JustPearlyThings - Men SACRIFICE Everything For Marriages ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 51

00:00:00.040 What up guys? Welcome to the Just Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to Pearl Daily

00:00:05.560 where I cover this week's treachery, debauchery, and craziness. Before I start, don't forget to

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00:00:15.040 ultimate alpha male, get yourself a Women Shouldn't Vote t-shirt today. As you guys know, all of this

00:00:21.760 craziness and treachery in society really all started when women got the right to vote in the 1.00

00:00:26.840 1920s. Guys, first wave feminism was just as evil as third wave feminism. Get yourself a Women Shouldn't 1.00

00:00:34.660 Vote t-shirt today. So as you guys know, I have been going back and forth with The Daily Wire.

00:00:39.980 I actually couldn't believe it. I have had the entire Daily Wire respond to good old Pearl,

00:00:46.720 to good old Pearl. So I've not only had Jeremy Boring, the CEO of The Daily Wire, okay, anyone

00:00:54.140 that watches me knows I'm not a names person. This isn't even supposed to be like a rude thing.

00:00:59.400 Okay, Matt Walsh responded to me. Ben Shapiro responded to me. Oh, and even Matt Walsh's wife

00:01:07.700 responded to me. I couldn't believe it. Guys, I was like, what on earth is going on? Pearl's tweet,

00:01:13.520 I'm just tweeting away. And so the original tweet that sparked this entire conversation was I pointed

00:01:19.800 out that all of the men that really pushed marriage as a solution were not old enough to really

00:01:26.140 understand the realities of men in this country. And I also pointed out that typically wealthy men

00:01:32.020 have a different experience in marriage. Although I can also point to many, many wealthy men that have

00:01:37.540 gotten absolutely screwed in divorce. And what conclusions I've come to from doing shows with 600,

00:01:43.520 700 plus guests on them interviewing countless men and really getting messages and calls daily about

00:01:50.060 this stuff is that I really think that rich men have a different reality than the average middle

00:01:55.820 class American workers. Rich men are more likely to get respect from their wives. They also have a

00:02:01.060 lower divorce rate. And typically from my experience, when wealthy men get divorced, and I could still

00:02:08.620 give you so many instances where this is not the case, but in general, they have an easier time

00:02:15.720 after divorce. They can date again and be okay. They typically, even if their wife takes a bunch of

00:02:21.000 their money, they're usually very good at making money. And the real men that are truly affected by

00:02:27.160 this are one, the men that cannot fight false allegations in court. And really the men that don't

00:02:33.440 recover financially ever again, that worked the same, I don't know, factory job, mechanic job for

00:02:39.740 20, 25 years, and then had a woman financially ruin them only for them to never recover. A lot of these 0.95

00:02:46.620 men end up committing suicide. My point is more, I see general trends. And the general trend is that

00:02:52.840 older men tend to understand more the realities of what I'm talking about. So Andrew Klavan, another

00:02:59.540 social commentator for the Daily Wire, also weighed in. Now I wanted to point something out that Andrew

00:03:05.080 is 69 years old. So he is in the older guy category that I was talking about. Now let's see what he has

00:03:12.300 to say. So there's a big debate that the Daily Wire is involved in, in a big way, this provocateur,

00:03:19.220 Hannah Pearl Davis. She's sometimes called the female Andrew Tate because she's kind of down on women. 1.00

00:03:25.380 She disses women a lot. And she's been pointing out that feminists in the courts have ruined marriage and 1.00

00:03:30.240 guys shouldn't get married. And Ben and Walsh and even Jeremy have all weighed in opposing her. And she works

00:03:36.420 the way provocateurs work. They all make these extreme statements. Andrew Tate does this too. Nick Fuentes does

00:03:42.940 it. And when they're attacked, when people say that's a really horrible thing to say, they explain their extreme

00:03:48.120 statements away and their followers pretend to believe the explanation while they really believe the extreme

00:03:53.260 statements. So they say, women are stupid. And you say, well, that's a ridiculous thing to say. 1.00

00:03:57.980 And then they say, well, what I meant by that is they don't always make the right decisions. And

00:04:01.340 everybody says, see, you know, he doesn't really mean that. But what they really think is that women

00:04:05.100 are stupid. So Pearl has been complaining. She complained on Twitter that only young guys like 1.00

00:04:10.360 marriage. And she called out Ben and Walsh and I think Jeremy. And somebody said, well, what about

00:04:15.020 Clavin? And so I answered that I've been blissfully married for 43 years. My wife, of course, has been

00:04:20.360 trying to escape, but I won't let her because it's been bliss for me. But I'm very cognizant that this

00:04:24.700 is a special blessing in my life. I have a wonderful wife, truly. She gave me a home. She

00:04:29.900 mothered our children. She nurtured my career. She believed in me when I had nothing. And she's the

00:04:35.000 absolute love of my life. And I'm not, that's not something I'm just saying. Truly, if I had the time

00:04:39.940 that I have spent making love to that woman, if I had used it more productively, I would be an

00:04:43.980 astrophysicist today, which I don't want to be. So it's actually fine. So, but not everyone gets to

00:04:49.180 marry that kind of wife, you know, and I, and no one else can get the best wife because I've got 0.92

00:04:53.240 her. So I, I kind of, I'm a little bit hesitant to say, oh yes, get married because it's a great

00:04:58.460 thing. Now, Pearl's point, which I think, you know, she has a point when she gets to the explanation

00:05:02.760 part, when she stopped provoking you, some of the stuff she says has a point. She says that

00:05:08.460 feminists have ruined marriage. She says a lot of marriages fail. She's put the number at like 50%, 1.00

