JustPearlyThings - May 08, 2023


Men On The Panel DESTROY Their Victim Mindset


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Length

8 minutes

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234.70389

Word count

2,074

Sentence count

199

Harmful content

Misogyny

28

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Toxicity

30

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss whether or not race is a barrier to success in the 21st century. We discuss the role of race in our society and how it affects our ability to seize the opportunities that are presented to us.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And I'll tell you who I really admire, who I really admire is Lil Wayne.
00:00:04.160 He's one of my favorite people because when he asked about that,
00:00:06.440 he doesn't live in that way. 0.65
00:00:08.180 And he was so fucking successful not living that way and just doing his thing. 0.97
00:00:12.340 And I just, I know I've said it three, four times. 0.92
00:00:14.280 I just want every young person seeing this to hear it.
00:00:17.540 You can do it, bro.
00:00:18.500 You really can.
00:00:19.600 And don't live any other way, but you can.
00:00:21.860 That's it.
00:00:22.580 You can do it.
00:00:23.260 And going back to the victim mindset,
00:00:24.880 I would say that a lot of people wouldn't even go and apply for that role
00:00:31.060 to be president or prime minister because they think like that.
00:00:34.700 Because they think, okay, I'm black. 0.80
00:00:36.260 I'm not going to, I don't have a chance.
00:00:38.040 In all fairness.
00:00:38.980 I don't have a chance.
00:00:40.000 You actually went to go and do it and you actually put in the effort
00:00:42.620 and you were talented and you put the grind in.
00:00:44.180 Over 30 years and doing everything he had to do to get in the position to even win.
00:00:48.540 Because, I mean, the presidency is not something you apply for, right?
00:00:51.240 It's like over time you've come to know that, hey,
00:00:53.940 I got a shot at this thing and he ran for it. 1.00
00:00:56.020 Dude, if Candace Owens ran tomorrow, I'd vote for her ass. 1.00
00:00:59.080 Straight up. 1.00
00:00:59.660 I would vote for her.
00:01:00.560 Candace Owens ran for president tomorrow, I'd vote for her. 1.00
00:01:02.520 I would vote for her.
00:01:03.420 That's such a...
00:01:04.600 I would.
00:01:05.080 Why?
00:01:05.940 Because I think she's intelligent. 1.00
00:01:07.300 I think she knows her shit and she's based as fuck. 1.00
00:01:09.320 Very based. 1.00
00:01:09.940 Yeah.
00:01:11.100 I think sometimes...
00:01:11.740 I vote for her.
00:01:12.400 That's the whole point of what I'm trying to say.
00:01:14.220 It's not because she's black, by the way.
00:01:15.800 No, no, no. 0.94
00:01:16.220 Zero because of that.
00:01:17.760 Denalva, you brought up quotas before.
00:01:20.920 Quotas before.
00:01:21.820 Quotas before.
00:01:22.300 Which is like getting a job because of your gender or your race.
00:01:25.420 I brought them up for what?
00:01:26.300 No, but I'm saying you seemed like you said it was a good thing.
00:01:29.020 You think it's a good thing?
00:01:29.880 I think so.
00:01:30.380 Don't you think it's kind of a slap in the face because it's saying that you can't do it yourself?
00:01:33.940 No, not really.
00:01:34.940 The reason why...
00:01:35.760 I think quotas are racist and sexist.
00:01:38.840 But it is.
00:01:39.860 But the reason why I'm a bit like...
00:01:42.240 I'm kind of going on the whole thing of use race as your superpower.
00:01:44.980 I don't really care about why you're doing it.
00:01:46.700 As long as I'm there and I can make something good out of it, then great.
00:01:49.920 I'll go there and I'll turn it.
00:01:51.300 It's an opportunity.
00:01:52.620 So if somebody now was saying to me, okay, because you're mixed race and you've got curly hair,
00:01:56.520 we want you to present this show, Primetime TV, but it's because you've got curly hair.
00:01:59.680 I'd be like, yeah, no stress.
00:02:00.560 Let me do it.
00:02:01.380 Let's see how I'm going to do it.
00:02:02.240 I'm going to get famous.
00:02:02.940 I'm going to make money.
00:02:03.720 I can open another business.
00:02:04.660 I can empower through that opportunity that came from a bad reason.
00:02:09.500 Well, I think what is good about what you're saying is you're talking about seizing the opportunity
00:02:12.540 and you're talking about using whatever prospects come along to get where you want to get to.
00:02:16.760 I think there's almost like a schism in this conversation, isn't there?
00:02:19.400 Because I think what these guys are talking about and probably what I'm talking about is more mindset-based.
00:02:24.460 And over here, we're getting into the weeds about some of these social issues, which do exist.
00:02:29.160 100% they do exist.
00:02:30.440 But ultimately, overall, what we need to do, we need to transcend that.
