Men Hating Feminists Asked Pearl The WEIRDEST QUESTION
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the Johnny Depp and Amber Guyger situation and the impact it has had on the way we view men and women in general. We also discuss the difference between women and men when it comes to domestic abuse.
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But personally, like, I can't really speak on information that, like, like we said, believe all women.
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Like, I don't know you. That's fair. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's fair. That's fair.
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In my life experience, I've definitely seen men be more violent towards women.
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And I haven't ever seen a woman be violent towards her partner.
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I've seen girls hit guys and nobody does anything.
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And what kind of hit? Like a little knock on the shoulder or, like...
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I think any hit is unacceptable. And if you hit a man, you should expect to get hit back.
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Why would you hit someone and not expect to get hit back?
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Men don't have that. Like, why are women special?
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Like, why do we get a special privilege that men don't get?
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I don't think anyone should be hitting anybody.
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I was just meaning, like, in a playful conversation, like, when you hit someone's shoulder or something.
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I haven't really seen women being violent towards men.
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If you have in your own life, then I would have to ask you where you're from, where you see that.
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And you see men being violent towards women all the time?
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I've definitely had situations in my personal life where my friends have been victims of domestic abuse.
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She didn't say that she witnessed it or she saw the situation happen.
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So, again, you're just going off of someone's word.
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Where a friend of mine has been a victim of domestic abuse or, like, marital abuse from a family situation.
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So, that's, I haven't seen, like, I don't know.
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And also, though, like, it is true that men shouldn't be hit.
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But he can also leave the situation a lot easier than a woman who is being abused.
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Because they're typically smaller than their partners.
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And physically, not the same, like, kind of match.
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Okay, guys, you'll notice this trend with modern women and feminists.
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Whenever you try to hold a woman accountable, they move the goalposts and say, well, but he could leave.
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If she's getting hit, girl's getting hit, well, she could have left.
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Do you think men are believed when they're victims of domestic abuse?
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Maybe not in the past, but I think now more, especially after this Johnny Depp situation.
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Okay, well, I appreciate you sitting down and talking to me.
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Yeah, I see you out here doing this, but I'm just wondering, like, for myself, I watched you do this a few different interviews.
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But I'm just wondering, like, what exactly are you getting from these kind of conversations?
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Do you find that you yourself are learning more about people, or are you just kind of pushing the agenda?
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Because to me, like, honestly, I just heard kind of like you're sticking to the same talking points, and I didn't really hear a lot of, like, discussion from your end.
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To me, I just get public opinions on stuff, so I just get people's public opinions, and I also, I have two, a lot of the reason I do what I do is I advocate for men's rights.
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So I have two brothers that, like, committed, they tried to commit suicide, so I just think the world is harder for men than the media really lets it be.
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And I think feminism, yeah, I think it's tough on men.
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I don't think they advocate for men the way they should.
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But also, it's, if we uplift women, men will also be uplifted, too.
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Why should we just be uplifted for being alive?
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Like, that's the stupidest shit I've ever heard in my life.
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Like, okay, let's uplift men for just being men.
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But are you aware about the abortion rights in the United States?
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Like, women, I think, just had their rights taken away from an abortion in certain...
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I'm careful with who I sleep with and I use protection.
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When they don't have a good argument, they look for the exception to the rule.
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Because it's a very shameful thing to happen to women.
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And so it's even more shameful to go and accuse someone of a crime when they don't have evidence.
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What evidence do you have that it's underreported?
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Because women who get raped don't 100% always go and report it.
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Because I know people that that has happened to.
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How do you know, by and large, that it's a big issue?
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Because you're just automatically believing women without the evidence.
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If my friend has trauma and she's shaking like this.
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And a group, for example, feminism, isn't like there's not a president of feminism.
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There isn't someone saying this is the objective of feminism.
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The group is comprised of people with individual stories with their own individual background.
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But I need facts, data, and statistics for you to back it up.
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So if you look at statistics, for example, you can look at something like unemployment.
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Unemployment is calculated by when someone is actively looking for a job.
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But once they stop looking for a job, then it's no longer part of the calculation.
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If someone isn't reporting what has happened to them, how can you have a statistic about something being underreported if they haven't reported it?
