Men's Poker Face (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily
Episode Stats
Length
2 hours and 19 minutes
Words per Minute
161.30061
Hate Speech Sentences
153
Summary
In this episode, we talk about dating in your 20's and 30's, and how to deal with your ex's texts on a date. We also talk about how women should be prepared for a first date, and what to look out for in a potential partner.
Transcript
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Okay, so we got one girl that was reading her ex-boyfriend's texts on a date.
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Let me try this one and see if it's any better.
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I can count on one hand how many men I've slept with.
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Oh, I don't care that you have friends that are girls.
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I spend a lot of time complaining about how bad it is dating as a girl in New York.
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But I've got to say, ladies, my guy friend just called me and told me about his date last night.
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And then she actually had him read her messages with her ex and analyze what he's saying.
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And then my friend was like, hey, I just want to, you know, it seems like you might still be into your ex.
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Like, I just want to kind of like pulse check there because I'm looking for something serious, whatever.
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I spent a lot of time complaining about how bad it is dating.
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I can't believe, you know, some people, I got to respect them because they just have the audacity.
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Like, it's kind of like the guy that cheats in front of his girlfriend.
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Like, you've seen those, like, TikToks at a bar.
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It's definitely wrong, but you're kind of like, wow, you really had the audacity.
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Women tell men he's competing for her on the first date.
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I'm on a date and he's never going to see me again.
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But he asked me a question that kind of made me go.
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He jokingly was like, oh, so who are these other guys that I'm in competition with?
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You're competing against me because, listen, I'm f***ing great.
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But what is going to make you special enough for me to want to share my life with?
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I think this man was like a gasp because he was just like, I was being dead serious.
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You guys have to remember, you're f***ing great.
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And I think the longer I'm single, which I think is like coming on three, oh God, it's
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I, there's something else that like, I love more than myself.
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Like, if you are not coming in prepared and sure of yourself, then you're not game.
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So that's, can you imagine she's saying this on a date?
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The next we got this, this guy here or this girl too.
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I went on my first hinge date and I thought it went fine.
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But two days later, he texts me and goes, I don't think we're quite the right match.
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So in the month since it has been haunting me and ultimately I decided that I'm the problem.
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And I probably shouldn't have said a few things on the date.
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Okay, so first, people who post on LinkedIn are losers.
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I kept talking about how I want to go to a hockey game and see a fight on the ice.
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I also kept talking about how I got super into fantasy football this year.
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And then he asked me like what I do outside of work, like what my hobbies are.
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And I was like, well, fantasy football is over, so I don't do that anymore.
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And like literally the very next day, I was playing in a pickleball tournament.
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Oh, I told him that it took me six and a half years to finish college, which I think that's like a third date thing.
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Like I should probably hold off on telling people that.
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I don't know why we just lead with like the worst stuff.
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Oh, I said, even if I was blackout drunk, I don't think I could get up in front of people and sing karaoke.
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Which, yeah, never in the past have I done that.
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Okay, so ultimately I decided I need to like pretend a little on the first date.
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Like I was just trying to fill up silence with jokes that I've already made in the past.
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He says, when she casually says something that confirms she won't be my wife.
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Because the thing, we like talk and then the men just compartmentalize us.
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She casually confirms that she is not wifey material.
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All right, when she says something that makes me completely snap back
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into reality and realize I've just romanticized the idea of another
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And then she say something that just proves that she can never be yours.
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I feel like that's more heartbreaking to getting cheated on again.
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Because now I got to self-sabotage and move different.
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Because if I tell you what you said, you ain't going to do nothing but gasp like me
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So now I got to self-sabotage and start being different and moving funny.
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So you get the hint that I don't want you no more.
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She says something that confirms she'll never be your wife.
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If she's constantly telling you about random guys hitting on her
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and you're the kind of guy that gets crazy jealous and overreacts,
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Is your girlfriend presenting to this person that they are open and available to be with?
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Of course, there are people out there that no matter what,
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If your partner were to come home from a club and they tell you,
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oh, I had these people flirting with me all night long,
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If the response is yes, the follow-up question to that is,
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If the word sorry is in that sentence, they want it to happen.
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If you are happily in a relationship, you should never feel sorry for turning somebody away.
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And I'm going to look on the website if you guys have any,
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which by the way, guys, on the Audacity Network,
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next week we're going to talk about mental models.
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Doug M. Pierre, moderator, has some really good mental models for life.
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Maybe when he comes up, he can give a little sneak peek into next week.
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But on the website, we have smart, intelligent, often non-famous,
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but sometimes famous men giving presentations and we film extra content.
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This weekend, behind the paywall, we're going to have a special guest
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Doug M. Pierre is doing a presentation next week.
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You can ask him questions on the mental models.
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And I have to figure out, next week I have to figure out,
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So let me, I'll keep you guys posted, but there is no show tomorrow night
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I've heard men say that they need to not shame women
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So it's like, you might feel disgust, but you should have a poker face.
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So that way after the marriage and kids, you don't find out.
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It's better to find out before the marriage and kids.
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Tell me, what is the craziest thing you've had to hear
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when a woman say on a date, in a relationship, et cetera,
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Well, so I'm, let me keep things general first.
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When you get past, when you start dating women in their 30s,
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they are not afraid to tell you how much men suck on the first date.
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They will go on for 30, 45 minutes about how there's piss in the dating pool,
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men are trash, and they just expect you to sit there and just take it.
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Do they start with that, or like where in the date do they bring it up?
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and then I'll get up, and then I'll pay for my drink,
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or I'll pay for my part of the bill, and I'll leave,
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Yeah, and it's usually women, by the time they hit 35.
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I'm not here to tell you who you can and can't date.
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Mine would be I've sat and listened to a woman talk about her toxic ex,
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She had to move to a different part of the DMV,
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and then she couldn't give out her real phone number.
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and she couldn't leave the area because of her job,
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but she had to stay incognito just in case he found her again.
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She literally outlined the entire quote-unquote toxic relationship
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but I like those crime shows like American Greed
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I was like, I kind of want to see how this whole thing plays out.
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and the sad part about it is she had a law degree.
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She had an Ivy League undergrad and an Ivy League law degree,
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and she's messing with this pookie who was literally terrorizing her.
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He worked a blue-collar job, and he had a whole lot of time,
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and he's because women that are lawyers are a lot of professional women.
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He moved in with her, and then just started terrorizing her.
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And she's talking about it, and one of the best things about you, Pearl,
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is you always ask questions that kind of make the story fall apart.
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Because remember, guys, a lot of women tell the female-friendly version of the story.
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And what is the female-friendly version of the story, Pearl?
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The female-friendly version of the story is they're the heroes and the victims in the story at the same time.
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I thought you meant, like, there was a detail she was missing.
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Like, if he was asking all of them, like, maybe she was cheating?
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Well, so, but yeah, so she's telling me about all this quote-unquote abuse,
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but she stayed with them and lived with them for, like, two years.
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Do you think it was over-exaggerated, or do you think she was telling the truth?
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Well, if she was over-exaggerating, I was glad, because I told you I was totally caught up in the story.
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And did she call you back after, or did she just want a therapist for the night?
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They're just like, I guess this is my role here.
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I think that there was a genuine initial attraction, but she's so wrapped up in that whole thing and that whole story.
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A lot of people, if you want to listen to their story, they will tell it to you.
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And I showed eagerness to listen and to hear the whole thing.
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And the thing about it is, modern women, stuff like this, all this emotional abuse and stuff like that happens to the women from the bottom all the way to the top.
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The poor women, the educated women, the rich women, all of them like toxic men.
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Is the Zoom in the, I don't see it in the YouTube chat.
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Yeah, it hasn't been posted in the YouTube chat yet.
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I want to take this time to thank everyone that's been in the Audacity chat.
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Omni Man, Rocky Lemon, Dustin, our resident Chad, is in the Audacity chat.
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You guys really got me through the demonetization.
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And then I'll take the time to thank all the regulars in the YouTube chat.
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So make sure to share the videos, like the videos.
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I'm trying to think of what other stories men have told me.
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He went out with this girl in the first couple of dates.
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But then, uh, she wanted him to meet up with her friends.
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And she was completely different with her friends.
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And she was literally talking down to him in front of all of her, her friends, literally
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That was the first time anyone I knew paid for their drink and their food and just left.
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What did she say to him that made him like, what was the final straw?
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Uh, she, uh, well, it was just the constant small jabs of misandry that women expect men
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Oh, so, you know, if you keep talking like that, you're not going to get any tonight.
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Or you, you honestly think that you can do this, you know, just all those little misandry
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Like when in situations like that, you don't owe women an explanation.
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Cause we want to hear your best first date with poker face.
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What have women said on a first date where, or, or do you have any topics where if a woman brings it up, you just can't stand it.
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And you have to say something because for me, Miss Angie is one of them.
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If a woman just starts man hating, I can't take it.
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So have you ever seen any of your friends just put a guy through hell on a first date, bro?
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I've never really been there when women I've, Oh God.
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I've seen married women just henpeck the hell out of their husbands.
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It was so bad, but I haven't, I haven't seen it on a first date, but like this one woman, I know she kept like mentioning in front of me that she made more than her husband.
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And I'm just like sitting there and I'm like, why do you keep, and like, she just kept like in front of like almost using me to get back at her husband in a passive aggressive way, like calling him messy.
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And I'm like, I'm like sitting there and I really like her husband's very nice.
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Like I really like him as a guy and I'm like, why are you doing this to him?
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And I was just like, and I'm just sitting there cause I'm in her house, you know?
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So I'm like, and she said something to me after and I'm like, do you really want my opinion?
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Like she asked, she's like, cause then she was trying to pretend that he was the one doing something.
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And I looked at her and I'm like, do you really want my opinion on this?
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So I'll never understand the pathology behind women humiliating their husbands.
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Their husband is supposed to be their number one ally and number one cheerleader.
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And they treat that person like absolute garbage.
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I don't understand how that happened or why women think that's okay.
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And so like when they, women, it's like, they like the idea of a husband, but they don't like the reality of it.
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And so when they have to like deal with the day to day annoyances that the genders have with each other, right?
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Cause there's things that annoy you guys about us.
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And there's stuff that about you guys that annoys us.
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Like our, you know, um, the stress or like, you like, we just like, we, we just don't do a good job with like discomfort, I guess.
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It's also okay for wives to just say horrible things.
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I told you, um, Michelle Obama literally said that she hated Barack Obama for the first 10 years of their marriage.
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And also the, there's an article I saw the other day that said, uh, after you have your first child, you will hate your husband.
