JustPearlyThings - May 11, 2023


Millionaire AVOIDS These Kind Of Women

Topics
body count life choices
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Henry Wentworth
Man Schools The Entire Panel On High Value Women Single Mother Recounting Divorce Decision

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

239.27

Word count

1,935

Sentence count

161

Harmful content

Misogyny

6

sentences flagged

Toxicity

2

sentences flagged

Hate speech

9

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about our past relationships and what it's like to be in a relationship with a woman who has slept with thousands of men. We also talk about the difference between a woman and a man when it comes to cheating, and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 How do women say body count doesn't matter if they don't want to tell you what it is? 1.00
00:00:03.380 Exactly.
00:00:03.780 It does matter.
00:00:04.480 As far as I'm concerned, it does matter.
00:00:06.360 A woman wouldn't tell you, I've slept with 8,000 men and I still want to be with you.
00:00:12.820 She won't say that at all.
00:00:14.260 A woman will keep it at a certain level. 1.00
00:00:16.120 Like, I understand what you're saying about it doesn't matter, it shouldn't matter, etc.
00:00:19.400 But when push comes to shove, if you get the ideal man in front of you, you're not going to tell him, I've slept with 800 men.
00:00:27.140 You're not going to do that.
00:00:27.840 There is no woman on this earth that's actually going to do that. 0.99
00:00:30.580 You're going to downplay it or you're going to gaslight, like you were saying before, and you're going to say, actually, do you know why you're asking me these questions?
00:00:36.800 It's the modern day era.
00:00:38.160 You shouldn't ask me this.
00:00:39.100 That's what I think is going to happen.
00:00:40.500 There's actually something we say that's kind of funny.
00:00:42.740 I'm like, there is a kind of girl that will lie about her number and lie up, and that's a whale. 1.00
00:00:50.080 And it's sad.
00:00:53.640 Why are you nodding now?
00:00:54.980 You're Mr. Henry Wentworth.
00:00:57.840 Slip-flopper on the couch.
00:01:00.400 Like, me personally, I think, like, because me, I've broke it off one time with a girl, but it was mainly, it wasn't even the body count.
00:01:10.720 Like, I knew it was high-ish, but it's like doing something with someone I know, I think.
00:01:18.760 Who was it?
00:01:19.400 Like, it wasn't like a, it was a friend, but he's not like one of the brothers, but it's like a friend, like I know him.
00:01:27.240 But it's more like you've done stuff for him, and I don't think I can be with you after that.
00:01:33.200 Like, I know what he's like as a person, you know what I mean?
00:01:35.300 I think you're eating the same hole.
00:01:37.240 You're sharing the hole.
00:01:39.560 Is he kind of like a player, the guy?
00:01:41.340 Yeah, he's more like a player.
00:01:42.700 Like, I know him from being a player, you know what I mean?
00:01:44.700 But it's like you've been with him.
00:01:47.040 You know what I mean?
00:01:47.400 Like, for me, my, like, standards, I think that's where, like, standards comes in.
00:01:51.580 Like, you've been with that guy, and now I'm with you, like, I'm more like, what's going on?
00:01:56.420 You know what I mean?
00:01:56.900 But I think that was one of my, like... 0.98
00:01:58.820 Was he kind of a loser?
00:01:59.800 Like, was it because he was more high-status than you or less high-status? 0.98
00:02:03.160 I think it was because he was less.
00:02:04.660 Okay.
00:02:05.460 So if you thought he was a quality guy, would it have been different?
00:02:09.800 I wouldn't think it would have been different, but just because I know him, I think that makes a big difference.
00:02:16.900 If I didn't know the person, then probably, like, I would have been like, okay, fair enough, that can slide.
00:02:21.840 I don't know.
00:02:22.140 Oh, but because you knew him.
00:02:23.260 Just because I know him personally, it's like, that guy, really.
00:02:26.660 You know what I mean?
00:02:27.260 What about you?
00:02:28.120 Have you ever stopped speaking to a woman because of some things she did before?
00:02:32.080 No, that never happened to me.
00:02:33.780 I only had one girl, which was, like, a secondary, so it wasn't a proper relationship.
