JustPearlyThings - #kingrichez DESTROYED Modern Women's Ego

00:00:00.000 is a modern woman to you um a modern woman is someone who can balance their work and family life 0.99

00:00:09.840 uh someone who is willing to grow with time um yeah that's what a modern woman is okay go ahead 1.00

00:00:21.280 wow a modern woman is and actually from the guys i want to know if you date modern women 0.99

00:00:28.320 is the second question yeah well it's it i mean most virtually all women in a in the western world now

00:00:37.760 under a certain age are modern women to various degrees um i think that modern women are 0.99

00:00:46.080 impacted and influenced whether or not they classify themselves as such by feminist ideology

00:00:53.120 um and a lot of the trappings of modern society and culture um some are some adopted all wholesale

00:01:04.480 some are more resistant but overall it's influenced and permeated through society over the last few

00:01:10.320 decades in a lot of ways and i'm sure we'll talk about that okay do you date modern women 1.00

00:01:15.600 yeah i guess okay okay go ahead um i think modern women is i agree with what you say 0.99

00:01:24.640 um also i think a lot of modern women are now based upon female rap culture so a lot of i get my own

00:01:34.320 shit a lot of independent women um i can do what i want and all of this kind of stuff um so i think the 1.00

00:01:43.120 main keyword is like this sense of independence okay um modern woman there's a million subcategories to 0.98

00:01:52.240 that there's the corrupt there's the stuck in the past and old tradition and there's the ones that

00:01:57.440 have evolved is that it yeah i'll say nothing all right so like all right so modern women in my 1.00

00:02:06.640 opinion yeah they're independent they make their own money oh i've got bmw i've got my own house yeah

00:02:13.040 boom so i don't need no man yeah and then they throw their box around tell them yeah so 1.00

00:02:18.720 yeah the vagina they throw their vagina around yeah and what they do is they sleep with certain 1.00

00:02:27.680 types of guys yeah in their prime years and then when they've collected a lot of baggage and they're 0.99

00:02:33.440 out of their prime and their value has dropped they want to get with a good guy russell wilson type

00:02:38.720 and then they think that their value is still high when it's low it's dropped significantly

00:02:42.800 bruv you know what i'm saying so so this is what i think are you are you saying that women's value

00:02:48.640 is based on on who they sleep with no no not not necessarily not necessarily that it's based on a

00:02:53.920 lot of things there's a lot of okay okay okay okay like age like the baggage mental and physical

00:02:59.040 you've collected in it like you know what i'm saying so i wouldn't trust somebody that says boom

00:03:03.360 it's my turn it's my turn still it's my turn still i asked you if you finished and you said yes

00:03:08.960 so all right cool cool i appreciate that anyway so yeah for modern women yeah do i sleep with them 1.00

00:03:15.360 yeah i sleep with them but like girlfriend like commitment there has to be like you know some kind

00:03:22.080 of traditional values there because boy modern women can be a headache can it like real talk but anyway 1.00

00:03:28.000 that's it okay auntie jenny i think modern women are women on the age of 30 over independent 0.98

00:03:36.880 women influenced by social media and spot brats who can't shut their legs and use their brains 1.00

00:03:49.760 what damn auntie you sound like villains 1.00

00:03:54.720 okay um go ahead what are women now are women are trying to complete with masculine energy 1.00

00:03:59.920 feminine energy and masculine energy come they come counter they they go together a little but someone

00:04:05.680 said it i don't know who said it said about the whole rap culture the whole women can do it by 1.00

00:04:09.840 themselves and the whole like you understand it's like buying a house if you collect if your credit

00:04:15.440 scores poor you're not able to get a mortgage and a lot of women are thinking they could go out there 1.00

00:04:20.560 but have the masculine energy collect bare souls and then come back and think a man's gonna value them 0.99

00:04:25.200 sadly enough a man's not the value for that so you have to be yourself you have to be independent to

00:04:29.760 a degree but not in the case of being a short chain you're getting a short way to get where you need to get to

00:04:33.520 okay go ahead and make sure you put bring the mic to your mouth yeah yeah there you go in my opinion

00:04:40.480 i'd say it's a lot of well these modern women they're trying to be like men but it's like men and 1.00

00:04:47.360 women are different if you really being honest you know what i'm saying and then a lot of people aren't 1.00

