JustPearlyThings - Men's Poker Face (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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00:03:17.660 Okay, so we got one girl that was reading her ex-boyfriend's texts on a date.

00:03:26.640 Okay, let's see where this is going.

00:03:30.940 How do I make this over here?

00:03:33.640 All right.

00:03:44.000 Oh, no, is the internet not working?

00:03:46.900 No!

00:03:49.760 All right, let me try the second one.

00:03:51.800 Let me try this one and see if it's any better.

00:03:54.740 You're like the only guy I'm talking to.

00:03:59.440 Guys just can't handle me.

00:04:01.760 Guys just can't handle me.

00:04:04.220 They just don't want to.

00:04:06.500 My ex is completely out of the picture.

00:04:08.700 Oh, his face is so funny.

00:04:14.460 I usually never do this.

00:04:18.720 Yeah, you do.

00:04:19.760 I'm always on time.

00:04:23.780 I can count on one hand how many men I've slept with.

00:04:28.680 They're fake. 0.91

00:04:29.280 Oh, I don't care that you have friends that are girls. 1.00

00:04:36.100 They're already upset.

00:04:37.520 I spend a lot of time complaining about how bad it is dating as a girl in New York.

00:04:41.480 But I've got to say, ladies, my guy friend just called me and told me about his date last night.

00:04:48.360 And she talked about her ex so much.

00:04:51.140 And then she actually had him read her messages with her ex and analyze what he's saying.

00:04:58.160 I'm like, girl.

00:04:59.560 I mean, on one hand, hilarious.

00:05:01.780 On the other hand, like, what?

00:05:04.640 And then my friend was like, hey, I just want to, you know, it seems like you might still be into your ex.

00:05:09.840 Like, I just want to kind of like pulse check there because I'm looking for something serious, whatever.

00:05:12.820 And she was like, no, of course not.

00:05:15.740 I spent a lot of time complaining about how bad it is dating.

00:05:18.080 I can't believe, you know, some people, I got to respect them because they just have the audacity.

00:05:27.720 Do you know what I mean?

00:05:28.200 Like, it's kind of like the guy that cheats in front of his girlfriend.

00:05:32.720 Do you know what I mean?

00:05:33.520 Like, you've seen those, like, TikToks at a bar.

00:05:35.480 It's definitely wrong, but you're kind of like, wow, you really had the audacity.

00:05:39.680 Women tell men he's competing for her on the first date. 0.99

00:05:45.660 Okay.

00:05:46.440 I'm on a date and he's never going to see me again.

00:05:49.260 But he asked me a question that kind of made me go.

00:05:54.100 He jokingly was like, oh, so who are these other guys that I'm in competition with?

00:06:00.200 And I had to be like, other guys?

00:06:03.960 No, you're in competition with me. 0.65

00:06:05.920 You're competing against me because, listen, I'm f***ing great.

00:06:12.260 I'm, I'm fun.

00:06:14.040 I know how to do everything for myself.

00:06:17.400 But what is going to make you special enough for me to want to share my life with?

00:06:22.760 I think this man was like a gasp because he was just like, I was being dead serious.

00:06:28.720 You guys have to remember, you're f***ing great.

00:06:30.860 And I think the longer I'm single, which I think is like coming on three, oh God, it's

00:06:39.060 coming up three years now.

00:06:41.560 I, there's something else that like, I love more than myself.

00:06:44.560 I'm very sure of who I am as a person.

00:06:47.220 Oh, men are scared of independent women. 1.00

00:06:50.400 Like y'all should be.

00:06:51.520 Like, if you are not coming in prepared and sure of yourself, then you're not game.

00:07:01.120 Yeah.

00:07:01.920 So that's, can you imagine she's saying this on a date?

00:07:05.260 Now we just post everything on social media.

00:07:08.660 So, all right.

00:07:10.320 The next we got this, this guy here or this girl too.

00:07:16.500 Okay.

00:07:17.540 I went on my first hinge date and I thought it went fine.

00:07:22.380 I didn't really like him.

00:07:23.700 But two days later, he texts me and goes, I don't think we're quite the right match.

00:07:28.000 So in the month since it has been haunting me and ultimately I decided that I'm the problem.

00:07:36.420 And I probably shouldn't have said a few things on the date.

00:07:39.340 So I wrote some of them down.

00:07:41.000 Insane things I said on date. 0.99

00:07:43.080 Okay, so first, people who post on LinkedIn are losers. 0.99

00:07:47.800 I stand by that. 0.95

00:07:49.700 I kept talking about how I want to go to a hockey game and see a fight on the ice.

00:07:54.240 Kind of a red flag.

00:07:55.820 I also kept talking about how I got super into fantasy football this year.

00:08:03.440 But like it was a big part of my life.

00:08:06.000 And then he asked me like what I do outside of work, like what my hobbies are.

00:08:09.540 And I was like, well, fantasy football is over, so I don't do that anymore.

00:08:14.860 I guess I started reading recently.

00:08:18.040 And like literally the very next day, I was playing in a pickleball tournament.

00:08:21.640 Didn't feel the need to mention that.

00:08:23.160 Completely forgot that I was doing that.

00:08:24.960 Oh, I told him that it took me six and a half years to finish college, which I think that's like a third date thing.

00:08:30.540 Like I should probably hold off on telling people that.

00:08:32.860 I don't know why we just lead with like the worst stuff.

00:08:38.040 Red flag.

00:08:39.140 Oh, I said, even if I was blackout drunk, I don't think I could get up in front of people and sing karaoke.

00:08:46.420 Which, yeah, never in the past have I done that.

00:08:49.440 Not that I know of.

00:08:51.180 Okay, so ultimately I decided I need to like pretend a little on the first date.

00:08:55.420 Like reel them in and be very normal.

00:09:01.960 I just like don't know how to do that.

00:09:05.840 Like I was just trying to fill up silence with jokes that I've already made in the past.

00:09:10.340 Okay, so last month.

00:09:12.180 All right, let's see what else we got.

00:09:16.160 We got this one.

00:09:18.260 Oh, this one.

00:09:20.980 Oh, this one the audio didn't work for.

00:09:23.020 Yeah, I don't know why.

00:09:24.580 Okay, then we got this guy over here.

00:09:29.320 I'm going to turn the sound off.

00:09:31.060 He says, when she casually says something that confirms she won't be my wife.

00:09:35.980 Because the thing, we like talk and then the men just compartmentalize us.

00:09:41.720 Yeah.

00:09:43.340 You know.

00:09:44.100 All right, we got next.

00:09:52.260 She casually confirms that she is not wifey material. 0.99

00:09:58.100 Yeah.

00:09:58.940 It says the website isn't on.

00:10:01.200 I can make a new one.

00:10:02.600 Oh, they're making a new one.

00:10:04.480 Sorry, guys.

00:10:07.080 There's a new one that's up.

00:10:09.300 I will read the chat over there.

00:10:11.560 All right, when she says something that makes me completely snap back

00:10:14.040 into reality and realize I've just romanticized the idea of another

00:10:17.740 average woman. 0.82

00:10:25.200 Okay, wait, here we go.

00:10:26.280 Get over heels in love with a girl.

00:10:28.200 And then she say something that just proves that she can never be yours.

00:10:34.000 I feel like that's more heartbreaking to getting cheated on again.

00:10:37.480 Because now I got to self-sabotage and move different.

00:10:40.100 Because if I tell you what you said, you ain't going to do nothing but gasp like me 1.00

00:10:44.760 and make me feel stupid. 0.99

00:10:45.920 So now I got to self-sabotage and start being different and moving funny. 0.94

00:10:50.340 So you get the hint that I don't want you no more.

00:10:54.620 It was nice.

00:10:55.440 It was nice while I lasted.

00:10:56.920 It was nice while I lasted.

00:10:58.400 It was nice while I lasted.

00:11:00.100 But baby girl, you got to go.

00:11:01.880 You got to go.

00:11:03.600 Yo.

00:11:03.760 Cooked.

00:11:08.320 Cooked.

00:11:09.000 Okay.

00:11:12.720 She says something that confirms she'll never be your wife.

00:11:25.820 Dang.

00:11:26.260 If she's constantly telling you about random guys hitting on her

00:11:33.140 and you're the kind of guy that gets crazy jealous and overreacts,

00:11:36.120 I'm going to be honest. 1.00

00:11:37.320 You're insecure and she's toxic as fuck. 1.00

00:11:39.660 Is your girlfriend presenting to this person that they are open and available to be with? 1.00

00:11:45.360 Because if they are, that's the problem.

00:11:47.600 Of course, there are people out there that no matter what,

00:11:50.420 they are going to flirt with your partner.

00:11:51.800 But is your partner letting it happen?

00:11:54.540 Because they want it to happen.

00:11:56.460 If your partner were to come home from a club and they tell you,

00:11:59.520 oh, I had these people flirting with me all night long,

00:12:02.260 my immediate first question to them would be,

00:12:04.340 did you tell them that you're with someone?

00:12:06.740 If the response is yes, the follow-up question to that is,

00:12:10.620 did you tell them I'm in a relationship?

00:12:12.840 Or sorry, I'm in a relationship.

00:12:14.920 If the word sorry is in that sentence, they want it to happen.

00:12:19.200 If you are happily in a relationship, you should never feel sorry for turning somebody away.

00:12:23.600 That's just the truth.

00:12:27.300 Yeah, we're cooked.

00:12:30.620 So we have a call-in show today.

00:12:33.520 And I'm going to look on the website if you guys have any,

00:12:36.380 which by the way, guys, on the Audacity Network,

00:12:39.780 next week we're going to talk about mental models.

00:12:43.060 Doug M. Pierre, moderator, has some really good mental models for life.

00:12:46.800 Maybe when he comes up, he can give a little sneak peek into next week.

00:12:50.800 But on the website, we have smart, intelligent, often non-famous,

00:12:55.180 but sometimes famous men giving presentations and we film extra content.

00:12:59.580 This weekend, behind the paywall, we're going to have a special guest

00:13:04.780 teach you how to catch your partner cheating.

00:13:08.540 Doug M. Pierre is doing a presentation next week.

00:13:10.700 You can ask him questions on the mental models.

00:13:12.760 And I have to figure out, next week I have to figure out,

00:13:19.680 so I don't have the schedule yet completely.

00:13:21.480 So let me, I'll keep you guys posted, but there is no show tomorrow night

00:13:25.860 because we are, this guest is coming in town.

00:13:31.680 All right.

00:13:33.200 Is Doug M. P.A. on or no?

00:13:35.800 Oh, not yet.

00:13:36.580 Okay, so some examples of men's poker face.

00:13:42.400 I've heard men say that they need to not shame women

00:13:48.220 when they said they did crazy sexual things.

00:13:50.980 So it's like, you might feel disgust, but you should have a poker face.

00:13:56.360 That way the women will reveal more. 1.00

00:13:58.960 So that way after the marriage and kids, you don't find out.

00:14:03.640 It's better to find out before the marriage and kids.

00:14:07.900 Doug M. P.A., how are you doing?

00:14:11.100 I'm good, Pearl.

00:14:12.020 How are you?

00:14:12.820 I'm good.

00:14:15.360 Tell me, what is the craziest thing you've had to hear

00:14:20.320 when a woman say on a date, in a relationship, et cetera, 0.69

00:14:27.060 that you had to keep on a poker face?

00:14:30.080 Well, so I'm, let me keep things general first.

00:14:34.980 When you get past, when you start dating women in their 30s, 0.99

00:14:39.420 they are not afraid to tell you how much men suck on the first date. 0.99

00:14:45.400 They will go on for 30, 45 minutes about how there's piss in the dating pool, 1.00

00:14:52.120 men are trash, and they just expect you to sit there and just take it. 1.00

00:14:57.160 Yeah. 1.00

00:14:57.640 So how does it go?

00:14:59.600 Do they start with that, or like where in the date do they bring it up?

00:15:04.020 It's to the point where I've started a date,

00:15:07.960 and then I've ordered a drink or two,

00:15:10.120 and then I'll get up, and then I'll pay for my drink,

00:15:14.480 or I'll pay for my part of the bill, and I'll leave,

00:15:17.640 and leave her at the table. 1.00

00:15:18.600 I've done that multiple times.

00:15:19.700 Yeah, and it's usually women, by the time they hit 35. 1.00

00:15:27.140 So, you know, I'm in my mid-40s,

00:15:30.860 so I know you might say,

00:15:33.460 what are you dating women over 35 for?

00:15:37.160 Hey, I don't, men like what they like.

00:15:40.220 I'm not here to tell you who you can and can't date.

00:15:42.920 Go ahead.

00:15:43.220 Mine would be I've sat and listened to a woman talk about her toxic ex, 1.00

00:15:53.260 and she, this man stalked this woman.

00:15:58.040 She had to move to a different part of the DMV, 0.56

00:16:02.340 and then she couldn't give out her real phone number. 0.95

00:16:06.740 Pretty much her last ex was a psychopath,

00:16:09.860 and she couldn't leave the area because of her job,

00:16:14.020 but she had to stay incognito just in case he found her again.

00:16:20.660 I'm like, wait, what? 0.98

00:16:21.900 Holy crap. 0.99

00:16:23.000 You should lie. 1.00

00:16:24.040 It's time to lie.

00:16:24.760 It's time to not say anything, actually.

00:16:27.820 She didn't even have to lie.

00:16:29.160 She just didn't have to tell you.

00:16:30.420 Why would you say that?

00:16:32.140 Yeah, and I don't know what.

00:16:34.060 She literally outlined the entire quote-unquote toxic relationship

00:16:38.700 with this guy in about 45 minutes,

00:16:40.620 and I never saw her again after that,

00:16:44.620 but I like those crime shows like American Greed

00:16:48.160 and Wives with Knives and all those, 1.00

00:16:50.200 so I knew I wasn't going to see her again,

00:16:52.760 but I wanted all the juice.

00:16:54.080 I got wrapped up in the story.

00:16:58.180 I was like, I kind of want to see how this whole thing plays out.

00:17:01.600 So were you entertained at least?

00:17:03.200 Did you have a good night?

00:17:04.760 Yeah, you know, the whole story was crazy,

00:17:07.000 and the sad part about it is she had a law degree.

00:17:10.380 She had an Ivy League undergrad and an Ivy League law degree,

00:17:14.140 and she's messing with this pookie who was literally terrorizing her. 0.92

00:17:18.640 What did he do?

00:17:19.580 Now I want to know.

00:17:20.620 Do you still have her number?

00:17:21.880 Can you call her?

00:17:23.000 No, this was years ago.

00:17:26.080 So what did he do?

00:17:27.360 So he had two kids that he never really saw.

00:17:33.880 Okay.

00:17:34.320 He worked a blue-collar job, and he had a whole lot of time,

00:17:38.480 and he's because women that are lawyers are a lot of professional women. 1.00

00:17:42.860 They want guys with a lot of time, right?

00:17:46.180 So they moved really fast.

00:17:49.000 He moved in with her, and then just started terrorizing her.

00:17:52.340 Where are you at?

00:17:53.480 Who are you with?

00:17:54.840 And she's talking about it, and one of the best things about you, Pearl,

00:17:58.080 is you always ask questions that kind of make the story fall apart.

00:18:01.980 Because remember, guys, a lot of women tell the female-friendly version of the story. 1.00

00:18:07.320 And what is the female-friendly version of the story, Pearl?

00:18:10.860 Was she cheating? 1.00

00:18:13.020 The female-friendly version of the story is they're the heroes and the victims in the story at the same time.

00:18:18.880 I thought you meant, like, there was a detail she was missing.

00:18:21.480 Like, if he was asking all of them, like, maybe she was cheating?

00:18:24.040 I don't know.

00:18:25.760 Well, so, but yeah, so she's telling me about all this quote-unquote abuse,

00:18:31.040 but she stayed with them and lived with them for, like, two years.

00:18:35.000 Wow.

00:18:36.320 Yeah.

00:18:37.080 Do you think it was over-exaggerated, or do you think she was telling the truth?

00:18:40.800 Well, if she was over-exaggerating, I was glad, because I told you I was totally caught up in the story.

00:18:48.080 I wanted to hear the end of it.

00:18:49.660 And did she call you back after, or did she just want a therapist for the night?

00:18:54.280 It was just a therapist for the night.

00:18:58.560 Men are so funny.

00:18:59.600 They're just like, I guess this is my role here.

00:19:03.240 You guys want a relationship?

00:19:05.560 I guess I'm a relationship guy.

00:19:07.320 You want a therapist?

00:19:08.200 I guess I'm the therapist guy.

00:19:10.520 I think that there was a genuine initial attraction, but she's so wrapped up in that whole thing and that whole story.

00:19:19.800 A lot of people, if you want to listen to their story, they will tell it to you.

00:19:23.660 And I showed eagerness to listen and to hear the whole thing.

00:19:26.800 So she outlined the whole thing.

00:19:29.680 And now you have great content for the show.

00:19:31.760 And the thing about it is, modern women, stuff like this, all this emotional abuse and stuff like that happens to the women from the bottom all the way to the top. 1.00

00:19:46.620 The poor women, the educated women, the rich women, all of them like toxic men. 1.00

00:19:52.260 All of them. 0.84

00:19:52.800 Is the Zoom in the, I don't see it in the YouTube chat.

00:19:55.720 Are we sure it's there?

00:19:57.220 Yeah, I don't think it's there.

00:19:58.960 Yeah, it hasn't been posted in the YouTube chat yet.

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00:21:12.460 Yeah.

00:21:12.820 I'm trying to think of what other stories men have told me.

00:21:16.560 Like, what is the worst poker face?

00:21:18.960 Oh, so my, um, I have a brother.

00:21:24.020 He's AJ's rant and reactions.

00:21:26.120 And he went out.

00:21:29.000 This is, this is a while ago.

00:21:30.700 He went out with this girl in the first couple of dates.

00:21:33.120 It went really, really well.

00:21:34.340 But then, uh, she wanted him to meet up with her friends.

00:21:39.900 And she was completely different with her friends.

00:21:42.640 No.

00:21:42.980 He was the one guy there.

00:21:44.440 And she was literally talking down to him in front of all of her, her friends, literally

00:21:52.220 poking at him, jabbing at him.

