JustPearlyThings - Man Drops Female Game On Women

00:00:00.000 it's not your fault it's the woman will say well you didn't treat me right when in reality it was 0.99

00:00:04.800 never right in the first place people treat you how you allow them to treat you yeah 100 but why

00:00:10.240 must the man treat wrong like why must you just okay okay this is what girls say when they're 0.99

00:00:22.880 shooting out of their league like like they'll say oh why isn't he treating me right now he's

00:00:26.480 just not giving you the attention you want because you're not on this level but where he can get any

00:00:31.280 girl he wants it's easier why choose her easy it's like okay okay if a guy okay let's go back to the

00:00:37.600 cars if a guy wants a free test drive on a car that he has no intention of buying is he going to go to

00:00:45.200 the salesmen that are you know selling these really nice cars when they can kind of see that he's not

00:00:50.320 looking for anything or is he going to go to the honda civic dealership he's hungry to make a sale

00:00:56.560 because he's a 10 he could probably still get the girl that's a 10. that's not the point though

00:01:00.160 but why can't he go to the honda civic guy and say oh i want a test drive but there is basically

00:01:04.240 i'm not basically buying this car because women women fall in love with what they hear whilst 0.99

00:01:07.520 men yeah because then he wouldn't get the test drive yeah yeah because if a guy because if a guy's 0.88

00:01:13.520 like comes to you just like hey look like you look nice yeah i just want to have fun with you

00:01:17.120 i'm an exception you wouldn't do it he's gonna be like you got nice cheeks and i want to spread them

00:01:22.080 tonight but that's all i want oh but i would say what i would say is this a man tells you what he

00:01:27.200 wants to do his actions i think women should look more and listen less and i think you'd be in a 0.98

00:01:33.120 better position i have facts and i think for men it's the opposite i think men need to listen more

00:01:37.840 look less because some guys get some guys would tolerate nonsense because she's so fire you know 1.00

00:01:42.720 and he's like yeah but i don't think that's even the main focus for men because you have to remember

00:01:46.880 when you look at it holistically only 20 to 30 percent of men are actively having sex so really

00:01:52.560 for for true happiness to be sought is there's a there's been there's been this death of average

00:01:57.600 so average women don't want average men it's true and those would work go together so if only 20 to 0.99

00:02:02.880 30 percent of men are having sex what does that mean it means that most women are sleeping with the 0.97

00:02:06.160 same men yeah but then if you ask a woman do you want to share the high value man that you've got they

00:02:10.240 will say no but then what makes you any different from any every other pretty girl that there is out

00:02:14.320 there because once you hit once you become a 10 guy every woman on the market becomes available 1.00

00:02:18.960 to you so what makes you any more special than another woman so please advice or what would you

00:02:23.040 then um advice women to do then so they should just settle within their means um well i would say okay 0.99

00:02:30.480 okay i i have i know i i oh you can do you want to you can you can start this is what i do i have i have a

00:02:38.960 couple options so first of all we need to understand what settling is because a lot of women seem to 1.00

00:02:44.560 think settling is a problem so can i explain to you what i think in in my life settling is um for me

00:02:51.360 settling you see for me quality of life is very important and peace is very important amen and what

00:02:58.480 leads to my peace is my home me being so happy to be there yeah so if i don't feel happy to be there

00:03:05.760 because the quality of my life is not on a certain standards then i'm not at peace so this is what i

00:03:11.600 would say right the first thing i would say is what are your three non-negotiables and you're only

00:03:17.200 allowed three and you everything builds from there so you said the things that are important to you

00:03:23.360 right what are the you get you get yeah it's true but the things that are important to you

00:03:30.960 right you get three non-negotiables in the man that you're gonna choose i know what you're gonna do

00:03:34.560 no but i'm just asking i already know what he's going to do what but what do you think i'm going

00:03:38.560 to do because i'm going to say mention three things right and when i mention them and you say

00:03:43.120 but what if you can get that in a guy that earns 15k no no no no no that's what i'm saying what i was

00:03:48.160 going to say what i was going to say is this right if you have three non-negotiables yeah and you built

00:03:53.200 everything outside of that you have to be flexible in you're asking okay a woman who's gone through this

