JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Man Schools Modern Women on Male Psychology


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Length

12 minutes

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211.51373

Word count

2,687

Sentence count

196

Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Hate speech

27

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In this episode, we discuss the importance of going out with your partner and the dangers you may face when you go out with them. We also talk about how to protect yourself when out and how to be a better partner.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 More time for these guys.
00:00:01.500 If they tell me they're seeing someone,
00:00:02.700 I can just assess the situation
00:00:04.300 and know what's going to happen.
00:00:05.240 But obviously I can't say
00:00:06.300 because then I'm just being negative.
00:00:08.420 So what about my situation now?
00:00:10.180 I told you about that already.
00:00:11.720 Tell us.
00:00:12.700 Tell us.
00:00:14.140 I don't want to answer it on camera
00:00:15.400 because obviously he might be watching right now,
00:00:17.340 and I don't want to, you know.
00:00:18.780 You've already said enough still.
00:00:20.980 You know what?
00:00:21.520 He's really got the gist of it.
00:00:22.300 You know what I find interesting, yeah?
00:00:24.200 You know what I find interesting?
00:00:25.260 You both mentioned, talked about being protected.
00:00:27.660 But then when we spoke about you going to certain places
00:00:29.800 and putting yourself in certain dangers,
00:00:31.580 you wasn't worried about being protected then.
00:00:34.360 I don't go clubbing festival.
00:00:37.280 Okay.
00:00:37.780 I go out for drinks,
00:00:38.680 and I go places with my friends.
00:00:41.260 But for instance, if my man didn't want...
00:00:43.260 I go out because I work Sunday to Thursday,
00:00:47.360 and I'm stuck in a house from Sunday to Thursday,
00:00:49.640 can't leave.
00:00:50.260 So on the weekend,
00:00:51.320 I like to go out and let my hair down.
00:00:53.000 But if I had a partner,
00:00:53.920 and he didn't want me to go out with my friends,
00:00:55.700 I'd go out with him.
00:00:56.820 Yeah.
00:00:57.380 Okay, so we're going to move that.
00:01:00.000 But the reason why I say it is because
00:01:01.620 you spoke about protection.
00:01:02.740 I don't want to be out in a restaurant
00:01:03.840 and a man says something and he can't handle it.
00:01:06.300 And that's perfectly fine.
00:01:07.840 But now you're starting to think how men think.
00:01:11.640 I don't want my girl to be out in a club or something 1.00
00:01:14.000 and something happens,
00:01:14.900 and I'm not there to protect her.
00:01:17.180 So see, a lot of the things that men think about,
00:01:19.540 we mitigate and we see dangers.
00:01:21.120 A lot of dangers you may not see,
00:01:22.600 and it's the part of loving your family,
00:01:26.320 loving your girl.
00:01:26.940 I have sisters and I've had relationships
00:01:30.160 where your girl's going to go outside 1.00
00:01:31.600 and then something's going to happen.
00:01:33.760 And now you get the call, an upset girl.
00:01:36.100 Now you have to come outside.
00:01:37.120 You might be giving your virgin a call now. 0.99
00:01:38.980 He has to come outside.
00:01:40.160 Now, so when we step outside now,
00:01:42.200 two things can happen.
00:01:43.620 Well, more than two things can happen.
00:01:44.980 But now I'm putting my safety at jeopardy
00:01:46.980 because I'm about to go into a scenario
00:01:48.660 which I don't know
00:01:49.380 because something could have happened to you.
00:01:51.400 And on top of that,
00:01:52.360 I'm potentially putting my freedom on the line as well.
00:01:55.400 So these are two scenarios that have happened
00:01:57.800 all because potentially you went to somewhere
00:02:00.200 where you didn't have to go.
00:02:01.460 And that's not stopping you from going out.
00:02:03.060 It's just when we say,
00:02:04.460 when your man asks you certain things,
00:02:06.720 these are the things that we think of.
00:02:08.180 So you already likened it to being at a restaurant
00:02:11.340 and my man's there to protect me
00:02:13.860 in case someone disrespects me.