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Do you see the people in the waiting room or no?
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Guys, I know you guys have poker face stories, stories of crazy things women have said to you and you had to keep a straight face.
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The zoom links in the description or in the, um, pinned in the chat.
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And, and then another thing that gets me in trouble is I don't really like small talk.
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You know, I don't like talking about pop culture.
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So I'll try to have a serious conversation with some women and it could go south, especially with what I'm interested in.
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You know, you, you, you, you kind of do the feelers with some, some slight red toe topics.
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You know, I'll bring up like Kevin Samuels and a lot of women like, oh my, if they've heard of him.
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The last single mother I dated was a flight attendant.
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But, um, I brought up Kevin Samuels and I said, I said, I told her, I was like, I don't know what it would look like.
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And she's like, so I told her, I listened to Kevin Samuels and she's like, I think that guy is trying to brainwash you away from me because I'm a single mother.
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He just told me everything that I needed to know.
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What is the what is the the worst thing that you've ever had to endure talking to a woman to on a first date to get laid?
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Like, what's the what's the weirdest or strangest conversation you've had with a woman on a first date?
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Or even in a relationship, just crazy things that like a woman has said and you've had to keep a straight face.
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I clicked on your link because I didn't expect you guys to accept me.
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I want to get out of here so I don't ruin your show.
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I mean, you know, do you have any do you have anything in general that you wanted to ask Pearl?
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Yeah, no, I mean, you know, I was donating to your show back in the day when you're in London and stuff.
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Are you ever going to go back to those panel shows?
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It seems like you're sick of them, but I do find them more entertaining.
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I would do more like Collins, but in studio, probably not more than maybe like one on one debates.
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But the full panels, I can't do them and have a life.
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Yeah, at the time, it was really affecting Pearl's health.
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But Pearl and I, we've known each other for almost four years now, and we'd have conversations.
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It's just not good for my health, putting up with all the 304s in her apartment.
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So I don't know how people like Myron and these people that do these panel shows,
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I don't know how they've been doing it for so many years, man.
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I'm sure, you know, Kevin Samuels kind of used that to his advantage, too.
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Women disrespect their husbands when they feel they had to settle on him and didn't get the man they wanted.
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Yeah, so like poker face stories, anytime a girl starts off talking about how she likes to travel, guys are intimidated by me, or I'm not like other girls.
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I'm just like, I wish I could hit fast forward through that conversation.
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Is there ever anything a girl has said that you couldn't keep the poker face?
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So it's like whenever women are like 30 and going to cosmetology school, I'm like, just stop.
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Get your ass in the gym and learn how to cook, dude.
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I was like, do not go to cosmetology school at 30.
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I can second that for a massage therapy school.
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Hey, man, I only want one kind of massage, and you don't need much learning about that one.
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Are there any things, Jason, that you've had with a woman on a date, and you sat through it, and it was worth it, because you ended up getting laid later?
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I picked a lady up, and she was a good-looking woman.
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And on the car ride to dinner, she was telling me how two months ago she met some guy online, and she thought that he got her pregnant.
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So she was telling me the whole conversation, like how she was trying to hit him up and say, I think I'm pregnant and all this stuff, and this homie ghosted her.
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It was a good night, but that was a really rough one, like, to even think about sleeping with her after that.
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But, yeah, that was maybe not the best decision I ever made.
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Dustin talks about his bad decisions on the show, and he owns it.
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Whenever a girl says, I needed to travel to find myself, you should always...
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I always like to ask them, have you been there before?
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I say, well, whenever I lose something, I always go somewhere I've been.
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So when do you ever have to go somewhere you've never been to find something you always had?
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When a woman says that she's going somewhere to find herself, wherever she's going, she's getting her back blown out.
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In fact, one of Pearl's reactions is that she reacted to that woman who went to Europe, and didn't she catch, like, 22 bodies in, like, 10 days?
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She was in the airport, and she was like, oh, I think I might get one more on the way home.
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Actually, do you even think that women know what they want when they travel?
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Because, like, I flew a girl to New York City once when I was living on the East Coast.
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She was supposed to stay with me for a week, and I bought her a plane ticket home four days early.
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And I took her to New York City, and I had planned, like, Madame Tussauds, Planet Hollywood, and a couple other activities.
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And then afterwards, I was like, is there anything you want to do while we're here?
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And you didn't think of a single thing you wanted to do while you are in the city with me.
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And so I was kind of like, when women say they like traveling or they want to go places, do they even know?
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No, it just means drink in that city and let a guy entertain me.
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Yeah, because, like, women don't, yeah, women don't, like, because when I was a kid, we, like, when we road tripped, we really road tripped.
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And my mom planned the whole thing from, like, it would be like we're going to this national park.
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We're hiking this, we're bright water rafting here, we're doing this, we're doing that.
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They just want to drink at a bar in the city and flirt with whatever type they're going for in that city.
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If it's the British men, if it's the Spanish men, if it's the Dubai, the rich men, it's whatever they're trying to get.
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You guys know that 80% of solo travelers out of the United States are women.
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They're saying, I don't feel safe, but I'll travel to some third world country by myself, but I don't feel safe.
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So, modern women have traded, so, like, my mother's generation and then the generation after that were really obsessed with material things.
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Modern women, they spend, they still buy material things, but they spend so much money on travel, man.
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And the worst part about it is, I talk about student loans a lot on my channel, guys.
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And if you saw the new administration is going to start garnishing people's wages starting May 5th for student loans.
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So, a lot of these, they're going to start to take people's tax returns.
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Anyway, and so, women will stare down $150,000 worth of student loan debt.
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They'll just forget all about it and try to live their best lives.
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I remember when I was in college, all the girls would be like, oh, I took out student loans to, like, go shopping.
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I don't know what the obsession is with traveling.
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Because if you want an easy life, you would be like, traveling is probably the last thing you want to do.
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You want to make sure, like, when you're home, you're comfortable.
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And then you're like, oh, maybe I'll go abroad.
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If you really wanted to passport bro as a guy, like, how are you going to do that?
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You're going to build a connection with a girl to the point you trust her to bring her back or to have a kid there.
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Like, yeah, like, how would you like, how would you even it's tough enough in, like, a distance relationship in the same country, like out of the country?
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And then, and then if you bring one home, she's going to be around American women or the worst thing you can do if you bring a woman to the United States is have her go to college.
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And once she started hanging out with the city girls, I was like, my relationship was over.
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Like, it was, you know, she's like, she's from Angola.
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I know she doesn't just, like, talk a certain way.
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And then she starts saying, like, oh, this young bull is over here.
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And we would go up to Philadelphia, like, King of Prussia.
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And we, we throw the most hood, like, little, these silly parties in the city where, like, I was just, the women are just crazy.
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If men didn't have them, women would be even more single than they are now.
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I don't think a lot of women have any idea how offensive the things that we say are.
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I was talking to this, when I was working at Dairy Queen, and I was the king of dairy.
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And this girl, she was married, but she was 17, because it's like Ukrainian church type thing.
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So I went over to her place, and things were going good.
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And she was like, well, you're just, you're only 5'7".
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She invited me to her house, and then she kicked me out.
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Not because of the husband, but because of the 5'7".
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She was like, I don't know what I'm doing with you.
00:41:30.760
And I was like, dude, I don't know either, man.
00:41:33.800
She's like, if I'm going to cheat, he's got to be 5'10".
00:41:59.900
But yeah, I would go over and watch The Bachelor with her.
00:42:04.200
Don't watch The Bachelor with Mary Gwynn, if you want to get laid.
00:42:09.580
How many episodes did you watch with this woman?
00:42:12.100
She's watching those 6'5 chads on The Bachelor.
00:42:20.360
Then she thinks she could get the guys on TV cooked.
00:42:23.820
She probably kicked me out so she could use her vibrator.
00:42:28.600
We'll be sitting through The Bachelor with a woman.
00:42:46.600
I never thought about what I was doing back then.
00:43:54.400
You're always going to wonder what if, if you don't try to shoot your shot.
00:44:05.260
Hey, that's, I was in a Latino fraternity back in college.
00:44:09.620
And I tell you, women from the homeland, they were never, never too skinny.
00:44:18.000
So the only way to work as a passport bro is to work remotely or have some passive income
00:44:24.560
and then stay in another country to raise your kids with her.
00:44:28.960
I mean, like, I just don't think it's a feasible option for like most men, you know, a good
00:44:38.800
Like, cause most guys just don't work from their laptop.
00:45:15.260
Well, it's, it's tough because it's like, like, like, you know, sex always has the same
00:45:27.380
Like, uh, like if something crazy would happen where that, you know, it just always ends
00:45:36.840
You know, it's like the juice is never worth this squeeze.
00:45:40.860
If you're just doing like a one night stand, why would I pay 900 for that?
00:45:46.640
I was like, I'd, I'd rather just, I'd even shag a fat chick before I go spend 900 to get
00:46:04.160
I mean, unless it's like a three day thing, but I'm not Croatia.
00:46:17.180
Is anyone else in the chat with the, um, stories?
00:46:28.900
I thought that people, especially with as many people that were calling in yesterday,
00:46:33.700
we actually left some extra room for, for people to call in on the show.
00:46:39.600
I mean, what guy who's gone on a decent amount of dates hasn't sat there and just watched some
00:46:51.760
Overpriced food, overpriced drinks, you know, at, at fricking cheese shake factory, you know,
00:47:00.020
sitting there listening to some girl drone over.
00:47:11.840
Um, like when, so when you have your poker face on, do you ever try to get her to stop
00:47:24.020
Like, do you ever, like, is she ever maybe if she would just get off of this topic, you're
00:47:31.000
Or as soon as she starts going and you have to put on a poker face, are you done?
00:47:38.540
I always give five minutes to see where she's going with it.
00:47:41.980
Cause there are some initial ones you're like, okay, okay.
00:47:45.660
But you know, you know how a book has to catch your, your, your attention in the first like
00:47:50.300
15, 20 pages, or like a movie has to catch your attention in the first like 10, 15 minutes.
00:47:58.020
If she's in catch my attention in the first five minutes, I'm just like, nah, I can't.
00:48:04.580
What do you think about women that talk about their animals?
00:48:11.980
You have to let women talk about their dogs a little bit.
00:48:22.040
Uh, I mean, I'm admitting that your iPhone, who, who am I speaking to?
00:48:38.180
Well, I guess, yeah, I hope, I hope this, this, I want to hear this guy's story.
00:48:42.500
Hopefully you think he, is he going to connect?
00:48:47.900
Are there any green flag topics on a first date where you're like, yes.
