Lessons for Women Who Act Like CEO in their HOME
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How long should it take to find a good woman? How long should you wait to get a woman pregnant? How many kids should you have with a woman before you marry her? What should you look for in a woman you choose to get pregnant with? How much time should you spend with her before you commit to getting her pregnant? Do you need to see her for 3 months before you get pregnant?
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And I was like, I don't want to do this anymore.
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And I think that's another part of where all the good women have gone.
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And like Pearl was saying earlier, if you don't have the example, how are you supposed to know?
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She needs to be how I want, when I want, when I need her to be.
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So I think a first, a good woman to me, is a woman that has good family values.
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Date as many women as possible to tell the difference.
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And figure out what her relationship's like with her family and her dad.
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What do you agree with, disagree with, and what would you like to add?
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How, how, have you ever dated a girl for three months and she changes completely?
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You know when the biggest change of a woman happens?
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For me, that's when I see the biggest change in a woman.
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So you won't even really know your woman until she has a child properly.
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So in order to find a good woman, you have to get her pregnant?
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But I'm saying from my experience, I have three kids in it.
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So I saw the biggest change when the woman had a child.
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So how long should you see her before you marry her, knock her up, whatever?
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Three months is a good time to determine whether she's being genuine.
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So you got to see her for three months in order to date her?
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I mean, I don't think, as he said, you can't really determine anyone as the true person
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as they're being genuine as they say they are for like the first three months, January.
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If you've lived with someone, that's different.
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If you move in with someone, you can see the truth, like, a lot quicker.
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It's not a problem if you sleep with a woman the first night
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or you sleep with a woman two months down the line
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Because you can sleep with a woman straight away
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and have a great connection and a great relationship with her
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or a woman can hold out for six months and whatever
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and there's a man out here that will sit there for six months
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No matter how good the girl is, you ain't waiting.
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You're getting a girl from first date, like, so you don't know.
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You've just met her off the street, whatever, dating app, whatever.
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But I don't know, but the thing is, I've done three months when I was young.
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But when I had the three months, I think that relationship lasted.
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If she's the one, then I could wait like a year, but I have to be convinced.
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You have to know, you have to be in her life for that whole time.
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So if she's not a virgin, will you wait for a year for her?
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Are you sleeping with other people at the time?
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The average, the nice, I don't know, your favorite girl that you've been on a date with.
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When you're saying, now you're saying favorite girl.
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I'm just, I was just trying to get how you visualize something.
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But one of the, if you're talking about favorites, it didn't last, it didn't take long.
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No, but how long would you wait for a girl you liked?
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So you're like three weeks, roughly a month, a month.
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Sleep with her as soon as possible and wait up to.
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Up to one month to a year, depending on the guy.
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Because what if you wait a year and you don't like it?
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Okay, so when should you ask her to make you a coffee?
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To vet a good woman, yeah, I think you need, it depends on the communication and the conversation
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And the maddest thing is, the girl that I'm seeing now, this is the first time I've ever
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gone coffee and we had a mad conversation in Costa over coffee.
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But once you have a good, through conversation and through certain things, a man would get
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So adding on to what Romans is saying with family values, traditional, maybe even Pharaoh,
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God, like conversation with her, you will understand a lot more about her.
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Okay, so take on coffee date, sleep with her as soon as possible.
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You're getting on coffee date after you finish waiting.
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Go on coffee date, either before or after you sleep with her.
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Can I just say really quickly, I promise, the reason why you could say that now is because
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you're in a position to be open, to be receptive to her as well.
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You know, some guys would be like, what, you know, like we're going clubbing or, you know,
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I'm not putting blame on the man, but it's a two-way street.
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So I've probably gone through dating women, gone through this, gone through that.
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So now when I meet someone, I can analyse a good woman.
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I feel like, to your question of where's all the good women gone here, I feel like a
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lot of good women don't have the values of back in the day.
