JustPearlyThings - Lila Rose Joins Pearl Daily

00:00:00.160 Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. 0.99

00:00:05.740 This headline from The Hill, it caught my eye. 0.98

00:00:08.460 Most young men are single, most young women are not.

00:00:11.400 Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.

00:00:16.040 It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.

00:00:19.060 Nobody needs men! 1.00

00:00:20.300 The future is female. 1.00

00:00:23.320 Men and women are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it. 0.99

00:00:30.000 A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.

00:00:33.040 You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.

00:00:35.740 This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.

00:00:39.300 You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.

00:00:43.400 Marriage is a bond and it's a sacred bond.

00:00:46.020 It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.

00:00:48.960 Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.

00:00:53.900 Hannah Pearl Davis or just pearly things. 0.79

00:00:57.300 One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.

00:01:01.280 She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.

00:01:04.100 Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.

00:01:09.280 Gee, what could go wrong there?

00:01:11.940 74% or something of divorces are initiated by women. 0.53

00:01:15.860 Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children. 0.81

00:01:19.000 Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. 0.73

00:01:21.700 I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.

00:01:26.500 Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.

00:01:29.600 You need no evidence.

00:01:30.700 When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.

00:01:34.340 And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.

00:01:37.660 I interviewed them on the other side.

00:01:39.680 I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.

00:01:42.580 How much did you spend trying to get him back?

00:01:44.660 The legal fees alone was about $200,000.

00:01:47.000 Before you know it, you're homeless.

00:01:48.440 You're literally just thrown out onto the street.

00:01:50.200 We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women. 1.00

00:01:52.720 Wives are taught to leave their husbands. 0.99

00:01:54.700 And then daughters grow up without their fathers.

00:01:57.060 Family is the foundation of society.

00:01:58.780 Every problem in society comes from single mother homes. 1.00

00:02:01.900 A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness. 1.00

00:02:06.160 Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women. 1.00

00:02:08.180 We tell women to date as many guys as possible.

00:02:09.980 We tell them to put off family into marriage. 0.99

00:02:11.740 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:02:14.500 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:02:18.640 Oh, freeze your eggs. 1.00

00:02:19.700 Have an abortion. 0.73

00:02:20.740 What? 1.00

00:02:21.140 You're evil.

00:02:21.980 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail. 0.81

00:02:25.860 Right.

00:02:26.140 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:02:32.700 It's self-sabotage.

00:02:33.540 And that's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy. 1.00

00:02:37.420 This is not about happiness.

00:02:39.180 The most important thing is the children.

00:02:41.500 And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:02:49.080 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:02:53.920 They think, well, men have all the rights. 0.95

00:02:55.420 They have all the power.

00:02:56.720 Privileged patriarchal system that we have.

00:02:58.980 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights? 0.99

00:03:01.600 I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.

00:03:04.840 Men are alone in this situation.

00:03:06.760 Men are homeless.

00:03:07.720 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:03:09.440 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:03:13.700 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:03:19.240 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:03:23.100 Women are helplessly dependent upon men. 0.99

00:03:25.760 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:03:32.920 Culture is telling men, you are no good.

00:03:34.760 You've got to get your act together.

00:03:35.980 I think men have failed themselves.

00:03:37.580 What kind of a man are you?

00:03:38.820 What kind of a woman are you going to attract? 1.00

00:03:40.780 If men are in trouble, so are women. 0.66

00:03:43.220 Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.

00:03:47.120 Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give... 1.00

00:03:49.340 500K.

00:03:50.040 500K.

00:03:50.680 300K.

00:03:50.980 300K.

00:03:51.440 200K.

00:03:51.880 Am I crazy?

00:03:52.580 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.

00:03:54.820 If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them. 1.00

00:03:58.380 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:04:02.280 Women. 0.81

00:04:03.760 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:04:05.920 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:04:08.180 I'm over it.

00:04:09.200 When is it going to be my turn?

00:04:10.580 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:04:12.360 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:04:15.220 The only simp here is you, Pearl.

00:04:16.500 You simp for men. 0.99

00:04:16.920 No, I think you simp for women. 1.00

00:04:18.540 She's a provocateur. 1.00

00:04:19.500 She says stupid stuff. 1.00

00:04:20.700 But Pearl is right about this. 1.00

00:04:21.960 It's already happening.

