JustPearlyThings - July 18, 2023


Man HIGHLIGHTS This Trait In Modern Women

Topics
all of the programming and messaging benevolent dictatorships vs. democracy
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chad
The TRUTH About Women Before FEMINISM Pearl Asks Male Guests This DIFFICULT Question

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12 minutes

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2,304

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274

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Misogyny

17

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Toxicity

11

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12

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the sit down and talk about all things parenting, mental illness, and sex. They also talk about why women should or shouldn t have kids and why they don t want them.

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00:00:00.000 I know someone else, personally, that it's the same situation that's happened to them.
00:00:03.660 They were on the pill, and they've had two children from being on the pill.
00:00:07.300 Yeah. 1.00
00:00:08.100 Yeah, I think you seem very nice, but I think most women lie about this shit. 1.00
00:00:14.340 I think they get pregnant on purpose. 1.00
00:00:16.020 I just don't believe it.
00:00:17.040 Oh, no.
00:00:17.580 I just don't believe it.
00:00:18.660 It's really not that hard not to get pregnant.
00:00:21.600 No, I agree.
00:00:22.520 You can only get pregnant three, maybe five days of the month.
00:00:26.660 No, I completely agree with you.
00:00:28.460 How are we all getting pregnant left and right? 0.96
00:00:31.860 I just don't get it.
00:00:33.400 I have a theory.
00:00:34.540 I think a lot of women have secretly, unknowingly, a bipolar disorder where they have someone else that commits crimes on their behalf. 1.00
00:00:46.080 And then...
00:00:46.980 I think a lot of women have a representative that commits crimes on their behalf, and then they can claim to not know what happened. 1.00
00:00:55.380 I'm with you, brother.
00:00:56.200 Exactly.
00:00:56.600 Allergies to accountability and responsibility.
00:01:00.900 You know what's funny?
00:01:01.920 You know what's funny?
00:01:02.600 I saw there's a guy from the 1900s talking about...
00:01:06.060 I was reading about the court system in the 1900s, and he was talking about how female versus male victims, even in the early 1900s before social media, women would never admit they were guilty.
00:01:17.140 Like, if a man committed a crime, he might be like, all right, I did it.
00:01:22.260 Like, I was wrong, I did it.
00:01:23.760 But the woman would always have someone to blame. 0.98
00:01:26.500 And he was literally talking about this in the 1900s.
00:01:28.980 It's always someone else's fault.
00:01:30.540 Yeah.
00:01:30.900 Always someone else's fault.
00:01:31.920 Even if the action came down to the person.
00:01:34.940 Yeah.
00:01:35.880 No accountability.
00:01:36.580 But it's interesting, if you say, like, there was another case where a guy killed his family. 1.00
00:01:42.460 And the reason he killed his family was because the wife basically threatened to, like, take all his shit. 0.99
00:01:47.740 She threatened to leave him with the kids. 1.00
00:01:50.200 Like, just financially ruin him.
00:01:51.940 And it's like, if we bring that up, there's no sympathy for the man.
00:01:56.320 But it's, like, interesting because the other way around, if you say, oh, well, she killed her baby, but she was depressed, but she was this, but she was that.
00:02:05.720 There's, like, always sympathy for the woman.
00:02:07.380 There's never for the man.
00:02:09.220 And then the blame would go on mental illness.
00:02:12.120 Yeah.
00:02:12.800 It's not even up to her.
00:02:14.520 Yeah, she was just mentally.
00:02:15.940 Yeah.
00:02:19.680 Yeah, so you still, you don't want kids, though.
00:02:26.320 With the right person, possibly, but not as my, not right this very second, no.
00:02:33.200 I'm never going to say never because I don't know what's going to happen tomorrow.
00:02:35.260 I don't know what's going to happen next week.
00:02:36.440 Did you want kids before?
00:02:38.360 No.
00:02:38.740 Like, when you were younger?
00:02:39.400 You never have wanted kids.
00:02:40.720 No, like, even when I was young.
