JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023


Man Gets In His Feelings Over This Topic


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Length

9 minutes

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228.21675

Word count

2,249

Sentence count

246

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode we talk about how important it is for a man to protect his woman and how women don t value a man the way a man should value a woman. We also talk about the importance of a man standing up for his woman.

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00:00:00.000 All right, so if we're walking together and he says something, what are you going to do?
00:00:03.680 Yeah, but it wasn't aimed.
00:00:05.600 I'm not saying that, though.
00:00:06.780 No, but she's talking about needing men.
00:00:08.320 You do need men.
00:00:09.480 Yeah, of course.
00:00:09.720 Because you're not entitled to security.
00:00:11.500 You could walk down the street right now and somebody attack you, right?
00:00:15.280 But if you had a man with you, that man would be willing to die for you.
00:00:18.420 Then and there, on the spot.
00:00:19.800 You win me, I'm going to die.
00:00:22.180 You've got to kill me.
00:00:24.940 I do get what you're going to say.
00:00:26.000 That's valuable.
00:00:27.200 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:28.320 So you mean men.
00:00:29.580 Man, don't let this society that we've conquered and built is so secure for you, forget that.
00:00:35.700 Because a man could see, a pervert, a pedophile, whatever, could see you walking in the street.
00:00:39.900 Oh, she's pretty. 1.00
00:00:40.480 She's got a skirt on. 1.00
00:00:42.760 Let me find an opportunity.
00:00:43.960 He's going to follow you.
00:00:44.500 Bro, why is that so special, bro?
00:00:45.800 Is that not normal?
00:00:47.000 That's normal.
00:00:47.560 It's not normal for a guy to protect the girl.
00:00:49.100 Why are you dwelling on it?
00:00:50.480 It's normal, bro.
00:00:50.860 Because they don't value that.
00:00:52.300 They do value that.
00:00:53.060 We never said it in that way, though.
00:00:55.560 We're talking about modern women not valuing men.
00:00:57.900 And one of the things that men bring to the table more than anything is protection.
00:01:04.960 Okay, bro.
00:01:05.480 That's not important, no, bro.
00:01:06.580 That's average.
00:01:07.180 It's normal.
00:01:07.880 It's not normal.
00:01:08.960 It's not normal.
00:01:09.700 It's not normal because there's pussies out there that won't do nothing. 1.00
00:01:11.940 There are men out there that when men do something to their woman, they will not do anything.
00:01:16.620 They are cowards and they won't do anything.
00:01:17.960 Do not tell me that it's not valuable for a man to stand up for a woman because 99% of them...
00:01:22.220 It's not valuable.
00:01:22.420 It's normal, bro.
00:01:23.280 It's not normal.
00:01:23.800 It's average, fam.
00:01:24.680 It's not normal.
00:01:25.300 Cool.
00:01:25.580 Would you protect the girl?
00:01:26.320 Yes or no?
00:01:27.160 Yes, you would.
00:01:27.620 Would you protect the girl?
00:01:28.240 Yes, you would.
00:01:28.600 Yes, you would.
00:01:29.260 Yes, you would.
00:01:29.920 I would.
00:01:30.500 Anyone else would.
00:01:31.540 Only a little geek.
00:01:33.160 Whatever.
00:01:33.480 And there's a lot of cowards out there.
00:01:34.980 That's what I'm saying.
00:01:35.980 That's what I'm saying.
00:01:36.820 You'd be surprised, though.
00:01:37.520 I said what I said.
00:01:38.580 You wouldn't be surprised, though.
00:01:39.460 I think...
00:01:39.940 Exactly.
00:01:40.660 I think it's normal for a guy to protect his girl.
00:01:42.960 I don't know where you're from, but where I'm from, I've seen plenty of dudes lay down.
00:01:48.280 I've seen plenty of dudes lay down and do nothing.
00:01:52.520 Where are you from, bro?
00:01:53.120 America.
00:01:53.720 Fuck America.
00:01:54.300 I don't care about America.
00:01:55.040 I'm talking about you.
00:01:55.500 You say what you said.
00:01:56.680 Whatever.
00:01:57.460 That's cool.
00:01:58.220 I've not seen a guy that stepped down from protecting his girl.