00:03:58.320 process she's made mistakes she's here she's got this frame of mind now what does she do this is 0.86

00:04:02.480 what she does you have three non-negotiables and everything outside because most women they have 1.00

00:04:07.120 list of 10 15 20 things maybe when i just keep it a buck right maybe when you're younger

00:04:13.840 and you have every guy at your disposal you can afford to be that picky but when you get older

00:04:20.800 you've had to experience the way the market is you can't afford to be that picky for most women 1.00

00:04:25.600 most women can't yeah but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to get a chance 1.00

00:04:28.800 i'm sorry i'm just as we're just picking each other's brain so like as you're saying now that

00:04:34.320 okay you know in taiwan some there's some guys that do approach you and you're not attracted to them

00:04:42.240 okay so this is this is the second thing you're not feeling forget even the looks that they don't

00:04:46.880 yeah okay so this is this is the second thing right do you always wait for a guy to approach you

00:04:52.400 oh i can't approach you i don't have the ball no no hold on hold on hold on hold on it's not but

00:04:57.360 i'm just asking like if you are only going to choose from the men who come to you and that's okay

00:05:04.080 but then you can't then complain about the lack of options it's like how can you how can you get

00:05:08.800 what you want if you don't go after it exactly in the form i'm asking in the form of trying to be

00:05:13.840 submissive is it ladylike to even approach them there is a feminine way right tell us the feminine 1.00

00:05:19.920 way so i would love to know women and men communicate differently men communicate overtly

00:05:23.440 whilst women communicate covertly part of what women do is they they signal so you can 0.99

00:05:28.160 well the look jesus you know you know back in the day they used to like they used to drop their

00:05:32.160 handkerchief yeah yeah yeah we need some handkerchiefs up in here we need some handkerchiefs

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00:05:49.680 i always see three or fours what's three or fours

00:05:59.520 if you feel like you've been in the streets too long

00:06:01.600 i can't believe this if you're like i'm a modern woman i don't know what to do and you're like all

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00:06:27.200 he's going to teach he's going to teach he's going to teach women how to how to you're going to teach 0.98

00:06:31.920 women how to approach you're going to stop it we're going to we're going to teach you're going 1.00

00:06:36.240 to teach women how to approach approach men right very true okay tell us

00:06:42.000 i would love a little lesson now okay so situation this is standard situation you're

00:06:46.880 at a bar you're with your girlfriends you see a guy you like first off you've been with your

00:06:50.640 girlfriends right 99 of the men are not approaching you because to him you're just like

00:06:55.120 a pack of wolves okay so the first thing you have to do is you have to separate yourself from the

00:07:00.240 group okay right and there's a point that you separate yourself from the group now while you're

00:07:05.840 in the group right you see the guy you like it's very important you make eye contact now here's the

00:07:10.720 thing when you're out and about everyone makes eye contact right you might lock eyes once or twice

00:07:15.520 right but you need to maintain that eye contact right so you see him he sees you right the next thing

00:07:22.800 you do right if you do that and he acknowledges you that's cool next time you do it you give a

00:07:29.120 smile it's quite right you give a smile right because all it is about right because thing is

00:07:37.840 if you know attractive women if you're an attractive woman 80 of guys want to approach you in that club 0.95

00:07:42.560 but the truth is 79 feel they don't have the permission to so by you doing this is giving him

00:07:48.960 the permission to approach you once you've done and you've sent these signals you have to separate

00:07:54.160 yourself from the group okay so maybe like you go oh to be fair girls go to toilet all the time so 0.94

00:07:59.440 maybe not toilet but maybe you're like okay i'm gonna go get a drink at this side of the bar where

00:08:03.040 i'm by myself and you give him the opportunity now here's the thing if he's a man who is with his

00:08:09.600 well with all he's got a level of emotional intelligence right and he finds you attractive and he's

00:08:13.920 there's a level of confidence which i assume is the kind of man you want he's going to take that

00:08:17.680 chance and if he doesn't let's say he doesn't right and you're like i didn't take a chance

00:08:22.800 but if you come back if you see him up at the bar right and i've said this to my clients and this

00:08:28.640 has worked several times all you say is hey can you help me try and get a drink i've been trying

