JustPearlyThings - April 19, 2023


Jwaller’s Advice To Modern Women

Topics
picking the right partner trust and leadership misogyny
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Sneeko Danava Luke
Delusional Woman Reveals Her Hypocrisy Sneako DISMANTLES Unhinged Feminist

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11 minutes

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Misogyny

36

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In this episode, we discuss how to prepare for the possibility of your husband passing away early, what to do if that happens, and how to deal with the aftermath of losing a significant other. We also discuss the importance of having a good relationship with your spouse and how important it is to take care of them.

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00:00:00.000 You know, in those situations, may I ask, so obviously that's really important, but how do we then, just to make it a little bit more rounded and a bit more like wholesome, what advice do you give to the women in terms of what do they have to build for themselves to prepare for a potential eventuality or the occurrence of your husband passing away early?
00:00:19.520 Maybe you've got two kids for him, one is three, one is one. What do you tell a woman that has just completely given herself to being a housewife and doesn't actually have skills or the abilities or knowledge to strive in the world because she just wanted to be a housewife? And then what happens to her? 0.99
00:00:35.320 I mean, so there's a bunch of technical ways like life insurance, but there's also the man you pick. You know, women, a lot of their success in life is picking the right horse, hate to say. You better pick a good one. 1.00
00:00:46.460 Yeah, but people get shot sometimes if they get run over. People get shot. I doubt that I'm going to get shot in life. I'm not going to be in that situation. No, I'm just saying in general, pick a man that's not going to get fucking shot.
00:00:55.400 You understand what I'm saying? Like, it's not about him going off the war. He shouldn't have been in the damn neighborhood. He shouldn't have been doing the shit he was doing. He shouldn't have been fucking with the people he's fucking with. 0.98
00:01:02.840 So a woman, one of the most important things she can do in her life is pick the right partner. 1.00
00:01:06.280 Of course. To reduce that risk.
00:01:08.080 Yeah, and look, and you have a lot of risk in that, especially nowadays because you get to that 1% man, you pick him, and now you're dealing with promiscuity and all those other things, right?
00:01:16.460 And that's a whole different subject. But what I'm saying is, is if a woman can find a man that is strong and she can look up to and she can trust and there's a real relationship there, she has no problem getting inside of her frame and then inside of his frame.
00:01:27.440 And then all of a sudden there's not a thought about, you know, whether or not, you know, there's femininity, um, feminism in the house. 1.00
00:01:33.860 It's more like I trust this man fully and guess what makes him motivated more than anything in the world to take care of them is that trust that she puts in him because he takes it seriously and he becomes a hero in life and he wants nothing more than to create a life for that woman and those kids that would have been one-tenth of what it had been if he would not have come into that life.
00:01:52.060 And that's what motivates men. It truly, truly is. And if you have a good woman that can accept that and accept you being the leader, you will kill for her.
00:02:00.060 And so that woman will have nothing to worry about because he'll do his duty as a man and a real man would take care of his family, protect, provide.
00:02:05.960 And a woman that supports him is nothing, I promise you, they're happiest women in the world.
00:02:10.780 Yeah.
00:02:11.140 So, I'll go on.
00:02:12.220 Sorry, can I, it's okay if I can ask them a question. Would you guys want your wives, I don't know if you guys are married, but would you guys want your wives to work? 0.97
00:02:18.620 I do, we know. 1.00
00:02:19.080 Fuck no. 1.00
00:02:19.800 No. 1.00
00:02:20.180 Why not?
00:02:20.880 Well, listen, because why? I'd rather them raise the kids. Like, well, why? I'm going to provide, I'm going to be the one bringing the bread home.
00:02:26.660 I don't want her to be, I don't want her to have to work out of necessity.
00:02:29.420 That's a lot of pressure to put on men that aren't able to earn salaries where they can feel.
00:02:34.080 Pressure makes diamonds.
00:02:35.360 Yeah. And that's, hey, look, that's Darwinism. That's the best thing for the species.
00:02:38.700 Do you guys ever think that maybe there might be, like she was speaking about, that 5% chance that you might get run over a call, you might get cancelled or something?
