#kingrichez DESTROYED Modern Women's Ego
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In this episode, we discuss what a modern woman is, how to date modern women, and what it means to be a woman in modern society and culture. We also discuss modern women in the modern world and how they are influenced by female rap culture.
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is a modern woman to you um a modern woman is someone who can balance their work and family life
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uh someone who is willing to grow with time um yeah that's what a modern woman is okay go ahead
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wow a modern woman is and actually from the guys i want to know if you date modern women
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is the second question yeah well it's it i mean most virtually all women in a in the western world now
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under a certain age are modern women to various degrees um i think that modern women are
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impacted and influenced whether or not they classify themselves as such by feminist ideology
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um and a lot of the trappings of modern society and culture um some are some adopted all wholesale
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some are more resistant but overall it's influenced and permeated through society over the last few
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decades in a lot of ways and i'm sure we'll talk about that okay do you date modern women
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yeah i guess okay okay go ahead um i think modern women is i agree with what you say
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um also i think a lot of modern women are now based upon female rap culture so a lot of i get my own
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shit a lot of independent women um i can do what i want and all of this kind of stuff um so i think the
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main keyword is like this sense of independence okay um modern woman there's a million subcategories to
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that there's the corrupt there's the stuck in the past and old tradition and there's the ones that
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have evolved is that it yeah i'll say nothing all right so like all right so modern women in my
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opinion yeah they're independent they make their own money oh i've got bmw i've got my own house yeah
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boom so i don't need no man yeah and then they throw their box around tell them yeah so
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yeah the vagina they throw their vagina around yeah and what they do is they sleep with certain
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types of guys yeah in their prime years and then when they've collected a lot of baggage and they're
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out of their prime and their value has dropped they want to get with a good guy russell wilson type
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and then they think that their value is still high when it's low it's dropped significantly
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bruv you know what i'm saying so so this is what i think are you are you saying that women's value
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is based on on who they sleep with no no not not necessarily not necessarily that it's based on a
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lot of things there's a lot of okay okay okay okay like age like the baggage mental and physical
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you've collected in it like you know what i'm saying so i wouldn't trust somebody that says boom
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it's my turn it's my turn still it's my turn still i asked you if you finished and you said yes
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so all right cool cool i appreciate that anyway so yeah for modern women yeah do i sleep with them
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yeah i sleep with them but like girlfriend like commitment there has to be like you know some kind
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of traditional values there because boy modern women can be a headache can it like real talk but anyway
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that's it okay auntie jenny i think modern women are women on the age of 30 over independent
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women influenced by social media and spot brats who can't shut their legs and use their brains
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okay um go ahead what are women now are women are trying to complete with masculine energy
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feminine energy and masculine energy come they come counter they they go together a little but someone
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said it i don't know who said it said about the whole rap culture the whole women can do it by
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themselves and the whole like you understand it's like buying a house if you collect if your credit
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scores poor you're not able to get a mortgage and a lot of women are thinking they could go out there
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but have the masculine energy collect bare souls and then come back and think a man's gonna value them
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sadly enough a man's not the value for that so you have to be yourself you have to be independent to
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a degree but not in the case of being a short chain you're getting a short way to get where you need to get to
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okay go ahead and make sure you put bring the mic to your mouth yeah yeah there you go in my opinion
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i'd say it's a lot of well these modern women they're trying to be like men but it's like men and
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women are different if you really being honest you know what i'm saying and then a lot of people aren't
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living their raps you get me they think they're looking at cardi b they're looking at jada waders they're
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looking at beyonce's but brother you're not in that 10 so just you get me just have to humble yourself
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and be real so i just feel like a lot of modern women are delusional in it but i guess we're gonna
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dive into it proper okay i agree with you lot to a point but then i think modern women is a broad
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statement because you've got different types of modern women you got some that are going out there
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working getting their bag but then they'll be committed at home looking after their man doing
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everything you know what i mean so two types of modern women oh i think it's a broad statement
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do you do you date them do you date modern women okay okay go ahead no he has a mic
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i have my own are we defining modern women as uh i'm asking what you would define what i would yeah how