00:02:34.980 Because actually, I mean, social class is a huge thing as well, right?
00:02:38.140 And actually, you've sort of paid lip service to that.
00:02:39.980 I mean, someone like Rishi Sunak.
00:02:41.100 He's the prime minister of the United Kingdom.
00:02:42.560 But he came from an incredibly privileged background, right?
00:02:45.400 So social class is a big thing, whether you're black or white or Asian or whatever.
00:02:49.320 But people from very underprivileged social backgrounds can also go on to become hugely successful.
00:02:55.780 So what we all need to do is think, sod my background, my race, my ethnicity, all of that stuff.
00:03:01.100 It's irrelevant.
00:03:02.080 How am I going to go out there and change the world today?
00:03:03.980 What am I going to do?
00:03:04.680 What steps am I going to take to make a dent in this universe before I die in this short period of time I've got here?
00:03:10.660 And furthermore, setting up the generations that come behind you.
00:03:13.160 Yeah.
00:03:13.360 Because for that man to be in a position to be prime minister, probably his grandpa was a G. 1.00
00:03:17.780 His grandpa's grandpa was a G. 0.73
00:03:19.480 So it's a legacy thing and creating a family that sticks together and has certain family values that can literally propel into the future.
00:03:26.620 Normally, it takes a couple of generations to create a Rockefeller type family.
00:03:30.440 And so if people start today building that legacy, then it's a really huge thing.
00:03:37.080 In fact, I just got a text yesterday from an NBA player that wants to talk business about something.
00:03:42.120 I knew who he was because he was in the league.
00:03:44.440 But his father and grandfather own a large portion of real estate in Baton Rouge.
00:03:49.860 And I knew who they were just from the real estate world.
00:03:53.100 And so when Kyle is his name's Kyle's Temple, he's been he's the class. 0.97
00:03:56.440 He's my favorite NBA player, not because he's the best players because he's a fucking class act gentleman. 0.82
00:04:01.580 You know, I'm saying like, yes, I'll do whatever whatever Kyle wants to do. 0.96
00:04:04.820 Let's do it.
00:04:05.420 Let's do it.
00:04:05.800 Let's make money, bro. 0.96
00:04:07.040 And my suit guy's a black guy.
00:04:08.300 He knew him.
00:04:08.740 He gave him my cell phone number.
00:04:10.380 The guy that made this suit black guy, right? 0.76
00:04:12.200 Gave me the contact, the plug.
00:04:13.560 I don't care because money's green.
00:04:16.060 And he and that family, the Temple family is a great example of a legacy family.
00:04:21.700 And that can be made if young men see that it's a possibility.
00:04:25.440 What about women? 1.00
00:04:26.540 Women, too. 0.99
00:04:27.520 Women, too. 0.99
00:04:28.340 But the thing the thing about women is this. 1.00
00:04:31.920 You have to understand there's primal parts of us.
00:04:35.340 And most often, like she was saying earlier, a woman would much rather be with a strong man she looks up to and be inside the frame of the family.
00:04:43.680 And do the maternal things, the things that matter, the things that the world cannot live without.
00:04:47.780 A mother.
00:04:48.940 I think being a mother is one of the strongest, most impressive, hard jobs on the planet. 0.97
00:04:54.480 That baby will not sleep.
00:04:56.380 You can't get any sleep.
00:04:57.620 You've been pregnant. 0.63
00:04:58.340 Your body's torn up.
00:04:59.580 And then you still have to nurture that baby and not get upset with it, not shake it.
00:05:03.100 You know, it's maddening, right?
00:05:05.500 Like, let's not belittle that job.
00:05:07.700 One of the most important jobs on the planet because you're molding the next generation that might be that legacy holder for your race or your family or whomever.
00:05:17.040 So I think that it's really, really, really important that we put mothers on a pedestal more than we put rappers.
00:05:22.520 And I don't mean that to disrespect you.
00:05:24.380 I just mean it because it's what's important for the children.
00:05:26.340 And the thing is that feminism comes in and says that motherhood isn't enough. 1.00
00:05:31.020 Bullshit! 1.00
00:05:31.760 That even when we were talking about, oh, you get to work, you get to do this. 1.00
00:05:35.140 Well, we got to be mothers. 1.00
00:05:36.800 I mean, my grandma, she had nine kids.
00:05:40.940 And she said her one regret in life is not having 12.
00:05:45.060 It wasn't being a rapper.
00:05:47.580 It wasn't dropping 16 bars on Sway.
00:05:50.060 And I think that's one of the worst things about feminism is because if I was to speak out now and say that I just want to be a stay-at-home wife with six kids, people would look at me when I'm saying she's lazy. 1.00
00:06:00.000 But I think that's, like, the best part of a woman's life is having kids and raising them is a privilege. 0.99