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So women, I don't know back in the day because I wasn't born back in the day, but I think
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a lot of women don't want to show wife credentials before they're a wife.
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So they will hold things back, expecting you to put a ring on their finger because it's
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like, oh, I can do this, but I'm not going to do these until I'm your wife.
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But man, I'm thinking, man, I'm thinking, bro, if you're going to, cool, there's other
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girl out here that's going to show me what a wife is.
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But imagine acting like a wife and doing full throttle, like cooking's different, but full
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throttle acting like a wife for you to go and see someone else or play around.
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So do you want to show him, do you want to show him that you're a wife?
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Because a man coming into it is showing you're ready, I'm a husband.
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If you want a promotion, don't you do the job that he gives you first?
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Or do you say promote me with no work experience?
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Me and you are in a relationship or we're building up a relationship and then we go out
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and then, I don't know, a gal beat you up or something happens.
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I'm here to protect you, but I just stand there and just watch you.
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When we go home now, what are you going to say to me?
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Because there's man out here that's not going to protect you.
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A stranger would jump in both and protect someone.
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If I don't protect you when I'm out with you and you're rolling out with me,
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Okay, whatever the situation where you need protecting
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I can't answer that question because I don't know what you mean by protecting.
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He didn't, but if you don't show your wife credentials to the man,
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The thing is, there's an extent, there's a limit.
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You can't do everything because you don't know if that man's serious yet.
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And I'm not, you're not out here proofing that.
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Listen, he needs to prove to you that he's a good husband.
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But, but it's like, you're going into things in fear and you don't get anything worth having.
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If you go into shit scared, like you can get your heart broke.
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In order to, to start this whole podcast, I had to invest first, but women want all the
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You didn't hear what she just said, a husband has to come to her already.
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So then why does the wife have to, why do you have to come?
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So don't you think, Paul, it's a two way thing.
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So if I'm, if I'm, it's 50, 50, and then you're both on the same page, that's different.
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I'm not going to do the most and you're doing the least.
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So why does he have to invest in you before you, before you've slept with him?
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Why does he have to invest in you before you've slept with him?
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I've offered like, you know, because I have the kindness of my heart.
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I feel like men, I feel like men are in a stereotypical mindset where they feel like they're the big,
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They have to be responsible for paying for a first date and stuff like that.
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So I feel like that's why they do it automatically.
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Men are more, you're, you're, you're, you're right.
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So it's like the men are coming to you in a traditional role.
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But you're, you're saying I can't be a traditional woman for him.
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When off the bat, before he even knows if he's going to get sex from you, which is what men want, right?
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Of course they're men, but there's different calibers of men.
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No, but I just, you know, I have a certain type of man.
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Like, I like a man that's, you know, I want a man that's like a leader in a high position.
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That can teach me because I want to be in that place too.
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No, listen, like I said, £200 ain't nothing to a man.
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You could show him everything and he would just, and he could possibly not be serious
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of you and be speaking to another girl or sleeping with someone else.
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Until I know that you're serious, I can surrender to you.
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So you're not even respecting a man's pocket on the first day?
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Like I said, £200 is nothing to a man that has to do.
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You don't respect the money because you just said it's nothing.
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Because you're looking at it like, bro, man is going to show the bread.
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Unless he states he's not able to afford to go on a date or whatever.
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Man could have his last £200 and spend at the last...
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You can't say that because man are dating when they're broke.
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If he doesn't want to spend £200 on a date, like what?
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And then when all of these guys said, no, that is something to me, you shat on them.
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You said they're not a high enough caliber of man.
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No, personally, but I'm saying from my experience, people have paid.
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And I've been on dates and I've never spoke to a person again after and they've spent
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What I'm saying is, yeah, you're not valuing their time and money because you think that
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every single one of them that's spending that money, whether it's £100 or £200, you
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There's some man that probably have taken you out on a date and that's their last date
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So then, but you're still not respecting their money.
