JustPearlyThings - Marriage Puts Men At RISK

00:00:00.000 speaking of speaking of marriage um i wanted to know do you think we're in a post-marriage society

00:00:08.160 because on one hand um we hear that women should wait till they're married to have sex but at the 0.96

00:00:13.040 same time we also hear from the men that they don't want to get married anymore

00:00:17.040 so what do we do with that seems like it's true because nowadays a lot of people are looking at

00:00:21.280 marriage as a contract rather than a partnership and there's a huge difference between that because

00:00:25.920 with a contract there are so many terms and many headaches and this and that i know it is it is a

00:00:30.560 contract well that's why yeah but that's because that is what it is now because realistically the

00:00:36.400 traditional sense of marriage is not a contract really in terms of the law once the law is involved

00:00:41.200 that's when everything went tits up i think yeah so the problem is is that there's zero advantage

00:00:48.800 to marriage in the western world for a man there is zero statistical advantage if you use your mind

00:00:54.800 if you use your head instead of your heart and you look at the advantages to getting married there

00:00:58.000 are absolutely not really none because this new idea of new age feminism just basically destroys 0.99

00:01:03.280 all men in the idea or in the event of her leaving and and it's very common that women leave right

00:01:09.120 let's let's stop the man versus woman attack etc etc life's difficult for everybody we all have

00:01:13.280 different challenges different things to go through but if a woman marries a man and it goes wrong 0.65

00:01:17.440 she has emotional heartbreak fine but if a man marries a woman and it goes wrong he has emotional

00:01:22.240 heartbreak plus everything he has ever worked for is ripped out from underneath him and he has to

00:01:27.440 give that chick money forever in some places you don't even have to be married exactly that's why 1.00

00:01:32.160 the men don't want to live with the women either that's right so when you make these rules and these 1.00

00:01:35.760 laws right under the guise of feminism and equality all this garbage all you're doing is scaring men 1.00

00:01:40.800 away from commitment and then you have to add in the other hidden element and the other hidden element 0.98

00:01:45.280 is what i said earlier is whose fault a lot of this is is promiscuous women right so in society 1.00

00:01:49.440 he's broken down if women were saying if all women got together and said we'll only have sex

00:01:54.240 after marriage guess what men would do get married but you don't right so now you're in miami i go miami 0.99

00:01:59.840 i can fuck anything in the club i don't have to marry any of them if i marry them i get wrecked 0.99

00:02:04.560 so like let's all use our brains here what am i gonna do well i'm gonna be like well no bounce see 0.99

00:02:10.800 uh no no so men have been scared away from the idea of marriage and that's a law that is the fault of 0.94

00:02:16.000 this new law and this new feminism and this new crap they don't give men any tactical advantage 1.00

00:02:22.400 and i'm talking about small things a man's not even allowed to be a man in his own house you know 0.98

00:02:27.200 in england you will get accused of emotional abuse i can marry a woman not lay a hand on her i can just

00:02:34.080 raise my voice to her that's emotional abuse i can raise my voice to her because she's going out

00:02:38.880 drinking with dudes she can go out drinking six nights a week with men and i can say what the 1.00

00:02:43.840 fuck you're my wife sit down she can call the cops call me emotionally abusive i get arrested 1.00

00:02:48.560 now now there's a court case against me i have to go to court and defend myself she'll divorce me 1.00

00:02:53.280 take my house i have to sell my car because she's drinking vodka with fucking god knows who but you 1.00

00:02:58.320 know it's what do you think what do you think of child support and that's another interesting 0.98

00:03:05.200 thing because a lot of these arguments it's it's it goes beyond man and woman and it goes into the

00:03:10.720 the larger sphere as a whole right because we talked earlier about war and how a lot of men used

00:03:15.520 to die and that doesn't happen anymore so what you used to have in societies and i'm not saying i have

00:03:20.000 all the answers i'm just commenting right what you used to have in societies is a bunch of men would die

00:03:24.960 at war because men have more dangerous lives than women there'd be a bunch more women than men the top 1.00

00:03:29.760 g's would impregnate a bunch of women and the top g's could take care of the women and that'd be 1.00

00:03:33.040 etc etc that's now changed right so the reason a lot of the reason that monogamy is pushed is because

00:03:38.400 it's good for society and it is good for society it's good for society as a whole to have a man 1.00

00:03:42.560 a woman a family they're together the man provides for the woman etc the government doesn't want to 0.63

00:03:47.040 pay for all these kids if you don't have child support who's paying for these kids the government

00:03:49.600 does it it breaks down right so that's why child support is enforced in many parts of the world

00:03:54.640 in certain other parts of the world child support isn't enforced because they have religious beliefs

00:03:58.240 or genuine family beliefs that keep the families together but in the western world now you need

00:04:03.040 child support because you've broken things down to the point where men don't want to be 0.98

00:04:06.800 married to chicks chicks don't want to listen to the man the man can't even be the man in his 0.94

00:04:10.720 own household he can't even feel respected where he goes his woman gives her him no status and and 0.99

00:04:15.680 now he doesn't want to deal with her anymore so how do you get that kid paid for well then tell the 0.76

00:04:20.320 man or you go to jail and you just come along with a long arm of the law and you

00:04:23.280 him and so yeah it's difficult it's hard to answer yeah but it's hard to answer the true answer to all

00:04:28.800 of it is an idealistic answer i don't like to think idealistically and talk idealistically but it's the truth

