Man REJECTs Feminism And Loses Custody Of His Kid
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Summary
In this episode, I speak to the mother of a 3 year old boy who has been living in fear of losing custody of his non-binary son, and how his mother is pushing gender ideology onto him and making him feel like he's not allowed to be who he really is.
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is like why don't men get custody of their children i think perhaps it's just the natural
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bias hasn't been that way for so long that they just tend towards giving it to the mother yeah
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that's what i think too i don't think a lot of it's like conscious but i think when you have
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propaganda saying we don't need dads right and that men are deadbeat abusers for 50 years people
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start to buy into it a bit yeah sadly but i i don't think that's a common reality it's just
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a narrative no it's not the more i do this documentary the more i think it's literally
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just spiteful women genuinely like they use the kids as pawns like what what reason did she have
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to not let you see your son what real perhaps we disagreed politically that's the only thing i can
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think of yeah okay so you didn't want to be a feminist so now your son needs to be at every
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statistical disadvantage correct like that's that's great that's the most selfish thing i've ever heard
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yeah it doesn't seem like a good idea for a child it's not it doesn't seem like it's not
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yeah it's a narcissistic thing to do for sure um okay so you fought and you eventually got 50 50
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custody yeah so tell me what what happened with she's trying to make your son trans
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so she's treating them as non-binary okay um which is obviously not healthy for him and i don't understand
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how anyone if you love your kids so much like people do you know when you have a kid it changes
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your whole life i mean it elevates the amount of love you knew you could feel the amount of things
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you could feel like in a way that's just indescribable and how you could want someone
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that you love that much to not be happy with who they are and putting them at more statistical
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disadvantages like you said like suicide and all these things that come along with things like that
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it's heartbreaking and how it happened i'm not sure if it's she has her own sort of gender journey
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going on as far as i know oh wait so she's trans so from what i gather from social media i don't
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speak to her often but um she went from dating me to being lesbian to now she's non-binary oh wow
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so i don't know if she's pushing that onto him or if it's something to spite me as you were saying or
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what but what is non-binary i don't i'm not with these terms i'm not too with it either but essentially
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it's just like treating them as not a boy or a girl so that they could choose themselves something
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like that but she didn't she actually treated him as a boy for his first like year and a half of life
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i want to say so it kind of came out of nowhere it seemed to me um so maybe it was from me getting
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custody or i'm not sure what and how how so he was what two when she starts treating him as non-binary
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maybe a little under but yeah two and then how old is he now three and five months okay and is this
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like does he bring this stuff to you like the stuff she says he'll tell me stories um he definitely
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100 knows and feels he's a boy he'll tell you that if you ask him and if you say anything like
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that he could even conceive as possibly calling him a girl or something like that or giving him like
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a girl's toy when he's playing with his girl cousins he'll like get mad now and he'll be like
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no i'm a boy not a girl he'll start to yell at you because it's upsetting him so much and
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i can tell you what he does share with me is like like for example she took him to disneyland one time
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go to disneyland i assume they had fun right and then a few months later he's like dada you know
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like he wanted to tell me something and i knew he wanted to tell me something because you know you
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know your kids so well you know what the situation is when they say things to you
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and he was like when mommy took me to disneyland i couldn't go on the rides unless i wore my
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princess shoes and i remember just being like you know so devastated in that second but i tried to
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like just be normal to him and be like you know i'm so sorry buddy next time you know make sure you
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stand up for yourself and say i i want to go on the rides you know i don't want to wear those you can
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you can say that but it's just heartbreaking that's so heartbreaking to think like you took someone
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all the way to disneyland assuming what he's saying is true which i believe it is you know and then
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not letting him go on the rides unless he does something he doesn't want to do it's just
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yeah so she's pushing this gender ideology onto him he's not even i mean because the left is going
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to say oh we let the kids choose you're not really letting him choose if you're making him wear
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girl shoes he doesn't want to wear yeah and it's not just that one time i mean there's there's been
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pictures that have arose from social media people have sent me and i've provided them to court as well
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it wasn't our main source of trying to get custody but it's it was one of the things we brought up
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but there's been lots of pictures of him in dresses and makeup and stuff like that he puts that on a
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three-year-old yeah wow oh so you're so you're you're trying to raise your son and you're just
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scrolling on social media or your friends are sending you stuff friends yeah yeah and it's basically
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your son dressed up as a girl correct and there's nothing you can do right now to stop it exactly
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wow the court said that that's not something that they would rule on no yeah and it's like
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they're not even putting the child's best interest at heart because at a three four-year-old you're so
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like you don't know anything about the world and now you can't even they can't even tell you what
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your gender is they don't understand an abstract conduct of like all these genders they just see
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their basic reality in the world for what it is that you know like i'm a boy and you're a girl
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that's all you know kids like sawyer see is just boys and girls and i think it's really sad to
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confuse them with stuff like that they can't comprehend that what other examples do you have
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of like times she's done this um sometimes when i pick him up he'll have like a girl diaper on like
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frozen princesses which isn't like the end of the world like maybe the store was out of guy boys diapers
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i doubt it but stuff like that like a pink shirt but she when i pick him up generally he doesn't
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have anything too you know flamboyant or whatever you want to call it which is good
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so what's your experience been like sharing this with the court they don't take it into account at all
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the gender stuff it doesn't appear that that the court's concerned with that there's other issues
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that have arisen that i've brought to court as well but yeah the court declined to rule on the gender
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stuff because like there was a situation like i got a restraining order on her and one of the
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things i tried to include was um to treat him as a boy and they declined to do that part of the
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restraining order wow so there's no way you can even legally protect your son from her putting
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feminist ideology on him well i'm gonna do everything i can and keep fighting yeah i meant so sorry i meant
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so far yeah wow yeah it's it's a tough situation especially in california is this common have you
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seen this like going into this have you seen other fathers in the same situation i've seen other
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fathers in very similar situations regarding some of like the mental health aspects and the accusations
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the gender thing on a personal level i haven't seen too much of it although you do see stories like
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jeff younger from texas you know and his had like twin boys and the mom was transing one of the sons
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and the court ruled to continue to do that so it's starting to happen more and more and i see online
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there's like communities i guess of moms uh right-wing people usually call them out and call them like
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munchausen mommies which is interesting but it's unfortunately just becoming more and more common
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as this gender ideology becomes more and more common in society wow this is i can't believe this is real
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