00:04:52.320 living their raps you get me they think they're looking at cardi b they're looking at jada waders they're

00:04:57.840 looking at beyonce's but brother you're not in that 10 so just you get me just have to humble yourself

00:05:02.800 and be real so i just feel like a lot of modern women are delusional in it but i guess we're gonna

00:05:09.680 dive into it proper okay i agree with you lot to a point but then i think modern women is a broad 0.99

00:05:18.800 statement because you've got different types of modern women you got some that are going out there 1.00

00:05:24.160 working getting their bag but then they'll be committed at home looking after their man doing

00:05:29.360 everything you know what i mean so two types of modern women oh i think it's a broad statement 0.97

00:05:35.600 do you do you date them do you date modern women okay okay go ahead no he has a mic

00:05:44.000 i have my own are we defining modern women as uh i'm asking what you would define what i would yeah how

00:05:51.120 would you describe a modern woman i don't know because uh like a lot of you guys say the times

00:05:55.600 have changed right so if the times have changed then what you would define that as is also very

00:06:00.960 different than what my mom or my grandma would have been back then they might have been but my mom might

00:06:06.240 have been a little more progressive than you know what you would consider modern what i would consider

00:06:11.360 modern today um the everyday woman if i'm looking at numbers from around the globe if i'm not just looking

00:06:18.000 at my little bubble that i'm in like in london or somewhere um yeah modern women are people haven't 1.00

00:06:24.240 changed people think they've changed because they like auntie said they're in um social media bubbles

00:06:29.360 they think that things are different than they are but they've never been to cities and countries where

00:06:34.400 it's very much the same as it's always been so modern women modern men same thing it really hasn't

00:06:40.800 changed why date yeah of course um i don't think that the average person is caught up with what

00:06:49.360 media and social media is put out so do i think that people go like you know everyone's like you

00:06:54.640 were saying men and women are different i think most of the world still agrees with that from where i've 0.98

00:06:58.240 been where i've seen i think they still agree with that so uh yeah but you date of course yeah yeah

00:07:05.040 okay easily alex all right uh the modern woman is a walking contradiction so they are generally 1.00

00:07:13.680 narcissists um and they are the first women in i think probably most of history that they tend to 1.00

00:07:19.040 destroy what they love and chase what they hate uh they have a number of things they want but generally

00:07:25.120 i think the modern woman doesn't want to love i think the modern woman wants to feel more than anything

00:07:29.520 i have a question for you who hurt you emotional defense do you say the same thing when women say 1.00

00:07:40.480 men are trash you say you say the same thing okay who broke your heart's his thoughts are you gonna mend

00:07:47.840 do you have do you have a response to that alex who hurt me yeah yeah i do the hurtin maybe it's karma then 0.99

00:08:01.440 i'm a pisces as well actually

00:08:05.440 i'm the better pisces zodiac signs yeah okay

00:08:10.880 what is the modern woman i think there are different forms of a modern woman but i think a lot of it now

00:08:16.960 is to do with money morals go out the window in replacement for money and i often look at people

00:08:22.400 and what they're flaunting and think it's basically prostitution like you're saying you'll do this give 0.99

00:08:27.120 this in return for a bag i don't understand that like if you're going to have sex with someone do it

00:08:31.680 because you want to i don't agree with doing it in favor for material items but then on the other

00:08:38.000 side there's also other modern women who exist coexist alongside them women who are good women they've 1.00

00:08:43.840 also had to obviously move through the times and become independent but they're also taking care

00:08:48.560 of all the other traditional aspects at the same time that's the type of modern women that i rate 1.00

00:08:54.720 okay so next question talking about happiness now do you think that marriage slash relationships

00:09:01.280 are about happiness um i think they're more about compromise and with compromise comes happiness

00:09:10.160 and kind of i guess understanding having that connection having that empathy having that chemistry

00:09:17.840 is all ingredients towards happiness but yeah it's a it's a work in progress it's a journey that's how i feel

00:09:23.120 um a relationship to some degree a marriage specifically actually no i think that happiness

00:09:33.520 is a part it's a component and it's obviously a byproduct of a happy and healthy marriage but i think

00:09:40.080 if the primary goal of a marriage is just based around happiness emotions are fleeting so if the only

00:09:47.040 thing holding your marriage or long-term relationship together is both people feeling happy all the

