:26:12.780 And it's not this sexual thing, it's just not a dick measuring contest,
00:26:18.000 because if I call him, I have to threaten him.
00:26:21.460 Because he's like, oh, you know, the boss, right?
00:26:24.180 Fuck the boss.
00:26:24.900 Right.
00:26:25.780 Noelia calls, I do for you.
00:26:28.680 Different gang.
00:26:30.580 So you said it was like NATO, the war room?
00:26:35.680 I say it's like NATO, but it's a bunch of brands coming together.
00:26:39.080 So I think more like Sterling had a brand first, right?
00:26:41.400 Sterling is very much involved, you know?
00:26:44.860 I have a brand, but I was always kind of on the team, if you will.
00:26:49.680 You know, like I kind of started off that way,
00:26:51.280 because I had that early conversation with Andrew.
00:26:53.420 But yeah, it's like a bunch of powerful people get together
00:26:57.240 and make something great, you know?
00:27:00.600 Nothing else I'd rather do than to be, instead of,
00:27:04.200 and it's easy for me to say, right,
00:27:06.260 but I can look at these other creators, they're by themselves.
00:27:09.260 And for that reason, a lot of times all they do
00:27:12.320 is end up talking shit about people.
00:27:14.720 You see what I'm saying?
00:27:15.900 Yeah.
00:27:16.720 And I'm not trying to out anybody,
00:27:19.420 but I'd much rather have what I have.
00:27:22.020 The only reason I bring up the security guard team
00:27:23.740 and Tate and everything is because he's like,
00:27:26.000 hey, man, I want you safe in London.
00:27:29.580 I'm sending people.
00:27:32.280 Other people in the space that work alone and talk shit,
00:27:34.420 they don't get that.
00:27:35.220 Good luck, you know?
00:27:37.680 Or it's just like family stuff.
00:27:39.240 Like, I took his mom to lunch yesterday.
00:27:42.700 You know?
00:27:43.020 Like, we're family, bro.
00:27:44.580 How is she doing?
00:27:45.840 She's got to be a wreck.
00:27:47.140 She's a wonderful woman.
00:27:48.260 Yeah.
00:27:48.760 Wonderful woman.
00:27:49.520 She did a great job, clearly.
00:27:51.660 So, yeah.
00:27:53.420 All's good.
00:27:59.120 So, when was that that you guys got together?
00:28:02.540 That was three years ago?
00:28:03.800 Yeah, around about.
00:28:04.560 Three years ago.
00:28:05.720 Okay.
00:28:06.980 And tell me a little bit more about the War Room.
00:28:09.280 So, what do you guys do?
00:28:10.860 The War Room is a place where you go
00:28:13.440 to develop yourself in every way.
00:28:15.140 You get new consciousness.
00:28:16.320 You start to understand how the world works on a macro.
00:28:20.440 And then you learn how to develop yourself on a micro.
00:28:23.500 So, there's many events.
00:28:25.820 There's events about money
00:28:26.940 and how to run a business, how to scale.
00:28:29.520 There's events about
00:28:30.840 how to network with high-level individuals.
00:28:34.640 Satorial runs a great event called Penetrating the Elite
00:28:36.860 where you learn everything from fashion
00:28:39.100 to the little things that a wealthy man's looking for
00:28:41.580 from somebody else.
00:28:42.500 Oh, give me an example.
00:28:43.900 Like this watch.
00:28:46.320 Are the cufflinks.
00:28:47.400 So, the watch matches the...
00:28:50.020 Oh, that's nice.
00:28:50.640 And the little...
00:28:51.640 Like just the little things are down to, you know,
00:28:55.100 he calls it a wealthy man's uniform.
00:28:58.360 Okay.
00:28:59.140 You know, it's the subtle things in the tailoring.
00:29:01.740 Mm-hmm.
00:29:02.260 The inside of a jacket
00:29:03.660 that you just might see at a glance.
00:29:05.040 Yeah, I wouldn't know this.
00:29:06.180 No, you wouldn't know.
00:29:06.660 Yeah, I know.
00:29:06.960 You never know.
00:29:07.740 Like I can tell you're well-dressed,
00:29:09.100 but I would never look at the inside.