00:02:41.860 Like, I've always been a little bit of a girly girl, but my mom and dad used to buy me dollies.
00:02:45.780 They used to buy me prams.
00:02:47.520 I wouldn't touch it.
00:02:47.980 When did you get on social media?
00:02:51.900 Oh, God.
00:02:52.620 I started with Tumblr.
00:02:54.020 Okay.
00:02:54.480 Tumblr.
00:02:54.940 How old were you?
00:02:56.200 Oh, God.
00:02:58.260 About 13, maybe?
00:03:00.860 I think, I think that programs women to not want children. 0.97
00:03:04.260 About 12, 13.
00:03:05.420 Think about it.
00:03:06.100 Like, that's, if you're at 11 hours now, you've probably been similar for a long time.
00:03:10.520 So think about how much influence that has over you every single day.
00:03:14.040 It's true.
00:03:14.560 And all of the programming and the messaging is like, don't have kids.
00:03:17.840 Don't have kids.
00:03:18.500 Kids are a burden.
00:03:21.100 You say that.
00:03:22.040 A lot of my, like, I watch a lot of stuff to do with kids.
00:03:24.220 My algorithm is full of kids.
00:03:25.440 Go on TikTok, go on Instagram.
00:03:26.580 I've got all kids doing this and that and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
00:03:29.220 But I don't know.
00:03:30.780 It's just modern society today.
00:03:32.820 And I think it's absolutely shambolic.
00:03:34.380 And the dating pool that, like you said earlier, like if we were to go on Tinder or Hinge or anything like that, the dating pool is the same sort of men.
00:03:40.660 What sort of men?
00:03:43.060 Like, the men that women would always go for. 1.00
00:03:46.940 Like, not per se you would be attracted to them on a sort of mental level, like a mental capacity sort of level.
00:03:54.220 It'd be more of a physical attraction.
00:03:56.960 And that's, I've lost my train of thought.
00:04:01.700 What was the question?
00:04:02.180 What characters do you think, what character traits do you look for in a boyfriend?
00:04:08.940 What, like, surface level or just actual, just character traits?
00:04:12.540 Top five.
00:04:13.000 Top five things you look for.
00:04:15.140 Caring.
00:04:16.300 Okay.
00:04:19.940 Has a good relationship with their parents.
00:04:22.180 Or, like, any adult figure in their life has got respect for their adult figures in their life.
00:04:26.700 Because that plays a big part in it.
00:04:28.260 And, um, ambition, definitely.
00:04:32.140 Caring is a C, has good relationships with an H, ambition is an A, we've got cha, so the last one has to start with a D.
00:04:38.740 Chad.
00:04:39.340 Yeah.
00:04:42.380 Despise is modern, since there is, we got to spell Chad, we're almost there. 0.97
00:04:45.120 My number one is doesn't think women should vote. 1.00
00:04:48.160 Oh, yeah.
00:04:50.300 Wait, really?
00:04:51.020 No, not number one, but I agree with you on that.
00:04:53.080 Like, women... 1.00
00:04:53.940 Did we just spell Chad?
00:04:55.320 No.
00:04:56.640 Caring!
00:04:57.240 Chad, we said Chad.
00:04:57.720 Has a good relationship, ambitious, doesn't Chad.
00:05:00.260 Doesn't.
00:05:01.500 You think women shouldn't vote, too? 1.00
00:05:03.140 No, women should vote. 1.00
00:05:04.140 Women have... 1.00
00:05:05.300 I'm always alone.
00:05:06.460 Women should vote. 1.00
00:05:07.880 Everyone should be able to vote.
00:05:09.140 Anyone that is of a legal way should be able to vote. 1.00
00:05:11.740 What about, like, idiots? 1.00
00:05:16.900 You can have male idiots as well. 1.00
00:05:19.020 Yeah, I mean, what about the male idiots? 1.00
00:05:21.200 Can they not vote? 1.00
00:05:22.720 Everyone should have their right to vote, I believe.
00:05:25.760 Yeah!
00:05:28.080 Whether it counts or not.
00:05:29.280 What about criminals?
00:05:30.020 Should the criminals get to vote?
00:05:31.500 Absolutely, yes.
00:05:32.640 The criminals?
00:05:33.500 Absolutely, yes.
00:05:34.340 Yes, they should.
00:05:35.200 And it's very simple.
00:05:36.420 It's just to...
00:05:36.800 This is, like, more of a philosophical and, like, governmental argument, but it's because
00:05:40.120 it prevents...
00:05:41.180 Because if criminals couldn't vote, you would have a surplus of government power concentrated
00:05:45.540 where people would be appointed as criminals so that they would not have the ability to
00:05:48.400 vote, right?
00:05:49.020 So if you look at, like, most constitutional monarchies today, criminals can vote.