00:21:53.940 What did he do?

00:21:54.980 What did he do?

00:21:57.100 That was the first time anyone I knew paid for their drink and their food and just left.

00:22:03.420 What did she say to him that made him like, what was the final straw?

00:22:06.980 And how did she react?

00:22:08.060 Uh, she, uh, well, it was just the constant small jabs of misandry that women expect men 1.00

00:22:18.480 to just put up with.

00:22:19.640 Oh, so, you know, if you keep talking like that, you're not going to get any tonight.

00:22:23.900 Or you, you honestly think that you can do this, you know, just all those little misandry

00:22:28.380 jabs.

00:22:28.600 She could not have been hot enough for that.

00:22:31.260 Yeah.

00:22:31.840 Cause, cause he left.

00:22:33.540 Yeah.

00:22:34.440 Don't be afraid.

00:22:35.300 Like when in situations like that, you don't owe women an explanation. 1.00

00:22:40.640 You don't owe women closure. 1.00

00:22:42.220 You just leave.

00:22:46.060 Just go.

00:22:47.220 Yeah.

00:22:47.560 It's not like women give men closure.

00:22:51.300 There are some people in the waiting room.

00:22:54.260 I think I saw someone.

00:22:55.360 Oh, do you?

00:22:55.960 Okay.

00:22:56.640 Come in.

00:22:58.320 I just don't know how to do.

00:23:01.720 Oh, Doug.

00:23:02.540 It says he said you can let them in and out.

00:23:05.300 Oh, you're the host.

00:23:08.300 Host.

00:23:09.100 Give me one second.

00:23:10.480 Okay.

00:23:11.680 I have never let anyone in.

00:23:14.660 Hold on one second.

00:23:16.420 More.

00:23:19.540 Okay.

00:23:21.040 Oh, Ben was in, but he, he dropped in and out.

00:23:25.180 Is make sure to hit the zoom call.

00:23:28.960 Cause we want to hear your best first date with poker face.

00:23:33.560 What have women said on a first date where, or, or do you have any topics where if a woman brings it up, you just can't stand it. 1.00

00:23:41.640 And you have to say something because for me, Miss Angie is one of them.

00:23:47.540 If a woman just starts man hating, I can't take it. 1.00

00:23:52.080 There's a couple of other things too.

00:23:53.780 So have you ever seen any of your friends just put a guy through hell on a first date, bro?

00:24:02.620 I've never really been there when women I've, Oh God. 1.00

00:24:05.880 I've seen married women just henpeck the hell out of their husbands. 1.00

00:24:11.940 Oh, I saw this one married woman. 1.00

00:24:13.880 It was so bad, but I haven't, I haven't seen it on a first date, but like this one woman, I know she kept like mentioning in front of me that she made more than her husband.

00:24:23.880 And I'm just like sitting there and I'm like, why do you keep, and like, she just kept like in front of like almost using me to get back at her husband in a passive aggressive way, like calling him messy. 0.98

00:24:36.340 And I'm like, I'm like sitting there and I really like her husband's very nice.

00:24:41.840 Like I really like him as a guy and I'm like, why are you doing this to him?

00:24:47.320 And it was just so uncomfortable.

00:24:50.640 God, it was so uncomfortable.

00:24:52.000 And I was just like, and I'm just sitting there cause I'm in her house, you know?

00:24:56.960 So I'm like, and she said something to me after and I'm like, do you really want my opinion?

00:25:02.060 And then she just got quiet.

00:25:04.660 Like she asked, she's like, cause then she was trying to pretend that he was the one doing something.

00:25:09.780 And I looked at her and I'm like, do you really want my opinion on this?

00:25:15.720 And then, yeah, then she shut up. 0.97

00:25:17.800 So I'll never understand the pathology behind women humiliating their husbands. 1.00

00:25:25.080 Their husband is supposed to be their number one ally and number one cheerleader. 1.00

00:25:30.300 And they treat that person like absolute garbage. 0.99

00:25:32.540 I don't understand how that happened or why women think that's okay. 1.00

00:25:36.620 I think women just don't like men that much.

00:25:39.480 And so like when they, women, it's like, they like the idea of a husband, but they don't like the reality of it. 0.99

00:25:45.140 And so when they have to like deal with the day to day annoyances that the genders have with each other, right? 1.00

00:25:51.220 Cause there's things that annoy you guys about us.

00:25:53.960 And there's stuff that about you guys that annoys us.

00:25:56.460 We just can't like deal with it.

00:25:59.440 Like our, you know, um, the stress or like, you like, we just like, we, we just don't do a good job with like discomfort, I guess.

00:26:10.120 And so then we just start complaining.

00:26:12.260 It's also okay for wives to just say horrible things. 1.00

00:26:15.540 I told you, um, Michelle Obama literally said that she hated Barack Obama for the first 10 years of their marriage.

00:26:23.140 And also the, there's an article I saw the other day that said, uh, after you have your first child, you will hate your husband.

00:26:33.220 You will hate your husband.

00:26:37.700 And of course the comments.

00:26:39.220 Yeah, I understand.

00:26:40.480 Yeah.

00:26:40.840 Yeah.

00:26:41.100 Yeah.

00:26:41.300 Why is this okay?

00:26:42.880 Why?

00:26:43.280 That's just like post-nut clarity for women. 1.00

00:26:46.000 Do you see the people in the waiting room or no?

00:26:49.260 There's nobody there.

00:26:50.460 No.

00:26:50.680 Okay.

00:26:50.840 Guys, I know you guys have poker face stories, stories of crazy things women have said to you and you had to keep a straight face.

00:27:00.240 I know you guys have them.

00:27:01.760 The zoom links in the description or in the, um, pinned in the chat.

00:27:05.200 Come on up guys.

00:27:06.680 Tell me the stories.

00:27:08.120 I know you got them.

00:27:10.720 Mm.

00:27:13.500 And, and then another thing that gets me in trouble is I don't really like small talk.

00:27:19.340 You know, I don't like talking about pop culture.

00:27:23.420 So I'll try to have a serious conversation with some women and it could go south, especially with what I'm interested in. 1.00

00:27:31.440 You know, you, you, you, you kind of do the feelers with some, some slight red toe topics.

00:27:36.700 You know, I'll bring up like Kevin Samuels and a lot of women like, oh my, if they've heard of him.

00:27:41.540 Oh my God.

00:27:42.200 You listened to that guy.

00:27:43.300 I'm like, yeah.

00:27:44.500 The last single mother I dated was a flight attendant. 0.85

00:27:49.400 You dated a single mother?

00:27:51.660 You?

00:27:52.540 Sorry, go on.

00:27:53.180 Yeah.

00:27:53.480 Like four years ago.

00:27:55.100 Okay.

00:27:55.500 She was a flight attendant. 0.96

00:27:57.360 Absolutely beautiful.

00:27:59.140 But, um, I brought up Kevin Samuels and I said, I said, I told her, I was like, I don't know what it would look like.

00:28:06.120 Me and you and your two, your two kids.

00:28:08.880 And she's like, so I told her, I listened to Kevin Samuels and she's like, I think that guy is trying to brainwash you away from me because I'm a single mother.

00:28:17.060 And I'm like, see you later.

00:28:18.560 He just told me everything that I needed to know.

00:28:22.060 We're going to let Dr. Tran in.

00:28:27.040 Oh, okay.

00:28:27.780 Pearl Reed on the website.

00:28:31.000 Let's see.

00:28:31.900 Make sure you mute the audio.

00:28:35.040 Did I miss it?

00:28:35.660 I don't see the Pearl Reed on the website.

00:28:38.960 Dr. Tran, are you there?

00:28:39.900 Let me refresh the chat.

00:28:41.440 I am here.

00:28:42.340 I cannot believe you guys accepted me.

00:28:43.700 I was.

00:28:44.920 I know we were just waiting.

00:28:46.340 So tell us your poker face story.

00:28:50.420 Oh, my God.

00:28:54.320 What do you mean?

00:28:56.260 So the top.

00:28:56.860 What is the what is the the worst thing that you've ever had to endure talking to a woman to on a first date to get laid? 0.98

00:29:06.660 Like, what's the what's the weirdest or strangest conversation you've had with a woman on a first date?

00:29:12.040 Or even in a relationship, just crazy things that like a woman has said and you've had to keep a straight face. 0.63

00:29:18.420 Oh, gosh.

00:29:21.140 Okay.

00:29:21.420 I don't I didn't realize I'd be so nervous.

00:29:23.280 You guys accept me.

00:29:24.220 I apologize.

00:29:24.840 You know, I don't have one.

00:29:32.100 I'm sorry.

00:29:32.460 I clicked on your link because I didn't expect you guys to accept me.

00:29:35.380 I want to get out of here so I don't ruin your show.

00:29:37.060 I'm sorry.

00:29:37.600 That's all right.

00:29:38.380 I mean, you know, do you have any do you have anything in general that you wanted to ask Pearl?

00:29:43.020 Are you a fan?

00:29:45.980 Yeah, no, I mean, you know, I was donating to your show back in the day when you're in London and stuff.

00:29:51.740 Are you ever going to go back to those panel shows?

00:29:54.080 It seems like you're sick of them, but I do find them more entertaining.

00:29:57.620 I would do more like Collins, but in studio, probably not more than maybe like one on one debates.

00:30:04.060 But the full panels, I can't do them and have a life.

00:30:07.800 Yeah, at the time, it was really affecting Pearl's health.

00:30:15.160 But Pearl and I, we've known each other for almost four years now, and we'd have conversations.

00:30:19.560 It's just not good for my health, putting up with all the 304s in her apartment. 1.00

00:30:25.000 So I don't know how people like Myron and these people that do these panel shows,

00:30:29.760 I don't know how they've been doing it for so many years, man.

00:30:32.360 I don't know how they do it.

00:30:33.200 Yeah, at least on online, I can click mute.

00:30:43.200 Oh, that makes sense.

00:30:44.200 I'm sure, you know, Kevin Samuels kind of used that to his advantage, too.

00:30:47.020 But hey, I don't have much to contribute.

00:30:48.820 I'll let you guys go.

00:30:49.400 I'm sorry to...

00:30:50.200 You're okay.

00:30:50.820 Thanks for calling in.

00:30:52.340 All right.

00:30:52.720 See you guys.

00:30:53.400 I found the Pearl read.

00:30:54.880 I think the website was just slow for me.

00:30:57.160 Women disrespect their husbands when they feel they had to settle on him and didn't get the man they wanted. 1.00

00:31:03.680 It's resentment.

00:31:06.040 Yeah.

00:31:07.580 So we're going to bring in Dustin.

00:31:10.980 Always a good time with Dustin.

00:31:13.420 I told him to call it on this one.

00:31:15.780 I'm expecting fireworks on this one.

00:31:17.800 Yeah, Dustin, what do you got?

00:31:19.120 Yeah, so like poker face stories, anytime a girl starts off talking about how she likes to travel, guys are intimidated by me, or I'm not like other girls.

00:31:38.520 I'm just like, I wish I could hit fast forward through that conversation.

00:31:42.360 Is there ever anything a girl has said that you couldn't keep the poker face? 0.88

00:31:48.960 Arneson asks on the website.

00:31:54.680 Like whenever women... 1.00

00:31:56.280 Sorry.

00:31:57.080 I'm at work.

00:31:58.820 So it's like whenever women are like 30 and going to cosmetology school, I'm like, just stop.

00:32:06.520 Like, just domesticate yourself.

00:32:08.800 Quit that.

00:32:09.740 Save some money. 1.00

00:32:10.420 Get your ass in the gym and learn how to cook, dude. 1.00

00:32:13.000 I was like, do not go to cosmetology school at 30. 1.00

00:32:16.940 That's funny.

00:32:18.040 I can second that for a massage therapy school.

00:32:21.720 Oh, yeah.

00:32:22.660 Bro, come on.

00:32:25.240 Hey, man, I only want one kind of massage, and you don't need much learning about that one.

00:32:29.760 Are there any things, Jason, that you've had with a woman on a date, and you sat through it, and it was worth it, because you ended up getting laid later?

00:32:43.400 Okay.

00:32:44.940 That's funny.

00:32:45.640 Okay.

00:32:47.020 Okay.

00:32:47.120 Well, so I picked this...

00:32:53.260 I picked a lady up, and she was a good-looking woman. 1.00

00:33:00.300 And on the car ride to dinner, she was telling me how two months ago she met some guy online, and she thought that he got her pregnant.

00:33:16.140 So she was telling me the whole conversation, like how she was trying to hit him up and say, I think I'm pregnant and all this stuff, and this homie ghosted her. 0.97

00:33:28.420 And, I mean, I didn't...

00:33:32.620 It was a good night, but that was a really rough one, like, to even think about sleeping with her after that.

00:33:39.880 But, yeah, that was maybe not the best decision I ever made.

00:33:48.940 Dustin talks about his bad decisions on the show, and he owns it.

00:33:54.740 That's one of the best parts about Dustin.

00:33:58.180 Well, thank you.

00:33:59.340 We all like to be humble.

00:34:01.240 Whenever a girl says, I needed to travel to find myself, you should always... 1.00

00:34:10.120 I always like to ask them, have you been there before?

00:34:14.440 Because they'll be like, no.

00:34:15.760 I say, well, whenever I lose something, I always go somewhere I've been.

00:34:21.240 Because that's usually where it's at.

00:34:23.720 So when do you ever have to go somewhere you've never been to find something you always had?

00:34:28.060 You know, it's just really...

00:34:29.700 It's really illogical.

00:34:32.500 When a woman says that she's going somewhere to find herself, wherever she's going, she's getting her back blown out. 1.00

00:34:40.840 Dude, it's brutally true.

00:34:46.560 In fact, one of Pearl's reactions is that she reacted to that woman who went to Europe, and didn't she catch, like, 22 bodies in, like, 10 days?

00:34:55.080 Oh, brutal.

00:34:56.300 Oh.

00:34:56.580 Yeah.

00:34:57.060 She was in the airport, and she was like, oh, I think I might get one more on the way home.

00:35:03.240 That one was nuts.

00:35:04.960 Actually, do you even think that women know what they want when they travel? 1.00

00:35:10.560 Because, like, I flew a girl to New York City once when I was living on the East Coast.

00:35:14.240 And I bought her a...

00:35:15.400 She was supposed to stay with me for a week, and I bought her a plane ticket home four days early.

00:35:19.540 Because she made me so mad.

00:35:20.900 And I took her to New York City, and I had planned, like, Madame Tussauds, Planet Hollywood, and a couple other activities.

00:35:30.360 And then afterwards, I was like, is there anything you want to do while we're here?

00:35:34.780 And she just was like, I don't know.

00:35:36.740 I don't know.

00:35:37.860 And I was like, I just flew you here.

00:35:40.400 And you didn't think of a single thing you wanted to do while you are in the city with me.

00:35:46.800 And so I was kind of like, when women say they like traveling or they want to go places, do they even know? 1.00

00:35:54.520 No, it just means drink in that city and let a guy entertain me.

00:35:58.820 That's what it means.

00:36:00.960 Yeah, because, like, women don't, yeah, women don't, like, because when I was a kid, we, like, when we road tripped, we really road tripped. 1.00

00:36:08.920 And my mom planned the whole thing from, like, it would be like we're going to this national park.

00:36:14.560 We're hiking this, we're bright water rafting here, we're doing this, we're doing that.

00:36:19.720 They're not doing that.

00:36:21.020 They just want to drink at a bar in the city and flirt with whatever type they're going for in that city.

00:36:28.540 If it's the British men, if it's the Spanish men, if it's the Dubai, the rich men, it's whatever they're trying to get.

00:36:35.580 That's what they're there for.

00:36:36.140 You guys know that 80% of solo travelers out of the United States are women.

00:36:40.540 I know that women complain about it. 1.00

00:36:41.660 They're saying, I don't feel safe, but I'll travel to some third world country by myself, but I don't feel safe.

00:36:51.220 It's crazy, man.

00:36:53.740 That's a lot of money, too.

00:36:55.960 That's a gamble.

00:36:58.100 Well, that's one thing I noticed.

00:36:59.580 So, modern women have traded, so, like, my mother's generation and then the generation after that were really obsessed with material things. 0.95

00:37:11.200 Modern women, they spend, they still buy material things, but they spend so much money on travel, man. 1.00

00:37:19.440 So much money on travel.

00:37:20.940 It's insane.

00:37:22.720 And the worst part about it is, I talk about student loans a lot on my channel, guys.

00:37:28.320 70% of the student loans are women.

00:37:31.220 And if you saw the new administration is going to start garnishing people's wages starting May 5th for student loans.

00:37:41.000 So, a lot of these, they're going to start to take people's tax returns.

00:37:43.560 Anyway, and so, women will stare down $150,000 worth of student loan debt. 1.00

00:37:51.700 They'll just forget all about it and try to live their best lives.

00:37:57.360 Traveling, trying to buy a house.

00:38:00.200 Well, not after May 5th, they won't.

00:38:03.460 Yeah, I do.

00:38:04.920 I remember when I was in college, all the girls would be like, oh, I took out student loans to, like, go shopping. 0.99

00:38:10.000 And, like, travel here, travel there.

00:38:14.800 I don't know what the obsession is with traveling.

00:38:17.140 Because if you want an easy life, you would be like, traveling is probably the last thing you want to do.

00:38:23.300 You want to make sure, like, when you're home, you're comfortable.

00:38:25.960 And then you're like, oh, maybe I'll go abroad.

00:38:30.560 Yeah.

00:38:31.120 But that's curious.

00:38:32.120 You think passport bros are real? 1.00

00:38:34.340 If 95% of single travelers are women.

00:38:37.080 I mean, they are real.

00:38:38.000 They are real.

00:38:38.640 It's just there's not many.

00:38:40.300 I mean, it's not like.

00:38:41.460 Because you have to think.

00:38:42.420 If you really wanted to passport bro as a guy, like, how are you going to do that?

00:38:47.320 You're going to build a connection with a girl to the point you trust her to bring her back or to have a kid there.

00:38:52.880 And, like, what?

00:38:53.420 You get two weeks off of work a year.

00:38:57.000 That's.

00:38:57.720 Do you know what I mean?