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Because you're still saying that you can't give them too much, but they're spending £200 on
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But I don't think, the way guys go on, they act like money's nothing to them and they're,
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Like, unless I love you and I know about your financial situation, it'll be completely different.
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No, okay, but this is the thing, you're just not appreciative.
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Because you're saying, no, you're not, I'm listening to you speak.
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I'm not an ungrateful person, like for real, for real.
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If I liked a guy and I spoke to him on a level and he came to me and said, I can't even afford
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to take you out in a certain place, I would not have a problem with that, believe me.
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And when all the guys in here said, no, that is something to me.
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Okay, so a man's broke if he doesn't want to spend 200 pounds.
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Broke men can just not want to spend 200 pounds on someone they don't know.
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They don't have to, yeah, but I don't ask for it.
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If a man really likes you and he's into you, he would spend his last 200 pounds on you
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Because they have money and they go on like, oh, everything's fine.
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No, but it's not like a man's going on like anything.
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A man's just not going, we're not going to openly say, oh, we're going to the dinner table.
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You're never going to be in that situation where a man's going to be at the table and
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tell you, yo, I haven't got money to pay for this.
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I had one guy say to me that, like, go for coffee.
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But I was fine with that because I actually liked him.
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But he said that, you know, I'm not in a great position right now.
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And that's fine because I knew he was intelligent.
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And I knew that he was someone I could build with because he's very smart.
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But I'm speaking from my own experience so far.
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I can't say anything else but what I've experienced.
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But there could have been at least two of them.
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So I've never had a man that's not been able to pay for something that I'm aware of.
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There could have been at least one man that took you on that date that was his last dime.
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If you think broke men shouldn't date, then should fat women not date?
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I feel like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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No, you can't change up your eye of the beholder.
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Sorry, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, period.
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So there's a guy that might be attracted to an overweight woman.
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Listen, if your mentality is above average and you're broke, I fuck with you.
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Because I know you've got potential and that we can build together.
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Okay, if you meet Brokey at 25 and you're with him for five years, he's still Brokey, unemployed.
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Brokey, he meet a Brokey guy, 25, and he's unemployed.
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If he is unemployed and broke for five years and doesn't want to make a move, I can't be with you.
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How long does it take to create a proper business and be successful in life?
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Because you're like, oh, if he has the right mentality, I don't care about money.
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Okay, but I said, like, all that ambition translates to is money later.
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So when women say, oh, I don't care about money.
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Because women do leave if the men don't make enough money.
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So I feel like I've taken time out to go inwards and to learn about life and to just, you know, be more, not logical, but be more on point.
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I don't know how to explain it, but I don't think my mindset's average.
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Because I even said before I came on the show, she's a, she, she's a badass.
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I've been talking about that stuff before I met you.
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But, but I'm saying, I'm saying like the way you speak, okay.
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And I'm telling you, I've met women with a top 10%, 20.
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And I'm saying like, I've met women with a top 10, 20% mindset.
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I'm not saying it's horrible, but I'm saying an average chick when it comes to mindset.
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I just think it's because I don't, I don't, I think money's not, I don't,
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But see, you've contradicted yourself like 20 times in this conversation.
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Like it's very chaotic because I don't really understand what you're saying.
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Because on one hand, you kind of, we're speaking down to the men in the room
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because they don't want to spend 200 pounds on a date.
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And I do, but it's not, it's not, I don't think about it.
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I just don't think you understand how it sounds.
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Can you spend 200 pounds every night on dinner on yourself?
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I didn't ask him to take me out and take me to a place that cost 200 pounds.
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Well, I've had a long-term relationship where we live together.
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But I've never relied on a man for anything in my whole entire life.
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So do you know your chance is below 50% of having a child?
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If you're single at 30, your chance is like 40% of having a kid.
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And at 32, that means you're three years away from geriatric pregnancy.
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So that means if you're single today, you've got to find a guy in three years to agree to marry you
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and agree to get in a long-term relationship, marry you, and then have a kid or just get pregnant.
