JustPearlyThings - October 27, 2023


Men REVEAL Their Standard For Wife-Material


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29 minutes

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00:00:00.000 you um basically i was with someone that was 35 yeah for three years so she's like 38 now nearly
00:00:07.840 40 and she's got four kids and like i stayed with her because of the companionship and we was good
00:00:15.680 together she could cook she was doing everything right so like i wouldn't read this is why i'm
00:00:21.360 stressing the fact of this expiry date thing because at her age and the age she's at now
00:00:26.480 obviously if we did stay together then it would have been good but for me it's just a case factor
00:00:31.440 of she did everything that was okay for me so yeah i didn't drop her out because of the age
00:00:38.560 okay sterling what about you she's she's 25 in a month
00:00:46.320 out the door
00:00:47.040 not a chance her birthday's next week she's almost 25.
00:00:55.680 throw it out the rest of the trash
00:01:00.160 okay 20 20 can she milk a cow all right she's she's 20 she's 29 but can milk a cow that's
00:01:07.440 for you no it's too many years bring that bring that number down a bit so 20 all right 28 but can
00:01:12.400 milk a cow 25 and knows how to garden okay we might go if she has a garden that's no no no no
00:01:22.000 knows how to garden yeah it's a good green thumb right okay that's gonna make gross veggies knows how
00:01:26.080 to cook i mean a lot of these things i'm already gonna select for things like even in the 24 year
00:01:31.280 old it's not just the fact that she's 24. yeah like there's other things that go into that it's not
00:01:35.280 just like the age i'm looking for right there's like obviously like purity there's like political
00:01:42.080 leanings towards my kind of political leanings or at least like you know uh maybe conspiracy if
00:01:48.560 she okay this i'll add numbers i'll add age here if she's like a conspiracy theorist she gets at least
00:01:53.360 27. at 27. she's like a full-blown conspiracy theorist all right all right this this girl's kind of
00:01:59.120 crazy in a good way i could get a kid in her real quick yeah yeah yeah like she's like all right we
00:02:06.240 ain't got time the world's ending yes all right that's my girl you know okay um what what else do
00:02:13.760 you select for like what give me give me your list of standards um cool so we went over age ideally
00:02:20.560 like not college educated okay ideally like in fact if she if she went to like a really big college
00:02:26.240 that would be a massive red flag okay so she's mainstream she's 22 but she went to a mainstream
00:02:32.400 college like if she went to like in america for example if she went to like a big like a big college
00:02:36.800 with like fraternities and sororities and that's a giant red flag okay huge red flag okay that that
00:02:42.160 woman has partied a lot is she off is she off the table completely oh basically yeah so she says i
00:02:48.800 went unless unless like if i can i mean look in a girl's instagram will give a lot of this stuff away
00:02:54.560 yeah like i can tell if she was in like a sorority party i can tell if she was like going up and down
00:02:59.440 vermin street or whatever yeah i guess they'll tell on themselves on their instagram that's a big
00:03:04.880 one does she have an instagram if she doesn't have an instagram we'll push that we'll push that
00:03:09.600 that age right up no instagram could you no social media at all 27 no problem what about okay no social
00:03:16.080 media yeah 30. yeah this ain't a negotiation all right this is a dictatorship we ain't negotiating
00:03:24.640 no i'm just kidding i don't know how many years it gets you what about 30 but she's a virgin
00:03:31.120 that's pretty hard that's pretty great we're talking we're talking oh what if she's a magical unicorn
00:03:37.280 we're talking in fantasy land someone said if she went to asu she's done for sure arizona state
00:03:51.680 definitely yes definitely yep okay so what else what about okay let's say let's say she's she likes
00:03:59.600 the she wants to be a mother okay she wants to be a mother and have a family that's giant green flag
00:04:04.320 like because she's looking for the same thing i'm looking for a family right uh she likes to cook
00:04:09.280 right doesn't have to be the greatest cook but she's willing to learn to cook the things i like
00:04:13.120 excellent uh random acts of kindness so like something as simple something as simple as like
00:04:18.640 i'm sitting down and working at my desk and she comes up and just gives me a nice shoulder massage
00:04:21.840 out of the blue that is a giant like winner that'll add that'll add a year
00:04:26.160 all right these kind of things uh not too though we don't want to get carried away
00:04:42.560 what is prefers like country life over city life okay like quiet town small town life over city life
