Lila Rose Joins Pearl Daily
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Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s a terrible deal for them. Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. Most young men are single, most young women are not. Young men have fallen faster than any other demographic in America over the last 40 years, like we don t need men the way that they used to.
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Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless.
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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And then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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And that's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it instead of doing what's best for the kids.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no wife, and no social life.
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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Welcome to another episode here of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network today.
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We do have a special guest coming on the channel, but I'm going to do a couple of announcements
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So the first is that we are raising money for this divorce documentary.
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As you guys know, the past year and a half, I've been working on a documentary on divorce,
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but unfortunately, women do not want this message to get out.
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So what they have done is they have demonetized me, kicked me off of TikTok eight times.
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I've gone through three Instagram and I recently got re-monetized on YouTube, but this did set
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Our goal is to get to $100,000 in order to finish the documentary.
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Really, that's just if we can get a Netflix grade one, but we can do it with 100K.
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The second way you can support the channel is to join our invite-only members community.
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This is where I bring on the smart, intelligent, famous, and non-famous men to teach you guys
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how to improve your love lives, how to make it on YouTube, how to make more money, basically
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any kind of self-improvement that you want to do.
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Okay, so next, I want, can you guys flash me the Zoom first?
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Don't put her on quite yet, because I just want to make sure it's working before I bring
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I'm going to fix one thing, and then I'll be back, okay?
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i don't know what it is guys it was working earlier but it's okay i can just look in the
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camera all right how are you lila i'm good pearl how are you i'm good um so i wanted to start
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i was thanks for doing this yeah no problem i was going to give you your intro is that all right
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oh yeah okay okay so lila rose guys president of live action um a pro-life non-profit she's got
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almost 300 000 subscribers and runs a pro-life youtube channel did i miss anything lila
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thank you that sounds good thanks pearl okay cool um so thanks for coming on i know we went back and
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forth a little bit on twitter but i do enjoy having conversations with people that we have different
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ideas on um so i do appreciate you coming on the show i appreciate that and i i thank you for being
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willing to dialogue with me and grateful for that and thanks for having me on cool um so i guess i
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wanted to flesh out a little bit of your ideas on different topics that may maybe have different
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points of view on so um i wanted to start with abortion so i wanted to see what your stance is on
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abortion sure well abortion and we'll define it quickly because there's sometimes a media confusion
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that they try to throw confusion into the topic but abortion is the direct intentional killing of a
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baby it's always wrong and that's because it's always wrong to kill an innocent human being and a
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child in the womb is an innocent human being so this is the greatest human rights issue that we're
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facing i believe as a country there's 3 000 babies killed every single day by abortion it's devastating
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our entire social fabric there's a million babies killed every single year and this has been a mission
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for me since you know teen years basically since i was a kid thankfully our movement has grown but we
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have a ton of work to do because there's a lot of people who are blind on this issue and there's a
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lot of laws that we need to change to protect children and to create a culture of life so what
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laws would you want to change well i think first off there should be complete abortion bans so there
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needs to be complete abolition of abortion and complete legal protection for the pre-born child
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that's the most important law and then i think there's also public policies we could do to make
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america a friendlier place for families more tax credits and cash quite frankly cash money given
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directly to families who have children so that it's easier to raise families so there's a lot of
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pro-life positive public policy but the biggest thing is we need to protect babies in the womb from
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abortion okay so when it comes to enforcing that do you think that women should be put in jail who
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have abortions i think that yeah if somebody is intentionally willfully with full knowledge pursuing the crime of
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killing the baby whether that's a woman or she's someone else outside of her it's a man who's
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pushing that on her another woman the abortion is obviously committing the act there should be
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criminal penalties for that okay and so we would agree then life in prison similar to like aborting
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an adult we would agree i mean i think it's not aborting killing an adult by that sorry go ahead
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yeah that's okay i think it depends i mean every every state has different kinds of homicide laws and
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there's different penalties depending on different circumstances different degrees of murder so i think
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it'll depend i mean right now for example if you commit infanticide you kill a newborn baby right
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and you do it with full intent and full knowledge there wasn't some sort of mental health issue right
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you could get a very significant prison sentence and i think we need to have justice like that to
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protect life and to make sure we're valuing life in our laws so i think it's going to depend case by
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case but overall yes of course we should have legal protections and that would include penalties for
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those that willfully intentionally with full knowledge there's not some like mental health
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issue or coercion issue um going on that i think that is an important part of our legal system well
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and should be a part of our legal system what is a coercion issue well so a lot of abortions
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unfortunately there's a coercive coercive aspect where and and this is reporting that we've done at
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live action now for over a decade where especially if there's a situation of sexual abuse or
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uh you know an abusive relationship generally speaking sometimes there's going to be a partner
