Liberals RUINED Marriage
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Summary
In this episode, we have a guest on the show who is a mom of non-binary trans kids and advocate for trans kids in custody battles. We talk about what it's like to be a trans mom in the legal system, how to navigate custody battles, and how to get custody of your trans kids.
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progressed as society did yeah as well like things have just gotten crazier and crazier but
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i i know there's like these groups of moms that are all transing their kids and talking about it
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on facebook and stuff and it's definitely scary because they encourage each other to do it more
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and go further there's groups wait say explain yeah there's mothers groups that all trans their
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kids or have non-binary kids and talk about it and everything what type of stuff do they say
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have you looked at these groups um i haven't spent much time researching the groups specifically but
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yeah it's a scary thought for sure yeah because i can't even imagine oh gosh that's so crazy
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well it's like seeing other people online talk about it and you know be encouraged about it it's
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going to make more of it right so in california you said it's easier because it's just interesting
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because it's very different than the uk so in california it's easier to get 50 50 custody
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well perhaps i should be specific that san francisco bay area is like pretty inclined to give
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both parents split custody like 50 50 um although i'm i'm sure that moms still win custody much more
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like nationwide it's like 18 percent of dads win full custody 27 don't even see their kids but i just i
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talked to some dads in like south carolina and texas and different places and they said from talking
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to them it seemed like they probably have a harder shot getting custody in some of the more conservative
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areas which is surprising i'm just curious like what your advice would be to get custody of your
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kids because um a lot of guys are just wondering how they can actually get 50 50 custody well i think
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for one just show the court the effort you know move to where you have to move file in court whatever
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you got to do try to put the money together find a pro bono attorney whatever you have to do
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just show your kid because at the end of the day too you want to be able to show your kids this
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that you fought for them you know you don't want your kid wondering why did my dad fail on me you
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know right and you just have to put the effort and i think if you put the effort maybe it'll be hard
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at first with some false accusations or whatever things happen but i think over time those things
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don't last the court starts to see the reality and the truth and who's you know the one telling the
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truth in these custody battles and i think over time you'll eventually be able to see your kids
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that's the other thing they don't talk about is women telling the kids that the dad's a deadbeat
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right when really he's been like fighting to get in their lives for years
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yeah it's it's a scary thought i've dealt with some negative things my son told me that were said
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about me wow we're sad for me to hear yeah but kids aren't dumb they grow up yeah and they realize
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like i always say this like they realize what the moms have done at some point it might be when like
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you saw it happened to kanye in front of you know our eyes he figured it out at like 40 right right
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but at some point the kids aren't stupid they grow up and figure out like what the parents have done
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yeah i think so too i think the truth just like i was saying about court same with the kids
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themselves they'll see it eventually so you just got to do what's best and never give up
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well i'm curious what you think about like marriage i hear you talk about that a lot
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oh my opinion on marriage yeah well i hear you talk about it a lot and i'm just interested in like
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the statistics about like divorce and all these different things oh um i think that liberals have
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ruined marriage i think the marriage is it's not marriage anymore do you know what i mean like
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because tell me what you mean because okay what is marriage when you look at marriage vows it's like
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for better or for worse for richer or for poorer and sickness and in health like there was all these
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in-depth marriage vows right and now you can get divorced for anything right okay so no fault divorce
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yeah which actually that might have been a conservative i think that was that right i'm not
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sure i don't i don't know but but it's like so marriage isn't marriage when you can get divorced
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for anything the whole point of getting married is we're stuck in this right when you take that out
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it's a lifelong commitment it's not marriage so i like i think when you're getting married and it's
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not marriage like that's not marriage anymore okay and so especially when it's like 50 of marriages
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end in divorce so and it's actually higher because that's 50 of first marriages second and third that's
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going to go up to like 70 something percent so it's actually more than 50 yeah i think i think
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they've ruined the institution i just think it doesn't exist like they're because no matter what
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you do if you get married in this country it is still legal to have no fault divorce so all you