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would you describe a modern woman i don't know because uh like a lot of you guys say the times
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have changed right so if the times have changed then what you would define that as is also very
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different than what my mom or my grandma would have been back then they might have been but my mom might
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have been a little more progressive than you know what you would consider modern what i would consider
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modern today um the everyday woman if i'm looking at numbers from around the globe if i'm not just looking
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at my little bubble that i'm in like in london or somewhere um yeah modern women are people haven't
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changed people think they've changed because they like auntie said they're in um social media bubbles
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they think that things are different than they are but they've never been to cities and countries where
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it's very much the same as it's always been so modern women modern men same thing it really hasn't
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changed why date yeah of course um i don't think that the average person is caught up with what
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media and social media is put out so do i think that people go like you know everyone's like you
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were saying men and women are different i think most of the world still agrees with that from where i've
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been where i've seen i think they still agree with that so uh yeah but you date of course yeah yeah
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okay easily alex all right uh the modern woman is a walking contradiction so they are generally
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narcissists um and they are the first women in i think probably most of history that they tend to
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destroy what they love and chase what they hate uh they have a number of things they want but generally
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i think the modern woman doesn't want to love i think the modern woman wants to feel more than anything
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i have a question for you who hurt you emotional defense do you say the same thing when women say
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men are trash you say you say the same thing okay who broke your heart's his thoughts are you gonna mend
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do you have do you have a response to that alex who hurt me yeah yeah i do the hurtin maybe it's karma then
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what is the modern woman i think there are different forms of a modern woman but i think a lot of it now
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is to do with money morals go out the window in replacement for money and i often look at people
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and what they're flaunting and think it's basically prostitution like you're saying you'll do this give
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this in return for a bag i don't understand that like if you're going to have sex with someone do it
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because you want to i don't agree with doing it in favor for material items but then on the other
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side there's also other modern women who exist coexist alongside them women who are good women they've
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also had to obviously move through the times and become independent but they're also taking care
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of all the other traditional aspects at the same time that's the type of modern women that i rate
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okay so next question talking about happiness now do you think that marriage slash relationships
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are about happiness um i think they're more about compromise and with compromise comes happiness
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and kind of i guess understanding having that connection having that empathy having that chemistry
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is all ingredients towards happiness but yeah it's a it's a work in progress it's a journey that's how i feel
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um a relationship to some degree a marriage specifically actually no i think that happiness
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is a part it's a component and it's obviously a byproduct of a happy and healthy marriage but i think
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if the primary goal of a marriage is just based around happiness emotions are fleeting so if the only
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thing holding your marriage or long-term relationship together is both people feeling happy all the
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time then that marriage is going to fail because it's not a realistic goal and i think it's actually
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a very childish way to go into it i think if you have a good happy healthy marriage then of course you will
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overall be happy and be content but i don't think it should be set up with the intention that that is
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going to be the goal all the time or you're going to fall short of that because no one can be happy
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all the time yeah i agree i don't think the primary goal is happiness um i think it's more about you
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know how you develop independently and then how you develop together as a unit um you're never going
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to be 100 happy i mean that's the one person that's going to annoy the out of you
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like no one else that's going to push your buttons but how you come back from that is basically what's
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going to bring that happiness you know like you know make up sex and stuff like that you know so
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i don't think yeah like you said if if you're striving for 100 happiness i just think that's fake
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that's a fake marriage so i just think that's not idealistic at all to me happiness is peace of
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mind so a marriage is for you to be in a partnership that no matter how difficult or how amazing things
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are you always have that peace of mind if things are bad you're going to work together to make them
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better if things are happy and good and positive you enjoy them together but happiness doesn't
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necessarily mean you need to have positive things all the time it's just how you look at things so my
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husband baby support me into feeling positive about most things even when things are bad
