JustPearlyThings - October 28, 2023


Men REFUSED to Get Married Because of These


Episode Stats

Length

42 minutes

Words per Minute

188.44887

Word Count

7,969

Sentence Count

101

Misogynist Sentences

63

Hate Speech Sentences

45


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 hmm
00:00:02.580 Okay, so what about you men marriage?
00:00:07.180 The traditional Western marriage. Yeah
00:00:10.060 They don't gain nothing as she said previously they can get everything without being married on a
00:00:16.300 Contracts okay, they need to sign a contract you can get it all okay. What about you Sterling?
00:00:22.280 What should a guy get out of marriage? Well, I mean cow milking
00:00:25.360 Chicken coop building and yes and maintenance. Yeah
00:00:31.520 What a guy can get is anyone there's any really one thing that a guy can actually get out of like a traditional like legal
00:00:39.680 Government marriage and that's immigration papers. Yeah
00:00:46.820 Passport and another passport
00:00:50.320 That's the only circumstance
00:00:52.320 I
00:00:54.320 Also, also, I think potential alibi
00:01:03.820 Actually, I like that they've mentioned it all that there's what there is like nuance depending on how complex your business is
00:01:10.720 You can put things in your wife's name that you couldn't put in a girlfriend's name documents
00:01:15.340 So there are
00:01:17.340 Paper for what paper?
00:01:19.340 Paper for paper
00:01:21.340 If there's no benefit in it, if there's no benefit for a man, why are you seeking that?
00:01:25.580 I don't want to get legally married. I would get religiously married
00:01:29.920 Okay, because that's like for me that's in your mind ideally
00:01:34.780 Well government has nothing to do with it
00:01:36.780 Yeah, yeah
00:01:38.780 Keeping the government is done in a church with a priest and then maybe a couple of family members, but it's it's under God
00:01:44.240 It's not state. There's no goddamn business in it. Like that's that's why yeah
00:01:48.280 Um, and probably probably because I I would primarily choose
00:01:54.360 Well, and he's marrying a below 25
00:02:01.160 Like there there's some benefit, you know, but loads of benefit
00:02:06.680 Yeah, he's not getting the old ladies, right?
00:02:09.320 Um, okay, uh, why okay, what do you think?
00:02:18.280 Yeah, I mean if we're thinking actual
00:02:21.800 Physical what can you gain? I think that you've said everything really. Um, I think if it's not a
00:02:29.240 Legal marriage and it's a say a religious marriage. Um, you know what what you should gain
00:02:34.120 If we say in an ideal world where women aren't incentivized to get divorced and take the kids in an ideal world
00:02:39.560 You should get what the vows are someone who is undoubtedly gonna follow your lead
00:02:44.440 Doesn't need to have everything ran by them
00:02:46.520 It's just gonna let you do whatever you want not do what you want
00:02:49.800 Like, you know, if you if you say i'm gonna
00:02:52.920 Go out and and do something that's gonna get you hurt, you know
00:02:55.960 You would you would try and say maybe don't do that
00:02:57.640 But if they do it at the end of the day
00:02:58.760 Like it's someone who's gonna stay with you in sickness and in health till death do us part
00:03:02.520 Till death do us part not when i'm no longer happy and I decide that I deserve something else at 55 or whatever
00:03:10.600 It may be it should be what the vows are but that we don't live in an ideal world
00:03:14.600 So yeah, you don't really get anything out of it
00:03:16.600 That was a good answer. Good answer. You guys are creative
00:03:20.920 What about you? What do you think men should get out of marriage?
00:03:24.040 Well, I mean what they should get is the vows like she said
00:03:27.000 What I believe that they should get
00:03:29.640 Is if i'm gonna marry you you should start building my credit score or something
00:03:34.040 because
00:03:36.040 You're cheeky
00:03:38.040 Oh that's something else actually um in rare cases, I think you could gain um status
00:03:47.800 Credit so like where you went you mentioned about credit scores. So for example
00:03:52.280 Um, you know when you get married
00:03:55.000 You go to get a mortgage if you're with someone who say the woman's got a better credit score
00:04:00.520 You know that way you guys might be able to get a house
00:04:03.080 Not her benefiting you
00:04:04.280 Or a guarantor
00:04:05.080 Yeah
00:04:05.880 Yeah
00:04:07.080 I mean that's the case
00:04:07.960 Yeah
00:04:08.520 But other than that
00:04:09.960 If you get Bill Gates' daughter
00:04:14.760 King had some strong thoughts on that relationship, huh King
00:04:18.760 My man smiled
00:04:23.480 Okay, what do you what do you think?
00:04:25.000 If we're talking on the basis of the terminology
00:04:27.960 marriage, I just believe nothing
00:04:30.280 I do agree with the vows and I do agree with what um Sterling said
00:04:34.520 So and just respect
00:04:36.120 And it should be the original vows
00:04:37.720 Yes
00:04:37.960 I want to clarify that because
00:04:39.240 Yeah
00:04:40.280 I have spoken to people I know
00:04:44.120 And asked them about the vow of uh
00:04:46.840 To
00:04:47.960 I think it's to submit and obey
00:04:50.120 And almost everyone says that they chose to have that taken out
00:04:53.000 But it's the main part of marriage
00:04:54.200 They do
00:04:54.600 And I think that's disgusting
00:04:55.800 Yeah
00:04:57.640 So I guess the summary of all of this is that
00:05:00.440 Marriage by the state is designed for women
00:05:03.240 Correct
00:05:03.800 Yeah
00:05:05.160 A thousand percent
00:05:06.120 Do you want to pull up the video King?
00:05:08.520 Do the song one first
00:05:15.480 So I was on Twitter
00:05:17.080 And I saw this amazing song
00:05:18.760 I actually I covered it
00:05:19.960 I covered it on Pearl Daily today
00:05:21.560 Mm-hmm
00:05:22.360 Um wanted to get you guys's take
00:05:25.480 Um
00:05:27.160 Oh my gosh
00:05:31.160 My bad
00:05:35.000 My grandma paid me by the pound
00:05:38.680 Said I should try to slim it down
00:05:43.080 Went to meetings with my mom
00:05:46.680 Less I ate the more they applauded
00:05:49.800 Being hungry made me feel so proud
00:05:57.880 Still not full yet ten years
00:06:00.680 I didn't know why to hate myself