00:02:15.160 But if your man's not there,
00:02:16.240 this is how we think.
00:02:17.160 What if someone disrespects her then?
00:02:18.880 So I just want you to think about that a little bit.
00:02:20.820 Just to add to that point, sorry, as well,
00:02:22.760 is that you have the expectation
00:02:24.520 for the man to protect you.
00:02:25.960 That's got to be a man that you listen to.
00:02:27.340 Because why is a guy going to be willing
00:02:28.980 to do all of these things to protect someone
00:02:30.520 that when he says something,
00:02:31.740 she won't even listen to him?
00:02:33.400 You know what I mean?
00:02:33.900 It's like having your cake and eating it.
00:02:36.580 And a guy is willing to do a lot more for a girl
00:02:38.540 that he knows will listen to him when he says something.
00:02:41.160 Facts.
00:02:42.180 Like anything.
00:02:44.940 There's so much power in femininity. 1.00
00:02:46.820 Do you know how mad it is?
00:02:47.760 You women sometimes don't understand 1.00
00:02:49.140 how much power that you have.
00:02:50.220 Like just by listening
00:02:51.400 and just by actually just saying,
00:02:52.980 you know, actually I agree.
00:02:53.740 Oh, you know, oh, she listens to me.
00:02:54.900 Oh, she's a winner. 0.99
00:02:56.160 Let me go and do something nice for her.
00:02:57.780 Just something as simple as that.
00:03:00.000 But instead you want to battle.
00:03:01.820 And we're like, oh, not actually.
00:03:03.380 I'm going to go cheat on her. 1.00
00:03:04.160 No, I'm joking.
00:03:04.460 Okay, I'm going to take a second to read super chats.
00:03:15.280 Guys, make sure you like the video.
00:03:17.020 The like is the most important metric
00:03:18.920 that YouTube uses to push out these streams.
00:03:21.760 So make sure you like the video.
00:03:23.020 Also, guys, we are trying to get to 500,000 subscribers,
00:03:27.280 which is nuts.
00:03:28.040 I mean, we've been doing this show, what?
00:03:29.060 Like six, seven months?
00:03:30.340 Like we're almost to 500K.
00:03:32.120 Come on, come on. 0.99
00:03:35.220 Also, sorry, guys, my laptop's being weird.
00:03:38.260 Also, don't forget to leave a comment on the stream
00:03:40.820 and let me know what topics you'd like us to see next week.
00:03:43.780 And a reminder that the top super chat today
00:03:47.680 gets to have something on the board tomorrow.
00:03:50.200 I think we're going to do it a little further back
00:03:51.640 so you can see it better.
00:03:52.680 But we'll have your username
00:03:53.640 and then whatever you want as the title.
00:03:57.420 So let's go.
00:03:59.280 See, Sirdak.
00:04:01.240 It's not that she's lying.
00:04:02.900 It's not that she's lying because she believes the...
00:04:05.420 It's not that she's lying.
00:04:06.680 It's because she believes the lie.
00:04:08.160 Your honor, the prosecution rests.
00:04:11.860 Leather Skirt has never heard these views,
00:04:13.920 proof of feminism programming. 1.00
00:04:16.160 The media saturated with it, brainwashing the masses.
00:04:22.040 This is why shows like this are so important
00:04:23.940 and gets so much pushback.
00:04:26.240 Zentian simps are males who lack a spine, 0.96
00:04:28.560 character, and conviction
00:04:29.960 to actually go after the woman they want
00:04:31.700 while allowing a friend to come over
00:04:33.700 to their mother's house.
00:04:34.760 I smell three vaginas on the sofa. 1.00
00:04:36.520 I see him as an up-and-coming Will Smith or Derek Jax.
00:04:39.880 He's right there.
00:04:41.300 Professor Trill,
00:04:42.560 you're willing to give up a man that wants you
00:04:44.820 for a man that doesn't want you.
00:04:46.040 Make it make sense.
