JustPearlyThings - Millionaire Drops This Red Pill On Modern Women

00:00:00.000 Just on your point who took it women because who's the one who takes the actual semen that either way is going to 1.00

00:00:05.940 The baby or an abortion so but what do you who takes the semen? 1.00

00:00:15.520 What if it breaks and you don't know then you know maybe sleep with people that you want to have kids with

00:00:20.460 take it back to that point but sleep with people you might want to have kids with but what but

00:00:32.780 you remember you said but then you got to pick him to make sure he's the one who's not going to 0.97

00:00:36.460 leave i mean you could you could wait you could you could wait to have sex you could you can wait 0.99

00:00:40.780 till you don't you could it's like we have a gun to our head and say you have to sleep with these 0.99

00:00:44.860 but no you don't you just don't ever have sex live like a nun again that's the way forward i think 0.99

00:00:52.700 people you can wait you can wait to get married before you have a child question okay go ahead 0.69

00:00:59.020 can i can i is it time to uh drop some red pills into the sangria yeah go ahead yes are we ready

00:01:05.020 to spike well let's go go ahead so the question was does your potential partner or partners

00:01:14.700 past matter yes i i can can can i share my opinion on this all right sorry sorry sorry what jargon

00:01:25.100 i haven't said nothing yet so uh here let's let's let's do let's do some uh let's do some lessons in

00:01:34.220 genetics and biology because we can refer to our trusty friends uh from the gregor mendel book of

00:01:40.620 biology we understand dna do we not yes if you look in your family tree this is statistically

00:01:45.900 accurate you have twice as many women in your family tree as you have men you have twice as

00:01:50.060 many women in your family tree as men why what does that mean what does that mean women give birth

00:01:57.340 and there's more of them meant to multiply yeah yeah what it means is that a vast majority of women have 1.00

00:02:05.020 babies with the same men meaning what that means the reason you have twice as many women is a small 0.99

00:02:09.660 percentage of men about 20 of men basically created all of us genghis khan genghis khan has his dna in

00:02:16.940 something like 180 million people today does that mean he's been sleeping around beers in the past what

00:02:24.540 it means let me explain it's a very simple thing where the question was does a partner's past matter

00:02:30.220 what it says is very clear what it says is very clear that women continuously choose the men that other 0.64

00:02:36.220 women choose that's what it means we know you know what we know the point we know the statistic 1.00

00:02:40.620 from dating apps right eighty percent of men have absolutely no prospects of sex or dating at all

00:02:45.420 because you can look at the tinder data eighty percent of men get zero matches ever one percent of men

00:02:51.260 are like genghis khan level so does a person's past matter if you look at the science it clearly

00:02:56.620 matters that women want to choose men that have had the most partners because that's who they keep 0.99

00:03:00.300 choosing all the time wow so that might not be an emotional argument that's just statistics it's a

00:03:04.940 fact okay can i say that from the other side how men look at this argument okay from a men's perspective

00:03:10.860 it's a little different so i'm in the business of effectively like our company lgbg we sell high

00:03:14.780 unbespoke suits we go to executive offices so we meet rich men all the time really what i do is i

00:03:19.180 recruit young men and women to sell to very high net worth people okay and this is a conversation for

00:03:24.460 young men i'm going to say this to the young guys out there here's a question what is a man really

00:03:28.700 doing with his life to increase his value we can measure it you know what the number what the

00:03:32.540 answer is what does a man measure in value what do we measure say it it's money it's money right

00:03:39.820 so here's a question does a man have any incentive to is well influence effectively to transmit that

00:03:45.980 into money and by the way influence and fame are very highly correlated to how many sexual partners a

00:03:49.980 man has access to so you're saying the same thing i just want the guy that every other woman wants

00:03:53.660 that's what you're saying but you're not saying it okay so does a man have any incentive to

00:03:57.500 increase his value through financial gain does a man have that incentive yes okay do women want 0.89

00:04:03.100 to be wealthy too like you girls you're all going to be 60 one day you say i want to retire do you

00:04:07.420 want to have something to retire with of course okay so here's here's a here's a statistic the typical

00:04:13.180 retired married man average but not typical average the numbers of course there's a big gap but the

00:04:19.500 average married man retires with about 600 000 us dollars in savings 600 000 the average divorced single

00:04:25.660 man this is statistic retires with 100 000 okay the average divorced and remarried man retires about

00:04:33.180 400 000 so the outcome of staying and getting married has a significant impact on a man's value

00:04:38.780 and status and ultimately his comfort in life so the question therefore is does the spouse you choose

00:04:44.300 matter yes why does it matter because we can actually measure with money that it literally like