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So, and based off of like, so the last, you've been dating since, what, you were 18?
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Okay, so, so 10, 12, 14 years, you've been unsuccessful.
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And I'm not claiming to be the all, like, I know everything, but I'm saying, how, how can
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Like, you have this amazing mindset if no men have picked your mindset.
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So before that, I was a different person to who I am now.
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Okay, so you've had four years to try out this mindset.
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Okay, so, and you've been accum, you've been going through things, so you've been accumulating
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But I've been in one relationship, kind of, whatever you want to call it.
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Because he's, because he's still on my phone to this day, so I must not have been that problematic.
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Okay, it's like, this is how men, this is how men, no.
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I'm telling you, girl, this is how guys see it.
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Can I just say, it wouldn't take three months to come to a decision on this one.
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Because loads of men now know your pussy's tight.
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It's literally what hookers used to use to keep cum out of their eyes.
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Okay, so, and when men see that, they, like, hoop earrings, that signals to guys.
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But I'm saying, when you're saying, like, my tight, like, is that what you want your
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And I know, I'm a, I like to think I'm funny, you know, a comedian.
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But, like, there's some things that you really shouldn't say publicly if you want to be taken
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I think that, you know, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be, he's out there somewhere
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Do you think, do you think a broke, do you think a broke fat guy should say, oh, if it's
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So, if you're, if your mindset is off, do you think we say it's meant, if it's meant
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So, so how do we improve as women if we can't even admit there's a problem?
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And so right now it's like, it's like you're kind of living in, in delusion.
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Everyone's like, you know, maybe it's not a good look.
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But I feel like me saying, my pussy's tight, it doesn't determine, it doesn't determine
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If I'm a hoe, do I go out and suck dick every week?
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I mean, a virgin, a virgin could be like, my pussy's tight.
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I want to, I want to, I want to hear from the men.
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What do you, blessing as a guy, you're, I would say you're a more traditional guy.
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What do you, what do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
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What do you, what do you think when a woman says that?
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And they'll probably just want to sample it just to see if it's tight.
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And that's just the difference between, do you know what I mean?
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But like I'm saying, if you're saying that out there, man, I'm going to be like, all right,
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But the thing is, if guys, if guys see signals that you're a hoe, they're not going to investigate
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Like, they're not going to go and do these deep dot.
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Like, no, they're just going to, they're just going to write you off.
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But I think it takes an individual to take time to actually get to know the person.
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But the men you want don't have time because they're working.
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Like, where did that go in all of this conversation?
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Where did that, where did waiting for marriage come in this conversation?
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Because I think women, well, because I think women, we're in control of the, like, sex.
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So we're in control of the chastity of the sexual marketplace.
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I think virgins have a hard time nowadays because, like, one, why would a man wait for a woman
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So, and the problem I think that virgins are going to have is how does he know she's
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And how does he know, like, even if he gets a virgin?
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And this, I've spoken to guys with this, like, about virgin, and I'm not saying guys
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don't want it, but I think it's more difficult because of the marketplace.
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Because even if you get a virgin, like, she could still go on social media and leave.
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But I still think it's a valuable value to have.
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And if you're needing somebody to marry them, then you should, like, just wait.
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Do you think that, so what about the women that, okay, so, again, the average woman here,
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one out of three women has an STD, one out of three women's having an abortion.
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Do you think they should say, we're going to wait until marriage?
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I mean, I think they should stop doing what they're doing because if they keep doing that,
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they are going to further their likeliness of not getting a man, not being married, not
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No, and it's hard because it's, like, part of me agrees with you.
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I think it's idealistic, but I think, like, telling a single mother, wait until you're
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Or a girl that slept with, like, 20 dudes, good luck.
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At least stop because if you're going to keep sleeping with dudes, you're going to, when you're
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30, you're going to be, like, 100 guys, you know, so at least stop now.
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And I think it comes from family values, like how you're raised.