00:04:50.720 okay not a giant partier not a big heavy drinker doesn't do drugs doesn't do weed that's a big red
00:04:56.960 flag for me the girl does weed nope i don't care how young she is nope 20 20 20 but weed out
00:05:06.560 you can't negotiate with me on this i don't negotiate with terrorists
00:05:11.760 um all right 20 22 but but goes to the club twice a month
00:05:20.720 i would have to find some of her friends for the people she's hung out with and get like the dirt
00:05:30.560 get some like insider intel are women snitches
00:05:37.440 everyone's nodding
00:05:39.520 this is they snitch on themselves
00:05:41.680 of course they're gonna snitch on their girlfriend
00:05:43.280 um okay i wanted to ask about x okay women have x men have x so i want to talk about
00:05:54.880 what is the last time you've broken up with someone over something like what was the
00:05:58.800 ick or like stopped going on dates with someone um i'm curious from the women tell me the last like
00:06:04.880 ick you got with someone you were seeing
00:06:06.720 um i would say like he has some sassy gestures like
00:06:14.720 just picking stuff up like the way you drinking out of a glass
00:06:19.120 we're sitting at the movies and you got to have like is it the pinky is it like the tea
00:06:24.320 it's the it's holding like why are you eating a popsicle as a grown man like
00:06:28.240 like um men have to eat certain stuff like break it off like the banana like you need to be breaking
00:06:38.160 the banana off and toss it in your mouth like you don't need to be doing all these sassy gestures
00:06:42.960 so yeah that's definitely it for me because why are you so loose
00:06:46.240 you sound pickier than me
00:06:56.240 he could stop with the the sassy gesture she can't unage
00:07:03.840 okay go ahead um mine has been for communication i can't deal with somebody that doesn't
00:07:10.400 communicate well with me okay so what does that actually what is that yeah that's communication
00:07:15.440 as in we can we can have our conversation right but if you're still walking away and saying well
00:07:20.960 you're still in the wrong that wasn't the communication wasn't really there because
00:07:25.040 you've listened to what i've said but you're talking about arguments yeah communication barrier
00:07:29.760 needs to be there why don't why don't you just not argue yeah because it depends on what the
00:07:33.600 argument is it may not have wanted to be an argument it may have just been something that i've
00:07:37.840 brought up and now oh wait hear me out i may be the bad one because i've nagged but yeah yeah
00:07:47.600 hear me out we could just not we could just not bring it up yeah we could but then that's why i
00:07:52.480 would rather walk away from it either way that's where the relationship ends because if i can't
00:07:56.560 if i actually cannot open my mouth express and say it's yeah i feel like i'm being but why do you have
00:08:01.360 to express to him can't you like because what i'm hearing it it just i could be wrong i don't know
00:08:06.880 you right but from what you're saying it sounds like codependency where the other person needs
00:08:10.720 to adhere to all of your emotional needs so what i would say is why can't you let it build up a bit
00:08:16.160 but at least then you keep the peace in the home and then maybe you can call your mom or you can call
00:08:19.920 your friend and go he did this really annoying thing but it's a little annoying thing yeah no i don't
00:08:23.680 believe that relationship should be involving family members and friends i'm sorry i'm not going to call
00:08:27.840 my friend and be like oh he did this a little thing so if it's something yeah unless it's something
00:08:33.760 big what am i even talking about anyway right but you said you you mentioned the word communication
00:08:38.080 yeah so it it gets classed as nagging because it may be something that i've brought up you're just
00:08:41.680 expressing yourself swept under the carpet and i've let it go could be like six months later now and
00:08:46.320 i've decided you know i want this conversation again can i have an example of like what what you're
00:08:53.760 thinking of a situation what happened it's not a specific situation no no there's there's something
00:09:00.480 in your head i see you thinking do you know what it is i hear it a lot as well from women it's just that
00:09:05.520 it's just the communication it's for me it's communication but you see okay but you see how
00:09:09.760 broad this is to a guy because there's guys watching right and communication yeah yeah and they think
00:09:14.800 that's all women says communication they don't communicate with me yes yes just sit there listen and
00:09:19.440 just tell me yes but you're if that if you're the okay so but isn't that sort of narcissism i need
00:09:25.840 to be told yes all the time well no not not yes all the time but i mean at least just try and take
00:09:31.200 in whatever i may be expressing at the time but what if it feels like it's gone over your head