00:48:55.640
I mean, if they talk about, uh, if they're, if they're a fan of certain sports, but they
00:49:04.860
haven't, if they're a fan of certain sports, but didn't play sports a lot, but they're just
00:49:12.220
Uh, if they could talk about, uh, that they're a fan of, of got, if they could talk about
00:49:18.620
that, they're a fan of things that guys are a fan of, that's a green flag.
00:49:25.300
Um, if they talk about where they want to go, but they haven't been a lot of places, that's
00:49:33.560
The, the girl I've been seeing always tells me, she would tell me how she cooks so much,
00:49:41.340
but she was telling me about her dog this morning.
00:49:44.520
So, and I was like, what is, I just don't know why, like, why, why would a single woman
00:49:50.600
in her thirties go buy a dog from, like, go rescue a dog?
00:49:55.340
You know, like, I'm going to go, I have problems.
00:50:01.880
Remember, women have this nurturing spirit and they'll fill it with a dog.
00:50:06.980
Women used to have kids with Beckland day, but they'll fill it with a dog.
00:50:11.660
And the worst part about it is, Kevin Samuel said this, if you're a single woman and you
00:50:26.280
If a woman fosters kids, like out of the kindness of her heart, red flag, why wouldn't that be
00:50:39.200
If you get serious with her to take care of a kid, that's not even yours.
00:50:47.780
If you adopt a child or foster a child, they're your responsibility.
00:50:53.920
Oh, I thought foster was like where they're, I thought foster was like they're there.
00:50:58.480
Like I thought it was like when they have the adoption paperwork, like they get the baby
00:51:03.720
for like a month until the real family gets it.
00:51:08.160
I've seen foster kids with a family for years and years and years.
00:51:11.280
Most foster kids, they'll, they'll find a family and they'll stay.
00:51:15.460
If a woman, I think the, I mean, fostering is noble, but still like if a woman has a child
00:51:24.500
in her thirties or foster, any, any way that a woman has a child by herself in her thirties
00:51:32.360
and forties, she has resigned to being alone for the rest of her life.
00:51:44.460
I went on a date with a chick that fostered kids, but she was in Portland, so she wasn't
00:51:50.020
fostering like normal kids, you know, just fostering kids that had plenty of issues.
00:51:56.160
And, uh, she loved telling me about how she thinks she's helping them.
00:51:59.880
And I was like, dude, she's a one dinner kind of woman.
00:52:05.820
Guys, send, um, click the link in the description and tell me your poker face stories.
00:52:11.800
So this is stories for the people that just tuned in.
00:52:15.180
These are stories where women have said crazy stuff and you've had to keep a poker face.
00:52:21.700
I'm going to get rid of iPhone here since they're not talking.
00:52:25.420
So I guess, uh, I'll give people a preview of my, um,
00:52:37.980
So, um, if you guys don't know, you know, I'm, I'm Doug MPA.
00:52:44.740
I have a, the MPA comes from, I have a bachelor's and a master's screen policy.
00:52:48.420
I have my own channel and I've been supporting Pearl since the very beginning.
00:52:54.060
I became a mod on her channel right around when she had about, I think about 15,000 subs.
00:52:59.820
And we've talked a lot, uh, outside of YouTube the last couple of years.
00:53:05.280
And, uh, you know, I was able to share a couple of my thought processes and mental models with her.
00:53:12.620
And so, um, one of them is, and I said this on multiple sheets before I say it here, guys, every so often you got to put a T chart on a piece of paper and you got to put my problem and not my problem, put my problem on one side and not my problem on the other side.
00:53:34.180
And take all the issues in your life and put what is your problem and what's not your problem because people, especially modern women want to make their problems.
00:53:45.300
Your problem guys, don't deal with problems that are not your problem.
00:53:51.820
A lot of guys, we are benevolent and we're givers men accumulate resources and money for the sake of others.
00:54:00.760
You know, wives, children, community, family, you know, and men that are givers, women try to take advantage of us either overtly or, uh, or subvertly by making their problems, your problems, single mothers, you know, the, they, the leads off the system.
00:54:26.160
They're trying to say a real man will take on another man's kids.
00:54:29.900
So they're trying to make their problems, your problem guys, always be aware of what's your problem and what is not your problem.
00:54:40.460
So I'm going to go over more of these next week.
00:54:48.660
That's why I convinced Doug MPA to do a show on them because I'd never heard anyone have like mental models like this.
00:55:07.920
I didn't have a little difficulty with my phone.
00:55:11.420
Um, so the question is, what is the craziest thing you've heard a woman say where you had to keep a poker face?
00:55:30.840
Oh, well, honestly, when they start talking about their, uh, ex exes and how bad they are, it's like, to me, it's a no brainer to get out of there real fast.
00:55:49.860
They're, they're, they're trying to like make a narrative on their own to make themselves look like they're in the right.
00:55:59.000
They're, uh, he doesn't pay attention to me or he doesn't do anything for the kids.
00:56:02.920
He's, uh, you know, out of shape or just everything that you can make the guy look like he's the worst person ever.
00:56:10.220
Instead of like trying to fix what they had, they go and think he's going to jump out of this situation and go find somebody else in the world at a different time in their life where everything is like a lot less, you know, from back when they started dating.
00:56:25.420
When they dated in the beginning, they're all over each other.
00:56:30.860
Then they all of a sudden get amnesia that you're part of the family.
00:56:40.020
And then, then when you're sitting there, they get mad at you for everything.
00:56:48.180
So my advice to anybody is if you're dating somebody, look at the parents.
00:56:52.580
If they're toxic, the father's teaching the son how to treat women and the mother's trying to teach the daughter how to treat men.
00:57:00.000
If the mother's always badgering the father or vice versa, get out of there.
00:57:04.900
Because if they're not on the same page and they embarrass each other in front of other people, that's what you're dating.
00:57:10.640
And then when your girl or guy is in a bad situation, they're going to stick up for their kid and they're going to team up on you.
00:57:16.300
So I would assume with you, Ron, that if you're, if you're dating a woman and she finds out that she didn't have a dad or she came from a single mother home, that's an automatic red flag for you.
00:57:29.320
Listen, I know there's mothers out there that raise their kids and have no help or power to them.
00:57:34.760
But nowadays, all I see is a lot of fathers that want to be a part of their kids' lives, but have to be told that you should fight for them.
00:57:48.240
Shouldn't it just be like their right to be a father?
00:57:50.360
And then honestly, it's just the court system is all like in the backwards from 1950s.
00:57:56.040
They're going to really like update this thing.
00:57:57.340
So they want equal rights, but they want, they want to take the money out of the father's paycheck with nothing from their side.
00:58:08.880
The woman who's creating the fight is telling the father to fight for his children.
00:58:23.000
They get people to trip in their ears like it's going to be some fantastic world when they get out of here.
00:58:26.540
And then when they get out there, they're like, wow, the amount of people that are out there that are divorced themselves or, or able to be like, you know, dating material, a very small portion of them are nice people.
00:58:45.960
And then it's on like, everything's on like recycle.
00:58:51.120
Next thing you know, you, Oh, you finished with her?
00:59:08.400
They put their lips so much with the injection.
00:59:13.880
And then their stomach's touching their back from Ozempic.
00:59:18.420
Once, once they have a generic Ozempic on the market, it's done.
00:59:23.340
And the poor people that have diabetes can't get it.
00:59:34.160
It might, I mean, it might give them side effects, but so does being obese.
00:59:39.040
So I might as well have something nice to look at.
00:59:41.640
Well, the side effect is, you know, you might have a guy look at you still.
00:59:46.120
I'm like, I don't, I don't know if I think it's a bad thing.
00:59:50.640
Like, well, I'm always wondering, oh, I'm sorry.
00:59:59.460
So you have people losing weight without doing work, but there's going to be some kind of
01:00:11.240
So odds are there's going to be some kind of long-term damage.
01:00:16.260
Or you have a bunch of undisciplined people, skinny.
01:00:30.200
No, it is, but it's going to come due, like, anyways.
01:00:33.440
So I might as well get to see them thin until the side effects.
01:00:39.040
To get the people from being fat to, like, being a skeleton.
01:00:43.840
I mean, I'd rather, like, I'm just thinking about me here, not really them.
01:00:48.620
So it's like, if they're already big, and, like, the other day I was on an airplane and
01:00:56.180
this woman was spilling over, I kind of wish she took some Ozempic, you know?
01:01:01.680
And they charge you more for your two pounds over on the luggage.
01:01:05.720
And I'm like, this woman's 50 pounds over on the scale, but they don't put that in.
01:01:11.220
And so I'm like, now I'm sure they'll have side effects later.
01:01:20.360
Some people that aren't disciplined enough to do the diets and follow them, they can use
01:01:26.320
But they're taking this stuff the wrong way it's prescribed.
01:01:29.980
If the doctor's trying to take this amount, so many people are like, oh, I'll take a little
01:01:36.680
And that's where I think the problems are coming from.
01:01:42.400
Yeah, because they're supposed to do micro dosing and the doctors are only telling them
01:01:46.080
So they should really be splitting up this dosage in half.
01:01:49.240
So if they tell you to take 20 millimeters, you should be taking 10 in the beginning of
01:02:06.740
It's like if the guys go on testosterone replacement and they go see the doctor every
01:02:10.340
two weeks after they get their blood work done, they're doing it legitimately.
01:02:13.380
They get a testosterone shot at the doctor's office.
01:02:15.760
They spike up and the testosterone that the doctors are giving them lasts 14 days in your
01:02:20.420
So now by the time you get back in two weeks, you're crashing.
01:02:23.700
So instead of saying split it in half, take it half on one week, half on the next week
01:02:38.540
But we'll, we're going to, we have a couple of other callers.
01:02:54.060
I'm going to put, guys, I'm putting my big water bottle in the shot.
01:03:35.800
What is something crazy a girl has said on a date or when you were in a relationship
01:03:41.000
that was absolutely insane, but you had to keep a poker face for?
01:03:46.960
So I don't really go on much dates like that because with me, I think like relationships
01:03:52.660
are like a scam for my age group because I'm 23, but you know, when I talk to women, the
01:03:58.580
thing that kind of like makes me look at them funny is like when a woman says like, you
01:04:04.400
know, when we have a conversation about men and then she's pretty much like talking down
01:04:10.520
on like decent quality men and then, you know, her main excuse to why she dates like these
01:04:17.580
terrible men is like, oh, I don't date nice or decent men because they usually put on a mask.