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Before, when I told my grandmother I was marrying your dad, she was like, well, I hope
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And I was shocked because she was a hardcore Christian and her upbringing was in the church
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But she's like, if you don't know, then, you know, you could be getting yourself into trouble.
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And I'm not saying that was right, but I was shocked when she said that.
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I just think, like, from a guy's point of view, like, if a girl's not a virgin, like,
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So I think that's the tough thing, like, for those women.
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It's like, what are they, like, what you're going to, because I think a guy that does that
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is a simp, to be honest, if she's not a virgin.
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And I'm in a relationship that's dating to marry and we're waiting for marriage.
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I think that's a beautiful thing and I just want more women to fall into that role, fall
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into that, that place, because it's such a beautiful thing to have with somebody and
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to sleep with 20 guys and 50 guys and say, like, my is tight.
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What do you think of the women that say you're missing out?
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Getting drunk and, like, having with a bunch of guys and, like, my body's a temple.
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Anything that goes on it or in it is very, like, it has to be pure.
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I'm not going to say, like, but that's, like, very personal.
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But obviously, I was talking to Pearl about this conversation.
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If you're pure, that means nothing has touched your body.
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Guys, guys, guys, make sure you like the video.
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But when people give me money, I will read them.
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She refuses to grow up, return back to the streets where she belongs.
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Josh, depends how many opportunities we've had relationships.
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For real, I respect her after three, done after two.
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If you're not attractive, I'll wait after three.
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D, I love how you ask the right questions and they just tell themselves,
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Josh, depending on how many opportunities we have relations, for real, for real,
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Guys, remember, it has to be over a $5 super chat in order for me to read it.
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Two weeks, I'm taking into account her actions, which will give a hint to body count,
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and then I'll ask around and know her body count.
00:35:42.260
Lawrence, woman with the eight tattoos is giving off narcissism vibe like she's never the problem if the relationship doesn't work out.
00:35:50.800
Harshima, can you stop gaslighting and accept that the men you want only use you for a booty call?
00:35:56.720
I'll stop saying I don't want anyone nod, just pump and dump, not going to lie.
00:36:07.640
Full Wee Todd, the body positivity movement exists to make money off of women because big girls get money too.
00:36:16.200
Doug MPA, Pearl, please list the things that high-value men don't want in women.
00:36:22.580
Remember, you came up with on a live a couple months ago.
00:36:30.280
Scout and Bradley, being submissive doesn't mean do whatever I say, but listening and not fighting to everything Southern Bells do.
00:36:40.420
Trigger, statistically, after the age of 65, the percentage of obese people drops drastically because they die.
00:36:46.100
Glenn Lawrence, all men need to do is read Rolo's The Message is the Median blog post.
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All men need to do is read Rolo's The Median is the Message blog post and see if her words and actions match.
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For black men, we value bigger women because they make for better.
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Well, you said $2, so you're halfway there, you know.
00:37:41.200
A couple months ago, I made a list of the things that us as women should stop doing.
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Now, this is not to say that I am perfect and have never said anything on this list.
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However, I just felt like this was a very, very good list.
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So, this is the things that men look for, basically, or don't want.
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It's like want, don't want kind of a combination.
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Your hobbies cannot be going to the bar every weekend and going out all the time looking like a hoe.
00:38:33.580
Men want women that work hard but not too hard and at the right things.
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They do not want a girl that wants a career more than a family.
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Partner, horoscope signs, looking for a connection, energy, trauma, toxic masculinity, my truth,
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healing, my narcissistic ex-boyfriend, my abusive ex-boyfriend, grape accusations, don't judge,
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yeah but, manifesting, equals I want to do no work and still get the outcome I want.
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I did too much and I let him walk all over me, equals I like cheaters and toxic men and
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I will choose them and be toxic as well and not admit that I had any part to play except
00:39:20.140
I make the same mistakes that my parents make and I'm too dumb to learn from their mistakes
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and instead I will make the same mistakes but blame it on them.