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is marriage um is marriage slash relationships about happiness because nowadays people don't
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even get married it's about duty okay you know what i'm saying because obviously when you get
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married yeah like obviously it's basically a business transaction when you think about it like
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people get gassed about love love love bro like bro love is is not unconditional but there's conditions
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to that bro like everyone has to play their position do you know what i'm saying if you mess up whether
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it's the man or the woman brother someone's gonna should hold you accountable like you know what i'm
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saying like bro like this is not what i signed up for yeah then especially if you have children involved
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but there's even a larger amount of duty involved do you get i'm saying a lot of us we didn't even come
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from families where we come from marriage you know i'm saying like i know me personally and most of my
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friends didn't come from no home where we had our mom and our dad most of us was just like our mom
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you know saying like so a lot of us don't even know what it looks like we've not experienced it
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so like not to not to be funny but like when i hear people's um like idea of what it is like most
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of us don't even really know we're just we're just saying what we think in it like but is that really
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what it is because um if you ask people from the 1950s they probably have something different to say
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you know what i'm saying so like that's just realistically i'm not married i haven't been
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married i don't have kids so i don't know you know what i'm saying like i just got an idea of
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what it may look like but when i get into it if i ever get into that yeah it might it might be
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something else like you know i mean but i think more than anything is duty in it like you know what
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i'm saying if you have that mindset if it's duty you're more inclined to stick with it you get
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what i'm saying so that's what i think i just think that when two people get together
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but when they go into marriage i just believe that a man can't make you happy you're supposed
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to be happy and he's supposed to make you happier same thing goes the other way around because a lot
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of people go into relationships or marriage thinking oh he or she's gonna make me happy
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and they're not happy to start with so i just think in relationships happiness is a bonus
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it's something that you grow to have but you've got to be happy before you enter relationship
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and then the person make you happier like me i was always happy my man makes me happier if i
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wasn't with him i'd still be happy but just not as happy as i am when i'm with him
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like auntie said you have to like and love yourself before you can like and love others in it
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so if you're going into a relationship like she said it's a bonus so they're added to your bonus you're
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not going in there like expecting them to make you happy you should be happy in yourself however that
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person you meet you have to understand the uncompromisables and stuff you compromise on
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so when you get into a relationship you have to understand that i will compromise with this i
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won't compromise on that that's the reason you get into relationship knowing that they're good
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they're bad and they're uglies you're getting there naked and you go in there blindsided you're
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going to be oh my god i can't believe this person like that but when you get into a relationship
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again some brother said it's a it's a financial commitment it's a partnership commitment it's all
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these things mixed in one to get to where you need to get to and that happiness comes from yourself
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but when they're together and you understand what they like that's an added bonus to yourself that's
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my opinion on it anyway yeah well just touching up on what he said and what auntie said literally
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like if you're not happy within yourself wait it's going to be very hard to make yourself happy you
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know what i'm saying and if you rely on someone else for the happiness you've already felt so a lot
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of people they don't see that a relationship is they have their self and then they've got the
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relationship you get me so it's like when you come into a relationship you should both be
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complementing each other in different ways and you should understand and no one's perfect
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you get me some people got everyone's got flaws but you need to understand the flaws that you can
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tolerate you know what i'm saying because you can't just be like oh from the start in the first three
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months it was all good everything did it do it's always always it's always good at the start you get me
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you know delve into stuff you see true people's colors and stuff like that you now have to understand
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like yo boom this is the flaws this is the good you put that together that's what makes the person
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the person you get me you can't pick and choose what you like from someone and then have an ideology
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of someone that's where it just starts getting into that you're never going to be happy if you're
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chasing happiness it's like i'm sorry for the swearing but it's like people that take them mad
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drugs heroin and they always say that the first time's the mad and they chase the hit if you're going