00:09:35.360 but what if what you're saying is stupid then tell me i'm being stupid i would rather that in the whole
00:09:42.960 from what i'm hearing right it sounds i had a friend who went through a kind of a situation similar to
00:09:48.320 this in the way his missus was communicating this to me it's it kind of sounds like you need you just
00:09:52.960 needed him to tell you everything's going to be okay i just wanted to know if what i'm saying you
00:09:59.040 actually feel that it is stupid or you agree with what i'm saying there needs to be some sort of
00:10:03.600 understanding if there if we haven't come down to a decision of yeah you're being over like over the
00:10:08.560 top how is you coming across sometimes it's not what you see it's how you see how you deliver it yeah
00:10:12.720 and sometimes a lot of women are very aggy and we don't yeah we don't approach it correctly that is
00:10:17.760 another thing that is another thing it is how you um approach it and how you um yeah open up the
00:10:23.840 conversation but not all men calling you stupid though but i i i have listen i'm very understanding
00:10:31.520 i know how to communicate i'm very grown it's even stupid how would you react to that i'd want you to
00:10:37.440 explain why the fuck i'm being stupid but you know what it does it ends up coming down to that the
00:10:44.400 cycle of the argument how women get into arguments with guys and the whole well that's it it sounds
00:10:48.640 like you wanted an argument yeah sometimes because you wanted his attention yeah you wanted his attention
00:10:56.400 you get an argument going you get five minutes of his attention but he's fired up and he's passionate with
00:11:02.160 you no it could be something simple like every day i'll ask you babe can you make sure that the
00:11:06.080 dishes that you put in the sink you wash it if i've now dealt with that for a whole year and after
00:11:09.840 a year i'll be like you know babe i've dealt with you not washing the dishes that i've asked you
00:11:14.080 every single day to make sure you wash and then you come up with some a silly response of
00:11:18.800 well well don't you just accept that he's not going to wash the dishes in the sink and then just
00:11:24.720 leave it just like because it's about acceptance i'm just using an um an example but i'm just i'm
00:11:31.600 just i'm just thinking like what's up yeah buy me a dishwasher yeah thank you
00:11:37.920 i'm just thinking what else is the chick there for isn't it your job no that was just an example
00:11:42.480 one that's an example i couldn't think of another example i just thought this isn't the same but i
00:11:48.560 mean like you have to remember i'm a mother at the end of the day so i speak to my child all day long
00:11:52.720 i have to don't do this don't do that i don't don't want to have to deal with a man and say
00:11:56.080 babe don't did you know after that that's it i have to keep reminding you not to do something i'm
00:12:00.960 so but but so do exactly live exactly how i want other but that's the point like you're not supposed to
00:12:07.600 try to control someone someone yeah like only after 30 they try to do also i was gonna say
00:12:16.160 i was also gonna say if that's the way you're even gonna put it ain't no daughter of you is
00:12:20.880 gonna tell me uh i told you to wash the plates like yeah that was an example
00:12:29.920 no but the point is even if it's an example that is the way you gave the example so that's
00:12:34.000 more than likely the way how you do how you approach it is that how you approach though on
00:12:37.440 a normal day that's how she's probably gonna approach it because if that's not how she was
00:12:40.800 gonna put it should i've given the example of the of the yeah fact i'm scared of you ladies
00:12:46.720 stop it don't be scared of me i mean i'm very i i like to get my point do you do you get angered
00:12:52.800 very quick by men i would say in a relationship i would say a few years ago one thousand you did but
00:12:57.600 now you control your emotions i've calmed down a lot yeah because it's very much learning to understand
00:13:03.120 the person that you're with understanding my wrongs all right i feel like um correct me if
00:13:07.840 i'm wrong so i feel like your preference of communication comes from like instead of just
00:13:12.320 sweeping on the rug and you know leaving you because i realized something about you let me
00:13:17.120 make sure and confirm this is who you are and i'm not saying that's the right mindset because if
00:13:21.200 somebody is not washing the dishes for a year then they probably not gonna ever wash the dishes so
00:13:25.120 you need to accept that but some people would rather communicate fight through it and maybe if you get
00:13:30.400 some understanding you can change somebody's mind not necessarily change their habits but change
00:13:34.480 their mind get some clarity on this is how you think this is how you move this is type of person you