00:04:46.980 Hashtag female logic. 1.00
00:04:48.300 Sentience.
00:04:49.240 The hoe in the corset will find out 1.00
00:04:51.100 that men will quietly place her
00:04:52.540 in the rubbish category
00:04:53.540 because she is strong and independent.
00:04:55.060 The man she's with
00:04:56.680 knows she's not wife material 0.56
00:04:57.940 and will just get his net off
00:04:59.120 but never wife her.
00:05:00.320 No man worth his stones 0.99
00:05:01.600 is Eskimo or tunnel buddies
00:05:03.220 with any of his mates.
00:05:04.140 It's any woman who has male friends 0.99
00:05:06.780 or social media
00:05:08.080 and has means and motivation to cheat.
00:05:10.500 She's automatically in the use and reuse category.
00:05:13.240 No high value men will tolerate disrespect.
00:05:15.760 Vanity Rose,
00:05:17.120 the fact that it was a long time ago
00:05:18.560 doesn't matter.
00:05:19.120 Pac has been dead for going on 30 years
00:05:20.900 and Jada's still tossing and turning for him.
00:05:23.320 Even Willow writes Pac love letters.
00:05:25.880 Voodookey,
00:05:26.880 it's funny,
00:05:27.360 20 years ago,
00:05:28.220 women were shouting for men 1.00
00:05:29.400 to not sleep around
00:05:30.280 and pick a woman 1.00
00:05:31.000 because they wanted to feel special.
00:05:32.360 Now, men are the ones saying this to women 1.00
00:05:34.740 and they can't comprehend it.
00:05:36.660 Nate Davis,
00:05:37.380 love your content,
00:05:38.220 Pearl,
00:05:38.400 keep doing what you're doing.
00:05:39.920 That's a 69.99 CAD super chat.
00:05:43.360 That's the biggest super chat
00:05:44.640 on the stream so far.
00:05:45.820 So, you know,
00:05:46.980 if you guys want to be on the board next week,
00:05:48.680 let me know.
00:05:49.380 Oh, wait,
00:05:49.900 I'm going to be gone.
00:05:50.720 It'll be when I get back.
00:05:51.700 It'll be when I get back.
00:05:52.840 K-Mall,
00:05:53.460 first of all,
00:05:54.340 it's come all.
00:05:55.660 Second of all,
00:05:56.640 super chat is precision engineered
00:06:00.380 to make Pearl say,
00:06:01.320 I hoe you fat. 1.00
00:06:03.960 Oblowski,
00:06:04.460 Akinka,
00:06:05.400 don't wife the 304. 0.95
00:06:06.780 If you do,
00:06:07.480 she will go to her natural habitat,
00:06:10.120 the street.
00:06:11.280 K-Though, 0.98
00:06:12.080 Swiss,
00:06:12.680 YouTube is censoring what I want to say,
00:06:14.400 so here's $5.
00:06:16.240 Vanity Rose,
00:06:17.100 man being celebrated
00:06:18.060 for high body counts as BS.
00:06:19.600 20 out of 100
00:06:20.440 are the only ones getting action.
00:06:22.480 Do you seriously think
00:06:23.240 the other 80 on the side
00:06:24.740 are depressed and lonely
00:06:25.900 or cheering them on?
00:06:27.660 Bernard Schmidt,
00:06:28.440 I would have given second chances,
00:06:31.600 but women never gave me 1.00
00:06:32.900 a first chance.
00:06:34.700 Andre,
00:06:35.440 once you're a 304, 0.89
00:06:36.780 you won't be able to go back
00:06:37.880 to being a faithful wife.
00:06:39.120 The 304 always comes back up again.
00:06:41.500 Men don't need that. 1.00
00:06:42.460 Be a 304 if you want, 1.00
00:06:43.620 but understand there is a price to pay.
00:06:47.080 Ruben Padilla,
00:06:48.200 you should watch the YouTuber McQueen.
00:06:50.500 He goes picking girls, 1.00
00:06:52.060 acting,
00:06:52.480 and using Andrew Tate lines.