00:06:08.680 Till I learned it from someone else
00:06:11.400 Didn't see what was wrong with me
00:06:13.400 Didn't see what was wrong with me
00:06:15.400 Just lived in my body
00:06:20.040 Did my best to lose the weight
00:06:23.720 Hoping the hurt would go away
00:06:27.480 But damn skinny feels just the same
00:06:30.600 I'll always carry it in my body
00:06:40.840 Um okay so Christine what'd you think of that
00:06:43.640 Is that a joke she's joking right
00:06:50.360 No no I think it's serious
00:06:53.320 Yeah
00:06:55.400 So I don't know I thought potential heart disease feels the same as not potential heart disease
00:06:59.800 Is that what she's saying
00:07:00.760 I guess I don't know I I was thinking that was such a good opportunity like money wise
00:07:07.320 I was like you can make like 200 bucks
00:07:08.840 She said she tried really I mean no doubt she can sing right
00:07:11.560 Oh
00:07:12.120 I can sing
00:07:12.680 Great pair of lungs
00:07:13.560 Yeah
00:07:15.400 But you I tried so hard
00:07:19.080 I mean if you tried that hard you wouldn't look like that
00:07:21.160 But she said that so she said being skinny and being big is the same so
00:07:26.360 Skinnier version of her now
00:07:28.360 Where's where's the skinny version
00:07:29.480 Yeah
00:07:29.720 Maybe she was bigger
00:07:30.360 I should have showed her
00:07:32.440 Yeah
00:07:32.600 They should have showed her
00:07:33.320 Show the comparison of
00:07:35.400 What do you what do you think of the song Sterling
00:07:37.720 That's an American accent right
00:07:39.160 Yeah
00:07:39.400 Yeah
00:07:39.640 I'm pretty sure that it sounds like an American
00:07:41.480 I think the thing that people get so wrong with like
00:07:44.920 Weight loss is like
00:07:46.760 They think it's a case of
00:07:48.600 Oh like
00:07:49.080 Endless like you need like endless discipline and you track every calorie and all this kind of stuff
00:07:55.640 It's it's a lot
00:07:57.960 It's a lot easier to lose weight if you just have a bit of an education about like
00:08:03.320 Hormones and how they affect your body like
00:08:06.040 Want it look at this lady over here
00:08:08.120 Yeah, it looks stunning for her age
00:08:12.120 Right the way you're the way you're eating
00:08:14.840 Is producing a certain result in your body right
00:08:17.480 It's and and
00:08:19.080 Being American like I guarantee that woman is eating food that is
00:08:22.840 Empty it's empty there's nothing in it
00:08:25.640 She's she's she's
00:08:26.680 But she's starving herself as well
00:08:28.200 Yeah, it's just that she's starving herself
00:08:29.320 She'll tell you what my breakfast was
00:08:31.560 But that woman
00:08:33.000 What I was gonna say was that woman
00:08:35.000 Even though she's like even when she's not starving herself, she's still starving herself
00:08:39.080 Yeah
00:08:39.400 Because there's not
00:08:40.520 American food is the biggest pile of trash
00:08:43.400 It's all poison
00:08:44.440 So everything she's eating even when she's trying to eat
00:08:46.840 Yes, that's why you're gonna grow your own chickens and grown cows and stuff
00:08:49.800 And then she can probably do it because American land is very cheap
00:08:51.720 But like even if she's trying to like
00:08:55.560 Eat healthy and stuff it's gonna be like low fat. It's gonna be packed full of sugar
00:08:58.920 It's just there's so much deception around like weight loss and how to do it correctly
00:09:03.320 This is me off honestly when I see a woman like get
00:09:06.440 That woman could be gorgeous. Yeah, she could be gorgeous. Why isn't she gorgeous?
00:09:11.480 She's because she's quite overweight
00:09:13.480 So weight equates equates to beauty
00:09:17.240 It doesn't make you prettier. That's it doesn't make you pretty
00:09:20.280 You will get prettier when you are at a healthy weight, but I think pretty is subjective
00:09:26.760 To your not not to men
00:09:29.640 No, it's not because who the men with the most option date the same types of chicks
00:09:34.840 So it like it's like saying like men that can't sleep with anyone else
00:09:38.760 Will sleep with ugly overweight chicks, but the men with the most options don't do it
00:09:43.320 If you look at leonardo dicaprio if you look at the hottest most successful men who they think
00:09:48.120 According to whoever is looking at
00:09:50.360 This is a question that has has pondered in human history for as long as we can remember
00:09:55.560 And I actually did a video on my channel go check it out guys is beauty subjective or objective
00:10:00.280 But the point is there has to be an objective standard for beauty
00:10:04.280 Otherwise, how have we?
00:10:07.320 Decided what we like all over history take it away from human beings, right?
00:10:11.240 We can all agree that certain architecture is more beautiful than other architecture
00:10:16.520 So there is an objective standard there that we are aware of at least most people are somewhat aware of
00:10:22.360 But I feel like people feed themselves this lie that because people have certain preferences to things that they might
00:10:29.240 Find attractive in someone that say someone else might that doesn't take away from the fact that there is such thing as objective beauty
00:10:36.120 They've done multiple studies on this that find for example people whose faces are more symmetrical
00:10:41.080 Most people will agree that those people are more attractive than people who have less symmetrical faces
00:10:46.360 There's actually something called the golden ratio, which is a number that appears in all of nature
00:10:50.680 I'm talking across cells to plants to human beings to buildings
00:10:56.360 I can't remember than that the number now for the life of me
00:10:58.280 It's like a really crazy number like 6.18 something that was something
00:11:02.360 But when you see this ratio reflected in a human beings face not only that in their body as well
00:11:08.040 Like how their body looks there is an objective standard that generally most people will find attractive
00:11:14.040 That's not to say like everything there is always exceptions to the rule
00:11:17.720 But there is an objective beauty standard that's not something created by society to make people feel bad about themselves
00:11:23.400 That's just human nature in the same way that peacocks they do that thing where they display themselves in a certain way