00:38:58.280 Like, yeah, like, how would you like, how would you even it's tough enough in, like, a distance relationship in the same country, like out of the country?

00:39:10.700 Oh, good luck.

00:39:11.660 And then, and then if you bring one home, she's going to be around American women or the worst thing you can do if you bring a woman to the United States is have her go to college. 1.00

00:39:25.240 You know, that's true.

00:39:26.660 And I have a girlfriend from Angola.

00:39:31.480 And once she started hanging out with the city girls, I was like, my relationship was over.

00:39:38.820 Oh, she started hanging out with the B-dubs? 1.00

00:39:41.460 Yeah.

00:39:42.360 Like, it was, you know, she's like, she's from Angola.

00:39:45.820 I know she doesn't just, like, talk a certain way.

00:39:48.180 And then she starts saying, like, oh, this young bull is over here.

00:39:50.920 This John.

00:39:52.240 I'm like, ah.

00:39:53.520 All right.

00:39:53.820 Was she from Philadelphia?

00:39:55.620 Yeah, bro, that's where I'm from.

00:39:56.980 I'm from, I'm from, well, I'm from Harrisburg.

00:39:59.060 And we would go up to Philadelphia, like, King of Prussia.

00:40:02.740 Yeah, we say John all the time.

00:40:04.280 You know, just John. 0.99

00:40:05.840 And we, we throw the most hood, like, little, these silly parties in the city where, like, I was just, the women are just crazy. 1.00

00:40:15.440 Yeah. 0.97

00:40:17.060 Stories for days, dude.

00:40:19.040 Cool.

00:40:19.600 But yeah, dude, Poker Face.

00:40:21.520 If men didn't have them, women would be even more single than they are now. 1.00

00:40:30.080 Yeah.

00:40:31.280 That's the thing.

00:40:32.100 I don't think a lot of women have any idea how offensive the things that we say are. 1.00

00:40:37.980 Because men don't react.

00:40:39.800 They just, like, eat it.

00:40:41.180 Because they want to get laid. 0.99

00:40:42.240 Otherwise, you guys would never get laid.

00:40:43.660 Yeah.

00:40:43.740 I was talking to this, when I was working at Dairy Queen, and I was the king of dairy.

00:40:50.480 And this lady, I went, yeah, bro. 0.82

00:40:55.240 And this girl, she was married, but she was 17, because it's like Ukrainian church type thing.

00:41:03.420 They just marry young.

00:41:04.860 So I went over to her place, and things were going good.

00:41:07.780 And then she goes, I need to stop.

00:41:10.420 And I said, why?

00:41:11.720 And she was like, well, you're just, you're only 5'7".

00:41:14.460 And she kicked me out of her house. 0.99

00:41:17.420 She invited me to her house, and then she kicked me out. 1.00

00:41:20.600 And I was like.

00:41:21.400 Not because of the husband, but because of the 5'7". 0.88

00:41:28.220 Yeah.

00:41:28.900 She was like, I don't know what I'm doing with you.

00:41:30.760 And I was like, dude, I don't know either, man.

00:41:33.800 She's like, if I'm going to cheat, he's got to be 5'10".

00:41:36.380 Yeah.

00:41:38.320 Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:38.940 So was this after you hit it a couple times?

00:41:41.960 No, I never got to.

00:41:43.900 I never got to.

00:41:44.800 I got close.

00:41:47.820 One is her husband was a big guy, too. 0.75

00:41:50.320 He would have definitely murdered me.

00:41:52.520 And I was only 19.

00:41:54.180 I was like, I got a life to live.

00:41:56.380 So I was a little worried about that.

00:41:59.900 But yeah, I would go over and watch The Bachelor with her.

00:42:03.500 Maybe that's why.

00:42:04.200 Don't watch The Bachelor with Mary Gwynn, if you want to get laid.

00:42:08.580 What?

00:42:09.580 How many episodes did you watch with this woman? 1.00

00:42:12.100 She's watching those 6'5 chads on The Bachelor.

00:42:16.420 What was I thinking?

00:42:16.920 And then she's like, what am I doing?

00:42:19.200 I could.

00:42:20.360 Then she thinks she could get the guys on TV cooked.

00:42:23.440 Cooked, man.

00:42:23.820 She probably kicked me out so she could use her vibrator. 1.00

00:42:26.380 You want to talk about a poker face?

00:42:28.600 We'll be sitting through The Bachelor with a woman. 1.00

00:42:31.240 How did you make it through the whole episode?

00:42:34.320 God.

00:42:34.780 Dude, she would cook some bomb food, man. 1.00

00:42:37.260 It was like these little Russian cakes.

00:42:41.260 It's so funny.

00:42:42.280 Yeah, I was pretty nuts, dude.

00:42:46.600 I never thought about what I was doing back then.

00:42:51.700 Now I have a kid.

00:42:52.540 I got to be like responsible.

00:42:54.160 What's up with that?

00:42:56.040 I can't imagine how you get through.

00:42:59.740 Yeah.

00:43:00.020 Yeah.

00:43:05.240 Pearl.

00:43:05.760 Someone has a crush on you in the chat.

00:43:14.820 Antonia, she thinks you're perfect. 1.00

00:43:17.620 Come on, shoot your shot, Antonia. 1.00

00:43:19.420 No, Antonia. 1.00

00:43:20.220 Antonia, I'm 5'7", man.

00:43:22.480 I'm 5'7".

00:43:22.980 Antonia, call in. 1.00

00:43:24.100 Yeah, Antonia, call in.

00:43:26.220 Come on, Antonia. 1.00

00:43:27.680 Shoot your shot. 1.00

00:43:28.400 Shoot your shot. 1.00

00:43:28.680 I did read some of her comments. 1.00

00:43:33.320 I'm assuming it's a girl.

00:43:35.620 It is.

00:43:36.380 She was like my Judea king.

00:43:40.260 I said, goodness.

00:43:41.840 Pearl, quiet.

00:43:43.060 Goodness gracious. 0.98

00:43:43.780 Antonia, I mean, don't pussy out. 1.00

00:43:48.920 Get in here. 1.00

00:43:50.200 Shoot your shot. 1.00

00:43:51.140 These streets are lonely. 1.00

00:43:52.360 Get up.

00:43:53.140 I know. 0.93

00:43:54.400 You're always going to wonder what if, if you don't try to shoot your shot. 1.00

00:43:59.340 Are you, Antonia, are you fat? 1.00

00:44:02.580 Just say it. 0.99

00:44:05.260 Hey, that's, I was in a Latino fraternity back in college.

00:44:09.620 And I tell you, women from the homeland, they were never, never too skinny.

00:44:18.000 So the only way to work as a passport bro is to work remotely or have some passive income

00:44:24.560 and then stay in another country to raise your kids with her. 0.99

00:44:27.460 Sure.

00:44:28.360 Yeah.

00:44:28.960 I mean, like, I just don't think it's a feasible option for like most men, you know, a good 1.00

00:44:36.700 question.

00:44:37.160 Oh, wait, I read that already.

00:44:38.800 Like, cause most guys just don't work from their laptop.

00:44:43.220 I'd like to do that.

00:44:44.300 How many girls even respect that? 0.86

00:44:47.300 Antonia got offended by the question.

00:44:50.400 She said, bye.

00:44:51.140 Well, I know the answer now.

00:44:54.440 Adios.

00:44:55.460 I am Croatian, bro.

00:44:57.300 Well, you're one flight away.

00:44:59.620 Hop on a plane.

00:45:00.960 Women love being flown out. 1.00

00:45:02.240 It's your turn.

00:45:03.060 He's flown out girls before.

00:45:05.340 Right?

00:45:06.960 Yeah.

00:45:07.460 But I mean, it's, uh, never again.

00:45:10.640 How hot?

00:45:11.520 What if she was a nine though? 0.74

00:45:13.580 Would you do it?

00:45:14.440 Would you fly her out?

00:45:15.260 Well, it's, it's tough because it's like, like, like, you know, sex always has the same 1.00

00:45:26.980 ending.

00:45:27.380 Like, uh, like if something crazy would happen where that, you know, it just always ends

00:45:35.160 the same.

00:45:35.620 So it's not really worth it.

00:45:36.840 You know, it's like the juice is never worth this squeeze.

00:45:40.860 If you're just doing like a one night stand, why would I pay 900 for that? 0.97

00:45:46.640 I was like, I'd, I'd rather just, I'd even shag a fat chick before I go spend 900 to get 1.00

00:45:51.580 laid one time. 0.99

00:45:52.900 Yeah.

00:45:53.980 Yeah.

00:45:54.860 I can say he can come here.

00:45:57.080 Well, now you're cooked.

00:45:59.600 He's not coming.

00:46:00.700 He's got a kid.

00:46:03.760 Yeah.

00:46:04.160 I mean, unless it's like a three day thing, but I'm not Croatia.

00:46:07.820 Where is that even?

00:46:08.740 Oh, he's thinking about it.

00:46:09.920 Well, okay.

00:46:10.540 Call in Antonia. 1.00

00:46:12.300 It's just, it's a real quick thought.

00:46:16.600 Leading.

00:46:17.180 Is anyone else in the chat with the, um, stories?

00:46:21.480 Doug?

00:46:22.560 No.

00:46:24.060 People got to call in.

00:46:26.160 Like.

00:46:26.940 I thought this would be on fire.

00:46:28.900 I thought that people, especially with as many people that were calling in yesterday,

00:46:33.700 we actually left some extra room for, for people to call in on the show.

00:46:38.080 Cause I thought this would be a hot topic.

00:46:39.600 I mean, what guy who's gone on a decent amount of dates hasn't sat there and just watched some

00:46:46.360 woman just run her mouth for 45 minutes. 1.00

00:46:49.520 And what do you, what?

00:46:51.080 Sorry, go ahead.

00:46:51.760 Overpriced food, overpriced drinks, you know, at, at fricking cheese shake factory, you know,

00:47:00.020 sitting there listening to some girl drone over.

00:47:03.560 Come on guys.

00:47:04.680 I knew you guys have been through it.

00:47:07.080 I know I have too many times.

00:47:08.900 What do you guys do?

00:47:11.840 Um, like when, so when you have your poker face on, do you ever try to get her to stop

00:47:20.760 talking about it or do you just let her go?

00:47:24.020 Like, do you ever, like, is she ever maybe if she would just get off of this topic, you're

00:47:29.380 like, okay, I could salvage something.

00:47:31.000 Or as soon as she starts going and you have to put on a poker face, are you done?

00:47:34.860 Like, seriously.

00:47:38.540 I always give five minutes to see where she's going with it. 0.95

00:47:41.980 Cause there are some initial ones you're like, okay, okay.

00:47:44.320 Where's she going with this?

00:47:45.660 But you know, you know how a book has to catch your, your, your attention in the first like

00:47:50.300 15, 20 pages, or like a movie has to catch your attention in the first like 10, 15 minutes.

00:47:55.460 That's how it is with women talking. 1.00

00:47:58.020 If she's in catch my attention in the first five minutes, I'm just like, nah, I can't.

00:48:04.580 What do you think about women that talk about their animals? 1.00

00:48:08.920 I mean, modern women, come on now. 1.00

00:48:11.980 You have to let women talk about their dogs a little bit. 1.00

00:48:16.280 There's a, there's an iPhone in here.

00:48:18.800 Let me see who this person is.

00:48:22.040 Uh, I mean, I'm admitting that your iPhone, who, who am I speaking to?

00:48:29.700 So, hello.

00:48:37.780 Yeah.

00:48:38.180 Well, I guess, yeah, I hope, I hope this, this, I want to hear this guy's story.

00:48:42.500 Hopefully you think he, is he going to connect?

00:48:44.480 We'll see.

00:48:46.000 iPhone.

00:48:46.560 Are you there?

00:48:47.100 Still connecting.

00:48:47.900 Are there any green flag topics on a first date where you're like, yes.

00:48:53.680 Um, yeah.

00:48:55.640 I mean, if they talk about, uh, if they're, if they're a fan of certain sports, but they

00:49:04.860 haven't, if they're a fan of certain sports, but didn't play sports a lot, but they're just

00:49:09.920 like a fan.

00:49:10.740 That's good.

00:49:12.220 Uh, if they could talk about, uh, that they're a fan of, of got, if they could talk about

00:49:18.620 that, they're a fan of things that guys are a fan of, that's a green flag.

00:49:25.300 Um, if they talk about where they want to go, but they haven't been a lot of places, that's

00:49:32.880 a green flag.

00:49:33.560 The, the girl I've been seeing always tells me, she would tell me how she cooks so much,

00:49:41.340 but she was telling me about her dog this morning.

00:49:44.520 So, and I was like, what is, I just don't know why, like, why, why would a single woman 1.00

00:49:50.600 in her thirties go buy a dog from, like, go rescue a dog?

00:49:55.340 You know, like, I'm going to go, I have problems.

00:49:57.880 I'm going to go get a dog that has problems.

00:49:59.780 She's lonely.

00:50:00.360 I just don't understand.

00:50:01.580 Yeah.

00:50:01.880 Remember, women have this nurturing spirit and they'll fill it with a dog. 1.00

00:50:06.980 Women used to have kids with Beckland day, but they'll fill it with a dog. 1.00

00:50:11.660 And the worst part about it is, Kevin Samuel said this, if you're a single woman and you

00:50:15.760 have a dog, you might as well have a kid.

00:50:18.120 A dog is a family pet.

00:50:21.840 And they're super expensive.

00:50:23.300 Is it a red or a green flag?

00:50:26.280 If a woman fosters kids, like out of the kindness of her heart, red flag, why wouldn't that be 1.00

00:50:33.620 a really kind thing to do?

00:50:35.380 I mean, no, because she's going to expect you.

00:50:39.200 If you get serious with her to take care of a kid, that's not even yours.

00:50:42.840 Yeah.

00:50:43.100 Okay.

00:50:43.400 Fair.

00:50:43.640 But don't they like leave after a while?

00:50:46.860 Like the foster kids?

00:50:47.780 If you adopt a child or foster a child, they're your responsibility. 0.88

00:50:53.920 Oh, I thought foster was like where they're, I thought foster was like they're there.

00:50:58.480 Like I thought it was like when they have the adoption paperwork, like they get the baby

00:51:03.720 for like a month until the real family gets it.

00:51:06.680 I thought that was.

00:51:08.160 I've seen foster kids with a family for years and years and years.

00:51:11.280 Most foster kids, they'll, they'll find a family and they'll stay.

00:51:14.220 And here's the thing.

00:51:15.460 If a woman, I think the, I mean, fostering is noble, but still like if a woman has a child 1.00

00:51:24.500 in her thirties or foster, any, any way that a woman has a child by herself in her thirties

00:51:32.360 and forties, she has resigned to being alone for the rest of her life.

00:51:37.160 That's true.

00:51:39.040 Yeah.

00:51:39.820 iPhone, are you there?

00:51:41.760 Okay.

00:51:42.300 I guess not.

00:51:43.700 Well, guys.

00:51:44.460 I went on a date with a chick that fostered kids, but she was in Portland, so she wasn't 1.00

00:51:50.020 fostering like normal kids, you know, just fostering kids that had plenty of issues.

00:51:56.160 And, uh, she loved telling me about how she thinks she's helping them.

00:51:59.880 And I was like, dude, she's a one dinner kind of woman. 0.94

00:52:05.820 Guys, send, um, click the link in the description and tell me your poker face stories.

00:52:11.800 So this is stories for the people that just tuned in.

00:52:15.180 These are stories where women have said crazy stuff and you've had to keep a poker face. 0.85

00:52:20.760 Okay.

00:52:21.700 I'm going to get rid of iPhone here since they're not talking.

00:52:25.420 So I guess, uh, I'll give people a preview of my, um,

00:52:31.900 Oh yeah.

00:52:32.340 Do that.

00:52:32.680 My thought process series here.

00:52:35.480 So, uh, my mental models.

00:52:37.980 So, um, if you guys don't know, you know, I'm, I'm Doug MPA.

00:52:44.740 I have a, the MPA comes from, I have a bachelor's and a master's screen policy.

00:52:48.420 I have my own channel and I've been supporting Pearl since the very beginning.

00:52:54.060 I became a mod on her channel right around when she had about, I think about 15,000 subs.

00:52:59.820 And we've talked a lot, uh, outside of YouTube the last couple of years.

00:53:05.280 And, uh, you know, I was able to share a couple of my thought processes and mental models with her.

00:53:10.980 And she, she convinced me to share some.

00:53:12.620 And so, um, one of them is, and I said this on multiple sheets before I say it here, guys, every so often you got to put a T chart on a piece of paper and you got to put my problem and not my problem, put my problem on one side and not my problem on the other side.

00:53:34.180 And take all the issues in your life and put what is your problem and what's not your problem because people, especially modern women want to make their problems. 1.00

00:53:45.300 Your problem guys, don't deal with problems that are not your problem.

00:53:51.380 And here's the thing.

00:53:51.820 A lot of guys, we are benevolent and we're givers men accumulate resources and money for the sake of others.

00:54:00.760 You know, wives, children, community, family, you know, and men that are givers, women try to take advantage of us either overtly or, uh, or subvertly by making their problems, your problems, single mothers, you know, the, they, the leads off the system. 1.00

00:54:23.660 They want you to take care of their children.

00:54:26.160 They're trying to say a real man will take on another man's kids.

00:54:29.900 So they're trying to make their problems, your problem guys, always be aware of what's your problem and what is not your problem.

00:54:40.460 So I'm going to go over more of these next week.

00:54:42.760 So make sure you tune in.

00:54:43.760 Okay.

00:54:44.300 I'm going to bring in.

00:54:45.860 And they're really good guys.

00:54:47.460 They're, they're really helpful.

00:54:48.660 That's why I convinced Doug MPA to do a show on them because I'd never heard anyone have like mental models like this.

00:54:55.580 And it was just really helpful.

00:54:56.500 So, um, who are you bringing in?

00:54:58.980 I'm going to bring in Ron.

00:55:04.040 Ron, are you there?

00:55:05.860 Yeah.

00:55:06.200 No, you know, I'm sorry.

00:55:07.920 I didn't have a little difficulty with my phone.

00:55:10.520 You're okay.

