Man Drops Female Game On Women
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss how to deal with the problem of women settling in a relationship with a man and how to overcome this problem. We discuss how women settle in relationships with men and what to do about it. We also discuss why women settle and why men settle.
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it's not your fault it's the woman will say well you didn't treat me right when in reality it was
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never right in the first place people treat you how you allow them to treat you yeah 100 but why
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must the man treat wrong like why must you just okay okay this is what girls say when they're
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shooting out of their league like like they'll say oh why isn't he treating me right now he's
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just not giving you the attention you want because you're not on this level but where he can get any
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girl he wants it's easier why choose her easy it's like okay okay if a guy okay let's go back to the
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cars if a guy wants a free test drive on a car that he has no intention of buying is he going to go to
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the salesmen that are you know selling these really nice cars when they can kind of see that he's not
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looking for anything or is he going to go to the honda civic dealership he's hungry to make a sale
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because he's a 10 he could probably still get the girl that's a 10. that's not the point though
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but why can't he go to the honda civic guy and say oh i want a test drive but there is basically
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i'm not basically buying this car because women women fall in love with what they hear whilst
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men yeah because then he wouldn't get the test drive yeah yeah because if a guy because if a guy's
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like comes to you just like hey look like you look nice yeah i just want to have fun with you
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i'm an exception you wouldn't do it he's gonna be like you got nice cheeks and i want to spread them
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tonight but that's all i want oh but i would say what i would say is this a man tells you what he
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wants to do his actions i think women should look more and listen less and i think you'd be in a
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better position i have facts and i think for men it's the opposite i think men need to listen more
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look less because some guys get some guys would tolerate nonsense because she's so fire you know
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and he's like yeah but i don't think that's even the main focus for men because you have to remember
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when you look at it holistically only 20 to 30 percent of men are actively having sex so really
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for for true happiness to be sought is there's a there's been there's been this death of average
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so average women don't want average men it's true and those would work go together so if only 20 to
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30 percent of men are having sex what does that mean it means that most women are sleeping with the
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same men yeah but then if you ask a woman do you want to share the high value man that you've got they
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will say no but then what makes you any different from any every other pretty girl that there is out
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there because once you hit once you become a 10 guy every woman on the market becomes available
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to you so what makes you any more special than another woman so please advice or what would you
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then um advice women to do then so they should just settle within their means um well i would say okay
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okay i i have i know i i oh you can do you want to you can you can start this is what i do i have i have a
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couple options so first of all we need to understand what settling is because a lot of women seem to
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think settling is a problem so can i explain to you what i think in in my life settling is um for me
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settling you see for me quality of life is very important and peace is very important amen and what
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leads to my peace is my home me being so happy to be there yeah so if i don't feel happy to be there
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because the quality of my life is not on a certain standards then i'm not at peace so this is what i
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would say right the first thing i would say is what are your three non-negotiables and you're only
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allowed three and you everything builds from there so you said the things that are important to you
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right what are the you get you get yeah it's true but the things that are important to you
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right you get three non-negotiables in the man that you're gonna choose i know what you're gonna do
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no but i'm just asking i already know what he's going to do what but what do you think i'm going
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to do because i'm going to say mention three things right and when i mention them and you say
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but what if you can get that in a guy that earns 15k no no no no no that's what i'm saying what i was
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going to say what i was going to say is this right if you have three non-negotiables yeah and you built
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everything outside of that you have to be flexible in you're asking okay a woman who's gone through this
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process she's made mistakes she's here she's got this frame of mind now what does she do this is
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what she does you have three non-negotiables and everything outside because most women they have
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list of 10 15 20 things maybe when i just keep it a buck right maybe when you're younger
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and you have every guy at your disposal you can afford to be that picky but when you get older
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you've had to experience the way the market is you can't afford to be that picky for most women
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most women can't yeah but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be able to get a chance
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i'm sorry i'm just as we're just picking each other's brain so like as you're saying now that
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okay you know in taiwan some there's some guys that do approach you and you're not attracted to them
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okay so this is this is the second thing you're not feeling forget even the looks that they don't
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yeah okay so this is this is the second thing right do you always wait for a guy to approach you
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oh i can't approach you i don't have the ball no no hold on hold on hold on hold on it's not but
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i'm just asking like if you are only going to choose from the men who come to you and that's okay
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but then you can't then complain about the lack of options it's like how can you how can you get
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what you want if you don't go after it exactly in the form i'm asking in the form of trying to be
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submissive is it ladylike to even approach them there is a feminine way right tell us the feminine
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way so i would love to know women and men communicate differently men communicate overtly
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whilst women communicate covertly part of what women do is they they signal so you can
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well the look jesus you know you know back in the day they used to like they used to drop their
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handkerchief yeah yeah yeah we need some handkerchiefs up in here we need some handkerchiefs
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if you feel like you've been in the streets too long
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i can't believe this if you're like i'm a modern woman i don't know what to do and you're like all