00:11:29.640 That's because the other peacocks will agree
00:11:31.640 We like that and we can't forget that we are animals too
00:11:34.440 And we do have something that we all like and can agree is mostly attractive
00:11:39.000 Okay, well said
00:11:41.800 Most men just like women
00:11:44.840 Women they like it. What did you think of the song?
00:11:48.600 Hey, she sounds hot
00:11:53.240 She seems sad. Yeah, she seems sad
00:11:56.280 Well, I my question is I don't understand why she took it as an insult
00:12:00.760 When like clearly you're gonna have more problem
00:12:02.760 You're gonna have more problems later on if you're heavier
00:12:06.120 And like you can either take it as an insult and be the victim or you can take it as your family trying to love and to help you
00:12:13.000 Try to incentivize you to save your own life. Yeah
00:12:15.240 Yeah, what do you find for people that want to lose weight?
00:12:19.640 What do you think the best way to do it is I think something more along the lines of like
00:12:23.960 Maybe not necessarily like extreme carnival but like just like I personally like the structure of the paleo diet
00:12:30.680 Because it's basically just it and people people misconstrue it as actually being like full-on carnival
00:12:34.840 But it's really all it really is is like eat meat and veg
00:12:39.240 It's no carbs, isn't it?
00:12:40.680 It ain't that complicated
00:12:41.640 Not necessarily you can eat like you can add you can add potatoes and sweet potatoes
00:12:44.760 Or is that keto?
00:12:45.720 Potatoes and sweet potatoes are fine. Keto is totally no-carb
00:12:48.120 That's the extreme
00:12:49.240 But like if you if you paleo you're basically eating like a colorful array of vegetables good meat
00:12:55.080 A few carbs here in there. It's it's but it's all it's real food. Yeah, it's actually food
00:12:59.720 You know, it came out of the ground, you know, it didn't come out of a factory
00:13:03.240 It's really it's not it's that ain't rocket science. That's actually really really simple to do
00:13:07.320 Yeah
00:13:07.720 And you can and if you just know like all you need is like two or three good recipes
00:13:12.040 You'll get shredded
00:13:13.320 But you know what before all of that you need to have the right mindset
00:13:16.280 You don't want to need to have to want it. Yeah, you need that one
00:13:18.600 You need to be in that right frame of mind
00:13:20.200 I've even get to that before you because all the food we eat nowadays is so addictive
00:13:25.720 It's so it's designed to like get you hooked
00:13:29.400 And if we're talking about the food that you said, yeah, sorry
00:13:32.360 You said the family is essentially incentivizing her to bear herself
00:13:35.800 You know a lot of I can hear in my head a lot of people saying
00:13:39.640 Oh, but you know, they could they could put it nicer and you know, we should we should case how she feels
00:13:45.160 This really bugs me this idea that how you deliver a message
00:13:51.000 If you put it nicer, it's gonna make a difference
00:13:53.560 Actually, the truth is the biggest change comes from the harshest delivery
00:13:58.360 If you are told something if someone really really insults you that automatically in your brain
00:14:03.800 Hopefully if you've got a healthy mind and not a victim mindset that says well, I'm gonna prove you wrong
00:14:08.760 Whereas if I go, you know
00:14:12.760 I've noticed that you maybe you're getting a bit bigger
00:14:15.480 How do you feel like that gives the person who's receiving that message every excuse under the sun to go?
00:14:20.680 Well, they're still being nice. So it can't be that bad
00:14:23.560 Whereas if you're straight up
00:14:25.880 You are gonna kill yourself. You're huge
00:14:28.680 They're gonna go shit right and get their act together. It's more abrupt. Yeah
00:14:32.360 As harsh as it sounds, but actually I think harshness can be the kindest policy because it just it gets it done
00:14:38.920 It's it's it's a sharp, you know, rip the plaster off
00:14:41.960 But it gets it done
00:14:43.000 Yeah, I mean you wouldn't you wouldn't mince words if like a family member of yours was shooting up heroin all the time
00:14:47.480 No, you're not gonna like sugarcoat that
00:14:51.080 You're gonna kill yourself
00:14:54.120 Well, and I was thinking I'm like, I mean, she's pretty big. She could have made a decent amount of money
00:14:58.440 She said five dollars per pound. That's like 50 bucks for 10 pounds. I mean like I think she's well
00:15:07.080 That's a terrible return on investment in terms of time spent no, but okay hear me out hear me out
00:15:11.960 Okay, she looks like like late 20s. Maybe okay back then when you were a kid like
00:15:21.240 That was a lot of money
00:15:23.240 I would have been excited
00:15:25.240 If anything, it was an opportunity for you know, you could get like cash
00:15:31.720 I was doing lemonade stands from a young age
00:15:36.760 I think the biggest problem I have with this weight issue thing is
00:15:41.080 We live in a society where people have kind of made it. Okay, and I understand that you can be
00:15:48.600 Comfortable in your body you can
00:15:50.680 Do all of that but the problem with that is that if you look at reality reality
00:15:55.160 Always tells the truth you can't escape reality
00:15:57.720 There's a reason why you don't see so many overweight old people
00:16:02.120 There's a reason for that. That's because they die before they get to that age
00:16:06.440 Most of most of the old people you see walking around are not overweight
00:16:10.280 So if if you can't look at reality and look at the truth that is waiting ahead of you that just means that you
00:16:16.040 You're essentially saying that
00:16:18.680 um
00:16:19.480 You don't care about your future you don't because I just find it weird like if I if I were to look out into the world
00:16:25.480 And see the face that men face
00:16:27.480 There's a reason why I don't do crime because I can look out into the world and see what happens to people that do crime
00:16:32.200 So it should be the same ideology we should take when when people are telling you oh
00:16:35.880 It's okay to be this you can actually look out in the world and see the facts of reality because reality