00:55:11.420 Um, so the question is, what is the craziest thing you've heard a woman say where you had to keep a poker face? 1.00

00:55:18.840 It's always everybody else's fault.

00:55:24.220 They don't take any accountability.

00:55:25.440 So is this, is this a girlfriend first date?

00:55:28.480 Like what's the, what's the scenario?

00:55:30.840 Oh, well, honestly, when they start talking about their, uh, ex exes and how bad they are, it's like, to me, it's a no brainer to get out of there real fast.

00:55:41.120 What are the common things that you hear?

00:55:44.560 And is this usually first date, second date?

00:55:46.800 Like when do they bring it up?

00:55:48.420 Usually the first.

00:55:49.860 They're, they're, they're trying to like make a narrative on their own to make themselves look like they're in the right.

00:55:54.280 And what are the common?

00:55:55.940 Yeah, sorry.

00:55:56.400 Go ahead.

00:55:56.600 Oh, well, they, well, they've been abused.

00:55:59.000 They're, uh, he doesn't pay attention to me or he doesn't do anything for the kids.

00:56:02.920 He's, uh, you know, out of shape or just everything that you can make the guy look like he's the worst person ever.

00:56:10.220 Instead of like trying to fix what they had, they go and think he's going to jump out of this situation and go find somebody else in the world at a different time in their life where everything is like a lot less, you know, from back when they started dating.

00:56:25.420 When they dated in the beginning, they're all over each other.

00:56:28.140 It's like a smoking mirror rack.

00:56:30.860 Then they all of a sudden get amnesia that you're part of the family.

00:56:37.360 Classic.

00:56:38.600 No, right.

00:56:39.340 I mean, pretty much.

00:56:40.020 And then, then when you're sitting there, they get mad at you for everything.

00:56:42.620 You get told you're not worth anything.

00:56:44.720 And then at the end of the day, you check out.

00:56:48.180 So my advice to anybody is if you're dating somebody, look at the parents.

00:56:52.580 If they're toxic, the father's teaching the son how to treat women and the mother's trying to teach the daughter how to treat men.

00:57:00.000 If the mother's always badgering the father or vice versa, get out of there.

00:57:04.900 Because if they're not on the same page and they embarrass each other in front of other people, that's what you're dating.

00:57:10.640 And then when your girl or guy is in a bad situation, they're going to stick up for their kid and they're going to team up on you.

00:57:16.300 So I would assume with you, Ron, that if you're, if you're dating a woman and she finds out that she didn't have a dad or she came from a single mother home, that's an automatic red flag for you. 0.83

00:57:29.320 Listen, I know there's mothers out there that raise their kids and have no help or power to them. 1.00

00:57:34.760 But nowadays, all I see is a lot of fathers that want to be a part of their kids' lives, but have to be told that you should fight for them.

00:57:42.800 Why do you have to fight to be a father?

00:57:44.320 They don't have to fight to be a mother. 1.00

00:57:48.240 Shouldn't it just be like their right to be a father?

00:57:50.360 And then honestly, it's just the court system is all like in the backwards from 1950s.

00:57:56.040 They're going to really like update this thing.

00:57:57.340 So they want equal rights, but they want, they want to take the money out of the father's paycheck with nothing from their side.

00:58:04.740 I, I've always hated that term.

00:58:06.880 Why don't you fight for your kids more?

00:58:08.880 The woman who's creating the fight is telling the father to fight for his children. 0.83

00:58:15.860 So she's creating the fight. 0.99

00:58:18.360 Right.

00:58:19.060 And telling you to fight harder.

00:58:21.400 It's insane to me.

00:58:23.000 They get people to trip in their ears like it's going to be some fantastic world when they get out of here.

00:58:26.540 And then when they get out there, they're like, wow, the amount of people that are out there that are divorced themselves or, or able to be like, you know, dating material, a very small portion of them are nice people.

00:58:38.340 The bunch of them are all messed up.

00:58:43.700 Yep.

00:58:44.380 Yep.

00:58:44.880 So no lies.

00:58:45.960 And then it's on like, everything's on like recycle.

00:58:47.940 They start recycling the guys and the girls.

00:58:49.640 They just start dating everybody.

00:58:51.120 Next thing you know, you, Oh, you finished with her? 0.79

00:58:52.820 You finished with him?

00:58:53.540 They just start recycling the guys and girls.

00:58:55.000 Yeah.

00:58:57.640 Someone says, come on, Pearl. 0.75

00:58:58.700 You have to put the live link.

00:59:00.020 It's in the chat guys.

00:59:01.020 It's in the, it's pinned.

00:59:02.780 And now they all look like Muppets.

00:59:06.540 Oh, with the, like surgery.

00:59:08.120 Yeah.

00:59:08.400 They put their lips so much with the injection.

00:59:09.960 They touch their nose. 0.98

00:59:10.820 They get their butts. 0.95

00:59:11.760 All that stuff they do there. 0.86

00:59:12.860 You can like put a beer can on it.

00:59:13.880 And then their stomach's touching their back from Ozempic. 0.58

00:59:17.140 I know.

00:59:17.680 We're so good.

00:59:18.420 Once, once they have a generic Ozempic on the market, it's done.

00:59:22.780 I know.

00:59:23.200 It's done.

00:59:23.340 And the poor people that have diabetes can't get it.

00:59:25.960 No, honestly, I think it'll be great. 0.62

00:59:28.100 I'd love to see less fat women. 1.00

00:59:30.520 Oh yeah. 0.68

00:59:31.080 That would be good.

00:59:31.840 I'm on the page with you there.

00:59:33.120 Yeah.

00:59:33.360 I mean, like, sure.

00:59:34.160 It might, I mean, it might give them side effects, but so does being obese.

00:59:39.040 So I might as well have something nice to look at.

00:59:41.640 Well, the side effect is, you know, you might have a guy look at you still.

00:59:44.980 Yeah.

00:59:45.340 That's what I mean.

00:59:46.120 I'm like, I don't, I don't know if I think it's a bad thing.

00:59:49.460 No, I know.

00:59:50.640 Like, well, I'm always wondering, oh, I'm sorry.

00:59:53.920 Go ahead.

00:59:54.400 No, you go.

00:59:54.820 Go ahead.

00:59:55.420 I'm always wondering because nothing's free.

00:59:58.280 Right.

00:59:59.460 So you have people losing weight without doing work, but there's going to be some kind of

01:00:06.980 cost.

01:00:07.960 Nothing is free.

01:00:09.640 There's no miracle drug.

01:00:11.240 So odds are there's going to be some kind of long-term damage.

01:00:15.360 Right.

01:00:16.260 Or you have a bunch of undisciplined people, skinny.

01:00:22.360 I don't.

01:00:23.480 Or they overdo it.

01:00:24.980 They don't know where to stop.

01:00:25.880 The check is going to come due.

01:00:28.320 We just don't know how it's going to come due.

01:00:30.200 No, it is, but it's going to come due, like, anyways.

01:00:33.440 So I might as well get to see them thin until the side effects.

01:00:36.880 What?

01:00:37.700 You're pissed with that. 0.97

01:00:39.040 To get the people from being fat to, like, being a skeleton. 0.77

01:00:41.460 Like, when was Jeff Dunham's a puppet?

01:00:43.840 I mean, I'd rather, like, I'm just thinking about me here, not really them.

01:00:48.620 So it's like, if they're already big, and, like, the other day I was on an airplane and

01:00:56.180 this woman was spilling over, I kind of wish she took some Ozempic, you know? 1.00

01:01:01.060 Oh, yeah.

01:01:01.680 And they charge you more for your two pounds over on the luggage.

01:01:04.920 Yeah, I know.

01:01:05.720 And I'm like, this woman's 50 pounds over on the scale, but they don't put that in. 1.00

01:01:11.220 And so I'm like, now I'm sure they'll have side effects later.

01:01:16.700 I personally wouldn't take it, but.

01:01:19.620 You know what it is?

01:01:20.360 Some people that aren't disciplined enough to do the diets and follow them, they can use

01:01:25.120 that and it'll help them get there.

01:01:26.320 But they're taking this stuff the wrong way it's prescribed.

01:01:29.980 If the doctor's trying to take this amount, so many people are like, oh, I'll take a little

01:01:32.980 more or I'll go faster.

01:01:33.920 That's what they think in their head.

01:01:35.060 So they're overdosing themselves.

01:01:36.680 And that's where I think the problems are coming from.

01:01:38.040 Can you overdose on Ozempic?

01:01:42.400 Yeah, because they're supposed to do micro dosing and the doctors are only telling them

01:01:45.260 to do it once a week.

01:01:46.080 So they should really be splitting up this dosage in half.

01:01:49.240 So if they tell you to take 20 millimeters, you should be taking 10 in the beginning of

01:01:53.780 the week and 10 at the end of the week.

01:01:55.080 This way, it's not a spike in your system.

01:01:56.760 It just keeps you plateaued.

01:01:59.780 Okay.

01:02:00.540 Oh, I know that you top pro and I something.

01:02:05.180 Well, you know what?

01:02:06.080 It doesn't make sense.

01:02:06.740 It's like if the guys go on testosterone replacement and they go see the doctor every

01:02:10.340 two weeks after they get their blood work done, they're doing it legitimately.

01:02:13.380 They get a testosterone shot at the doctor's office.

01:02:15.760 They spike up and the testosterone that the doctors are giving them lasts 14 days in your

01:02:19.840 system.

01:02:20.420 So now by the time you get back in two weeks, you're crashing.

01:02:23.700 So instead of saying split it in half, take it half on one week, half on the next week

01:02:28.280 and keep you level that you're up and down.

01:02:30.480 You're up and down.

01:02:33.320 Okay.

01:02:33.880 I didn't know that.

01:02:34.900 Doesn't that make a little sense?

01:02:35.680 Yeah.

01:02:37.100 Makes sense.

01:02:38.540 But we'll, we're going to, we have a couple of other callers.

01:02:42.740 Oh, we do?

01:02:43.880 Woohoo.

01:02:44.520 Mm-hmm.

01:02:45.140 All right.

01:02:45.460 Thanks for calling, Ron.

01:02:46.820 I had fun with you guys.

01:02:47.660 It was a great, great, great show.

01:02:48.580 Yeah.

01:02:48.860 Good luck with everything.

01:02:49.440 Thanks for calling in.

01:02:50.260 Call in anytime.

01:02:51.200 Thank you.

01:02:52.000 I'm going to let in.

01:02:54.060 I'm going to put, guys, I'm putting my big water bottle in the shot.

01:02:56.860 I know it's ugly.

01:02:57.700 I'm doing it.

01:02:58.480 You can bounce me out.

01:02:59.440 Okay.

01:03:00.820 All right.

01:03:01.180 Let me do that.

01:03:06.360 Oh.

01:03:06.600 Oh.

01:03:07.540 Oh.

01:03:08.000 No.

01:03:10.660 Okay.

01:03:11.120 I'm going to let in tense, Warren.

01:03:18.580 I'm doing it.

01:03:19.780 You can bounce me out.

01:03:20.680 Okay.

01:03:21.560 Tense, Warren.

01:03:22.180 Are you there?

01:03:23.080 Nope.

01:03:24.900 Can you hear me?

01:03:26.260 Yeah.

01:03:26.460 I can hear you.

01:03:26.960 Make sure to mute the.

01:03:29.940 I got you.

01:03:32.940 Yeah.

01:03:33.420 So what was the question?

01:03:35.800 What is something crazy a girl has said on a date or when you were in a relationship 0.63

01:03:41.000 that was absolutely insane, but you had to keep a poker face for?

01:03:46.960 So I don't really go on much dates like that because with me, I think like relationships

01:03:52.660 are like a scam for my age group because I'm 23, but you know, when I talk to women, the 1.00

01:03:58.580 thing that kind of like makes me look at them funny is like when a woman says like, you 0.99

01:04:04.400 know, when we have a conversation about men and then she's pretty much like talking down

01:04:10.520 on like decent quality men and then, you know, her main excuse to why she dates like these

01:04:17.580 terrible men is like, oh, I don't date nice or decent men because they usually put on a mask.

01:04:25.720 And I'm like, in my head, I'm like, I mean, that's a, that's a good point because sometimes

01:04:30.660 that does happen, but I look at them funny because it's like, you rather pick this drug

01:04:35.280 dealer, this gang member, this like, you know, this guy who's definitely not going to give

01:04:40.340 you commitment over the guy that could possibly give you commitment.

01:04:43.860 So, you know, my main issue with women is like, when they talk about men, you know, the 1.00

01:04:50.520 main thing that makes me like look at them funny is just like the way they talk about,

01:04:54.200 you know, they try to like, let's say, how could I phrase this?

01:04:57.600 They pretty much uplift the terrible men and they kind of like downplay the decent quality

01:05:03.200 man. And I don't understand why it's like that. So in my age group, I'm 23. So it's

01:05:07.880 pretty common here, especially like with black women. Cause I'm a black man. 0.92

01:05:12.360 Yeah. I kind of figured you were, you're a black pro. I am too. And you, yo, man, like 0.96

01:05:18.540 you, I feel bad for you, for you YNs, man, you guys got, it's only gotten worse. I thought 1.00

01:05:25.880 that my generation was bad, but you guys got it bad, bro.

01:05:29.640 Yeah, man. And like the last girl I was messing with, right. I try to like, you know, I try

01:05:34.640 to like do something with her, but she wanted this one guy and then she didn't want like

01:05:40.780 me because she said I wasn't toxic enough or like good enough. And I'm like, and this

01:05:46.240 girl too, she wasn't like, like if you were to like talk to her, she doesn't come off 0.56

01:05:50.120 as like the type of black woman to like be in that, involved in that. But like, it's 1.00

01:05:53.520 like, even the normal type of black woman, like they're into that stuff too. And it's like, 1.00

01:05:57.620 you know, I try not to put all black women in a group, but I do. That's the, that's 0.99

01:06:02.880 the main thing I kind of see. I honestly don't blame me because I've been to like that point

01:06:08.440 where I might have to, because that's the main thing I've seen in this culture. Like

01:06:13.160 we kind of infant, infant, I don't know how to say the word, but yeah, we're going to

01:06:19.740 uplift the terrible men. And then when it, you know, the main trend, when you hit 30

01:06:25.760 years old, it's time to go to the decent man. Like when you get the decent man, like you

01:06:31.040 don't even treat them the way they want to be treated. Like they have to wait for sex 0.99

01:06:35.300 while this guy who's like, like, like I was talking about a drug dealer, no goals, gets 0.98

01:06:41.220 the sex after it. Like, well, so I'm going to give you a little bit of advice. Is that, 0.86

01:06:48.180 is that okay, bro? Yeah. You can give me something like that. Yo, so, so first off, it's not

01:06:54.320 you, bro. It's not like when, um, cause myself and my brother, you know, they, if you're worth

01:07:04.660 something as a black man, you're going to catch hell for, from, from our women. If you're 1.00

01:07:09.320 ambitious, if you're educated, if you're trying to do something with your life, you

01:07:13.340 are going to catch hell. If you treat women right, you just got to hold on until 1.00

01:07:17.500 you're, until you're 35, man. So you, you got to keep your head down. You got to

01:07:22.600 grind, get a highly valued education, highly valued skill, highly valued trade, because

01:07:28.120 when you hit the 35, all of a sudden, none of them care, care about that stuff.

01:07:32.660 Yeah. And I agree because I'm out to graduate and like a month from now from college and

01:07:37.720 I'm graduating with like a, like computer science degree. There you go, man. There you go.

01:07:41.700 My own business too. So I'm pretty much in a good direction. So I'm just trying to really

01:07:46.280 see. What state are you in? I'm in New York city. That's like, yo, move out of New York

01:07:52.880 city. I recommend Seattle. Yeah. Um, uh, uh, Texas. Yo, bro. Once you get your degree, move

01:08:00.920 away from New York city, they don't deserve you there. I don't, it's like the worst place.

01:08:06.440 Like even like, you know, even when Trump was in office, like, you know, during the whole

01:08:11.140 November 15, like everyone else voted for him, but only in New York is was, is where

01:08:16.680 people were, you know, having riots and like all these. So I'm like, you know, the mindset

01:08:22.180 here is kind of like, I don't kind of feel with the wavelength. So yeah. I'm going to say

01:08:29.060 it again, it's not you because unfortunately, you know, I went through a time in my mid twenties

01:08:33.200 where I, I, people questioned my blackness so much that I went through a short period

01:08:39.980 where, where I questioned my own blackness and I can't change who I am. You know, like

01:08:45.920 I've always liked Star Trek and intellectual things. And, you know, I, you know, I used to

01:08:51.940 skate when I was younger. You know, I grew up in Seattle in the nineties. So, you know, you

01:08:55.660 know, I listened to Nirvana and Soundgarden and all, you know, I'm into grunge rock and

01:08:59.700 stuff. Don't compromise who you are, man. And there, I have an 80% rule. 80% of black 1.00

01:09:06.380 women aren't worth dating, but you can find a black woman. If you want to be with a black 1.00

01:09:11.300 woman, you can find them, but you're going to find them at like anime conventions, you 0.98

01:09:16.060 know, pick up tennis or something like that where the ratchet ones don't, don't congregate 0.74

01:09:22.860 because do you want to have a family one day? Of course. Do you want them to, to be

01:09:30.040 black? Like, like, well, I mean, if you have a children with a white woman, they're going 1.00

01:09:35.800 to be black, but you know, like, do you want them to be like full black? So your two major

01:09:43.020 responsibilities right now, don't get married to have any kids until you've reached at least

01:09:48.640 the 35 and then find a black woman who has, has had your similar experience of just not 0.96

01:09:55.120 fitting in with black culture. My father's a, uh, uh, uh, he, he's very successful. And

01:10:01.500 he told my brother and I, uh, and my sister, if you're, if you want to be something in the 0.61

01:10:06.800 black community, if you want to be ambitious, if you want to, uh, leave this whole black nation 1.00

01:10:11.480 thing behind, man. Oh yeah. Well, what up brother? Uh, what up sister? No, leave that 0.98

01:10:16.300 behind, man. There is no cohesiveness amongst black people. So this whole black nation thing, 1.00

01:10:22.800 it's, it's, it doesn't exist. Yeah, man. That's some solid advice. So yeah, I wish it wasn't 0.82

01:10:28.480 that way, but yeah, that's my main poker face. Just when I, when I talk to women, you know, 1.00

01:10:33.260 So when they start bringing up like the, the, like the hood stuff and saying you're not like,

01:10:37.900 you know, even the decent, like looking quality that you wouldn't even expect to be doing that,

01:10:42.880 they're into that too. So it's like, you know, I kind of like, you know, kind of turns me off

01:10:47.020 when I talk to women and like, you know, and I know how to kind of find a way to kind of, you know, 1.00

01:10:52.420 identify these type of women. Like when they talk about, Oh, men are always having kids. And I'm

01:10:56.840 like, I don't even know. I don't even know men that have kids myself. So how do you know?