00:06:53.940 He has so many numbers.
00:06:56.120 Okay,
00:06:56.380 that's all the super chats.
00:06:57.600 Guys,
00:06:57.800 don't forget to like the video
00:06:59.020 on your way in.
00:07:01.340 So,
00:07:01.920 I asked this question earlier.
00:07:06.420 How,
00:07:07.100 to the guys,
00:07:08.420 would you rather date a girl
00:07:11.060 that has,
00:07:12.920 let's say,
00:07:13.580 75 bodies
00:07:14.700 or
00:07:16.080 a child?
00:07:18.420 But how much bodies
00:07:20.420 does the girl, 1.00
00:07:20.980 the child,
00:07:21.360 have?
00:07:22.280 Let's say,
00:07:22.820 let's say low,
00:07:23.340 five,
00:07:24.000 three,
00:07:25.340 three,
00:07:25.940 two,
00:07:26.220 two.
00:07:27.840 Probably the girl with the child,
00:07:29.160 but it's still awkward
00:07:30.040 at the same time.
00:07:32.100 Yeah.
00:07:33.140 Do I,
00:07:34.140 okay,
00:07:35.100 wait,
00:07:35.380 do I know any of these 75 bodies?
00:07:39.640 Um,
00:07:40.340 let's say,
00:07:42.820 75,
00:07:43.640 you gotta know one.
00:07:45.280 You gotta know one.
00:07:46.620 75 bodies,
00:07:51.840 you know?
00:07:52.620 75 bodies over a child?
00:07:54.160 Yeah,
00:07:54.480 every time.
00:07:56.600 Definitely the child,
00:07:57.900 because today,
00:07:58.760 the amount girls demand 1.00
00:08:00.240 from boys,
00:08:01.540 they get boys to work hard
00:08:03.440 like anything,
00:08:05.000 and they hardly even
00:08:06.420 give a child.
00:08:08.260 And they part up
00:08:09.800 very quickly
00:08:10.460 if boys don't work hard
00:08:11.880 and earn an amount.
00:08:13.580 So,
00:08:14.180 so you would date the woman 0.51
00:08:15.140 with the child
00:08:15.800 over 75?
00:08:17.020 Yeah,
00:08:17.280 and today,
00:08:18.000 many times that
00:08:19.000 the basic benefit
00:08:20.360 for a boy to marry a girl 0.98
00:08:21.820 is just pushing on generation.
00:08:24.700 There's hardly any other benefit
00:08:26.380 of marriage today.
00:08:27.780 There isn't.
00:08:28.540 That's why many people
00:08:29.700 are getting married
00:08:30.180 if you look at our generation.
00:08:31.580 For me,
00:08:31.920 I'd say,
00:08:32.860 I would choose
00:08:33.800 the girl with a child
00:08:35.380 because
00:08:35.880 the woman who's got 75 bodies 1.00
00:08:38.800 is less valuable.
00:08:39.760 It's like,
00:08:40.100 I don't want her
00:08:40.720 because now everybody wants her.
00:08:42.200 Or everybody's had her.
00:08:43.600 So it's like,
00:08:44.100 you can put her to the side. 0.62
00:08:45.240 Yeah,
00:08:45.460 but reality,
00:08:46.740 someone that's got a child
00:08:47.620 is actually less valuable
00:08:48.620 because they're already
00:08:49.160 given the highest honour
00:08:50.020 they can give to a man
00:08:50.720 by pushing out
00:08:51.260 someone else's child.
00:08:52.440 So you might see it different
00:08:53.560 because you've got a child,
00:08:54.620 but to a man like me,
00:08:56.240 like,
00:08:56.860 there's no,
00:08:57.360 I get no benefit
00:08:58.420 from coming in
00:08:59.160 and bringing up
00:08:59.600 another man's child.
00:09:00.660 Another man's,
00:09:01.800 there's no benefit
00:09:02.820 for me at all.
00:09:03.740 I can't pass on my seeds.
00:09:05.200 Like,
00:09:05.300 it's not my...