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to get happy from the first time you butt that person and then you're just chasing the happiness all
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the time you ain't ever going to be happy so you just got to make sure you're happy from the start
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um for me the main thing really is that it's more of a conscious effort to make your partner happy
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you know what i mean so there might be things that you don't want to do but you do it anyway because
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you know it's going to make the person you live happy so that's the main thing
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i um do not like the word compromise because compromise means one if not both members of the
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party do is not happy with the agreement i prefer cooperation right you have to cooperate to get to
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an end goal of what you want you know what i mean so i removed that from it as a quick little story
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i had an uber driver one time who he i asked him he was driving and he was missing his thumb i said what
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happened to your thumb just tell me what happened to your thumb so we can do this drive because i'm
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an asshole and uh he was like oh i got cut off when i met my wife i said what happened he said oh dude
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she was dating cut my thumb off at a bar fight he's from saudi arabia or somewhere um i don't remember
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because i don't pay attention to where people are from i don't care and um so he got his finger cut
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off and he was 14 when he met this woman she was 14 the guy she was dating was 20 uh but you know r kelly and so
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uh it is what it is and uh he was like 60 at this point and i said well what did you do he goes
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you know we got his thing it was a whole thing eventually long story short she saved my finger
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she took my finger to the hospital where i was they tried to sew it back on but where i'm from the
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medicine was not where it should be and i said so how long have you been married he said i've been
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married 50 years and i go how did you not cheat he goes what do you mean i go i mean how did you not
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cheat or leave like 50 years is a long time to not put your penis somewhere else no offense
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ladies uh i'm sure it's the same for you but it's a long time to get along he said oh i don't
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compromise my wife we cooperate and it's my duty is what he said and he said the other thing is
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there's not happiness there's not love every day i don't love her every day i'm not happy with her
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every day but i respect her every day he goes if you don't respect the person that you meet and that
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you marry and that you're with forever it'll never work he was like some days i want to throw her through a
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wall because i don't like her i don't love her she said something she pissed me off she pressed me
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and i'm over it he goes but you know what she's the mother of my children she's been with me for 50
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years she took my finger to the hospital to try to get it sewn back on i respect this person he goes so
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that's why i'm with it and that's why i'm together with her i forgot the question but that's all i had to
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say can i ask you a question about that yeah what age group was them oh he was i was 27 at that point
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that was 10 years ago and he was almost 60 then yeah so is that it's an older it's an older mindset
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it's an older mindset where he said i don't compromise because that doesn't make any sense i
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cooperate with her so we can get to an end goal because it's that's our duty and i respect her no
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matter what she respects me as well but i respect her but like my point was like them women of that
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generation that's that's different women bro it's very different it's a very it's also a very
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different culture than what we're using in the west they're the same women that raised us though
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it's very true it's very true but but the same but i don't know what did that be wouldn't that be
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our grandparents generation almost because i don't because it seems like there's like a change when
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it's like the our parents like it seems like our grandparents like our grandparents were the ones
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like man had side chick across town she still stayed yeah my my my granddad has a whole had two
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other whole families yeah and it is what it is but i don't i don't like growing up my grandma was my rock
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right my anything my mom and dad told me get out of here like i don't they weren't the parents that
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they could have been no offense you know what they could have been so the way i look at it is i look at
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that older generation and i go okay respect duty and cooperation is the only way that long-term thing
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can can possibly work like auntie was saying like everybody was saying the happiness is fleeting
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that's not gonna stay like even today like we was all joking and laughing in there but if people saw
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that part they would be like how are they different now like we're very calm everybody cool now right
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but we were talking earlier everybody's having a great time earlier we could talk a little more
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but i'm saying like even in this moment even in this room we switched up didn't we everybody switched
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up to be oh i'm gonna be on camera i gotta be cool and so it's like that kind of that energy so i
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really respect that everybody you know yeah i'm not gonna overtake you go ahead they got two more
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just quickly throw some wood in the fire so you know like this is why it's nice to look at the women
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but look at the men as well he said the man the uber driver said it's about compromise i was not