00:09:54.320 time then that marriage is going to fail because it's not a realistic goal and i think it's actually

00:10:00.960 a very childish way to go into it i think if you have a good happy healthy marriage then of course you will

00:10:06.720 overall be happy and be content but i don't think it should be set up with the intention that that is

00:10:12.560 going to be the goal all the time or you're going to fall short of that because no one can be happy

00:10:17.520 all the time yeah i agree i don't think the primary goal is happiness um i think it's more about you

00:10:25.680 know how you develop independently and then how you develop together as a unit um you're never going

00:10:31.920 to be 100 happy i mean that's the one person that's going to annoy the out of you

00:10:38.320 like no one else that's going to push your buttons but how you come back from that is basically what's

00:10:44.160 going to bring that happiness you know like you know make up sex and stuff like that you know so

00:10:50.000 i don't think yeah like you said if if you're striving for 100 happiness i just think that's fake

00:10:55.680 that's a fake marriage so i just think that's not idealistic at all to me happiness is peace of

00:11:02.880 mind so a marriage is for you to be in a partnership that no matter how difficult or how amazing things

00:11:09.520 are you always have that peace of mind if things are bad you're going to work together to make them

00:11:14.160 better if things are happy and good and positive you enjoy them together but happiness doesn't

00:11:19.120 necessarily mean you need to have positive things all the time it's just how you look at things so my

00:11:23.440 husband baby support me into feeling positive about most things even when things are bad

00:11:27.920 is marriage um is marriage slash relationships about happiness because nowadays people don't

00:11:41.920 even get married it's about duty okay you know what i'm saying because obviously when you get

00:11:46.320 married yeah like obviously it's basically a business transaction when you think about it like

00:11:50.480 people get gassed about love love love bro like bro love is is not unconditional but there's conditions

00:11:56.000 to that bro like everyone has to play their position do you know what i'm saying if you mess up whether

00:12:01.040 it's the man or the woman brother someone's gonna should hold you accountable like you know what i'm

00:12:05.600 saying like bro like this is not what i signed up for yeah then especially if you have children involved

00:12:10.720 but there's even a larger amount of duty involved do you get i'm saying a lot of us we didn't even come

00:12:17.600 from families where we come from marriage you know i'm saying like i know me personally and most of my

00:12:23.840 friends didn't come from no home where we had our mom and our dad most of us was just like our mom

00:12:28.160 you know saying like so a lot of us don't even know what it looks like we've not experienced it

00:12:33.360 so like not to not to be funny but like when i hear people's um like idea of what it is like most

00:12:41.600 of us don't even really know we're just we're just saying what we think in it like but is that really

00:12:45.920 what it is because um if you ask people from the 1950s they probably have something different to say

00:12:51.600 you know what i'm saying so like that's just realistically i'm not married i haven't been

00:12:56.160 married i don't have kids so i don't know you know what i'm saying like i just got an idea of

00:13:00.080 what it may look like but when i get into it if i ever get into that yeah it might it might be

00:13:05.520 something else like you know i mean but i think more than anything is duty in it like you know what

00:13:09.520 i'm saying if you have that mindset if it's duty you're more inclined to stick with it you get

00:13:14.000 what i'm saying so that's what i think i just think that when two people get together

00:13:21.920 but when they go into marriage i just believe that a man can't make you happy you're supposed

00:13:26.320 to be happy and he's supposed to make you happier same thing goes the other way around because a lot

00:13:32.320 of people go into relationships or marriage thinking oh he or she's gonna make me happy

00:13:38.000 and they're not happy to start with so i just think in relationships happiness is a bonus

00:13:43.520 it's something that you grow to have but you've got to be happy before you enter relationship

00:13:49.440 and then the person make you happier like me i was always happy my man makes me happier if i

00:13:54.720 wasn't with him i'd still be happy but just not as happy as i am when i'm with him

00:14:00.960 like auntie said you have to like and love yourself before you can like and love others in it

00:14:04.880 so if you're going into a relationship like she said it's a bonus so they're added to your bonus you're

00:14:08.880 not going in there like expecting them to make you happy you should be happy in yourself however that

00:14:13.840 person you meet you have to understand the uncompromisables and stuff you compromise on

00:14:17.680 so when you get into a relationship you have to understand that i will compromise with this i

