JustPearlyThings - Men's Biggest Frustration in the Dating Market Today

00:00:00.000 what are you guys's biggest frustrations in the dating market i would say how common degeneracy

00:00:08.800 is in a cultural setting you know like i was saying vaping is so normal clubbing i hate vaping

00:00:16.560 for me that's the the biggest red flag that's one thing i see and there's there's nothing

00:00:21.600 more to talk about but yeah vaping uh clubbing just these type of behaviors that are so normalized but

00:00:28.720 uh unfortunately i i don't see them as conducive to high quality relationships romantic or otherwise

00:00:36.400 what about you guys um for me yeah going out all the time partying drugs um at surgery like i'm

00:00:46.160 yeah i'm not really good on yeah i'm not on any of that at all i'm so far from me from

00:00:50.960 that kind of lifestyle now so yeah what about you someone with no morals no drive yeah no ambition

00:00:59.280 just wants to do party and don't want to go festivals and do this but the other doesn't think about like

00:01:04.960 their future there's a fly by night i would say well and it's a really selfish point of view too

00:01:10.960 because it's like you're going into a situation where guys are trying to sleep with you constantly

00:01:15.600 so it kind of shows you don't think about anyone else but yourself especially if you're doing that

00:01:19.600 like in a relationship pleasure seeking yeah and like that's the thing about the culture and

00:01:24.880 especially like women today i just think we've been so coddled by like simps that nobody ever tells

00:01:29.680 us the truth about anything and that we've just been developed into like these me me me archetypes

00:01:35.760 where it's like we really just don't think about anyone else i do what i want what makes me happy what i

00:01:40.720 feel like that's one of the biggest things what i feel like i don't want to lose myself oh my and it's like

00:01:45.040 you're supposed to lose parts of yourself in a relationship like you're not supposed to move

00:01:49.520 the same at 22 as at 32. but the men know this like the men will do some wild in their like

00:01:55.840 teens and they'll be like i had to grow up but it's like it's so weird because you'll see grown women 0.97

00:02:00.880 acting the same way they did when they were like 21. like even when you're saying aunties like what are

00:02:05.920 aunties doing in the club go home go to your husband you're not supposed to be here like you're 1.00

00:02:12.800 supposed to have left 10 years ago do we want clubs for people over 40. no like those sound kind

00:02:20.080 of like the cool aunties right yeah yeah my aunties uh yeah around to be in between 35 to 40. i mean 1.00

00:02:30.480 what are they doing at 35 to 40. you should have been married like like 10 years but they are married 0.89

00:02:35.920 yeah i know maybe still still living the the younger life a little bit yeah but that's that's the point

00:02:41.680 they're still moving so what age do you think is the age that you should stop part like you should

00:02:46.560 forget that life like forget partying like you know in a hole i'm the wrong person to ask because

00:02:52.560 i would say past teenage years how old are you by the way how old are you how old are you i'm 25.

00:02:58.240 i was still when i was 25 i still partying all the time but now i'm 35 i don't really like going

00:03:03.440 to party anymore i don't think you put an age on it yeah it's doesn't i just think it's well

00:03:07.440 what i think i think my cutoff when you become a mom yeah yeah yeah i think i think that should be

00:03:14.640 cut off number one it's time to not live like a teenager when you become a mom i don't think it's

00:03:21.600 so much about you not going out full stop neither it's not about not having a social life which is

00:03:25.280 about just knowing the boundaries at the end of the day like you still got

00:03:28.320 go out have a good time but it can't be every every other day every weekend that's just too much

00:03:35.200 especially if you're in a in a committed relationship with with child well there's a difference between

00:03:41.440 like going out to dinner with your like girlfriend so like going to a club where everyone's twerking

00:03:47.360 and like yeah i was just about to say that the structure of the socializing really matters like

00:03:52.160 yeah dinner versus like a degenerate uh nightclub environment i mean i just think like if you look

00:03:59.360 at the trends for like it's really interesting like when i get to see stuff in real life because

00:04:04.080 if you look at the trends for like divorce and like the lack of people getting married and the increase in

00:04:09.280 divorce it really just kind of lines up with the generation of women our grandmothers didn't do this 0.93