00:16:39.960 We always told the truth, so I just think that people need to get off this bandwagon of
00:16:44.520 That narrative
00:16:45.400 Yeah, that narrative I think is very destructive to people because reality doesn't agree with that
00:16:50.360 I mean the irony of
00:16:52.440 Calling it like body positivity the irony there is you're actually you actually don't respect and love your body at all
00:16:59.320 Because you're not giving it what it really needs and you're harming yourself
00:17:01.720 You're not you're harming yourself and you're actually giving it the nutritious food
00:17:04.680 It and the exercise that it actually needs to be its best and performance first
00:17:09.720 Did you know I applied to a body positive organization? I did a whole interview. I did
00:17:16.040 Yeah, and I I pitched in the interview that like the best way to be body positive
00:17:21.720 Um, and it was like a social media intern. I'm like I'm great at social media
00:17:27.960 And so I know I pitched it to him I said the best way to be body positive is to lose weight
00:17:32.120 Oh, so so on the social media. I would really like to do some like running campaigns
00:17:39.480 Like and I had all these ideas
00:17:41.560 They did not they um, yeah, they they actually ended the interview right there. I was
00:17:46.440 It's part of an agenda though, isn't it?
00:17:48.440 To keep us fat, sick, and easy to control
00:17:50.600 Yeah, well and it's the government
00:17:52.040 That's it and they want us all to believe body positive
00:17:54.760 Well, and then they can just sell us more stuff
00:17:56.760 So they can sell us the drugs
00:17:58.200 Yeah, the drugs
00:17:59.080 It's money for them, it's money
00:18:00.200 Because when you're overweight, you're um, actually at a higher risk of all-cause mortality
00:18:05.080 So it's not it's not a good outcome
00:18:06.920 Yeah, and you lost a bunch of weight didn't you?
00:18:09.000 I did
00:18:09.560 I would like to say I actually was only that weight for a few years
00:18:12.840 And it's because I got depressed and in a hole put on a bunch of weight and then lost it. Yeah about six stone
00:18:19.000 Wow
00:18:19.400 Well done
00:18:20.200 Well done
00:18:20.600 Congratulations
00:18:21.400 And that was like two years of my life the rest of my life have been in shape
00:18:24.680 I grew up with a bodybuilder father that
00:18:26.680 It's very strict and if I kind of went out of the realms of weight, he would be like
00:18:33.480 Army, army
00:18:34.280 He would call
00:18:34.840 Army
00:18:35.480 I mean, yeah, he would be saying that you can't eat that you can't do that right here's some chicken breast
00:18:41.480 I mean bad advice but back then everyone was like chicken breast
00:18:45.400 Is there something wrong with chicken breast?
00:18:47.080 Yeah, you don't want to eat chicken breast
00:18:48.360 Where's the fat?
00:18:49.000 You need the fat for your to support your hormones you need the fat
00:18:51.800 Yeah, oh bingo. Oh wow, I didn't even know chicken. I didn't know chicken was bad. I thought there's not
00:18:55.960 It's not bad
00:18:57.960 But there's better choices
00:18:59.560 Yeah, if you're gonna eat chicken breast really you want anything with skin on it. Okay, so wings are good. They're in. Oh, I love wings
00:19:06.600 I love wings
00:19:07.800 But not but not American wings covered in sugar
00:19:10.840 That's what you're probably referring to
00:19:14.040 So how did you find carnivore? How did I find it? Yeah, so I actually started with keto first
00:19:19.160 Okay, and I was keto for about six months and then I come across this doctor who I then became to you know started working for called dr. Sean Baker and
00:19:28.840 He was on joe rogan and I was listening to him and he was saying yeah vegetables this that and I was thinking this guy is absolutely insane and
00:19:37.480 But what it did is it planted a seed and when I was eating my asparagus because all I was eating is meat and veg because I was keto
00:19:44.440 So there was no sugar there was no junk. There was nothing and um, that did a lot of good for my health
00:19:49.720 But there was still some little things my body wasn't happy with my body composition things like that
00:19:55.320 Um, and then I started thinking oh hang on. I just ate some asparagus and now I'm bloated now
00:20:00.600 I feel this like I feel a bit lethargic, you know
00:20:03.080 There's all these downsides to eating the plants. I thought you know, I'm gonna try it. It's gonna go wrong
00:20:08.760 I'm gonna try it for two weeks
00:20:11.000 So I tried it for two weeks and I was like wow rush of energy clarity
00:20:15.160 You know all benefits and not only that first week. I lost seven pounds second week
00:20:19.640 I lost seven pounds and then after that I stopped weighing myself because I could start seeing my abs
00:20:23.640 I was feeling good about myself and this was from the what sorry what was this from carnivore diet?
00:20:27.800 Okay, okay, it's not a starvation. So going back to that song majorly talented woman
00:20:33.080 Um, unfortunately, she has been um
00:20:39.000 Given some information that's wrong. So her parents wanted to her to lose weight and her grandparents and you know
00:20:45.480 Whoever else in her family because they wanted her to be healthy. They were giving her really bad advice
00:20:50.200 That advice doesn't leave you to be an overweight because you're restricting yourself. I don't restrict myself
00:20:54.760 I eat about 5 000 calories a day is that for breakfast add 12 sausages
00:20:59.000 And that's your intake add 10 eggs, you know
00:21:03.800 You don't have to restrict if you're eating the human appropriate diet your body will do the rest
00:21:09.880 Did you go through a sugar withdrawal?
00:21:11.880 When you when you went on to the keto diet initially did you go through any kind of withdrawals?
00:21:16.760 I didn't which is really funny because before that I was in my hole and I was addicted to coffee and cakes
00:21:22.200 I haven't drunk coffee in about five years. I don't really drink alcohol
00:21:25.960 Occasionally for the first three years of the diet didn't drink any alcohol whatsoever
00:21:29.800 Um last couple of years every now and again. I'll drink a bit of alcohol
00:21:34.040 Um, but yeah, no some people get keto flu and that's because they're not keeping up with their electrolytes