00:14:21.040 won't compromise on that that's the reason you get into relationship knowing that they're good

00:14:23.920 they're bad and they're uglies you're getting there naked and you go in there blindsided you're

00:14:28.320 going to be oh my god i can't believe this person like that but when you get into a relationship

00:14:32.080 again some brother said it's a it's a financial commitment it's a partnership commitment it's all

00:14:37.440 these things mixed in one to get to where you need to get to and that happiness comes from yourself

00:14:42.320 but when they're together and you understand what they like that's an added bonus to yourself that's

00:14:46.080 my opinion on it anyway yeah well just touching up on what he said and what auntie said literally

00:14:52.080 like if you're not happy within yourself wait it's going to be very hard to make yourself happy you

00:14:57.200 know what i'm saying and if you rely on someone else for the happiness you've already felt so a lot

00:15:02.320 of people they don't see that a relationship is they have their self and then they've got the

00:15:08.160 relationship you get me so it's like when you come into a relationship you should both be

00:15:12.800 complementing each other in different ways and you should understand and no one's perfect

00:15:16.560 you get me some people got everyone's got flaws but you need to understand the flaws that you can

00:15:21.120 tolerate you know what i'm saying because you can't just be like oh from the start in the first three

00:15:25.680 months it was all good everything did it do it's always always it's always good at the start you get me

00:15:29.840 you know delve into stuff you see true people's colors and stuff like that you now have to understand

00:15:34.880 like yo boom this is the flaws this is the good you put that together that's what makes the person

00:15:40.640 the person you get me you can't pick and choose what you like from someone and then have an ideology

00:15:45.200 of someone that's where it just starts getting into that you're never going to be happy if you're

00:15:48.880 chasing happiness it's like i'm sorry for the swearing but it's like people that take them mad

00:15:54.320 drugs heroin and they always say that the first time's the mad and they chase the hit if you're going

00:15:58.160 to get happy from the first time you butt that person and then you're just chasing the happiness all

00:16:02.240 the time you ain't ever going to be happy so you just got to make sure you're happy from the start

00:16:08.720 um for me the main thing really is that it's more of a conscious effort to make your partner happy

00:16:16.880 you know what i mean so there might be things that you don't want to do but you do it anyway because

00:16:21.840 you know it's going to make the person you live happy so that's the main thing

00:16:26.080 i um do not like the word compromise because compromise means one if not both members of the

00:16:35.360 party do is not happy with the agreement i prefer cooperation right you have to cooperate to get to

00:16:41.360 an end goal of what you want you know what i mean so i removed that from it as a quick little story

00:16:46.240 i had an uber driver one time who he i asked him he was driving and he was missing his thumb i said what

00:16:52.560 happened to your thumb just tell me what happened to your thumb so we can do this drive because i'm 0.85

00:16:56.000 an asshole and uh he was like oh i got cut off when i met my wife i said what happened he said oh dude 0.98

00:17:02.640 she was dating cut my thumb off at a bar fight he's from saudi arabia or somewhere um i don't remember 0.99

00:17:08.320 because i don't pay attention to where people are from i don't care and um so he got his finger cut

00:17:14.000 off and he was 14 when he met this woman she was 14 the guy she was dating was 20 uh but you know r kelly and so

00:17:20.560 uh it is what it is and uh he was like 60 at this point and i said well what did you do he goes

00:17:27.520 you know we got his thing it was a whole thing eventually long story short she saved my finger 0.95

00:17:31.440 she took my finger to the hospital where i was they tried to sew it back on but where i'm from the

00:17:35.840 medicine was not where it should be and i said so how long have you been married he said i've been

00:17:40.880 married 50 years and i go how did you not cheat he goes what do you mean i go i mean how did you not 0.98

00:17:46.320 cheat or leave like 50 years is a long time to not put your penis somewhere else no offense 0.97

00:17:50.240 ladies uh i'm sure it's the same for you but it's a long time to get along he said oh i don't 0.99

00:17:55.120 compromise my wife we cooperate and it's my duty is what he said and he said the other thing is

00:18:01.840 there's not happiness there's not love every day i don't love her every day i'm not happy with her

00:18:06.720 every day but i respect her every day he goes if you don't respect the person that you meet and that