00:13:38.560 are rather than just sweep it under the rug a year later now i'm pissed off i'm just gonna leave you
00:13:43.680 because you've done xyz we've had a conversation and you understand i'm not going to accept this
00:13:49.840 now i'm gonna leave you yeah can i ask you if you does wash the dishes what's your response
00:13:54.160 it's always going to be a reason like if i'm stating that there's a problem yeah i'm gonna
00:14:09.680 say this is the problem if you can't give me a reason as to um why you you you do what you do
00:14:16.000 or you don't um acknowledge that it's something that irritates me that is a form of lack of
00:14:21.360 communication it just needs i just need i need the man to be understanding but i hear what you're
00:14:25.760 saying right but i think that's still i think the truth is control i think it's all about mindset
00:14:30.400 really i don't think most men think i know i don't even think people should think like that of like
00:14:36.000 why do you do something why do you do something like at the end of the day if i go into the middle
00:14:39.840 of london and start beheading people does it matter why i did it to me yeah i don't think i don't
00:14:46.640 think it i don't think it matters why i think what matters is what is the whole story i need like
00:14:50.560 from like the start all the way to the end yeah that's you searching for for meaning does that not
00:14:57.440 mean that you're lacking meaning somewhere because you're trying to find it in something else outside
00:15:01.200 of yourself i wouldn't say i'm lacking meaning no i'll just say i just like i i i need okay let me
00:15:08.960 try and phrase this right i i just like somebody who can communicate i've had relationships where
00:15:14.160 do you know what the man can tell me you're being a dickhead and how do you take that yeah
00:15:19.200 how do you respond to that no wait but wait didn't you say didn't you say earlier your first question
00:15:24.080 is well why yeah that's exhausting to a guy that means he has to like go back like but that's
00:15:28.960 exhausting to me but no but that's that's the but the point is the point is it's like you're looking
00:15:33.440 for an argument when you do that like to a man's point of view but we just never hear this because we
00:15:38.880 don't really hear the men's point of view but that whole thing like that's exhausting it is exhausting
00:15:43.280 and that's why i'd rather just done it because if you can't communicate with me then that's that's
00:15:47.680 just that's my ick anyways and for me it's understanding communication if you can't do that with me
00:15:52.000 okay it's just it sounds when i when i hear when i hear chicks talk about communication it always and
00:15:57.040 i'm telling you just how it sounds to me um do exactly as i want and i need to tell you every time
00:16:03.280 i'm irritated otherwise there's going to be problems not really because then i wouldn't end up being with
00:16:08.880 some of the people that i have been with because i've i would say i've compromised with allowing
00:16:13.600 certain things like what i'm not willing to piss okay you you said it you said it that's the only
00:16:20.720 reason i'm saying certain things but yeah i would i would say i'm i'm willing to compromise with a man
00:16:26.560 okay do you do you feel like men have compromised on you yeah one thousand okay so it's like a mutual
00:16:32.160 compromise oh yeah okay say that okay okay well what about you ick icks so icks would be bad manners
00:16:40.080 the way someone holds themselves um how they treat others eating with their mouth open would be
00:16:49.120 that would be a no how about eating vegan food
00:16:51.760 um i haven't done a lot of dating or anything i've only ever had long-term relationships really
00:17:02.400 so i don't have a major experience in my relationships i don't think arguing is a good
00:17:07.760 thing i don't think um so i you know in my last relationship i didn't argue or anything like that
00:17:14.560 because you know you're there to actually complement each other you're there to make each other's life
00:17:19.360 easier um advance you you want to actually you know your man advancing advances your life too
00:17:26.080 you guys didn't argue you guys didn't argue at all no until the end okay until the end i was like
00:17:31.520 i was like i was like you guys you should you should get married that sounds like a great relationship
00:17:37.040 yeah we were together for a long time okay yeah but no um to the end because of situations and
00:17:43.360 things that happened okay okay what about you ick um ick in general yeah just the last ick the last time
00:17:51.520 you were or maybe you went on a date or two or you and you thought i can never see this guy again ever
00:18:00.800 i feel like so bad saying it though but the last ick that i had was um someone asked me out for a coffee
00:18:08.320 and he's like come and meet me for a coffee so there i was happy to go and meet him for a coffee