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Men are trash, equals I take no accountability for the negative part that myself or any women
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He needs to make six figures, equals I have no emphasis on character.
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I feel like I'm a traditional when I am single.
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Man-ish, I will be submissive for the right man who hurt you.
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He needs to add to what I have going on in my life.
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Not all women equals that is a problem with women but I won't admit it's a problem.
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So if you guys have anything you want to add to it, you know, feel free.
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Get in the bedroom and drop your pants before you go to work.
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Well, you know, we can add more if you have things.
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It can be a little bit like, oh, you know, like, oh, I have to do it again.
00:42:20.200
If you're with the right woman, that won't happen.
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If you're with the right woman, if you're with the right man, that won't happen.
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I think women that say this, because I hear this a lot, it typically means I am disagreeable
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I don't want to say that because then you're going to be like feminine.
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No, like to you know, like she's not feminine enough. The man is really masculine
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She's in her feminine most of the time, but sometimes she's like see I see the language in her feminine
00:43:15.220
I get just like these women that go on Instagram and they'll say oh, I'm a feminine. I don't know if it's you
00:43:23.680
But like it's like I'm now a femininity coach and there's some genuine ones
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I'm not gonna say there's not there are genuine ones that help do this to masculine feminine energy
00:43:33.120
There's the ones that I see that are full of shit because men actually look to solve problems
00:43:38.900
So if you look at like men's improvement, it's very practical
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Screw a bunch of girls. So you know how to or do you know
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I got even there's an ex corn star that's been on my show. He has very practical, you know tips
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I'm not my thing right, but like and or they'll do
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Like go to the gym make more money women. It's very like broad like like soft life
00:44:09.440
I've only had one like femininity coach give me like real concrete steps that isn't just like journaling or
00:44:15.600
Actually, I have something to say about uh feminine feminine feminine coaches
00:44:28.400
They tell you be creative like focus on things that make you tap into the woman like that traditional woman
00:44:38.320
I've i've been in touch with some of them. They tell you like listen to music dance or create something
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uh tangible with like artistic yeah, um, and to me this sounds like nothing useful to a guy
00:44:59.840
Like I'm just I just have yet there's only been one femininity coach that like actually talked about real stuff
00:45:08.560
And she helped me write most of these like words to add in the short term
00:45:12.400
It might seem that it's not helping but imagine
00:45:15.680
On the long term rather than a woman being in her as I say masculine energy, which is like shouting and confronting
00:45:22.880
She learns to be submissive, but like step by step
00:45:25.840
Mm-hmm first of all by tapping into these skills then to to be comfortable just doing uh
00:45:32.240
Even something such as cooking they tell you cooking makes you tap into your feminine energy more and more
00:45:38.480
So maybe by building those little habits, uh, I think cooking yeah, I don't think cooking is bad
00:45:48.880
You can't convince me. Do you know why why we need these now we I agree with you
00:45:52.560
I agree that it shouldn't matter, but we need this now because a lot of women and men as well
00:45:58.720
Forgot that natural state, you know, what's your natural state as a woman?
00:46:04.000
I don't know because I get really confused because I hear these like women talk about soft life, right?
00:46:08.960
But like our great grandmothers really didn't have a soft life
00:46:12.960
They were milking like at least i'm from the u.s. They're milking cows
00:46:16.160
Like have you seen amish people so they used to live like they do not have a soft life
00:46:20.240
Yeah, and soft life to me is living off a man. That's what I see as a soft lie
00:46:26.400
Yeah, when you ask where all the women good women went I mean to me they went to confusion and independence
00:46:32.320
And this confusion is a diffused awareness because the primal nature right a man is hunting
00:46:40.240
And a woman is diffused because she only has a certain amount of daylight hours to get as many berries as she can and she's very skilled at it
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She can do it way quicker than a man apparently and it's part of our survival mechanism
00:46:51.600
And so it is kind of obtuse and broad when we think about how we go back into our feminine nature
00:46:57.680
So we're not you know in this ceo role of our families of our
00:47:02.720
relationships of our businesses and then we got to come home and then deal with
00:47:07.440
The reality of like, you know being a partner, which is a totally different energy. It's not you're not directive
00:47:13.280
Like yeah, you got to get the meal on the table and my grandmother my mother. They worked really hard as homemakers
00:47:19.440
It was like taboo for them to work. Yeah, but my generation and our generation now
00:47:24.960
That's very it's a lot of confusion and we're still the growing into that. You know, how do we balance that?