00:18:12.880 you marry and that you're with forever it'll never work he was like some days i want to throw her through a

00:18:18.160 wall because i don't like her i don't love her she said something she pissed me off she pressed me 1.00

00:18:24.080 and i'm over it he goes but you know what she's the mother of my children she's been with me for 50 1.00

00:18:29.120 years she took my finger to the hospital to try to get it sewn back on i respect this person he goes so

00:18:36.720 that's why i'm with it and that's why i'm together with her i forgot the question but that's all i had to

00:18:41.360 say can i ask you a question about that yeah what age group was them oh he was i was 27 at that point

00:18:49.200 that was 10 years ago and he was almost 60 then yeah so is that it's an older it's an older mindset

00:18:55.120 it's an older mindset where he said i don't compromise because that doesn't make any sense i

00:18:59.680 cooperate with her so we can get to an end goal because it's that's our duty and i respect her no

00:19:05.120 matter what she respects me as well but i respect her but like my point was like them women of that 0.99

00:19:10.960 generation that's that's different women bro it's very different it's a very it's also a very 0.94

00:19:14.960 different culture than what we're using in the west they're the same women that raised us though 0.98

00:19:19.440 it's very true it's very true but but the same but i don't know what did that be wouldn't that be

00:19:24.800 our grandparents generation almost because i don't because it seems like there's like a change when

00:19:30.480 it's like the our parents like it seems like our grandparents like our grandparents were the ones

00:19:35.920 like man had side chick across town she still stayed yeah my my my granddad has a whole had two

00:19:43.040 other whole families yeah and it is what it is but i don't i don't like growing up my grandma was my rock

00:19:50.400 right my anything my mom and dad told me get out of here like i don't they weren't the parents that

00:19:55.360 they could have been no offense you know what they could have been so the way i look at it is i look at

00:20:00.400 that older generation and i go okay respect duty and cooperation is the only way that long-term thing

00:20:08.080 can can possibly work like auntie was saying like everybody was saying the happiness is fleeting

00:20:13.920 that's not gonna stay like even today like we was all joking and laughing in there but if people saw

00:20:18.720 that part they would be like how are they different now like we're very calm everybody cool now right

00:20:23.520 but we were talking earlier everybody's having a great time earlier we could talk a little more

00:20:29.600 but i'm saying like even in this moment even in this room we switched up didn't we everybody switched

00:20:33.920 up to be oh i'm gonna be on camera i gotta be cool and so it's like that kind of that energy so i

00:20:39.040 really respect that everybody you know yeah i'm not gonna overtake you go ahead they got two more

00:20:43.200 just quickly throw some wood in the fire so you know like this is why it's nice to look at the women 1.00

00:20:48.640 but look at the men as well he said the man the uber driver said it's about compromise i was not

00:20:54.480 compromise it's about cooperation i respect her so it's a duality we can never just look at the

00:20:59.280 modern woman to be the one that doesn't know how to cooperate because the man the ones that say 1.00

00:21:03.520 submission so did all of this type of stuff so ham is that's the problem well but i think i think the

00:21:08.800 idea is that if 70 to 80 percent of women are leaving then like you start with the 70 to 80 percent 1.00

00:21:14.240 before you look at the 30. yeah that's great but surely we want the 70 to turn into like the 30s

00:21:21.040 everybody to get married his wife was a housewife she did submit i don't know if that's important

00:21:26.400 well i don't know if that's what he's saying he said operation but they cooperated like how they

00:21:31.920 wanted their relationship to work so she how does it get to a point where sometimes you be like

00:21:36.400 sometimes i want to throw through a wall 50 years exactly so is that constant submission i don't think

00:21:44.000 so because challenges in marriage coming from those things it's respect i think the idea is

00:21:49.200 though in a long marriage like at the end of the day someone has to make the final decision exactly

00:21:53.440 like like someone has to lead the relationship in cooperation and respect it doesn't come to a veto

00:21:59.520 well yeah but there's but there's but there's different ways to do it like okay if there's a ceo

00:22:04.080 of a company and he knows that this employee is like disgruntled when he works this way he may

00:22:08.560 compromise what he wants to do in order to make the employee happy at times but it's still his decision

00:22:14.720 yeah but i still get my will which means that the disgruntled person the one that made the

00:22:19.040 complaint and said this is not cool ceo actually you're making the wrong decision the ceo will