00:02:46.780 Well, I want to finish answering your question.
00:02:48.940 She wants to pick a guy who is going to have the wherewithal, so if that situation, if that eventuality did occur, she would be looked after even in the point of his demise.
00:02:56.800 And I don't think you should live your life out of fear.
00:02:59.080 Like, what if the worst case scenario happens?
00:03:01.480 And I think a lot of times as women, we kind of go into situations out of fear instead of thinking about, like, what good could happen.
00:03:08.200 Is it fear or is it being realistic?
00:03:09.680 I mean, what percent of husbands, like, die young?
00:03:13.340 What percent is it? Is it a high percentage?
00:03:15.320 Yeah, it's not a high percentage.
00:03:16.080 Even if you guys have a college degree, your chance of getting divorced is 10%.
00:03:20.580 You should be more scared of that than your husband dying.
00:03:24.960 I'll say another thing, too. 1.00
00:03:25.980 You know how they say a lot of men are bums and a lot of men are shit? 1.00
00:03:28.080 But if you only if there was a society where only the men that truly produce and could truly take care of a family could reproduce, you would watch men's production skyrocket through the roof. 1.00
00:03:39.260 Because I hate to say it, men get up out of bed every morning, whether they're a bricklayer or inventor or they're trying to make a rocket ship to the moon.
00:03:47.380 It is in pursuit of women. 1.00
00:03:49.160 Thank you.
00:03:49.780 That is a driving force of society.
00:03:51.300 But it's just a yin and yang.
00:03:52.640 It's just a fact of the world. 1.00
00:03:55.040 So a lot of women have babies with shit men. 1.00
00:03:58.960 So you got to pick them, like, make sure your picker is not broken and then be in a position and create a scenario and an era about yourself that tells the high quality men that I am a quality woman and I am worthy of you taking care of me fully. 1.00
00:04:13.260 And if you want to work, work, but it's not it shouldn't be because you have to work.
00:04:17.480 That's that's my problem with a woman working is that she gets forced into working because the man's not doing what he committed to in the beginning, which is protecting and providing. 1.00
00:04:26.620 If she gets bored, I would let her open up a little dump store that sells little trinkets or hair stuff that you know. 1.00
00:04:32.340 And a woman that exactly is fine. 0.87
00:04:33.960 I do think that just because the man is the provider, it doesn't mean the woman has to have zero skill.
00:04:38.280 And what you just said, you said, I'll let her, that was, I think that's the wrong thing to say, you'll let her have a hair business.
00:04:43.520 You know what, though, when a woman, when a woman is like crazy in love and there's true, genuine desire, what she really wants to do is help build the kingdom.
00:04:52.000 I have a question for you, because you said you're a Christian, right?
00:04:56.520 You don't believe in submitting to your husband?
00:04:58.700 No, of course, but him saying, you'll let me have a business.
00:05:01.380 You would have to, like, you don't believe in submitting to your husband's authority?
00:05:05.320 I'm 50-50.
00:05:06.520 Then you're not a real Christian, because... 0.95
00:05:09.460 I'm not a real Christian. 0.96
00:05:10.420 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church. 0.66
00:05:12.680 No, there's a lot of fake Christians in the church, because you guys don't believe in male authority. 0.64
00:05:17.820 No, no, no, no, no, because you guys need to understand what being a Christian means.
00:05:21.480 Just because I said I'm a Christian doesn't mean I follow the Bible, like, by a word, by a Christian.
00:05:25.640 So wait, there's something called being a Luke, warm Christian, so you guys need to do your research.
00:05:30.540 Okay, so this is why Christianity is failing.
00:05:32.980 Yeah, so you're a pick-and-choose Christian. 1.00
00:05:35.340 No, no, no.
00:05:35.860 You're a, I'm a Christian when it benefits me.
00:05:38.320 No, that's not what I'm saying.
00:05:39.640 That's exactly...
00:05:40.160 No.
00:05:40.640 Can I also say something?
00:05:41.900 And I think this is why divorce rates are skyrocketing, because people don't understand what the true meaning of marriage is.
00:05:48.080 If you actually read your Bible, you would understand that marriage is a union between two people.
00:05:53.660 So two people could become one.
00:05:55.540 Meaning once you make a, meaning once you're married, once you make a decision, you have to run it with your partner.
00:06:04.860 And your partner has to kind of...
00:06:06.420 Well, you guys are talking about somebody dying.
00:06:08.580 You guys are talking about, oh, what if the husband dies?
