JustPearlyThings - December 12, 2024


Liberal and Conservative Women Are Not That Different (Part 2) ｜ Pearl Daily

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Hannah Pearl Davis
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Riley Reid Nala Trad
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Length

10 minutes

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166.52

Word count

1,690

Sentence count

150

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, I sit down with author, speaker, author, and speaker, Rylee Reid, to discuss the role of women in society and the role they play in society. We discuss the benefits of freedom of choice and how to balance a career with being a wife and mother.

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00:00:00.000 true. Anything can be proven. Anything has data and statistics behind it. And we lack the opportunity
00:00:05.120 to have real meaningful conversations about what's best for humanity. Yeah. And I do want to say too,
00:00:09.620 when you mentioned things like teachers, it is true that when we look at a broad scope of women's
00:00:16.620 careers versus men's careers, especially historically, women do, again, they're pushed 0.76
00:00:23.420 into it. And so now we have more opportunity, but women were typically secretaries, nurses, 0.97
00:00:28.300 teachers, and fields that were female dominated were underpaid. In what time period? 0.99
00:00:38.500 I think they're talking about the 1900s. And continue to be underpaid because they're
00:00:43.020 female dominated. There's a principle called male flight that when more women enter into a career 1.00
00:00:49.540 field, men leave. And then the wages for that position tend to either stagnate, they don't
00:00:56.940 continue to increase as the, as in. Oh, I want to say something, but I can't, I can't. Okay. Let me
00:01:06.060 just, let me think. So she's saying her study says that when women go into a career field, 0.99
00:01:10.780 men leave and the wages don't increase. Is it possible that they don't do as good of a job?
00:01:18.900 Not all, not all, not all. Inflation in the years increase or they decrease because women are now in 1.00
00:01:26.760 those positions. And so outer societal perspective, women have found themselves in positions that are 1.00
00:01:33.180 compensated less because they're seen as lesser than. Okay. So I want to go to this topic of purpose,
00:01:40.200 women, freedom of choice. You mentioned something about women not finding their purpose to be motherhood 1.00
00:01:46.200 or being wise, but I have a feeling at least from my own lived experience that motherhood and being
00:01:52.180 married to my husband is the most. What age, what age did you do it? I mean, that would be my question
00:01:57.480 because it's one thing to say that, right? But if that was your number one choice, you would've did
00:02:03.900 it first. Not saying right or wrong. What age? I don't know this commentator in the middle.
00:02:12.680 Most important thing I've ever done. Far more valuable being a mother than this podcast. Let's
00:02:17.740 just be real. I love this podcast, but it's nowhere near compares to being a mother. So I imagine people
00:02:23.700 listening who are mothers. I, I would think people might want to discuss this together about that
00:02:28.520 based on something you brought up. So why don't you elaborate a little more on that and then you can
00:02:31.660 respond. Yeah, absolutely. So again, this is all about choice. I think that the whole point is realizing
00:02:37.700 that both choices are valid and everything is going to be different for every woman because we're so
00:02:42.560 unique and we're so individual and motherhood and being a wife can be incredibly fulfilling,
00:02:48.140 which is why I'm pro-choice in all ways of life, because I don't think that it is my ability. I don't
00:02:54.960 think that it is my responsibility or that I even have the ability to say what will make you happy or
00:02:59.840 what will make you happy, which is why we should all have equal opportunity and respect everyone's
00:03:03.880 choices to do either to be a traditional wife and mother, to do a little bit of the in-between or to 1.00
00:03:08.960 be a full-on career woman. I think all of those are valid for different women. You mentioned earlier
00:03:14.460 something that stuck with me that embracing marriage or motherhood in the past for our mothers
00:03:19.980 and grandmothers was elevating the men in their life rather than putting themselves first. Can you
00:03:25.020 elaborate on that? Yeah, absolutely. So typically women were encouraged to stay home, take care of the 1.00
00:03:32.160 house, take care of the kids while their husband, father, the father of their children, you know,
00:03:38.100 went after their dreams. They went after the promotions. They dedicated their life to work and
00:03:43.520 whatever. Farming, coal mining, factory worker. I mean, when I Googled it, that's what it said the job
00:03:54.120 options were back then. I don't. What dreams? You had to be born into a royal family.
00:04:04.380 A peasant? What was the, a welder? I don't. 0.99
00:04:11.060 Where their passion was and whatever their purpose was. And so women's jobs weren't necessarily to 1.00