01:11:00.640 54% of black men have no children. 54%. How do you know so many men that have kids? So that kind of like,

01:11:07.540 you know, I kind of use stuff like that to kind of see, okay, yeah, she's, she's probably messing

01:11:11.920 with those type of men. And I just respond by myself and just keep it a buck. But yeah,

01:11:16.380 that's some sort of advice, man. Yeah. And, and, and here's the thing. Yeah. You're probably,

01:11:22.080 you're going to be a little bitter towards, you know, the black community, black women, because 1.00

01:11:26.880 they just keep, they keep rejecting you and like hurting you over and over and over again. 0.97

01:11:32.020 But, but you can, and those it's valid, but all you have to do is find your one man. Even if you

01:11:40.200 have, you know, there are a lot of women out there. You can hate men all you want, but all you have to 1.00

01:11:44.360 do is find your one. And that's the same thing with women. There are modern women out there. 1.00

01:11:49.400 They're single mothers. They, you know, they, they do all this crazy stuff, but all you have to do is 1.00

01:11:53.600 find your, despite your views on women, all you have to do is find your one. So make sure to, 1.00

01:11:59.040 to leave is if you want to have a family, just make sure to leave room in your heart to find

01:12:03.500 that one. Yeah. That's some sort of advice, man. Yeah, man. I thank you for that. But yeah,

01:12:08.780 let me let you go on to the next caller. I'll probably call in tomorrow, but yeah,

01:12:12.240 y'all have a nice day. Yeah. Thanks for calling. Call in any time. Do you want to let Glenn in?

01:12:19.120 How many people are in the waiting room? There's two. Cool. Including Glenn. Glenn,

01:12:24.960 what's going on, man? Glenn. I think he's, hold on. Let me remind him. You are on screen.

01:12:42.860 Glenn. Oh, hello. Sorry. Glenn. Glenn, um, what is the craziest,

01:12:54.640 craziest thing a woman said to you that you had to keep a poker face? This could be a first date 1.00

01:12:58.940 relationship, whatever. The craziest thing. Oh man. Okay. So, um, let me, this is, this requires a

01:13:10.180 story. Okay. And, um, craziest thing was that I had my dick imprints on the counter.

01:13:18.120 Wait, what? That she found the outline of my dick on the counter. And she want to know who the fuck I was 1.00

01:13:30.400 fucking. 1.00

01:13:35.320 Where? Yeah. Was there, was there someone you were? 1.00

01:13:38.560 It's like, for what it is, it's like, I don't know what, what's worse. The questions I want to ask Glenn

01:13:48.280 or the questions he'd give or the answers he'd give us.

01:13:54.300 Go ahead. Take, go ahead. Just go ahead. I'm ready. I, I, I've been through this. I am a pro

01:14:00.460 at answering these questions. 1.00

01:14:02.320 So, how does one put an imprint of her dick on a counter? Like, how does, how does, how does that happen? 1.00

01:14:09.120 And it wasn't just on the counter, it was on the glass door, you know, the, the porch, just like, mm-hmm. 1.00

01:14:17.040 So, they thought that I was, like, fucking all these bitches when they went to the store. 1.00

01:14:23.360 And, um. Were you? 1.00

01:14:26.240 Well, no. I was, like, working and stuff.

01:14:31.760 Okay. 0.99

01:14:32.640 Um, but they forget, like, I was fucking them on the counter and them all over the place. 0.96

01:14:42.480 But, and here, here's a funny thing. It was actually, it, it wasn't even a dick imprint, okay? 0.99

01:14:47.200 Like, I, it was not even a smudge. Like, I look at it, I'm like, that, that doesn't do me justice,

01:14:51.920 okay? Cause, like, wait, come on now. Like, you know, you, you know what you're working with

01:15:00.560 and you know what you're not working with. And you're just like, that is not me. Like,

01:15:04.400 that's not even.

01:15:06.800 So, what was it? It was just a smudge?

01:15:08.720 It was her dildo. 0.98

01:15:14.240 And Pearl, you know who I'm talking about. So, I'm just going to leave it. 0.98

01:15:16.480 I already know, I know what you're talking about. Wow. So, it was a, uh, wow.

01:15:21.920 Yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And I'm sitting here like this. Like, she came to me with that. I'm like,

01:15:27.040 hmm. Hmm. Really? Okay, let's investigate this. I'm not even trying to, like,

01:15:36.080 I'm not even trying to make fun of you yet. I'm going to investigate this with you.

01:15:40.960 So, when you guys figured it out, how did she react?

01:15:43.600 Well, um, she went in her room, closed the door, and then cried. 0.99

01:15:51.920 Classic.

01:15:53.280 And I would stay in the living room, like this.

01:16:00.880 Try not to laugh out loud. That was, that was it.

01:16:03.280 But imagine having to be asked about these smudges on the window and on the counter.

01:16:13.040 As if, like, like you did something like, what the hell? Like,

01:16:16.400 I know there's some people that are doing some freaky deaky things like that, but like,

01:16:19.200 I don't recall just putting the meat on the, on the counter. Like, that's where we eat.

01:16:24.880 It's the breakfast bar.

01:16:33.360 Is there anything, you got any other stories? I feel like this can't be the only one.

01:16:38.000 Oh, I mean, there's the one time when, like, they tore up my office because they thought that

01:16:43.120 I had someone hiding underneath the desk.

01:16:48.720 That was really funny.

01:16:49.520 They thought that you had someone hiding underneath the desk.

01:16:52.640 Mm-hmm.

01:16:54.880 Can you elaborate more on that? Like, how did this?

01:17:02.080 Yeah, so I was, so there's a website called We Audition, and it's a place where actors go,

01:17:09.040 and when they have an audition coming up, they need to rehearse their lines.

01:17:12.000 They get with other actors to rehearse lines with each other, right?

01:17:15.680 So I'm in there rehearsing the line for the movie Token Choke, the one that I ended up landing,

01:17:20.160 and she heard, she heard this woman talking, right? And she started freaking out.

01:17:27.680 And she had my brother, who was at the house at the time, like, guard the outside window. 1.00

01:17:34.000 It's like, don't let that bitch come out the window. 1.00

01:17:38.160 And my brother's like, what the fuck? So he's outside guarding the window for her. 1.00

01:17:43.520 He's texting me. He's like, yo, bro, I'm outside your window. I don't know why, but I'm outside your window.

01:17:48.640 And I go take my dog for a walk. This is when I had my English.

01:17:52.960 And so I come back, and then I walk in there, and the whole office is tore up. Like, everything's a mess.

01:18:01.920 Everything's moved and everything. I'm like, what are you looking for?

01:18:06.320 And she's like, I'm looking for this stand. I found it. I'm like, it's a tripod.

01:18:12.400 I'm like, but that's not your tripod. That's my tripod. What do you need my tripod for?

01:18:16.720 And she's like, well, I just wanted to make sure it wasn't mine, and it was yours.

01:18:23.920 I'm like, well, it actually says my name on it. But, you know.

01:18:32.640 And then she confessed that she thought there was this, like, person in the room, because she heard a woman talking.

01:18:39.600 And I'm like, hmm. Hmm. So he tore up the office, like, moving furniture around to find this, and you didn't find what you're looking for.

01:18:57.120 I made a whole skit about it. I made a skit, like, me portraying her and me playing me. It's on YouTube. It's really funny.

01:19:03.520 That's insane. Was she always like this? Like, thinking you're cheating all the time? 0.93

01:19:11.680 Um, yeah, because I've come to find out that that's what she was doing. So what most people do is they project.

01:19:17.360 Yeah, they project. Yeah.

01:19:20.720 Nate Brassfield is next, and then there's a person that's under owner, and then Julian, and then fight sports talk. Okay, go ahead, Glenn.

01:19:27.760 Yeah, like, no, I just, like, I have security cameras everywhere, even right now. Like, I'm at, I'm at Thor's house, and I have security cameras all over the place.

01:19:36.240 Hmm. Well, thanks for calling in, Glenn. A pleasure, as always. We got to get to the next caller, okay?

01:19:42.400 Yeah, yes. Um, no dick imprints on counters, okay? Remember, that's where you guys eat. 0.98

01:19:46.720 Um, Glenn's saying, be civilized, for Christ's sake.

01:19:52.080 Yeah, be civilized.

01:19:52.880 We'll be a bunch of Neanderthals. 1.00

01:19:53.920 All right, buddy. All right, guys, take it easy. Peace.

01:19:58.800 All right. Okay.

01:20:05.680 Nate, are you there?

01:20:07.280 Be civilized, for Christ's sake. Yeah, I don't know.

01:20:10.960 Nate, you have the YouTube on in the background, so turn that off.

01:20:15.920 Got it, got it. What's up, guys?

01:20:19.840 Hey, so tell us your poker face story.

01:20:24.880 Yeah, okay. I've been watching for a while. I got, man, I got all sorts of thoughts.

01:20:34.400 Poker face, you will. So for me, the thing is about me and my personality, I actually have a damn good poker face. 0.87

01:20:42.720 But I don't always, like, with women and dates, I really don't feel the need to use it. Like, I'm just, I talk very straight to them, especially if they say something ridiculous that they're used to just sliding by.

01:20:58.080 So I don't do that that much. I don't just let it slide. I'm like, okay, what was that? Like, what do you mean? Why'd you say that? But I have a couple. I have a couple.

01:21:12.160 I remember when I was really, I was young. I was in my 20s. And it was kind of, it was more of like a group thing. But it was still, you know how it is when you're younger. Like, you're still kind of trying to talk to a girl.

01:21:28.900 So she was cool. She was really pretty. I was like, you know, I'm interested in her. So we're hanging out. We're having a couple of drinks. And she, I'm like, trying to figure it out. See, I'm kind of trying to pursue her, you know, and she said that. And I was just like,

01:21:51.280 I am so not, I'm done. I am not interested. I just couldn't believe the audacity.

01:22:05.000 Did you say it to her or no? Did you just on the date?

01:22:08.940 No, at that point, I just like felt, I was younger. Like I said, I was in my early 20s. I just had that like internal shock.

01:22:18.140 Like, like, you just think like, what is their point? What are where what is their angle?

01:22:27.120 You can't, you know, you can't tell you're like, is this? What are you trying to gain here? You trying to show some sort of confidence or dominance? Or what are you doing?

01:22:41.420 Or are you just so, are you person, are you just really nervous and you don't know what to say or do? But yeah, I remember that one vividly because my, my heart kind of dropped into my stomach and I was just like, I am, I'm, I'm good.

01:22:58.100 What else?

01:23:00.440 On that topic?

01:23:02.040 No, like where you said you had a couple stories. So what else?

01:23:04.700 Yeah, yeah. On that topic. So I had, I have a more lighthearted version too. That was more recent in the last few years where I sort of like, I met this woman, we were in the same line of work. She seemed really, um, she seemed really kind. She seemed really virtuous.

01:23:27.620 She said that like, God was her number one priority in her life. I'm like, great. You know, this is, this is really good. Um, and we were friends for a while, but she was like dating someone. So I kind of left it alone for the most part, but I was always attracted to her.

01:23:46.680 And then over some time, she, she ended up moving. She broke up with her boyfriend, her and I started talking more, messaging more than we were started. Like we started to message a lot, like almost every single day. And I'm like, wow. Okay. So I think this is actually going somewhere.

01:24:11.160 And then I had family that lived out in the, in the same state that I wanted to visit. It's the same state that she had gotten a job at and moved to. So I'm like, perfect. I'm going to go out there, visit fam, visit her.

01:24:27.560 And like pretty much as soon as I started to go out there after we're talking every day, not like messaging, voice memos, like all basically almost like we're dating. Um, she kind of like pulled back and I was like, okay, that's whatever, you know, whatever women, not a big deal.

01:24:53.620 And then when I got there, she kind of perked back up and she was like, Hey, you know, like you're getting an Airbnb, maybe like I'll spend the night where you're at. I'm like, okay, cool. Perfect. So we're, we're back on the same page. Um, and then I go out there and she just was like,

01:25:14.820 just kind of awkward about it. Like standoffish, like not, not super chill about everything. Everything seems to be calculated. She's not sure, you know, how long she's going to stay or like all this stupid stuff.

01:25:33.780 And then, and so finally, like, I'm just like, all right, I'm going to press through it, whatever. I'm not going to get bothered next day. I'm like, we plan to go to the beach. Let's go to the beach. Um, we go, she's like intentionally creating distance. I'm like, all right, this is weird, whatever. I'm not going to, then we get, we get in my car, we're leaving. 0.98

01:25:57.220 And she's telling me these stories about how she's been going out, how she's been going out to the club, how she's like laughing about like having guys buy her drinks and giving her number out. And I just was like, what, what is, are you, are you, so I straight up asked her, I was like, so are you just, are you just interested in me as like a friend or something?

01:26:27.220 Yeah. And she got that feeling, man. It's usually what it is.

01:26:32.260 Yeah. And she was like, Oh, no, no, no. Actually, the first thing I said, no, no, actually, before I even said that, I was like, can I ask you something? She's like, yeah. What? I was like, do you like talk to people like every day and message them and send voice memos?

01:26:50.300 And oh, no. And she was like, um, yeah, yeah. Like, what do you mean? And I was like, okay. And she and she was like, well, I mean, now that I think about it, I mean, like, you're probably like the only guy that I do that with.

01:27:05.060 And I was like, okay. And then, and then I was like, okay, let me ask you something. Cause I, at that point I was so caught off guard. Like I was so, I was just like, screw it. I don't even care. I don't care about game. I don't care about strategy. Like human being at this point.

01:27:25.020 So I was just like, let me ask you, like, are you, do you, are you, are you just like feeling like you're my friend? Because that's not my feeling.

01:27:35.860 What'd she say? She goes, Oh yeah. Yeah. I just, no, we're just friends.

01:27:44.120 Okay. So how quickly did you end this whole thing?

01:27:47.640 Um, um, I ended it pretty much there. I, I was like, I was like, Oh, um, Oh, okay. You know, like in that case, then we don't need to be communicating like this, you know, like on a daily event. She was like, Oh my God, I'm so sorry. I'm, Oh, I'm so sorry. She was not sorry at all.

01:28:09.680 No, no, no. Right. Right. I know. Yeah. Okay.

01:28:14.520 So I was just like, Oh my God. Like, what are you actually doing? Do you really, is it, do you really need attention? Like, is that a lifeline? Like, I don't care if someone texts me on a daily basis.

01:28:26.860 Modern women, man. Attention is their currency. 1.00

01:28:30.160 It's so weird though. It's so, it's sort of like a mental illness because like realistically and logically, like, what does that actually do for you other than a dopamine hit?

01:28:39.680 Like it doesn't do anything, but just can't explain it, man. The worst thing you can do is try to understand it.

01:28:47.760 Right. No. So it was crazy because I heard that younger guy call in and you could tell I could feel his pain because I don't know how, like, if you guys paid attention to this part, but he said one, like at one point he was talking to the woman and she literally spelled it out.

01:29:08.360 She was like, it sounded like this, that she was literally like, you're not quite like gangster. You're not quite, you're not quite like toxic. So what hit me so hard, I'm older than that guy.

01:29:24.640 But I remember having conversations with younger women.

01:29:30.720 You got, you got one more minute and cause we have a couple of other calls, but go ahead.

01:29:36.940 Yeah, no, I just, I remember having conversations with younger women when I was in my twenties and I could like sense them in, you know, insinuating things.

01:29:48.140 And it's just, but I was like, what are they really saying? And it was basically like something similar.

01:29:54.620 And now the culture has progressed where people are literally just comfortable saying overt, blatant, ridiculous things. 0.86

01:30:03.140 Like she, like she, that woman to that young man literally had no shame. 0.96

01:30:09.620 She literally was perfectly comfortable saying, you're not a criminal and I'm not turned on.

01:30:20.400 And that's the experience that I'm imagining these younger guys in their twenties are actually dealing with.

01:30:25.920 It's just, it's just, it's just sad.

01:30:28.400 It really is.

01:30:32.580 Okay.

01:30:33.960 Okay.

01:30:35.320 So how much money did you spend on that weekend?

01:30:39.940 Oh, I mean, you know, I don't know.

01:30:43.960 I mean, it wasn't that big of a deal for me, but probably, I don't know, a couple thousand dollars.

01:30:49.320 I mean, I was visiting my family that were down there too.

01:30:53.200 But you wouldn't have gone if she wasn't there, right?

01:31:00.140 Come on.

01:31:01.160 Yeah.

01:31:02.880 I probably would have at some point because my mom, my mom and my sister were living there, but no, like, yeah, that, that was a part of it.

01:31:11.300 Yeah.

01:31:11.600 Okay.

01:31:12.100 Well, thanks for calling in, Nate.

01:31:14.260 Call back anytime.

01:31:15.260 Okay.

01:31:16.220 Will do.

01:31:17.440 Take care, guys.

01:31:18.520 Bye.

01:31:19.040 Okay.

01:31:19.620 Bye.

01:31:19.840 So there's a person in, it just says owner.

01:31:26.360 Yeah.

01:31:27.660 Make sure you pause the YouTube video.

01:31:31.760 Anytime.

01:31:32.380 Okay.

01:31:33.380 Will do.

01:31:34.660 Check it.

01:31:35.540 Yes.

01:31:35.880 Catch up.

01:31:38.120 It just says owner.

01:31:39.960 Are you there?

01:31:43.260 Yeah.

01:31:43.720 Right here.

01:31:44.040 Oh, it's Tom Ryan.