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Of course I can say my friend, that has happened to my friend, because that's a real story that I know.
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So how could I honestly answer a statistic of something that's been underreported?
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And I said less than 1% of abortions are for grape, okay?
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So I said, okay, if that's your argument, then give me data that a large percentage of those grapes are from abortion.
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Is there any data that shows that all rape that has been reported has been...
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I'm not saying that every single grape is reported.
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What I'm saying is you need to prove that it's by and large a problem where it's statistically significant.
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Because it's like we're moving the goalpost here.
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Because I said, let's talk about the 99% of abortions instead of the 1%, the exception.
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And you're trying to imply it's not an exception.
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And I'm going to say, if you're going to say it's not an exception, I need some data or evidence that that's true.
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Because if that's what you're saying, then you're going back to the original argument, which is we just believe all women.
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And it's not believe all women, but it's believe, like, individual stories that you paid attention to, that you understand the background.
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And those things are comprised of, like, that's the feminist movement, is individual stories.
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I'll probably believe a friend if I know her personally.
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But if I don't know you, why would I just believe you?
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Like, if I don't know you personally, and you're not going to go report it, then what is the point you're trying to say?
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My point is that you're moving the goalpost when we're talking about abortion.
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I'm saying, let's talk about the 99% of abortions.
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And you're saying it's a woman's right to choose.
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That we're losing our rights about abortion, right?
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In the United States, I know that there has been a law that maybe has been amended or something like that,
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where some of the abortion rights have been taken away.
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I'm saying I don't think that's a right, like, that we deserve to have.
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Why is it the government's right to tell me that I can't abort something from my body?
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Well, and why can't we just be more responsible and take accountability as women for who we sleep with?
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And then you keep going to the exception to the rule, which is rape.
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And I'm saying, no, let's talk about the 99% of abortions.
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Okay, but, like, if you actually have been raped, like, doesn't that matter?
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Like, fine, I'll give you the rape abortion, because let's talk about the 99%.
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But for the focus of this conversation to try to get you to stay on point...
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No, no, no, we're talking about 99% of abortions.
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And also, sometimes, like, it's not like every person who gets pregnant has an easy pregnancy.
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Like, there are certain health issues that occur.
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So if your health is jeopardized by the child...
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And actually, I know people who have had abortions because the child actually would have damaged
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That every horror story that could possibly happen has happened.
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Just because you know people that have had abortions doesn't mean that it's a statistic.
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Like, statistically significant problem across the board.
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Like, again, you're looking for an exception rather than the rule.
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And I want to bring it back to the original point I'm asking you.
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And if I don't want to have a child, then it's my right to not have that child.
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And also, there can be a plethora of reasons why someone doesn't want to have a child.
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And so, if we're going to say it's my body, what about the baby's body?
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You can get an abortion in the UK up to six months.
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If you're trying to say a fetus is the same thing as a living human being who has been birthed,
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And so, I have to respectfully disagree with that point of view.
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So, you'd be cool with an abortion two days before you're going to give birth?
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I don't think there's anyone who would go through an entire pregnancy
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and then get an abortion two days before giving birth.
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Like, you need to have a specific point where it's not a kid and it's not a kid.
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Yeah, but you just said you want to have no exceptions.
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And you just said you want to have an abortion.
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do you think someone should be legally able to get an abortion that's a woman's right two days before, a month before?
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I would say if someone wants to have an abortion two days before they give birth, that's their right.
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And I think that's a hell of a lot of effort to go through an entire pregnancy and to give the baby up two days before.
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I don't understand why someone would do that, but fundamentally, I believe that that is their right because the baby is not alive yet.
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But at the same time, I'm pretty sure if you had a C-section at nine months, the baby would be alive.
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So, I'm curious if you know, actually, if you've had children, if you know about the process of being pregnant because there's a lot of health complications involved.
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So, I'm just curious why you would have a stance so strongly against abortion, especially when abortion has actually saved women's lives in instances.
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Also killed women's lives because half of abortions are women.
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But to date, they have a unique DNA sequence that says their personality, their eye color, their hair color, from the moment of conception.
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I already said that, what I believe, and I don't believe a fetus is...
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I think I'm going to try to go to the next person.
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