00:02:38.560 That's about it.
00:02:39.620 Okay.
00:02:40.040 Yeah.
00:02:41.500 Did you have any other girls that happened to you or the one?
00:02:44.000 Yeah, I just learned to recognize, it's like, you just learned to recognize the sign quicker.
00:02:47.380 But, you know, as a man, when I was single, it doesn't mean that I disqualified her from sex.
00:02:50.940 It just means that's what it was and that's all it was.
00:02:54.380 What signs, for guys that are watching this, like, what signs should they look out for?
00:02:58.840 Man, that's a, I mean, I'm going to, yeah, tattoos would be a pretty big sign.
00:03:03.820 Just any, like, I'll tell you why tattoos are big, so you might say, well, that's not nice because I have tattoos.
00:03:07.500 I'll tell you why it's a big sign because if you had a good relationship with your dad, he wouldn't let you get tattoos when you were 18.
00:03:12.140 I mean, that's what it means.
00:03:13.480 That's what, that's why I don't have tattoos.
00:03:16.040 Right?
00:03:16.340 Yeah.
00:03:16.640 It's like, that's literally, it's like, it just tells me you don't have a good relationship with your dad, which it doesn't mean for everybody, but it raises those numbers.
00:03:21.880 There's, there's obviously, the thing about social intelligence, it's very hard to describe it because it's so nuanced.
00:03:27.760 Like, and you really have to sort of conflate a big number of variables all into one.
00:03:33.360 And that's what comprises, like, the social intelligence thing.
00:03:35.500 So it's hard to say, like, oh, because of this and this and this and that.
00:03:38.800 But there's definitely signs.
00:03:40.240 And when you know, you know.
00:03:40.960 But it's like, the dad thing, like, what if she didn't have a dad?
00:03:45.840 Not our fault, he goes to the shop and don't come back.
00:03:48.380 You know what I mean?
00:03:48.740 Like, what if she didn't have a dad?
00:03:49.760 Like, how would you look at her?
00:03:50.480 Well, that also tells me, of course, look, I'm not saying it's her fault.
00:03:53.300 It's still her responsibility.
00:03:54.600 I understand it's not her fault, but it is her responsibility.
00:03:57.040 And it may be like, well, I was young, whatever.
00:03:58.620 Okay, fine.
00:03:59.060 I'm not responsible for that.
00:03:59.920 Thank you.
00:04:00.560 I'm not.
00:04:01.360 You are now.
00:04:02.380 You are now.
00:04:03.500 You are now.
00:04:03.640 You are now.
00:04:04.120 You are responsible for your life.
00:04:04.220 You are responsible for your life.
00:04:04.960 Yeah, of course, but I'm not responsible for you walking out.
00:04:07.160 I know, you're not responsible for that, but even when I hear you talk, like, you sort
00:04:10.800 of blame it on everyone else but you.
00:04:12.720 Like, you kind of blame, like, your situation and, like, this is, like, instead of, it's
00:04:17.260 my life choices.
00:04:19.640 Who have I blamed?
00:04:21.700 It was just earlier when you were saying it's because of, like, this or because of that.
00:04:25.340 No, it adds to it.
00:04:26.940 My patroding stuff, it's kind of moulded me into a bit of a mess, and I'll admit that.
00:04:32.360 I think she means, like, if you get, like, a young guy who doesn't have his dad there,
00:04:36.180 some of those guys end up, like, alcoholics in prison, and some of them end up, like,
00:04:39.660 amazing dads.
00:04:40.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:04:41.420 So, like, you can come from the same background and have two different, completely different
00:04:44.600 choices.
00:04:44.700 It is life choices.
00:04:45.920 And that's choices.
00:04:46.560 Definitely is life choices.
00:04:47.720 I came from...
00:04:47.840 Not getting at you, but that's just what she means.
00:04:50.100 I came from a life which was, if I put, like I said, I've put it on camera before,
00:04:55.100 and what the reaction from people, I came from a life that was an absolute mess, and I chose
00:05:00.620 not to go down a certain path.
00:05:02.060 Like, I didn't want to be, like, the man that brought me into this world, and I didn't
00:05:05.720 want to be and let my mum down, even though my mum, I haven't seen her for 13 years because
00:05:10.240 she's schizophrenic.
00:05:11.260 So, I decided I'm not going to prison.
00:05:13.340 So, I have no remorse for people when they say, oh, well, this happened, so therefore