00:22:23.680 analyze and say okay cool which means that the lack of submission from the employee actually made the

00:22:27.920 ceo because it is his decision and that's what i'm saying right but there's a way to like bring up

00:22:33.920 your disagreements in like a submissive way where it's like it's like you you bring it up politely but

00:22:39.920 you still know he's making the final decision not you that then comes down to respect and not

00:22:44.160 submission but why is being polite submissive exactly is respect i i think the idea i'm sorry

00:22:50.000 i might have misspoke but i'm saying like like because a lot of girls will come off very argumentative 1.00

00:22:54.080 and they they just want to like get their point across and just like they're frustrated and i'm

00:22:57.680 saying like like you can bring up a concern but the idea is like i trust you to make the decision

00:23:02.320 i i think a lot of i think a lot of women i think a lot of modern women get hung up on the word 0.99

00:23:07.840 submission yeah it's it's it's the word itself can we correct that to everybody gets a bit confused

00:23:18.160 with submission because not just the girls i'm telling you now i brought that up because the 0.91

00:23:21.600 man damn thing submission is shut up your mind well but you you get to no no no no that's not the guys 0.98

00:23:30.160 like that that's the kind of guys that listen to you told me you told me last time man was here 1.00

00:23:37.120 some guy was telling bitch your mind that's what submission is and people were like yeah like 1.00

00:23:41.040 shut up who said that last show who said that last show i was here no oh my god that time that was 0.99

00:23:49.280 the guy that was sitting here was that and that's what a lot of men think that they think submission 0.95

00:23:52.880 is that you tell your woman to shut up because i'm the man okay no but i'm saying i'm saying okay

00:23:57.120 that's what other guys said they come for me on the on the comments all the time no no no no no

00:24:01.680 that's that's why they come for you no i think i think the idea last show was that you you were

00:24:08.480 talking about like you dated the rapper right no we're talking about submission

00:24:12.640 okay

00:24:17.200 i would like to write them but that's not different you like bad boys no no i no i like one bad boy on the

00:24:23.200 rebound that's the biggest mistake we actually have a question what do you think of michael just like

00:24:27.200 do you know what why are you doing that why are you doing that i love this question

00:24:34.160 oh you're trying it you're trying it you're trying it yeah is this like a match

00:24:39.680 match look at we said michael can i say wait yeah he didn't even yeah he didn't want to give

00:24:45.680 his government name in the beginning but wait wait wait why are you getting involved

00:24:52.080 michael is a libra right now i'll tell you what that means because i i i try trouble with

00:24:57.280 yeah okay horror assaults don't mean no it's a good way it's a point of reference for description

00:25:03.120 so i i approached him first he's got like the tattoos the gold teeth the gold jewelies

00:25:07.920 hench wait did you say you you approached him first yeah yeah i spoke to him okay okay okay

00:25:14.320 i'm a confident woman i'm afraid and i was like okay so he fits a certain stereotype he looks

00:25:19.680 like a certain way so you may come across you can make a judgment but actually hearing what he's

00:25:24.480 had to say and how he's spoken he's quite balanced he's he's just a hardcover but sweet story

00:25:30.640 can i ask can i ask can i ask can i ask you a question don't worry i've got the socials already

00:25:39.440 is he like a libra though well yeah yeah okay is that what a libra is because i've lied tons of

00:25:46.400 times just get some about my horoscope you're a pisces isn't it no oh then gemini nope gemini

00:25:57.360 nope see but i would be all those things back in the day

00:26:00.320 okay okay okay okay you said you said i love you you said my dad dad he might as well be

00:26:29.600 now off on the zero

00:26:32.000 see man they're my trouble why was the boy then

00:26:34.960 then hey i want this they didn't get to they didn't get to go

00:26:42.560 okay

00:26:45.680 an initial question on whether love relationships and marriage were based on happiness yeah

00:26:51.440 uh no it's based on practicality and you know offspring etc outside of that i have no real interest

00:26:58.640 I think marriage you have to actively get up and say I want this to work like it's not just

00:27:14.800 going to fall into your lap you have to look at it like almost a job like you're going to commit

00:27:18.800 to this person respect them take their feelings into consideration you have to literally get up

00:27:23.680 and actively work on it every day or it's not going to work basically okay so what do you guys think