00:05:13.240 but it's been falling steadily. It's now around 40%. And for certain cohorts, it's, it's much lower than

00:05:18.580 that. But she points out that in divorce, men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws. Here's

00:05:24.460 cut seven. Many of these guys get so stressed out. They lose their jobs because, or they have

00:05:31.240 astronomical court fees, child support, all that. You know, and a lot of guys will spend, you know,

00:05:38.200 the average guy makes what 50 K a year guys will spend a hundred, 150 K in court fees just to not

00:05:45.040 get their kids. And the thing is you can take money from a guy, but there is something about a man

00:05:52.600 who is so desperate to see his child. Like it is the saddest thing you have ever seen where his child

00:06:00.780 will be a mile from him and he hasn't seen him in two years. So our point is that if 40% of marriages

00:06:06.120 fail, and then it's this misery because the courts destroy you, why would you even take that chance?

00:06:11.340 Now I myself have pointed out something else long before there was a Pearl Davis, you know,

00:06:16.660 there's little t-shirts that they have that says a game over, you know, and they'll have a cartoon

00:06:20.240 and they'll show a happy bride and a frowning groom. And the point is that marriage is for women, 0.52

00:06:25.540 not men. And when men are caught there, you know, there's, these are a lot of old 40 songs are about

00:06:29.980 this. Love is the tender trap and you're making whoopie. You want to make whoopie, but you wind up

00:06:35.160 washing dishes and baby clothes. And there's no reason not to take that complaint seriously. It

00:06:42.500 wouldn't be a meme if it weren't an actual serious thing that our form of marriage was invented by the

00:06:48.000 Catholic church to protect women. Feminists who say, Oh, it was slavery. No, it was to protect 1.00

00:06:53.620 women. And a man sacrifices his deep urge for freedom and sexual variety and sexual adventure and

00:07:01.040 other kinds of adventure. So a woman can indulge her deep urge to have children in a protected and

00:07:06.500 supported environment with him supporting her and making sure she is all right. In return for that

00:07:12.140 sacrifice in the old days, each man received a little kingdom. I received a little kingdom when I got

00:07:18.000 married, I got family. I was the head of that family. I got respect. I got support for my professional

00:07:22.480 work. And, and I was surrounded by a home, which I would never have had. I would always been a drifter if I

00:07:28.480 hadn't fallen in love with the right woman. Pearl is right about this, that feminism has destroyed 1.00

00:07:34.720 marriage in the sense that men are expected to sacrifice a freedom that is deeply important to

00:07:40.680 them, not just sexual freedom, but it's the freedom to not know what they're going to be doing next and

00:07:45.160 who they're going to be and not to be responsible to anybody. And they get absolutely nothing in return.

00:07:51.680 And here is the whole thing about, about talking about marriage.

00:07:58.160 If we're not going to be honest about it, then, and it's worthwhile, we can't save it. Because one of

00:08:05.080 the other things I didn't think when I left my wife is, ooh, marrying this woman would be good for

00:08:10.180 society. So I'm going to do that. I didn't think that at all. I didn't even think it would be good

00:08:13.960 for me. I thought it was something I wanted to do. But because no one can say the words that

00:08:19.020 conservatives are right, but no one can say the words that male-female marriage is the pinnacle 0.70

00:08:23.220 of human relationship. That is basically what we've got going for us, the center of our society.

00:08:28.360 We have to live in lies. And what happens when you live in lies is there are these invisible brick

00:08:32.960 walls and you keep bumping into them because nobody can say there's a brick wall. It's the emperor's

00:08:38.700 brick wall, right? If nobody says, you know, don't go that way because you're going to fall off the

00:08:45.120 cliff. You go that way and then people fall off the cliff. And what happens? Everybody gets angry.

00:08:50.060 And if that's not a description of the society we're in today where, you know, people like Pearl

00:08:56.180 Davis, and again, she's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff. She said anti-Semitic stuff. I think 1.00

00:09:01.000 she hung around with Nick Fuentes for a while. She got some of that poison in her. You know, so she just

00:09:05.060 says things that I think get her clicks and all this. But when you clear all that away, she is making a

00:09:10.540 point that the institution of marriage as it is conceived by the general society, as it's conceived

00:09:16.040 by the media, as it's conceived by the government, as it's conceived by all the people who are doing

00:09:20.340 all the talking is not something that is necessarily appealing, especially for men. And so the men are

00:09:28.620 sitting around going, why should I do this? And when you tell them, oh, it's because it's Jesus'

00:09:31.980 relationship with the church or it's good for society, you're telling them absolutely nothing.

00:09:36.400 So I want to talk about a couple things. So first of all, he calls me a provocateur because I say women

00:09:43.300 are dumb. No, I mean that. I really do. By and large, guys, if you had to pick 10 women to solve a 1.00

00:09:52.760 problem or 10 men to solve a problem, the problem with us women, as we just start like crying about the

00:09:59.980 problem, we don't go to solve it. The men actually try to solve the problem. So yeah, no, I'm serious.

00:10:05.200 I'm dead. Call that provocative. But I really think this is just basic truths. Okay. Do I think

00:10:12.200 every woman is stupid? Of course not. But by and large, when you look at the decisions we make, 1.00

00:10:16.840 they're by and large stupid. So, I mean, you might not like how that makes you feel, you know, but I 1.00

00:10:24.320 think by and large, if all the women went home tomorrow, the workforce would be more productive. 0.99

00:10:28.920 You know, they could fire all the HR departments, all the paperwork would go away. I really, yeah. And

00:10:35.160 sorry, I just, I think that's true. Okay. The other thing I appreciate about Andrew is that he's a bit

00:10:41.840 more honest, honest about the state of marriage. And the truth is in 2023, a man gets a modern woman for 0.98

00:10:50.300 a wife, not a traditional woman. And why do modern women deserve child support, alimony, 1.00

00:10:57.460 and automatic custody of the children? And you're talking about women that have zero traditional 1.00

00:11:04.260 skills, were not raised to be wives, are not loyal, and really are addicted to social media.