01:31:45.540 Hey, how's it going?

01:31:47.700 Hey, what's up, girl? 0.98

01:31:48.440 So what's your poker face story?

01:31:52.540 Oh, boy, this one was, this one was, I think it was the last time I ever made this mistake.

01:31:56.540 But I had, I was, I hadn't been late in a long time.

01:32:02.060 So I'm with a girl, you know, we're making out.

01:32:04.700 And she starts, I, you know, I realized later on, like, I'm like, oh, she seems like the perfect girl.

01:32:09.960 She seems perfect for me.

01:32:11.080 And I realized later on, no, it's just borderline personality disorder.

01:32:14.600 That's all that was.

01:32:15.440 And so she tells me, like, I think of, um, I like, like, like the guy she finds attractive, which, you know, who she's attracted to. 0.90

01:32:23.960 And like, one of the first guys that comes out of her mouth is fricking Vladimir Putin. 0.92

01:32:27.720 And I'm just like, oh, the genocide guy, the journalist murdering guy, right? 0.98

01:32:33.400 The, like, guy from hell is who you're attracted to, you know?

01:32:36.780 And of course, that's my reaction.

01:32:39.440 And like, this one hit me because that was so hard to stay quiet about that.

01:32:44.000 Like, I did, I swallowed it, I dot laid it, and it wasn't worth it.

01:32:48.860 It was just, you know, it's like, oh, you know, I'm never doing that again.

01:32:53.680 That was kind of the beginning of my, you know, red pill journey.

01:32:56.200 I just, I refuse to keep simply, you know, I don't even know what the word is, but I refuse to keep being innocent.

01:33:02.200 Dear being who I think women want to be because that just felt so gross. 1.00

01:33:05.980 Dang. 0.98

01:33:09.280 So, wait, the sex wasn't good?

01:33:13.340 No, it wasn't even good.

01:33:14.600 No.

01:33:15.000 You know, there just wasn't a real connection, so it's probably not going to be good.

01:33:18.720 She was a one, she, this is the, this is the other thing.

01:33:21.100 She said, just drop my jaw. 0.99

01:33:22.380 She goes, oh, my God.

01:33:23.580 Like, she was dating, okay?

01:33:25.080 She goes, oh, my God, I haven't had sex.

01:33:25.860 You got to get a little closer to your microphone? 0.95

01:33:28.500 Yeah, sure.

01:33:29.360 She said, well.

01:33:29.880 It's really hard to hear you. 0.78

01:33:31.420 She said, she says, oh, my God, I haven't had sex in the last half.

01:33:34.420 Like, it was the longest stretch she'd ever encountered in her life.

01:33:37.560 A week and a half?

01:33:40.440 What's that?

01:33:41.620 You said that she didn't have sex for a week and a half? 0.95

01:33:44.620 She didn't say a year and a half.

01:33:46.040 Oh, a year and a half.

01:33:47.040 Okay, cool.

01:33:47.400 A week and a half.

01:33:50.660 Yeah, no, she said a week and a half.

01:33:52.300 And I'm saying, from my perspective, it's like, yeah, well, that could just as easily be three years or whatever.

01:33:57.120 I'm a normal guy.

01:33:57.940 I don't really, you know.

01:33:59.960 Yeah, so my jaw sort of hit the floor, and I was like, this one's trouble.

01:34:03.480 Yeah, the whole experience just left me feeling so negative on, you know, just dating and stuff.

01:34:09.040 I kind of like, I was after that.

01:34:11.080 Started seeing your content, Pearl, actually, right?

01:34:12.920 Yeah, I think you were one of the first people I started seeing.

01:34:15.380 Nice.

01:34:18.440 Wow.

01:34:19.180 That's a week and a half.

01:34:23.100 Doug MPA, you got anything?

01:34:26.160 Nope.

01:34:26.680 Sounds like an all-too-familier story these days.

01:34:30.120 Yeah.

01:34:30.420 Thanks for calling in, okay? 0.74

01:34:37.640 Haven't had sex in a week, and a half. 0.94

01:34:40.580 At least you didn't say I haven't had sex in two days. 0.83

01:34:43.780 That'd be worse, right? 0.50

01:34:45.100 Fight Sport Talk, my brother from New Zealand.

01:34:47.660 How you doing, my friend?

01:34:49.740 I'm doing good.

01:34:50.640 Can you guys hear me okay?

01:34:52.060 Yeah.

01:34:52.460 What's your poker face story, Fight Sport Talk?

01:34:56.800 Yeah.

01:34:58.200 Mine was a long time ago with a girl I was dating.

01:35:03.220 I was still a teenager, and throughout my 20s, it led to, well, before I got, I turned 20,

01:35:09.880 it led very directly to being red-pilled, quote-unquote, which leads to stories that, you know,

01:35:16.760 I brought up last time I was on of, you know, being called a misogynist and stuff because

01:35:21.580 I didn't, I didn't even have the patience really for a poker face. 0.99

01:35:26.000 I just thought, nope, women, when they're crap, for lack of better words, not going to 1.00

01:35:32.520 listen to that, and, I mean, it was just a very, very simple story of just a girl who 0.99

01:35:41.120 ended up, ended up going, going homosexual in the end, years later, she, she, there were 0.80

01:35:52.340 some times where, you know, conversations were very good, et cetera, but when she got

01:35:56.520 opinionated, it was, it was to the absolute max, and I just, out of just general knowledge,

01:36:04.920 I thought, well, if I, I'm the man here, if I yell back, it's going to be received differently,

01:36:09.120 so I didn't, and that led to me having a very short temper with girls being extremely opinionated

01:36:16.260 later on in life, whether it was girls at work, university, excuse me, professor, no,

01:36:22.860 not pretend professors, lecturers being just absolutely abysmal at their jobs, managers

01:36:29.620 at work who were females, just didn't have any patience for what they would say when it 1.00

01:36:35.380 was just, again, just female garbage, and it led to being called a misogynist a lot. 0.99

01:36:42.720 The stories you brought up, Pearl, and I think one of the callers did earlier, of women coming 0.99

01:36:49.180 out with abuse years later, after they'd been in a relationship for a long time, this

01:36:54.060 is extremely prevalent in MMA, and not just the one people are familiar with, with the

01:37:01.460 Conor McGregor story, but there are a ton of situations where women say, years later, oh,

01:37:08.080 this happened, that happened, so why didn't you bring it up back then?

01:37:10.880 So, um, I can elaborate on the story or other stories I've heard other people give.

01:37:18.120 Yeah, if you can give like a, like a two-minute version?

01:37:23.480 Of my personal story or other ones I've heard?

01:37:26.900 Of your story?

01:37:28.860 Yeah, um, uh, when it, when, it's actually, actually very simple, uh, simple dating stories

01:37:39.320 of a woman saying, I would like to do X, Y, Z, and then you go and do it, and all she 0.98

01:37:47.320 has is, is complaints afterwards, or actually no, during, saying, well, this isn't what I

01:37:53.680 wanted, et cetera, et cetera, and I would bring up stories, and this isn't just me, it's close

01:37:58.760 friends of mine as well, of cases where, look, I wanted, I suggested we do this, this, this,

01:38:07.340 and that instead, and you specifically say, I don't want to do it, but you wanted to do

01:38:12.740 another thing, I've done that for you, we've gone to this place, and you're still unhappy,

01:38:17.600 what is it?

01:38:18.520 And, very simple, it would be, it would lead to the conclusion, a lot of women don't actually 1.00

01:38:24.740 know what they want, and it's like, well, this is just confusing, but they weren't, or

01:38:32.040 a lot of them weren't happy to just talk it out back and forth, it would be zero to

01:38:37.940 a hundred very quick, and, again, as a man, I'd say, well, this isn't good, and it led

01:38:43.380 to me being, not even extreme in the other direction, but very strongly thinking, well,

01:38:49.520 this isn't stuff that I want to deal with. 0.99

01:38:51.460 Damn. 0.99

01:38:56.680 Again, PA, you got any other questions for him? 1.00

01:39:00.760 All this, I'm telling you, it's just, you, women talk, and they have no idea of the suffering 1.00

01:39:08.700 that they put men through.

01:39:10.840 It's like, you really have to do the cost-benefit analysis, because all it is, is what are you

01:39:15.900 willing to deal with to be around certain kinds of women? 0.85

01:39:19.440 And it just sounds like you have a really good idea as to what you will and will not

01:39:23.040 put up with when it comes to talking to women, so good job, Fight Sport Talk, good job. 0.64

01:39:26.880 Oh, thank you, man.

01:39:28.060 And yeah, just while I'm on the edges very quickly, one of the worst stories I've ever

01:39:33.580 heard is one that happened, one that came out 30 years later after the child had grown

01:39:39.120 similar age to what I am.

01:39:41.340 Turns out the wife knew all along, if I just get this guy to get me pregnant, then I'm going 1.00

01:39:48.180 to be financially secure, and led to a very, was not a good mother at all, but it was all

01:39:58.460 planned years in advance.

01:40:00.380 And if I had been able to call in yesterday, I would have said, I would have brought this

01:40:04.100 up, the story that Myron Gaines gave about how his mum actually taught him a lot of this,

01:40:09.460 it was a woman who gave me a lot of advice on women working, women, V-O-T-E, sorry Pearl 1.00

01:40:18.780 for bringing that up last time I was on the show, and it led to me when I was again getting

01:40:28.180 into the workforce, I thought, well, okay, a woman taught me this, a lot of women will 1.00

01:40:32.280 know this, and it's not the case.

01:40:34.040 So it's very few, but appreciate you guys having me on, and love to call in again, all

01:40:38.840 the best.

01:40:39.300 Thanks for calling in.

01:40:41.020 I was going to talk to you.

01:40:42.640 Hey, who let in?

01:40:46.520 Steve M. said, do women who enjoy cooking and cleaning and helping on the homestead exist 0.88

01:40:52.740 anymore?

01:40:53.960 Obviously not, Steve.

01:40:55.200 Let's try smarter questions.

01:40:56.500 I'm just kidding.

01:40:57.800 I'm just kidding, Steve.

01:40:59.600 Okay.

01:41:00.120 Karan?

01:41:00.720 Karen.

01:41:02.040 Karan?

01:41:02.480 Karen?

01:41:03.820 Karan?

01:41:04.360 Yeah.

01:41:04.860 Unmute.

01:41:07.100 You're on mute.

01:41:10.660 Karan?

01:41:13.880 Hey, Doug.

01:41:15.040 Can you hear me?

01:41:16.600 Yeah.

01:41:20.160 All right.

01:41:21.520 Hey, Pearl. 0.89

01:41:22.180 How are you?

01:41:22.860 I'm good.

01:41:23.360 How are you?

01:41:24.720 Good.

01:41:25.280 Thank you for asking.

01:41:25.940 So, I'm Indian, and I immigrated to the United States back in 2019, so I'm fairly new to

01:41:35.740 the red pill space.

01:41:37.740 We don't have anything like you guys do have in the U.S.

01:41:41.720 Um, there's not really much of, uh, freedom of, uh, speech, uh, in India.

01:41:49.780 So, it's just like, you know, small corners, uh, where conversations like this, uh, happens

01:41:56.780 usually, uh, you know, private spaces.

01:41:59.820 So, what's, um, your poker face story?

01:42:04.120 What's the craziest thing a woman said? 1.00

01:42:06.980 On a date with you.

01:42:07.940 Yeah.

01:42:08.240 On a date, in a relationship, and you had to keep a straight face.

01:42:12.820 Um, it wasn't a date or relationship, but, um, it was back in, I think, 2017 when I joined

01:42:19.700 my first corporate job, uh, in India, and there was this girl, um, my age, um, she was really

01:42:27.620 promiscuous, um, and she used to, uh, tell me stories about, you know, guys that she was

01:42:34.240 sleeping with, and, like, in graphic details, and I was a virgin at that time.

01:42:38.400 Um, so, it was really rough for me to hear all, all, all those stories, and, you know,

01:42:44.560 try to keep up the face, uh, and eventually, eventually, uh, what happened was, uh, I, I,

01:42:55.420 I told her that, you know, I don't want to listen to all this, um, and I, I, uh, I got 0.67

01:43:02.300 to know this from, uh, one of my, uh, peers, that she wanted to have sex with me, too, and 0.97

01:43:08.820 I was like, hell no, like, if you are sleeping with so many men, and you're just, you just 0.79

01:43:13.340 described everything in front of me, like, what you did, like, it's not going to work

01:43:18.720 out, right, uh, so it was like, really rough, so, I feel like, how many, wait, can I ask

01:43:25.260 one question first, how, how many men did she describe having sex with, and, like, in

01:43:32.200 what time period, at least five, while, while I was working there, I think I worked there

01:43:38.440 for about, um, a year and a half, about five, like, in office, and, um, a couple of them

01:43:46.040 were, like, her friends, common friends, wow, I mean, it was really rough, like, uh, when,

01:43:55.180 when a woman is telling you sexual stories at work, there's, it's either one of two things, 0.99

01:44:01.820 she sees you as a friend, or she wants to sleep with you, and there's no in-between,

01:44:06.840 and there's no real way to tell what the circumstance is, understand what I'm saying, unless someone

01:44:13.340 else tells you, or she blatantly comes up and tells you, but before that happens, you're

01:44:18.480 just like, why are you telling me all this, like, what is going on?

01:44:21.760 Yeah, exactly, and in one of the conversations, you know, um, she admitted that she wanted

01:44:28.360 to sleep with me, and, I mean, at that point, I couldn't react, because I was a virgin, right,

01:44:35.360 what, what I'm, what am I supposed to do, like, how am I supposed to react, because I have

01:44:39.600 never been, like, you know, sexually active with anyone, uh, so I, so I couldn't react to

01:44:46.440 it, that's so uncomfortable, yeah, did you ever say anything to, to anybody, oh, yeah,

01:44:55.680 did you tell, like, yeah, did you go to, like, your supervisor about it, or anything,

01:45:00.420 or did you tell her to stop, and she actually stopped, or did you, no, no, she actually

01:45:04.460 stopped, she stopped, because I, I, I could, I mean, she was friends with me, and I stopped

01:45:09.940 being friends with her, and, like, she knew that this guy is not gonna be friends with

01:45:14.480 me anymore, so it's okay, so I just, you know, kept quiet.

01:45:19.080 Did the rumors kind of go through the office, like, were you the only one she was telling

01:45:22.460 at work, or was she doing it with a lot of people?

01:45:25.900 Uh, I think she was sleeping around with other two that I know of, but, I mean, I think everyone

01:45:32.820 knew in the office, but no one dared to speak, I don't know why.

01:45:36.280 I mean, it's, so, I'm working, uh, in corporate United States now, and I know things here are

01:45:47.460 on a much different level, and there have been folks telling me that, you know, uh, like,

01:45:53.840 in their previous job, they tried to get off this girl, and they slept with this person

01:45:58.740 and that person, and that's where I knew that, you know, this thing is very common in, uh,

01:46:03.540 corporate, like, people do that, and even married folks, it's not just a single guy, it's all

01:46:09.380 girls.

01:46:09.800 Yeah.

01:46:10.660 Well, we gotta get to the next caller, but thanks for telling your story.

01:46:15.220 Karan?

01:46:15.640 Thank you very much.

01:46:16.140 I don't know if I said it right, but Karan, thank you.

01:46:18.680 Thank you.

01:46:20.340 Okay, we have two more people, so I'm gonna let in.

01:46:24.080 Yeah, let's.

01:46:28.460 Dan?

01:46:32.620 Dan, are you there?

01:46:33.540 What's going on, Dan?

01:46:34.700 What's your poker face story?

01:46:36.500 I know you got a good one.

01:46:38.500 You're on mute.

01:46:40.620 On mute?

01:46:42.060 There you are.

01:46:42.820 There you are.

01:46:44.380 Hey, what's up, guys?

01:46:46.560 Dan?

01:46:47.420 Yeah.

01:46:48.260 Yeah.

01:46:50.580 Dan, are you there?

01:46:51.540 What's going on, Dan?

01:46:51.940 Make sure you mute the YouTube video in the background.

01:46:55.080 Good one.

01:46:56.020 Can you guys hear me?

01:46:56.880 You're on mute.

01:46:58.740 On mute?

01:47:00.200 There you are.

01:47:00.860 There you are.

01:47:01.700 Yeah, can you guys hear me?

01:47:02.740 Hey, what's up, guys?

01:47:04.060 I can hear you, but you're echoing.

01:47:06.320 Yeah. 1.00

01:47:07.100 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:47:08.200 You gotta turn YouTube off in the background. 0.99

01:47:09.980 Make sure you mute the YouTube video.

01:47:12.160 Okay.

01:47:13.020 Good one.

01:47:14.200 Can you guys hear me?

01:47:15.240 I'm on mute.

01:47:17.660 Yeah, I'm turning off the...

01:47:19.260 Okay, I turned the YouTube off.

01:47:21.700 Okay, good.

01:47:22.280 I can hear you normal now.

01:47:24.360 What's your poker face story, Dan?

01:47:28.560 I actually really like this topic because I feel like modern dating is, like, constantly doing this.

01:47:33.740 Um, the first thing that comes to mind, I remember going on a date when, this is really simple, but, um, the girl was, like, telling me about how she was in the marathons and how she was going to, you know, run a whatever, a 5K or something.

01:47:49.120 And I was just, like, dude, you're overweight.

01:47:53.780 Like...

01:47:54.420 Wait, did you say that?

01:47:55.900 It does not look...

01:47:56.840 Did you say it?

01:47:57.860 I didn't say it.

01:47:58.440 Okay, okay.

01:47:59.720 No, but I'm just, like, it does not look like you run a marathon.

01:48:03.420 Oh, no, you'd be some...

01:48:04.860 You would be surprised.

01:48:06.640 There were some...

01:48:07.640 I ran a marathon, like, six months ago.

01:48:09.800 There were some fat people that run it.

01:48:11.480 Like, you would be surprised. 0.97

01:48:14.360 You would be...

01:48:15.220 You can't...

01:48:15.860 It doesn't mean you run it fast.