00:05:18.400 I've become this.
00:05:19.180 I've got no remorse for that because you don't have to.
00:05:21.120 One of the best women I know came from a single-parent home, and she was abused as a 1.00
00:05:25.400 kid, and she's, like, genuinely one of the best women I know because she, like, went to
00:05:28.320 the church, and she sought after, like, women she could look up to, and she ended up getting
00:05:32.200 married and having a family, but it's, like, you can go down, you can be from the same
00:05:35.260 situation and have completely different life outcomes, and that's what he's saying.
00:05:39.300 He's saying, like, it's your responsibility what you do with your life.
00:05:41.640 It's your responsibility, but not everyone's strong.
00:05:44.360 Like, not everyone has that mindset.
00:05:47.100 Some people are actually weak, and I'll admit it, I've had times in my life where I've felt
00:05:50.520 so weak, I don't want to be anymore.
00:05:51.900 But why would a guy want to be with a girl that's weak? 0.99
00:05:54.580 Well, don't be with me!
00:05:55.380 You know, I'm not, but I'm saying that's what, that's his point.
00:05:58.040 Yeah, yeah, okay, cool, cool, cool.
00:05:59.280 So when he's speaking to men, like, a lot of men watch this show, it's, like, these are
00:06:02.860 the signs, and it's not, even for women, like, honestly, like, I think it's better to date 0.99
00:06:08.220 people from two-parent homes if you can.
00:06:09.700 Yeah, no, definitely, definitely, definitely.
00:06:11.900 Because it's easier when you've had a model, like, something you look up to.
00:06:15.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.
00:06:15.720 There is a way.
00:06:16.300 So I've spent a significant amount of my time in my youth thinking about this because I realized
00:06:21.400 I was a really bad judge of character of women. 1.00
00:06:23.180 Because when I was, like, young, like, coming out of high school, going to college and stuff,
00:06:26.340 I remember the girls I was falling for and trying to be in relationships with, they just
00:06:30.440 were horrible people.
00:06:31.940 And I thank, I thank the good Lord above every day that I didn't get what I wanted when I
00:06:37.100 wanted it at 20.
00:06:37.940 Because if I had gotten what I wanted, I would have signed up for a life of massive regret.
00:06:40.960 And you see a lot of those guys, they get married young, and then they just get wiped
00:06:44.420 out, right?
00:06:45.500 And sometimes, you know, I'll go on the show, and then guys will comment, like, that guy's
00:06:48.740 going to get what's coming to him, blah, blah, blah.
00:06:50.940 It's like, no, and I'll tell you why not.
00:06:52.920 Here's, if you're a guy, here's how you can tell what a girl is like, okay?
00:06:57.060 Make it your mission to go out in your early 20s and just sleep with as many girls as you 0.99
00:07:02.060 can.
00:07:02.440 And you might say, that's horrible advice.
00:07:03.700 No, that's great advice.
00:07:04.960 Because what you're going to learn, first of all, you're going to learn about the nature
00:07:07.940 of women.
00:07:09.100 And I'm not saying do that for your whole life.
00:07:10.800 Like, eventually you will grow up.
00:07:12.180 Eventually you will want to pursue a higher purpose.
00:07:15.680 But in order to pursue that higher purpose valiantly, you have to understand the game
00:07:20.760 you're playing.
00:07:21.400 And you don't understand the game you're playing if you've been with one or two girls.
00:07:24.660 And you might say, that's bad advice.
00:07:26.020 No, that's exactly the advice I'll give my sons.
00:07:27.540 Now I'll give my daughters the opposite advice.
00:07:29.540 If you want to know about the seriousness of men, don't put out with them.
00:07:33.400 Then you'll absolutely learn what men are really after.
00:07:35.780 But if you want to learn what women are after, go out as a man. 0.96
00:07:38.340 Remember, it's not your job to protect the sexual marketplace as a man.
00:07:41.160 And it's the woman's job to protect the, she's the guardian to that. 0.97
00:07:44.340 You're the guardian to relationships.
00:07:45.640 You want to get socially intelligent?
00:07:47.500 Do it lots of times.
00:07:49.180 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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