JustPearlyThings - Liberals RUINED Marriage

00:00:00.000 progressed as society did yeah as well like things have just gotten crazier and crazier but

00:00:05.120 i i know there's like these groups of moms that are all transing their kids and talking about it 0.94

00:00:10.820 on facebook and stuff and it's definitely scary because they encourage each other to do it more

00:00:15.480 and go further there's groups wait say explain yeah there's mothers groups that all trans their

00:00:21.300 kids or have non-binary kids and talk about it and everything what type of stuff do they say

00:00:27.100 have you looked at these groups um i haven't spent much time researching the groups specifically but

00:00:32.960 yeah it's a scary thought for sure yeah because i can't even imagine oh gosh that's so crazy

00:00:40.560 well it's like seeing other people online talk about it and you know be encouraged about it it's

00:00:45.820 going to make more of it right so in california you said it's easier because it's just interesting

00:00:50.840 because it's very different than the uk so in california it's easier to get 50 50 custody

00:00:55.820 well perhaps i should be specific that san francisco bay area is like pretty inclined to give

00:01:01.440 both parents split custody like 50 50 um although i'm i'm sure that moms still win custody much more 0.98

00:01:09.120 like nationwide it's like 18 percent of dads win full custody 27 don't even see their kids but i just i

00:01:14.760 talked to some dads in like south carolina and texas and different places and they said from talking

00:01:19.940 to them it seemed like they probably have a harder shot getting custody in some of the more conservative

00:01:24.020 areas which is surprising i'm just curious like what your advice would be to get custody of your

00:01:29.020 kids because um a lot of guys are just wondering how they can actually get 50 50 custody well i think

00:01:36.280 for one just show the court the effort you know move to where you have to move file in court whatever

00:01:41.860 you got to do try to put the money together find a pro bono attorney whatever you have to do

00:01:46.540 just show your kid because at the end of the day too you want to be able to show your kids this

00:01:50.260 that you fought for them you know you don't want your kid wondering why did my dad fail on me you

00:01:55.300 know right and you just have to put the effort and i think if you put the effort maybe it'll be hard

00:02:00.700 at first with some false accusations or whatever things happen but i think over time those things

00:02:05.240 don't last the court starts to see the reality and the truth and who's you know the one telling the

00:02:10.980 truth in these custody battles and i think over time you'll eventually be able to see your kids

00:02:15.380 that's the other thing they don't talk about is women telling the kids that the dad's a deadbeat 1.00

00:02:20.640 right when really he's been like fighting to get in their lives for years

00:02:25.240 yeah it's it's a scary thought i've dealt with some negative things my son told me that were said

00:02:32.040 about me wow we're sad for me to hear yeah but kids aren't dumb they grow up yeah and they realize

00:02:38.600 like i always say this like they realize what the moms have done at some point it might be when like

00:02:44.380 you saw it happened to kanye in front of you know our eyes he figured it out at like 40 right right

00:02:49.660 but at some point the kids aren't stupid they grow up and figure out like what the parents have done

00:02:53.820 yeah i think so too i think the truth just like i was saying about court same with the kids

00:02:57.940 themselves they'll see it eventually so you just got to do what's best and never give up

00:03:02.560 well i'm curious what you think about like marriage i hear you talk about that a lot

00:03:06.440 oh my opinion on marriage yeah well i hear you talk about it a lot and i'm just interested in like

00:03:11.400 the statistics about like divorce and all these different things oh um i think that liberals have

00:03:17.180 ruined marriage i think the marriage is it's not marriage anymore do you know what i mean like

00:03:21.200 because tell me what you mean because okay what is marriage when you look at marriage vows it's like

00:03:25.660 for better or for worse for richer or for poorer and sickness and in health like there was all these

00:03:30.700 in-depth marriage vows right and now you can get divorced for anything right okay so no fault divorce

00:03:38.040 yeah which actually that might have been a conservative i think that was that right i'm not

00:03:41.100 sure i don't i don't know but but it's like so marriage isn't marriage when you can get divorced

00:03:46.640 for anything the whole point of getting married is we're stuck in this right when you take that out

00:03:51.000 it's a lifelong commitment it's not marriage so i like i think when you're getting married and it's

00:03:55.820 not marriage like that's not marriage anymore okay and so especially when it's like 50 of marriages

00:04:02.880 end in divorce so and it's actually higher because that's 50 of first marriages second and third that's

00:04:09.700 going to go up to like 70 something percent so it's actually more than 50 yeah i think i think

00:04:13.720 they've ruined the institution i just think it doesn't exist like they're because no matter what

00:04:18.700 you do if you get married in this country it is still legal to have no fault divorce so all you

00:04:22.680 can do is pray to god that the woman doesn't do it that's it like she will always have the majority 1.00

00:04:27.220 the power and the relationship better chance with the custody and and everything as well which is