00:04:49.660 we have a number that we can look at and says yes the spouse you choose matters okay well a psychologist

00:04:54.380 will tell you there's two ways to ruin your life number one become an alcoholic number two marry an

00:04:57.980 alcoholic well here's a question what's the problem with marrying an alcoholic ladies and gentlemen 1.00

00:05:02.060 impulse control impulse control how's that going to the fact that they're going to be talking rubbish 0.99

00:05:05.980 and no one will understand them and they're going to kids and all sorts of crap so the question 0.88

00:05:11.420 is would you marry an alcoholic you say no i won't why not because the chance of divorce are much 0.96

00:05:14.940 higher so does a woman's past matter okay well let's say a woman had a lot of sexual partners 0.97

00:05:18.780 does that indicate any sort of i don't know does that have any impact on her pair bonding ability

00:05:24.140 yes well we know that it does okay so if i if you marry a ho because that let's just go right to the 0.99

00:05:28.540 core here that's the question right that's the question yeah so if you do that are your chances

00:05:32.380 of divorce higher well she's got lower pair bonding she's got lower impulse control she's 1.00

00:05:36.300 not a strategic thinker because she knows impulsively and intuitively that she's reducing her value

00:05:41.100 so when i coach a young guy that we hire into our company we don't just look at their job we look at

00:05:44.940 their life plan and we want to be strict i have two more stats real quick we want to be strategic

00:05:49.180 and we want to optimize for success and mitigate for risk are you mitigating for risk if you're not

00:05:54.460 looking at a woman's past you're creating yourself an opportunity for failure by the way here's a

00:05:58.940 question guys what percentage of millionaires are married don't know a lot i know a lot of 85

00:06:04.540 percent no i'm getting some tax rebate or something i'm getting married i'm getting married 10 years i'm

00:06:14.140 getting married the rich ones cheat as well okay but no but hang on a second 85 percent so the question

00:06:18.860 is let's let's let's look into that like we're asking again there's a partner's past matter

00:06:22.540 why is it that 85 is it matters here's a question thank you guys guys guys stop stop you want you

00:06:32.540 want that or you don't want that if you don't want that i know it's hard to hear you don't want to

00:06:35.340 hear it it's just facts thank you no honestly it's interesting to learn so thank you so much guys guys

00:06:41.980 do you guys think that for a man to become a millionaire he has to be a strategic thinker

00:06:45.740 yes do you think no no so hang on so you think so you think that statistically millionaires are

00:06:52.060 less strategic or equally you know i think millionaires it depends on have you born have

00:06:57.020 you been born into wealth i've been given i was born into the soviet union i grew up on food stamps

00:07:01.740 okay so um i guess yeah it doesn't matter but some people some millionaires do grow up in like

00:07:07.580 privileged families who don't do anything we're just looking at statistics every rule has a rule

00:07:12.620 breaker now again mitigate for risk so it's like if you want to bet all your money on you know 20

00:07:18.380 black on the roulette and you're like i'm gonna make a billion dollars yeah some people made a

00:07:22.060 million dollars rolling that most people lose everything they ever had it's bad risk mitigation

00:07:26.140 we're talking about statistics right so it's like if the partner that you choose matters to the outcome

00:07:32.140 of your life you have to be strategic about it so does it matter well the numbers clearly indicate

00:07:36.140 it matters yeah you can be delusional you can say well it shouldn't matter okay can so you you

00:07:41.660 make suits for um high net worth clients can you tell me about the women they pick as wives yeah 0.98

00:07:46.620 so first of all do they pick alpha females when i no absolutely not uh so so here let me tell you

00:07:51.900 guys i had my dinner last night with my wife it was her 10th anniversary and she said my wife said

00:07:56.300 something really profound right like it kind of shocked me a little bit as i said you know it's so

00:08:00.620 much fun like building a life with you i told her it's so much fun built we got four kids i'm like

00:08:04.060 it's so much fun building a life with you because i've had a great 10 years right and she goes oh i didn't

00:08:08.540 get in here to build i wanted to ride on this train oh that's so sad that's what she said

00:08:13.660 how did that make you feel no no no no she's gonna be relaxed she was honest though um what did you

00:08:20.220 think no i'm sorry what made you how did you feel female thing comes back up again well let's let's

00:08:27.100 let's look at it like this so i'm in london today uh i fly back on saturday i live in estonia on

00:08:32.460 wednesday i take off to dubai on saturday i'm in madurai india the next wow the next wednesday i'm in new

00:08:37.340 delhi uh i am in demand because i'm i'm a successful dude and you know what all successful

00:08:42.220 dudes are in demand they're not sitting at home smoking pot man they're doing they're getting