00:18:14.240 and he turned up with his friend so i was like what what's going on here who does that at the age we're
00:18:20.560 at now right how old how i imagine how old was he he's my he's 30 he's 30. it's his mentality imagine
00:18:29.280 so i was like shocked and i thought nah this can't be real where's the camera
00:18:38.400 honestly i did i think so i thought some of my friends were setting me up
00:18:42.240 and then i thought no he's he's not joking so the lady in star but am i allowed to say that
00:18:49.280 lady knows me there so she's like coconut maca and i'm like so i look behind me and um he's then gone
00:18:57.680 and ordered his drink and his mates drink but i've got my app ready to pay and i'm like no way am i
00:19:03.920 paying for him and his mates coffee i swear to god i paid and left yeah i swear i paid and left
00:19:15.040 because yeah because listen it's my local i couldn't do that to myself it's my local it was too shameful
00:19:23.440 plus my points were nearly collected from my three new ones so that was a big ick for me and some of
00:19:33.520 my friends were like that's really shallow what was it shallow or it's not at all because i felt so
00:19:39.680 violated and disrespected in that instance of him just showing up with his friend in the first place yeah
00:19:45.680 there's not one masculine trait like it wasn't it wasn't like a business meeting or something no no no
00:19:51.040 imagine no it was like he brought him for coffee too no and i have a company so if it was a company
00:19:56.720 setting i no i know i paid i i had to i was so embarrassed i was embarrassed i was embarrassed
00:20:06.400 she just wanted to exit yeah i had to take the lead i left that's weird i am ultimately quite bossy
00:20:13.120 though like i was going to lead on to if it was a meeting a business meeting fair enough i'm used
00:20:18.240 to sitting on boards with all people and buying the coffee that's all right i don't mind that
00:20:23.040 but he was asking me out to get to know me that's why i was shocked they even bought a friend
00:20:29.600 did he did he mention that at all why the guy was there
00:20:33.520 security god maybe no no he did to be fair they're not he wasn't from the area right to be fair
00:20:42.160 and he was like my friends um i was like why have you why have you brought your mate and he's like
00:20:46.880 oh he was just you know in the area and i was like oh how did you how did you meet him so we
00:20:53.520 was talking for like i would say about a year or two on an instagram we met yeah we so we met through
00:20:59.840 other friends and yeah it continued through instagram so i would say instagram two years leading up to
00:21:04.560 this day what a pleasure exactly you will never get that time back exactly time is a currency boy
00:21:13.120 in in all fairness it was an invested time on my part but i'm just saying in general for like about
00:21:18.560 two years we had been in communication and hadn't met up in person so when it come to that time i was
00:21:25.360 so upset like i couldn't believe but that was an ick yeah it took me off the ball
00:21:33.600 yeah that was mine what about you last ick
00:21:38.080 the inability to lead yeah what is like can i have an example of that not buying the costume
00:21:47.120 um i like i okay it's about what i like my obviously this is about me so i like a man a
00:21:58.800 masculine man that's not intimidated by somebody else or the next person next to me if you're into
00:22:04.880 me i want to feel your aura your presence around me because i'm clearly i'm into you and i'm all about
00:22:11.520 you and i don't need you to be all about me like drooling on me but i feel your presence energy energy
00:22:20.640 and if i don't feel that it's just such a you don't have to do the grandest gestures
00:22:26.240 but the lead like the in a restaurant not being able to open the menu yes you're getting to know me
00:22:33.920 but what would be nice and what would be good is after you've gotten to know me i would like you
00:22:40.000 to place my order i think that's what my man should be able to do okay so the inability to do that
00:22:46.000 is a big ick okay so you if he doesn't place your order then i want a traditional man so if you're
00:22:51.680 not traditional you're in it okay do you think you're traditional 100 okay um what makes you
00:22:57.280 traditional probably no no let me take that back 78 okay what what makes you traditional
00:23:09.840 i have a lot of traditional values i was born and raised in a different country so my morals compass
00:23:14.560 is a little bit more different and um then people that were born and raised more west okay so like i'm
00:23:23.120 just gonna say that like what i'd like to be a homemaker i absolutely love family the traditional
00:23:33.520 i'm saying traditional okay older way older way um because the traditional when you go and saying the
00:23:41.040 word tradition it means something from before right so it's an older way today's traditions are different