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can do is pray to god that the woman doesn't do it that's it like she will always have the majority
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the power and the relationship better chance with the custody and and everything as well which is
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scary even states with laws that are more fair they can't undo society they can't undo conditioning
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right so i think it's like i think it's just unfortunate um because there's people that really
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do want to get married and have those values but as women we're crazy like honestly one day we'll feel
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one thing one day we'll feel another but we're not supposed to have institutions that allow us to do
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crazy things when we're feeling crazy right so we're not supposed to have laws that back us up
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and leaving and divorcing over chores he doesn't do the dishes let me get divorced right but there's
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laws that say that's perfectly okay and so because of that it's not like what they're describing it's not
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it's not marriage do you think there could be like for divorce you have to show and prove
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something more legitimate would that be a possible solution yeah i would prove they cheated on you or
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whatever that's what they used to do well i don't really i have interesting opinions on cheating too
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okay give it because because a lot of times the girls will get married and then stop having sex
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with their husband and then he cheats it's like well you kind of did that to yourself right so that's my
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only i really think people should well work out cheating if they can i really think it's abuse
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and addiction and real abuse not the abuse they have today where it's like he didn't let me spend
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five thousand dollars on the credit card therefore i was coercively controlled and financially abused
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the real abuse right yeah fine i'll let you leave over getting your ass beat that's fine and maybe like
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he's an alcoholic or a drug addict okay you know that's not good for the kids but outside of that and
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with the woman too but outside of that like i i think that it's really sad because i believe in marriage
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and i do think like the institution the real institution is a great thing but the way it is today i just
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think it's not marriage i think that's a really good perspective and i tend to agree with with what
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you're saying i mean it's crazy because girls do divorces or 75 percent of the time right and 70 to 80
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it's 90 percent if they have a college degree interesting yeah college degree i'm not surprised
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by that yeah yeah i mean the feminist ideology shit they'll just throw in that yeah more propaganda
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pushed on you yeah that's for sure yeah it's it's crazy thing that we're just having like these
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marriages that just keep ending and then these kids with these single parent homes we definitely have
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to like you said put the best interest of the child and well every every issue in society is from
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single mother homes yeah it's not single father because the stats aren't the same like every
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though just that just the devil's advocate even though i agree that they're just more likely to
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be with the moms um no i don't think so i think that yeah i mean this is just my opinion i think that
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like kids need structure right and like because women we're a bit nuts like it doesn't matter i mean
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we get on our period we start whining like we start he's like why is she mad and then she's like
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oh oh i just feel like i mean i'm sure every guy's been in a relationship with a girl and he doesn't
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even understand what she's mad about we were fine last week well we're hormonally different every
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single day and and so i just think kids need that structure of this is good this is bad but with women
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we can't offer that structure like we we have that nurturing but i think for like young kids like
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structure is more important than nurturing that's just my opinion that's i like that that's cool
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because it routine structure is so important for kids like me and sawyer do the exact same thing
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like in similar ways and times and if like let's say my mom's watching him she'll mention to me how
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he'll he'll say like no that's not how we do it you know like he wants to do it exactly how me and
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always do everything like the same time the same way exactly yeah and women were just a bit more
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chaotic like i just think like men are structure women are chaos like in general like um you know
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and people think that's sexist maybe it is but it's like if you ever see single women like they used
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to call into kevin samuel's show and the smoke alarm would always be ringing like the oil like
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like the the oil change light on the car is always on like we just like kind of live in chaos a bit
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and you see the women get nuttier and nuttier the older they get when they're by themselves
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like women aren't meant to lead families that's not our role we're not supposed to do that so when
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we have to lead a family it's chaotic and on top of that like you're bringing strange men in and out
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to interact with your kids and now the strange men have more of an influence on your kid than the
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dad you gets to see them like what three days a month for like every other weekend normally is
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like the go-to i'm hearing that's crazy that you're hearing that so often i'm