JustPearlyThings - December 12, 2024


Liberal and Conservative Women Are Not That Different (Part 2) ｜ Pearl Daily


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00:00:00.000 true. Anything can be proven. Anything has data and statistics behind it. And we lack the opportunity
00:00:05.120 to have real meaningful conversations about what's best for humanity. Yeah. And I do want to say too,
00:00:09.620 when you mentioned things like teachers, it is true that when we look at a broad scope of women's
00:00:16.620 careers versus men's careers, especially historically, women do, again, they're pushed
00:00:23.420 into it. And so now we have more opportunity, but women were typically secretaries, nurses,
00:00:28.300 teachers, and fields that were female dominated were underpaid. In what time period?
00:00:38.500 I think they're talking about the 1900s. And continue to be underpaid because they're
00:00:43.020 female dominated. There's a principle called male flight that when more women enter into a career
00:00:49.540 field, men leave. And then the wages for that position tend to either stagnate, they don't
00:00:56.940 continue to increase as the, as in. Oh, I want to say something, but I can't, I can't. Okay. Let me
00:01:06.060 just, let me think. So she's saying her study says that when women go into a career field,
00:01:10.780 men leave and the wages don't increase. Is it possible that they don't do as good of a job?
00:01:18.900 Not all, not all, not all. Inflation in the years increase or they decrease because women are now in
00:01:26.760 those positions. And so outer societal perspective, women have found themselves in positions that are
00:01:33.180 compensated less because they're seen as lesser than. Okay. So I want to go to this topic of purpose,
00:01:40.200 women, freedom of choice. You mentioned something about women not finding their purpose to be motherhood
00:01:46.200 or being wise, but I have a feeling at least from my own lived experience that motherhood and being
00:01:52.180 married to my husband is the most. What age, what age did you do it? I mean, that would be my question
00:01:57.480 because it's one thing to say that, right? But if that was your number one choice, you would've did
00:02:03.900 it first. Not saying right or wrong. What age? I don't know this commentator in the middle.
00:02:12.680 Most important thing I've ever done. Far more valuable being a mother than this podcast. Let's
00:02:17.740 just be real. I love this podcast, but it's nowhere near compares to being a mother. So I imagine people
00:02:23.700 listening who are mothers. I, I would think people might want to discuss this together about that
00:02:28.520 based on something you brought up. So why don't you elaborate a little more on that and then you can
00:02:31.660 respond. Yeah, absolutely. So again, this is all about choice. I think that the whole point is realizing
00:02:37.700 that both choices are valid and everything is going to be different for every woman because we're so
00:02:42.560 unique and we're so individual and motherhood and being a wife can be incredibly fulfilling,
00:02:48.140 which is why I'm pro-choice in all ways of life, because I don't think that it is my ability. I don't
00:02:54.960 think that it is my responsibility or that I even have the ability to say what will make you happy or
00:02:59.840 what will make you happy, which is why we should all have equal opportunity and respect everyone's
00:03:03.880 choices to do either to be a traditional wife and mother, to do a little bit of the in-between or to
00:03:08.960 be a full-on career woman. I think all of those are valid for different women. You mentioned earlier
00:03:14.460 something that stuck with me that embracing marriage or motherhood in the past for our mothers
00:03:19.980 and grandmothers was elevating the men in their life rather than putting themselves first. Can you
00:03:25.020 elaborate on that? Yeah, absolutely. So typically women were encouraged to stay home, take care of the
00:03:32.160 house, take care of the kids while their husband, father, the father of their children, you know,
00:03:38.100 went after their dreams. They went after the promotions. They dedicated their life to work and
00:03:43.520 whatever. Farming, coal mining, factory worker. I mean, when I Googled it, that's what it said the job
00:03:54.120 options were back then. I don't. What dreams? You had to be born into a royal family.
00:04:04.380 A peasant? What was the, a welder? I don't.
00:04:11.060 Where their passion was and whatever their purpose was. And so women's jobs weren't necessarily to
00:04:16.240 discover what their purpose and their passions are. If it was, if it happened to be outside of
00:04:21.260 motherhood and wifehood, it was instead to be like, we'll just encourage him to do what he needs to do
00:04:26.080 and you pick up all the pieces while he's out there. Do you think that's still true today? That marriage
00:04:30.080 is inherently elevating men or motherhood is inherently? Riley Reid got marriage. Sorry. Riley Reid
00:04:37.060 got married. It's done. There's no. Nala got married. You guys, conservatives, you let everybody in
00:04:46.800 and you ruined it. I don't know what to tell you. You know, you simped for women. Um, you believed all
00:04:54.360 these abuse claims. You believed the hoes that came into church and said they were born again.