00:02:01.240 I've seen it.
00:02:01.900 Unless he's that 13, 12.
00:02:03.040 I've seen it.
00:02:03.880 I've not seen it.
00:02:04.540 Who's obviously going to run away from his girl?
00:02:07.100 I've seen dudes grab a girl's ass and the dude really does nothing. 1.00
00:02:11.760 Exactly.
00:02:12.240 I've seen...
00:02:13.420 That's rare.
00:02:14.180 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:02:14.580 That's rare?
00:02:16.060 It's coming.
00:02:16.820 It's not coming.
00:02:17.580 I'm kind of torn.
00:02:18.420 I've seen both.
00:02:19.600 You know what I mean?
00:02:20.980 You're saying that doesn't happen, bro?
00:02:22.520 You're saying that doesn't happen?
00:02:23.140 It happens, but it's not common, bro.
00:02:25.140 But it happens, though.
00:02:26.220 It happens.
00:02:27.340 Exactly.
00:02:27.900 But it's not that valuable, because everyone does it.
00:02:29.520 It's normal, bro.
00:02:30.300 It's normal for a guy to protect a woman.
00:02:31.940 Easier.
00:02:32.460 But he doesn't have to do it.
00:02:34.160 The point is they have to see value in it.
00:02:36.520 Of course they have to do it, bro.
00:02:37.600 It's normal, bro.
00:02:38.260 No, but it's like if you're single, right?
00:02:41.120 There's some value in having a boyfriend that can protect you.
00:02:43.860 So if someone breaks into your apartment at night and he's there, he can protect you.
00:02:47.180 That's what I think.
00:02:47.800 I think it might be normal, but that's what he's trying to say, that women don't value that.
00:02:51.880 Yeah, but...
00:02:52.460 I'm not saying that it's not normal and that a man shouldn't do it.
00:02:57.520 A man being a man should do it.
00:02:59.460 What I'm saying is that generally, modern women today don't value the simple thing of a protection,
00:03:05.200 which is the most valuable thing a man can do.
00:03:07.460 It's not the most valuable thing.
00:03:08.420 It is the most valuable thing you can do.
00:03:10.660 Lay your life on the line for a woman is the most valuable thing you can do. 1.00
00:03:14.100 It's the most valuable thing to do.
00:03:15.740 If I love a woman, I will die for there on the spot. 1.00
00:03:18.460 This is my life.
00:03:19.180 This is all I have.
00:03:20.500 That's my personal preference.
00:03:21.540 That is all I have to give from.
00:03:22.840 That's average.
00:03:23.360 It's normal.
00:03:23.860 It's average.
00:03:24.400 You might be saying it's normal and average, but you'd be surprised about how many men don't 0.98
00:03:28.140 do it.
00:03:28.520 That's his point.
00:03:29.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:03:29.640 He's agreeing with you.
00:03:31.240 To you, to you, it is normal.
00:03:34.280 To me, it is normal.
00:03:35.220 A guy should do that, but you'd be surprised about how many men don't.
00:03:38.060 Don't actually.
00:03:38.500 And that's his point.
00:03:39.460 That's his point.
00:03:40.080 He's arguing the fact that, bro, we're on the same level, but just like just a little
00:03:44.000 bit, bro, you're saying a little bit, you're saying a little bit, you're saying a woman 0.84
00:03:45.940 don't value, but it's so valuable.
00:03:48.120 It's so valuable.
00:03:48.780 It's normal, bro.
00:03:49.400 It's not valuable.
00:03:50.100 It's normal.
00:03:50.820 You know, it is valuable.
00:03:51.680 It's not as normal.
00:03:52.660 Ask the, listen, like I said, I don't know where you're from, bro, but where I'm from,
00:03:57.540 a lot of shit happens, bro.
00:03:59.660 I've seen a lot of shit happen.
00:04:01.100 Lay down.
00:04:02.440 Like shit don't really happen.
00:04:03.860 And dudes do nothing. 0.98
00:04:06.040 Bro.
00:04:06.820 Like really don't happen, bro.
00:04:08.600 It's true.
00:04:09.460 It's very different from the UK and I personally, I haven't been there, but even just on TV,
00:04:14.900 you can see how savage stuff is.
00:04:16.040 Fuck TV, that's who lies. 0.95
00:04:17.380 I can't lie.
00:04:17.820 But just in general, though, just from, you can see from your emotion and how fiery you
00:04:23.460 are, you've seen it.