00:21:39.560 When you go on to a diet that's low carb or zero carb
00:21:43.160 Your body becomes really efficient at dropping the water
00:21:46.280 With that you drop electrolytes. So you have to keep replenishing those to keep those
00:21:50.280 You know and is that through just drinking water?
00:21:53.320 So so so so basically what I do what I advise people that are starting out new is to take magnesium glycinate
00:22:00.280 To um take salt. I usually use pink himalayan salt
00:22:05.400 Um, and it's a lot of salt don't be scared of salt salt is like as important to us as oxygen
00:22:10.440 If you if your salt if your electrolyte balances out, which is
00:22:14.280 Um, you know your sodium your potassium and your magnesium you will have a heart attack
00:22:19.400 Right, so it's that important. You know all this scaremongering about salt is absolute rubbish
00:22:25.640 And so
00:22:27.000 What would you think of the song?
00:22:28.920 So
00:22:30.120 I think that yeah, okay
00:22:31.880 They had good intentions because they wanted their daughter granddaughter to get better
00:22:35.880 They wanted us to get healthy. They gave us some really bad advice. Yeah, and that bad advice leaves you to constantly thinking about food
00:22:42.760 So if you're replenished if you're if you're full of nutrients, you never think about food, right?
00:22:49.400 It's like you eat
00:22:50.840 You you're full up you go you don't have to keep thinking about it
00:22:54.280 I mean when I go out with people that are on high carb diets
00:22:57.240 Can you walk a little bit and they're like, maybe we need some crisps?
00:23:03.640 Maybe we need some sandwiches now
00:23:06.040 Maybe we need that. I'm like, yeah, I've got my 10 eggs in my bag. I'll eat them. I'm good to go. I'm good for the day
00:23:11.240 You know, it's it's it's nothing
00:23:14.520 It stops you from thinking about food. What do you eat in a day steak?
00:23:19.720 Okay, on my favorite days, I'll be in a lot of steaks
00:23:21.960 So sometimes I have two steaks for breakfast
00:23:23.960 Okay, and then what do you do for lunch?
00:23:26.600 10 eggs. Well, actually a lot of the time I start with 10 eggs for breakfast
00:23:30.280 It depends what I fancy. I think when you eat on your diet, you should be able to do it intuitively
00:23:35.480 So when I wake up, sometimes I need more fat
00:23:37.800 So I'll put some butter on there or I get their fattier types of meat
00:23:41.560 I might have a kilo of chicken wings for breakfast. I do that quite often
00:23:45.240 There's always going to be steak in there
00:23:48.120 Sometimes I make my own homemade burgers out of beef mince
00:23:51.080 It's always the high fat beef mince. It has to
00:23:54.040 You do cheese or no? You don't do cheese, right?
00:23:56.760 Cheese, sometimes
00:23:58.200 Okay
00:23:58.440 But cheese is addictive
00:24:00.680 Cheese is very addictive
00:24:01.800 So I can do it and I can get away with it
00:24:04.040 But if I have too much, then I start getting dry skin and things
00:24:06.840 And I don't like dry skin
00:24:08.520 So I just think when you're eating intuitively
00:24:11.960 And you can only eat intuitively when you're eating human specific foods
00:24:15.720 Because if you're eating all that junk crap, you're actually addicted
00:24:19.560 And your body will send cravings for some unnatural chemical laden nonsense
00:24:24.440 But when you get rid of that, you don't have those cravings anymore
00:24:27.480 You actually eat what your body needs
00:24:29.240 Like I wake up and I think okay today I'm I need a bit of fat
00:24:32.280 So I'll have more fat or another day
00:24:34.200 I don't need so much fat today
00:24:36.040 So I won't have so much fat
00:24:37.240 It's just very individual to each day
00:24:39.560 Slow in your body
00:24:40.680 Yeah, yeah, I'm in tune if I eat something at a restaurant
00:24:44.600 And then the next day I might wake up with like a little tiny headache
00:24:47.640 And I think oh something was on that meat
00:24:49.320 You know, maybe they put it in seed oils
00:24:51.320 Seed oils everyone should avoid by the way
00:24:53.240 Do you eat all meat?
00:24:54.360 So it went on the carnival diet
00:24:55.720 You eat pork, you eat lamb, you eat
00:24:57.480 I don't tend to eat too much pork
00:25:00.200 Okay
00:25:00.520 I enjoy pork
00:25:01.960 Because you said you had sausages
00:25:03.160 So I was like oh I wonder if those were pork sausages
00:25:05.720 That's because
00:25:07.560 I don't like to waste
00:25:08.520 And I could see that they needed eaten
00:25:10.680 I don't normally eat sausages
00:25:14.280 They're not normally part of my diet
00:25:15.960 Unless something like that happens
00:25:17.880 So I don't like waste
00:25:18.840 So but you don't cut out chicken or anything
00:25:23.000 For the first three years I didn't eat any chicken
00:25:25.880 I ate just beef
00:25:27.240 Right
00:25:27.880 And that will make you feel amazing
00:25:31.160 That will and it'll give you really good skin
00:25:33.720 I found that when I changed the diet
00:25:36.280 All my health issues went
00:25:37.480 Every single one of them
00:25:38.360 My body composition got really good
00:25:40.520 I had abs
00:25:41.480 You know I've got abs sorry
00:25:44.200 It's very easy to stay in shape
00:25:47.640 When you're eating what you're meant to eat
00:25:50.360 As a human
00:25:51.160 It's like you know when you go out
00:25:52.600 And you see all the animals
00:25:54.120 They're eating their species specific diet
00:25:56.680 And they are their body composition is exactly as it's meant to be
00:26:01.160 You know it's really not rocket science
00:26:02.760 If you eat something that you're not meant to eat
00:26:05.400 As a human you know we're animals
00:26:06.920 If you eat something as an animal that you're not meant to eat
00:26:09.400 Illness is there
00:26:10.840 Over you know body composition that we're never meant to reach
00:26:13.960 Is there you know all these things
00:26:15.960 And you know saying
00:26:17.560 When I'm looking at a man if a man's overweight
00:26:19.960 I would I wouldn't even consider him
00:26:22.680 Because to me that's laziness
00:26:24.600 That's he's not disciplined
00:26:26.360 He's not looking out for his health
00:26:28.040 You know there's so many things