00:47:33.280
I'll be serious. She made a tune called single ladies all of these things with a ring on our finger. I
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Think we're very capable. You know what I'm saying?
00:47:40.400
But I think there's a lot of confusion. Yeah, but from the night to be honest, you'll say all right from the 90s 2000s, whatever
00:47:46.320
There's been a lot of independence independence. Do your thing blah blah blah blah blah cool
00:47:51.280
You can do your independence, but if you don't need a man
00:47:56.400
Someone said modern day gathering is turned into shopping
00:48:01.520
But why do you think women are having burnout endocrine disruption cancer depression?
00:48:07.280
I mean, there's all these issues with women's health because they're trying to be
00:48:15.280
He said like high strike women and men don't handle stress the same and it really messes up our hormones being like high stress positions
00:48:22.160
And you know the medicine if you stay in your feminine energy and you come home and you look after your partner
00:48:26.480
Your man is going to want to look after and do everything in his power to make sure you're good
00:48:31.280
Yeah, it's it's that that's as simple as I can explain it like as long as you stay in your feminine
00:48:36.640
And you look after that man. He's gonna do everything for you regardless like naturally
00:48:40.080
But earlier with what I was saying if you're not showing certain things to him
00:48:44.000
He's gonna see that cool. He's not really my kind. I'll sit back. I'm there
00:48:50.240
But if he sees you're making effort like cook like even cooking cooking is that if you want to get through to a man's heart
00:48:58.480
And I also I fell into the boss babe culture for a long time when I was obese and I and I started losing weight
00:49:03.680
But I was still in the boss babe culture. I was like, oh, I don't need a man
00:49:06.480
Like I'm fine and it was when I had the daddy issues when I wasn't I didn't have a good relationship with my father
00:49:10.880
And it wasn't until I held my relationship with my father that I was like, oh
00:49:15.120
Okay, I actually you know, it's really important that I I don't have to work like a man. I was so stressed
00:49:20.880
I was so anxious all the time and then I just let it go
00:49:24.480
My future husband will provide for me my future husband will do these and I'll fall into my feminine roles
00:49:28.320
I will cook I will clean. I will take care of the kids
00:49:30.560
I'll take care of the house like that and I'll garden. What did you do? Did you quit your job?
00:49:36.640
I just I flipped two houses last year and I was like, I don't want to do this anymore
00:49:41.760
So I decided to stop doing it. That's cool. Oh, wow. It was a miracle though. Really? Yeah, because
00:49:47.520
No, because I was the boss, right? I had to be ever the provider I had to be everything
00:49:53.040
I think that's another part of where all the good women have gone inside of this independence inside of this confusion
00:49:58.160
It's fatherless families and like Pearl was saying earlier if you don't have the example
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How are you supposed to know and you haven't had the example Penelope? So it's a miracle
00:50:06.880
Purely purely, you know, it is and it was it was like growing up with you as my mom
00:50:10.720
Like you played both roles the dad and the mom and so that was very interesting because I grew up thinking
00:50:14.720
Oh, I I don't need men like men are terrible and I even thought my dad father was terrible, but you know
00:50:20.480
I think where the good women are going is they think that it's a bad thing to be feminine
00:50:25.040
I think that the mindset of women today feel like
00:50:27.760
I'm not not and now if you're feminine and traditional online people are like you're you know, you're not a feminist
00:50:33.120
You hate women. You are terrible. You are a disgrace a society. You should go die
00:50:37.040
And it's like, wait, wait, what like women are the most beautiful things on planet
00:50:40.560
They create human beings men cannot create human beings. So why are women putting women down? Well, I think it's probably because
00:50:47.200
Women want women to fail and see that I think I think it's because we're not supposed to be competing with our moms
00:50:52.800
Generation because the thing is like if you have a 45 year old and you have like a 25 year old girl
00:50:59.280
It's like you're a lot of times the guys you might want are the same age because women like 45 tend to want guys like
00:51:05.440
It's like five to seven years younger where women
00:51:08.160
25 want guys five to seven years older this crossover and I think bitter older women that don't want you to win
00:51:16.960
And and it's because like if they're if they're being a hoe, right?