00:11:11.580 And my point about this is, why are we giving modern women traditional treatment? Why do they deserve it? 1.00

00:11:20.500 And so, I decided to really think about this. What is the ideal wife? The ideal wife is a virgin wife, 0.99

00:11:28.580 right? What percent of women are virgins on their wedding days? Four percent. They followed around 40-year 1.00

00:11:36.020 marriages. 40-year marriages to see what percent of them are still married after 40 years. And they actually

00:11:43.220 found an increase in the divorce rate. 67%. So, a lot of the people that are not included in the current

00:11:51.880 divorce rate actually just haven't divorced yet. That's why I sort of poke fun at these people that think

00:12:01.600 they're the CEO of marriage because they had a couple kids and were married 10, maybe 15,

00:12:06.020 15 years. Yeah. And, you know, I'm sure the people that got divorced after 20 years, 30 years,

00:12:13.760 and 40 years also felt the same way at 10, 15 years. Now, I don't say this to be a doom and gloomer,

00:12:21.220 but we have to be honest about the realities of marriage. So, this guy, Paul Benjamin, actually,

00:12:29.840 because a lot of times what the trad cons will do will say, hey, you guys are just doom and gloomers,

00:12:36.980 and you're not reading the right stats. And this is why I say there can be a stat made up to say

00:12:43.260 anything. So, Paul Benjamin weighs in and says, learn how research works before you make a claim,

00:12:49.640 a claim off of research with low samples by religions. Example, a nine percent divorce rate for

00:12:55.420 Orthodox Christians is out of 182 people. When you work with larger numbers and work backwards, 1.00

00:13:01.560 religious beliefs among divorced, 70 percent of those divorced are religious. So, that flies in

00:13:09.520 the face of the just find a good woman argument. And my belief is when you have an incentive structure

00:13:15.240 that rewards women for being bad, religious women will take it, non-religious women will take it, 0.99

00:13:21.220 and no, you cannot just pray away that risk. Sorry, guys. The other argument I keep getting is,

00:13:29.520 well, a true alpha can't be divorced. And I just, and, you know, couples that pray out every single

00:13:35.980 day don't get divorced. And I thought to myself, I'm like, okay, so you're selling a guy that he's

00:13:42.300 got to pray every single day with his wife for eternity to not get divorced. Now, I'm not saying

00:13:51.260 this is a bad thing, but I'm just asking, like, is this going to be a good sell to the average

00:14:00.560 American man? And then you could say, well, well, what about the religious men? Well, and I say,

00:14:07.220 if you find, I mean, Andrews, you know, when I hear stories like Andrews, it really, it makes my

00:14:11.740 heart warm. I love hearing stories like that. I think that's beautiful. I think that's amazing.

00:14:17.180 And I absolutely would encourage men to do what they think is best. And if they think that marrying

00:14:24.720 their wife is what's best, then sure. But what I am not for is not giving men informed consent.

00:14:31.560 Men need to understand what they're signing up for. And I really do believe that

00:14:36.260 there is little evidence to suggest that women will do the right thing when given power. 1.00

00:14:43.020 I, you know, women time and time again, have done the wrong thing when given power. 0.98

00:14:48.420 And, you know, it's interesting because the other thing that I keep hearing from all these

00:14:52.480 trad cons as well, it's going to take so long for the divorce laws to change. Just do it anyway. 1.00

00:14:58.260 Well, and I thought to myself, well, the biggest media network, who has more political pull than

00:15:04.300 the Daily Wire, I think they have more political pull than Fox News right now. I know, I know,

00:15:10.180 maybe, maybe that's an overstatement, but Fox doesn't have Tucker Carlson. So when you have the

00:15:15.520 biggest political right wing media network saying, well, it's going to take too long, just sign up

00:15:22.360 anyway, get married. I'm like, well, and I'm not Andrew. Andrew didn't do that. But I think to myself,

00:15:28.720 well, okay, imagine, imagine. All right. Imagine. Okay. Imagine. I tell you guys, buy my product.

00:15:37.940 You know, I have sponsors and a lot of these episodes. Imagine I have a product and 5% and

00:15:44.320 I'm going to use a super low number. So you guys can't argue with me. 5% of men die when they take

00:15:52.500 this pill. This is like a tummy, whatever. You know, you guys would be appalled at me for pushing

00:15:59.140 that product. Would you not? And again, modern marriage is death to a lot of men. The idea of

00:16:06.300 another man raising their child is death to them. The idea of a woman taking their money and spending 1.00

00:16:12.200 it with her new boyfriend is also death to them. You know, really modern marriage is a form of

00:16:19.660 indentured servitude. Yes, because they are legally forced to have women rob them for a lifetime or at 0.80

00:16:28.080 least 20 years, which is a pretty long time if you ask me. And you would tell me that I am

00:16:35.500 irresponsible now if I said, hey guys, there's a 5% death rate and a 20% chance that this pill will give

00:16:46.700 you abs. You know, take it at your own risk. At least I gave the warning label and did not tell

00:16:54.660 you to take it without knowing the risks. And I really do believe that pushing marriage is a 0.92

00:17:00.160 fundamental misunderstanding of human nature. No man can be perfectly alpha at all times. And I can name

00:17:06.800 to you man after man after man that was religious, that had the money, had the fame, was attractive,

