Marriage Puts Men At RISK
Episode Stats
Words per Minute
243.43138
Summary
In this episode, we talk about the perils of post-marriage society and the reasons why men don t want to get married anymore. What do we do with the men who have been scared away from the idea of marriage and why? We also talk about why women should wait until they re married to have sex but at the same time we also hear from men that they don't want to live with the women anymore.
Transcript
00:00:00.000
speaking of speaking of marriage um i wanted to know do you think we're in a post-marriage society
00:00:08.160
because on one hand um we hear that women should wait till they're married to have sex but at the
00:00:13.040
same time we also hear from the men that they don't want to get married anymore
00:00:17.040
so what do we do with that seems like it's true because nowadays a lot of people are looking at
00:00:21.280
marriage as a contract rather than a partnership and there's a huge difference between that because
00:00:25.920
with a contract there are so many terms and many headaches and this and that i know it is it is a
00:00:30.560
contract well that's why yeah but that's because that is what it is now because realistically the
00:00:36.400
traditional sense of marriage is not a contract really in terms of the law once the law is involved
00:00:41.200
that's when everything went tits up i think yeah so the problem is is that there's zero advantage
00:00:48.800
to marriage in the western world for a man there is zero statistical advantage if you use your mind
00:00:54.800
if you use your head instead of your heart and you look at the advantages to getting married there
00:00:58.000
are absolutely not really none because this new idea of new age feminism just basically destroys
00:01:03.280
all men in the idea or in the event of her leaving and and it's very common that women leave right
00:01:09.120
let's let's stop the man versus woman attack etc etc life's difficult for everybody we all have
00:01:13.280
different challenges different things to go through but if a woman marries a man and it goes wrong
00:01:17.440
she has emotional heartbreak fine but if a man marries a woman and it goes wrong he has emotional
00:01:22.240
heartbreak plus everything he has ever worked for is ripped out from underneath him and he has to
00:01:27.440
give that chick money forever in some places you don't even have to be married exactly that's why
00:01:32.160
the men don't want to live with the women either that's right so when you make these rules and these
00:01:35.760
laws right under the guise of feminism and equality all this garbage all you're doing is scaring men
00:01:40.800
away from commitment and then you have to add in the other hidden element and the other hidden element
00:01:45.280
is what i said earlier is whose fault a lot of this is is promiscuous women right so in society
00:01:49.440
he's broken down if women were saying if all women got together and said we'll only have sex
00:01:54.240
after marriage guess what men would do get married but you don't right so now you're in miami i go miami
00:01:59.840
i can fuck anything in the club i don't have to marry any of them if i marry them i get wrecked
00:02:04.560
so like let's all use our brains here what am i gonna do well i'm gonna be like well no bounce see
00:02:10.800
uh no no so men have been scared away from the idea of marriage and that's a law that is the fault of
00:02:16.000
this new law and this new feminism and this new crap they don't give men any tactical advantage
00:02:22.400
and i'm talking about small things a man's not even allowed to be a man in his own house you know
00:02:27.200
in england you will get accused of emotional abuse i can marry a woman not lay a hand on her i can just
00:02:34.080
raise my voice to her that's emotional abuse i can raise my voice to her because she's going out
00:02:38.880
drinking with dudes she can go out drinking six nights a week with men and i can say what the
00:02:43.840
fuck you're my wife sit down she can call the cops call me emotionally abusive i get arrested
00:02:48.560
now now there's a court case against me i have to go to court and defend myself she'll divorce me
00:02:53.280
take my house i have to sell my car because she's drinking vodka with fucking god knows who but you
00:02:58.320
know it's what do you think what do you think of child support and that's another interesting
00:03:05.200
thing because a lot of these arguments it's it's it goes beyond man and woman and it goes into the
00:03:10.720
the larger sphere as a whole right because we talked earlier about war and how a lot of men used
00:03:15.520
to die and that doesn't happen anymore so what you used to have in societies and i'm not saying i have
00:03:20.000
all the answers i'm just commenting right what you used to have in societies is a bunch of men would die
00:03:24.960
at war because men have more dangerous lives than women there'd be a bunch more women than men the top
00:03:29.760
g's would impregnate a bunch of women and the top g's could take care of the women and that'd be
00:03:33.040
etc etc that's now changed right so the reason a lot of the reason that monogamy is pushed is because
00:03:38.400
it's good for society and it is good for society it's good for society as a whole to have a man
00:03:42.560
a woman a family they're together the man provides for the woman etc the government doesn't want to
00:03:47.040
pay for all these kids if you don't have child support who's paying for these kids the government
00:03:49.600
does it it breaks down right so that's why child support is enforced in many parts of the world
00:03:54.640
in certain other parts of the world child support isn't enforced because they have religious beliefs
00:03:58.240
or genuine family beliefs that keep the families together but in the western world now you need
00:04:03.040
child support because you've broken things down to the point where men don't want to be
00:04:06.800
married to chicks chicks don't want to listen to the man the man can't even be the man in his
00:04:10.720
own household he can't even feel respected where he goes his woman gives her him no status and and
00:04:15.680
now he doesn't want to deal with her anymore so how do you get that kid paid for well then tell the
00:04:20.320
man or you go to jail and you just come along with a long arm of the law and you
00:04:23.280
him and so yeah it's difficult it's hard to answer yeah but it's hard to answer the true answer to all
00:04:28.800