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he's going to teach he's going to teach he's going to teach women how to how to you're going to teach
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women how to approach you're going to stop it we're going to we're going to teach you're going
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to teach women how to approach approach men right very true okay tell us
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i would love a little lesson now okay so situation this is standard situation you're
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at a bar you're with your girlfriends you see a guy you like first off you've been with your
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girlfriends right 99 of the men are not approaching you because to him you're just like
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a pack of wolves okay so the first thing you have to do is you have to separate yourself from the
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group okay right and there's a point that you separate yourself from the group now while you're
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in the group right you see the guy you like it's very important you make eye contact now here's the
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thing when you're out and about everyone makes eye contact right you might lock eyes once or twice
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right but you need to maintain that eye contact right so you see him he sees you right the next thing
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you do right if you do that and he acknowledges you that's cool next time you do it you give a
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smile it's quite right you give a smile right because all it is about right because thing is
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if you know attractive women if you're an attractive woman 80 of guys want to approach you in that club
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but the truth is 79 feel they don't have the permission to so by you doing this is giving him
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the permission to approach you once you've done and you've sent these signals you have to separate
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yourself from the group okay so maybe like you go oh to be fair girls go to toilet all the time so
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maybe not toilet but maybe you're like okay i'm gonna go get a drink at this side of the bar where
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i'm by myself and you give him the opportunity now here's the thing if he's a man who is with his
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well with all he's got a level of emotional intelligence right and he finds you attractive and he's
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there's a level of confidence which i assume is the kind of man you want he's going to take that
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chance and if he doesn't let's say he doesn't right and you're like i didn't take a chance
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but if you come back if you see him up at the bar right and i've said this to my clients and this
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has worked several times all you say is hey can you help me try and get a drink i've been trying
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to get a drink for ages and they've not been seen to me and if what if there's like no one in the bar
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you're a shit bar if there's no one at the bar well then you know he's that's definitely the signal
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then if there's no one at the bar because all you're doing is you're just opening the door and
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nine times out of ten right nine times out of ten a guy's gonna go because the guy wants to feel
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like the man so you go don't worry man let me get us a drink right and then you start a conversation
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and that is that is literally half the battle of meeting i'm coming to you with your friends
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i was about to say my husband would have approached me with the friends and taken me away that's cool but
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most but like no no you're a one percent man if you can do that because most people call the code
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approach is is dying isn't it haven't they don't practice the skill of the code approach anymore
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of course i grew up doing that stuff so i what you're saying is complete sense because you grew
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up yeah 100 i grew up grafting having to draw a galley i'll be honest i used to do that i don't
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do that anymore and rejection is what i used to call it because back in them days you had to grind
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we used to do a numbers game me and my boy would go to a certain location and we'd spend all
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day drawing the girls let's say we get 10 numbers three of them might reply you might be able to top
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one i'll be honest the same thing but the reason i don't do that now and i don't advocate for men
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to do that now because ain't no one looking for a sexual harassment charge no no no no but do you
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think is and the reason i say is important whilst you're younger is because you learn how to communicate
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with people effectively at that age yeah so at that time and that's when you learn to pick up social
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cues because women will signal yeah and where most men fail is they're not attuned to those signals
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so very true with the look like you said with the separation of the friends yeah just smile most
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guys will still see all those things are something like that yeah i don't want to get turned down
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it's true but for me that that's that's a heightened approach if you give me all those signals it's long
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yeah but the time i spun you it's game over i hear that but like most but like i said that's a one
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percent man thing most guys aren't going to do that yeah that's true and i've noticed that as
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well like when i was younger a lot of guys would like come up well i'm not like big of myself up but you
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know like guys generally like they had so much more confidence whereas nowadays i just feel like
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they never approach you as a feminist do you think that you can go to a guy yeah i've all like not
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always but yeah there's been a lot of times where i have approached a guy to be fair i have been drunk
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right um it is harder like when you're sober i don't know like i don't have as much confidence but
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yeah like i like that what do you say oh okay this is a bit strong and bear in mind
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i was drunk right but in one scenario i said are you gonna get me a drink okay that's all right but
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i say it like a feminine way i smile do you know what i mean like there's like body language to this
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as well it's not like are you gonna get me yeah honestly it's because it might come with that one
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yeah it might come across you trying to finesse me because for me i only really like to buy a girl
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drink only when we're having great interactions because a lot of guys where they go wrong is that
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that's their that's their approach yeah and to me that's sleazy and it shows you've got no decor
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now girls will finesse you for that though exactly a drink oh mate do you know how come on you guys
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have had it like how many girls go out they're like they don't even spend a penny but they get
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away i'll be i'll be honest maybe i shouldn't admit this i'll be honest i've been out with a
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girl that i was dating right and she was standing she gets hit on all the time by guys and now and
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like she'll be like let me go get some drinks and she'll just go get a guy to buy a couple of drinks
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she'll be like oh can you buy a drink for me and my friend not knowing it's for me
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i'll be like listen if you're a teen you use what each other has got you know i was just
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