00:17:14.560 had everything on paper. And then it just starts to become, and I really hate it. I cannot stand when

00:17:22.440 it just becomes a religious off. Now it's a, it's a, well, you just weren't religious enough. That's

00:17:28.980 why you got divorced. Really? Tom Brady. You don't think that man was religious and say, well,

00:17:39.980 he just picked the wrong woman. I mean, who's the right woman when I can, Ayesha Curry was Steph Curry's

00:17:49.980 high school Christian sweetheart who started off covered talking about, she, she's not a hoe. And 1.00

00:17:56.560 now she's posting nude on Instagram. If that happens to the richest, most successful men, what happens to

00:18:04.340 the average man in America? Where a lot of the men that say this are increasingly above average in

00:18:11.660 intelligence, wealth, and looks. We could just go by height. Most of them are above average in height. Most men

00:18:18.660 will never get the level of respect that you get from your wives. And no, being alpha, not, not every guy is

00:18:26.900 going to be alpha. But the truth of the matter is that women still would listen and respect average 0.90

00:18:34.480 men back in the day. They do not do that anymore. Social media has made us delusional. 70% of us are

00:18:40.560 overweight. And the truth of the matter is men don't want to get married because the juice is just not

00:18:46.200 worth the squeeze. And what trad cons will do is shame the men and say they're not real men if they don't

00:18:53.000 sign up for a system that pays you to financially ruin a man's life. And what they say is to sign

00:19:01.300 up anyway, even before the laws will change. Now, don't take my word for this. Listen to yours truly,

00:19:08.080 Ben Shapiro. How about we revise the system of law, but also in the meantime, you do need to find a

00:19:12.960 spouse and get married to her. Now, these are his words, not mine. Now I have a question. If there was a

00:19:18.200 rollercoaster ride, okay, imagine this is a rollercoaster ride and it killed 5% of people that

00:19:25.600 got on. Now you might have a 95% chance of not getting killed. And let's be honest, guys, it's

00:19:34.180 way higher than that. But I'm just, I'm just going with the numbers that you guys give me. You have a

00:19:39.040 95% chance of not getting killed, but only a 5% chance of death. Now, would you ride anyway?

00:19:48.200 Or would you wait until they fix the ride? I mean, uh, but when it's funny, whenever you switch it to

00:19:55.840 something that's not emotional, the answer is really simple. But whenever you put religion and

00:20:01.420 emotion into it, then that's where we get these personal attacks. Pearl's, uh, this Pearl's a

00:20:09.160 provocateur, which I, okay, I'm, I'm, that wasn't even that bad, but you guys get what I'm saying,

00:20:16.220 Pearl. That's when you get, you know, Matt Walsh's wife giving me a paragraph and how I just hate

00:20:22.300 marriage and women and all this nonsense. And I just, I don't know them, which is quite, it's like 0.84

00:20:29.500 weird behavior for a political conversation. And this is my point, guys. When you take the emotion

00:20:36.920 out of it, you could logically understand why men go so far as to get a vasectomy. Now I'm not,

00:20:43.080 I think men need to weigh the pros and the cons and do what they got to do. That's my opinion.

00:20:49.140 What, what I'm not for is shaming men into a system and say that they're not real men or man enough,

00:20:55.060 which is what the daily wire CEO, Jeremy boring something said. Okay. Like this is,

00:21:02.020 uh, this is what they're saying. And I think that's wrong. Men are going to keep walking away

00:21:08.000 and we can either cry that they're walking away or ask ourselves, Hmm, what reforms could we have

00:21:14.680 to incentivize men to get married again? Now I have a couple ideas. I'm just throwing shit at the

00:21:20.500 wall. I want to see what hits one. Women have to be below a certain percent body fat to qualify for 1.00

00:21:29.560 marriage. Right? Right. You can't gain too much weight. If you gain 50 pounds, you, he can legally

00:21:38.840 divorce you. I think a lot of men would say, Hey, that's okay. But, but in all seriousness,

00:21:45.300 I think if we eliminated no fault divorce, um, or at least gave 50, 50 custody off the bat,

00:21:53.460 that's a starting point. I'm willing to compromise guys. I'm a compromiser. I'm an ideas gal.

00:21:59.600 Personally, if it was up in pearls, let's do pearls world. Okay. Now I'd like to say this is pearls

00:22:05.060 world. I have no political power right now. So nothing I say will actually happen, but this is

00:22:10.520 all the things that I would do. I would ban birth control. I'd ban no fault divorce. I'd take away

00:22:15.360 women's right to vote. Oh, I would also say that women have to be a certain percent body fat. They 1.00

00:22:21.420 can't be overweight in order to get married. Yes. If you gain too much weight, that's considered fraud.

00:22:28.360 Yes. Ladies fraud. Imagine. Okay. If a man lies about his money, you don't think you could go and be

00:22:37.540 like, look, he told me he had a job. It turns out he's scamming everybody, but you guys will gain

00:22:44.300 a hundred pounds. All right. If he buys you fat, fine. Maybe he just likes the fatties, but, but it's

00:22:52.460 like, it's, this is getting ridiculous. And then you guys want to, you go, okay. And then you guys 0.94

00:22:57.500 will say, Oh, Pearl's the bad guy because she points out that you shouldn't get fat when you're

00:23:03.000 married. They'll be like, Oh, well, she had a bunch of kids. Okay. I'll give you like 20 pounds, 1.00

00:23:12.680 ladies. But you guys are gaining a hundred pounds and expecting men to be okay with that. Men expect a 1.00

00:23:19.280 little bit, but I know women that have had seven children and they're hot. They, they look, they're 1.00