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a man involved usually not a husband as a boyfriend who is pushing for that abortion and so if there's
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you know a woman who's basically being coerced into having that abortion she's being threatened that
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you know i'm going to kill you if you don't do this um she's being you know driven to the abortion
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clinic kicking and screaming things like that then of course when you're uh looking at abortion you
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pro-life laws there should be penalties for that for coercing someone into having an abortion
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and and those different studies that have been done it's about up to a third of women report that
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they felt coerced into having their abortion and there's a lot of cases of this you know boyfriends
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throwing abortion drugs into the girlfriend's drink saying she has to have the abortion she
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you know has an abortion because her the pills were put in her drink those sorts of really tragic
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situations and that that is an element of abortion today but there's no law that a man could put a
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gun to a woman's head and make her get an abortion it's 100 her choice at the end of the day
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outside of like throwing something in her drink right which is the equivalent of like roof you know
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but outside of that well yeah i mean there's not a law saying you're saying there's not a law that
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says the man gets to decide that's true like in today's right like today you know just to be clear
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i mean on the flip side separate the coercion can go the other direction right so the man could be
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coercing the woman to have the abortion the woman could be coercing the man that i'm going to have
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this abortion whether you like it or not and that also tragically happens horribly men have no rights
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when it comes to protecting their baby so you can be a man today you know your bait your the girlfriend's
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pregnant with your child you have no rights to protect that child she goes and have an abortion you
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don't you don't even have to give have knowledge of it that also tragically happens it's horrific
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and and i i totally agree but i think where i would have a difference of opinion is i think that's
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just a get out of jail free card that women use when they don't want to take accountability for
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the choice that they made it's really easy what is a get out of what what is a get out of jail free card
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what are you talking about specifically what i've noticed with traditional conservatives and was
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whenever women do something terrible they have a tendency to blame the men when they can
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and so i i think it's bullshit that women can say oh i was coerced into something when women have
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every right under the law like there's no way a man can put a gun to a woman's head
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without severe consequences in making or getting abortion so i see what you're saying yeah i think
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well i think we hold on i think we agree that of course it should be illegal and it is largely
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speaking to physically harm someone you know outside of the womb anyway it's not a baby in
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the womb they're they're they're up for being killed which is horrific right but yeah i mean
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technically if a woman is you know physically dragged to an abortion clinic or threatened she
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could you know probably have a legal case against him and it would be great if she could pursue that
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they don't always get pursued so that's a problem but the reality is abortion involves coercion
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often on one or the other side and that's another element of just us allowing the killing of
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babies in this country and that anybody has a consent to kill the baby is wrong no one should
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have that right to kill there's no right to kill and nobody should be pressuring anybody into an
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abortion so i think we're aligned on that no i don't i hope we're aligned on that i don't know
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i'm just curious yeah and i'll get into it but i don't think like necessarily right because
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okay so if i wanted to get an abortion i personally i would never right i i don't believe in it yeah
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personally wouldn't but yeah let's say tomorrow i change my mind and i want one
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um what can my my boyfriend can he legally stop me no and that's part of the that's part of the
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horror of this right right we just did but the other way around like if he wanted me to get one
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and i wanted to have the kid he he can't do anything well unfortunately in many cases there are
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coercive situations where there's abuse and they do try to do something so that that does happen
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it's you could say it's technically illegal like she could call the cops and say get him out of here
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but in a lot of domestic abuse situations you know even calling the cops doesn't always work for
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multiple reasons there's a lot of complexity there so it's just another sad dark part of our culture
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today unfortunately but how like how what how how is calling the cops not a solution
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well i mean i don't know how much you yeah go ahead i don't know how much you've kind of looked
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in so live action news reports in some of these cases right and so i don't know how much you might
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look into it but in in cases where there's sort of this um there could be overt pressure which would
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be you know i want to kill you if you don't have this abortion right or there's a sexual abuse
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victim like a young girl which we've documented this in multiple cases there's actually court cases
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of like 12 and 13 year old girls who their stepfather or their soccer coach got them pregnant
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drove them to the abortion clinic to get the abortion um you know that was part of continuing
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the cycle of abuse underage is a different conversation but i'm talking about of age
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so like 18 so i'm not sure i'm not sure where you're going with this or what you're trying to
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uh well you know what you're trying to how we might just do you think we disagree on something
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i've said or yeah because what do you disagree i'm saying i disagree with saying that a woman can
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be coerced into getting an abortion i disagree okay because the women have the police on their side
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and we have um all of the laws are on our side so there's nothing that a man can like he can tell
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you to go get one but you can say no f you and not so and i would encourage every woman in a
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i hear what you're saying and i think i do think the kind of potential language of empowerment
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you're using of like ladies like if you're feeling pressure like bucket like forget it like this guy
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has no power of you you stand up and fight for the life of