JustPearlyThings - November 25, 2023


Megan Thee Stallion Becomes A Born Again Virgin


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

168.22897

Word count

1,681

Sentence count

145

Harmful content

Misogyny

25

sentences flagged

Hate speech

13

sentences flagged


Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how the sin of the mother is passed down to her children and the consequences that come from bringing random men into the home. I also talk about the cost of raising a child with a stepdad who is sexually irresponsible.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Nagging wife, that affects you every day. 1.00
00:00:02.740 Like women, we are not these innocent creatures that do no wrong. 0.79
00:00:07.700 You know, I think at some point, men extend grace to us for a lot.
00:00:12.500 A lot of us are overweight.
00:00:14.100 A lot of us didn't bring the sexual purity to the table that our grandmothers and great 1.00
00:00:18.260 grandmothers brought.
00:00:19.420 A lot of us were not raised to be wives and men put up with it and they deal with us.
00:00:25.820 But when men sin in a more masculine way, there is no grace for them.
00:00:30.960 And Tim said something along the lines of, these are men with no honor and can't stick
00:00:35.520 to their word.
00:00:36.300 And it's like, are you perfect?
00:00:38.540 So you've stuck to your word every single time?
00:00:41.320 Really?
00:00:41.780 Like, I just can't stand this virtue signaling.
00:00:44.220 And I'll never win these arguments because these are uncomfortable truths.
00:00:49.280 Uncomfortable truths are not fun to say, but I can't, I'm not blind to what's in front
00:00:55.580 of me.
00:00:55.820 So a lot of times, modern women want it all. 1.00
00:00:59.020 We want to make money on OnlyFans and then we want to just sell our butthole for $9.99
00:01:07.080 and then get a husband after. 0.99
00:01:10.560 But a lot of times, what isn't spoken about is the cost that comes with the average OnlyFans
00:01:15.880 model makes roughly $500 a month.
00:01:18.740 She doesn't make much. 0.99
00:01:19.980 I think it's actually less than that.
00:01:21.500 I have to look it up.
00:01:22.120 But so I saw this crazy video of a woman talking about, I just need to show the video, a woman 1.00
00:01:27.980 talking about her experience on OAuth.
00:01:31.080 To me having my OnlyFans account, I had had this subscriber almost since the beginning.
00:01:36.540 He had spent around $2,000 Australian dollars, bought every single thing that I sent him.
00:01:42.920 We chatted every day on there.
00:01:44.500 And he had a very specific username that was not an automatically generated one or anything
00:01:49.740 like that.
00:01:50.960 And an account with the same username had viewed my TikTok profile when I could see who was
00:01:56.520 viewing it at the time.
00:01:57.580 And yes, I had the exact same username and it said, from your contacts.
00:02:03.280 And my heart just sank into my stomach.
00:02:05.640 And I was like, I don't have that many phone numbers in my phone.
00:02:09.380 I know who this person is.
00:02:10.820 And he has spent this much money on my account, seen everything.
00:02:14.440 And I just sort of went into super detective mode.
00:02:17.300 And I said, I need to find out who this is.
00:02:19.280 I went through all of the contacts in my phone.
00:02:21.380 I crossed out anybody who had an established TikTok account and crossed out the people that
00:02:25.960 said, invite to TikTok.
00:02:27.640 And I was left with six names.
00:02:29.400 It was a couple of guys from school, one girl from school, someone's mum and my stepdad.
00:02:36.160 And I had just thought, OK, it could be those guys.
00:02:39.200 But I feel like they would have told me, like they always messaged me happy birthday.
00:02:42.220 It's not going to be them.
00:02:43.360 It's not going to be my girlfriend. 0.88
00:02:44.580 It's not going to be this mother.
00:02:45.680 It has to be my stepdad.
00:02:47.980 Wow.
00:02:48.340 So I went out on a limb and messaged the account on OnlyFans.
00:02:52.700 And I said, I know who this is.
00:02:54.740 And he responded saying, who?
00:02:57.660 Question mark.
00:02:58.400 Babe, you don't know.
00:03:00.020 And I then hit back pretty quickly.
00:03:02.620 And I said, you need to tell her before my sister and I do.
00:03:06.540 And with her being your mum.
00:03:07.640 Yeah, being my mum.
00:03:08.480 And within two minutes, I got a text message from my stepdad saying, Tay, are you free to talk?
00:03:13.200 So I want to talk about how the sin of the mother is passed down to the children.
00:03:18.200 I have interviewed so many OnlyFans models.
00:03:21.640 And so many times they come from a home either with a weak father or no dad at all.
00:03:27.360 Now you have a woman who is sexually irresponsible to the point where she brought home a man that is sexually going after her daughter. 0.94
00:03:36.840 Now when you're a kid, your house and home is supposed to be the place where you feel free.
00:03:43.280 Where it is supposed to be a safe haven.
00:03:46.600 And this woman has grown up with a man that has been looking at her like that from a young age.
00:03:52.460 That is disgusting.
00:03:54.020 This is some of the consequences that come from out of orderness.
00:03:58.480 Bringing random men into the home.
00:04:01.380 Women, this is like the greatest sin of all sins. 1.00
00:04:04.780 Bringing home a random man to raise your daughters. 1.00
00:04:07.720 I really do not believe that women should even try to remarry. 1.00
00:04:12.060 I really don't.
00:04:13.380 I really think you made your bed.
00:04:15.800 You should give the kid to the dad.
00:04:17.900 Because imagine being that woman's ex-husband. 0.54