00:23:26.920 skinny. Well, hot under 30. Sorry. Sorry. That's okay. Um, anyways, but my point is we need to start

00:23:36.520 giving men incentives to get married. Um, that means we have to lower the risks and raise the value they

00:23:43.080 get out of it. They're not going to, they're not going to sign up by you saying you're not a real

00:23:48.620 man and you need to be responsible for women's bad decisions. I'd love to chat with the daily wire. 1.00

00:23:54.540 I think we have two options for this. I could discuss it one-on-one with a Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro,

00:24:00.360 some of the people that have come at me. Or I also think it would be really interesting to have a

00:24:04.980 conversation about the risks versus rewards of marriage with myself and some other experts in the

00:24:10.600 manosphere. I would love to have like a, I was thinking about this. I'm like, I would love to

00:24:14.580 have a divorce attorney on me on a man that's been wrecked and divorced, a happily married. Like

00:24:21.080 we, there's a million ways we could do this panel, but I really just want to push the conversation

00:24:26.160 forward and have a real honest conversation about the risks versus the rewards of marriage.

00:24:32.460 And we need to answer this stuff. Honestly, I understand we have religious beliefs, but just because

00:24:38.960 we have a religious belief, you know, I'm Catholic, but as a Catholic, I understand that most men today,

00:24:45.160 the reward does not outweigh the risks. And until we fix that, you are not going to see men return.

00:24:52.060 It's just not going to happen no matter what I say, or no matter what you say. So our next story,

00:24:57.340 I wanted to talk about a moment that happened on the show. So as you guys know, China has been a 0.95

00:25:02.940 regular guest on our show for about a year now. And he came on and there was a woman that had

00:25:09.460 OnlyFans and had a child. And she got especially triggered when China asked the question about her

00:25:17.040 having a kid and having OnlyFans. Let's play the clip.

00:25:20.140 You said to me, whoa, you've got a daughter and you do OnlyFans.

00:25:22.900 Of course, because how can you have a daughter and you'd be selling your body online? It's crazy.

00:25:26.900 I agree with you, which is why I want to get out of it.

00:25:29.640 It's the way that you spoke to her and said, oh, well, you have a daughter. Like,

00:25:33.280 like, so she has a daughter. Okay, so what? She's trying to put money on her table. 1.00

00:25:37.540 She can't work in Tesco's. 0.98

00:25:39.120 That's, hold on, wait, hold on.

00:25:40.320 Nine pounds an hour.

00:25:41.200 Wait, hold on a second. So how about all the other people that are nine pounds an hour

00:25:44.120 putting their kids through school?

00:25:45.220 Okay, cool.

00:25:45.780 So these women got so upset that they left because a guy said, you have OnlyFans and a child. Now I

00:25:57.260 want to put myself in this situation. I'm on YouTube. And if someone said you're on YouTube

00:26:03.040 and you have a kid, I would just say, yes. Ladies, nobody can make you feel shame. And we need to stop 1.00

00:26:10.040 blaming men for how the truth makes us feel. If you feel shame, that comes from within. Nobody can

00:26:16.760 make you feel anything. And the thing is telling men to watch their tone when they tell you the harsh

00:26:21.800 realities of the world just leads us to living in delusion. And that's why men feel like they can't

00:26:26.940 be honest with us. And this woman, it's really interesting because she said, I agree. I want to

00:26:33.580 quit. But, you know, this is why men don't really trust what we say, because if you wanted to quit,

00:26:40.440 you would have quit. So you don't want to do the hard thing and get a real job. You want to do the

00:26:46.000 easy thing, which is not get a real job. The censored man tweets this and says, as a mom wanting to

00:26:51.720 provide for kids a justification for having OnlyFans, I would say no. I don't think there's any

00:26:57.040 justification. I think it's very selfish. And I think it's putting yourself before your children,

00:27:02.760 which is what we are going to continue to see with modern women. They care about the money more 1.00

00:27:08.240 than raising their children. And they will often scoff and laugh at women and men that work hard

00:27:13.640 and do work at Tesco's and live average lives with average jobs and have to raise up their kids poor.

00:27:20.220 They think that material things are more important than having good parents that love them and show

00:27:25.900 them how to do the right thing. How on earth will the next generation of kids know how to do the right

00:27:31.280 thing if we are raised by a generation of people that continually do the wrong thing and parade

00:27:35.800 about it on social media? I see a very grim future for humanity if these are the people that are raising

00:27:43.280 our children, which again, my question is, where is the dad and why can't he get custody? Now, I don't

00:27:49.780 know her personal situation, but typically they'll say that the dad is a deadbeat in some way, which my

00:27:55.160 question is, why would you make a child with a deadbeat? And I actually think at some point,

00:28:01.980 you know, honestly, this is a controversial opinion. I think it's better for those kids to

00:28:08.320 be adopted by two loving parents that want kids than be raised with an OnlyFans mom. 0.95

00:28:14.740 I know, I know maybe you guys will think that's crazy, but I've been on both sides of it.