00:29:11.220 So, a well-dressed man can tell the difference
00:29:13.400 between a suit off the rack
00:29:14.620 and a suit that was tailored.
00:29:16.580 Really?
00:29:16.980 Or custom.
00:29:17.480 Yeah.
00:29:18.180 Yeah, you can tell.
00:29:19.020 So, you guys go through things like that?
00:29:21.140 We do table etiquette.
00:29:22.260 Everything.
00:29:22.760 Table etiquette.
00:29:23.780 Everything.
00:29:24.460 I'm telling you,
00:29:25.260 the event that Satora runs
00:29:26.380 is a world-class event.
00:29:29.640 Everything from table etiquette,
00:29:31.460 how to speak,
00:29:33.040 to just everything.
00:29:34.460 Eye contact, handshakes.
00:29:35.840 They practice handshakes at that event.
00:29:37.700 It's very, very important.
00:29:39.380 Wow, this sounds great.
00:29:40.720 Yeah, it's called making men.
00:29:42.960 It's like,
00:29:43.220 if there's a woman version of this.
00:29:44.600 And that's the thing,
00:29:45.300 you know,
00:29:45.500 and I get messages every day from women like,
00:29:47.120 can I join the war room?
00:29:47.860 Of course you can't.
00:29:48.920 You know, it's not for that.
00:29:50.340 Who are we to tell you how to be a woman?
00:29:52.020 Right.
00:29:52.880 But one thing I think the red pill kind of,
00:29:55.600 and it's not that they get wrong,
00:29:56.780 but they let the message come off the wrong way,
00:29:58.800 is that I don't think the red pill is against women.
00:30:02.860 I think that if you really love women,
00:30:05.520 you'll build strong men,
00:30:06.780 not despite a woman,
00:30:07.960 but for women.
00:30:09.260 And I think the red pill
00:30:10.580 has helped my relationships with men,
00:30:13.020 to be honest,
00:30:13.680 like, especially like my dad and my brothers.
00:30:16.380 Like when you guys,
00:30:18.060 I listened to something
00:30:19.800 where they were talking about
00:30:20.680 how love or respect is to men
00:30:23.400 as like love is to women.
00:30:25.840 And it just,
00:30:27.120 like me and my little brother,
00:30:28.720 I just used to like,
00:30:30.800 the more I like,
00:30:32.200 didn't,
00:30:32.560 you know,
00:30:32.760 he's a little brother,
00:30:33.700 so you don't always want to listen to him
00:30:35.060 or take his opinion,
00:30:35.900 you know,
00:30:36.160 because you're like younger than me.
00:30:37.800 But the more I would like respect his opinion,
00:30:41.220 I realized like I got along better with him,
00:30:43.240 better than everyone else in my family,
00:30:44.860 because he's just a bit of a headstrong,
00:30:46.860 you know?
00:30:48.240 And so I think if like,
00:30:49.700 if we can get past the part
00:30:51.160 where we're triggered
00:30:51.980 and really just like listen,
00:30:54.080 it helps us,
00:30:56.060 it helps us understand men better.
00:30:58.380 100% agree.
00:30:59.420 And particularly around like
00:31:00.780 dynamics of relationships.
00:31:03.880 It's like,
00:31:05.220 like we were talking about
00:31:06.220 before the cameras came on again,
00:31:07.640 I hate to keep bringing it up,
00:31:09.240 but.
00:31:09.680 Monogamy.
00:31:10.440 Monogamy, right?
00:31:11.960 Like,
00:31:13.340 men and women
00:31:14.120 don't understand each other right there.
00:31:16.800 And if they did,
00:31:18.440 I think less people,
00:31:19.620 go ahead, yeah.
00:31:21.380 I thought you were going to pull up our chart.
00:31:23.000 Oh, we can't.
00:31:25.840 But,
00:31:26.580 but it's,
00:31:27.740 it's so true.
00:31:28.480 It's,
00:31:28.660 it's,
00:31:29.220 if men and women could understand each other more
00:31:31.440 and redefine their definition of what it looks like,
00:31:34.940 I think it would be much healthier.
00:31:37.180 And I think we could see families again for sure.
00:31:39.460 Yeah.
00:31:39.600 You triggered me a little bit last time you were on the show.
00:31:42.100 Did you?
00:31:42.400 Good.