00:04:24.560 I've done stood up for my dude's girlfriend when he wouldn't stand up for her.
00:04:30.280 It's normal, bro.
00:04:31.060 It's normal, bro.
00:04:32.540 It's not normal, bro.
00:04:33.340 That's normal, bro.
00:04:33.880 That's not normal.
00:04:34.520 It's average.
00:04:34.820 Average stuff.
00:04:35.560 It should be normal.
00:04:36.580 No, it should be normal and a man should do that.
00:04:39.600 But what I'm saying is that there are men out there that will not do that.
00:04:43.420 And what I'm saying is that most men, women don't, most modern women don't value the simplicity
00:04:48.780 of security.
00:04:50.000 You're not entitled to it.
00:04:50.920 They're not going to value it.
00:04:51.560 They expect it.
00:04:52.160 It's normal for them, bro.
00:04:53.040 That's his point.
00:04:54.160 He's just not understanding.
00:04:55.520 It's like he just wants to argue.
00:04:57.720 No, I don't think so.
00:04:58.580 I think you guys are just misunderstanding each other.
00:05:00.680 I think that's his point, though, that women don't value it. 0.99
00:05:03.840 And his point is that women don't respect average men nowadays, even when they're average
00:05:08.200 women. 0.81
00:05:09.600 I think that's right.
00:05:10.400 I think, let me tell you something.
00:05:11.580 I think protecting a girl is normal, average standards.
00:05:14.380 It's just normal.
00:05:15.000 You can't, it's not something that you value.
00:05:16.840 It's normal.
00:05:17.580 Average.
00:05:18.080 Yeah, I also think a man doesn't value a woman enough.
00:05:21.540 Huh?
00:05:23.660 Did you not hear what I said?
00:05:24.780 What did you say?
00:05:25.100 I said, I don't think a man values a woman enough.
00:05:29.700 Why is that?
00:05:30.420 Why do you think that?
00:05:32.580 It's just in general.
00:05:33.640 It's just the society we live in now.
00:05:35.660 It's like a normal thing.
00:05:37.180 Okay, do you think a man would rather value, let me be real, do you think a man would rather
00:05:40.900 value a girl that's a virgin or a girl that's a home?
00:05:43.140 Oh, don't go back to that again.
00:05:44.420 I'm just saying.
00:05:45.020 I'm just saying.
00:05:45.520 I'm just saying.
00:05:46.060 I'm just saying.
00:05:46.080 As a person, carrying the kids, et cetera, et cetera.
00:05:49.260 Men don't value women because women don't bring anything to the table anymore. 0.99
00:05:52.300 We don't.
00:05:53.600 We bring kids.
00:05:54.160 We're fat.
00:05:55.040 Yeah, but okay, a dog carries kids.
00:05:57.040 Like, why do we act like this is so special and crazy?
00:06:00.520 Because we go through the process.
00:06:02.000 Well, yeah, but women don't go through the process because half of us aren't going to 1.00
00:06:05.640 have kids.
00:06:06.600 And even if we, you know what's special?
00:06:07.900 My grandma, on both sides, one carried nine kids and one carried 13. 1.00
00:06:13.120 Modern women won't even carry three. 1.00
00:06:16.320 And they wait too long.
00:06:18.060 So, you know, the average age of first marriage is 31. 0.97
00:06:20.760 How many kids can you carry at 31?
00:06:23.800 So why would they value that?
00:06:25.720 Well, we don't bring anything nowadays.
00:06:28.840 What percent of women are cooking on a regular basis? 1.00
00:06:31.360 What percent of women? 1.00
00:06:32.240 Why can't the men do that? 0.95
00:06:33.500 Because men and women are different. 0.98
00:06:35.940 And most men out earn women.
00:06:37.820 So if we're going to talk about like a guy that's a provider, like most men, only 4% of 0.78
00:06:41.920 relationships, the woman out earns the man. 1.00
00:06:43.660 So most men still out earn us.
00:06:45.400 But we don't bring anything.
00:06:46.980 We're not, we're not, we're not virgins anymore.
00:06:49.900 What percent of women are virgins on our wedding day? 1.00
00:06:51.840 And you can't just be, you can't just be a hoe. 1.00
00:06:54.640 Like, let's say a girl's a hoe, yeah? 1.00
00:06:56.120 And then expect the man, like disrespect the man saying, why can't you do it?
00:06:59.560 Or why is it not the same with us?
00:07:01.460 Just shush. 0.81
00:07:02.020 Well, and the other thing is like, if you don't, if, if women feel like men don't value