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compromise it's about cooperation i respect her so it's a duality we can never just look at the
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modern woman to be the one that doesn't know how to cooperate because the man the ones that say
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submission so did all of this type of stuff so ham is that's the problem well but i think i think the
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idea is that if 70 to 80 percent of women are leaving then like you start with the 70 to 80 percent
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before you look at the 30. yeah that's great but surely we want the 70 to turn into like the 30s
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everybody to get married his wife was a housewife she did submit i don't know if that's important
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well i don't know if that's what he's saying he said operation but they cooperated like how they
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wanted their relationship to work so she how does it get to a point where sometimes you be like
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sometimes i want to throw through a wall 50 years exactly so is that constant submission i don't think
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so because challenges in marriage coming from those things it's respect i think the idea is
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though in a long marriage like at the end of the day someone has to make the final decision exactly
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like like someone has to lead the relationship in cooperation and respect it doesn't come to a veto
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well yeah but there's but there's but there's different ways to do it like okay if there's a ceo
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of a company and he knows that this employee is like disgruntled when he works this way he may
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compromise what he wants to do in order to make the employee happy at times but it's still his decision
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yeah but i still get my will which means that the disgruntled person the one that made the
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complaint and said this is not cool ceo actually you're making the wrong decision the ceo will
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analyze and say okay cool which means that the lack of submission from the employee actually made the
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ceo because it is his decision and that's what i'm saying right but there's a way to like bring up
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your disagreements in like a submissive way where it's like it's like you you bring it up politely but
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you still know he's making the final decision not you that then comes down to respect and not
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submission but why is being polite submissive exactly is respect i i think the idea i'm sorry
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i might have misspoke but i'm saying like like because a lot of girls will come off very argumentative
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and they they just want to like get their point across and just like they're frustrated and i'm
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saying like like you can bring up a concern but the idea is like i trust you to make the decision
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i i think a lot of i think a lot of women i think a lot of modern women get hung up on the word
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submission yeah it's it's it's the word itself can we correct that to everybody gets a bit confused
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with submission because not just the girls i'm telling you now i brought that up because the
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man damn thing submission is shut up your mind well but you you get to no no no no that's not the guys
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like that that's the kind of guys that listen to you told me you told me last time man was here
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some guy was telling bitch your mind that's what submission is and people were like yeah like
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shut up who said that last show who said that last show i was here no oh my god that time that was
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the guy that was sitting here was that and that's what a lot of men think that they think submission
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is that you tell your woman to shut up because i'm the man okay no but i'm saying i'm saying okay
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that's what other guys said they come for me on the on the comments all the time no no no no no
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that's that's why they come for you no i think i think the idea last show was that you you were
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talking about like you dated the rapper right no we're talking about submission
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i would like to write them but that's not different you like bad boys no no i no i like one bad boy on the
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rebound that's the biggest mistake we actually have a question what do you think of michael just like
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do you know what why are you doing that why are you doing that i love this question
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oh you're trying it you're trying it you're trying it yeah is this like a match
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match look at we said michael can i say wait yeah he didn't even yeah he didn't want to give
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his government name in the beginning but wait wait wait why are you getting involved
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michael is a libra right now i'll tell you what that means because i i i try trouble with
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yeah okay horror assaults don't mean no it's a good way it's a point of reference for description
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so i i approached him first he's got like the tattoos the gold teeth the gold jewelies
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hench wait did you say you you approached him first yeah yeah i spoke to him okay okay okay
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i'm a confident woman i'm afraid and i was like okay so he fits a certain stereotype he looks
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like a certain way so you may come across you can make a judgment but actually hearing what he's
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had to say and how he's spoken he's quite balanced he's he's just a hardcover but sweet story
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can i ask can i ask can i ask can i ask you a question don't worry i've got the socials already
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is he like a libra though well yeah yeah okay is that what a libra is because i've lied tons of
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times just get some about my horoscope you're a pisces isn't it no oh then gemini nope gemini
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nope see but i would be all those things back in the day