00:31:42.840 A little bit.
00:31:43.620 I was a little triggered.
00:31:44.740 Were you mad?
00:31:45.420 No,
00:31:45.960 no,
00:31:46.160 I was,
00:31:46.680 I wasn't mad.
00:31:47.640 I'm never mad,
00:31:48.760 but it was like,
00:31:49.780 when you were saying that my dad was cheating,
00:31:52.060 I was like,
00:31:52.280 my dad wouldn't do that.
00:31:54.000 Yeah,
00:31:54.300 but you're a girl.
00:31:54.840 You don't want to believe it.
00:31:56.040 I'll tell you this,
00:31:57.080 respectfully,
00:31:57.920 if I had to bet a million dollars,
00:32:00.180 I would have to put it on.
00:32:01.680 He did it at least once
00:32:02.620 because I know how men are.
00:32:05.240 Right.
00:32:06.160 You know what I'm saying?
00:32:06.900 And I also know that the woman would not have had to be attractive.
00:32:10.540 Just different.
00:32:11.780 Yeah.
00:32:12.140 You know,
00:32:13.120 and it's hurtful as it is.
00:32:15.000 And,
00:32:15.580 and I remember because you told me that was my worldview and I'm thinking to myself,
00:32:18.560 you shove your worldview up your ass.
00:32:20.220 I know just how they are.
00:32:22.760 And,
00:32:23.140 and I think what really makes that tough is one might be under the assumption that had your father done that,
00:32:31.140 and I'm not saying he did,
00:32:32.300 he would be a bad man.
00:32:33.560 I would say bullshit.
00:32:35.300 I would say he took care of his family.
00:32:37.940 He provided for your mother and never left her for a younger woman.
00:32:41.020 Took care,
00:32:43.180 made you an incredible person,
00:32:44.580 made your brother a good person and out supporting society.
00:32:48.640 Right.
00:32:49.940 That's a 1% man.
00:32:51.420 Just because he got some pussy on a Tuesday one time has nothing to do with who he is.
00:32:56.480 And I think society fucks that up.
00:32:58.340 They say there's this great guy and he did very,
00:33:00.500 very good,
00:33:00.860 but he slept with that one bitch.
00:33:02.900 I actually,
00:33:03.720 I agree with you.
00:33:05.540 Yeah.
00:33:05.860 I think like,
00:33:07.420 I don't,
00:33:08.240 I don't agree.
00:33:08.700 I don't think my dad cheated.
00:33:09.980 I'm going to say that.
00:33:11.020 I'm not saying he did.
00:33:11.880 I'm saying if he had.
00:33:13.960 But I think if my dad was in your position,
00:33:18.140 and I think most men,
00:33:19.240 if they're in your position or the position of like many athletes or whatever,
00:33:24.380 where women are like chasing them and hunting them down,
00:33:28.080 I don't think there's a lot of men that would say no over like a 50 year period.
00:33:32.540 So I actually,
00:33:33.060 I agree with you.
00:33:33.760 No.
00:33:34.060 Yeah.
00:33:34.340 No chance.
00:33:35.200 So here,
00:33:35.560 here's the other thing too,
00:33:36.940 is that you take a man that uses monogamy and loyalty as a mating strategy.
00:33:44.420 You know,
00:33:44.620 look at a guy like me or my friends and be like,
00:33:46.860 those guys are a piece of shit,
00:33:48.120 baby.
00:33:48.400 I would never.
00:33:49.980 No,
00:33:50.220 no,
00:33:50.360 no.
00:33:51.340 Women mistake a guy that can't get it for loyalty.
00:33:54.700 Big mistake people make big mating strategy of more beta type guys.
00:34:01.620 They're trading sexual exclusivity for something they can't get regularly,
00:34:08.560 which is sex.
00:34:10.660 And they give up all their research resources for it.
00:34:14.420 And they want to act like I'm a bad guy.
00:34:17.120 But just before we turn this camera on,
00:34:18.700 I showed you a woman that was throwing herself at me.
00:34:23.560 And what did you see me send her back?
00:34:27.060 You said no in some way.
00:34:28.940 You showed,
00:34:29.080 you said,
00:34:29.600 Oh,
00:34:29.960 a photo.