of it is an idealistic answer i don't like to think idealistically and talk idealistically but it's the truth
00:04:33.200
the true answer to it is to instill in the man a sense of duty in which he wants to take care of
00:04:37.680
his woman regardless because that's his child but you will do that i'll tell you how you do that you
00:04:41.840
do that by inspiring out of the man by being a very good woman so i'll give you an example if i had a
00:04:46.400
child with a woman and she was always a great woman to me she was never she never cheated on me she was
00:04:51.440
a good woman to me and i was running around being whatever and she's like look i just can't put up with
00:04:56.160
you anymore you're top g you're gonna do what you're gonna do i'm gonna look after your kid i'm
00:05:00.800
gonna you can see him anytime you want i care about you please don't leave me in poverty i'd say cool
00:05:07.200
100 i'm not i'm not a dickhead cool that's a real man though because i was in a situation just
00:05:13.280
yeah but i was just in a situation like that to where it's like hearts don't break even and that's
00:05:17.760
the reality too it's like if those morals and principles are not instilled in a man none of that
00:05:21.840
that shit matters so obviously the child support stuff obviously hits close home to me because
00:05:26.080
i'm already 50 000 it's just in lawyer fees trying to get him to provide yeah you know what i mean
00:05:31.760
and it sucks because it's like you playing the nba like why couldn't you why don't you want to do more
00:05:36.560
and it's just because again of the relationship it's personal it's not about our personal that's
00:05:40.560
right so it's like yeah if you're not so i just i just feel like it's like why do you get money for
00:05:45.920
making a poor choice well it wasn't a poor choice because it was it took two i'm not trying to like
00:05:50.160
disrespect you in any way it's just like if you left and so it's like why do you get money for it
00:05:56.080
just right because we because we made a commitment so we made it at the end of the day we made a
00:06:00.560
commitment we have a forever commitment marriage we're we are forever family so again as someone
00:06:06.080
who is literally going through this if i made more money than him i would be paying him child
00:06:10.400
support and that would be fair to me but this is what's really interesting what's truly interesting
00:06:13.920
is if you go to other countries and i'm talking about civilized countries right if you go to
00:06:17.920
poland or czech republic or whatever these countries which are in many metrics more civilized
00:06:22.720
than the west they're safer to live in they're cleaner etc there's no child support laws so if
00:06:28.080
you have a divorce the man just takes care of the woman because that's his kid and that's just what
00:06:31.040
he's supposed to do and that's just it so what you're saying is he you're right about the man having
00:06:35.600
the morality instilled inside of them and my point is that the reason a lot of this doesn't exist the
00:06:40.240
reason men don't have morality installed in them is not just about the individual case of the man
00:06:43.760
it's about society as a whole it's about women as a whole men as a whole the dating game as a whole
00:06:49.360
the life he's living as a whole and and it's and this is the world we live in this is why i was
00:06:53.120
talking about how dangerous new thing is because now we have this new thing this new world and
00:06:56.720
we're living in this new world and the truth is as a man now you're the game has changed in the
00:07:02.480
game of chess sometimes it's not about winning it's about making sure you don't lose if you can
00:07:06.960
not lose if you could not blunder any pieces and protect your king long enough you'll win the game
00:07:10.800
and there's a lot of men who are now like okay how do i not lose well you know what i become
00:07:14.720
fucking ruthless that's how i don't lose i get i get all my sex because the women are promiscuous
00:07:19.680
i get laid as much as i want i don't let anyone fucking tie me into anything dumb any
00:07:24.000
bitch wants to get fresh to me or fucking talk to another dude i cut her off financially but
00:07:27.760
and you just get ruthless so you don't lose the game but that's because the game's been rigged
00:07:31.200
against men so the harder you rigged the game against us the more ruthless we're gonna have to be
00:07:35.200
to compete and that's what it's unfortunate i'm not saying i have the answers i'm just saying why men do
00:07:39.200
what they do can i just say with regards to britney i just think that with regards to child support
00:07:42.720
you've got a kid you look after it hey and i do no not you the men oh i was saying i do look
00:07:48.000
after my son no that's why i said no that's what i said with regards to the child support that's what
00:07:53.760
i first said i think that you have a kid that you should look after it i don't agree that i don't
00:07:58.320
agree with men giving the women money but i think it's disgusting that a man can have a child and not
00:08:02.320
support it so so do i but this is another thing so this is this is the comments we have to make right
00:08:06.400
because we don't have all the answers we have to make the comments on it this goes into the deeper
00:08:09.680
point every time a court rules in favor of a chick having 100 000 a month that puts men off to a level
00:08:16.720
like it's fine if there was a baseline child support thousand dollars a month two thousand dollars a
00:08:20.960
month that's if you have a kid baseline regardless of income if your man wants to give you more he
00:08:25.040
does and he doesn't whatever whatever but when you come along start saying this percent of a man's
00:08:28.320
income do you have any idea how scary that is to a man who works for his money he works for his money
00:08:32.800
and you know why it's scary it's not just because he's giving his money away it's because he knows
00:08:36.240
he isn't giving money to the kid yeah the kid you can raise a kid on 500 bucks a month in most of the
00:08:40.960
world you want that kid in gucci you in gucci you in a nice car going on dates with another dude
00:08:46.960
with my money you can i'd rather burn the house down than give it to you under the
00:08:52.160
i just as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:09:00.800
on this platform if you want to help please consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps