Men REFUSE to Provide for Entitled Feminists (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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2 hours and 9 minutes
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101
Summary
The future is female. Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it. A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of merit vs. the need for men to get married, and why it s bad for men.
Transcript
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of merit.
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You've kind of got the Tradcon versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for.
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And you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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And then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic, naturally,
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the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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And the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings.
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol,
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man to give...
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We're going to population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
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Because I want to put this out in my viewpoints, the ladies are not overly happy with me.
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And really, the past year, they've just decided to try to ruin and destroy my life.
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And I think maybe one day I'm going to go in depth on some of the things that I've had happen.
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Because in the past two years, there's just been like crazy stuff that's happened.
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And basically, I had to close my entire business and build it back up from the ground up.
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But because of that, we are trying to raise money for this documentary.
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So the link to that is the second one in the description.
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The other way you can support getting this documentary out, shout out to Craig,
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who donated $1,000 yesterday, which is totally insane.
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So the other thing you can do is we have a members-only community you have to apply
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But at some point, we're going to do events with that.
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And as I interview people, they're going to be having modules.
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For example, tomorrow we're having on Anton Daniels on the show,
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And he's going to film a module about real estate before the show.
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And it basically, you're buying into the network in that.
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I'm going to interview smart, intelligent men forever.
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So today, I actually had an email I wanted to start the show with.
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A video I wanted to start with the show as a pre-show that was requested.
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If you guys ever do have requests for interviews, or not interviews, reactions.
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It makes my job easier, so feel free to send them.
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Somebody asked me, and I have not seen this yet, to react to Charlie Kirk destroying an anti-woman man bashing marriage.
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So, as you guys know, I consider, although I do like a lot of Charlie Kirk stuff, I do consider him a super simp.
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And I do think he's very dishonest on the topic of marriage, unfortunately.
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But although I do like a lot of his conservative ideas, I very much do respect his work.
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So today, we're going to react to what he said.
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I fundamentally disagree with you in regards to having a family and getting married in this day and age.
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70% of the divorce rates happen because of women.
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Before we get angry, let's talk about the facts.
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85% of the men, or I should say people in jail, grow up in fatherless homes.
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So, there's a direct correlation between those two things.
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But he married, like, an influencer pageant queen.
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Thinking is that we don't need to necessarily have more families unless we have a complete change to the system.
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We need to change the system in order for us to have a nice conversation about, you know, having a family.
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Because the state incentivizes single motherhood in this country.
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I'm sure Miss Arizona, yeah, sold his wife or whatever, sold purity to him.
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But, look, the woman flew all over the world and got married at, like, 31 when she met Charlie.
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She only really could pull that off because she was really hot.
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And you're looking at me with that face, but tell me why.
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What is your contention, that we shouldn't get married and have kids?
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We shouldn't, currently, because of this particular issue right now.
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Outside of the fact that, you know, the anti-woman thing that you said.
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I'm just saying that if we're going to have more families, we need some protections in place for men.
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Because right now, the legal system actively destroys the man in court.
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I mean, yeah, of course, it's true that the state encourages divorce.
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How about you find a woman that you want to spend the rest of your life?
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And then you should take responsibility for your own actions.
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Well, no, no, no, the thing is that you're saying you should...
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You're going up in front of people, time out, to say marriage is bad because I had a bad experience.
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Is it wrong to say that, hey, 70% of divorces are initiated by women when the data says that?
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Yeah, but you can't lead somebody that won't follow.
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You can have employees and you can try, attempt to lead them.
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But if they don't follow you, I mean, that's when you got to let people go, you know.
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And don't take the directive to have peace in the home.
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I'll send him to the Zoom link if he wants to come on.
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Yes, women might initiate the divorce proceeding.
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But we are the one as men that ignore the subterranean threat and the brush fire that is
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We're the ones that should take the family back to church, that go seek counseling if necessary.
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It's not good enough just to say, like, hey, you know, oh, it's women that initiate it.
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Act, I think, confidently and strong enough in most cases to actually make sure that marriage
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is a safe haven to have children in a wholly protected place.
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When the federal government incentivizes the state at the state level for child support
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enforcement programs, and we have a system where the state makes a bunch of money off
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of this, it's pretty parasitic, because there's no such thing as a 50-50 custody in Wyoming,
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So when the state is actively involved with family matters, and women are getting paid off
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from this, and this is not false, we have a toxic system that probably needs to be revised.
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But let's take a step back, though, and I think it's very important, is that men are...
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...objectively better when they are married, and they don't stay as grown infant boys watching
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Charlie, the number one OnlyFans consumer is white married Christian men.
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Actually, a lot of OnlyFans, and sex workers will tell you this, a lot of the people that
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are seeing sex workers aren't the single guys, it's the married ones.
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Despite the problems of the legal system, of which your argument has some merit, we still
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should get married because it is the right thing to do.
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Despite the technical problems, despite the difficulties, in fact, it's us men to find
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a woman that we love and to protect that marriage and hope that it never goes in the direction
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Why do we have such a society that is so hyper-focused on we need to have a bunch of children and get
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married, but we have this system in place, and I'm talking about the federal government
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And we can look at most of these inmates in jail come from fatherless homes.
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Maybe we should get rid of the state involved in personal family matters.
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You know why the fatherless homes you're talking about are people that never got married in
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They're men that impregnate women and flee the women that they were with.
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But understand this, that every generation has had troubles.
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Our duty as men is to overcome obstacles, not whine about them, and not complain about
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So yes, there is a problem here, but I would reject the premise.
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Every young man should say, I'm not going to be a boy, and I'm going to go do the hard
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And I would just push back against some of your narrative where you're telling, like, well,
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Yes, life has lots of things that could throw at you, but marriage is a holy...
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When you use your marriage as part of your brand, which Charlie Kirk does constantly,
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and you're bringing your wife on, that's not traditional.
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When your wife's got an open Instagram, that's not traditional.
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So it's like, what they want to do is they want to make money off of the grift.
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And they really, they're sending men to slaughter because men are nine times more likely to commit
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So, I mean, as far as I'm concerned, what he's saying, it's scum of the earth, you know?
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And the fact that marriage is slipping in the West is one of the great damaging indicators
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And he's, like, back with his grandpa for the summer or something.
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And they were telling me that the demographic...
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So, the kid is so lonely and, like, bored because there's no kids around.
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Okay, um, the next thing that I'm going to show...
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Is modern women are really taking L's on dating apps?
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But I, I just, I saw this on TikTok and I thought it was so funny.
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So, as you guys know, women are sharing a smaller and smaller percentage of men every year.
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And, um, now women are not only taking L's, but they're putting their L's online.
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So, and as you guys know, when women take an L with a guy, they can't just take the L and move on.
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What they tend to have to do is take the L and ruin his reputation.
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So, we're going to react to a woman who, um, basically got played really bad by this, um, Chad in Texas.
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Hi, um, if you know this man, or you know somebody who maybe knows this man, or you live in Charlotte, North Carolina, North Carolina in general, or even South Carolina, please listen.
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I've been seeing him since January, not entirely exclusive this entire point, but to a point we were exclusive.
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And then on Saturday, um, he asked me to be his girlfriend.
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On Sunday, I found out I'm not the only girlfriend.
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Um, one of which he's been dating for nine months and the other one he's been dating for over a year and is very involved with her and her two kids, um, as a family unit.
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To say I was shocked was not, it doesn't even cover it for lack of better words.
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I like to think of myself as someone who's really intuitive and I was picking up on things, but every response he had pretty much squashed any fears I had.
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Um, there are seven to 10 other women that he's potentially talking to and dating just from some research that we've all done.
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Um, and I do believe there's potentially other girlfriends that have yet to know about what he's doing.
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This is not the first time, um, that I'm aware of where, and he has admitted to me that he does this in cycles and that he knows it's going to blow up in his face.
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Yet he does it anyway, because he can't be happy with just one person.
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Um, I share all this because I know there's more out there.
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I've been reached out to from women from Wilmington and Asheville since.
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And for your mental health, your well-being and all the things, I can't not expose this man for what he's done to me and other women.
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Um, he was building lives with other women far more than, you know, what we accomplished in our five months of dating.
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So for me, this is about making it so he can never continue doing this again.
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Actions to have him banned from the dating apps that we matched on.
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Um, it's insane because women can get a bunch of money from men and brag about it, but they don't get banned on dating apps.
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But women will take a player off of a dating app.
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And out of respect for the other women, if you know of them, please respect their privacy and don't expose them.
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Please don't, please don't also reach out to his family or him.
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The goal of this is to not send hate his way, but rather make it so he can't do this again to any other woman.
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Um, if you know somebody in Charlotte or, you know, somebody in South Carolina, or he sounds familiar again, his name is Alex run.
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Um, the work trips he thinks he tells you he's on are not work trips.
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Um, he's with these other women and they're amazing.
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They're so strong and I have a lot of admiration for them both, but it's not the circumstances we should have met in.
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And he took advantage of every single one of us and played us like fiddles.
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So if you need proof of any sort, if this video finds you, please reach out.
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I'm sorry that I have to be the one to tell you, but I don't want him to do this anymore.
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Women, we're just broadcasting our L's on the internet.
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I've said on my channel before that in 2025, men have no incentive to get married.
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Despite modern day feminism and all this female empowerment BS, women still expect men to protect
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and provide, I'll go further today and say that men have no incentive to strive for success
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Men used to go into the job market at 16 and work and put themselves in the best position
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More women are choosing to be single instead of being a wife and having children, leaving
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men without the primary motivator of success that men had in the past.
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More and more men are checking out of the workforce.
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In fact, so many men have checked out that it's gaining national attention.
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In the 1960s, the male employment rate was 98%.
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And today the male employment rate is 90% and everyone is losing their minds.
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On Jeopardy, a contestant was introduced as a stay-at-home son.
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He's 27 years old and is in between jobs living with his parents.
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Jeopardy champion Brendan Lea talks intense prep for the show and what's next.
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Brendan Lea went viral when he listed his occupation as stay-at-home son.
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Now the three-day Jeopardy champion opened up about his studying habits for the game show
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and what was next for him after winning the average yearly salary for most people in three
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He asked host Ken Jennings to introduce him at the beginning of each episode as a recent
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I figured even if I lost at my first game, at least I could make people laugh, he told
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the Wall Street Journal just days after his run ended.
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Lea, who has a master's degree in political science, went home with a total of $59,000
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He was defeated by Jim Carpenter, a retired music professor from Charlotte, Vermont, on
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The 27-year-old still lives with his parents and currently has no job after finishing school,
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I don't know what's going to happen with all this Jeopardy stuff and newfound publicity.
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If something better comes along, I'm not opposed to shelving the law school for a bit.
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But in the long run, government work or politics, I wrote my master's thesis on the House of
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Representatives, and I really want to work on the Hill.
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Working as a Senate staffer would be my dream job, basically, he told the outlet.
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My career doesn't really define me, and it should just be a thing where I'm okay with
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what I do as long as I make enough to pay the bills.
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Since he doesn't have a job and claimed that he has all the time in the world, Liam's studying
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prep leading up to the episode is pretty intense, he shared.
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That he practiced with a fake buzzer as he stood in his living room in a suit watching
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Jeopardy episodes five times, five episodes per day.
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I was doing cardio every day, getting on a stationary bike, and watching an episode of
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This helped him stimulate the nerves of being on the game show.
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No matter how much you prepare, walking onto the stage and having all the lights and the
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cameras and Jennings and an audience, there's no way to recreate that.
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So women have been freeloaders for all of eternity.
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But when it comes to having useless jobs, living off of the government, taking benefits,
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going to get a degree that makes no money, and accumulating a bunch of student debt we don't
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pay back, women have been freeloaders for all of eternity, gold digging men.
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But now that like 10% of men are freeloaders, women don't know what to do.
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I also wonder if it's because a percentage of men are like Ubering and doing stuff like
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that where they wouldn't typically be like registered as employed.
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Okay, so, of course, some of our favorite TradCons had something to say about it.
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Here's Laura Ingram and closet feminist Tommy Lauren tearing down men because of this new
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They have too much money to have this bat of Botox.
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The Italian word is for the mamonies, or they stay at home.
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The moms like the sons staying at home longer, but the phrase is becoming popular of these
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stay-at-home sons because an unemployed Jeopardy! contestant says he was just trying to make
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And, you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks that are on
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Medicaid, and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home sons.
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But I'll tell you this, leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and social awkwardness.
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And here, it's kind of rich that she's saying Gen Z is lazy.
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And this is the thing, the women, they get success early.
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And we think we're given it because of how intelligent we are, hardworking.
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...awkwardness as something cutesy, like a stay-at-home son.
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But I think conservative women are actually more socially awkward because they just nag
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And she doesn't even realize how, like, naggy this sounds, you know?
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And they did much the same thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to work and do less.
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And if you call it quiet quitting, it's somehow better.
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But, Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem when it comes to, I think, declining
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birth rates, people not getting married and having children.
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Yes, we might have a feminism problem in America, but it's the feminization of men.
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There are a lot of young women out there that want to get married.
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Yeah, but they want to do it with, like, Chad instead of an average guy.
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And you proved the point, Tommy, because you married an MLB ex, like, baseball player.
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But there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's basement and order
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Well, and also with the rise of AI and AI dating, as they call it, which is sick, it's going
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to be even easier and perhaps more attractive for these types of individuals to remain behind
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And what does that do to families and young women and dating?
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I also blame the social conditioning of the COVID era, the dumbest era in modern American
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history, because a lot of people, especially these young people, they grew up like this,
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thinking that it was safer at home, thinking that outside was dangerous.
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So now you've got people that want to literally stay inside and play video games and have AI
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And that's why we have declining birth rates and a lot of other problems.
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No, we have declining birth rates because women don't want to be mothers.
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Society, it's time to go out, get a job, breathe the fresh air, meet people in real life.
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Johnson has been talking about those maybe deadbeat folks.
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Just watch your segment on unemployed young men and the narrow-minded shaming of these young
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men that you both spewed for most of the segment.
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The only reason you stopped was to, with no self-awareness whatsoever, chuckle at Democrats
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Truth is, you're every bit as clueless as the Democrats.
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These young men you're shaming are also the same demographic that aren't bothering to
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Most are pursuing training or other paths to success in life.
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They are literally broadcasting to you that they see no real future for themselves, and
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I understand this gives you a chuckle, but I have to wonder if it ever occurred to you
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to take, say, 30 seconds to think about inquiring meaningfully into such a serious problem.
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Have you ever spent any real time talking to young men about why they're checking out?
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I think you've already made that answer to the last question obvious.
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If for no other reason you might consider this, some of the male vote that put Republicans
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over the top in November came from the guys you're mocking and belittling.
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If you don't care about them as people, at least be smart enough to care about their votes.
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Both of these women are very obvious feminists that pose as conservative, so the Fox News
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When it comes to marriage, when it comes to providing, when it comes to success in the
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All they want to do is bitch and complain and tell men they're not doing enough, as usual.
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The days of men sacrificing for their mental, emotional, monetary, and physical health while
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asking for nothing in return, men used to do that as a duty, but women called that patriarchy.
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American women and American society are going to have to figure out a way to incentivize men
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And the call in today is, what do you think about men checking out of the job market?
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And do you think it's okay for a man in his twenties to live with his parents?
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And did you ever go through a period where you checked out of the job market or were unemployed?
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What do you think about men checking out of the dating market?
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Modern women are taking advantage of men like a spoiled kid with their favorite toy.
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They think that they can do whatever a man can do.
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Well, women had to stay home and men got to go out and work.
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And then when everything, I remember when Coach Greg Adams, he was on Saucecast.
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And his, that guy's 20-year-old Gen Z producer was like, Greg Adams, you're saying all this
00:35:53.640
stuff about women, but don't you have a daughter?
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He's like, look, anything I tell her to do, she's going to do the opposite.
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So I told her, come to your dad when you got burned enough times and you're ready to actually
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Women need to burn themselves enough times and say, men, we're tired of being out here.
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You turn 16, you get a job, and you're going to work until you're dead.
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A lot of us, we're not going to get any, Thomas Sotomayor said, most guys don't get any kind
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So you turn 16, you get a job, you work until you're dead, and hopefully along the way, you
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get a highly valued skill, highly valued trade, highly valued education, so you can put yourself
00:36:57.460
in the best position to be able to live the life you want to live or support a family,
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And women, they think they want the journey of a man.
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They think they want a whole life of paying all the bills and paying for a mortgage and
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And more and more women are finding out that it's not fun, especially right around 35.
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That's when women start looking around and saying, man, am I going to have to pay all
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Remember, women reserve the right to change their minds about anything, guys.
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A lot of women, they want the smoke until they're 35, 45, and then they want to rush
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Anyway, sum it up and saying, I used to tell the guys, I used to mentor guys, if your parents
00:37:44.240
can facilitate you living at home while you're working a professional career, do it.
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One of the best ways to avoid wasting money on women is live at your mom's house or your
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Is there ever an age where you don't think it's okay?
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Is there ever an age where you don't think it's okay?
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If you are productive, once again, if you have a highly valued skill, highly valued trade,
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I know there's someone I know that is, he's, I know him, he's, he's a very productive guy,
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And I told him to just tell women that it's his house.
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I was like, just live because it's not like your job, like, I was like, I was like, yeah,
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just say, you know, you're, you're letting them stay with you.
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You know, they're having health issues as his dad does like pushups in the living room.
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Well, and also we're one of the only cultures where it's not socially acceptable for multiple
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All of my Latino friends, my friends from South America, all of my Asian friends.
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In fact, you know, I'm from Washington state and a lot of my Asian friends, they, they
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went off to college, they came back, moved back in with their parents.
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They got a professional job and then they, they spent most of their mid twenties starting
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And then they would find their wife or their husband while they were living at home.
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And the first time they moved out was out of the house that they bought American culture,
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Um, did you ever go through a period where you were checked out of the job market or unemployed?
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I was like, I don't, you know, I, I do think that you owe it to yourself to be as productive
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Cause we still have the masculine burden of performance, but I don't blame guys who just
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don't have, you know, but I'm also in my mid forties.
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You know, I grew up with the dream of having a family.
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I don't have any children, but you know, so I was raised that way, but I don't see any
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reason, like the modern man has to want to be successful, but women create a world where
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I'm going to bring in, let's make sure to like the video.
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And, uh, and make sure to do, to drop a super chat to support the channel.
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Um, so what do you think about men checking out of the job market?
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Um, yeah, I mean, it doesn't really surprise me.
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Um, whenever you're playing a game that you can't win or the game that's like rigged against
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you, um, as men, we tend to like find solutions for this and like being pragmatic about these
00:41:22.200
types of things is kind of what like women don't like, you know, women really like are
00:41:30.360
So, um, and do you know anyone, um, have you ever checked out of the job market or do
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you know, anybody personally that's checked out?
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I mean, I haven't had like a real job in like over five years.
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I mean, I've long since checked out of like, I used to work in like retail environments
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and it's just like, it's just women everywhere.
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Like literally go anywhere, go to any restaurant, go to any fast food place, go to any retail
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There's no men and the men that are there are all freaking, well, you already know.
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So what, um, what, like, what was the career path you wanted to do?
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And was there like a moment that stopped you where you just decided this didn't make sense?
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Um, I always wanted to be a musician and like, there was never really anything that was stopping
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Cause like I had to grow up super, super quick compared to all my peers.
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Like I got kicked out of the house at like 17 and like, never got to live with my parents
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Um, so I had to grow up pretty fast and like, I always wanted to be a musician, but I realized
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pretty quick that like, I'm not that great, you know?
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And once I did that, it was pretty, like, it's pretty straightforward.
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Like I knew all this stuff, all this stuff about the red pill and like all this manosphere
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I knew about this stuff when I was in like high school, like when I was like 15, because
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like I had an older sister and she wasn't going to let me get finessed by women.
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So like, she really put me on to like how things actually are.
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Like I, I really consider myself, like I live outside of the system.
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Like people talk about the matrix and all this stuff.
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It's like, I really live outside this shit and I've been doing it for a long time.
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It's just like, it's not as glamorous as people might make it seem.
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And like, I'm more focused on like learning guitar and like learning my instruments and
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like, you know, being involved in like music and stuff to like really care that much.
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I just want to be able to like, not have a nine to five where I'm getting bossed around
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Like when I was working at retail jobs, it was just being bossed around by women who can't,
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it's like, I'm over here lifting 80 pound bags of concrete and you're like bitching at
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me and it's just like, yo, I'm not getting paid enough for this shit.
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I have a friend that's a middle school math teacher and he said, rarely does he get to
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spend time actually teaching because any disciplinary problems in, in the women's
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Uh, you know, any kind of tough situation, he gets called out of his classroom to go to
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different classrooms because he's one of the only men in the school.
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So they had to put a thing and say, look, leave this guy alone.
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But what if, you know, what if a middle school boy is acting up, you know, I'm a woman.
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They take advantage of men, any chance they can get, because they know that like they have
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the leverage and like it's, it goes a lot deeper than just like, you know, work environments.
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Like, this is a big issue and like, it's funny that Tommy Lauren, all she has as a solution
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It's like, like, oh man, there's just so much I could say.
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I'm like, bitch, you don't pour concrete or something.
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Like, what does she do like, yeah, I know I'm like, let's not pretend that this is like
00:45:37.100
No, it really, it, it, it makes me like so like physically upset that sometimes like I
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can't even like, I look at clips like that and I just like, it makes me so angry.
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Well, the worst part about it is you, I keep saying it, feminists are worse than these,
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these faked tradcon hoes because the, the feminists, the tattoos, green hair, give them
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away, but the, the tradcon fakies, they blend in and it's not until they, they open their
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You can take the same thing that Tommy Lawrence says about men and then the same thing as,
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And you can take the words and it looks like it's coming from the same person.
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I mean, it's just women at the end of the day, you know, like we can't really listen
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to anything they say unless it's Pearl, obviously wink, wink, but it's like, like, I don't understand
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why like, like dudes are still like buying into this shit.
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I know most of them don't like, I have faith that most guys are like not really buying into
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all this stuff, but it's like, it's just like, man, what do we do?
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Well, well, men are, we see women vote with their feelings.
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Men are spending less and we're just, we're just not getting involved.
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And apparently like Pearl covered yesterday, the Democrats are going to spend $20 million
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We're going to move on to the next caller, but thank you for calling in.
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So what do you think about men checking out of the job market?
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I think if they can find a way to make a living and survive by whatever it means, go for it.
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Of course, as long as it's not, you know, I would say obviously like illegal, you know what I mean?
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But other than that, yeah, I mean, you know, there used to be, remember back, well, you probably don't remember, Pearl, you're a little young.
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But back in the day, they used to have beach bums in California and stuff.
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And I went to college with one and, you know, he's just like the chillest guy I've ever seen.
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And I'm like, you know, I was all hard pressed and trying real hard in college and, you know, to become a musician, kind of like the other dude that just talked.
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And I did become a musician, but yeah, that's a really hard life.
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Being a musician is probably harder because I did the equivalent of both.
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But, you know, always being broke and always getting rug pulled by the government, you know, you get a you get a speeding ticket and and you're screwed for the month.
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So let's say you have a young guy who's 20 years old and maybe he can he completed community college.
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But then he's like, I don't know what I want to do.
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Should I should I do should I get like a blue collar job?
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Well, what would you tell a 20 year old guy to do in this current market when it comes to what he should do with his life?
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Don't try to find some kind of trade or something that you like doing and just grind on it.
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You know, that's what I would do, even if you have to, you know, get a side job or something like that.
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That's kind of what I ended up doing, except I.
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I went to college first, but we're in a different time now, and there's no way I would I would ever tell any man to go into debt for college, especially now, or even to pay for it.
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If they work, if they're having to work for it.
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Did you ever have a period where you were unemployed and you checked out?
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Was it just the circumstances or was it a choice and why?
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I was still working for myself, doing gigs and stuff as a musician.
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But, you know, when when they do the, you know, economy road pools, I mean, it happened to me three times already.
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So that's what I was like, you know, luckily during the covid one, I developed a trade.
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And our generation has seen more economic upturn and downturn than any other generation.
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Do you think it's OK for a man to live with his parents in his 20s?
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In fact, I think that's what they should do if they can, because, uh, in fact, a friend of mine who's a millennial, he did that and was able to work and just save money.
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He didn't go to college and he ended up getting married.
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They got a house together and they're one of the very few, you know, that are doing good.
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I've got a couple of friends that have been married for a long time.
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And part of it was my fault, too, for being a brokey, you know, being a musician all those years.
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Did you, do you regret, like, being a musician when you were younger?
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I wish I would have taken a different path of being a musician than I did.
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In other words, um, I put my, all my eggs in that basket because we hadn't gone through what we went through, you know, since 9-11.
00:53:05.940
That, like, literally that, that was, uh, that was right after the semester I got out of college.
00:53:13.220
So, everything started going crazy and, you know, I tried to make it work out and I don't regret it at all because, you know, it's like an itch you get a scratch if, if, if.
00:53:29.540
And I had the talent and I still do and I'm still trying to get back into it, uh, here little by little now that I got money.
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But, you know, uh, still, it's, it's still not an easy road and it's definitely, it's pretty much impossible to make it big, you know, nowadays.
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But, you know, you know, I mean, we're, we're looking at all the Diddy situation, right?
00:53:58.980
I was like, oh no, I'm not selling out for anything like that, you know?
00:54:02.740
Um, to thrive says, Hey, David, your story is similar, is the same as mine.
00:54:45.640
Well, I don't think it's surprising because, well, it's, it's definitely not something I would
00:54:52.080
Um, if guys are just crashing out of the job market because they feel, because they don't
00:54:59.080
I mean, obviously none of us like how it is, uh, with the trains.
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I mean, I feel this is the, if I was to compare it to anything, it would be the Me Too movement.
00:55:12.440
I mean, I'd love to use different wording, Pearl, but you said it for me earlier that, uh, that
00:55:20.120
we, girls complained that men, uh, working over women or being over women in the workforce
00:55:27.440
But now that women have more control, they don't like how it's going.
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And the reality is, well, this is what you asked for.
00:55:34.700
And this is, yeah, this is very, this is exactly what's going on.
00:55:39.680
So it's not surprising, um, as far as have, have I ever done it?
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No, I've been working consistently since I was 14.
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There may, there was a few months break, but nothing serious, but I definitely had moments
00:55:54.120
And since it's relevant, I'll just, um, mentioned two examples, excuse me.
00:55:59.280
Um, one, I was, I was just doing odd jobs while I was at university and the female managers
00:56:09.500
And I just, it didn't even take anything special for me to tell that they were doing it because
00:56:14.500
they liked having power over, over young men and kind of like how we would complain if
00:56:21.800
men were doing it saying, look, this is, this guy's being, being rude for no reason.
00:56:26.480
I would say, well, can you tell this woman to stop being a bitch for no reason?
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And people didn't like, the upper managers didn't like that.
00:56:35.100
There was a time because I was in sort of the red pill rage phase where I just started
00:56:39.880
calling them feminists and I was, I was disciplined for that.
00:56:42.740
So I had times when I wanted to leave, but you know, you've got to make money.
00:56:47.560
The, another reason this is, this has been very personal to me because I just couldn't
00:56:53.780
Even my friends, mainly because this was at the height of the Me Too movement, female
00:56:59.100
lecturers at university were being just, sorry, I've just had lunch.
00:57:06.360
I mean, if, if male lecturers were bad, they were just bad at their job point blank, but
00:57:11.280
we had females who weren't just bad at, they didn't know what they were talking about.
00:57:14.460
They would go off on feminist diatribes during lectures.
00:57:18.320
And as somebody who was paying for my own education, I absolutely hated this.
00:57:22.640
So I, so I would put complaints in and nobody responded to it.
00:57:26.740
You even had, I mean, just one, sorry, last example on this.
00:57:30.880
There was one who went onto a rant about Alex Jones, somebody who I am not a fan of because
00:57:36.660
he's a bit too conspiratized for me, but nonetheless, it was completely irrelevant to what was being
00:57:42.820
And this was all from a pro liberal, sorry, political standpoint.
00:57:50.520
I mean, paying for this kind of stuff, it was just, it was unbearable.
00:57:54.380
So I can under, so I say all of this to say, I don't think men should just throw in the
00:58:00.540
I mean, if you can make money on by yourself, which I'm trying to do right now, perfect.
00:58:04.620
But I can understand why they're doing it because the market is just very anti-male.
00:58:08.480
And as you pointed out, Pearl, more and more conservatives ignore this.
00:58:15.440
Candace Owens, I used to, I have been a big fan of hers for years, but her, her insistence
00:58:20.560
on talking about stuff that is not necessary, i.e.
00:58:23.800
Emmanuel Macron's wife is like, can you talk about stuff that's relevant?
00:58:34.340
Doug MPA, you have any other questions for him?
00:58:40.300
This is, this is, this is off topic, but yo, what'd you think about Macy Barber, man?
00:58:45.680
Well, actually, I mean, that's actually a very good example.
00:58:51.800
I mean, typical, typical, because I mean, speaking again about real life examples in the
00:58:58.680
workforce, I, I got to the point where I stopped talking about this on Twitter because
00:59:03.500
it just, I mean, all of the vast majority of the MMA media is woke, like the mainstream
00:59:09.280
And if you point out, look, bringing women into the UFC was bad enough, but giving them
00:59:15.060
high, high profile main events when they don't deserve it is worse, lowers the standard
00:59:21.460
And this is just a classic example because I mean, missed weight because of a certain
00:59:25.580
operation, i.e. chest, and then, and then couldn't even make it to the fight and suddenly
00:59:36.080
So what happened was there was a UFC fight on Saturday, Pearl, and these two flyweights
00:59:42.260
with these two women at 125, we're going to fight and this girl, Macy Barber, got a boob
00:59:48.140
job and she's been having health problems ever since.
00:59:53.660
And she had to pull out at the, she had to pull out of the fight.
00:59:56.860
She's about to walk out to the cage and she had to pull out of the fight.
01:00:02.040
Macy Barber, M-A-Y-C-E-E, Barber, B-A-R-B-E-R, Barber.
01:00:22.760
I'm just, I'm like, what ghetto doctor did you go to?
01:00:27.340
Yeah, Google it real fast, but Macy Barber, and you can see before and after.
01:00:32.620
And there's another fighter, Kat Zingano, where she had problems for years, health problems
01:00:39.860
And when she took her, her breast implants out, all of her health problems went away.
01:00:44.320
So she fought a lot of her career with health problems for her boob implants.
01:01:05.220
Like, just be a little sick, but make millions of dollars instead of getting hit in the face
01:01:11.600
And if I could just, sorry guys, if I could just throw one thing in there since you brought
01:01:21.620
And again, Pearl, you mentioned it's the OnlyFans thing because OnlyFans is the way to
01:01:27.340
But that's, I mean, the worst thing for me was when girls, girls missed weight repeatedly
01:01:44.260
But, and one of the reasons why, why people like me have supported Dana White over the years
01:01:50.040
is because he, he never bought into those excuses because it's, it's not so, but this
01:01:55.520
is just another example of standards being lowered when you bring women into, into a sport
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So what do you think about men checking out of the job market?
01:02:43.940
Um, but I think as long as you can have something that you enjoy and it's not as much
01:02:50.020
as of a job as more of as a passion that you happen to get paid for.
01:02:53.840
That's kind of how I've treated, not for myself.
01:02:57.060
I was the responsible guy that got a job and like, you know, support younger siblings and
01:03:02.280
But for my younger brother, I was like, Hey, you know, do what you want.
01:03:06.500
And I'll always support you if you need a fallback.
01:03:09.240
Like, so do you think it's okay for a guy in his twenties to live with his parents?
01:03:16.320
Um, I've been talking to my, uh, my wife right now.
01:03:20.460
I want to build a family compound and I want our kids to like, you know, live with us.
01:03:25.020
Like, you know, not exactly in our house forever, but like, Hey, if we can build them the house
01:03:31.420
nest door or the, the, the mini home nest door when, you know, so like I wanted to bring
01:03:40.180
Not really like we've gone to individual, individual families now in the U S and like
01:03:45.340
everybody that like when they're 18 to 25, everybody leaves, but you see people live
01:03:50.120
like, Oh, I, you, you live one or two doors down from your parents.
01:03:57.160
It literally like people used to live together as clans and it's just, I'm trying to get
01:04:03.440
Cause I can't, I mean, I don't feel like driving a few hours just to see somebody.
01:04:08.920
And did you ever go through a period where you checked out of the job market or you were
01:04:18.520
Um, I know I told this story one time, but I had, I had a kid when I was still in high
01:04:22.100
school and went still into the military straight out of high school to provide for that.
01:04:27.160
But I, if I, if I didn't have either one of my kids, I wouldn't, I wouldn't work the way
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Like, and do you know anybody like any guys that are checked out of the job market?
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Um, my younger brother checked out of like the serious job market.
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Um, and he, he went through a couple of bad breakups with some girls and he just, he was
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so frustrated with feeling, feeling like he was getting nowhere in life and he, he, he's
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He was, he was like 24 and, um, but he went into the military and I, and I told him, I
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said, don't take it, don't take a, don't take the job or an MOS unless you like, it's
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But he, he finally got his recruiter to agree to something he likes and now he enjoys his
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He's over in Japan and I told him, I said, look, just never don't do the job if you don't
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So my brother's like says he's never having kids.
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So he never feels like he has to provide for anyone except himself.
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He, well, he's 25 now, but yeah, he's, he was 24 when we had this conversation.
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You know, um, you know, you, you get credit over here for, for being that rock for your
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Do, don't ever think that, that, um, let the people around you don't know what you've
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done, what you do, what you've done in the past, what you're doing in the present and
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Cause like, you know, a lot of people don't, don't see it.
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And, you know, sometimes, sometimes the women in your family do not see it.
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Like my, my father and my grandfather, like, are, you know, say they're very proud of
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me because of the sacrifice I give, but my mother, like, it's like, I've, I've told
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Pearl terror horror stories of my mother before they just, it goes right over their head.
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What are your thoughts on men checking out of the job market?
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Well, you could argue that I checked out of the job market myself.
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Now, the reason for that was I came to the end of a contract rather abruptly.
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I was one of quite a large pool of software engineers that were pulled out of their contracts
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At that time, the promise of AI automations and AI agents was in the horizon.
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And so I thought to myself, well, look, you can spend the next, what, a year, maybe two years
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that you've got as a software engineer only to get to that point and find that the industry has changed
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and then, quite frankly, there are no jobs left.
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Or you can use that time to skill up in AI, design some good applications and do the work to put the stuff out there
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and become your own boss and subsequently maybe even create opportunities for other people.
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So I've decided to create opportunities for other people and set up my own business, if you like.
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So I'm literally weeks away now from launching not one, not two, but three apps.
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And so on your, like, taxes, are you listed as unemployed?
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Like, would you be in that stat technically, even though you're doing all this?
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In the New South Wales that I've actually just signed up for, which is entrepreneurs who are currently unemployed.
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But I think that this notion that men are sort of checking out because they're lazy or they're hopeless.
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And there's also this thing of, well, what's the point?
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Certainly in my case, anyway, what was the point of me being in a career for which not only was I going to face a severe drop in income,
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but I may actually find myself with no income because the job market has changed dramatically.
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Two years from now, well, am I going to be competing with, you know, guys in their early 20s?
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So I made what I felt was to be a tactical decision to spend the last two years upskilling, you know, really sort of positioning myself for what I feel is, you know, a better future.
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And did you move home like with family or are you still on your own?
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So he had to, you know, move into like more affordable accommodation, if you like.
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And also realizing the fact that, quite frankly, as far as the opposite sex were concerned, you know, the modern woman today, she's not looking to support a guy who's got, you know, ideas about the future.
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You know, did they need to see someone who's made and has the full package now?
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So there was a real sense in this feeling that, look, in terms of, you know, what's out there, what my prospects are for money, for the opposite sex, for jobs in the future, make the sacrifice now, come out of the market and then position yourself so that you're much stronger.
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And I see a lot of men, certainly in my vicinity, also thinking exactly the same.
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Or I see men now who have got jobs and they're seriously concerned about the next six months.
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Because they think AI is going to take their job?
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It's not so much that they think that AI is going to take their job.
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It's just that corporations are making the obvious decision to reduce the fat in favor of AI automation that can 100x output and what have you else.
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You can imagine my, you know, certain members of my family two years ago thought I was nuts.
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They thought I was the guy who, you know, the media and the internet would like to portrays.
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Or you're stepping out of your market because you're lazy.
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You've got to make sacrifices for what you feel is a better future.
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And, you know, I'm hoping that you find a good income.
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And remember, and just avoiding this nine-to-five grind will help you live longer, man.
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I've got a better, my health and that lot has improved dramatically, I will say.
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I'm going to let him cut the line because we haven't heard from our good friend in a while.
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What do you think about men checking out of the job market?
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Men have to check out because, like, this is why we have AI.
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So we were like, let's put them in the workforce.
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And then the robots just got better at everything.
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They can have their little robots, take our money.
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So you think it's okay for a guy to live with his parents?
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Like, if his standards are low, like, if he doesn't care about life and he's checked out,
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for sure, go, like, I think the key to success for men is probably living with your parents
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as long as possible so you can save your money.
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Because most women that you're going to sleep with when you're living with your parents,
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So you should be, and then when you get out, you have a lot of money.
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And then, you know, you get entangled with the chick that was just a little bit better
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Well, and you could just lie and say it's your house.
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I would do that when my parents would be away on their boat.
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Okay, did you ever go through a period where you were checked out of the job market or unemployed?
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I never heard, guys, like, I could never be checked out because I put all my value in
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Yeah, dude, I, yes, yes, it's the best, you, you have to.
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And I wish I never, I wish I never went out with her, to be honest, but, yeah.
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She just won't shut up, like, she texted me all day about life, like, I'm doing this,
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I'm doing that, and I'm like, don't, like, don't you work, and then, and then she sent
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me her STD results, like, she doesn't have anything, thank goodness, but she was going
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into, like, graphic detail how they got the specimens, and I was like, dude, like, I was
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like, I'm like, you just need to send me the result, I don't care how the burger's
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made, jeez, and, uh, yeah, she's, like, I, you know, man.
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I want to feel bad for you, Dustin, but you live in Portland, bro, like, everything you
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tell me, I, I already know what's going to happen to you, man.
01:16:29.340
But he's got, he's got a, he's got a son, right?
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Oh, I have a, oh, yeah, she has a boy, and, like, I, I don't know, because Doug said he
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dates single women, so I was curious, have you ever met women who, like, despise their
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Last time was, like, five years ago, but I can't, dude, like, no, I, I stay away from
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And, like, I'm definitely, I definitely, it'll be my last one, maybe, but the way she talks
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to her son in front of me, I'm like, dude, I feel so bad for this kid.
01:17:11.920
I, uh, she tries to tell my daughter, we, we hung out twice, and she tried to tell my daughter
01:17:17.760
what to do, and I was like, hey, like, if my daughter wants to go jump off this, this
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slide and break her leg, I'm going to let her do it, because she's got to learn, like,
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Nah, man, you, dropkick this broad, change your number, man, watch out, these, the crazy
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Yeah, he'll end up on, are we dating the same guy, Portland?
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All right, buddy, always good talking to you, have a good one.
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I just feel like, I feel like he would end up on that page.
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So, what do you think about men checking out of the job market?
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I think it's, wait, can you hear me pretty well?
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I think it's pretty predictable, the way, like, the last caller was talking about.
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The woman couldn't do the job, like, they tried to introduce women to the workforce,
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So, and then they replaced men with robots, because they're easier to command,
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and they don't bitch about, you know, their problems.
01:18:50.500
But, like I was explaining to my girlfriend, it's all layered, isn't it?
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That the Industrial Age brought in machines, and then slowly but surely,
01:18:59.500
men, humans were being replaced by machines, and that's what's happening in relationships.
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It's just that girls are taking advantage of it more than men are.
01:19:10.940
Yeah, because, like, you know, I don't, I know you're on YouTube,
01:19:14.600
so I don't want to get too graphic, but, you know,
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they can get a relationship out of that, because it doesn't talk back.
01:19:24.540
And they can get their own money, they can get their own house, they can get...
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They have dogs and cats, and they can treat like their kids.
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They can have a say in the relationships they want,
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because they can just boss all these things around.
01:19:39.360
Like, if you look at girls, what, they get pit bulls that are domesticated to the bone,
01:19:45.800
because they want to change the beast into something they can fuddle with.
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I want to take the teeth out and the claws out and keep it as a pet.
01:20:00.120
You see the pit bull Rottweiler thing a lot with B-dubs.
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Have you seen that one pit bull on, I think he's on Instagram,
01:20:10.120
where this black woman, like, literally treats him like it's her kid.
01:20:19.180
I mean, you could just go in Austin and see that.
01:20:24.760
But to what I was saying is that everything's just replacing man,
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And, you know, I don't want to say it's our fault as men.
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and I always mention this guy back on the Opie and Anthony show in 2005, 2010.
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He was talking about how we all killed context.
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Yeah, that's something that the conservatives are missing nowadays.
01:21:00.460
Like, because Charlie Kirk is half right that men should stand up,
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but he's not being completely honest, and we all know that,
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because he doesn't have the balls, unfortunately, to tell the truth about women
01:21:21.460
And that's the real frustrating part is, like, yeah, Charlie, we get it.
01:21:26.060
But what's the point if I can just get fired from my job the next day
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and I can get divorced by my wife and she can go on TikTok
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and blame me as a racist, as a rapist, as a this in 20 seconds?
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Like, can I not have a guarantee that me as a good dude,
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I'm going to get something out of this life from working really hard?
01:21:48.280
but that's what's really frustrating to listening to Charlie Kirk
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and all these other conservatives is that they're missing the context
01:22:04.280
Like, I work a job, and I make pretty good money,
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but I'm thinking about getting a side job and something on this side gig
01:22:15.460
And I remember growing up, I just worked at a gas station.
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And that's what's missing nowadays is that we just all kill context.
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We all kill nuance, and it's just so easy to blame men
01:22:27.140
because we'll just walk up from the table and go away, right?
01:22:31.820
and to get around the circle and just complain and bitch
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And do you know any men that are checked out of the job market
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Like, was there a situation at work that did it or something like that?
01:22:51.440
Well, I was working at banking for 2015, no, 2009 to 2015,
01:23:02.220
the fact that the government or whoever, you know,
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them could just shut it all down with the push of a button,
01:23:12.100
And that really woke me up into wanting to do something more in the trades.
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I got fired just because I hated going into work every single day.
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So I just started, you know, being late and late,
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and I just stopped caring because, and this is my own fault, right?
01:23:33.000
But, like, you just go on YouTube or your phone,
01:23:35.560
and you just see these 20-year-olds driving around in Lambos
01:23:40.640
And, you know, you're trying to be a good guy in your life.
01:23:48.400
So I was out of the job for, like, six, seven months,
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and it was really frustrating because it made me question a lot about myself
01:23:58.240
But it helped me, you know, find what I really want to do.
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But I don't blame guys for wanting to be checked out.
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when you have Republicans and Democrats and whoever
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shipping jobs all over the world instead of their own country
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So, and then, like, I don't know about every guy out there,
01:24:27.080
but I know for myself, I hated banking because it's all electronic.
01:24:30.460
There's nothing you can touch, you can hold with your hands.
01:24:35.560
is that a lot of guys just want to work with their hands.
01:24:41.540
because they sold a paper to the newsletter or, you know,
01:24:50.380
no, I'm not pointing fingers at you, Pearl, or anything,
01:24:57.980
Like, I really hate the fact that some guy can make millions of dollars
01:25:34.100
How many people do we have in the waiting room?
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One, two, three, four, five, six people waiting.
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It makes the shows way better when we get a lot of callers.
01:25:53.760
I'm going to have this person skip the line only because I saw them in the chat and their name.
01:26:32.100
I just skipped right out of the waiting room, so I wasn't sure yet.
01:26:35.100
But for the Crucible, they had to screen people to make sure people weren't coming on to get them TOS'd.
01:26:44.100
But about men checking out of the job market, I'm not really sure how accurate the numbers are.
01:26:54.540
But a lot of people, especially when times are tough, they start going cash work.
01:27:02.420
I did that for a while, especially after the 2008 crash.
01:27:07.820
A lot of people couldn't get good full-time employment, so they would just go cash work.
01:27:13.800
And some guys would actually trade, I'll do this work for you, you do that for me.
01:27:19.240
Other than that, I mean, I think it's kind of – it looks the same way as the guys who are checking out of dating and checking out of trying to have a family.
01:27:30.680
And, you know, it seems like older generations of people have never vacated their positions.
01:27:40.740
They're still in the upper management at 70 years old.
01:27:50.840
And I guess, you know, the majority population is still white.
01:27:55.840
And if you're a straight white man, you already know that, you know, you're probably not going to get a fair shake in a lot of places, and they're probably not going to tell you.
01:28:09.120
Do you think it's okay for a young man to live with his parents in his 20s?
01:28:19.680
I mean, there's plenty of people who wind up through a circumstance.
01:28:27.040
I do think you – if you do find yourself in that position, you better be paying some rent.
01:28:38.100
You should be doing things to help out your parents.
01:28:40.500
You shouldn't be sitting there like you're a kid still.
01:28:47.680
What advice would you give, like, a 20-year-old young man, you know, maybe he went to community college, and he's thinking, hmm, should I go on to college?
01:29:03.860
What advice would you give a 20-year-old young man?
01:29:10.200
Go for stuff that's too – that's one of the things that was kind of strange about artificial intelligence, the way it's going, is we all assumed, oh, the robots are going to replace us, guys like me, who swing hammers and dig ditches and, you know, build houses.
01:29:27.360
But apparently, Peterson said this a lot in his work, actually seeing the world is pretty complicated, and then linking that to action is also a tough compute.
01:29:40.280
So I think we're probably going to be employed slightly longer than the coders, that's for sure.
01:29:48.500
Did you see the article out right now where – that learned to code from, like, 2000 – what, it was 2016 to, like, 2021?
01:30:01.660
Now the market is saturated with computer science, people that can't get a job.
01:30:08.240
That's not surprising, especially with AI helping out now.
01:30:13.780
It's the exact opposite of what we thought when I was a kid.
01:30:16.700
We thought all of the people who knew how to program computers would be job secure, and all of us who were doing manual labor of one kind or another, even skilled, would be replaced by robots.
01:30:28.380
It's very strange, but, yeah, I mean, especially – I mean, if hard backbreaking work is not your thing, any kind of career that requires humanity, you know, for instance, this is probably better for women, but, you know, nursing, it's going to be tough before a robot can fake caring about somebody effectively.
01:30:56.060
Customer service, personal – things where people want a personal interaction.
01:31:03.220
They can kind of fake it right now with telemarketers, but it's not great.
01:31:08.820
And so – and, oh, I did have one disagreement with you guys.
01:31:13.040
A previous caller said that he thought women can get whatever they want out of machinery, and that actually looks like it's probably going to go the other way, too, because guys can get their friendship pretty effectively from other guys as long as they can find people with similar interests.
01:31:32.940
And a robot that's not – as soon as it's not – as soon as it's not – there's no stigma to having some kind of sex robot, and maybe you can even take it outside as sort of a, I don't know, step for wife date or what.
01:31:50.340
But as soon as there's no stigma to that, a guy – a lot of guys are going to be fine with that life where they just come home to this, you know, perfect-looking robot.
01:32:01.600
But the women won't be because a robot, you're always going to know that it is faking you driving it crazy.
01:32:16.420
Yeah, how do you – like, a woman can't just poke at a robot, poke at a robot, hoping to get a rise out of it.
01:32:28.420
Well, the thing is, it would simulate it, but they would know it's simulating it, and that would ruin it.
01:32:35.940
Like, they would program the robots to simulate getting mad like a guy would when some woman is needling him for hours on it.
01:32:53.700
Do you know any guys that are checked out of the job market, like young guys?
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The last guy who came out of high school, he went into truck driving.
01:33:07.140
I mean, he's making really good money at that, but those days are numbered with Musk's auto-driving semis.
01:33:21.520
He's not out of high school yet, but, I mean, he's pretty – he's pretty – he's going after it.
01:33:30.920
So, and I don't know if this breaks down because I've heard people – and you can tell me if you're done with me, if you need to move on to the next call or any time.
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01:34:12.060
I know it was rocky starting up, but I'm seeing a bunch of people over there, so thank you for being there.
01:34:33.160
Well, I don't think they should give up, but I get it.
01:34:52.220
You know, people in the past, you know, farmers, loggers, tanners, they were married.
01:34:59.120
So, you know, what makes a lot of modern women think they were better than the women back then?
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If, like, if a guy is, like, meeting women through a dating app and he just gets enough catfishes, does it work?
01:35:30.260
Is he just, like, whatever, I guess this is what it is?
01:35:35.080
Oh, I've been catfished plenty and sometimes not.
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Do you know any guys that have checked out at all?
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I have a roommate who's on disability and he wants to get back to work.
01:35:59.960
And I had to actually let my other roommate borrow my bike so he could get to work.
01:36:04.960
So, is it just, you know, a lot of guys that have been, like, laid off?
01:36:36.520
You said it was your fault that you got laid off?
01:36:51.560
Basically, what happened is I ended up having to do twice the work
01:36:55.020
because my manager, who was a woman, did the, yeah, make what you will of that,
01:37:04.900
And instead of getting three boxes of items to go in three different apartments,
01:37:09.280
I had, like, 50 to 100 items I had to take to each apartment.
01:37:17.180
And I thrashed out, as the kids like to say these days.
01:37:29.020
Well, we're going to move on to the next caller because we got a full call line.
01:37:51.740
You have to do double the work because the woman made a mistake and you got fired.
01:38:05.920
Did you guys see Laura Ingram and Tommy Lahren talking the other day?
01:38:12.060
Tommy Lahren's going on about men and how these...
01:38:14.900
Yeah, we reacted to that at the beginning of the show.
01:38:18.980
So, you know, Laura Ingram's like 62 and adopted three kids.
01:38:28.060
And these are the chicks that are trying to like talk about men and why men have checked out.
01:38:32.120
It's like, like, those, that's the reason, right, right, right there.
01:38:36.360
Like, these boomer chicks and these, these, these Tommy Lahrens are the reason why.
01:38:41.020
Because I think men have checked out, honestly.
01:38:43.880
You know, you know how many guys I've talked to?
01:38:50.060
I think my answer would have been like, if, imagine if I was there, I would have said,
01:38:54.580
well, guys, I think you guys are proving here why they checked out because of nagging wives like you.
01:39:05.580
On Looney Tunes where the big hook tries to grab them off the stage.
01:39:09.960
You see Pearl trying to dog the big hook as they're trying to drag her off the stage because he's telling the truth.
01:39:16.100
No, but like, I know guys that have been like getting ready for a date.
01:39:22.560
And then they'll get in the car and start driving to the date and just say, screw it.
01:39:26.880
And just turn around and go, go home and drink a beer and play PlayStation, you know, like guys aren't dating and guys aren't trying to work and pay for these Tommy Lahrens.
01:39:37.460
And these, you know, it's just not happening anymore.
01:39:40.400
And no one can like articulate a reason why guys should do so.
01:39:46.320
The sad part about it is the female employment rate is at 74%.
01:39:51.140
And no one cares because you guys remember one and four women don't work and they stay at home.
01:39:58.400
But now that the unemployment, that the employment rate for men is 90%, everyone's losing their minds.
01:40:05.660
And we also have no idea how many men are doing under the table stuff or like technically unemployed.
01:40:22.220
Just to answer the question, the guys aren't a Gen Z and like young millennial dudes.
01:40:28.400
They're sitting there working at Dairy Queen, you know, and they're looking at the, at the chicks slanging, you know,
01:40:34.840
a peanut buster parfaits, making the same and saying, why am I going to give this chick my paycheck to go on a date with her for?
01:40:45.900
And there's no answer other than Tommy Lahren shaming these men, right?
01:40:50.200
When she was talking, talking about being career and strong and independent, but then using the whole Peter Panning thing, you know?
01:40:56.760
Well, um, uh, if there's something you guys want to react to, uh, Tom Likas had, had had this chick on his show, Kay Haibowitz.
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And she wrote like Peter, but Peter Pan and the prom promised land.
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It was, yeah, Peter Panning and how men just aren't growing up.
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And this is 20 years ago, uh, I'll send you the link, but it's, it's like a good hour long where she actually gets on Tom Likas' show.
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And he cooks her and then callers cook, cook her too.
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But she's like talking about how women are, are strong and independent, but at the same time need to be able to find men that'll take them on.
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It's like, that's a nonsensical status statement.
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If anyone wants to see some, some hilarious, some hilarity, look at, at, put Twitter and like, look at all the posts of that Tom Likas and Laura Ingham thing and just read the comments.
01:42:04.060
Next we have, we tried to get him on last show.
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We'll see if I come on this time, uh, Daquan, you're up next.
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I'm not one of them that gave up on the market.
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I mean, I don't know nobody with a sugar mama, you know?
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But living at home, not really pursuing like a real, like a real career, checking out at the job, Mark.
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I don't think by choice or whatever like that, because.
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I mean, probably people get laid off, you know, that happens all the time, depending on your job nowadays or whatever like that.
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But I don't really know nobody that could say they could check out of the job market.
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So do you think it's okay for a man in his 20s to be living with his parents?
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Nowadays, yeah, because it should be illegal for a dude to get married before 30.
01:44:04.960
Um, so let's say you had like a little brother who turned 20 and maybe went to community college or something like that and wanted advice on what he should do with his life.
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What I would say to anybody is, I mean, if going to college ain't for you.
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If you ain't already in 11th grade knowing what school you're going to go to, you probably should just, I mean, especially dudes, I would tell them to do a trade.
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And if you want to do the military, I would say when you go to the military, like basically like the other dude was kind of saying earlier, but you got to like what you do, but it has to be something that could transfer.
01:44:55.200
Like if you go to the military, like if you go to the military, you should go there for, um, you know, like plumbing mechanic that way, you know, that way when you get out, you already got the experience of the military.
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If somebody wants to pay student loans like me, you know what I mean?
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Hey, Pearl, you're my favorite person on the internet.
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I'm going to let her know I got through the day or whatever.
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But keep doing what you're doing, stuff like that.
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I'm, you know, I have moved back from Oklahoma, back to New Jersey.
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And I'm going to be doing, you know, stand up, stand up, you know.
01:46:00.400
Well, thanks for calling in, calling anytime and tell your girlfriend to call in tomorrow.
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If you have any, if you have any complaints that I should address with her, we can do that.
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You can send me your complaints and we'll talk about it.
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If you guys, if enough of you guys would, it would be pretty funny.
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But you guys would have to source me the women.
01:46:35.340
If you told me, like, the parts of your marriage that your wife or your girlfriends are doing wrong,
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I could bring them on the stream and talk about how we can improve.
01:46:51.720
Okay, next up, we have Lech, Lech, Lech, Lech, right there?
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Lech, Lech, Lech, hey, thanks for adding me on.
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So, I think it's more sociological angle than it is male-female dynamics.
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So, I think every human being at their core wants to have a meaningful market society.
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Apologies, I have a head coach if my voice sounds off.
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But pretty much most people, they want to do something meaningful to life.
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They want to achieve as much wealth as reasonably possible without too much extravagant effort
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So, when people are, it's not a matter of getting lazy, but it's a matter of slowly giving up,
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realizing that the life or the goal that one initially hoped for, it just isn't realistically
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So, the stories I'm hearing is not really like if someone just stops searching for, say,
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self-registering job, it's more they get out of college, they apply for 100 jobs a month
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and then second month, and then after that, it slows down to, say, five jobs a month,
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and then they're working some casual retail job, but they still have hope that, at some
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point, the life that they originally envisioned would come around.
01:48:48.420
Okay, so you see a lot of guys that just get frustrated applying for jobs, and so that
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slowly, sorry, I had a nice cube, goes down over time, and then they're like working retail,
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and they're just starting to like lose hope, sort of?
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Me, personally, though, most of my friends are in industry, so like realistically, I have
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maybe two, three people that I've heard of in this scenario, and they're siblings of individuals
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I know, everyone I know is either a banker or a self-registering or some kind of clinician.
01:49:38.940
It's going towards the divorce documentary, so I do appreciate, we do want to get to like,
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I think I could finish it if we got like 50 to 100 around there.
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I think you might find this interesting, but my ex-girlfriend, so she graduated from her
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master's, and then realized that this isn't what she wanted to do, and then didn't really
01:50:16.980
have a plan, and then got a second master's MBA.
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She, I asked her recently, like, what her plan is in life, and she doesn't seem to have
01:50:38.380
Like, she's been applying around and failing, and then she says, like, what she wants to do
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in the long run is be a CEO, and what my understanding of that is like, oh, a business or a serious
01:50:50.680
business as owner, but not operator, and she can continuously travel.
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So, so, so how much did that cost her, her parents?
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And this is, this is your girlfriend or your ex-girlfriend?
01:51:38.080
Because here's the thing with modern women and the, you, if I wanted to open a restaurant,
01:51:46.480
right, I get a job when I was 18 in a restaurant, probably as a bus boy or like as a host or
01:51:51.300
something, then I would work my way up to a server and then I'd become assistant manager and then learn how to cook.
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So I'd be 28, 30 before I opened up my own restaurant.
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Women think that they could just graduate college or go on TikTok and just start a business.