00:09:06.080 So have you ever dated
00:09:07.100 a girl that's got a child before? 0.99
00:09:08.620 It doesn't sound like you have.
00:09:10.120 No,
00:09:10.420 but,
00:09:11.140 no,
00:09:11.500 I've slept with women 1.00
00:09:13.560 with children.
00:09:14.000 No,
00:09:14.400 that's not the question I asked.
00:09:15.740 Have you ever dated a girl
00:09:17.520 that's got a child? 1.00
00:09:18.560 No,
00:09:18.800 but I wouldn't.
00:09:20.040 Why?
00:09:20.680 Because men don't, 0.98
00:09:21.980 men don't finish
00:09:22.920 other men's games.
00:09:25.580 And this is the truth of the matter,
00:09:26.740 like,
00:09:26.960 end of the day,
00:09:27.540 you're going to see something differently
00:09:28.700 because you've got a child,
00:09:29.600 but myself,
00:09:30.900 I've got to a good age
00:09:31.680 with no children.
00:09:32.640 My friend over there as well,
00:09:33.980 got to a good age
00:09:34.540 with no children.
00:09:35.160 There's some responsibility
00:09:35.900 you need to have.
00:09:37.020 So I think,
00:09:38.040 when we grew up,
00:09:39.060 we were told that,
00:09:40.200 you know,
00:09:40.440 if you went out there
00:09:41.120 or you had a child out of bed
00:09:42.140 that could be a lot harder for you.
00:09:43.660 So we knew that.
00:09:44.860 But there seem to be something now
00:09:45.800 they're trying to push.
00:09:46.500 Being a stepdad
00:09:47.160 is some type of good thing
00:09:48.520 that men should do 0.99
00:09:49.460 and it's an honour.
00:09:49.980 It's not an honour,
00:09:50.640 it's a big disrespect for us
00:09:51.780 because we get a continuous reminder
00:09:53.340 that we were not the first choice.
00:09:55.460 As far as I'm concerned,
00:09:56.500 both of you women are virgins. 0.77
00:09:57.520 The only way I know
00:09:58.440 you're not a virgin
00:09:59.080 is when you come with a child
00:10:00.120 and that's how the world
00:10:00.920 looks at it.
00:10:01.880 So there's no benefits
00:10:03.280 for us, man.
00:10:07.200 Yeah,
00:10:07.560 pretty much.
00:10:08.140 What's the benefit?
00:10:09.380 Why do you feel
00:10:10.220 that it's so good
00:10:11.120 without a child?
00:10:12.740 Otherwise,
00:10:13.220 how do we progress
00:10:14.160 our generation?
00:10:15.700 No,
00:10:16.060 that's not my job.
00:10:16.660 She should have married 0.99
00:10:17.000 the guy before she had a child.
00:10:17.820 He wants to have a kid
00:10:21.480 with a girl.
00:10:21.960 He doesn't want to raise
00:10:22.460 someone else's kid.
00:10:24.360 It comes down to
00:10:24.840 poor decision making
00:10:25.580 again as well,
00:10:26.220 you know.
00:10:27.040 And I think
00:10:27.860 a lot of,
00:10:28.760 you know what,
00:10:29.220 what really annoys me,
00:10:30.980 I'll tell you what annoys me
00:10:31.760 is meeting women
00:10:32.740 outside the nightclub
00:10:33.920 with newly born kids
00:10:34.820 on like one year old
00:10:35.920 and they're looking
00:10:36.220 for a new man.
00:10:36.900 I just do not understand it.
00:10:38.700 You,
00:10:39.040 you,
00:10:39.720 you pushed out
00:10:40.480 a whole man's kid 0.99
00:10:41.340 that you have no idea
00:10:42.860 that you,
00:10:43.360 that you don't want to be with.
00:10:44.380 Now you're outside
00:10:45.160 looking for a new man
00:10:46.460 and you really think
00:10:47.500 like you're going to get
00:10:48.600 a good quality man.
