Man Marries His High School Sweetheart
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Summary
In this episode, the guys discuss what they would give up to be in a relationship with their significant other. From social media, nightlife, and time with friends, to being a good parent and a good husband. The guys talk about what they are looking for in a partner and what they want their partner to give up for them.
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Starting here Alex, I don't think I've even heard you speak once. What would you
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expect the right girl to give up for you? To be with you? Definitely the
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socials. Okay, no social media. Definitely nightlife. Yeah, and time giving time is it.
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Okay. So your big things are social media and nightlife? Nightlife, yeah.
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And all the ho behaviors are the window. All the ho behaviors gone. Do you
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want a waifu ho? No. No. Is it possible to? I don't know. Okay, what would you expect your
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girl to give up for you? I'm pretty liberal. Like, unless I see that it's coming
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between us in some way, do what you want. Just don't be out here making either of us
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look crazy because you're a reflection of me. So if you're gonna go to the club with
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your girls, all right, cool. But then if it comes back to me that you was
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dancing on 50 men and your tongue was down 50 throats, then obviously it's not
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gonna run, can it? Because that's too many. One man, too many. I should be the one man.
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And if I'm not there, obviously it's not always that I can be there, but like, I'm not gonna be that
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club. What if she's dancing on another dude? What do you mean you're dancing on a...
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I don't know, she's at the club. What else are you doing on the club? You're dancing.
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That's almost like a sarcastic refrain, but I understand what you mean by she's
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dancing on another one. But like, I wouldn't appreciate that. And if that was okay...
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And I was like, you know what? It's a dance. If I... She told me... She did tell me though.
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Is it the worst thing in the world? No. Did I appreciate it? No.
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Oh, she's the... Oh, that's your wife that you...
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Yeah. So... But then, to be fair, with my wife, because the story with my wife is a long
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time in the making. Like, I met my wife when I was seven years old.
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Exactly. But then I've said to her before, like, if I met you in the club, and then I found
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like, you went to the club when you was in other things in the club. It's like, nah,
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because I just met... You're just any girl from the club, so you can go.
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No, no, no. She... Now, when she's like, oh, she's meeting my friends, I'm like, yeah,
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go, because she's a wife, she's a mother, she did education, stuff like that. She very rarely
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goes out. She looks after me, food, clothes, all that kind of stuff.
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Very, very, to be fair. Yeah. So... And yeah, so that's why I would question it.
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But obviously, my situation is very unique, as opposed to some other people out there.
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But in general terms, then I would most of you would say, yeah.
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Okay. What would you give up for the right guy?
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Yeah, that's pretty much... My daughter and football is, like, those two things.
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I mean, why would a man want me to give up football? I mean...
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I mean, I don't even keep social media on my main phone. I don't...
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How did you get recruited today? Your main phone?
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Don't they recruit you through Instagram or not?
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She called me. But yeah, I mean, I'm... Yeah. And going out, it's just over...
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I did a lot of clubbing when I was younger. I've lived my life.
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I mean, I'm easy. Yeah, whatever. I don't have to dress like a slut.
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But then what if your husband was like, nah, yeah, so...
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Yeah, if he's the right man, like, sure, I'm bored of coaching anyway.
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So you won't give up. You just won't do it because you don't want to do it anymore, right?
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Well, I am doing it now, but yeah, if he really wanted me to give up.
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For the right man, yeah, I would. I'm not really attached.
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So would you get plastic surgery for the right guy?
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That doesn't really make sense to me because if the guy wants you to get plastic surgery,
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why don't you just find the woman who looks like...
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I've heard guys like paying for their girls' boob jobs.
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I wouldn't want to do it either, but I think that's my...
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But then couldn't you just get the girl to eat more?
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If you put on weight, wouldn't your breasts grow?
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I think it's usually because they want the hourglass.
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There are ways that you can, but not for it to look like plastic.
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It's not going to be up here like this, but like...
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Like to work on myself, to be in shape, to look good.
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But not plastic surgery or fillers and all that.
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What would you expect the right girl to do for you?
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I think, you know, sort of to begin with, just looking with my current circumstances,
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obviously if she'd work this, that, the other, it's fine.
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But if it came down to where I was in a position where she wouldn't need to work,
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and especially, I think, I think by nature, like, I want to be with a woman that's more nurturing.
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So, you know, that early stage is before the kids start to go to school.
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You know, you've got to stay at home, especially if I can provide that life for us, you know?
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If she wants to go back to work, yeah, no problem, man.
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But in that period, you've got to play ball, man, you know?
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Did you answer what you would give up for the right guy?
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Because I was thinking about it, and I was kind of like, I don't know,
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You don't think any relationships require sacrifice?
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No, I have a fiancé, obviously, and I love him.
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But I think the only reason probably is coming from that, that is he's very,
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So he doesn't mean going to the, because I do a bit of a TV personality in Persian channels.
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And so because I do whatever I always wanted to do right now, and he's very happy with the way I am,
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even though I'm most of the time just, you know, I'm very, like, outgoing and stuff,
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and spending a lot of time out because of the camera and videos and my friends.
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And he's always involved and he's loving the fact that I'm very outgoing and social.
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So probably if he tells me don't dance, I wouldn't give up because I'm, I'm so.
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Social media, because I have a big platform on Instagram and I really worked hard for it.
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It's like, you know, you're having, when you build up your Instagram, your real family.
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You can call your family, FaceTime your family.
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I, I, I called Instagram my family as well because I, I kind of like.
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Hold on, better than your real family, like your fiance and.
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No, I just don't understand why anybody wants me to delete my Instagram.
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We had, we had, um, a guy, um, come, come in, um, uh, two days ago, Justin Waller.
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And this guy has married women, um, constantly trying to sleep with him on social media.
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Like literally, like he, he's shown me like videos, pictures of girls, like saying, come over.
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And like, he'll show me pictures of their families.
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You know, but, but it's like, if a guy just wants to avoid that headache.
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Of you, you know, potentially doing something like you wouldn't understand that if a lot,
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a lot of, um, divorces like come from social media.
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Cause my sister had, uh, you know, lots of argue with his, with her husband because of social media.
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But now thinking about it, if obviously he wants me to delete Instagram.
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Otherwise he's not going to be with me because I, I, I really love him and he's, he's amazing.
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So probably I would, but I think I'm going to be depressed for a few months.
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When you don't have that sort of things in your life, you don't really think about it.
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But now because we were discussing it, it's actually good for me because when you discuss
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it, I get into myself and thinking if one day doll want me to delete my Instagram, because
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we never had that conversation and I never thought about it, but now you're asking me
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Well, can I ask you, would you like, would you give up just pearly things for the right
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I mean, to be honest, I would, I would really want to get my.
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You could just do it at home though, from home.
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I mean, to be honest, I don't think the show is conducive.
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Like what am I going to do this when I have kids?
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I mean, if it was genuinely causing a problem in my marriage, like I would, I mean, it's social
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