00:04:23.100 It's just not out in the open yet.

00:04:24.540 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want 0.99

00:04:28.160 a wife and women can't find a husband. 1.00

00:04:30.200 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:04:34.460 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:04:37.780 Civilization will crumble.

00:04:40.160 The American story does not end well.

00:04:42.680 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:04:45.640 All right.

00:04:53.360 What up, guys?

00:04:54.280 Welcome to another episode here of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network today.

00:04:59.440 We do have a special guest coming on the channel, but I'm going to do a couple of announcements

00:05:03.100 and ground rules first.

00:05:04.980 So the first is that we are raising money for this divorce documentary.

00:05:08.320 As you guys know, the past year and a half, I've been working on a documentary on divorce,

00:05:13.060 but unfortunately, women do not want this message to get out. 1.00

00:05:16.280 So what they have done is they have demonetized me, kicked me off of TikTok eight times.

00:05:21.340 I've gone through three Instagram and I recently got re-monetized on YouTube, but this did set

00:05:27.260 us back a little bit.

00:05:28.160 So we are raising money.

00:05:29.580 Our goal is to get to $100,000 in order to finish the documentary.

00:05:33.540 That's bare minimum.

00:05:34.760 The price is set to a million.

00:05:36.420 Really, that's just if we can get a Netflix grade one, but we can do it with 100K.

00:05:42.040 We're at 25K.

00:05:43.260 So thank you all for the donations.

00:05:44.740 The second way you can support the channel is to join our invite-only members community.

00:05:50.120 This is where I bring on the smart, intelligent, famous, and non-famous men to teach you guys

00:05:54.360 how to improve your love lives, how to make it on YouTube, how to make more money, basically

00:05:58.900 any kind of self-improvement that you want to do.

00:06:01.320 Okay, so next, I want, can you guys flash me the Zoom first?

00:06:08.320 Don't put her on quite yet, because I just want to make sure it's working before I bring

00:06:12.460 her on and that I can see it okay on the TV.

00:06:15.700 If not, I need to press a button.

00:06:18.680 Can you see me?

00:06:19.840 I can't.

00:06:20.600 Hello?

00:06:20.720 One second.

00:06:21.280 Hi, Lila.

00:06:22.140 One second.

00:06:22.880 Hi.

00:06:23.360 I'm going to fix one thing, and then I'll be back, okay?

00:06:26.400 It's just me in here, so I got to hold on.

00:06:29.280 All good.

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00:06:56.420 wrong side

00:07:16.720 i don't know what it is guys it was working earlier but it's okay i can just look in the

00:07:25.020 camera all right how are you lila i'm good pearl how are you i'm good um so i wanted to start

00:07:33.320 i was thanks for doing this yeah no problem i was going to give you your intro is that all right

00:07:38.600 oh yeah okay okay so lila rose guys president of live action um a pro-life non-profit she's got 0.71

00:07:45.940 almost 300 000 subscribers and runs a pro-life youtube channel did i miss anything lila

00:07:51.820 thank you that sounds good thanks pearl okay cool um so thanks for coming on i know we went back and

00:07:59.520 forth a little bit on twitter but i do enjoy having conversations with people that we have different

00:08:04.620 ideas on um so i do appreciate you coming on the show i appreciate that and i i thank you for being

00:08:12.080 willing to dialogue with me and grateful for that and thanks for having me on cool um so i guess i

00:08:18.920 wanted to flesh out a little bit of your ideas on different topics that may maybe have different

00:08:23.960 points of view on so um i wanted to start with abortion so i wanted to see what your stance is on

00:08:31.120 abortion sure well abortion and we'll define it quickly because there's sometimes a media confusion

00:08:38.700 that they try to throw confusion into the topic but abortion is the direct intentional killing of a

00:08:42.840 baby it's always wrong and that's because it's always wrong to kill an innocent human being and a

00:08:48.940 child in the womb is an innocent human being so this is the greatest human rights issue that we're

00:08:53.300 facing i believe as a country there's 3 000 babies killed every single day by abortion it's devastating

00:08:59.720 our entire social fabric there's a million babies killed every single year and this has been a mission 0.99

00:09:06.340 for me since you know teen years basically since i was a kid thankfully our movement has grown but we

00:09:12.000 have a ton of work to do because there's a lot of people who are blind on this issue and there's a