00:04:13.920 shit it really started with like our moms maybe a young grandma but like mostly the mothers they 0.97

00:04:20.960 really didn't teach us anything about being a wife like to me to me it's like it's crazy how many girls 1.00

00:04:25.840 come on the show and like don't realize they have to stop going out when they get married

00:04:30.000 the reality is it's not so much about the fun aspect yeah everyone needs to be able to have fun

00:04:35.360 at whatever age but it's funny how when we say people should stop going to club at a certain age

00:04:39.840 people automatically think towards the fun it's more about the fact that going to a club is a high

00:04:44.560 risk activity the older you get you should become smarter you should you should stop putting yourselves

00:04:49.200 in situations where you could get killed where you could get robbed like the club is literally

00:04:54.880 a place where you can't defend yourself if things go wrong like why would you intentionally put

00:05:01.200 yourself in that position and then add alcohol into the mix where you are you are now inhibited you

00:05:06.480 can't make right decisions like that's crazy for an adult who has lived life and seen experiences unless

00:05:12.240 you're just coasting through life and not caring about your future i think like these are these are

00:05:16.720 things that should be left to like your younger years at the end of the day um i'm gonna read super chat um

00:05:24.720 guys make sure you like the video um also subscribe to the channel okay dr david baker if women said i

00:05:32.560 just want to be a wife and a mother i'd view it as a green flag if she was otherwise an attractive 1.00

00:05:37.520 caring woman but my head would immediately explode with figuring out the economics of pulling it off 1.00

00:05:42.880 vain match or let me translate modern womanese masculine resolute unflinching moral man equals a

00:05:50.720 narcissist okay and then let me refresh it really quick

00:05:58.560 um okay i think we're going to close out the show so um we're going to do final thoughts and

00:06:05.520 then you guys can plug any social media you have so starting here and then go around

00:06:09.600 final thoughts what's the first time i've ever done something like this it's quite exciting yeah

00:06:15.440 it's on the show we're good oh thank you i'll definitely do it again okay um it's nice to be

00:06:23.040 able to actually dip and dive into conversations that would probably be a bit taboo in normal day-to-day

00:06:27.840 conversation and it's nice to hear everyone's so opinionated nowadays and like you said people follow

00:06:35.200 along with different opinions and it's nice to hear it from different perspectives and

00:06:43.840 and you're not wrong women do lie about everything new enough but we try and hide it we try our best 1.00

00:06:47.600 to hide it we lie to ourselves oh yeah we do try and justify things but it doesn't make it any better

00:06:53.680 but um yeah and if anyone wants to follow me my at for instagram is hannah easton h-a-n-n-a-h-e-a-s-t-o-m

00:07:01.200 so yeah thank you yeah it's the same what hannah said really it's nice to hear different

00:07:08.320 aspects of like i just feel like my mindset i may maybe i still might have a young mentality

00:07:15.840 so it's nice to hear older mentality and the older mindset and a more mature mindset um on how

00:07:22.880 you view relationships and what the do's and don'ts in marriage um yeah oh and my instagrams tia.t

00:07:35.360 i would say final thoughts i think it's a good thing that we're challenging a little bit the

00:07:41.200 the mainstream beliefs the mainstream culture because if it's not done on a platform like this

00:07:46.800 uh it's uh it's shy in in daily society so it needs to have some discourse some challenge to

00:07:55.280 really kind of figure out what is the correct way to go about things especially as a society on a

00:08:00.560 societal level i think the way we're going is clearly not working 100 so things important

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00:09:34.000 my instagram plugin is 29 matthews on instagram yeah i think this has been very insightful and i think

00:09:41.120 more opportunities need to be met like this whereby it's such a great platform really giving good cadence

00:09:46.640 to to real topics and real conversations um today's been again really insightful and just trying to

00:09:52.160 get that the level playing field uh like mindset of male and female like out there so yeah i think

00:09:59.840 it's been great and i appreciate you also um i'm sorry social media um frosted us inc on instagram and

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JustPearlyThings - July 21, 2023

Men's Biggest Frustration in the Dating Market Today

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