00:04:20.880 I mean, it's very clear that whoever was her dad was not in her life.
00:04:25.880 Because she wouldn't be on OF.
00:04:27.760 Or he wasn't a strong enough influence to keep her out of that direction.
00:04:31.900 And her stepfather clearly was encouraging it.
00:04:34.340 And this is actually disgusting.
00:04:37.100 But it also shows that the stepdad is one of the most likely people to abuse the kid.
00:04:41.720 Okay, so the comment section comes in and says a nightmare of one's own creation.
00:04:46.940 Yeah, this whole story is just messed up.
00:04:48.800 She won't be getting any sympathy.
00:04:51.180 Making OF is immoral.
00:04:53.000 And immoral meets immoral.
00:04:54.800 Right, exactly.
00:04:56.180 The audacity she has to assert any sort of moral superiority in the crowd is just as hypocritical as she is. 1.00
00:05:02.640 Yeah!
00:05:04.180 No, actually.
00:05:06.280 I mean, and that's the thing.
00:05:07.420 They all comfort her.
00:05:09.200 When really, it's like you made your bed.
00:05:10.840 You gotta lie in it.
00:05:12.160 But what I want, I want you guys to notice the dynamic that tends to happen.
00:05:16.320 When you meet OF models, there's two things.
00:05:18.360 It's either a weak father or no father at all.
00:05:21.160 And typically, you can tell it's a weak father because he doesn't disown her.
00:05:26.380 And oftentimes, the mother starts encouraging her to go on OF and the dad supports it.
00:05:31.380 And what does that tell us?
00:05:32.920 Usually, when there's an out-of-order household, it's because the woman believes she's above the man or leads the household. 0.98
00:05:38.880 Okay, so I saw, I wanted to point out a dynamic that we have from Megan Thee Stallion.
00:05:45.020 So Megan Thee Stallion is the popular entertainer, rapper, and social media star.
00:05:50.820 She pressed, she famously, arguably, me-tooed Tory Lanez.
00:05:56.480 Now, Tory Lanez is in jail because she said that he shot her. 0.95
00:06:00.920 The evidence was very weak, but somehow, he's still in jail.
00:06:05.240 Anyways, so Megan Thee Stallion is known for sleeping around the industry. 1.00
00:06:08.900 Many rappers, entertainers, ballplayers have said they have slept with Megan Thee Stallion. 0.95
00:06:13.680 And she was talking about it on Alive.
00:06:15.640 And how she is going to be stingy with the cootie cat in the future.
00:06:23.320 All right.
00:06:25.060 It's like nobody be listening to my music.
00:06:27.020 They be like, oh, Megan Thee Stallion.
00:06:29.880 I cannot believe she likes to have sex. 0.98
00:06:35.660 I cannot believe Megan Thee Stallion fucks. 1.00
00:06:41.020 We shall be.
00:06:41.800 No, but I am turning over, you know, a new leaf.
00:06:51.160 And I'm stingy with the cootie cat.
00:06:53.860 I'm not a freak anymore.
00:06:58.520 Oh, my God.
00:07:01.240 I'm done.
00:07:02.040 I'm done with the shreds.
00:07:04.060 So toxic in the shreds.
00:07:05.800 I'm tired of the shreds.
00:07:16.360 Okay, so this tends to happen to women around late 20s, early 30s, where they suddenly find God. 0.52
00:07:23.700 Now, I'm not disputing that some women genuinely do find God around this time.
00:07:29.660 But oftentimes, women use this as a mating strategy in order to compete for men. 1.00
00:07:33.520 They no longer have the looks that they used to when they are younger.
00:07:36.800 So they have to prioritize other things like a relationship with God.
00:07:41.100 And the problem is, and she didn't say God or church in this, obviously.
00:07:46.000 But, you know, she said stingy with the cootie cat. 0.98
00:07:50.460 And basically, women reach this phase around 27 to 32, roughly, years old. 0.58
00:07:56.560 It depends on the looks of the woman, where she realizes she cannot compete in the sexual marketplace like she used to. 1.00
00:08:03.160 So the comments section had a lot of suitors for Megan, I'm sure, that said they're really excited to compete for this cootie cat that she is stingy with.
00:08:13.580 You can't be stingy with the community cat.
00:08:18.180 Megan, the mileage.
00:08:19.220 And it's great to hear that Megan Thee Stallion is focusing on her well-being and making positive changes in her life, setting boundaries, and being more selective about who she shares her personal time and energy with is a healthy step towards self-care and personal growth.
00:08:33.400 So around this age, this is when women tend to pick the safer guy. 1.00
00:08:36.640 And you can see this with dating app data based on, like, what we select for.
00:08:40.660 In our early 20s, it tends to be things like nice car, nice watch.
00:08:43.600 Late 20s to early 30s, it tends to be more long-term retirement, house.
00:08:50.800 Like, early 20s, women tend to pick more for a lifestyle. 1.00
00:08:54.340 Later 20s, early 30s, women tend to pick more for long-term security. 1.00
00:08:58.960 And the problem is men do not—and ladies, I'm just going to explain this.
00:09:03.300 Men can't stand this.
00:09:04.360 They cannot stand the idea of paying more for a product that other men got for free.
00:09:09.560 Now, I know you might not view yourself as a product.
00:09:12.540 I totally get it.
00:09:13.720 But this is how men view it.
00:09:15.900 The idea that other men have, you know, done the community cootie cat—I don't know—with virtually no effort.
00:09:25.580 And now she would ask the next guy to put in a lot of effort is rough.
00:09:29.160 Men do not like this.
00:09:31.740 And men will always put up with it. 0.99
00:09:34.080 But this is why Myron and them have rules, like, if she doesn't sleep with you on the first date, go to the next chick because she has done it for somebody. 0.82
00:09:41.980 The next girl, or me?
00:09:42.920 I mean, that's true.