00:10:49.420 Nah,
00:10:49.660 you're just going to get dates
00:10:50.640 and get your back blown out. 0.53
00:10:51.920 So I'm saying to you,
00:10:52.420 that's all you're going to get
00:10:53.220 because society has lied to you
00:10:54.660 and made you think that
00:10:55.400 you can go and get high
00:10:56.540 and typically you don't get
00:10:57.460 higher than your baby dad.
00:10:58.480 So wherever your baby dad is,
00:10:59.900 when women are cussing 1.00
00:11:00.560 their baby dad,
00:11:01.560 we look at you and say,
00:11:02.300 oh,
00:11:02.460 but you bred from that man.
00:11:03.880 Like,
00:11:04.400 and now you're trying to come to me
00:11:05.580 and you want me to come
00:11:06.540 and pick up the mess.
00:11:07.460 So for example,
00:11:08.100 let me say something to you.
00:11:09.020 If I meet you
00:11:09.480 and you've got one child,
00:11:11.300 if I want to get married to you,
00:11:13.360 I want to move in with you,
00:11:17.500 it might have been enough
00:11:18.020 we could have started
00:11:18.480 even a two bedroom.
00:11:19.660 Cool.
00:11:20.020 But I have to think about your child.
00:11:21.400 So when I want to have my own child,
00:11:22.840 we need to actually have a three bedroom.
00:11:23.960 It's already costing me.
00:11:25.100 So if I want to send my children to school,
00:11:27.100 you know,
00:11:27.300 I want to send my child to private school.
00:11:29.160 Can I send my child to private school
00:11:30.420 and send your kid
00:11:30.960 to the local comprehensive?
00:11:32.020 Will you like that?
00:11:33.040 If I want to buy my child,
00:11:34.760 for example,
00:11:35.740 Jordans,
00:11:36.200 but your child wants trainers,
00:11:37.120 I'm like,
00:11:37.400 no,
00:11:37.520 I'm going to buy them high tech.
00:11:39.080 Is that okay with you?
00:11:40.260 If we go out,
00:11:41.280 if we go out,
00:11:42.160 for example,
00:11:42.840 to the fun fair,
00:11:44.180 to Thorpe Park,
00:11:44.780 Alton Towers,
00:11:45.900 my child wants to get ice cream, 0.99
00:11:48.220 wants to get some,
00:11:48.920 you know,
00:11:49.360 wants to get some teddies
00:11:50.080 and I buy them
00:11:50.680 and then your child says,
00:11:51.520 can I have some?
00:11:52.040 I said,
00:11:52.300 no,
00:11:52.800 go and call your dad
00:11:53.480 and pay for him.
00:11:54.020 Are you going to be okay with that?
00:11:55.340 The fact remains is
00:11:56.260 these childs are going to be a cost for us.
00:11:57.940 Women don't look at it like that, 1.00
00:11:58.900 but men,
00:11:59.300 we see it like that.
00:12:00.060 So there's no benefits
00:12:01.180 of me raising your child
00:12:03.060 other than the ones
00:12:03.740 that you will see fit.
00:12:04.860 Can I discipline your child
00:12:05.800 the way I want to?
00:12:07.140 Can I hit your child
00:12:07.820 if I want to?
00:12:08.320 You might not see hitting your child,
00:12:09.320 but I may want to do that.
00:12:10.240 Can I do that?
00:12:11.220 In the future,
00:12:11.760 if you have a female daughter,
00:12:12.800 in the future,
00:12:13.260 she gets old enough
00:12:13.960 and she makes an accusation against me.
00:12:15.680 Are you going to treat me like a father
00:12:16.880 or are you going to treat me as someone?
00:12:18.420 These are all things
00:12:19.160 that men mitigate and think to.
00:12:20.680 And because you don't think as far as head,
00:12:22.500 you don't realize
00:12:23.100 why it's so dangerous
00:12:23.880 and it's not worth us being stepdads.
00:12:26.220 As many of you know,
00:12:27.080 I was just banned on TikTok
00:12:29.120 and we are demonetized
00:12:30.840 on a daily basis
00:12:32.080 on this platform.
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