00:28:19.460 My mom and dad got pregnant super young and they didn't think they could take care of it. So one 0.67

00:28:25.540 of my brothers was given up for adoption. And then we also adopted kids. We adopted three kids that

00:28:31.480 were like teenagers and really they were just in like bad situations. And the thing is, guys, in 2023,

00:28:37.360 we have so many fertility issues that the line to adopt children is so long. There is a waiting list

00:28:44.700 to adopt kids. I don't think OnlyFans models are fit parents. I think it's wrong. I think it's bad

00:28:50.980 for the children. I don't think you can give your kid a stable life. I think they're going to be

00:28:56.700 bullied in schools. Yeah, I don't think OnlyFans mothers. I think women that have OnlyFans have 1.00

00:29:04.220 already shown that they care more about attention and money rather than raising their kids to be good

00:29:09.920 people. So what do you expect from the kids? I say give the children to the dad or put them up for

00:29:16.540 adoption. I think if you can't, if you're going to use money as an excuse to do OnlyFans, then you

00:29:21.880 shouldn't have a child. Give the kid to someone that can actually love it and raise it properly. 1.00

00:29:27.440 That's my opinion. Keen, as a last resort, maybe as a lazy preference. No, I think no. I think there's no

00:29:33.680 excuse. I genuinely think the OnlyFans models are unfit parents. Now, you could argue that there's a 0.99

00:29:40.600 lot of unfit parents and I would agree. And there's honestly a lot of really good women and men that want 1.00

00:29:46.980 to adopt. No. So my answer is no. There's no excuse. The crazy thing is this woman got like, she was mad 1.00

00:29:56.940 about his tone. And this woman starts like attacking me later where, mind you, I didn't say anything to 1.00

00:30:03.680 this chick. She just goes nuts. And what happens is these chicks will get angry based on something 1.00

00:30:08.840 someone says and then use that as a justification to do anything and say anything. And the funny thing

00:30:15.280 was once these two ladies left, it was super calm on the show. It was a super calm rest of the show. 0.61

00:30:20.940 And they got so upset that they literally freaked out. And then they blame me for their emotions.

00:30:27.900 I am not responsible for the way you choose to act and portray yourself and respond. The same way that

00:30:35.380 when this chick starts yelling at me and attacking me, I don't cry to the internet and cry on my show and 1.00

00:30:43.460 bitch and whine. I'm just stating facts. If you can't raise your kid without taking off your 1.00

00:30:50.900 clothes, then give the kid to the dad or give it to a couple that can raise it properly because this 0.99

00:30:56.240 shit's not fair. It is not fair to a child to have to grow up with a mother that does OnlyFans because 0.99

00:31:02.200 what? You can buy them the latest clothes. Children, and this is the biggest, this is what I've actually

00:31:08.040 noticed from doing hundreds of shows, is women think that kids care about the material stuff because 1.00

00:31:17.500 women care about the material stuff. And the greatest blessing to a child is two parents that love 1.00

00:31:25.260 them. That's it. Two parents that love them in the same household. That is the biggest privilege that

00:31:33.540 you can give a child. And that is far more important than any money that OnlyFans can buy.

00:31:39.760 So, Anne, I wanted to give you guys an example of why I think men should get custody of the children. 0.83

00:31:47.920 Women just tend to be selfish. And we have this trend that I keep seeing of the modern mother. So, 1.00

00:31:53.720 there was a mother jailed after leaving her baby to starve to death while she went on a six-day,

00:31:59.660 18th birthday party. Let's play it.

00:32:29.660 Beこう.

00:32:31.400 It may be lonely.

00:32:34.700 There was a men that consider...

00:32:36.200 that people weren't creating a baby, and I should report a baby, and they want to feel

00:32:48.700 about the baby's availability. Let's be honest about who we are and who may want to be autour

00:32:50.720 of and who can be a mentor.

00:32:52.020 To kiss your baby, please relax.

00:32:53.960 Take care and forgive forever.

00:32:57.400 think about that nine years for killing a baby imagine if a man killed a child what do you think

00:33:25.600 his sentence would be and this is what you see the modern mothers and guys this is a direct result 0.96

00:33:31.740 of our court system why did this woman have custody she's clearly an unfit parent and these kids need 1.00

00:33:39.100 to be and this is why i really genuinely believe men need to get custody in 2023 women are too

00:33:47.380 deluded from social media to be good parents that's the truth of the matter and they're right

00:33:53.720 they said nine years is very very short brah i can't even leave my dog alone for a day without 0.96

00:33:59.480 feeling like shit about it that's so true that's so true and and she left her kid alone for six days 0.96

00:34:08.740 modern feminism for you this happens so often google vicious mother syndrome yet the courts and social 1.00

00:34:16.320 services side with the mother on 99 of the time and this is why i push back so hard on this idea

00:34:23.640 that women are naturally maternal um that women are better parents you know think about the fact

00:34:29.540 that one out of three women have had an abortion does that scream maternal better parents the most

00:34:36.660 likely person to murder a child in the first year of life is the mother children deserve to be protected

00:34:46.300 and that is why i do not understand why the courts award women custody 90 of the time this idea that

00:34:54.040 women are naturally better parents is not true it is not the case men raise far better children than

00:35:00.960 women it is not even close men can actually afford their children they are better with money so why do we 0.96

00:35:09.320 give women custody of their children when they leave men should get automatic custody and women 1.00

00:35:16.180 should not be paid to leave marriages you know back to my original point at the beginning of this

00:35:21.420 video if we really want to see marriages come back and traditionalism return we have to lower the risk for

00:35:29.280 men now tell me i'm assuming that she was with a boyfriend not the father of that kid that's what it

00:35:35.300 seemed to say in that clip so imagine that was your daughter

00:35:39.340 is that not death to a man a lot of times this is what men sign up for when they have a child with a

00:35:49.440 woman and this happens with all different types of women they sign up to watch their daughter or son 1.00

00:35:59.080 be raised by an unfit parent for the next 18 years this is death to a lot of men this is taking away

00:36:08.940 their legacy and their livelihood and you know that's why as much as as much as i harp on marriage

00:36:17.320 the real risk that men put themselves under is having children you know and i interviewed a divorce

00:36:25.000 attorney about this and he told me that marriage is not what he feared he could get an ironclad prenup