00:23:47.280 yeah because of the way the world is okay we can't so therefore if i could in the ideal world when
00:23:54.880 things are all rosy and it goes my way okay i have like my five or six kids and my husband and yeah okay
00:24:02.800 but i'm still not hearing what makes you traditional me um yeah i i'm i'm peace
00:24:10.080 what does that mean i'm i am peace to my partner right but what is like what do you do specifically that
00:24:16.480 brings i communicate effectively i cook i clean i i run our home effectively i do my part okay so and
00:24:23.920 you were like raised to do that your mom taught you that um my family taught me to do that my mother
00:24:29.040 my grandmothers my the men in my family um yeah okay but i do my part but they did their part too
00:24:37.440 they they what was in the many my family did their part right they they provided and yeah
00:24:41.760 okay so you're saying i saw good examples of what men do and still do and have done so my grandfathers
00:24:51.280 my actual father um and yeah my moral compass i think is we all again 78 percent not 100 we all do things
00:25:01.200 that precise number again yes i live yes we live in 2020 what do you have three so wait how how old
00:25:08.640 are you again 31 okay so usually traditional women marry young typically so what made you not because
00:25:15.520 i'm only asking because if a guy i said i was single in the beginning did i okay um i didn't tell i
00:25:21.520 thought you said you weren't married i didn't say that but i'm not married okay okay so in the western world no
00:25:27.520 no no no okay but you're you got like a ring or something yeah i've got plenty of rings no i'm not
00:25:34.080 like you did it in the church or something i don't know we don't do that okay are you married are you
00:25:39.360 married yes i have a partner are you married we are yeah i mean to uh we are together yes okay so so no
00:25:48.880 no no to what the western sign legal documents that count well i don't know no no i don't have
00:25:54.720 islamically married yeah okay so okay so you are yeah yeah we yeah we we go together real bad okay okay
00:26:06.320 okay cool so your parents raised you to do that one of the one of my purposes yes okay what about you
00:26:12.640 last ik uh i think i already said it weed weed was that you on a date you went on a date with someone
00:26:18.720 and she was yeah like i i rocked up at her house to pick her up and like the door opened and it was
00:26:25.120 just weed central weed central it was Amsterdam i'm like all right dinner cool see you next time like
00:26:32.960 i'll still i'll still take i'll still be a gentleman take her out for dinner and get to know her a little
00:26:35.520 bit but it was just like that that was just in the back of my head the whole time much of a big
00:26:39.280 ick if you still took her out well i didn't see her again i was also hungry and wanted to eat
00:26:49.040 i'm on my way you know i booked the table for two i don't want to sit like a dickhead
00:26:55.440 can i ask you why why the weed is an ick i've just been around enough women when i was living in
00:27:02.000 california and it just irritates the hell out of me like women who are high are the most annoying
00:27:07.040 women on the planet really i cannot stand it okay yeah and it's and like they're always they're always
00:27:14.720 messy their apartment is always a complete pigsty like everything just stinks of weed all the time
00:27:22.720 they think they're spiritual the biggest problem with with a chick who smokes weed is like they
00:27:38.080 they get so dependent yes yes if you date a girl who's like smokes weed because i did in the past
00:27:45.280 i've been a girl for like maybe maybe it lasted like two weeks she was like a big weed smoker she
00:27:51.040 couldn't go anywhere without a joint or a bomb like if she if she was without it for like half a
00:27:57.760 day she'll start bugging out man they go nuts like they become hyper irritable like super paranoid and
00:28:04.320 annoying it's just like calm down woman like it's not for me god you have you have a problem you're
00:28:09.520 addicted to this thing and you don't even admit it yeah yeah they'll never admit that they're they're
00:28:13.920 hooked on it they'll never indulged so is it codependency yeah someone that has a codependency
00:28:18.800 or marijuana yeah or anything so what if it's yeah what if it's another form of advice yeah i mean
00:28:24.560 any other form i'm not if she does just any of the hardcore drugs i mean like some people if they
00:28:30.480 don't have coffee they might start doing exactly what you maybe i mean i've never i've never met
00:28:34.400 someone who sits there and chain chain drinks what about you biggest ick
00:28:47.520 uh biggest ick i think is like political views and like values like if they're a liberal just don't even
00:28:56.480 come as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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