00:51:20.160
Like what's the worst feeling when you take a test and you fail?
00:51:23.120
What's the worst feeling when everyone else succeeded?
00:51:27.120
But if you turn around and they say I failed too, it's like you feel a little bit better
00:51:30.720
So it's like these women want other people to be miserable in their negative decisions
00:51:36.400
People because of it because of succeeding in in my relationship and having a healthy relationship with my father
00:51:40.880
People dislike me because of that and it's like why do you hate me for having a healthy relationship with my family?
00:51:45.760
Am I am I so would you would you say and especially I'm like they don't want you to win
00:51:52.400
Divorce miserable sad fat on your phone on tiktok dying. I mean, so would you say that this is like
00:51:59.680
Technically just a woman's problem then because it's women that it's not technically men that put down women
00:52:04.000
You know it's women that put down women the woman trying to be men hurt are hurting the the feminine
00:52:09.200
Not not the feminine the beta men right there that that's hurting beta men
00:52:12.560
That's why we have beta men is because of the masculine. Well, I think it becomes a problem because you have eighty percent of women screwing
00:52:19.040
Twenty percent of men so then women don't respect the average guy
00:52:22.160
I did a show the other day and like most women said they wouldn't date a bus driver
00:52:28.800
And it's why you have average chicks saying they're at the level of a celebrity no offense
00:52:33.200
But like it's like you have average chicks thinking they're they're so great when it's like literally you are average
00:52:38.560
You're average looking even average mindset most people are average and men will accept this but women won't it's like an insult for us to be
00:52:45.440
Normal, so then you you won't see normal women dating normal men
00:52:49.120
But do you feel like that that is because see social media has a lot to play for it? They feel like there's a lot more
00:52:54.000
I think it's social I think it's social media and dating apps
00:52:57.200
They got they feel like they've got more accessibility to higher people
00:53:01.600
They do like because they have an issue nowadays because this is what made me think about this
00:53:05.680
I'm like, how would you find a good woman? And I was thinking about this and I made a chart and I had like the body count of a woman
00:53:11.520
On one hand and I had the looks of a woman on a one hand and so I was like a woman
00:53:16.480
That's eight to ten with a high or a low body count
00:53:21.280
Do you know what the list is gonna be for a girl that that's like that hot with like like the competition is crazy
00:53:27.200
and so it's like you could be dating a woman and
00:53:30.880
If there's high competition for her drake could slide in your girls dms or maybe it's not drake
00:53:35.280
It's the town whoever right and then I was thinking about it
00:53:38.800
And I was like unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women
00:53:41.360
How is he gonna know the difference between a woman that's been at with everybody and a girl that does it has it they never do
00:53:47.360
They can't know they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls and i'm like it's kind of unfortunate
00:53:54.480
Solution for the men seems to be to sleep around which I don't think is you know great for society
00:53:59.840
But it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping
00:54:02.800
Do you think that men should have more than one woman?
00:54:13.520
So I think it's silly to date say jason derulo chris brad
00:54:17.040
These are extreme examples, but there's certain men
00:54:19.680
That it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never will be
00:54:24.800
I think monogamy in general is better for a society