00:36:32.940 and lower the risk what he feared is having children because the truth of the matter is in

00:36:40.240 this country when a man has children they are not his they are automatically hers and until we start 0.98

00:36:46.780 reforming the family court system you will not see this change and you will never see traditionalism

00:36:53.180 children and families come back until we reward men for doing the right thing

00:36:59.400 well you know arguably the right thing you know so you know i recently talked about okay so

00:37:07.120 i i've come up with this theory okay that we're gonna see right now it's becoming so risky for men to

00:37:14.600 have children it's so risky that a lot of men are gonna opt out of that and on top of that we have a

00:37:22.780 society that discriminates against men for getting the highest paying job so i really think you're 0.63

00:37:28.940 going to keep seeing women work in these useless jobs that really are funded by the men but you know 1.00

00:37:37.940 they're like you know you see this happen in tech all the time they'll discriminate against men for

00:37:42.620 tech jobs and just hand them to women you're also going to see women monetize beauty media only fans 1.00

00:37:49.620 etc um and make a ton of money and i had this idea where i was thinking i'm like some guys guys are so

00:37:57.520 funny guys will just figure out a way to work with the current system i think we're going to see a

00:38:03.760 phenomenon of men just getting really jacked and um learning how to cook and clean and just realizing

00:38:11.840 it's easier uh to go find a 40 year old chick on wall street 1.00

00:38:17.180 have sex with her for the next 10 years feed her do the house whatever and they're gonna think that 1.00

00:38:28.020 that would be way easier than applying for all these jobs that i'm discriminated for 0.99

00:38:31.980 going to be a street sweeper plumber electrician i'll just go to the gym get jacked and find me a rich 0.98

00:38:39.780 bitch um and it was funny i had a conversation with someone about this where i was like you're 0.99

00:38:48.240 gonna see this phenomenon of men either dating older women like 10 to 15 years older and they're like well 0.98

00:38:55.700 she's hot enough they might cheat a little bit but she's hot enough i can you know reward with being 1.00

00:39:02.340 like the good looking guy and then i can cook and that's way easier um and it was funny that i saw

00:39:12.120 this story so uh boss babe i make more money than my man so he's the stay-at-home dad too many women 0.99

00:39:18.700 don't want to work they're lazy um jaylen cox a 29 year old mother from glasgow is the breadwinner of

00:39:26.120 her family and proud of her role as the main provider for her two children she works as an

00:39:31.840 only fans model and returned to her strip club job shortly after giving birth jaylen believes that

00:39:38.380 more money should prioritize work and financial independence over relying on their partners she 1.00

00:39:44.360 questions why some women prefer to find sugar daddies instead of being self-sufficient jaylen's 1.00

00:39:49.640 partner is supportive of her career in the adult entertainment industry and they have a trusting

00:39:54.260 relationship unlike her previous experience with jealous and possessive partners yeah yeah you're

00:40:01.420 gonna you're gonna see this phenomenon now it's so funny it's so funny women's boss it's so funny how

00:40:08.200 they use boss babe i was thinking about this i'm like you're telling me an only fans model is your idea

00:40:15.540 of a woman crushing the patriarchy really you know and i think that this is gonna be and i'm not even

00:40:25.980 gonna say rather right or wrong this is gonna be a solution that you guys are gonna see women are going 1.00

00:40:31.440 to date the jacked trainers um that's what i call them like the personal trainer relationship where the

00:40:38.620 guys will date the woman that's like a lawyer and i was thinking when i said this i was thinking of like a

00:40:43.380 lawyer like a wall street chick but only fans models too that's what you're gonna see um men are funny

00:40:51.040 they're funny creatures they'll if there's a game they're gonna figure out the easiest way to play it um

00:40:58.080 so yeah i i do think this is disgusting as i said i don't think women that are on only fans should have 1.00

00:41:06.920 children i i think they should just be on only fans or give their kids to someone else who could raise them

00:41:14.580 i think this is a recipe um for disaster as women typically do not respect men that are stay-at-home dads 1.00

00:41:23.940 but it's funny i do think that the men will kind of be like a free rent whatever i'll take a little disrespect

00:41:30.580 you know guys are funny guys are funny they're like you know i can watch them guys are so funny

00:41:39.160 they're like i can watch all i have to do is watch the kid be good looking and stay at home

00:41:46.120 you're gonna see a lot of guys sign up for this they'll be like what were women whining about

00:41:52.160 hell yeah now do i think this is gonna work in the long term no but i do think this is a dynamic

00:41:59.980 that we're going to see into the future is the single childless women dating a guy in his early 0.97

00:42:06.340 20s and i actually think that you're gonna keep seeing these relationships be longer and longer

00:42:12.100 and longer as um like like typically those guys would divorce the old chick and then marry a young 1.00

00:42:20.140 hottie um but as you see marriage going away a lot of guys are just going to be content with this

00:42:26.080 situation now i don't want to say a lot there's going to be a group of men this is going to be a

00:42:31.960 trend so there is a video going around of talking about bachelorette parties now i think that the idea 0.83

00:42:40.200 of a bachelorette party is pretty stupid um i i really don't understand why you need to have one good 0.96

00:42:47.140 night of fun before you get married i don't really get it i think it's really a recipe for disaster 1.00

00:42:53.540 really on both ends um especially when you're going partying in a big city like vegas nashville

00:43:01.380 uh miami and and what like what are you inviting into your marriage and what does it say about

00:43:08.200 your marriage if if you need to go uh do craziness before there's a video exposing someone's fiance for

00:43:16.200 having harmless fun at a bachelorette party let's go if your fiance is having her bachelorette party in