00:06:05.380 You want to hear what's going to call you lazy, though?
00:06:06.920 Huh?
00:06:07.420 You know who's going to belittle that?
00:06:09.780 Probably one of those.
00:06:10.420 Other women. 1.00
00:06:11.360 Men aren't going to look down at you for that. 1.00
00:06:13.240 It's the competition.
00:06:14.660 This is why it's important.
00:06:16.000 No, they wouldn't.
00:06:16.500 Maybe you're doing that, man.
00:06:17.420 You've got a job.
00:06:18.320 He's completely right.
00:06:19.200 He's completely right.
00:06:19.860 I don't think men would.
00:06:20.720 I don't think men would. 0.99
00:06:22.020 Weak men who might as well be women. 1.00
00:06:23.420 You've got to do something. 0.96
00:06:24.040 This is why women need to be very careful who they keep around because a lot of times you're in competition with each other and misery loves company. 1.00
00:06:29.340 Whenever a woman, now on social media, when they see, like, a famous woman in a happy relationship, you see them all the time trying to bring them down, trying to catch them cheating. 0.71
00:06:36.280 They want to be at the same level because it's jealousy. 0.92
00:06:38.760 Misery loves company.
00:06:39.820 And so a lot of the friendships that women have, they aren't productive whatsoever. 1.00
00:06:43.160 A lot of them are feeding garbage. 0.94
00:06:44.080 When you get in a breakup, when you have problems with your boyfriend and you go talk to your girlfriends, what do they say? 0.99
00:06:48.460 Leave him. 0.78
00:06:48.960 Leave him right now.
00:06:50.060 Let's go to the club.
00:06:50.740 They don't actually promote anything positive.
00:06:53.100 They just want to bring you back down to degeneracy.
00:06:55.140 And watch out.
00:06:55.720 She might text him.
00:06:56.740 I had a friend that told me to leave him but was texting him.
00:06:59.180 Yep.
00:07:00.120 Those are female friends. 1.00
00:07:01.300 And that's what's really destructive about feminism is that you talk about female empowerment and then you guys bring each other down more than men do. 1.00
00:07:06.980 Exactly.
00:07:07.600 That's actually the real misogyny is you trying to destroy each other's lives and ruin each other's relationships for jealousy.
00:07:12.760 We're not the misogynists because I'm speaking aggressive.
00:07:15.100 It's misogynists to not want a woman to be a mother, which is the happiest state a woman could ever be in. 0.97
00:07:19.440 Wow.
00:07:19.680 How can you say that?
00:07:21.120 What did I say that's wrong?
00:07:21.860 You're such...
00:07:22.460 What is wrong about what I said?
00:07:24.420 Just say what you just said.
00:07:25.720 I'm not repeating it for you.
00:07:26.880 See, right now, perfect example.
00:07:28.960 You didn't even hear what I said.
00:07:30.060 It's the way I said it and now you're upset.
00:07:31.660 You don't even know why you're mad.
00:07:32.680 I don't know what you said, but you didn't hear yourself speaking.
00:07:34.980 Okay, okay.
00:07:35.620 What did he say that was wrong?
00:07:36.800 It's how I said it, not what I said it.
00:07:38.300 No, no, no.
00:07:38.900 What did he say that was wrong?
00:07:40.380 What about all the barren women? 1.00
00:07:42.020 What about women that can't have kids? 1.00
00:07:43.660 They're miserable. 0.99
00:07:45.120 Yeah, but those are outliers. 0.99
00:07:46.420 No, wait.
00:07:46.920 Have you ever spoken to a woman that can't have kids that's barren? 1.00
00:07:50.460 Yes, I have. 0.99
00:07:50.840 They're usually miserable. 0.71
00:07:52.120 They're not happy with that. 0.93
00:07:53.680 And if you talk to...
00:07:54.300 You know what percentage of women that don't have kids are happy with it? 1.00
00:07:56.800 Less than 20%.
00:07:58.540 You just went with that.
00:07:59.360 The majority of women that don't have kids are not happy. 0.99
00:08:02.680 So he's right.
00:08:03.280 What did he say that was wrong?
00:08:04.440 That's a perfect example of feelings over facts.
00:08:06.540 She pulled the Greta Thunberg.
00:08:07.680 No, no, no, tell me.
00:08:08.100 Tell me.
00:08:08.460 What did he say that was incorrect?
00:08:10.000 She went, how dare you? 1.00
00:08:11.000 He exists.
00:08:13.240 What did I say that was wrong?
00:08:14.880 Yeah, what did he say?
00:08:15.820 You just sound rude.
00:08:16.540 It's just like you're throwing out these facts like, oh.
00:08:19.220 And you think girls are jealous.
00:08:21.020 A woman's sole purpose is to be a mother. 1.00
00:08:23.840 Okay.
00:08:24.600 There's nothing more.
00:08:25.820 There's nothing more.
00:08:26.660 Okay, whilst I do believe there is nothing more important than...
00:08:30.380 No, actually, I don't believe that.
00:08:31.580 I don't believe that there's more to women in society. 1.00
00:08:34.600 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:08:37.660 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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