00:09:16.180 lot of laws that we need to change to protect children and to create a culture of life so what

00:09:21.220 laws would you want to change well i think first off there should be complete abortion bans so there 1.00

00:09:28.380 needs to be complete abolition of abortion and complete legal protection for the pre-born child

00:09:33.180 that's the most important law and then i think there's also public policies we could do to make

00:09:38.580 america a friendlier place for families more tax credits and cash quite frankly cash money given

00:09:45.140 directly to families who have children so that it's easier to raise families so there's a lot of

00:09:49.740 pro-life positive public policy but the biggest thing is we need to protect babies in the womb from 1.00

00:09:53.880 abortion okay so when it comes to enforcing that do you think that women should be put in jail who 1.00

00:10:00.580 have abortions i think that yeah if somebody is intentionally willfully with full knowledge pursuing the crime of

00:10:08.000 killing the baby whether that's a woman or she's someone else outside of her it's a man who's

00:10:13.020 pushing that on her another woman the abortion is obviously committing the act there should be 1.00

00:10:17.300 criminal penalties for that okay and so we would agree then life in prison similar to like aborting

00:10:23.480 an adult we would agree i mean i think it's not aborting killing an adult by that sorry go ahead

00:10:29.100 yeah that's okay i think it depends i mean every every state has different kinds of homicide laws and

00:10:34.240 there's different penalties depending on different circumstances different degrees of murder so i think

00:10:38.920 it'll depend i mean right now for example if you commit infanticide you kill a newborn baby right

00:10:45.080 and you do it with full intent and full knowledge there wasn't some sort of mental health issue right

00:10:49.040 you could get a very significant prison sentence and i think we need to have justice like that to

00:10:54.720 protect life and to make sure we're valuing life in our laws so i think it's going to depend case by

00:10:59.640 case but overall yes of course we should have legal protections and that would include penalties for

00:11:05.400 those that willfully intentionally with full knowledge there's not some like mental health

00:11:08.380 issue or coercion issue um going on that i think that is an important part of our legal system well

00:11:13.020 and should be a part of our legal system what is a coercion issue well so a lot of abortions 1.00

00:11:19.340 unfortunately there's a coercive coercive aspect where and and this is reporting that we've done at

00:11:24.840 live action now for over a decade where especially if there's a situation of sexual abuse or

00:11:29.260 uh you know an abusive relationship generally speaking sometimes there's going to be a partner

00:11:35.000 a man involved usually not a husband as a boyfriend who is pushing for that abortion and so if there's

00:11:41.160 you know a woman who's basically being coerced into having that abortion she's being threatened that

00:11:46.260 you know i'm going to kill you if you don't do this um she's being you know driven to the abortion 1.00

00:11:50.340 clinic kicking and screaming things like that then of course when you're uh looking at abortion you 0.99

00:11:55.560 pro-life laws there should be penalties for that for coercing someone into having an abortion 0.77

00:12:00.420 and and those different studies that have been done it's about up to a third of women report that

00:12:05.460 they felt coerced into having their abortion and there's a lot of cases of this you know boyfriends

00:12:10.220 throwing abortion drugs into the girlfriend's drink saying she has to have the abortion she 0.98

00:12:14.720 you know has an abortion because her the pills were put in her drink those sorts of really tragic

00:12:19.840 situations and that that is an element of abortion today but there's no law that a man could put a

00:12:25.860 gun to a woman's head and make her get an abortion it's 100 her choice at the end of the day 1.00

00:12:31.280 outside of like throwing something in her drink right which is the equivalent of like roof you know

00:12:36.620 but outside of that well yeah i mean there's not a law saying you're saying there's not a law that

00:12:42.840 says the man gets to decide that's true like in today's right like today you know just to be clear

00:12:48.620 i mean on the flip side separate the coercion can go the other direction right so the man could be

00:12:54.260 coercing the woman to have the abortion the woman could be coercing the man that i'm going to have 1.00

00:12:58.780 this abortion whether you like it or not and that also tragically happens horribly men have no rights 1.00

00:13:03.920 when it comes to protecting their baby so you can be a man today you know your bait your the girlfriend's 0.60

00:13:10.020 pregnant with your child you have no rights to protect that child she goes and have an abortion you 1.00

00:13:13.540 don't you don't even have to give have knowledge of it that also tragically happens it's horrific