01:04:25.720
And I'm like, in my head, I'm like, I mean, that's a, that's a good point because sometimes
01:04:30.660
that does happen, but I look at them funny because it's like, you rather pick this drug
01:04:35.280
dealer, this gang member, this like, you know, this guy who's definitely not going to give
01:04:40.340
you commitment over the guy that could possibly give you commitment.
01:04:43.860
So, you know, my main issue with women is like, when they talk about men, you know, the
01:04:50.520
main thing that makes me like look at them funny is just like the way they talk about,
01:04:54.200
you know, they try to like, let's say, how could I phrase this?
01:04:57.600
They pretty much uplift the terrible men and they kind of like downplay the decent quality
01:05:03.200
man. And I don't understand why it's like that. So in my age group, I'm 23. So it's
01:05:07.880
pretty common here, especially like with black women. Cause I'm a black man.
01:05:12.360
Yeah. I kind of figured you were, you're a black pro. I am too. And you, yo, man, like
01:05:18.540
you, I feel bad for you, for you YNs, man, you guys got, it's only gotten worse. I thought
01:05:25.880
that my generation was bad, but you guys got it bad, bro.
01:05:29.640
Yeah, man. And like the last girl I was messing with, right. I try to like, you know, I try
01:05:34.640
to like do something with her, but she wanted this one guy and then she didn't want like
01:05:40.780
me because she said I wasn't toxic enough or like good enough. And I'm like, and this
01:05:46.240
girl too, she wasn't like, like if you were to like talk to her, she doesn't come off
01:05:50.120
as like the type of black woman to like be in that, involved in that. But like, it's
01:05:53.520
like, even the normal type of black woman, like they're into that stuff too. And it's like,
01:05:57.620
you know, I try not to put all black women in a group, but I do. That's the, that's
01:06:02.880
the main thing I kind of see. I honestly don't blame me because I've been to like that point
01:06:08.440
where I might have to, because that's the main thing I've seen in this culture. Like
01:06:13.160
we kind of infant, infant, I don't know how to say the word, but yeah, we're going to
01:06:19.740
uplift the terrible men. And then when it, you know, the main trend, when you hit 30
01:06:25.760
years old, it's time to go to the decent man. Like when you get the decent man, like you
01:06:31.040
don't even treat them the way they want to be treated. Like they have to wait for sex
01:06:35.300
while this guy who's like, like, like I was talking about a drug dealer, no goals, gets
01:06:41.220
the sex after it. Like, well, so I'm going to give you a little bit of advice. Is that,
01:06:48.180
is that okay, bro? Yeah. You can give me something like that. Yo, so, so first off, it's not
01:06:54.320
you, bro. It's not like when, um, cause myself and my brother, you know, they, if you're worth
01:07:04.660
something as a black man, you're going to catch hell for, from, from our women. If you're
01:07:09.320
ambitious, if you're educated, if you're trying to do something with your life, you
01:07:13.340
are going to catch hell. If you treat women right, you just got to hold on until
01:07:17.500
you're, until you're 35, man. So you, you got to keep your head down. You got to
01:07:22.600
grind, get a highly valued education, highly valued skill, highly valued trade, because
01:07:28.120
when you hit the 35, all of a sudden, none of them care, care about that stuff.
01:07:32.660
Yeah. And I agree because I'm out to graduate and like a month from now from college and
01:07:37.720
I'm graduating with like a, like computer science degree. There you go, man. There you go.
01:07:41.700
My own business too. So I'm pretty much in a good direction. So I'm just trying to really
01:07:46.280
see. What state are you in? I'm in New York city. That's like, yo, move out of New York
01:07:52.880
city. I recommend Seattle. Yeah. Um, uh, uh, Texas. Yo, bro. Once you get your degree, move
01:08:00.920
away from New York city, they don't deserve you there. I don't, it's like the worst place.
01:08:06.440
Like even like, you know, even when Trump was in office, like, you know, during the whole
01:08:11.140
November 15, like everyone else voted for him, but only in New York is was, is where
01:08:16.680
people were, you know, having riots and like all these. So I'm like, you know, the mindset
01:08:22.180
here is kind of like, I don't kind of feel with the wavelength. So yeah. I'm going to say
01:08:29.060
it again, it's not you because unfortunately, you know, I went through a time in my mid twenties
01:08:33.200
where I, I, people questioned my blackness so much that I went through a short period
01:08:39.980
where, where I questioned my own blackness and I can't change who I am. You know, like
01:08:45.920
I've always liked Star Trek and intellectual things. And, you know, I, you know, I used to
01:08:51.940
skate when I was younger. You know, I grew up in Seattle in the nineties. So, you know, you
01:08:55.660
know, I listened to Nirvana and Soundgarden and all, you know, I'm into grunge rock and
01:08:59.700
stuff. Don't compromise who you are, man. And there, I have an 80% rule. 80% of black
01:09:06.380
women aren't worth dating, but you can find a black woman. If you want to be with a black
01:09:11.300
woman, you can find them, but you're going to find them at like anime conventions, you
01:09:16.060
know, pick up tennis or something like that where the ratchet ones don't, don't congregate
01:09:22.860
because do you want to have a family one day? Of course. Do you want them to, to be
01:09:30.040
black? Like, like, well, I mean, if you have a children with a white woman, they're going
01:09:35.800
to be black, but you know, like, do you want them to be like full black? So your two major
01:09:43.020
responsibilities right now, don't get married to have any kids until you've reached at least
01:09:48.640
the 35 and then find a black woman who has, has had your similar experience of just not
01:09:55.120
fitting in with black culture. My father's a, uh, uh, uh, he, he's very successful. And
01:10:01.500
he told my brother and I, uh, and my sister, if you're, if you want to be something in the
01:10:06.800
black community, if you want to be ambitious, if you want to, uh, leave this whole black nation
01:10:11.480
thing behind, man. Oh yeah. Well, what up brother? Uh, what up sister? No, leave that
01:10:16.300
behind, man. There is no cohesiveness amongst black people. So this whole black nation thing,
01:10:22.800
it's, it's, it doesn't exist. Yeah, man. That's some solid advice. So yeah, I wish it wasn't
01:10:28.480
that way, but yeah, that's my main poker face. Just when I, when I talk to women, you know,
01:10:33.260
So when they start bringing up like the, the, like the hood stuff and saying you're not like,
01:10:37.900
you know, even the decent, like looking quality that you wouldn't even expect to be doing that,
01:10:42.880
they're into that too. So it's like, you know, I kind of like, you know, kind of turns me off
01:10:47.020
when I talk to women and like, you know, and I know how to kind of find a way to kind of, you know,
01:10:52.420
identify these type of women. Like when they talk about, Oh, men are always having kids. And I'm
01:10:56.840
like, I don't even know. I don't even know men that have kids myself. So how do you know?
01:11:00.640
54% of black men have no children. 54%. How do you know so many men that have kids? So that kind of like,
01:11:07.540
you know, I kind of use stuff like that to kind of see, okay, yeah, she's, she's probably messing
01:11:11.920
with those type of men. And I just respond by myself and just keep it a buck. But yeah,
01:11:16.380
that's some sort of advice, man. Yeah. And, and, and here's the thing. Yeah. You're probably,
01:11:22.080
you're going to be a little bitter towards, you know, the black community, black women, because
01:11:26.880
they just keep, they keep rejecting you and like hurting you over and over and over again.
01:11:32.020
But, but you can, and those it's valid, but all you have to do is find your one man. Even if you
01:11:40.200
have, you know, there are a lot of women out there. You can hate men all you want, but all you have to
01:11:44.360
do is find your one. And that's the same thing with women. There are modern women out there.
01:11:49.400
They're single mothers. They, you know, they, they do all this crazy stuff, but all you have to do is
01:11:53.600
find your, despite your views on women, all you have to do is find your one. So make sure to,
01:11:59.040
to leave is if you want to have a family, just make sure to leave room in your heart to find
01:12:03.500
that one. Yeah. That's some sort of advice, man. Yeah, man. I thank you for that. But yeah,
01:12:08.780
let me let you go on to the next caller. I'll probably call in tomorrow, but yeah,
01:12:12.240
y'all have a nice day. Yeah. Thanks for calling. Call in any time. Do you want to let Glenn in?
01:12:19.120
How many people are in the waiting room? There's two. Cool. Including Glenn. Glenn,
01:12:24.960
what's going on, man? Glenn. I think he's, hold on. Let me remind him. You are on screen.
01:12:42.860
Glenn. Oh, hello. Sorry. Glenn. Glenn, um, what is the craziest,
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craziest thing a woman said to you that you had to keep a poker face? This could be a first date
01:12:58.940
relationship, whatever. The craziest thing. Oh man. Okay. So, um, let me, this is, this requires a
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story. Okay. And, um, craziest thing was that I had my dick imprints on the counter.
01:13:18.120
Wait, what? That she found the outline of my dick on the counter. And she want to know who the fuck I was
01:13:35.320
Where? Yeah. Was there, was there someone you were?
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It's like, for what it is, it's like, I don't know what, what's worse. The questions I want to ask Glenn
01:13:48.280
or the questions he'd give or the answers he'd give us.
01:13:54.300
Go ahead. Take, go ahead. Just go ahead. I'm ready. I, I, I've been through this. I am a pro
01:14:02.320
So, how does one put an imprint of her dick on a counter? Like, how does, how does, how does that happen?
01:14:09.120
And it wasn't just on the counter, it was on the glass door, you know, the, the porch, just like, mm-hmm.
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So, they thought that I was, like, fucking all these bitches when they went to the store.
01:14:32.640
Um, but they forget, like, I was fucking them on the counter and them all over the place.
01:14:42.480
But, and here, here's a funny thing. It was actually, it, it wasn't even a dick imprint, okay?
01:14:47.200
Like, I, it was not even a smudge. Like, I look at it, I'm like, that, that doesn't do me justice,
01:14:51.920
okay? Cause, like, wait, come on now. Like, you know, you, you know what you're working with
01:15:00.560
and you know what you're not working with. And you're just like, that is not me. Like,
01:15:14.240
And Pearl, you know who I'm talking about. So, I'm just going to leave it.
01:15:16.480
I already know, I know what you're talking about. Wow. So, it was a, uh, wow.
01:15:21.920
Yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And I'm sitting here like this. Like, she came to me with that. I'm like,
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hmm. Hmm. Really? Okay, let's investigate this. I'm not even trying to, like,
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I'm not even trying to make fun of you yet. I'm going to investigate this with you.
01:15:40.960
So, when you guys figured it out, how did she react?
01:15:43.600
Well, um, she went in her room, closed the door, and then cried.
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And I would stay in the living room, like this.
01:16:00.880
Try not to laugh out loud. That was, that was it.