00:05:02.680 Um, no one was shocked that the divorce rate today, if you look at the divorce stats,
00:05:08.660 it's not different for people that are Christian, Catholic. It's all the same or, or similar.
00:05:15.000 So congratulations. It's dead. The average marriage is eight years. Doesn't exist. It's gone.
00:05:23.180 Sorry. If, if you make it work, you're the exception. You're not the rule. I hope you do.
00:05:31.040 I really do. I wouldn't bet on it if I was a betting woman. Elevating men. Yeah, absolutely. And
00:05:37.320 there are statistics that show that even when women and men in the same households are working the same
00:05:42.560 amount of hours, they're both full-time working parents, men or women will be more likely to be
00:05:48.840 in charge of the kids' schedules, do all of the housework and have more of that mental load of the
00:05:53.960 household. So even when in our modern society, we're really economically people, families can't,
00:06:00.660 a lot of us can't be single income. We have to be dual income. A lot of that load still lands on
00:06:05.800 the woman. And there's very, there's a domestic labor gap.
00:06:08.380 I think that follows with what young women are being told today, that marriage and motherhood
00:06:12.880 is never something that you should pursue because it's going to be a mental load on you.
00:06:21.980 It's going to bring stress and hardship and negativity to your life, which obviously manifests
00:06:27.260 in the trends that we're seeing societally. You know, we have the lowest marriage rate right now
00:06:31.240 since we began recording marriage rates in 1867. And we hit an all-time low in the last 100 years
00:06:37.760 fertility rate in 2020, to the point that we can't even replace our own existing population. So
00:06:43.580 clearly this narrative that's being told to young women is overwhelmingly convincing that you are going
00:06:48.820 to be miserable when you tie the knot and spend the rest of your life with one individual.
00:06:53.520 That's echoed through every single headline and viral social media video that we see at the exact same
00:06:58.260 time. And even more so, the life is going to be sucked out of you if you bring more life into
00:07:03.440 the world. But that's been proven to be the opposite over and over and over again through
00:07:08.460 every generation. The overwhelmingly happiest people in society are mothers and wives. So how do you
00:07:15.640 reconcile the difference between that? Yeah, again, depends on the studies that you look at.
00:07:20.220 And I mean, you guys can just go on TikTok and you find both. Women treat TikTok like their diary.
00:07:26.660 You'll find ladies that say, oh, I'm super happy. Trad life. Then you find women complaining about
00:07:33.100 their husband. Then divorce. Like, I'm not discounting that the people that stay married
00:07:40.400 are the happiest. Could be. But you got to get the state. Like, choices reveal more than what people say.
00:07:50.380 Choices are going to reveal the most. So, but the challenge is we can't make free choices when the
00:07:59.540 state is holding a gun to the men's head and making them stay.
00:08:05.080 Recognize you continue to use this word never. Women are told that they should never get married
00:08:10.000 and never have children. And I push back on that because I disagree. Again, I think the idea is
00:08:15.860 encouraging choice. Encouraging intentional choice. Is this really the person you want to be with?
00:08:21.500 Is this someone you can see as a partner? Is this, is being a mother something that you
00:08:26.040 couldn't imagine your life without? Women are not being told to never do those things. We're being told.
00:08:33.340 Well, they are quite frequently, actually. Not by you, perhaps, but by many, many people in society.
00:08:37.800 Many of the most. Again, they're being told, being told. I'm just so over it. I'm so over
00:08:46.720 women blaming society that caters to women.
00:08:55.540 That we're being told by society, which caters to us anyways.
00:09:00.560 That we're being, they make it sound like we're groomed into the choices we make.
00:09:04.960 I mean, how many people told the girl that had sex with a thousand men, a hundred men don't make
00:09:11.760 that choice. Okay. So that's all I got for you guys today. I just thought this debate was
00:09:19.200 interesting. I wanted to react to it. Let me know what you guys think. And if you like it,
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