00:26:30.040 That that then flags for me
00:26:32.600 So I could say that was an ick as well
00:26:34.680 There's way more icks
00:26:35.640 And I mentioned
00:26:39.240 What did you think of the song?
00:26:42.920 Yeah I didn't
00:26:44.760 I don't know
00:26:45.960 See I used to be big myself as well
00:26:47.720 So I went from size 16 18 to a size 8
00:26:51.880 And I've recently started to put the weight back on
00:26:54.280 But um I don't know
00:26:57.480 It wasn't the best
00:27:00.040 I thought she had a good voice
00:27:02.840 It wasn't appealing to me personally
00:27:04.680 I don't know
00:27:05.320 It just seemed like
00:27:06.520 She was just basically saying
00:27:07.640 She's still not happy
00:27:08.600 She's still not happy
00:27:09.640 Yeah she's tried for how long
00:27:11.160 She's still in the same position that she didn't
00:27:12.840 That's because she's doing low fat
00:27:14.200 She's starving herself
00:27:15.320 And she's spending all of her miserable existence
00:27:18.280 Speaking about food
00:27:19.160 What if a guy made a song about being broke?
00:27:22.440 My mom told me to get a job
00:27:25.560 It would be really not very masculine would it?
00:27:30.360 They've got another one
00:27:31.960 What?
00:27:32.440 Your worst one
00:27:33.320 What?
00:27:33.960 I was gonna
00:27:34.840 Then I'll go
00:27:37.080 I was gonna
00:27:37.800 Hi
00:27:38.280 Yeah
00:27:38.680 Come on
00:27:39.720 Oh yeah
00:27:40.440 I said that come on
00:27:41.880 Just thought I'd say
00:27:43.720 Can I just say what I thought about the song?
00:27:45.640 I just I feel like it was a really mixed um perception
00:27:49.720 Yeah
00:27:50.360 I didn't know what to take from it
00:27:51.880 In the beginning I was kind of confused
00:27:54.600 Then as it went in further I was thinking
00:27:57.480 Alright maybe this is to teach all the other little girls
00:28:00.280 that it's okay to be bigger
00:28:02.440 Maybe
00:28:02.840 Then as it went further it says she was unhappy
00:28:05.960 Then she was happy because she's in front of the camera in bra and knicker
00:28:10.680 I
00:28:12.680 Was very confused
00:28:14.360 So I wouldn't even be able to say whether I liked it or not
00:28:17.320 I did like the music side of it
00:28:19.160 But in terms of lyrically
00:28:21.160 Mixed signals
00:28:22.040 It was mixed signals all over yeah
00:28:24.120 But why do you women celebrate the wrong decisions?
00:28:27.800 Do you know what I mean?
00:28:28.440 Like okay a guy if he's a drug dealer or criminal
00:28:32.600 He doesn't celebrate it
00:28:34.680 They glamorize it a lot they do
00:28:38.440 Yeah they do
00:28:39.240 They do
00:28:39.800 You know what I'm gonna take that back
00:28:45.800 I forget about that
00:28:48.280 I don't listen to like it's like that's like rap music
00:28:50.760 Yeah yeah I don't really listen to that
00:28:52.360 But yeah but they glamorize it but it's still
00:28:56.920 Generally frowned upon by most men
00:28:59.720 That's the thing you're not going to see men just come around
00:29:02.120 Especially men that are doing things in life are not just going to come and say yeah
00:29:05.720 Yeah we want to be like that guy
00:29:07.080 Yeah that makes sense
00:29:08.040 Yeah he's a drug dealer
00:29:09.320 Yeah that's the life we should live
00:29:10.760 Or you typically the men that push that on young kids
00:29:14.840 Those are like you wouldn't see a responsible man
00:29:19.000 Even if he does drugs as a side hustle
00:29:21.720 You wouldn't see him come out on tv and try to tell young kids this is what you should do
00:29:25.640 Yeah
00:29:26.600 But that's what I meant
00:29:27.640 That lady was very confusing
00:29:30.360 Do you not think?
00:29:31.960 What did you take from that?
00:29:33.880 Eat more eat less
00:29:35.400 Well my thing is like I just don't know you know everyone's got struggles in life
00:29:39.960 So like that's that's her struggle fine
00:29:42.280 Yeah
00:29:42.440 But I just don't know why do we celebrate the wrong
00:29:45.880 Like it's clearly better to be in shape
00:29:47.720 It's clearly better to be healthy
00:29:49.240 That's clearly the better way to go
00:29:51.480 Why do women celebrate the wrong thing?
00:29:54.280 But I don't think it's just women like
00:29:56.200 Where did this whole thing about just women glorifying something?
00:29:59.480 Because I think if anything men do the same thing
00:30:03.720 Just going back to the reference that you just gave about drug dealers or whatever
00:30:08.120 That's the whole popular culture right now
00:30:10.760 Everybody loves rap music
00:30:11.880 Everybody is mimicking rappers
00:30:13.720 Talking about things they don't know what the rappers are talking about
00:30:17.160 That's literally the wave
00:30:18.440 So I'm not going to agree with you on the fact that only women glorify
00:30:22.120 I mean even this whole idea of threesomes and monogamy and whatever
00:30:25.880 Is glorified
00:30:26.840 It's like one of the reasons that people don't want to be in traditional relationships
00:30:30.680 Because it's in the music it's on tv it's and who's who's who's the decision makers behind
00:30:36.440 These things being put out et cetera et cetera it's men women
00:30:40.200 Women they do it for the audience
00:30:41.480 Well women women no no you're from atlanta
00:30:44.040 That's like especially like no women make 80 because there's a lot of high earning women in atlanta
00:30:48.440 No i understand yeah yeah so so
00:30:50.360 Women make 80 of consumer buying decisions so the stuff you see in the music the stuff you see on tv
00:30:55.160 It's catered to women i'm talking about the the people that are
00:30:58.920 Signing off on putting it out the people that are acknowledging or accepting that this is being glorified
00:31:04.360 This is what we're going to accept money in exchange for is
00:31:08.680 Men generally older white men who have nothing to do with whatever is being even being put out
00:31:14.200 But you just hit the nail on the head it's men making the smart decisions of how to make money
00:31:18.120 How do you make money well you pick the best
00:31:19.800 I'm sure that girl made money because we just sat here and watched her video
00:31:22.200 You just said about the general culture and who's putting the things out there
00:31:25.400 I think you're hinting towards the fact that the media and the music is all owned by the same people