00:08:46.060 calls they're doing stuff and you know what they're needed they're needed because it's hard to find

00:08:49.820 competent people can ask a question people yeah you know what you're doing all of these where's your

00:08:53.740 wife and the kids at home oh actually that's not true so i'll tell you right now uh earlier this year

00:09:00.620 i took my whole family where'd we go no i mean i mean just when you're working just now you know the

00:09:05.580 places you gotta go so in between how often do you see the what do you quite often i bring my

00:09:09.980 whole family on my trips i was gonna say oh that's so lovely that's beautiful that's lovely like this

00:09:16.140 are they homeschooled no no they're going they're going to like an english college but like so like

00:09:20.860 last year january we had a video shoot in hawaii i took my wife my wife and four kids to hawaii

00:09:26.220 after that we had a company trip to croatia i took my whole family with me no no so i'm just saying so you

00:09:30.460 know in the in the past couple of days in the next few days that you said all the places you're going

00:09:34.300 to so it's your anniversary today well yeah so have you been with your wife today yeah yeah so and then

00:09:42.860 you're going when you when's your next trip i come back in three days back home and then i'm home for

00:09:47.500 three days and then i take off for another week and a half okay yeah because you know when you see the

00:09:50.540 way you said it i was like okay so that's what i was wondering so that's when you get so that's when you

00:09:54.060 get to see your wife and the kids and that i see my wife and kids all the time can you tell me more about

00:09:59.340 that like what traits do men um in that position look for well the thing the thing about it like

00:10:03.980 i don't want to over generalize but there is definitely a trend so i'll tell you guys this

00:10:07.500 is a story i tell all the time i've met a lot of dudes whose wife is just not getting deep down or

00:10:11.820 something because she's like me right like me it's like but here's the thing let me tell you guys about

00:10:17.180 i work with clients that i work with clients for real that are world-class musicians and movie stars

00:10:23.420 that are household names that everybody knows like right and i've been asked this before on on

00:10:29.100 uh somebody asked me like is there any difference between like the wife of this really famous

00:10:32.860 musician and this really famous movie star to the wife of just a regular dude it's like yes

00:10:36.780 their wife's wives are the most supportive the happiest like i'll deliver a suit to some average 1.00

00:10:42.140 joe and his wife saying a little bit makes him look fat i'm like no you don't like your husband

00:10:47.260 but when i deliver like for i mean i remember i'll tell you guys an alice cooper story like the musician

00:10:52.060 his wife like she came in and she's like you look amazing he's 75 years old he's he's old he's like you

00:10:58.060 look amazing that's so perfect like wow look at the energy that and she was just so and then and

00:11:04.060 every single extremely famous person i've been with like that but was it real yes their wives i mean

00:11:10.060 there's a respect aspect to it but like man well i'm thinking this dude's 75 years old he's still

00:11:14.380 touring by the way it's like he doesn't have time to come home and put up with like weirdness you

00:11:17.900 know what i mean and i think you know but she knows that because that's why she would do it because 0.66

00:11:21.500 obviously he's gonna keep it moving and then obviously the money's gonna stop uh i don't know the answer to

00:11:25.820 that i'm just i'm telling you i was just i was just an anecdotal experience like when i'm dealing

00:11:30.620 with a client who's really really successful um ultimately they're very very busy like they're

00:11:36.220 you know and these are like almost all successful men are a type men like they're up in the morning

00:11:42.060 they're working their butts off like when you think about this is a really interesting point that

00:11:46.540 i've noticed by the way you can cut me off at any time um you think like oh he's rich but he has to

00:11:51.340 be unhappy or he's he's got this great job but he should but he's just like unfit no success

00:11:57.740 big goal goes with success like the best looking people are the ones that make the most money are

00:12:04.060 everything goes together so these guys like they're the ones in the gym in the morning they look

00:12:08.140 amazing they're so sharp and you know i've i've gone down the street with some of my clients like hey

00:12:13.340 let's grab a coffee whatever and i'm walking down the street and i see the women's eyes just gravitate 1.00

00:12:16.700 towards these guys because a woman knows when she sees a high value man and by the way we just

00:12:20.780 established that women continuously choose men that other women pick we know this genetically right 1.00

00:12:25.500 and so i you know if a guy like that is well first of all is he more strategic in picking his wife yes

00:12:30.780 everything in his life is planned out your dad pearl is like a really successful guy i'm sure he's really

00:12:35.980 strategic in the way he makes decisions is he not yeah he's very strategic and i'm sure you saw a lot

00:12:40.220 of that growing up like he would just be like okay

JustPearlyThings - June 10, 2023

Millionaire Drops This Red Pill On Modern Women

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