00:08:33.200 to get a drink for ages and they've not been seen to me and if what if there's like no one in the bar

00:08:38.800 you're a shit bar if there's no one at the bar well then you know he's that's definitely the signal

00:08:43.600 then if there's no one at the bar because all you're doing is you're just opening the door and

00:08:47.040 nine times out of ten right nine times out of ten a guy's gonna go because the guy wants to feel

00:08:51.920 like the man so you go don't worry man let me get us a drink right and then you start a conversation

00:08:56.880 and that is that is literally half the battle of meeting i'm coming to you with your friends

00:09:00.800 i was about to say my husband would have approached me with the friends and taken me away that's cool but

00:09:06.560 most but like no no you're a one percent man if you can do that because most people call the code

00:09:10.640 approach is is dying isn't it haven't they don't practice the skill of the code approach anymore

00:09:15.760 of course i grew up doing that stuff so i what you're saying is complete sense because you grew

00:09:19.840 up yeah 100 i grew up grafting having to draw a galley i'll be honest i used to do that i don't

00:09:25.680 do that anymore and rejection is what i used to call it because back in them days you had to grind

00:09:30.000 we used to do a numbers game me and my boy would go to a certain location and we'd spend all

00:09:34.000 day drawing the girls let's say we get 10 numbers three of them might reply you might be able to top

00:09:37.840 one i'll be honest the same thing but the reason i don't do that now and i don't advocate for men

00:09:42.880 to do that now because ain't no one looking for a sexual harassment charge no no no no but do you

00:09:47.360 think is and the reason i say is important whilst you're younger is because you learn how to communicate

00:09:53.120 with people effectively at that age yeah so at that time and that's when you learn to pick up social

00:09:57.440 cues because women will signal yeah and where most men fail is they're not attuned to those signals

00:10:02.400 so very true with the look like you said with the separation of the friends yeah just smile most

00:10:06.320 guys will still see all those things are something like that yeah i don't want to get turned down

00:10:10.160 it's true but for me that that's that's a heightened approach if you give me all those signals it's long

00:10:14.960 yeah but the time i spun you it's game over i hear that but like most but like i said that's a one

00:10:18.960 percent man thing most guys aren't going to do that yeah that's true and i've noticed that as

00:10:22.400 well like when i was younger a lot of guys would like come up well i'm not like big of myself up but you

00:10:27.840 know like guys generally like they had so much more confidence whereas nowadays i just feel like

00:10:33.040 they never approach you as a feminist do you think that you can go to a guy yeah i've all like not

00:10:40.000 always but yeah there's been a lot of times where i have approached a guy to be fair i have been drunk

00:10:46.800 right um it is harder like when you're sober i don't know like i don't have as much confidence but

00:10:52.400 yeah like i like that what do you say oh okay this is a bit strong and bear in mind

00:11:02.000 i was drunk right but in one scenario i said are you gonna get me a drink okay that's all right but

00:11:07.760 i say it like a feminine way i smile do you know what i mean like there's like body language to this

00:11:12.320 as well it's not like are you gonna get me yeah honestly it's because it might come with that one

00:11:17.040 yeah it might come across you trying to finesse me because for me i only really like to buy a girl

00:11:21.520 drink only when we're having great interactions because a lot of guys where they go wrong is that

00:11:26.320 that's their that's their approach yeah and to me that's sleazy and it shows you've got no decor

00:11:31.600 now girls will finesse you for that though exactly a drink oh mate do you know how come on you guys

00:11:36.800 have had it like how many girls go out they're like they don't even spend a penny but they get 1.00

00:11:40.640 away i'll be i'll be honest maybe i shouldn't admit this i'll be honest i've been out with a

00:11:56.080 girl that i was dating right and she was standing she gets hit on all the time by guys and now and 1.00

00:12:00.960 like she'll be like let me go get some drinks and she'll just go get a guy to buy a couple of drinks 1.00

00:12:04.960 she'll be like oh can you buy a drink for me and my friend not knowing it's for me

00:12:08.160 i'll be like listen if you're a teen you use what each other has got you know i was just

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JustPearlyThings - April 09, 2023

Man Drops Female Game On Women

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