01:16:03.280
But imagine having to be asked about these smudges on the window and on the counter.
01:16:13.040
As if, like, like you did something like, what the hell? Like,
01:16:16.400
I know there's some people that are doing some freaky deaky things like that, but like,
01:16:19.200
I don't recall just putting the meat on the, on the counter. Like, that's where we eat.
01:16:33.360
Is there anything, you got any other stories? I feel like this can't be the only one.
01:16:38.000
Oh, I mean, there's the one time when, like, they tore up my office because they thought that
01:16:49.520
They thought that you had someone hiding underneath the desk.
01:16:54.880
Can you elaborate more on that? Like, how did this?
01:17:02.080
Yeah, so I was, so there's a website called We Audition, and it's a place where actors go,
01:17:09.040
and when they have an audition coming up, they need to rehearse their lines.
01:17:12.000
They get with other actors to rehearse lines with each other, right?
01:17:15.680
So I'm in there rehearsing the line for the movie Token Choke, the one that I ended up landing,
01:17:20.160
and she heard, she heard this woman talking, right? And she started freaking out.
01:17:27.680
And she had my brother, who was at the house at the time, like, guard the outside window.
01:17:34.000
It's like, don't let that bitch come out the window.
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And my brother's like, what the fuck? So he's outside guarding the window for her.
01:17:43.520
He's texting me. He's like, yo, bro, I'm outside your window. I don't know why, but I'm outside your window.
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And I go take my dog for a walk. This is when I had my English.
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And so I come back, and then I walk in there, and the whole office is tore up. Like, everything's a mess.
01:18:01.920
Everything's moved and everything. I'm like, what are you looking for?
01:18:06.320
And she's like, I'm looking for this stand. I found it. I'm like, it's a tripod.
01:18:12.400
I'm like, but that's not your tripod. That's my tripod. What do you need my tripod for?
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And she's like, well, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't mine, and it was yours.
01:18:23.920
I'm like, well, it actually says my name on it. But, you know.
01:18:32.640
And then she confessed that she thought there was this, like, person in the room, because she heard a woman talking.
01:18:39.600
And I'm like, hmm. Hmm. So he tore up the office, like, moving furniture around to find this, and you didn't find what you're looking for.
01:18:57.120
I made a whole skit about it. I made a skit, like, me portraying her and me playing me. It's on YouTube. It's really funny.
01:19:03.520
That's insane. Was she always like this? Like, thinking you're cheating all the time?
01:19:11.680
Um, yeah, because I've come to find out that that's what she was doing. So what most people do is they project.
01:19:20.720
Nate Brassfield is next, and then there's a person that's under owner, and then Julian, and then fight sports talk. Okay, go ahead, Glenn.
01:19:27.760
Yeah, like, no, I just, like, I have security cameras everywhere, even right now. Like, I'm at, I'm at Thor's house, and I have security cameras all over the place.
01:19:36.240
Hmm. Well, thanks for calling in, Glenn. A pleasure, as always. We got to get to the next caller, okay?
01:19:42.400
Yeah, yes. Um, no dick imprints on counters, okay? Remember, that's where you guys eat.
01:19:46.720
Um, Glenn's saying, be civilized, for Christ's sake.
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All right, buddy. All right, guys, take it easy. Peace.
01:20:07.280
Be civilized, for Christ's sake. Yeah, I don't know.
01:20:10.960
Nate, you have the YouTube on in the background, so turn that off.
01:20:24.880
Yeah, okay. I've been watching for a while. I got, man, I got all sorts of thoughts.
01:20:34.400
Poker face, you will. So for me, the thing is about me and my personality, I actually have a damn good poker face.
01:20:42.720
But I don't always, like, with women and dates, I really don't feel the need to use it. Like, I'm just, I talk very straight to them, especially if they say something ridiculous that they're used to just sliding by.
01:20:58.080
So I don't do that that much. I don't just let it slide. I'm like, okay, what was that? Like, what do you mean? Why'd you say that? But I have a couple. I have a couple.
01:21:12.160
I remember when I was really, I was young. I was in my 20s. And it was kind of, it was more of like a group thing. But it was still, you know how it is when you're younger. Like, you're still kind of trying to talk to a girl.
01:21:28.900
So she was cool. She was really pretty. I was like, you know, I'm interested in her. So we're hanging out. We're having a couple of drinks. And she, I'm like, trying to figure it out. See, I'm kind of trying to pursue her, you know, and she said that. And I was just like,
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I am so not, I'm done. I am not interested. I just couldn't believe the audacity.
01:22:05.000
Did you say it to her or no? Did you just on the date?
01:22:08.940
No, at that point, I just like felt, I was younger. Like I said, I was in my early 20s. I just had that like internal shock.
01:22:18.140
Like, like, you just think like, what is their point? What are where what is their angle?
01:22:27.120
You can't, you know, you can't tell you're like, is this? What are you trying to gain here? You trying to show some sort of confidence or dominance? Or what are you doing?
01:22:41.420
Or are you just so, are you person, are you just really nervous and you don't know what to say or do? But yeah, I remember that one vividly because my, my heart kind of dropped into my stomach and I was just like, I am, I'm, I'm good.
01:23:02.040
No, like where you said you had a couple stories. So what else?
01:23:04.700
Yeah, yeah. On that topic. So I had, I have a more lighthearted version too. That was more recent in the last few years where I sort of like, I met this woman, we were in the same line of work. She seemed really, um, she seemed really kind. She seemed really virtuous.
01:23:27.620
She said that like, God was her number one priority in her life. I'm like, great. You know, this is, this is really good. Um, and we were friends for a while, but she was like dating someone. So I kind of left it alone for the most part, but I was always attracted to her.
01:23:46.680
And then over some time, she, she ended up moving. She broke up with her boyfriend, her and I started talking more, messaging more than we were started. Like we started to message a lot, like almost every single day. And I'm like, wow. Okay. So I think this is actually going somewhere.
01:24:11.160
And then I had family that lived out in the, in the same state that I wanted to visit. It's the same state that she had gotten a job at and moved to. So I'm like, perfect. I'm going to go out there, visit fam, visit her.
01:24:27.560
And like pretty much as soon as I started to go out there after we're talking every day, not like messaging, voice memos, like all basically almost like we're dating. Um, she kind of like pulled back and I was like, okay, that's whatever, you know, whatever women, not a big deal.
01:24:53.620
And then when I got there, she kind of perked back up and she was like, Hey, you know, like you're getting an Airbnb, maybe like I'll spend the night where you're at. I'm like, okay, cool. Perfect. So we're, we're back on the same page. Um, and then I go out there and she just was like,
01:25:14.820
just kind of awkward about it. Like standoffish, like not, not super chill about everything. Everything seems to be calculated. She's not sure, you know, how long she's going to stay or like all this stupid stuff.
01:25:33.780
And then, and so finally, like, I'm just like, all right, I'm going to press through it, whatever. I'm not going to get bothered next day. I'm like, we plan to go to the beach. Let's go to the beach. Um, we go, she's like intentionally creating distance. I'm like, all right, this is weird, whatever. I'm not going to, then we get, we get in my car, we're leaving.
01:25:57.220
And she's telling me these stories about how she's been going out, how she's been going out to the club, how she's like laughing about like having guys buy her drinks and giving her number out. And I just was like, what, what is, are you, are you, so I straight up asked her, I was like, so are you just, are you just interested in me as like a friend or something?
01:26:27.220
Yeah. And she got that feeling, man. It's usually what it is.
01:26:32.260
Yeah. And she was like, Oh, no, no, no. Actually, the first thing I said, no, no, actually, before I even said that, I was like, can I ask you something? She's like, yeah. What? I was like, do you like talk to people like every day and message them and send voice memos?
01:26:50.300
And oh, no. And she was like, um, yeah, yeah. Like, what do you mean? And I was like, okay. And she and she was like, well, I mean, now that I think about it, I mean, like, you're probably like the only guy that I do that with.
01:27:05.060
And I was like, okay. And then, and then I was like, okay, let me ask you something. Cause I, at that point I was so caught off guard. Like I was so, I was just like, screw it. I don't even care. I don't care about game. I don't care about strategy. Like human being at this point.
01:27:25.020
So I was just like, let me ask you, like, are you, do you, are you, are you just like feeling like you're my friend? Because that's not my feeling.
01:27:35.860
What'd she say? She goes, Oh yeah. Yeah. I just, no, we're just friends.
01:27:44.120
Okay. So how quickly did you end this whole thing?
01:27:47.640
Um, um, I ended it pretty much there. I, I was like, I was like, Oh, um, Oh, okay. You know, like in that case, then we don't need to be communicating like this, you know, like on a daily event. She was like, Oh my God, I'm so sorry. I'm, Oh, I'm so sorry. She was not sorry at all.
01:28:14.520
So I was just like, Oh my God. Like, what are you actually doing? Do you really, is it, do you really need attention? Like, is that a lifeline? Like, I don't care if someone texts me on a daily basis.
01:28:26.860
Modern women, man. Attention is their currency.
01:28:30.160
It's so weird though. It's so, it's sort of like a mental illness because like realistically and logically, like, what does that actually do for you other than a dopamine hit?
01:28:39.680
Like it doesn't do anything, but just can't explain it, man. The worst thing you can do is try to understand it.
01:28:47.760
Right. No. So it was crazy because I heard that younger guy call in and you could tell I could feel his pain because I don't know how, like, if you guys paid attention to this part, but he said one, like at one point he was talking to the woman and she literally spelled it out.
01:29:08.360
She was like, it sounded like this, that she was literally like, you're not quite like gangster. You're not quite, you're not quite like toxic. So what hit me so hard, I'm older than that guy.
01:29:24.640
But I remember having conversations with younger women.
01:29:30.720
You got, you got one more minute and cause we have a couple of other calls, but go ahead.
01:29:36.940
Yeah, no, I just, I remember having conversations with younger women when I was in my twenties and I could like sense them in, you know, insinuating things.
01:29:48.140
And it's just, but I was like, what are they really saying? And it was basically like something similar.
01:29:54.620
And now the culture has progressed where people are literally just comfortable saying overt, blatant, ridiculous things.
01:30:03.140
Like she, like she, that woman to that young man literally had no shame.
01:30:09.620
She literally was perfectly comfortable saying, you're not a criminal and I'm not turned on.
01:30:20.400
And that's the experience that I'm imagining these younger guys in their twenties are actually dealing with.
01:30:35.320
So how much money did you spend on that weekend?
01:30:43.960
I mean, it wasn't that big of a deal for me, but probably, I don't know, a couple thousand dollars.