00:27:31.840 of women that say never settle 0.81

00:27:38.880 you know i want to hear from the guys first that means that men have settled

00:27:42.400 zuby why don't you start i'll start yeah um they're gonna end up very lonely for a long time

00:27:48.640 um it's it's not realistic look the truth is everyone there's always some degree of

00:27:56.320 settling it's a bit it's a little bit of a weird term like i know what people mean when they say

00:28:01.120 never settle but if you were to take that literally nobody is perfect you're not going to find anyone

00:28:07.200 who takes absolutely every single box and never annoys you and doesn't have little habits and

00:28:14.640 quirks and personality traits that bother you at times that's just the reality we have this with

00:28:19.200 our own friendships we have this with our own families right um so i think it's good not to

00:28:26.320 settle on your non-negotiables right if you've got certain deal breakers or there are certain red flags

00:28:32.880 and i don't recommend settling on a massive red flag or something that just is not going to work

00:28:39.120 but when it comes to the smaller minor stuff if someone still has that never settle mentality

00:28:44.320 then you're never going to you're not going to be happy with anybody in any relationship for a

00:28:47.840 long period of time because they're always going to do certain things that annoy you and there's

00:28:51.600 going to be stuff you're not totally happy about so yeah it's like a polite it's like a polite way

00:28:57.200 of saying die alone yeah yeah with cats there's cats there's there's cats sometimes dogs but cats

00:29:06.000 seem to be the preferred nowadays you got only friends as well don't forget that yeah that's only going

00:29:11.120 to work for a couple years as well you'd better you'd better be young and you'd better be hot

00:29:16.400 okay bro invest in cat food bro

00:29:21.200 hey there's stocks in petco all of that bro because at the end of the day all this never

00:29:25.760 settle and all of this like bro like you're just gonna be old on your own drinking wine yeah like

00:29:31.360 eating ice cream and bro like you're gonna lose bro simple like all these girls need to understand 0.80

00:29:37.840 because it's like what i said earlier yeah a lot of these girls get older they collect baggage and 1.00

00:29:41.760 they think their value goes up or it stays the same no it don't as you get older yeah the guys on your

00:29:47.760 level especially if you make a lot of money because of hypergamy you're gonna want to date up a lot of 0.98

00:29:52.240 them guys on your level or higher are gonna want younger women bruv yeah so understand this thing like

00:29:58.000 bro like all this never settle thing everybody settles bro it's just and it's the same for guys as well 0.99

00:30:03.120 like you might be a guy that oh yeah i just want to go with big tits and a big bum bro like and then 1.00

00:30:07.920 down the line you see them with a girl that's flat you know what i'm saying like flat like pancakes 0.99

00:30:12.240 and fried eggs like that that's like bro like no but it's real though like even some certain times

00:30:16.880 you see rappers like you see rappers you look at their wife and you think raw like you're a rapper

00:30:22.560 you're whoever and then your wife is like kind of playing because he's settled and and bro like

00:30:27.840 bill gates like all these kind of people mark zuckerberg you see their girlfriends they're not bad 0.62

00:30:32.480 bitches like that do you get what i'm saying so everybody settles but the problem is with a lot 1.00

00:30:37.200 of these girls who make bare money and all of this i'm not gonna settle until i get this guy that makes 1.00

00:30:41.040 six figures a year and or six figures a month yeah bro like i'm sorry it don't go like that and there's

00:30:46.800 always new 18 year olds that come out every year bro so stop chatting or you can be on your own

00:30:54.080 and yeah as i said invest in pet food bruv pet stocks get me they're going up still

00:30:59.200 you know what it is yeah some women build up a delusional mindset because they spend a lot of 1.00

00:31:05.280 their time banging the one percent of guys that will bang them anyway because that's what guys doing

00:31:12.240 pump and dump it's cool pump and dump my bro and then they think because they're banged with these 0.59

00:31:16.080 guys in the top one percent that they should be able to settle i have a question for the guys

00:31:23.360 have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with

00:31:25.920 have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with multiple times

00:31:40.480 you know what you know what it is because what we don't understand you that for men it's just a

00:31:50.560 nut have you have you ever had a long-term situationship with a girl you would never be

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JustPearlyThings - October 31, 2023

#kingrichez DESTROYED Modern Women's Ego

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