00:06:10.280 But what's far more likely to happen is that the woman divorces him. 0.91
00:06:15.680 Because we know that, what is it, 70% of divorces are started by women, right? 1.00
00:06:20.860 80%.
00:06:21.300 80%, sorry.
00:06:21.720 So that is the eventuality that you've got to look out for.
00:06:24.680 Yeah, because men are happy as long as the woman's in the kitchen making them a sound. 1.00
00:06:27.000 No, no, it's because women get bored, because the butterflies go, and then they think, oh, sod this, I'll go off and, you know. 0.99
00:06:32.860 Hold on, Sneeko, I've got a question for you.
00:06:34.820 I'm not being funny.
00:06:35.660 Would you be with a woman who earns more than you? 1.00
00:06:37.980 That would never happen.
00:06:38.900 Exactly.
00:06:39.400 But that's the reality of certain situations.
00:06:42.320 Like, would it emasculate you?
00:06:43.400 Those relationships, it's not about insecurity.
00:06:45.820 Those relationships always fail.
00:06:47.560 According to who?
00:06:48.840 That always happens.
00:06:49.980 The woman needs to look up to her man, always. 0.96
00:06:52.480 In your, that's what you'd prefer.
00:06:54.460 That's just the truth of relationships.
00:06:56.520 That's what you'd prefer, because it's not every relationship that that's the facts.
00:07:00.160 It's female nature. 1.00
00:07:00.860 If you're, you're not a female, so you wouldn't know. 0.94
00:07:03.800 Okay, I understand female, I understand female nature better than you. 1.00
00:07:06.600 I have to in order to be successful.
00:07:08.300 No, you don't.
00:07:09.000 I do.
00:07:09.600 What makes you qualified to speak so much on girls?
00:07:11.580 Exactly.
00:07:12.300 Do you have sisters?
00:07:12.740 This is how female, it's not, it's not, it's not therapy. 1.00
00:07:15.920 It's female nature. 1.00
00:07:17.340 I just want to know how closely you are with females. 1.00
00:07:19.780 Guys, let him finish this point.
00:07:21.760 What is your question?
00:07:22.640 Because now you're, you're vibrating with misandry.
00:07:25.540 Oh, sorry.
00:07:28.020 My bad, I took it back.
00:07:29.240 Like, you got to get rid of this TV so she can stop looking at herself. 0.61
00:07:32.240 I love it.
00:07:32.780 I look really nice.
00:07:33.640 I like my outfit, I like my hair.
00:07:34.940 Look, I'm shining.
00:07:36.080 I've got red lipstick.
00:07:36.940 I think, I think the reality is a lot of men wouldn't be with, a lot of men are always
00:07:42.180 talking a certain way about a woman because she's not a high earner. 0.81
00:07:46.000 And because it, it, when like, because she's not a high earner, she's, a lot of women put 1.00
00:07:51.680 themselves in positions with certain mindsets that they want a man who is above them.
00:07:57.240 Can you name one relationship where the woman is in charge and it works? 0.99
00:08:00.700 I can't name a relationship where a man is in charge and it works. 0.96
00:08:03.960 Every single one that worked.
00:08:05.480 Every single successful relationship ever, the man is in charge.
00:08:08.880 I think it's just common knowledge.
00:08:10.200 I don't know how you look at each other.
00:08:11.440 I think it's just, that's crazy.
00:08:12.940 But the husband is, that's not crazy, but.
00:08:14.980 In your opinion.
00:08:16.200 This is every successful relationship.
00:08:18.280 This is how we are alive as the man is taking lead.
00:08:21.660 He's in charge of the household and then she's running it. 0.85
00:08:24.020 That's how it works.
00:08:24.760 It's common knowledge.
00:08:25.680 Do you not?
00:08:26.060 I'll be honest.
00:08:26.580 It's very simple.
00:08:27.460 Very, very, very, very few women would want to be with a man that's earning less than
00:08:31.120 them.
00:08:31.320 I wouldn't want to be with a man that's earning less than me because I'd feel like I'd have
00:08:34.680 to wear the pants in the relationship.
00:08:36.000 Exactly.
00:08:36.600 What happens when financial situations occur, I'm going to have to take the heavy load
00:08:40.380 of that because I am the breadwinner of the family.
00:08:42.520 Yeah, exactly.
00:08:43.180 And what you said, it's not just about who pays for stuff.
00:08:45.560 I mean, that's important, but it's also about respect.
00:08:47.780 Yeah.
00:08:48.120 And as I think it was Justin said before, I mean, if respect, ultimately you can't have
00:08:51.800 love without respect.
00:08:52.680 And if she doesn't respect him, she's not going to love him really.
00:08:55.380 Yeah.
00:08:55.980 Women working is actually a madness for men now. 1.00
00:08:58.300 Exactly.
00:08:58.840 Because men now need to work a lot more because women can get the same type of paying jobs as 0.67
00:09:03.240 men.
00:09:03.500 So most men that are working an average job now, they need to work 10 times harder to