00:31:29.240 And you just mentioned that the typical well you know that's all middle-aged white men fine
00:31:33.640 But the point is is that they must be smart men because they're making bloody money
00:31:37.560 Yeah, but that wasn't the question the question was why do women more so glorify doing bad things versus
00:31:43.320 But why do you think it is that though that stuff sells more?
00:31:46.920 Because women make up 95 of the consumer market
00:31:49.960 I think it's because we have a follower culture so men see these other men getting money looking flashy looking good
00:31:56.520 Taking care of their bodies building their bodies, etc. Whatever it is and they want to do the same thing
00:32:01.320 They want to flex they want to look a certain way right
00:32:03.800 They want to get a certain type of woman because of other men
00:32:06.120 But wait, but look do you see what you just said there all of those are good things
00:32:09.480 Minus the drug part minus the drug part you just said they want to get like they want to make money good thing
00:32:14.040 They want to be in shape good thing they want to attract women good thing
00:32:17.080 That's the women but the women that are celebrated tend to be like I think of who has gotten more of an audience than taylor swift
00:32:24.760 She's a 30 something year old spinster who makes an album about every single relationship that's gone wrong
00:32:31.720 Those are the women we celebrate, you know, and then I can think of like nikki minaj
00:32:35.720 Right, you know, I just saw a woman saying nothing positive or saying something good
00:32:40.120 Like even if we're going to go back to the fat conversation
00:32:43.320 Nikki minaj literally has lyrics that says you a stupid hoe, you a stupid hoe, you a stupid hoe
00:32:56.680 Okay, why do we have a slut walk?
00:32:58.680 Oh my god, what are the same reason that we have everything else?
00:33:01.720 I've seen something in london where it's a bunch of grown men riding around bicycle butt naked
00:33:09.160 Why do we have a slut walk?
00:33:12.040 Why do we have that?
00:33:12.760 So that women can take their power back and feel like okay, they can accept it
00:33:16.520 But that is just because I'm saying this doesn't mean that I'm necessarily agreeing
00:33:19.800 Why would women want to encourage that?
00:33:23.560 Um, because we have things like Roe v. Wade going on where women are not in control of their bodies
00:33:28.840 So I'm going to assume that you know is abortion generally a good thing. I don't know
00:33:36.280 Okay, okay, okay, why why do women encourage it because it should be your choice what you're going to do
00:33:42.760 Being in control of your body, right?
00:33:44.760 No, I did not. She asked me why is that you said that with regards to Roe v. Wade
00:33:48.760 That's an issue that's going on right now where women don't have control over their bodies
00:33:53.560 That if somebody can get pregnant physically that I have no choice in whether I have to carry this baby to term
00:34:00.600 And push it out and raise it
00:34:02.440 That's not control if somebody else has a decision
00:34:04.760 But if women if women want a human being
00:34:07.160 Okay, but I'm not giving you my opinion on abortion at all
00:34:10.200 The point is is that you said it's about women having control over their bodies
00:34:13.080 Do women not have the option to say maybe I'm not going to have sex with a man that I don't want to have children with
00:34:17.640 Some women get raped
00:34:19.640 The exception to the Roe
00:34:21.640 1% of abortions are because of
00:34:24.520 Okay, well, I'm not personally going to have the abortion argument because that was not my intention of bringing up Roe v. Wade
00:34:29.480 I'm just giving the example of the slut walk being a reason
00:34:33.720 But why do women fight so hard for the wrong decisions?
00:34:36.680 Because men have been in control of every decision for the existence of eternity
00:34:39.800 How have men been in control when men were the ones that typically had to fight in wars?
00:34:45.400 Women did not have to fight in wars
00:34:48.280 I don't understand that question
00:34:49.640 Okay, in order to live in order to survive as a species, right?
00:34:54.120 You need to protect society women have never had to do that
00:34:58.920 Never okay, so how were men in control?
00:35:02.600 The average man is in how is he in control when they're the ones that have to sacrifice their body
00:35:08.040 Their life for the country because they decided that we're the only people that strong enough who decided men
00:35:14.600 Who?
00:35:16.600 What?
00:35:18.600 What?
00:35:20.600 What?
00:35:22.600 No, no, so I just
00:35:24.600 Okay, so I wanna
00:35:26.600 I wanna
00:35:30.600 Guys, guys, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, so you're not you're just not correct
00:35:34.520 So when women wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, listen, listen, wait, and they really teach you history wrong
00:35:40.680 It's it's not correct if you actually read historical accounts at the time they they rewrite history
00:35:46.200 So one one thing people think is they think that men are the ones that started all these wars
00:35:51.720 When really they've taken wait wait, you you just did right?
00:35:55.400 No, but no you you did because you said men are starting all of these wars
00:35:59.000 No, that's why I bring up
00:36:00.280 But you said that's the reason they have to defend the country because the men were starting these wars and I know
00:36:05.800 No, that's not what I said I said they they started the decision that the only the men are going to go to war
00:36:10.360 Okay, okay, okay, but I okay, okay, okay, wait, wait, so I'm saying the last 500 years
00:36:15.080 They took the men that were in power and the women that were in power women are more likely to wage war than men
00:36:21.960 Women so so this wasn't just the men's decision there were women rulers and they were more
00:36:26.760 I understand that completely, but that was not so my my point
00:36:29.800 My point my point is in all of history. There was choices and trade-offs, right?
00:36:35.400 And it wasn't most men had very little power most people had very little power