01:30:49.320
I mean, I was visiting my family that were down there too.
01:30:53.200
But you wouldn't have gone if she wasn't there, right?
01:31:02.880
I probably would have at some point because my mom, my mom and my sister were living there, but no, like, yeah, that, that was a part of it.
01:31:52.540
Oh, boy, this one was, this one was, I think it was the last time I ever made this mistake.
01:31:56.540
But I had, I was, I hadn't been late in a long time.
01:32:02.060
So I'm with a girl, you know, we're making out.
01:32:04.700
And she starts, I, you know, I realized later on, like, I'm like, oh, she seems like the perfect girl.
01:32:11.080
And I realized later on, no, it's just borderline personality disorder.
01:32:15.440
And so she tells me, like, I think of, um, I like, like, like the guy she finds attractive, which, you know, who she's attracted to.
01:32:23.960
And like, one of the first guys that comes out of her mouth is fricking Vladimir Putin.
01:32:27.720
And I'm just like, oh, the genocide guy, the journalist murdering guy, right?
01:32:33.400
The, like, guy from hell is who you're attracted to, you know?
01:32:39.440
And like, this one hit me because that was so hard to stay quiet about that.
01:32:44.000
Like, I did, I swallowed it, I dot laid it, and it wasn't worth it.
01:32:48.860
It was just, you know, it's like, oh, you know, I'm never doing that again.
01:32:53.680
That was kind of the beginning of my, you know, red pill journey.
01:32:56.200
I just, I refuse to keep simply, you know, I don't even know what the word is, but I refuse to keep being innocent.
01:33:02.200
Dear being who I think women want to be because that just felt so gross.
01:33:15.000
You know, there just wasn't a real connection, so it's probably not going to be good.
01:33:18.720
She was a one, she, this is the, this is the other thing.
01:33:25.860
You got to get a little closer to your microphone?
01:33:31.420
She said, she says, oh, my God, I haven't had sex in the last half.
01:33:34.420
Like, it was the longest stretch she'd ever encountered in her life.
01:33:41.620
You said that she didn't have sex for a week and a half?
01:33:52.300
And I'm saying, from my perspective, it's like, yeah, well, that could just as easily be three years or whatever.
01:33:59.960
Yeah, so my jaw sort of hit the floor, and I was like, this one's trouble.
01:34:03.480
Yeah, the whole experience just left me feeling so negative on, you know, just dating and stuff.
01:34:11.080
Started seeing your content, Pearl, actually, right?
01:34:12.920
Yeah, I think you were one of the first people I started seeing.
01:34:26.680
Sounds like an all-too-familier story these days.
01:34:40.580
At least you didn't say I haven't had sex in two days.
01:34:52.460
What's your poker face story, Fight Sport Talk?
01:34:58.200
Mine was a long time ago with a girl I was dating.
01:35:03.220
I was still a teenager, and throughout my 20s, it led to, well, before I got, I turned 20,
01:35:09.880
it led very directly to being red-pilled, quote-unquote, which leads to stories that, you know,
01:35:16.760
I brought up last time I was on of, you know, being called a misogynist and stuff because
01:35:21.580
I didn't, I didn't even have the patience really for a poker face.
01:35:26.000
I just thought, nope, women, when they're crap, for lack of better words, not going to
01:35:32.520
listen to that, and, I mean, it was just a very, very simple story of just a girl who
01:35:41.120
ended up, ended up going, going homosexual in the end, years later, she, she, there were
01:35:52.340
some times where, you know, conversations were very good, et cetera, but when she got
01:35:56.520
opinionated, it was, it was to the absolute max, and I just, out of just general knowledge,
01:36:04.920
I thought, well, if I, I'm the man here, if I yell back, it's going to be received differently,
01:36:09.120
so I didn't, and that led to me having a very short temper with girls being extremely opinionated
01:36:16.260
later on in life, whether it was girls at work, university, excuse me, professor, no,
01:36:22.860
not pretend professors, lecturers being just absolutely abysmal at their jobs, managers
01:36:29.620
at work who were females, just didn't have any patience for what they would say when it
01:36:35.380
was just, again, just female garbage, and it led to being called a misogynist a lot.
01:36:42.720
The stories you brought up, Pearl, and I think one of the callers did earlier, of women coming
01:36:49.180
out with abuse years later, after they'd been in a relationship for a long time, this
01:36:54.060
is extremely prevalent in MMA, and not just the one people are familiar with, with the
01:37:01.460
Conor McGregor story, but there are a ton of situations where women say, years later, oh,
01:37:08.080
this happened, that happened, so why didn't you bring it up back then?
01:37:10.880
So, um, I can elaborate on the story or other stories I've heard other people give.
01:37:18.120
Yeah, if you can give like a, like a two-minute version?
01:37:28.860
Yeah, um, uh, when it, when, it's actually, actually very simple, uh, simple dating stories
01:37:39.320
of a woman saying, I would like to do X, Y, Z, and then you go and do it, and all she
01:37:47.320
has is, is complaints afterwards, or actually no, during, saying, well, this isn't what I
01:37:53.680
wanted, et cetera, et cetera, and I would bring up stories, and this isn't just me, it's close
01:37:58.760
friends of mine as well, of cases where, look, I wanted, I suggested we do this, this, this,
01:38:07.340
and that instead, and you specifically say, I don't want to do it, but you wanted to do
01:38:12.740
another thing, I've done that for you, we've gone to this place, and you're still unhappy,
01:38:18.520
And, very simple, it would be, it would lead to the conclusion, a lot of women don't actually
01:38:24.740
know what they want, and it's like, well, this is just confusing, but they weren't, or
01:38:32.040
a lot of them weren't happy to just talk it out back and forth, it would be zero to
01:38:37.940
a hundred very quick, and, again, as a man, I'd say, well, this isn't good, and it led
01:38:43.380
to me being, not even extreme in the other direction, but very strongly thinking, well,
01:38:56.680
Again, PA, you got any other questions for him?
01:39:00.760
All this, I'm telling you, it's just, you, women talk, and they have no idea of the suffering
01:39:10.840
It's like, you really have to do the cost-benefit analysis, because all it is, is what are you
01:39:15.900
willing to deal with to be around certain kinds of women?
01:39:19.440
And it just sounds like you have a really good idea as to what you will and will not
01:39:23.040
put up with when it comes to talking to women, so good job, Fight Sport Talk, good job.
01:39:28.060
And yeah, just while I'm on the edges very quickly, one of the worst stories I've ever
01:39:33.580
heard is one that happened, one that came out 30 years later after the child had grown
01:39:41.340
Turns out the wife knew all along, if I just get this guy to get me pregnant, then I'm going
01:39:48.180
to be financially secure, and led to a very, was not a good mother at all, but it was all
01:40:00.380
And if I had been able to call in yesterday, I would have said, I would have brought this
01:40:04.100
up, the story that Myron Gaines gave about how his mum actually taught him a lot of this,
01:40:09.460
it was a woman who gave me a lot of advice on women working, women, V-O-T-E, sorry Pearl
01:40:18.780
for bringing that up last time I was on the show, and it led to me when I was again getting
01:40:28.180
into the workforce, I thought, well, okay, a woman taught me this, a lot of women will
01:40:34.040
So it's very few, but appreciate you guys having me on, and love to call in again, all
01:40:46.520
Steve M. said, do women who enjoy cooking and cleaning and helping on the homestead exist
01:41:25.940
So, I'm Indian, and I immigrated to the United States back in 2019, so I'm fairly new to
01:41:37.740
We don't have anything like you guys do have in the U.S.
01:41:41.720
Um, there's not really much of, uh, freedom of, uh, speech, uh, in India.
01:41:49.780
So, it's just like, you know, small corners, uh, where conversations like this, uh, happens
01:42:08.240
On a date, in a relationship, and you had to keep a straight face.
01:42:12.820
Um, it wasn't a date or relationship, but, um, it was back in, I think, 2017 when I joined
01:42:19.700
my first corporate job, uh, in India, and there was this girl, um, my age, um, she was really
01:42:27.620
promiscuous, um, and she used to, uh, tell me stories about, you know, guys that she was
01:42:34.240
sleeping with, and, like, in graphic details, and I was a virgin at that time.
01:42:38.400
Um, so, it was really rough for me to hear all, all, all those stories, and, you know,
01:42:44.560
try to keep up the face, uh, and eventually, eventually, uh, what happened was, uh, I, I,
01:42:55.420
I told her that, you know, I don't want to listen to all this, um, and I, I, uh, I got
01:43:02.300
to know this from, uh, one of my, uh, peers, that she wanted to have sex with me, too, and
01:43:08.820
I was like, hell no, like, if you are sleeping with so many men, and you're just, you just
01:43:13.340
described everything in front of me, like, what you did, like, it's not going to work
01:43:18.720
out, right, uh, so it was like, really rough, so, I feel like, how many, wait, can I ask
01:43:25.260
one question first, how, how many men did she describe having sex with, and, like, in
01:43:32.200
what time period, at least five, while, while I was working there, I think I worked there
01:43:38.440
for about, um, a year and a half, about five, like, in office, and, um, a couple of them
01:43:46.040
were, like, her friends, common friends, wow, I mean, it was really rough, like, uh, when,
01:43:55.180
when a woman is telling you sexual stories at work, there's, it's either one of two things,
01:44:01.820
she sees you as a friend, or she wants to sleep with you, and there's no in-between,
01:44:06.840
and there's no real way to tell what the circumstance is, understand what I'm saying, unless someone
01:44:13.340
else tells you, or she blatantly comes up and tells you, but before that happens, you're
01:44:18.480
just like, why are you telling me all this, like, what is going on?
01:44:21.760
Yeah, exactly, and in one of the conversations, you know, um, she admitted that she wanted
01:44:28.360
to sleep with me, and, I mean, at that point, I couldn't react, because I was a virgin, right,
01:44:35.360
what, what I'm, what am I supposed to do, like, how am I supposed to react, because I have
01:44:39.600
never been, like, you know, sexually active with anyone, uh, so I, so I couldn't react to
01:44:46.440
it, that's so uncomfortable, yeah, did you ever say anything to, to anybody, oh, yeah,
01:44:55.680
did you tell, like, yeah, did you go to, like, your supervisor about it, or anything,
01:45:00.420
or did you tell her to stop, and she actually stopped, or did you, no, no, she actually
01:45:04.460
stopped, she stopped, because I, I, I could, I mean, she was friends with me, and I stopped
01:45:09.940
being friends with her, and, like, she knew that this guy is not gonna be friends with
01:45:14.480
me anymore, so it's okay, so I just, you know, kept quiet.