00:09:09.220 be able to get a girl that works an average job. 0.99
00:09:10.600 But that's why they have this mentality of suppress a woman and feel like, okay, suppress 0.56
00:09:15.540 these women and make them think their only purpose is... 1.00
00:09:19.460 Be smaller so I can look bigger.
00:09:21.320 I don't think it's about suppressing women though.
00:09:23.440 I think it's the mentality though.
00:09:25.900 I think...
00:09:26.600 Women are like... 1.00
00:09:27.920 I think you want to be a victim so badly.
00:09:30.120 I don't want to be a victim.
00:09:31.200 I don't want to be a victim.
00:09:32.780 I'm not a victim.
00:09:33.420 It's minor feminism. 1.00
00:09:34.380 She wants to be a victim and she also wants to be in charge at the same time. 1.00
00:09:36.860 It's like he's having a normal conversation with you and you called him a misogynist.
00:09:41.280 Or you said he's vibrating.
00:09:42.760 Vibrating.
00:09:43.360 Right, right, but that's...
00:09:44.840 I'm not going to take it back because it's true.
00:09:46.460 You don't need to. 0.53
00:09:47.060 Of course, because you're going to die on your hill.
00:09:48.840 It's very obvious.
00:09:49.920 You have a very clear need to...
00:09:52.580 And I'm not the only person who feels like that.
00:09:54.140 You have a very clear need to be right.
00:09:56.160 Does anyone else vibrate with misogyny right now?
00:09:59.020 No.
00:09:59.460 You're the only one.
00:10:00.380 You're...
00:10:00.820 Anyways, I'm not the only one.
00:10:01.720 That's what you said.
00:10:02.700 You're...
00:10:03.260 Yeah, I'm sorry that I feel the vibe that you are a misogynist.
00:10:06.400 And you said you weren't the only one, but you are.
00:10:08.460 And I'm happy to be the only one who feels that way.
00:10:10.600 You've got to be more specific though.
00:10:11.860 You can't throw an accusation at somebody.
00:10:14.400 It's like...
00:10:14.900 I know this isn't a court of law, but you can't just throw an accusation against somebody
00:10:18.120 and not substantiate it other than by saying, well, this is what I feel.
00:10:21.100 He's made clear points. 1.00
00:10:22.100 He's moving like girls are stupid. 1.00
00:10:23.700 That's why. 1.00
00:10:24.660 No, he's just speaking assertively and you guys took it.
00:10:26.920 And girls are this. 1.00
00:10:27.120 Danava, it's because you're acting stupid. 1.00
00:10:30.600 I'm not acting stupid. 1.00
00:10:31.620 It's because of yourself. 0.99
00:10:31.760 Yeah, I mean, you've been saying nothing half the show.
00:10:33.820 You talk a lot without any...
00:10:35.260 Actually, when I post this content, guys, you'll see the substance that I've got.
00:10:38.860 It's just because we're in the middle of the heat.
00:10:40.320 People don't get what I'm trying to say.
00:10:41.420 You're going to edit it.
00:10:42.320 Yeah.
00:10:43.640 If you need an editor to make sense, you don't make sense.
00:10:46.900 That was wrong.
00:10:47.600 You just didn't say anything at all.
00:10:49.400 You have no point of view on anything.
00:10:51.320 Because I'm trying to fish out the information from you.
00:10:53.320 My point of view is very simple.
00:10:54.720 I don't have to agree with you.
00:10:55.420 You're trying to fish out the information?
00:10:56.840 Yes.
00:10:56.960 Is this an interrogation or a conversation?
00:10:58.540 No, it's a podcast.
00:10:59.940 It's fun.
00:11:00.680 But what I do is...
00:11:01.500 Exactly.
00:11:02.040 The way you keep looking at the TV and talking here, you're here for the entertainment value,
00:11:05.600 but you're not really here to get anywhere with the combo.
00:11:07.640 Let me tell you.
00:11:08.220 Do you know why?
00:11:08.680 I'm a teacher, yeah?
00:11:09.700 And what I do is when people say certain things, I say things to make you understand that what you're saying
00:11:16.220 doesn't quite make a lot of sense.
00:11:17.720 Go deeper than that.
00:11:18.560 Because when you go deeper, your arguments actually don't stand. 1.00
00:11:20.940 You do act like girls are stupid. 1.00
00:11:22.260 You've tried to catch me out a million times. 1.00
00:11:24.140 I already know.
00:11:25.040 It's funny.
00:11:25.580 But he's on the opposing side of the argument to you, though.
00:11:28.640 You're never going to know about the female nature. 1.00
00:11:30.360 I'm not in the opposite of things that don't make sense.
00:11:31.900 Can I make a point? 1.00
00:11:32.740 You can't look stupid if you don't say something stupid. 1.00
00:11:35.300 I don't say anything that's stupid. 1.00
00:11:35.980 Can I say something? 1.00
00:11:37.000 I don't think he's making women look stupid. 1.00
00:11:39.140 I think he's making you look stupid. 1.00
00:11:40.740 I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform. 0.99
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