01:48:17.460 It just means you run it. 0.99

01:48:19.960 Because when I think poker face, I think of a lot of women, they say things that are, like, designed to be, like, impress you, but then you're just like, what the fuck? 1.00

01:48:30.300 Um, and to talk about, like, a little bit, like, what the Indian guy was talking about. 0.98

01:48:36.480 I've had women tell me about crazy, like, sexual stuff on, like, early dates where it's, like, why are you even telling me this?

01:48:44.840 Like, I had one girl talk about, like, um, she was, like, a really successful lawyer in the Bay Area, and it just...

01:48:54.400 Something came up.

01:48:55.100 She was, like, yeah, I had a threesome with, like, two of the partners, and it was, like, the greatest night of my life.

01:49:00.060 I was, like, dude, why are you telling me this?

01:49:04.060 Wait, so wait, how did you read, like...

01:49:06.480 I need to hear, like, well, you've turned on your camera, because it'd be kind of funny if you showed us the face.

01:49:12.620 No, I don't want to, like...

01:49:13.860 Oh, you don't want to be public, okay, okay.

01:49:15.280 But what did you, like, okay, so she said that.

01:49:18.200 What was your response?

01:49:20.480 Um, well, that was, like, after we had had sex, so I was just kind of...

01:49:26.020 Okay.

01:49:27.860 I just, like, went to grab some orange juice or something.

01:49:30.900 I was just, like, okay, this is weird.

01:49:32.680 Um, but I've had other girls. 0.99

01:49:38.340 I had one girl tell me, like, that, like, we had really great sex.

01:49:42.940 That was amazing.

01:49:43.740 It was, like, I had sex yesterday, and it was, like, it was totally not the same. 0.92

01:49:48.540 And I was, like, dude, why are you telling me that you just banged another guy, like, yesterday? 0.83

01:49:53.820 True.

01:49:54.160 They really know how to make you feel special, don't they?

01:49:56.700 Yeah, and, um...

01:49:59.660 I have a few written down, but there's one more that's kind of funny.

01:50:06.300 Like, a lot of this stuff, it's weird.

01:50:08.500 Now that I'm actually talking it through, it's, like, post-coital.

01:50:11.480 I don't know what...

01:50:12.700 Like, we were out to brunch.

01:50:15.840 I was out to brunch the next day after staying over at this girl's house.

01:50:19.500 And, um, she had this, like, Trump derangement thing where she saw, like, some Navy veteran

01:50:27.660 in a red hat, and she got triggered.

01:50:29.440 She's like, oh, my God, I thought he was wearing, like, a MAGA hat or something. 1.00

01:50:32.860 It was like, fuck, I hate men. 1.00

01:50:35.240 I was like, dude, why are you telling me this? 1.00

01:50:38.420 You know?

01:50:39.220 It's just, like, at that time, especially, like, when the whole Trump thing was going on,

01:50:44.020 a lot of women had this, like, weird fixation with it where it was, like, it would come up 1.00

01:50:50.040 all the time without, like, you bringing it up, you know?

01:50:54.540 And I just thought that was funny.

01:50:56.500 Like, she got clearly, like, emotionally distraught over somebody just wearing, like,

01:51:02.320 a red baseball cap.

01:51:03.760 And I had to sit there and be like, yeah, that's...

01:51:06.440 You know?

01:51:07.820 Did you get laid after?

01:51:11.760 No, I got laid the night before.

01:51:13.280 We were at a brunch.

01:51:14.240 Oh, okay.

01:51:14.920 The next day.

01:51:15.640 Well, Dad, just like, did it continue?

01:51:17.260 Did you keep hooking up with her?

01:51:19.500 John Barry, in the YouTube chat, put...

01:51:22.060 You took her out to brunch, and right when he put that, he said, oh, no, I got laid the

01:51:26.980 night before.

01:51:27.480 I took her out to brunch afterward.

01:51:30.260 The only good reason to take a woman out to brunch, I guess, is when you smashed her 1.00

01:51:34.400 the night before.

01:51:35.840 Yeah, you know, maybe I was simping.

01:51:37.760 We went out to brunch, and she wanted to watch Wonder Woman, so, you know, maybe I'm part

01:51:42.860 of the problem.

01:51:47.460 But...

01:51:48.020 Actually, there's one more that you might find funny, Doug.

01:51:53.960 It's, like, a non-dating, but it relates to black women. 1.00

01:51:57.780 Mm-hmm. 0.81

01:51:58.060 Um, I had a supervisor once, and actually, this is probably the craziest thing I've ever

01:52:04.500 heard a woman say.

01:52:05.900 Um, she was, like, talking about how she lived with their daughter, single mother, and they,

01:52:11.500 they, like, really like ice cream and ice cream sandwiches.

01:52:14.560 And she's, like, oh, my daughter likes the outside part, and I like ice cream.

01:52:20.800 So, we get ice cream sandwiches, and I just scrape out the ice cream for myself, and I

01:52:26.060 give, like, the, the sandwich part to my daughter. 0.99

01:52:29.660 I was, like, what the fuck is that? 0.99

01:52:32.080 Like... 0.99

01:52:32.680 I've never heard that before.

01:52:35.200 That's crazy.

01:52:36.500 That's crazy.

01:52:38.020 Yeah, I...

01:52:38.780 Yuck.

01:52:39.200 I used to work in, like, um, I shouldn't say which city, but, like, a predominantly black 0.92

01:52:45.380 city, and, um...

01:52:47.260 Atlanta? 0.94

01:52:47.900 With a lot of black... 1.00

01:52:49.440 No, no. 0.99

01:52:50.520 Worse.

01:52:51.420 Baltimore?

01:52:52.080 Detroit?

01:52:53.620 Worse.

01:52:55.380 Other than Oakland.

01:52:56.440 Oh, that was...

01:52:57.400 That was my next guest, Memphis.

01:53:00.200 Yeah.

01:53:02.140 And I have no...

01:53:03.500 I thought this lady had something against me, you know, like, she would always, like, 1.00

01:53:08.480 give me bad performance reviews and stuff, and I thought, like, it was, like, a whole

01:53:11.740 reverse racism thing, but then I found out she was, like, sabotaging her own half-brother 1.00

01:53:16.560 in the workplace, and I was, like, oh, okay, like, this whole trope is true, like, black 1.00

01:53:21.760 women sabotaging, like, black men. 0.98

01:53:23.780 I, I don't know. 1.00

01:53:24.780 I'm not trying to speak on it, but, um, I just thought that was the craziest shit, man. 0.99

01:53:30.780 I'm, like, oh, my God. 0.99

01:53:33.340 Yeah.

01:53:33.700 I'm telling you, in my experience, uh, in an academic and professional setting, my worst 0.98

01:53:41.560 enemy is always another black person. 1.00

01:53:43.960 Always. 0.99

01:53:45.060 I could see that, man.

01:53:46.820 I could see that.

01:53:48.060 It's like women. 1.00

01:53:50.820 Women always talk about the patriarchy and men, but 80% of workplace bullying is women 0.99

01:53:55.260 bullying other women, and most women will tell you the worst person that's done the worst

01:53:59.920 to them has been another woman.

01:54:01.020 Yeah, that was, um, that lady was the worst person that I've ever worked with, like, just 1.00

01:54:08.960 very, like, mean-spirited, nasty, um, and I'd go out to lunch with her brother, and you

01:54:15.020 could tell he was just, like, defeated, like, this guy, like, he was in a career where the

01:54:21.080 person, like, controlling his, like, ability to be promoted was somebody in his family that

01:54:25.880 hated him.

01:54:28.220 Sounds about right.

01:54:31.020 So, but, I mean, the last thing, I guess, I just wanted to say, and maybe get your guys'

01:54:35.500 general thoughts, is, like, a lot of these women that, like, overly disclose their sexual 1.00

01:54:43.020 past, and it's, it's like a turnoff, you know, like, on, you know, early dates or whatever,

01:54:49.900 and I don't feel like guys do that as much, or I don't think I do.

01:54:53.340 Like, I've never gone on a date and be like, oh, wow, yeah, I just, you know, smashed out,

01:54:57.840 like, two sevens last weekend, what'd you do?

01:55:03.220 You're the third girl this weekend.

01:55:06.300 It's also a thing where you hate that they do it, but then you're glad that they're doing

01:55:11.260 it, too, because you would really want to know, you know?

01:55:15.520 Yeah.

01:55:15.840 Because people say, oh, yeah, you're never going to know a woman's body count, because 0.93

01:55:20.440 she's never going to tell you.

01:55:21.800 She's never going to tell you directly, but she will tell you indirectly if you just listen.

01:55:26.780 Yeah.

01:55:27.240 And it's like these, like, and if you date a woman long enough, it's like, it starts to

01:55:31.220 add up.

01:55:32.320 Yeah.

01:55:32.500 You know, it's just like, wait a minute, you were just talking about, like, the Spanish

01:55:36.500 guy, like, two weeks ago that I didn't, I knew about the previous boyfriend.

01:55:41.640 And then it's like, oh, wait, what about the, oh, the guy from Dubai?

01:55:45.500 Like, I hadn't heard about him before.

01:55:47.860 So I'm like.

01:55:49.100 Okay.

01:55:49.560 Do you know what?

01:55:50.760 So there's a study, right, that says that women, if they're over a certain body count, 0.56

01:55:55.940 that they, like, don't get married, right?

01:55:58.580 So it's like over five, you're cooked.

01:56:00.740 Over 10, you're really cooked.

01:56:02.220 Over 50, you're really, really cooked, right?

01:56:03.820 Right.

01:56:04.220 So basically the study.

01:56:06.140 And I thought about it, and I'm like, well, do you know what?

01:56:09.340 When I interviewed women on the show and we would ask body count, like, they're a bunch 1.00

01:56:14.520 of liars. 0.92

01:56:15.260 So I was like, what, like, and I, and I thought about this more and I'm like, even the women 0.98

01:56:20.880 that said they were virgins, like I maybe believed one, maybe.

01:56:26.080 And then I thought about it more and I'm like, what if the conclusion of the study is that

01:56:30.120 women that lie about body count are happy or married? 1.00

01:56:35.900 You know, there might be something to do that.

01:56:38.460 There might be something to do that.

01:56:39.380 Because, because, because hear me out, but I want to give my two cents. 0.98

01:56:42.060 This isn't me trying to, like, be in defense of the whores, right? 1.00

01:56:45.540 But I just, two cents. 0.98

01:56:47.020 A woman's only going to disclose that, in my opinion, if she doesn't fear losing you. 1.00

01:56:51.900 Because why would she tell you that if she feared losing you? 0.56

01:56:58.620 Either that or like, like mental disorder, but, you know, bipolar. 0.53

01:57:03.860 Yeah.

01:57:04.480 But so, so I thought about this, I thought this more and I'm not, and what I'm not arguing

01:57:08.760 though, I'm not arguing that like, obviously the more, the more cooked, like, obviously,

01:57:14.040 but I, I thought about it and I thought about like, hoes I knew like 10 years ago. 0.99

01:57:20.980 And I'm like, some are more married than the prudes, if I'm being honest.

01:57:24.920 Like if I, if I did like 10 hoes, 10 prudes, I'd say more, 10, more of the hoes are married 1.00

01:57:30.300 with kids.

01:57:31.560 And I'm like, hmm, it might just be that like the women that are like lying on these surveys, 1.00

01:57:39.200 they know to lie to their husband and it leads to a happier marriage because at least she 0.98

01:57:45.560 knows her place.

01:57:46.980 I'm not, this is just, this is just a working theory.

01:57:49.960 I'm not saying I'm right.

01:57:50.940 It's just a working theory.

01:57:52.460 Well, and Doug, you say like, well, how can you tell you?

01:57:54.960 You'll never know.

01:57:55.520 It's like, dude, if you, if it's like, you know, parking a Volkswagen and an airplane

01:58:01.400 hanger, then that, you know, you've got some, some sense of.

01:58:07.360 I don't, um, if you know what I mean.

01:58:12.540 Yeah.

01:58:12.940 I think it's how intelligent is the hoe. 1.00

01:58:16.140 Me and Doug were talking about this the other day. 0.99

01:58:18.200 It's like, is she a smart hoe or a dumb hoe? 1.00

01:58:20.800 Dumb hoes get herpes. 1.00

01:58:22.620 Smart hoes, smart hoes are Jeff Bezos, his wife. 1.00

01:58:26.900 You see what I mean? 0.99

01:58:28.080 Or the dumb hoes a lot are the ones with the like advanced degrees. 1.00

01:58:34.020 It's like inverse. 0.99

01:58:35.040 There's a certain level of comfortability that a woman has to feel. 0.99

01:58:39.940 Well, I don't know.

01:58:41.120 Well, if a woman's not a complete and total three or four, uh, she has to quote unquote, 0.96

01:58:46.800 feel comfortable around you to share certain things.

01:58:50.380 Right.

01:58:51.460 And I don't know what to, when a woman says, oh, I just felt so comfortable around you.

01:58:56.140 Yeah.

01:58:56.500 But I'm able to share, you know, my deepest, darkest thoughts and stuff.

01:59:00.420 It's just like, is that a good thing or a bad thing?

01:59:04.580 You know, how am I supposed to take that?

01:59:06.780 Well, it's gotta be a bad thing.

01:59:08.100 I think as a compliment, like to me, at first I take it as a compliment.

01:59:11.760 And then when they start telling you those things, you immediately regret it.

01:59:14.900 Well, it has to be a bad thing because like, I just can't imagine like if a woman, like, 1.00

01:59:23.680 okay.

01:59:23.880 Cause I know a woman, right. 1.00

01:59:25.760 And I wouldn't even say she was like, on the scale of hoe, I'd put her on a one to 10, 1.00

01:59:31.700 give her like a four. 1.00

01:59:33.420 I'd say she's like a little below average, but like not a, not a prude by any means, but

01:59:38.180 you know, I'm being honest.

01:59:41.960 She like, she's married now and she told her husband every little thing.

01:59:46.740 Like she told, and she felt like she was doing it in the name of being honest.

01:59:50.260 And I just thought, does he want that honesty?

01:59:54.740 Like, does he want that?

01:59:56.400 He married her anyway.

01:59:57.440 So I guess maybe it wasn't too bad, but I'm like, do you really want to know every single

02:00:02.560 dude that dug your girl out before she met you? 0.98

02:00:07.620 I, I, I kind of, and, and that relationship is sort of like, like she kind of runs it.

02:00:14.000 Right.

02:00:14.280 And that's just what I've noticed when women can like tell the guy every little thing. 0.99

02:00:20.100 Do you know what I mean?

02:00:20.940 It's kind of like complaining to your boss about all your previous like bosses.

02:00:27.140 Yeah.

02:00:27.760 Well, you'd only do that with a job.

02:00:29.140 You're like, you don't care about losing.

02:00:30.740 Like the thing that Doug said about like the T chart or whatever, it just like becomes

02:00:37.360 like, okay, that like this stuff may be in your past or whatever, but it's kind of like

02:00:43.460 not my problem.

02:00:45.920 And I, I like, don't want to hear about it.

02:00:48.200 You know, it's, um, so I don't know, like I'll, I'll jump off, but I just want to get

02:00:53.300 maybe your guys thoughts on like it.

02:00:55.540 I don't know.

02:00:56.200 Obviously there's no solution to a lot of this stuff, but like, where did this come

02:01:00.720 from?

02:01:01.180 And like, is there a way or, or like, are women ever going to realize that sharing all

02:01:07.420 this stuff is like a turnoff?

02:01:11.140 No, man. 0.99

02:01:11.760 Do you know what this, like asking women to give up our power to be whores is like asking 0.99

02:01:17.400 you guys to give up your biceps. 0.96

02:01:19.100 Like if you work really hard to get like biceps, I'm not even asking that I'm asking, just

02:01:23.500 don't tell us about it.

02:01:26.640 You know, no, but it's like, it's like a, it's like a victory lap, right?

02:01:32.040 Cause they're basically saying like, I can get a man and have like now officially corn on

02:01:37.600 the internet.

02:01:39.500 The sad part about it is what they say in person is actually filtered compared to what

02:01:45.840 they say online.

02:01:46.720 So yeah, we're never going back, man.

02:01:52.060 I always say there are things that women of the past would take to their graves and these 0.89

02:01:57.180 women aren't smart enough to do that. 1.00

02:01:58.680 So they're going to share it all online. 0.88

02:02:00.380 It's sad or, or, or on a date.

02:02:02.900 So, but I think there's as a proactive thing, I think there's a way for guys to, um, like 0.99

02:02:09.900 listen, pretend like they're listening to this shit and like kind of tune out and just listen 0.97

02:02:16.120 to the intonality of a woman's voice and then like kind of know when she's done with the 1.00

02:02:20.080 story.

02:02:20.580 And then you can like mentally like reground yourself.

02:02:24.660 Cause you know, like when, when a woman starts telling these like crazy stories or whatever 1.00

02:02:29.000 that, you know, you have to keep a poker face, just like, okay, I'm just going to go to my

02:02:33.020 happy place for like three minutes, wait for the story to be done.

02:02:36.060 And then like reground myself.

02:02:38.580 So I don't know if any other guys have that similar experience.

02:02:43.680 We've all done it, my friend.

02:02:45.940 All done it.

02:02:47.580 All right.

02:02:48.260 Well, I appreciate, um, the work you guys do, man.

02:02:51.120 It's actually helped me a lot with, um, you know, realizing like that it's not like anything

02:02:59.220 we're doing wrong necessarily when, you know, women, women, we wrote the rules. 1.00

02:03:06.060 Society in the 20th century and the 21st century is going to be men responding to it. 0.50

02:03:11.340 So, so all you're doing is just responding to the rules that women said. 1.00

02:03:15.960 Yeah.

02:03:16.820 True words.

02:03:17.920 True words, my friend.

02:03:19.200 All right.

02:03:19.580 Well, I'll let the next, next caller jump on.

02:03:21.500 Appreciate it guys.

02:03:22.780 Okay.

02:03:23.300 Thanks for calling in, calling anytime.

02:03:25.540 We have two more people.

02:03:26.880 Cool.

02:03:27.440 Cheers.

02:03:28.300 I'm going to bring them both on and we'll do, we'll give them both a couple minutes to

02:03:32.120 tell the story.

02:03:32.560 So lost boy.