00:07:06.940 them, it's probably because they don't bring anything to be valued.
00:07:09.720 It's like, okay, if a man is rejected by every single girl, right?
00:07:13.000 If he goes up to a hundred women and he, and he's rejected by all of them, wouldn't you
00:07:17.880 think?
00:07:18.200 Well, there's probably something wrong with dude.
00:07:20.480 A hundred, that's a lot of women to reject him. 1.00
00:07:22.260 But if a woman sleeps with guy after guy, after guy, and all of them cheat on her and
00:07:25.800 none of them want to be in a relationship with her and none of them are committed to
00:07:28.760 her and none of them value her, maybe something's wrong with her.
00:07:31.880 Maybe there's something she doesn't bring, but it's like, it never, women, we're so narcissistic 0.99
00:07:35.940 that we never think maybe it's us.
00:07:37.560 It's always them.
00:07:38.660 It's like the men don't value us, but maybe you don't bring anything to value.
00:07:41.600 You know, we had, um, we had a woman come here and she taught an episode of wife school 1.00
00:07:45.500 and I'm telling you, like she was, she was, she was a bit bigger, right?
00:07:49.340 But she was so feminine, so kind, so caring.
00:07:52.080 There was not a man in the room that didn't respect her and value her.
00:07:55.360 And that, that just would never happen to her because she brought something to the table.
00:07:59.060 But it's like, as women, we keep bringing nothing to the table and then wondering why
00:08:02.120 guys don't respect us.
00:08:05.720 Yeah, I do, I do hear what you're saying, but I think as well, I suppose, you know, like
00:08:10.160 toxic relationships, the whole toxic situation is so heightened on the internet.
00:08:14.540 Oh, everyone's toxic.
00:08:15.480 And I think because of social media, it's brought this negative atmosphere around relationships
00:08:23.280 in a, in a sense, because if you didn't have the social media, you wouldn't be able to
00:08:28.040 see what other people are doing and how they are in a relationship.
00:08:30.360 Who's on social media, more men or women?
00:08:33.260 Oh, I don't know, you know.
00:08:34.800 I think.
00:08:35.140 It's women. 1.00
00:08:35.740 It's women. 1.00
00:08:36.980 So if like, if you say like society, social media influences, it's influencing the women. 1.00
00:08:41.160 And then we, what, we go into relationships and expect what?
00:08:43.960 Toxicity.
00:08:45.100 I mean, I personally don't, I don't want a toxic relationship.
00:08:48.540 You might be an exception, but we're talking about the rule.
00:08:51.040 Like we're talking about common problems.
00:08:52.920 And like we even said, you know, like women want the roller coaster. 1.00
00:08:56.080 We want the ups and down in a relationships.
00:08:58.040 And then, you know, again, we, we ask why do the men not value us?
00:09:02.500 Do you guys think the phrase is true?
00:09:03.620 Men will do anything for sex. 1.00
00:09:06.080 To an extent.
00:09:06.960 Yeah.
00:09:07.080 Yes.
00:09:07.680 Yeah.
00:09:08.200 So if we treat, if they treat us a certain way, isn't that our own fault?
00:09:12.640 Because they'll do anything for sex. 1.00
00:09:13.980 So if we're sleeping with the ones that act bad, then that's our own fault if they treat us like that.
00:09:18.560 But they'll act good before you sleep with them and then they'll start acting bad.
00:09:21.660 That's what normally happens.
00:09:22.600 So you've already kind of gained a little bit of attachment.
00:09:24.800 You know, I disagree with this because I've had friends in toxic relationships and all of the friends will tell them, yeah, that's a toxic man.
00:09:32.500 The parents will tell them, you know, not a good one.
00:09:36.040 Like, like, let's just, let's just call a spade a spade.
00:09:38.000 If you ask your dad about him, he probably wouldn't like him or your brothers or like men you respect in your life.
00:09:43.960 Like, I think it's just a cop out that women say, oh, he's changed all the time.
00:09:47.540 And if, if that's true, then why don't you wait longer before sleeping with men? 0.99