00:05:52.100 Judges cannot.
00:05:53.060 Because then you don't want judges to be able to be bought for their votes, right?
00:05:56.420 Because then they can take political decisions in court.
00:05:58.540 And what you want to avoid is political decisions in court.
00:06:00.700 You don't want to say, he's a criminal if you have the authority to say that to take away
00:06:04.120 their vote.
00:06:04.360 Even in the U.S., criminals can't vote.
00:06:06.080 I was raised in the Canadian constitutional monarchy.
00:06:08.860 And I very much agree that even though, like, I don't support criminals and nobody likes
00:06:12.300 criminals, whatever, but we can't give...
00:06:14.220 You know, in the Soviet Union, which is where I spent the first nine years of my life, a
00:06:17.420 lot of people were deemed thought criminals.
00:06:19.840 And immediately, you know, they're removed from sort of the...
00:06:22.520 Oh, I see.
00:06:22.980 Because the government overabuses the power by putting them...
00:06:26.840 Exactly.
00:06:27.580 So you can't take away a person's...
00:06:29.900 You can't second-class a citizen.
00:06:31.200 Another example would be the...
00:06:32.260 I can't say that word.
00:06:33.380 Well, in the U.S., it used to just be property owners.
00:06:36.260 Remember when you had to be vaxxed to get a job or to get on a bus or to go to a restaurant,
00:06:41.160 et cetera, et cetera?
00:06:41.760 Yeah.
00:06:42.060 Those people, that's a second-class thing because they said, well, you're a criminal against
00:06:44.760 society because you're creating an excess risk of society, which turned out to be untrue
00:06:48.280 and completely manipulative.
00:06:49.380 Right, right.
00:06:49.620 But that's where we ran into that sort of issue.
00:06:51.080 Right.
00:06:51.640 Well, in the U.S., it used to just be landowners.
00:06:54.080 Most people couldn't vote until, like, the early 1900s, late 1800s.
00:06:59.060 Like, it was literally just landowners.
00:07:01.140 Yep.
00:07:01.760 The way we had it set up.
00:07:02.460 But democracy is the worst, like, the best of the worst.
00:07:05.400 Like, there's no good thing, right?
00:07:06.880 Like, it just...
00:07:07.980 It is what it is.
00:07:08.780 What do you mean?
00:07:09.720 Well, I mean, like, constitutional monarchies like the UAE are amazing and wonderful.
00:07:13.440 But there's also, like, a lot of...
00:07:15.220 Not constitutional monarchies.
00:07:16.080 I'm talking about, like, actual...
00:07:17.060 Like, let's say benevolent dictatorships.
00:07:19.220 There's a constitutional monarchies like Canada.
00:07:20.640 But, like, benevolent dictatorships like the UAE are amazing because they have amazing leadership
00:07:25.220 that invests in infrastructure and people.
00:07:27.220 Like, it's one of the greatest places on earth, right?
00:07:29.140 But benevolent dictatorships always have that risk of flipping to not being so benevolent.
00:07:32.620 And then you turn into a Venezuela situation, right?
00:07:35.000 So in one...
00:07:36.040 But on the other end, democracy, you kind of get a mix of everything.
00:07:40.320 So there's no, like, good outcome that you can guarantee under any system, right?
00:07:43.400 Yeah.
00:07:43.540 Well, but the thing is, like, usually you have to have some skin in the game.
00:07:47.220 That's, like, the way the U.S. was for most of history.
00:07:49.800 Like, it was you had to be a landowner.
00:07:51.240 Right.
00:07:51.500 And that way you could vote.
00:07:52.560 So most men and women couldn't vote. 0.95
00:07:54.140 Now, listen, I lean towards benevolent dictatorship myself.
00:07:56.280 Like, I just do.
00:07:57.220 It's just because I prefer...
00:07:59.300 Like, if I'm in a company, like, and I am a CEO of a company, just so it turns out,
00:08:02.900 like, I believe that, like, I'm better at making decisions than most of the people
00:08:07.260 that are lower in that, let's say, hierarchy chain.
00:08:10.720 And the reason is because, you know, companies are built by the market voting for you with
00:08:15.980 their dollars, meaning that you make enough good decisions, you can build something substantive,
00:08:18.920 right?
00:08:19.600 And, like, for example, we have somebody that comes and helps us clean our office, like,
00:08:22.720 very nice lady that does it, but her decisions would not be wise in the course of, like, 1.00