00:36:40.280 So this idea that most men somehow oppressed women. It's just not true women had much more privilege in a lot of ways than men
00:36:48.760 Much more, you know even in all of in the last thousand years if a woman committed a crime
00:36:53.640 She was not likely to get the same punishment as a guy
00:36:56.280 There was um there there's been writings for like that are 200 years old of men complaining
00:37:01.960 About how unfair the court system is and how women just get off in the and the west in what in the west in the west
00:37:09.000 Oh, well in the in the west. Yes. Yes. We're in the west, right?
00:37:15.480 Well, the 500 years was actually in the world which kind of makes sense because I don't think women understand violence the same way men
00:37:22.040 understand violence but
00:37:24.040 um
00:37:25.240 Yeah, so this idea that like women were oppressed and like men had all this power most people did not have power
00:37:31.880 Okay
00:37:33.240 Okay, yeah, I well, I don't understand how that relates back to the original question was which was women
00:37:40.280 Glorify wrongdoings more so than men
00:37:43.240 But I agree to disagree on your word. Okay. Okay
00:37:48.200 But you don't see how women glorify wrong during doings when we have a slut walk
00:37:52.520 I
00:37:53.560 Mean, that's one example. There's so many other things that both
00:37:57.080 Okay, what about the body positive walk or the body positive movement?
00:38:02.360 And what's that's bad according to whoever is deciding that that's your opinion
00:38:06.680 Okay, but would you would you not agree that being more likely to die is bad?
00:38:11.320 I
00:38:12.360 Well, we all have to die for one
00:38:14.200 But I agree that you know making decisions that are going to shorten your life
00:38:18.280 Could be considered bad if that's what you value everybody has a range of things that they value
00:38:22.520 You shouldn't celebrate it, right?
00:38:25.000 Um, I think you should celebrate whatever you want to celebrate if you want to celebrate
00:38:28.920 Feeling confident in however whatever state you are in today. That's your business
00:38:33.560 Exactly and men would say you shouldn't celebrate whatever you want to celebrate
00:38:36.680 There are things that are worth celebrating that things that should never be celebrated
00:38:39.880 That's what most level-headed men would think but most women have this idea of
00:38:45.720 egalitarian fairy tale land where everything can be whatever I want
00:38:49.560 Where if you think something is good then it should be good if you think something is bad
00:38:52.920 They should but no their objective truths about life
00:38:56.440 That's the fact
00:38:58.120 Okay, another movement that we celebrate is the trans movement. That's 80% women
00:39:03.320 Most women are a part of that and support that
00:39:07.160 And people that do actually have actually interviewed people that do that surgery
00:39:11.960 They're more likely to commit suicide a lot of them have really bad complications after
00:39:16.920 And I personally don't think that's something that should be celebrated
00:39:20.200 Maybe women are naturally nurturers that we're taking that
00:39:24.200 Negative judgmental factor out of our maybe because me personally just speaking from my personal life experience
00:39:30.520 I'm not I don't I don't care about what you do because the same way you're having an opinion on something that I do the fact that
00:39:36.600 I'm overweight the fact that I'm this I'm that maybe you have something that's like you said everybody has a flaw something right
00:39:42.040 They're dealing with so who are we to judge and decide that just because somebody is
00:39:47.880 Accepting that this is what people are going to do with their lives anyway, and not you know casting another
00:39:53.960 Sin of judgment onto them
00:39:56.120 So I I don't disagree everybody's got struggles right everyone's got problems. I totally agree
00:40:02.280 But where I disagree is I don't agree with celebrating it. I don't agree with celebrating
00:40:07.560 I don't wait wait wait
00:40:08.520 I don't agree with celebrating the fact that taylor swift has 10 failed relationships
00:40:13.080 I don't think that's something we should yay hurrah
00:40:15.880 I don't think we should celebrate you know nikki minaj saying you ho you ho you ho
00:40:21.160 I don't I don't think we should celebrate cardi b having a song about wop
00:40:25.720 I don't think we should celebrate being overweight because I think those are all negative things
00:40:31.480 So that that's where I disagree. I don't disagree that everybody's got problems. Everybody's got struggles
00:40:36.920 Nobody's perfect. Obviously everyone in your circle is going to have problems and struggles
00:40:41.400 You know, I'm not going to not be friends with someone just because they're overweight, right
00:40:45.160 Um, but where I disagree is the celebrating that's where I disagree. So how do you feel about pub culture?
00:40:51.800 Because you know some people might look at that as alcoholism or like even just drinking culture in general. Oh, I'm not a fan
00:40:59.640 I'm not a big I'm not a big drinker. I wouldn't celebrate that either. I
00:41:04.760 Guess but when I walked in they told me to get a drink
00:41:06.920 So I'm just like trying to understand the balance of like, you know, it's the men and women thing for me
00:41:13.080 Yeah, everybody has a choice and it's like, okay, we can sit here and we can pay
00:41:30.200 That's the case if we're going to put some type of like you're bad because you sat here and you ate
00:41:34.920 It's not an issue
00:41:36.920 It's not an issue of your bad because it's not an issue of you're bad because you drink
00:41:41.880 It's not an issue of you're bad because you're overweight. You're bad. No, no, no, no. That's not it
00:41:46.200 It's this is bad for you
00:41:48.600 It actually comes from a nice place and you're hearing it as judgment and you're saying, you know
00:41:53.480 Like who are we to judge each other and I get where you're coming from you think that's coming from a nice place
00:41:57.640 But the truth is that's not nice at all because if you as many of you know
00:42:01.880 I was just banned on tick-tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform
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