00:43:22.900 nashville um on the week of august 31st and has braces hair about this length with blonde

00:43:32.620 highlights um a cowboy hat with a veil on it she is cheating on you and was just getting fingered 1.00

00:43:43.560 at can i even say that word on tiktok getting blasted yeah getting blasted um by some guy in

00:43:51.340 the strip club and she also doesn't tip so you got yourself a winner oh sure oh yeah and she was 1.00

00:43:58.600 trying to record girls on stage she's like 28 or 29 her dress was like white with like pinkish flowers

00:44:05.620 and her friend the only girl with her was wearing blue and was a groomer you know what i can actually 0.99

00:44:13.480 go ask the guys what her name was please do it oh my god and her friend and she was rubbing his dick 1.00

00:44:19.980 through his pants so she was and uh then they left together so good luck with your divorce i hope you 0.99

00:44:30.040 have a good prenup someone titled this video and said exposing someone's fiance for having harmless fun

00:44:38.040 at a bachelorette party is insane behavior let girls have fun on the last three days of their lives 1.00

00:44:43.660 do you see how much they've turned us into men think about this this would kind of make sense if

00:44:50.720 you were describing a man now before all the tradcon wives get mad at me sorry guys men and women are 0.99

00:44:55.960 different i don't really think the idea of a man bachelorette party is that much better but

00:45:00.880 but i mean like if you said exposing someone's fiance like if it was a guy for having harmless fun at a

00:45:09.680 bachelorette party is insane behavior that would make a little more sense but they've turned us into

00:45:16.720 men to the point we think that we need to behave like men at a bachelorette party no sex casual sex is

00:45:23.900 not the same for men and for women women tend to cheat to leave men tend to cheat because she was 0.98

00:45:31.640 hot there and available don't shoot the messenger they can separate that stuff i'm not for it either

00:45:37.580 way but my point is that whenever my point is one they've tried to turn women into men and my point is

00:45:45.140 two that really it's really interesting when you betray the sisterhood how then they're making the

00:45:51.840 stripper the bad guy when really i mean i'm i'm surprised i'm surprised this stripper like

00:45:58.780 is calling out debauchery you know what i mean you know i mean like you wouldn't expect it from a

00:46:03.340 stripper but and this is why really i don't think bachelor bachelorette parties are a good idea

00:46:08.860 you're inviting craziness into your life into your marriage um and you know there's a difference 0.75

00:46:14.820 between like going out to dinner with the girlfriends and going to a freaking strip club like why 0.99

00:46:19.020 and and this is what i mean this is why i call them the fake wives of this society the fake wives 1.00

00:46:25.700 because the fake wives might look like a wife might dress like a wife but their mentality is not a wife 1.00

00:46:31.880 mentality and you have a bunch of wolves in sheep's clothing and you know when they come out

00:46:37.040 they come out on twitter a lot of the time i'll give you an example so a lot of times i can tell

00:46:45.340 how women react to their husbands by how they react to me how does a woman react when you tell 0.98

00:46:52.060 her that she is not the hottest shit on the planet i like i'll tweet a general statement women at 25 1.00

00:46:58.520 are hotter than 35 now how do the women react when they're told they're not the hottest things 0.99

00:47:03.940 since sliced bread do they say huh that's all right most people are average or do they cry to me

00:47:11.400 on the internet so this woman it's so weird i don't understand why women do this 1.00

00:47:18.760 hannah says men don't desire women over 30

00:47:23.520 not what i said not what i said i said they're not ideal i would say the ideal

00:47:29.820 is around 22 and the numbers will back me up on who men are the most attracted to

00:47:36.500 who are you choosing lib angela 41 or conservative h hannah davis 26 guys this is sad behavior

00:47:47.220 what like why imagine being a married wife and mother like imagine okay like imagine your grandma 0.99

00:47:54.800 she's like cooking baking cookies right and she's like 45 and pearls on her her show there's some girl 1.00

00:48:04.540 on the internet saying yes 25 year olds are hotter than 35 year olds and then all the women start 0.99

00:48:12.180 tweeting me their selfies this is quite i mean i get it you're you're a good selfier i don't know

00:48:18.220 what to tell you like to be honest this is this is so you know i'll have fun you know i'll poke fun

00:48:25.340 at these chicks they always started then they get mad when i poke fun um this visual of me living rent

00:48:32.140 feel free in hannah pearl davis's head so i just put my eyes my eyes make it stop

00:48:38.780 and i'm serious guys please stop stop i'm i'm tired of seeing your selfies i don't want to see it like

00:48:48.180 i can't i went on the internet to like we're supposed to have hot chicks or at least smart ones 1.00

00:48:54.940 not a post wall woman selfie my lord this is the weirdest behavior up look at this chick she's fat 1.00

00:49:03.780 this is getting sad like and if you were really that hot i haven't seen one hot woman tweet me their 0.99

00:49:14.760 selfies yes yes it's just like a a question of who's more mid it's like a mid off like um

00:49:24.140 i haven't seen one chick that was an eight or higher really tweeting me their selfies like

00:49:30.780 please stop this is getting sad it's embarrassing for both of us i really am tired of seeing your

00:49:37.760 naked lingerie pictures and your your selfies like we i think maybe we could learn to like bake bread or

00:49:45.560 something or like have a hobby rather than tweet me your selfies all day but let me know what you guys

00:49:50.480 think of the comments like the video on your way out make sure you subscribe to the channel bring

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00:50:00.340 in the comments any archetypes of women that you see in society and men like the video and i'll talk to you

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JustPearlyThings - October 02, 2023

Men SACRIFICE Everything For Marriages ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 51

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