00:04:16.240 discover what their purpose and their passions are. If it was, if it happened to be outside of
00:04:21.260 motherhood and wifehood, it was instead to be like, we'll just encourage him to do what he needs to do
00:04:26.080 and you pick up all the pieces while he's out there. Do you think that's still true today? That marriage
00:04:30.080 is inherently elevating men or motherhood is inherently? Riley Reid got marriage. Sorry. Riley Reid
00:04:37.060 got married. It's done. There's no. Nala got married. You guys, conservatives, you let everybody in
00:04:46.800 and you ruined it. I don't know what to tell you. You know, you simped for women. Um, you believed all 1.00
00:04:54.360 these abuse claims. You believed the hoes that came into church and said they were born again. 1.00
00:05:02.680 Um, no one was shocked that the divorce rate today, if you look at the divorce stats,
00:05:08.660 it's not different for people that are Christian, Catholic. It's all the same or, or similar.
00:05:15.000 So congratulations. It's dead. The average marriage is eight years. Doesn't exist. It's gone.
00:05:23.180 Sorry. If, if you make it work, you're the exception. You're not the rule. I hope you do.
00:05:31.040 I really do. I wouldn't bet on it if I was a betting woman. Elevating men. Yeah, absolutely. And
00:05:37.320 there are statistics that show that even when women and men in the same households are working the same
00:05:42.560 amount of hours, they're both full-time working parents, men or women will be more likely to be
00:05:48.840 in charge of the kids' schedules, do all of the housework and have more of that mental load of the
00:05:53.960 household. So even when in our modern society, we're really economically people, families can't,
00:06:00.660 a lot of us can't be single income. We have to be dual income. A lot of that load still lands on
00:06:05.800 the woman. And there's very, there's a domestic labor gap. 1.00
00:06:08.380 I think that follows with what young women are being told today, that marriage and motherhood
00:06:12.880 is never something that you should pursue because it's going to be a mental load on you.
00:06:21.980 It's going to bring stress and hardship and negativity to your life, which obviously manifests
00:06:27.260 in the trends that we're seeing societally. You know, we have the lowest marriage rate right now
00:06:31.240 since we began recording marriage rates in 1867. And we hit an all-time low in the last 100 years
00:06:37.760 fertility rate in 2020, to the point that we can't even replace our own existing population. So
00:06:43.580 clearly this narrative that's being told to young women is overwhelmingly convincing that you are going
00:06:48.820 to be miserable when you tie the knot and spend the rest of your life with one individual.
00:06:53.520 That's echoed through every single headline and viral social media video that we see at the exact same
00:06:58.260 time. And even more so, the life is going to be sucked out of you if you bring more life into
00:07:03.440 the world. But that's been proven to be the opposite over and over and over again through
00:07:08.460 every generation. The overwhelmingly happiest people in society are mothers and wives. So how do you
00:07:15.640 reconcile the difference between that? Yeah, again, depends on the studies that you look at.
00:07:20.220 And I mean, you guys can just go on TikTok and you find both. Women treat TikTok like their diary. 1.00
00:07:26.660 You'll find ladies that say, oh, I'm super happy. Trad life. Then you find women complaining about
00:07:33.100 their husband. Then divorce. Like, I'm not discounting that the people that stay married
00:07:40.400 are the happiest. Could be. But you got to get the state. Like, choices reveal more than what people say.
00:07:50.380 Choices are going to reveal the most. So, but the challenge is we can't make free choices when the
00:07:59.540 state is holding a gun to the men's head and making them stay.
00:08:05.080 Recognize you continue to use this word never. Women are told that they should never get married 0.56
00:08:10.000 and never have children. And I push back on that because I disagree. Again, I think the idea is
00:08:15.860 encouraging choice. Encouraging intentional choice. Is this really the person you want to be with?
00:08:21.500 Is this someone you can see as a partner? Is this, is being a mother something that you
00:08:26.040 couldn't imagine your life without? Women are not being told to never do those things. We're being told. 1.00
00:08:33.340 Well, they are quite frequently, actually. Not by you, perhaps, but by many, many people in society.
00:08:37.800 Many of the most. Again, they're being told, being told. I'm just so over it. I'm so over
00:08:46.720 women blaming society that caters to women. 1.00
00:08:55.540 That we're being told by society, which caters to us anyways.
00:09:00.560 That we're being, they make it sound like we're groomed into the choices we make.
00:09:04.960 I mean, how many people told the girl that had sex with a thousand men, a hundred men don't make
00:09:11.760 that choice. Okay. So that's all I got for you guys today. I just thought this debate was
00:09:19.200 interesting. I wanted to react to it. Let me know what you guys think. And if you like it,
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