00:04:33.200 the true answer to it is to instill in the man a sense of duty in which he wants to take care of

00:04:37.680 his woman regardless because that's his child but you will do that i'll tell you how you do that you

00:04:41.840 do that by inspiring out of the man by being a very good woman so i'll give you an example if i had a

00:04:46.400 child with a woman and she was always a great woman to me she was never she never cheated on me she was

00:04:51.440 a good woman to me and i was running around being whatever and she's like look i just can't put up with 0.95

00:04:56.160 you anymore you're top g you're gonna do what you're gonna do i'm gonna look after your kid i'm

00:05:00.800 gonna you can see him anytime you want i care about you please don't leave me in poverty i'd say cool 0.77

00:05:07.200 100 i'm not i'm not a dickhead cool that's a real man though because i was in a situation just

00:05:13.280 yeah but i was just in a situation like that to where it's like hearts don't break even and that's

00:05:17.760 the reality too it's like if those morals and principles are not instilled in a man none of that

00:05:21.840 that shit matters so obviously the child support stuff obviously hits close home to me because 0.79

00:05:26.080 i'm already 50 000 it's just in lawyer fees trying to get him to provide yeah you know what i mean 0.99

00:05:31.760 and it sucks because it's like you playing the nba like why couldn't you why don't you want to do more

00:05:36.560 and it's just because again of the relationship it's personal it's not about our personal that's 0.90

00:05:40.560 right so it's like yeah if you're not so i just i just feel like it's like why do you get money for

00:05:45.920 making a poor choice well it wasn't a poor choice because it was it took two i'm not trying to like

00:05:50.160 disrespect you in any way it's just like if you left and so it's like why do you get money for it

00:05:56.080 just right because we because we made a commitment so we made it at the end of the day we made a

00:06:00.560 commitment we have a forever commitment marriage we're we are forever family so again as someone

00:06:06.080 who is literally going through this if i made more money than him i would be paying him child

00:06:10.400 support and that would be fair to me but this is what's really interesting what's truly interesting

00:06:13.920 is if you go to other countries and i'm talking about civilized countries right if you go to

00:06:17.920 poland or czech republic or whatever these countries which are in many metrics more civilized

00:06:22.720 than the west they're safer to live in they're cleaner etc there's no child support laws so if

00:06:28.080 you have a divorce the man just takes care of the woman because that's his kid and that's just what 0.87

00:06:31.040 he's supposed to do and that's just it so what you're saying is he you're right about the man having

00:06:35.600 the morality instilled inside of them and my point is that the reason a lot of this doesn't exist the

00:06:40.240 reason men don't have morality installed in them is not just about the individual case of the man

00:06:43.760 it's about society as a whole it's about women as a whole men as a whole the dating game as a whole

00:06:49.360 the life he's living as a whole and and it's and this is the world we live in this is why i was

00:06:53.120 talking about how dangerous new thing is because now we have this new thing this new world and

00:06:56.720 we're living in this new world and the truth is as a man now you're the game has changed in the

00:07:02.480 game of chess sometimes it's not about winning it's about making sure you don't lose if you can

00:07:06.960 not lose if you could not blunder any pieces and protect your king long enough you'll win the game

00:07:10.800 and there's a lot of men who are now like okay how do i not lose well you know what i become 0.99

00:07:14.720 fucking ruthless that's how i don't lose i get i get all my sex because the women are promiscuous 1.00

00:07:19.680 i get laid as much as i want i don't let anyone fucking tie me into anything dumb any 1.00

00:07:24.000 bitch wants to get fresh to me or fucking talk to another dude i cut her off financially but 1.00

00:07:27.760 and you just get ruthless so you don't lose the game but that's because the game's been rigged 1.00

00:07:31.200 against men so the harder you rigged the game against us the more ruthless we're gonna have to be

00:07:35.200 to compete and that's what it's unfortunate i'm not saying i have the answers i'm just saying why men do

00:07:39.200 what they do can i just say with regards to britney i just think that with regards to child support

00:07:42.720 you've got a kid you look after it hey and i do no not you the men oh i was saying i do look

00:07:48.000 after my son no that's why i said no that's what i said with regards to the child support that's what

00:07:53.760 i first said i think that you have a kid that you should look after it i don't agree that i don't

00:07:58.320 agree with men giving the women money but i think it's disgusting that a man can have a child and not

00:08:02.320 support it so so do i but this is another thing so this is this is the comments we have to make right

00:08:06.400 because we don't have all the answers we have to make the comments on it this goes into the deeper

00:08:09.680 point every time a court rules in favor of a chick having 100 000 a month that puts men off to a level 1.00

00:08:16.720 like it's fine if there was a baseline child support thousand dollars a month two thousand dollars a

00:08:20.960 month that's if you have a kid baseline regardless of income if your man wants to give you more he 0.68

00:08:25.040 does and he doesn't whatever whatever but when you come along start saying this percent of a man's

00:08:28.320 income do you have any idea how scary that is to a man who works for his money he works for his money

00:08:32.800 and you know why it's scary it's not just because he's giving his money away it's because he knows

00:08:36.240 he isn't giving money to the kid yeah the kid you can raise a kid on 500 bucks a month in most of the

00:08:40.960 world you want that kid in gucci you in gucci you in a nice car going on dates with another dude

00:08:46.960 with my money you can i'd rather burn the house down than give it to you under the 0.61

00:08:52.160 i just as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis

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JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022

Marriage Puts Men At RISK

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