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okay okay okay okay you said you said i love you you said my dad dad he might as well be
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see man they're my trouble why was the boy then
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then hey i want this they didn't get to they didn't get to go
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an initial question on whether love relationships and marriage were based on happiness yeah
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uh no it's based on practicality and you know offspring etc outside of that i have no real interest
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I think marriage you have to actively get up and say I want this to work like it's not just
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going to fall into your lap you have to look at it like almost a job like you're going to commit
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to this person respect them take their feelings into consideration you have to literally get up
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and actively work on it every day or it's not going to work basically okay so what do you guys think
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you know i want to hear from the guys first that means that men have settled
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zuby why don't you start i'll start yeah um they're gonna end up very lonely for a long time
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um it's it's not realistic look the truth is everyone there's always some degree of
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settling it's a bit it's a little bit of a weird term like i know what people mean when they say
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never settle but if you were to take that literally nobody is perfect you're not going to find anyone
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who takes absolutely every single box and never annoys you and doesn't have little habits and
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quirks and personality traits that bother you at times that's just the reality we have this with
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our own friendships we have this with our own families right um so i think it's good not to
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settle on your non-negotiables right if you've got certain deal breakers or there are certain red flags
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and i don't recommend settling on a massive red flag or something that just is not going to work
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but when it comes to the smaller minor stuff if someone still has that never settle mentality
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then you're never going to you're not going to be happy with anybody in any relationship for a
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long period of time because they're always going to do certain things that annoy you and there's
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going to be stuff you're not totally happy about so yeah it's like a polite it's like a polite way
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of saying die alone yeah yeah with cats there's cats there's there's cats sometimes dogs but cats
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seem to be the preferred nowadays you got only friends as well don't forget that yeah that's only going
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to work for a couple years as well you'd better you'd better be young and you'd better be hot
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hey there's stocks in petco all of that bro because at the end of the day all this never
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settle and all of this like bro like you're just gonna be old on your own drinking wine yeah like
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eating ice cream and bro like you're gonna lose bro simple like all these girls need to understand
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because it's like what i said earlier yeah a lot of these girls get older they collect baggage and
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they think their value goes up or it stays the same no it don't as you get older yeah the guys on your
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level especially if you make a lot of money because of hypergamy you're gonna want to date up a lot of
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them guys on your level or higher are gonna want younger women bruv yeah so understand this thing like
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bro like all this never settle thing everybody settles bro it's just and it's the same for guys as well
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like you might be a guy that oh yeah i just want to go with big tits and a big bum bro like and then
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down the line you see them with a girl that's flat you know what i'm saying like flat like pancakes
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and fried eggs like that that's like bro like no but it's real though like even some certain times
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you see rappers like you see rappers you look at their wife and you think raw like you're a rapper
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you're whoever and then your wife is like kind of playing because he's settled and and bro like
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bill gates like all these kind of people mark zuckerberg you see their girlfriends they're not bad
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bitches like that do you get what i'm saying so everybody settles but the problem is with a lot
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of these girls who make bare money and all of this i'm not gonna settle until i get this guy that makes
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six figures a year and or six figures a month yeah bro like i'm sorry it don't go like that and there's
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always new 18 year olds that come out every year bro so stop chatting or you can be on your own
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and yeah as i said invest in pet food bruv pet stocks get me they're going up still
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you know what it is yeah some women build up a delusional mindset because they spend a lot of
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their time banging the one percent of guys that will bang them anyway because that's what guys doing
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pump and dump it's cool pump and dump my bro and then they think because they're banged with these
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guys in the top one percent that they should be able to settle i have a question for the guys
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have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with
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have you ever slept with a girl that you wouldn't be seen in public with multiple times
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you know what you know what it is because what we don't understand you that for men it's just a
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nut have you have you ever had a long-term situationship with a girl you would never be
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as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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