00:08:27.260 choosing direction, right?
00:08:28.460 Whereas, like, in democracy, you know, what you have is usually a very unqualified person
00:08:31.860 being flipped for the next very unqualified person.
00:08:34.760 And so it's not a good system, but it's the best system that we have, right?
00:08:39.700 What do you think is your biggest frustration with the dating market today?
00:08:48.720 That's quite a good question.
00:08:54.280 Oh, that is a really good question.
00:08:57.240 They don't like to chase anymore.
00:08:59.820 So I feel like men don't like to chase as much as they used to.
00:09:03.640 You're engaged.
00:09:04.040 Do you think, do you think, do you think, yeah, but I still have girlfriends, female 1.00
00:09:08.000 friends.
00:09:08.280 Do you think, are your, are your friends worth chasing?
00:09:12.600 No.
00:09:13.120 Yeah.
00:09:14.120 Some.
00:09:14.620 Then why aren't they being chased?
00:09:17.360 I just, it's the same common thing that comes up around my friendship group and my girls.
00:09:23.180 When I'm talking to my girls, it's the same constant, oh, they're not chasing.
00:09:26.760 They're not, they're not doing enough.
00:09:27.940 If a man's not getting laid, would you, would you say it's the girls or is there something
00:09:32.200 wrong with him?
00:09:34.960 What?
00:09:35.440 If all the girls are rejecting a guy.
00:09:37.740 Yeah.
00:09:38.280 Is it, is it the girls or is it him?
00:09:41.440 Him.
00:09:42.020 Him.
00:09:42.400 So, so if the girls aren't getting chased, isn't it their fault?
00:09:45.960 Isn't it probably something wrong with them?
00:09:47.500 Um, I just felt like, I feel like nowadays, maybe the guys in, well, the guys that I know
00:09:57.720 well in the society or the guys, guys that my friends date, they're just more, they would
00:10:02.740 want the girls to rather chase them than them do the chasing. 1.00
00:10:07.160 Well, maybe it's because women don't respond well when we chase or when we, when they chase 1.00
00:10:12.440 us, like they were saying earlier, how, when they reject us, we want them more.
00:10:16.460 Yeah, that's true.
00:10:17.820 So isn't it kind of our fault because they respond to the market?
00:10:21.140 Yeah.
00:10:22.140 Yeah.
00:10:23.040 That's true.
00:10:24.980 Um, anything else, any other frustrations that you see with your friends?
00:10:29.660 Um, no, a lot of my friends prefer guys that spend money more.
00:10:39.980 Um, so they would more gravitate towards the guy that wants to maybe show them a nice time
00:10:46.500 or is more like, oh, instead of going on a normal date, like let's go on holiday and
00:10:52.300 stuff like that.
00:10:52.800 They just, wait, they'll take them on a trip instead of a date?
00:10:55.620 Mm-hmm.
00:10:56.380 Oh boy.
00:10:57.100 Where?
00:10:57.340 Or do they, are they in relationships with these guys or like they're just dating?
00:11:02.240 Who are they?
00:11:03.060 Are they celebrities?
00:11:04.600 Are they bankers?
00:11:06.180 Like what, what are these guys?
00:11:07.020 High value men.
00:11:08.440 No, I'm asking like what type of guys they date?
00:11:11.340 Pimps.
00:11:12.140 Ballers. 0.64
00:11:14.200 You can say it.
00:11:15.200 You can say it.
00:11:16.100 Yeah.
00:11:16.460 High quality men.
00:11:17.580 What?
00:11:18.040 High quality men.
00:11:18.980 Okay.
00:11:19.240 No, but like what, what industries are they dating?
00:11:22.380 Like what type?
00:11:23.140 I'm just trying to get an archetype.
00:11:24.180 Okay, so I have, I have, it's a different, so I have like my friends that date guys that
00:11:30.940 work in finance, like business guys or have their own businesses or, and then I have guys,
00:11:37.200 girls that would date guys that are footballers, rappers and.
00:11:40.700 They're just high value men.
00:11:42.140 Okay.
00:11:42.960 Yeah.
00:11:43.300 Who's the biggest rapper or footballer that slid into your friends' DMs?
00:11:48.860 I don't know.
00:11:49.380 No?
00:11:49.580 No one?
00:11:51.720 She knows.
00:11:52.740 She knows.
00:11:54.180 You know, guys, like if you're watching this, man, like if your fiance or wife has friends
00:11:59.480 like that, like run away, run and like, don't look back, just run, just like run, like, and
00:12:05.100 don't even look, just go just as fast as you can.
00:12:07.620 That's insane.