02:03:34.260 Okay.

02:03:34.560 And, and Manar.

02:03:37.100 I'm going to read the website while they get on.

02:03:39.680 Um, make sure you guys are muting your YouTube in the background.

02:03:43.200 So no, that's not simping after you got laid the night before. 0.99

02:03:46.360 That's aftercare that some women need in order to not feel like a whore. 1.00

02:03:51.860 Yeah. 0.99

02:03:52.400 If you don't do that.

02:03:53.320 Hello.

02:03:53.580 Can you hear me?

02:03:54.280 Trouble.

02:03:55.140 Sure.

02:03:55.840 Um, why don't we, hold on.

02:03:57.100 Um, let me double check.

02:03:58.260 I can't hear you at all.

02:03:59.420 Uh, well, I can hear you.

02:04:03.860 Um, okay.

02:04:05.380 I think that's all the supers right now.

02:04:08.080 Go ahead, Pearl.

02:04:09.620 Reading the website.

02:04:10.440 Um, yeah, I'm done.

02:04:14.700 So why don't we do Manar first?

02:04:18.460 So, so actually last boy was waiting first.

02:04:21.340 Oh, that's fine.

02:04:21.760 We can let him go first.

02:04:22.780 Last boy off mute.

02:04:25.700 Okay.

02:04:27.560 Okay.

02:04:28.060 Well, I guess we'll let him.

02:04:29.360 I think he's unmuting.

02:04:31.960 Oh, is he?

02:04:32.620 Yeah.

02:04:32.840 There he goes.

02:04:33.740 Last boy.

02:04:34.180 Are you there?

02:04:35.400 Can you hear?

02:04:37.080 Yep.

02:04:37.840 All right.

02:04:38.220 Okay.

02:04:38.660 Sure.

02:04:39.320 So my, my, uh, queer face story was, uh, I was, uh, dating a girl just very short time,

02:04:47.720 like less than a week.

02:04:49.560 We hooked up a few times, but she wasn't something that I saw as a permanent girlfriend.

02:04:56.020 So I was desperate to figure out, am I going to get out of this?

02:04:59.540 And I didn't want to hurt her feelings and all that stuff.

02:05:03.240 So we were in the car, just talking real serious.

02:05:07.560 And I had to figure out how to break up.

02:05:11.640 And then all of a sudden she says, um, you know, you know, Andrew, there's a guy named

02:05:17.380 Andrew that we knew a mutual friend.

02:05:19.980 And she says, Andrew, Andrew tells me not to date you.

02:05:24.500 Like you, he, he said that you're not a guy and blah, blah, blah.

02:05:28.360 And all this stuff.

02:05:29.400 And I was like, really?

02:05:30.660 And I thought, Oh man, this is my opportunity.

02:05:33.340 So I said, you know what?

02:05:35.180 I go, he must be in love with you because, um, you know, if he's telling you don't date

02:05:42.340 Mike, then, uh, then we, we should, we should honor that.

02:05:47.200 And we should break up because, and she was like, well, hey, really?

02:05:50.680 And I was like, yeah, because he's our friend.

02:05:54.840 I said, we can't do that to him.

02:05:56.500 Can't do that to Andrew.

02:05:57.800 And so, um, so finally, she's like, Oh, okay.

02:06:10.080 Like I felt that she wasn't completely convinced, but it made sense logically.

02:06:16.320 Like we can't hurt.

02:06:17.640 And like the two of us.

02:06:19.940 And so, so we broke it off and it, and it kind of worked, but she showed up to work the 0.89

02:06:26.320 next day, but, but I was able to say, no, no.

02:06:30.640 I had to remember like, no, this is, this is, we can't, we can't stand.

02:06:35.660 Like this, like this is so messed up.

02:06:38.360 Like we can do that.

02:06:39.580 I was like, Oh, that's the, basically the story.

02:06:43.600 And, and weirdly enough, like 10 years later, her mom became friends with me on Facebook

02:06:50.560 somehow.

02:06:52.280 And then, and we were, we were talking, being friends.

02:06:55.220 And I was like, it's the same.

02:06:57.740 It's the mom of the girl.

02:06:59.260 God.

02:07:01.060 Her audio is cutting in and out for some reason.

02:07:03.480 Uh, all I was saying was, uh, the funny ending up to the story that I somehow be friends

02:07:12.680 with her mom on Facebook like 10 years after the incident, which was very weird and awkward.

02:07:20.760 So you, this, the, what was the person named Andy who was telling her not to date you?

02:07:26.400 That's what's called dirty Mackin. 1.00

02:07:29.780 I didn't, I don't know the name of it.

02:07:31.840 When you have a guy that tries to snake you like that and tell a woman that you like,

02:07:38.560 who's interested in you and not to date you, it's called dirty Mackin. 0.96

02:07:42.000 And that's, that's one of the worst things a guy can do to another guy.

02:07:45.620 It was, I felt really betrayed because I thought he was my friend.

02:07:50.060 I didn't know that he even knew her.

02:07:52.240 I didn't know that there was like a mutual connection there, but I was like, that's messed 0.83

02:07:57.040 up that he's like, yeah, like you said, it was like dirty man.

02:08:00.960 Like, yep. 0.91

02:08:02.620 Dirty Mackin. 1.00

02:08:03.780 Yep. 0.90

02:08:04.220 And guys will, will snake each other. 0.99

02:08:06.560 It actually, women are worse at dirty Mackin than guys though. 1.00

02:08:10.100 Oh God. 1.00

02:08:10.360 Women are the worst at it. 1.00

02:08:12.900 Oh man. 1.00

02:08:13.780 I got a dirty Mackin that a girl did. 1.00

02:08:16.580 So, so I was, I was hanging with this really stripper girl and I liked her. 0.99

02:08:25.500 And then we had a mutual friend that was a lesbian and the lesbian said, Oh, I heard you're hanging 0.98

02:08:31.800 out with so-and-so.

02:08:33.000 I was like, yeah.

02:08:33.980 She goes, well, you know, she goes, she goes, and then later she said, Oh, I talked to the

02:08:39.860 stripper and I go, what? 1.00

02:08:40.860 She goes, she doesn't want to be with you. 0.58

02:08:42.780 She, she told me she doesn't like you.

02:08:45.240 And so I, but I believed the lesbian, but then years later, everyone told me to, no, 1.00

02:08:52.440 man, like, you're stupid. 1.00

02:08:55.000 She wanted to be with her. 1.00

02:08:57.060 And so she missed your chance because everyone once said, Oh, the stripper girl was always 1.00

02:09:05.500 wanting to hang out with me.

02:09:07.680 Like, cause I considered her like my better end, the stripper girl.

02:09:12.720 And I didn't, I thought that he didn't like, I thought, Oh, it's just tonic.

02:09:18.160 But then when I looked at memory, I was like, wait a minute.

02:09:21.180 No.

02:09:21.560 Cause I want her at three in the morning to just hang out. 0.94

02:09:24.800 And she was, yeah, yeah.

02:09:25.740 She's so happy.

02:09:27.460 And I thought about it. 0.99

02:09:28.880 I was stupid. 0.99

02:09:30.200 And there were moments that I knew after the fact that, so the lesbian was, wasn't being 1.00

02:09:38.500 mad to me in that situation.

02:09:41.580 Okay.

02:09:42.940 All right.

02:09:43.560 Well, we're going to move on to the last person.

02:09:45.440 No, no, no, but I want to know, I want to know from law school, you're, you seem like

02:09:48.740 such a handsome young man, uh, you know, with the gray hair, maybe not so young.

02:09:53.420 Still, you have a lot of years to live.

02:09:55.960 Sure.

02:09:56.240 You have a huge body count.

02:09:57.480 Like, um, why are you worried about that single person?

02:10:00.620 You know what I mean?

02:10:01.200 Like, why are you not moving on?

02:10:04.100 What do you mean?

02:10:05.800 Why not?

02:10:07.080 Let's say if somebody upsets me at the, you know, if I'm having a problem, my friend, you

02:10:12.480 know, I'm looking at my friend right now, I'm having a problem with him.

02:10:15.340 Hey, are you going to pay for the drinks?

02:10:17.280 He says, no, I'm going to look at, I'm going to turn around, look at this one and be like,

02:10:20.980 what about you?

02:10:21.460 Are you paying?

02:10:22.280 Why are you not doing that?

02:10:23.380 Why are you not doing this switch around and moving on?

02:10:28.500 You know what I mean?

02:10:29.040 Why are you like, I don't, I don't understand.

02:10:32.500 Okay, wait, wait, wait.

02:10:33.700 We're not, we're, we're just kind of trying to get stories from people.

02:10:37.420 Yeah, because we, you're the last two.

02:10:39.260 So we're going to move on to Menard.

02:10:41.120 What's your, what's your, um, male poker face story?

02:10:45.660 What's the worst thing that you've heard a woman say on a day that you had to sit through? 1.00

02:10:50.360 The worst thing a woman has done? 1.00

02:10:54.700 Said or done on a first date or in a relationship.

02:10:58.520 There's a lot of things.

02:10:59.860 And I can tell you guys about a lot of things, you know, for example, I can tell you guys

02:11:04.520 about how when my dad, uh, quote unquote, beat my mom.

02:11:09.640 And all it was, was my mom literally yelling in his face, shouting really loudly. 1.00

02:11:14.140 And if I'm getting beaten, I wouldn't be yelling in somebody's face, shouting.

02:11:17.500 So I'm saying that, and then when you're a young kid and then your mom is yelling and

02:11:23.460 your dad's yelling, and then later on you go to her friends and she takes you to her

02:11:28.000 friend's house.

02:11:29.420 And then the friends are like, are you not ashamed of yourself?

02:11:33.060 How are you not?

02:11:33.800 Are you not man at the age of 10?

02:11:36.500 And they tell you, are you not a man to defend your mom while she's getting beaten by her

02:11:40.820 dad?

02:11:41.400 And really you don't even remember anybody getting beaten up.

02:11:43.720 It's just your dad kind of like raising his hands to kind of like push the affliction

02:11:49.220 backwards.

02:11:50.880 So something like that, you know what I mean?

02:11:52.660 I guess you could say, there's a lot of these stories I can tell you, but really I'm more

02:11:56.740 interested.

02:11:58.560 I know you don't want to give prescriptions on anything pearl, but I want to know why.

02:12:06.620 Why?

02:12:07.020 Because you know so much, you are basically the only connection we have to women. 1.00

02:12:12.820 They will never listen to a man. 0.99

02:12:14.700 They kind of had, I don't know what kind of propaganda, maybe you can tell us a little

02:12:17.740 bit more about that, that they have, that they cannot, every time we talk to them, they 0.92

02:12:21.700 kind of get, I don't know if it's penis envy, they kind of get upset. 0.70

02:12:25.980 They shut us down and they like shut down completely. 0.96

02:12:29.000 There's like a defensive mechanism immediately activated.

02:12:32.040 It doesn't activate so hardly with women, except when they hear a certain tone. 0.84

02:12:36.120 So here's my question.

02:12:38.740 If you are the only hope we have and you're telling us we can't rely on you, who can we

02:12:44.840 rely on in America, for example?

02:12:46.920 And then another thing, if you are going to start giving prescriptions, are they going

02:12:51.440 to be Christian prescriptions?

02:12:53.200 Are they going to be religious prescriptions or are they going to be just whatever your

02:12:57.160 whims and desires, which are you reading based on the statistics and what you believe

02:13:01.660 the outcome?

02:13:02.280 Oh, the statistics say that.

02:13:04.320 Do you just, do you just usually like call into shows and decide the topic?

02:13:10.540 I'm just asking a question.

02:13:12.020 I just, I have a, it's my story.

02:13:14.700 You don't want to answer anything.

02:13:16.040 Yeah.

02:13:16.460 Well, it's, it's just a bit rude when you're coming into a show and you have a topic when

02:13:21.780 we run a show a certain way.

02:13:26.240 So what do you, what do you mean?

02:13:27.960 You're not like, you don't actually dive in.

02:13:29.780 You don't actually.

02:13:30.800 Well, well, we're talking about, we're talking about poker face and you're bringing up a

02:13:34.660 completely different topic.

02:13:35.860 I know.

02:13:39.480 Yeah.

02:13:39.620 I'm actually bright, brightening up the conversation a little bit and asking you a constructive

02:13:44.780 question about the future of you and what you actually represent.

02:13:49.300 Yes, you're right.

02:13:51.000 Is it, is it terrifying for you to answer something like that?

02:13:53.540 It's not really terrifying.

02:13:54.640 I just think it's a bit rude.

02:13:56.840 So.

02:13:57.520 Oh, it's rude.

02:13:58.480 Yeah.

02:13:59.240 Okay.

02:13:59.700 That's fine.

02:14:00.120 You want to hear my tragic story?

02:14:02.000 That's better for you.

02:14:03.160 Well, yeah, a little bit more entertaining.

02:14:06.280 Yeah.

02:14:06.960 Can you just remove him?

02:14:08.180 Can I jump in?

02:14:09.020 Thank you.

02:14:10.060 Can I jump in?

02:14:11.040 Yeah.

02:14:12.580 Yeah.

02:14:13.280 He's gone.

02:14:14.560 Yeah.

02:14:15.280 It's not.

02:14:16.200 It's been two hours.

02:14:18.440 Last point.

02:14:19.100 Hold on then.

02:14:19.600 Hold on.

02:14:20.000 No, it's not even that.

02:14:21.400 It's just, I can't stand it when people come on and I have a topic and we write this,

02:14:26.440 like you write this whole show around the topic and then people just decide what they want

02:14:30.520 to talk about.

02:14:31.280 And then questions like that, guys, Pearl Davis has been doing this for four years. 0.58

02:14:38.940 She's been a prominent figure for that long.

02:14:41.120 If you don't know her platform, what she stands for, I don't know what else to tell you.

02:14:48.060 Like, there is no good answer to that question.

02:14:53.160 I mean, YouTube is a big space.

02:14:56.480 Pearl's not a one-stop shop.

02:14:58.420 I mean, I don't, like, wait, of course I can't save you.

02:15:05.640 It's your life.

02:15:06.580 Like, what does he mean?

02:15:07.420 I'm your only hope.

02:15:08.880 And one thing, Pearl doesn't tell men what to do.

02:15:13.280 Not once.

02:15:15.420 That's not her lane. 0.99

02:15:17.540 Yeah, I mean, I just think it's rude.

02:15:19.800 Like, if Doug wants to date single mothers, fat ones, I mean, Doug, I'm not saying you 1.00

02:15:24.920 do, but, like... 0.67

02:15:25.700 That's why I'm saying hold up now.

02:15:27.040 No, no, no.

02:15:27.380 But I'm just saying, like, if guys want to do something, it's your life, man.

02:15:31.820 You know?

02:15:33.260 So, anyways.

02:15:35.080 But I think that's pretty much all we have for today.

02:15:37.880 It's our last caller, right?

02:15:39.720 Yeah.

02:15:40.040 You got any other thoughts on the topic, Doug?

02:15:46.260 I'm here.

02:15:47.160 Final thoughts, guys.

02:15:50.140 Have a list of things that you won't tolerate hearing from women, but then a lot of times, 1.00

02:15:54.720 if you don't listen to them, you can talk yourself out of getting laid.

02:15:58.820 So, have that poker face, guys.

02:16:01.260 A lot of times, all you have to do is just hold on to that poker face for 35, 40, 45 minutes,

02:16:05.960 and then you're home free.

02:16:07.600 And also, like I said in the last couple of seasons, just keep her talking about her,

02:16:11.640 guys.

02:16:12.260 Women love to talk about themselves. 1.00

02:16:15.500 Cool.

02:16:16.200 Well, thanks, Doug MPA.

02:16:18.380 It's a pleasure, as always.

02:16:21.580 I'm trying to think.

02:16:24.180 Okay, schedule.

02:16:25.120 I do apologize, guys.

02:16:29.380 We had to make some changes.

02:16:31.700 So, tomorrow, we have someone coming in.

02:16:33.940 I don't want to tell you guys who.

02:16:35.400 No, because I think it's going to be a cool interview, but we're not doing a show because

02:16:39.800 we are going to film that.

02:16:42.020 Next week, I filmed extra reactions.

02:16:45.900 I'm going to post this interview and one other one I did.

02:16:50.480 And so, we're going to have a bunch of extra content.

02:16:53.060 If I have time, I will do a show, but I'm not positive I will.

02:16:57.420 So, let's plan for no shows next week.

02:17:01.480 And if I end up being able to do one, we'll be excited.

02:17:05.400 Yeah, that's all I got.

02:17:08.980 If you want to support me, go to theaudacitynetwork.com.

02:17:12.160 That's theaudacitynetwork.com.

02:17:13.860 The link's in the description.

02:17:15.340 It is the second link.

02:17:17.080 This person that's coming is going to do a course on how to catch your partner cheating.

02:17:21.560 So, if you want to make sure your girl is loyal before you put a kid in her, before you put

02:17:27.420 a ring on her, and you want to know how can you test and just verify, right, trust, but

02:17:34.780 verify that she is being honest with you.

02:17:38.040 Sign up now because the price is going to go up fairly soon.

02:17:41.880 And you guys want to get it first.

02:17:43.220 Doug NPA, any final thoughts?

02:17:46.980 Nope.

02:17:48.020 All right.

02:17:48.560 Nope.

02:17:49.180 I can just vouch the person that is coming into town to hang out with Pearl and do content

02:17:56.060 with is going to be quite the watch, guys.

02:18:02.200 So, stay tuned.

02:18:02.800 Yeah, it's going to be quite the watch.

02:18:05.220 And, like, who better than this person that could make a course on catching cheating?

02:18:11.300 There's nobody better.

02:18:12.680 It's going to be hilarious.

02:18:15.400 Okay, guys.

02:18:16.500 Please like the video, subscribe, and I will see you guys maybe next week, but I promise

02:18:22.800 nothing.

02:18:23.440 Otherwise, I'll see you guys on the interview that we record tomorrow.

02:18:26.540 So, I'll see you.

02:18:27.180 Bye.

02:18:32.800 Bye.

02:19:02.800 Bye.

JustPearlyThings - April 24, 2025

Men's Poker Face (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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