00:04:31.700 scary even states with laws that are more fair they can't undo society they can't undo conditioning

00:04:37.160 right so i think it's like i think it's just unfortunate um because there's people that really

00:04:45.120 do want to get married and have those values but as women we're crazy like honestly one day we'll feel

00:04:50.900 one thing one day we'll feel another but we're not supposed to have institutions that allow us to do

00:04:57.020 crazy things when we're feeling crazy right so we're not supposed to have laws that back us up

00:05:01.940 and leaving and divorcing over chores he doesn't do the dishes let me get divorced right but there's

00:05:08.600 laws that say that's perfectly okay and so because of that it's not like what they're describing it's not

00:05:14.900 it's not marriage do you think there could be like for divorce you have to show and prove

00:05:21.160 something more legitimate would that be a possible solution yeah i would prove they cheated on you or 1.00

00:05:25.760 whatever that's what they used to do well i don't really i have interesting opinions on cheating too

00:05:30.880 okay give it because because a lot of times the girls will get married and then stop having sex 1.00

00:05:36.180 with their husband and then he cheats it's like well you kind of did that to yourself right so that's my

00:05:42.640 only i really think people should well work out cheating if they can i really think it's abuse

00:05:49.520 and addiction and real abuse not the abuse they have today where it's like he didn't let me spend

00:05:54.940 five thousand dollars on the credit card therefore i was coercively controlled and financially abused 0.99

00:06:00.780 the real abuse right yeah fine i'll let you leave over getting your ass beat that's fine and maybe like 0.99

00:06:07.820 he's an alcoholic or a drug addict okay you know that's not good for the kids but outside of that and 0.99

00:06:13.220 with the woman too but outside of that like i i think that it's really sad because i believe in marriage

00:06:20.620 and i do think like the institution the real institution is a great thing but the way it is today i just

00:06:27.620 think it's not marriage i think that's a really good perspective and i tend to agree with with what

00:06:32.360 you're saying i mean it's crazy because girls do divorces or 75 percent of the time right and 70 to 80 1.00

00:06:39.300 it's 90 percent if they have a college degree interesting yeah college degree i'm not surprised 0.97

00:06:43.480 by that yeah yeah i mean the feminist ideology shit they'll just throw in that yeah more propaganda 1.00

00:06:49.500 pushed on you yeah that's for sure yeah it's it's crazy thing that we're just having like these 0.99

00:06:55.780 marriages that just keep ending and then these kids with these single parent homes we definitely have 0.94

00:07:00.120 to like you said put the best interest of the child and well every every issue in society is from

00:07:06.680 single mother homes yeah it's not single father because the stats aren't the same like every

00:07:12.000 though just that just the devil's advocate even though i agree that they're just more likely to

00:07:16.900 be with the moms um no i don't think so i think that yeah i mean this is just my opinion i think that

00:07:24.420 like kids need structure right and like because women we're a bit nuts like it doesn't matter i mean 0.99

00:07:29.720 we get on our period we start whining like we start he's like why is she mad and then she's like

00:07:36.940 oh oh i just feel like i mean i'm sure every guy's been in a relationship with a girl and he doesn't

00:07:44.600 even understand what she's mad about we were fine last week well we're hormonally different every

00:07:48.660 single day and and so i just think kids need that structure of this is good this is bad but with women 1.00

00:07:54.300 we can't offer that structure like we we have that nurturing but i think for like young kids like

00:07:59.140 structure is more important than nurturing that's just my opinion that's i like that that's cool

00:08:03.620 because it routine structure is so important for kids like me and sawyer do the exact same thing

00:08:08.540 like in similar ways and times and if like let's say my mom's watching him she'll mention to me how

00:08:14.840 he'll he'll say like no that's not how we do it you know like he wants to do it exactly how me and

00:08:19.340 always do everything like the same time the same way exactly yeah and women were just a bit more 1.00

00:08:25.440 chaotic like i just think like men are structure women are chaos like in general like um you know 1.00

00:08:32.740 and people think that's sexist maybe it is but it's like if you ever see single women like they used 0.99

00:08:38.520 to call into kevin samuel's show and the smoke alarm would always be ringing like the oil like

00:08:44.380 like the the oil change light on the car is always on like we just like kind of live in chaos a bit

00:08:51.460 and you see the women get nuttier and nuttier the older they get when they're by themselves 1.00

00:08:56.020 like women aren't meant to lead families that's not our role we're not supposed to do that so when 0.99

00:09:01.060 we have to lead a family it's chaotic and on top of that like you're bringing strange men in and out

00:09:07.560 to interact with your kids and now the strange men have more of an influence on your kid than the

00:09:13.820 dad you gets to see them like what three days a month for like every other weekend normally is

00:09:18.060 like the go-to i'm hearing that's crazy that you're hearing that so often i'm

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JustPearlyThings - July 04, 2023

Liberals RUINED Marriage

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