00:13:17.740 and and i i totally agree but i think where i would have a difference of opinion is i think that's

00:13:22.660 just a get out of jail free card that women use when they don't want to take accountability for 1.00

00:13:27.260 the choice that they made it's really easy what is a get out of what what is a get out of jail free card

00:13:33.000 what are you talking about specifically what i've noticed with traditional conservatives and was

00:13:38.300 whenever women do something terrible they have a tendency to blame the men when they can 1.00

00:13:45.460 and so i i think it's bullshit that women can say oh i was coerced into something when women have 0.99

00:13:52.920 every right under the law like there's no way a man can put a gun to a woman's head 0.99

00:13:57.880 without severe consequences in making or getting abortion so i see what you're saying yeah i think

00:14:04.520 well i think we hold on i think we agree that of course it should be illegal and it is largely

00:14:10.760 speaking to physically harm someone you know outside of the womb anyway it's not a baby in 0.98

00:14:15.540 the womb they're they're they're up for being killed which is horrific right but yeah i mean

00:14:19.080 technically if a woman is you know physically dragged to an abortion clinic or threatened she

00:14:23.660 could you know probably have a legal case against him and it would be great if she could pursue that

00:14:28.120 they don't always get pursued so that's a problem but the reality is abortion involves coercion

00:14:33.220 often on one or the other side and that's another element of just us allowing the killing of

00:14:37.940 babies in this country and that anybody has a consent to kill the baby is wrong no one should

00:14:44.060 have that right to kill there's no right to kill and nobody should be pressuring anybody into an

00:14:48.480 abortion so i think we're aligned on that no i don't i hope we're aligned on that i don't know

00:14:52.520 i'm just curious yeah and i'll get into it but i don't think like necessarily right because

00:14:58.400 okay so if i wanted to get an abortion i personally i would never right i i don't believe in it yeah

00:15:04.640 personally wouldn't but yeah let's say tomorrow i change my mind and i want one

00:15:09.340 um what can my my boyfriend can he legally stop me no and that's part of the that's part of the

00:15:19.280 horror of this right right we just did but the other way around like if he wanted me to get one

00:15:24.600 and i wanted to have the kid he he can't do anything well unfortunately in many cases there are

00:15:32.800 coercive situations where there's abuse and they do try to do something so that that does happen

00:15:37.760 it's you could say it's technically illegal like she could call the cops and say get him out of here 1.00

00:15:43.200 but in a lot of domestic abuse situations you know even calling the cops doesn't always work for

00:15:48.280 multiple reasons there's a lot of complexity there so it's just another sad dark part of our culture

00:15:53.020 today unfortunately but how like how what how how is calling the cops not a solution

00:15:59.500 well i mean i don't know how much you yeah go ahead i don't know how much you've kind of looked

00:16:04.780 in so live action news reports in some of these cases right and so i don't know how much you might

00:16:08.900 look into it but in in cases where there's sort of this um there could be overt pressure which would

00:16:14.540 be you know i want to kill you if you don't have this abortion right or there's a sexual abuse 1.00

00:16:18.900 victim like a young girl which we've documented this in multiple cases there's actually court cases 0.99

00:16:24.760 of like 12 and 13 year old girls who their stepfather or their soccer coach got them pregnant

00:16:30.640 drove them to the abortion clinic to get the abortion um you know that was part of continuing

00:16:35.680 the cycle of abuse underage is a different conversation but i'm talking about of age

00:16:40.260 so like 18 so i'm not sure i'm not sure where you're going with this or what you're trying to

00:16:45.760 uh well you know what you're trying to how we might just do you think we disagree on something

00:16:50.000 i've said or yeah because what do you disagree i'm saying i disagree with saying that a woman can

00:16:54.800 be coerced into getting an abortion i disagree okay because the women have the police on their side 1.00

00:17:00.140 and we have um all of the laws are on our side so there's nothing that a man can like he can tell

00:17:06.040 you to go get one but you can say no f you and not so and i would encourage every woman in a 0.95

00:17:11.900 i hear what you're saying and i think i do think the kind of potential language of empowerment

00:17:16.940 you're using of like ladies like if you're feeling pressure like bucket like forget it like this guy 0.99

00:17:22.340 has no power of you you stand up and fight for the life of

JustPearlyThings - June 04, 2025

Lila Rose Joins Pearl Daily

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