00:34:30.600 You sent her a photo of her family.
00:34:32.480 Boom.
00:34:33.300 Now,
00:34:34.320 who's the asshole now?
00:34:36.380 Kids were so cute too.
00:34:38.240 I know.
00:34:39.480 But you said you didn't judge her.
00:34:41.080 I was like,
00:34:41.340 how do you not judge that?
00:34:42.600 I'm not judging her.
00:34:43.280 I see it so much.
00:34:44.800 I still have Facebook.
00:34:46.620 Okay.
00:34:48.360 It's disgusting how many married women hit on me on Facebook.
00:34:52.980 It's disgusting.
00:34:55.600 So,
00:34:57.480 for me,
00:34:58.700 I,
00:35:00.200 instead of getting mad,
00:35:01.180 I play ball.
00:35:01.700 I understand hypergamy.
00:35:04.800 Yeah.
00:35:05.300 So you could get mad at the game or you could play it.
00:35:07.760 I could play.
00:35:08.720 And I just choose.
00:35:09.820 And look,
00:35:10.760 was a woman attractive?
00:35:12.120 Yeah.
00:35:14.420 I just,
00:35:15.140 like,
00:35:15.380 here's my thing.
00:35:17.160 Number one,
00:35:17.540 I don't want to,
00:35:17.880 I don't want to sleep on a bad conscience.
00:35:19.160 And I see those,
00:35:19.860 I see those kids.
00:35:20.760 And I'm just like,
00:35:22.180 I had that happen to me.
00:35:24.700 You had that happen to you?
00:35:25.820 Oh,
00:35:25.980 with your,
00:35:26.240 yeah.
00:35:28.240 Then,
00:35:28.620 then I'm watching my dad and my stepdad roll around the grass in the front yard.
00:35:31.720 It's bullshit.
00:35:32.780 Why?
00:35:33.960 Why?
00:35:34.280 It's not like I'm not in abundance.
00:35:37.340 I'm the,
00:35:37.880 I'm one of very few men that will ever tell that woman no.
00:35:41.520 And you saw what she said.
00:35:42.740 I'm like,
00:35:43.020 pick somebody else.
00:35:43.680 She's like,
00:35:43.960 no,
00:35:44.100 I want you.
00:35:46.080 Hypergamy.
00:35:47.060 Because if she was just a whore,
00:35:48.220 she would just go fuck somebody.
00:35:49.900 It's hypergamy.
00:35:50.720 It's,
00:35:51.060 it's a cross and up,
00:35:51.860 right?
00:35:52.900 It's exactly what,
00:35:53.840 it's a prime example of hypergamy.
00:35:56.340 Do you think women can ever be happy with a guy that doesn't fulfill her hypergamy?
00:36:01.880 Like,
00:36:02.020 do you think that?
00:36:02.960 I think,
00:36:03.440 I think that if I was a normal guy,
00:36:05.060 I didn't mean to cut your question off.
00:36:06.720 Go ahead.
00:36:07.220 But I want to answer the first one.
00:36:08.720 If I were just some normal dude,
00:36:10.740 I would not marry a woman that would not commit to leaving social media.
00:36:15.940 Because it ruins it.
00:36:17.740 It ruins it.
00:36:19.040 Look,
00:36:19.200 back in the 80s,
00:36:19.880 my dad might have seen one or two women that were beautiful outside of my mom.
00:36:26.000 And he might've seen them in a parking lot one time and never saw them again.
00:36:29.580 You know?
00:36:30.660 And so,
00:36:31.820 in that way,
00:36:32.520 it made things a lot easier for people.
00:36:34.900 I think,
00:36:35.060 I don't think it's easy for women.
00:36:37.000 Because women,
00:36:38.280 either they marry a normal guy,
00:36:40.340 and they get flooded with every guy that is statistically better than them in some way.
00:36:45.780 And they are naturally hypergamous by their primal needs.
00:36:49.160 Right?
00:36:49.600 So I'm not out here saying like women are shit.
00:36:52.680 And then men,
00:36:55.140 they go online and they're like me or my friends,
00:36:58.820 and they get the selection of all the women they want.
00:37:01.780 And I might sleep with sex.
00:37:03.840 As many of you know,
00:37:04.880 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:37:07.440 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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