01:45:19.080
Did the rumors kind of go through the office, like, were you the only one she was telling
01:45:22.460
at work, or was she doing it with a lot of people?
01:45:25.900
Uh, I think she was sleeping around with other two that I know of, but, I mean, I think everyone
01:45:32.820
knew in the office, but no one dared to speak, I don't know why.
01:45:36.280
I mean, it's, so, I'm working, uh, in corporate United States now, and I know things here are
01:45:47.460
on a much different level, and there have been folks telling me that, you know, uh, like,
01:45:53.840
in their previous job, they tried to get off this girl, and they slept with this person
01:45:58.740
and that person, and that's where I knew that, you know, this thing is very common in, uh,
01:46:03.540
corporate, like, people do that, and even married folks, it's not just a single guy, it's all
01:46:10.660
Well, we gotta get to the next caller, but thanks for telling your story.
01:46:16.140
I don't know if I said it right, but Karan, thank you.
01:46:20.340
Okay, we have two more people, so I'm gonna let in.
01:46:51.940
Make sure you mute the YouTube video in the background.
01:47:28.560
I actually really like this topic because I feel like modern dating is, like, constantly doing this.
01:47:33.740
Um, the first thing that comes to mind, I remember going on a date when, this is really simple, but, um, the girl was, like, telling me about how she was in the marathons and how she was going to, you know, run a whatever, a 5K or something.
01:47:59.720
No, but I'm just, like, it does not look like you run a marathon.
01:48:19.960
Because when I think poker face, I think of a lot of women, they say things that are, like, designed to be, like, impress you, but then you're just like, what the fuck?
01:48:30.300
Um, and to talk about, like, a little bit, like, what the Indian guy was talking about.
01:48:36.480
I've had women tell me about crazy, like, sexual stuff on, like, early dates where it's, like, why are you even telling me this?
01:48:44.840
Like, I had one girl talk about, like, um, she was, like, a really successful lawyer in the Bay Area, and it just...
01:48:55.100
She was, like, yeah, I had a threesome with, like, two of the partners, and it was, like, the greatest night of my life.
01:49:00.060
I was, like, dude, why are you telling me this?
01:49:06.480
I need to hear, like, well, you've turned on your camera, because it'd be kind of funny if you showed us the face.
01:49:15.280
But what did you, like, okay, so she said that.
01:49:20.480
Um, well, that was, like, after we had had sex, so I was just kind of...
01:49:27.860
I just, like, went to grab some orange juice or something.
01:49:38.340
I had one girl tell me, like, that, like, we had really great sex.
01:49:43.740
It was, like, I had sex yesterday, and it was, like, it was totally not the same.
01:49:48.540
And I was, like, dude, why are you telling me that you just banged another guy, like, yesterday?
01:49:54.160
They really know how to make you feel special, don't they?
01:49:59.660
I have a few written down, but there's one more that's kind of funny.
01:50:08.500
Now that I'm actually talking it through, it's, like, post-coital.
01:50:15.840
I was out to brunch the next day after staying over at this girl's house.
01:50:19.500
And, um, she had this, like, Trump derangement thing where she saw, like, some Navy veteran
01:50:29.440
She's like, oh, my God, I thought he was wearing, like, a MAGA hat or something.
01:50:39.220
It's just, like, at that time, especially, like, when the whole Trump thing was going on,
01:50:44.020
a lot of women had this, like, weird fixation with it where it was, like, it would come up
01:50:50.040
all the time without, like, you bringing it up, you know?
01:50:56.500
Like, she got clearly, like, emotionally distraught over somebody just wearing, like,
01:51:03.760
And I had to sit there and be like, yeah, that's...
01:51:22.060
You took her out to brunch, and right when he put that, he said, oh, no, I got laid the
01:51:30.260
The only good reason to take a woman out to brunch, I guess, is when you smashed her
01:51:37.760
We went out to brunch, and she wanted to watch Wonder Woman, so, you know, maybe I'm part
01:51:48.020
Actually, there's one more that you might find funny, Doug.
01:51:53.960
It's, like, a non-dating, but it relates to black women.
01:51:58.060
Um, I had a supervisor once, and actually, this is probably the craziest thing I've ever
01:52:05.900
Um, she was, like, talking about how she lived with their daughter, single mother, and they,
01:52:11.500
they, like, really like ice cream and ice cream sandwiches.
01:52:14.560
And she's, like, oh, my daughter likes the outside part, and I like ice cream.
01:52:20.800
So, we get ice cream sandwiches, and I just scrape out the ice cream for myself, and I
01:52:26.060
give, like, the, the sandwich part to my daughter.
01:52:39.200
I used to work in, like, um, I shouldn't say which city, but, like, a predominantly black
01:53:03.500
I thought this lady had something against me, you know, like, she would always, like,
01:53:08.480
give me bad performance reviews and stuff, and I thought, like, it was, like, a whole
01:53:11.740
reverse racism thing, but then I found out she was, like, sabotaging her own half-brother
01:53:16.560
in the workplace, and I was, like, oh, okay, like, this whole trope is true, like, black
01:53:24.780
I'm not trying to speak on it, but, um, I just thought that was the craziest shit, man.
01:53:33.700
I'm telling you, in my experience, uh, in an academic and professional setting, my worst
01:53:50.820
Women always talk about the patriarchy and men, but 80% of workplace bullying is women
01:53:55.260
bullying other women, and most women will tell you the worst person that's done the worst
01:54:01.020
Yeah, that was, um, that lady was the worst person that I've ever worked with, like, just
01:54:08.960
very, like, mean-spirited, nasty, um, and I'd go out to lunch with her brother, and you
01:54:15.020
could tell he was just, like, defeated, like, this guy, like, he was in a career where the
01:54:21.080
person, like, controlling his, like, ability to be promoted was somebody in his family that
01:54:31.020
So, but, I mean, the last thing, I guess, I just wanted to say, and maybe get your guys'
01:54:35.500
general thoughts, is, like, a lot of these women that, like, overly disclose their sexual
01:54:43.020
past, and it's, it's like a turnoff, you know, like, on, you know, early dates or whatever,
01:54:49.900
and I don't feel like guys do that as much, or I don't think I do.
01:54:53.340
Like, I've never gone on a date and be like, oh, wow, yeah, I just, you know, smashed out,
01:55:06.300
It's also a thing where you hate that they do it, but then you're glad that they're doing
01:55:11.260
it, too, because you would really want to know, you know?
01:55:15.840
Because people say, oh, yeah, you're never going to know a woman's body count, because
01:55:21.800
She's never going to tell you directly, but she will tell you indirectly if you just listen.
01:55:27.240
And it's like these, like, and if you date a woman long enough, it's like, it starts to
01:55:32.500
You know, it's just like, wait a minute, you were just talking about, like, the Spanish
01:55:36.500
guy, like, two weeks ago that I didn't, I knew about the previous boyfriend.
01:55:41.640
And then it's like, oh, wait, what about the, oh, the guy from Dubai?
01:55:50.760
So there's a study, right, that says that women, if they're over a certain body count,
01:56:06.140
And I thought about it, and I'm like, well, do you know what?
01:56:09.340
When I interviewed women on the show and we would ask body count, like, they're a bunch
01:56:15.260
So I was like, what, like, and I, and I thought about this more and I'm like, even the women
01:56:20.880
that said they were virgins, like I maybe believed one, maybe.
01:56:26.080
And then I thought about it more and I'm like, what if the conclusion of the study is that
01:56:30.120
women that lie about body count are happy or married?
01:56:39.380
Because, because, because hear me out, but I want to give my two cents.
01:56:42.060
This isn't me trying to, like, be in defense of the whores, right?
01:56:47.020
A woman's only going to disclose that, in my opinion, if she doesn't fear losing you.
01:56:51.900
Because why would she tell you that if she feared losing you?
01:56:58.620
Either that or like, like mental disorder, but, you know, bipolar.
01:57:04.480
But so, so I thought about this, I thought this more and I'm not, and what I'm not arguing
01:57:08.760
though, I'm not arguing that like, obviously the more, the more cooked, like, obviously,
01:57:14.040
but I, I thought about it and I thought about like, hoes I knew like 10 years ago.
01:57:20.980
And I'm like, some are more married than the prudes, if I'm being honest.
01:57:24.920
Like if I, if I did like 10 hoes, 10 prudes, I'd say more, 10, more of the hoes are married
01:57:31.560
And I'm like, hmm, it might just be that like the women that are like lying on these surveys,
01:57:39.200
they know to lie to their husband and it leads to a happier marriage because at least she
01:57:46.980
I'm not, this is just, this is just a working theory.
01:57:52.460
Well, and Doug, you say like, well, how can you tell you?
01:57:55.520
It's like, dude, if you, if it's like, you know, parking a Volkswagen and an airplane
01:58:01.400
hanger, then that, you know, you've got some, some sense of.
01:58:16.140
Me and Doug were talking about this the other day.
01:58:22.620
Smart hoes, smart hoes are Jeff Bezos, his wife.
01:58:28.080
Or the dumb hoes a lot are the ones with the like advanced degrees.
01:58:35.040
There's a certain level of comfortability that a woman has to feel.
01:58:41.120
Well, if a woman's not a complete and total three or four, uh, she has to quote unquote,
01:58:46.800
feel comfortable around you to share certain things.
01:58:51.460
And I don't know what to, when a woman says, oh, I just felt so comfortable around you.
01:58:56.500
But I'm able to share, you know, my deepest, darkest thoughts and stuff.
01:59:00.420
It's just like, is that a good thing or a bad thing?
01:59:08.100
I think as a compliment, like to me, at first I take it as a compliment.
01:59:11.760
And then when they start telling you those things, you immediately regret it.
01:59:14.900
Well, it has to be a bad thing because like, I just can't imagine like if a woman, like,
01:59:25.760
And I wouldn't even say she was like, on the scale of hoe, I'd put her on a one to 10,
01:59:33.420
I'd say she's like a little below average, but like not a, not a prude by any means, but
01:59:41.960
She like, she's married now and she told her husband every little thing.
01:59:46.740
Like she told, and she felt like she was doing it in the name of being honest.
01:59:57.440
So I guess maybe it wasn't too bad, but I'm like, do you really want to know every single
02:00:02.560
dude that dug your girl out before she met you?
02:00:07.620
I, I, I kind of, and, and that relationship is sort of like, like she kind of runs it.
02:00:14.280
And that's just what I've noticed when women can like tell the guy every little thing.
02:00:20.940
It's kind of like complaining to your boss about all your previous like bosses.