01:52:15.840
Like, so you, you actually just say, she's going to be a CEO how?
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Or, or the new grift in the, the, the DC area, the, in major cities in New York, DC, Chicago, are women wanting to be consultants.
01:52:39.220
So they get like an MBA or they get a industrial organizational psychology degree and they want to become a consultant.
01:52:48.420
But it's like, you're going to get out of college and consult the company on what?
01:53:12.580
Did you see this girl that like had a panic attack and like jumped from her harness?
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Because I saw the, I saw the story, but I didn't see the video.
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Sometimes after I unplug my laptop, but I'll re-plug it in.
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I'm like, this, they're like, she wasn't suicidal.
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I'm like, this looks, I'm not saying it was a suicide attempt, but if I had to, sorry.
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If I had to get like, okay, let me, let me show this screen.
01:54:15.180
So she's like 40 feet up in the air or something like that.
01:54:35.860
Well, I think she just died from falling 40 feet.
01:54:41.480
You know, I mean, if that really happened, the operator must be reprimanded.
01:55:02.220
It was an influencer trying to make a viral video and she ended up dead.
01:55:08.040
It says when parasailing, you can typically be anywhere from 200 to 800 feet above the water.
01:55:23.960
The influencer thing would make way more sense.
01:55:28.480
She's trying to get a viral video and then die.
01:56:20.560
I can kind of see and this is kind of played out on a larger scale.
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This is the second time I was calling in with Zoom and like just been walking in the house.
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Um, yeah, so, um, the lack of motivation comes from people kind of questioning the reasons why things need to continue the way they were continuing.
01:56:44.940
So I can understand people checking out, but at the end of the day, you got to kind of do what you have to do for you and for your standard of living and let the other things fall in play.
01:56:57.200
So continuing with your professional network, joining different organizations, you know, doing different.
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I mean, I was in the middle of making a LinkedIn post right as you guys were connecting with me the first time.
01:57:08.660
So I think that's an important pillar to stay busy, keep yourself up mentally, spiritually, you know what I'm saying?
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That finding the skill, finding something that you can do well and that you can scale.
01:57:20.940
So I'm not trying to sound like somebody that's about to sell a course right now, nothing like that.
01:57:25.440
But, you know, that's, that's how I look at it.
01:57:27.740
But I do understand people checking out, you know what I'm saying?
01:57:32.060
I do understand, man, like, hey, what's the point when this is the reward at the end of the tunnel for me?
01:57:39.680
Do you think it's okay for a young man in his 20s to live with his parents?
01:57:45.500
I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as he's making steps moving forward in life.
01:57:50.940
Like, as long as he has a plan that he's putting together.
01:57:57.540
But, uh, so I joined the military when I was in my mid-20s, went to college a little bit.
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Before that, and kind of I finished after I got out.
01:58:08.460
So I think that as long as you are, you have a plan and you're executing on the plan,
01:58:15.200
I don't think there's nothing intrinsically wrong with that, especially nowadays.
01:58:18.220
I mean, back in the day, you got a house for like 50 grand, and then you sold it for 300 or 400 grand.
01:58:26.620
These interest rates, I mean, I got mine at like 6.7, 6.7, which is, when I hear people say they get their houses,
01:58:32.520
homes at like 2%, I'm like, damn, you know, you paying rent for your mortgage.
01:58:54.860
So y'all probably realize who I am, but I'm probably sounding my voice.
01:59:02.160
So I know this is kind of taking you off topic, just like a quick little caveat.
01:59:08.380
And like, nutritionally, what did you do afterwards to kind of build yourself back up?
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It's one of the first ones on Google, and I followed it.
01:59:25.520
It's like one long run a week, one mid-run, and like two shorter ones.
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But again, I'm not fast, so there's probably better people you can ask.
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Like, hey, the fact that you got through it is something.
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Like me, the most I'll probably do them is like eight miles, eight, maybe nine miles.
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You need like two hours a day to train, and then two hours, like an hour.
02:00:10.360
All right, we're going to take one last caller.
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Thanks so much for calling in, guys, even if we didn't get to you today.
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It really makes the shows a lot easier, so I appreciate it.
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This is, as Doug said, the last caller, though.
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Yeah, we've got to bring him in because he made such a good showing last time on the panel.
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If everybody wants that, then they're going to have to go to the Audacity Network.
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I'll reach out to you after the show from that.
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I've just been busy, but yeah, I'll send you an email.
02:01:05.880
Well, I heard it in the back, and you guys were talking about men checking out.
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And also, do you think it's okay for a man in his 20s to live at his parents' house?
02:01:20.060
I think if you are a man living at your parents' house at 20, that's completely fine, as long
02:01:29.280
As long as you have a game plan, using the parents' house as a safe haven, as you could
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say, to go ahead and do your game plan, it's important.
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But if you don't got a game plan, and you're just playing video games, taking out the trash
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for mama, and then you're just like a son-husband, that's terrible.
02:01:46.100
So definitely, you need to be at least moving towards some target, and then you got your
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entry date, how long you're there, and when you're going to get the heck up out of there.
02:01:57.600
When I was in the military, I always used to come back to the family house, and then I'll
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I understand what people's perspective is on that, but I think guys just need to find
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And, you know, I don't know why checking out is an option, you know?
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And so I think you have to just go find value in life.
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And then you'll be able to move forward and not have to check out.
02:02:38.840
So what would your advice be for a young guy, like a guy who's 25, 20 years old?
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Some guys I'll tell join the military, but if they're like, I ain't trying to do that,
02:02:53.620
I think that you don't have to look at traditional schooling.
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And then while you're doing your job, nine to five, guys, everybody doesn't have to be
02:03:04.720
I became a multimillionaire, not as an entrepreneur, as an investor.
02:03:08.840
I invested in the market for a long time over a long period.
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Real estate, stocks, just keep investing and then just keep working your nine to five.
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It will give you an exit quicker than 30 years, 15 years.
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And so I think that there's massive amounts of opportunity.
02:03:30.860
He bought a duplex and he got paid to buy the duplex, $5,000.
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I said, maybe you could teach him on the site how to do that.
02:03:51.280
I used to have courses online on my actual courses when I was on YouTube, but people
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They were always complaining about the problem.
02:03:59.380
But some people were on my Patreon and I helped them and then I stopped.
02:04:03.320
But I don't have a problem with helping you guys out.
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It's a great way to actually get some economics and some success in your life.
02:04:14.020
I'm telling you, there's nothing to be sad about.
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If you're in Africa and you're calling in, you're kind of effed.
02:04:20.440
But if you're in America, then there's a bunch of options available.
02:04:37.260
So what do you think about the guys that you said they need a different purpose to life?
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And so you're going to have to find a new purpose.
02:04:58.160
So I just have a different perspective about life.
02:05:01.240
But if it was like, well, I do all this work and I don't get a woman at the end of the day.
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You don't like, you can help kids out if you want to.
02:05:19.920
If you're a real estate investor and you know how to invest.
02:05:24.660
You could go buy a surrogate these days if you have enough money, if you really want to.
02:05:30.620
You could go to a foreign country where a girl in her needs about 500 bucks to survive.
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And then have a kid and send her 500 to 1,000 a month.
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And then you could be a father in a foreign land in a different country.
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Other countries see parents as like, you know, 50-50.
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But what I'm saying is the menu of life you have, the previous men from the past did not have that.
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They only had their community and then that's it.
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And then somebody's telling you, you don't got options?
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And then I don't have money to buy Lamborghinis.
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I don't use it to, you know, I ain't got no fly.
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After the show, I'll send you an email to your email address.
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Go check out the book, The Menu, and go sign up to the Audacity Network, baby.
02:07:41.080
You know, we've had some people sign up for the school group, and it's, I can't believe
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some of the people that watch me, like very high level, like, I don't want to dox, but
02:07:57.320
I, you know, you never, you never know who's behind the screen.
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So I know a lot of you are busy with families, careers, and that sort of thing.
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So when you guys call into my show, I do really appreciate it.
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Guys, if you can live at your mom's house, do it.
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Especially if you're going to be forced to not focus on women, live at your mom's house.
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Especially if your parents have kept themselves in a position to be able to facilitate you
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Especially if you live in a major city like D.C. or New York or something.
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In London, under 30, everyone lived at their parents pretty much when I was there.
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And leave your thoughts in the comments, and I'll see you guys next time.