02:00:30.740
Like the thing that Doug said about like the T chart or whatever, it just like becomes
02:00:37.360
like, okay, that like this stuff may be in your past or whatever, but it's kind of like
02:00:48.200
You know, it's, um, so I don't know, like I'll, I'll jump off, but I just want to get
02:00:56.200
Obviously there's no solution to a lot of this stuff, but like, where did this come
02:01:01.180
And like, is there a way or, or like, are women ever going to realize that sharing all
02:01:11.760
Do you know what this, like asking women to give up our power to be whores is like asking
02:01:19.100
Like if you work really hard to get like biceps, I'm not even asking that I'm asking, just
02:01:26.640
You know, no, but it's like, it's like a, it's like a victory lap, right?
02:01:32.040
Cause they're basically saying like, I can get a man and have like now officially corn on
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The sad part about it is what they say in person is actually filtered compared to what
02:01:52.060
I always say there are things that women of the past would take to their graves and these
02:02:02.900
So, but I think there's as a proactive thing, I think there's a way for guys to, um, like
02:02:09.900
listen, pretend like they're listening to this shit and like kind of tune out and just listen
02:02:16.120
to the intonality of a woman's voice and then like kind of know when she's done with the
02:02:20.580
And then you can like mentally like reground yourself.
02:02:24.660
Cause you know, like when, when a woman starts telling these like crazy stories or whatever
02:02:29.000
that, you know, you have to keep a poker face, just like, okay, I'm just going to go to my
02:02:33.020
happy place for like three minutes, wait for the story to be done.
02:02:38.580
So I don't know if any other guys have that similar experience.
02:02:48.260
Well, I appreciate, um, the work you guys do, man.
02:02:51.120
It's actually helped me a lot with, um, you know, realizing like that it's not like anything
02:02:59.220
we're doing wrong necessarily when, you know, women, women, we wrote the rules.
02:03:06.060
Society in the 20th century and the 21st century is going to be men responding to it.
02:03:11.340
So, so all you're doing is just responding to the rules that women said.
02:03:28.300
I'm going to bring them both on and we'll do, we'll give them both a couple minutes to
02:03:37.100
I'm going to read the website while they get on.
02:03:39.680
Um, make sure you guys are muting your YouTube in the background.
02:03:43.200
So no, that's not simping after you got laid the night before.
02:03:46.360
That's aftercare that some women need in order to not feel like a whore.
02:04:39.320
So my, my, uh, queer face story was, uh, I was, uh, dating a girl just very short time,
02:04:49.560
We hooked up a few times, but she wasn't something that I saw as a permanent girlfriend.
02:04:56.020
So I was desperate to figure out, am I going to get out of this?
02:04:59.540
And I didn't want to hurt her feelings and all that stuff.
02:05:03.240
So we were in the car, just talking real serious.
02:05:11.640
And then all of a sudden she says, um, you know, you know, Andrew, there's a guy named
02:05:19.980
And she says, Andrew, Andrew tells me not to date you.
02:05:24.500
Like you, he, he said that you're not a guy and blah, blah, blah.
02:05:35.180
I go, he must be in love with you because, um, you know, if he's telling you don't date
02:05:42.340
Mike, then, uh, then we, we should, we should honor that.
02:05:47.200
And we should break up because, and she was like, well, hey, really?
02:06:10.080
Like I felt that she wasn't completely convinced, but it made sense logically.
02:06:19.940
And so, so we broke it off and it, and it kind of worked, but she showed up to work the
02:06:30.640
I had to remember like, no, this is, this is, we can't, we can't stand.
02:06:39.580
I was like, Oh, that's the, basically the story.
02:06:43.600
And, and weirdly enough, like 10 years later, her mom became friends with me on Facebook
02:06:52.280
And then, and we were, we were talking, being friends.
02:07:01.060
Her audio is cutting in and out for some reason.
02:07:03.480
Uh, all I was saying was, uh, the funny ending up to the story that I somehow be friends
02:07:12.680
with her mom on Facebook like 10 years after the incident, which was very weird and awkward.
02:07:20.760
So you, this, the, what was the person named Andy who was telling her not to date you?
02:07:31.840
When you have a guy that tries to snake you like that and tell a woman that you like,
02:07:38.560
who's interested in you and not to date you, it's called dirty Mackin.
02:07:42.000
And that's, that's one of the worst things a guy can do to another guy.
02:07:45.620
It was, I felt really betrayed because I thought he was my friend.
02:07:52.240
I didn't know that there was like a mutual connection there, but I was like, that's messed
02:07:57.040
up that he's like, yeah, like you said, it was like dirty man.
02:08:06.560
It actually, women are worse at dirty Mackin than guys though.
02:08:16.580
So, so I was, I was hanging with this really stripper girl and I liked her.
02:08:25.500
And then we had a mutual friend that was a lesbian and the lesbian said, Oh, I heard you're hanging
02:08:33.980
She goes, well, you know, she goes, she goes, and then later she said, Oh, I talked to the
02:08:45.240
And so I, but I believed the lesbian, but then years later, everyone told me to, no,
02:08:57.060
And so she missed your chance because everyone once said, Oh, the stripper girl was always
02:09:07.680
Like, cause I considered her like my better end, the stripper girl.
02:09:12.720
And I didn't, I thought that he didn't like, I thought, Oh, it's just tonic.
02:09:18.160
But then when I looked at memory, I was like, wait a minute.
02:09:21.560
Cause I want her at three in the morning to just hang out.
02:09:30.200
And there were moments that I knew after the fact that, so the lesbian was, wasn't being
02:09:43.560
Well, we're going to move on to the last person.
02:09:45.440
No, no, no, but I want to know, I want to know from law school, you're, you seem like
02:09:48.740
such a handsome young man, uh, you know, with the gray hair, maybe not so young.
02:09:57.480
Like, um, why are you worried about that single person?
02:10:07.080
Let's say if somebody upsets me at the, you know, if I'm having a problem, my friend, you
02:10:12.480
know, I'm looking at my friend right now, I'm having a problem with him.
02:10:17.280
He says, no, I'm going to look at, I'm going to turn around, look at this one and be like,
02:10:23.380
Why are you not doing this switch around and moving on?
02:10:33.700
We're not, we're, we're just kind of trying to get stories from people.
02:10:41.120
What's your, what's your, um, male poker face story?
02:10:45.660
What's the worst thing that you've heard a woman say on a day that you had to sit through?
02:10:54.700
Said or done on a first date or in a relationship.
02:10:59.860
And I can tell you guys about a lot of things, you know, for example, I can tell you guys
02:11:04.520
about how when my dad, uh, quote unquote, beat my mom.
02:11:09.640
And all it was, was my mom literally yelling in his face, shouting really loudly.
02:11:14.140
And if I'm getting beaten, I wouldn't be yelling in somebody's face, shouting.
02:11:17.500
So I'm saying that, and then when you're a young kid and then your mom is yelling and
02:11:23.460
your dad's yelling, and then later on you go to her friends and she takes you to her
02:11:29.420
And then the friends are like, are you not ashamed of yourself?
02:11:36.500
And they tell you, are you not a man to defend your mom while she's getting beaten by her
02:11:41.400
And really you don't even remember anybody getting beaten up.
02:11:43.720
It's just your dad kind of like raising his hands to kind of like push the affliction
02:11:52.660
I guess you could say, there's a lot of these stories I can tell you, but really I'm more
02:11:58.560
I know you don't want to give prescriptions on anything pearl, but I want to know why.
02:12:07.020
Because you know so much, you are basically the only connection we have to women.
02:12:14.700
They kind of had, I don't know what kind of propaganda, maybe you can tell us a little
02:12:17.740
bit more about that, that they have, that they cannot, every time we talk to them, they
02:12:21.700
kind of get, I don't know if it's penis envy, they kind of get upset.
02:12:25.980
They shut us down and they like shut down completely.
02:12:29.000
There's like a defensive mechanism immediately activated.
02:12:32.040
It doesn't activate so hardly with women, except when they hear a certain tone.
02:12:38.740
If you are the only hope we have and you're telling us we can't rely on you, who can we
02:12:46.920
And then another thing, if you are going to start giving prescriptions, are they going
02:12:53.200
Are they going to be religious prescriptions or are they going to be just whatever your
02:12:57.160
whims and desires, which are you reading based on the statistics and what you believe
02:13:04.320
Do you just, do you just usually like call into shows and decide the topic?
02:13:16.460
Well, it's, it's just a bit rude when you're coming into a show and you have a topic when
02:13:30.800
Well, well, we're talking about, we're talking about poker face and you're bringing up a
02:13:39.620
I'm actually bright, brightening up the conversation a little bit and asking you a constructive
02:13:44.780
question about the future of you and what you actually represent.
02:13:51.000
Is it, is it terrifying for you to answer something like that?
02:14:21.400
It's just, I can't stand it when people come on and I have a topic and we write this,
02:14:26.440
like you write this whole show around the topic and then people just decide what they want
02:14:31.280
And then questions like that, guys, Pearl Davis has been doing this for four years.
02:14:41.120
If you don't know her platform, what she stands for, I don't know what else to tell you.
02:14:48.060
Like, there is no good answer to that question.
02:14:58.420
I mean, I don't, like, wait, of course I can't save you.
02:15:08.880
And one thing, Pearl doesn't tell men what to do.
02:15:19.800
Like, if Doug wants to date single mothers, fat ones, I mean, Doug, I'm not saying you
02:15:27.380
But I'm just saying, like, if guys want to do something, it's your life, man.
02:15:35.080
But I think that's pretty much all we have for today.
02:15:50.140
Have a list of things that you won't tolerate hearing from women, but then a lot of times,
02:15:54.720
if you don't listen to them, you can talk yourself out of getting laid.
02:16:01.260
A lot of times, all you have to do is just hold on to that poker face for 35, 40, 45 minutes,
02:16:07.600
And also, like I said in the last couple of seasons, just keep her talking about her,
02:16:35.400
No, because I think it's going to be a cool interview, but we're not doing a show because
02:16:45.900
I'm going to post this interview and one other one I did.
02:16:50.480
And so, we're going to have a bunch of extra content.
02:16:53.060
If I have time, I will do a show, but I'm not positive I will.
02:17:01.480
And if I end up being able to do one, we'll be excited.
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I can just vouch the person that is coming into town to hang out with Pearl and do content
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And, like, who better than this person that could make a course on catching cheating?
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Please like the video, subscribe, and I will see you guys maybe next week, but I promise
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Otherwise, I'll see you guys on the interview that we record tomorrow.