Misandrist Will Hate Andrew Tate For This
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Tate Trammel is back with a new episode of his new show, and the boys are here to talk about it. They talk about how women have all the power in the sexual marketplace, and how women are the gatekeepers.
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Men, no, but the women, they're the ones that are delusional.
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There's regular men out there that will have you down.
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Yeah, but can I just say, people are watching Tate,
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not understanding that Tate is part of that 1% of successful men,
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and they think that they can demand the same thing.
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To the sexual marketplace, females have always been,
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You can think about it in a very simplistic way.
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This is not the case, but let's simplify it for the sake of argument.
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You are the gatekeepers that have all the power.
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And this is what's actually truly interesting about the sexual marketplace,
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because whenever women go, there's not enough good men,
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Of course, why would they be good if you don't make them be good?
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So women, so you're talking about, I'm saying that, you know,
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the man at a certain level can't do certain things, da-da-da.
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If you were with Joe Schmo, and he wasn't treating you the way you believe Joe Schmo should treat you,
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So if you get Joe Schmo, and he treats you like you're his queen,
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If you get a fucking guy at the absolute upper echelons of value, and you still aren't happy with what he's giving you, then leave.
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This is what's beautiful about the whole thing.
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Do you know who you should be mad at for all this shit?
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Do you know who threw away all the female power in the sexual marketplace?
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Because now you got chicks who will bang anybody without trying.
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Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be?
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Do you have any idea how hard it is to actually be, no bullshit, a man?
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And I say this and women go, oh yeah, dude, dada.
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As soon as most women encounter any kind of problem, the first thing you do is turn to a man.
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Their man, their dad, the mechanic, the police, a man.
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If you actually put a woman in front of a problem and go, no men, they're like, oh, shh, whoa, fuck.
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Men, day after day, especially if you're a high level man, let me make something clear from my life.
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I'm the guy in about 300 people's phone books that they call when anything big goes wrong.
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And it's amazing because society expects it of you.
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You had a man and you went to your man and said, oh, I've got this problem.
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You would dry up like you'd be like, well, fuck it.
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You could see her and go, oh, we call a mechanic.
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You'd look at your man and go, what do you mean you can't fix it?
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And this is what she's saying about your man will get up and go.
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And you know what's beautiful about masculinity?
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A bunch of times a man will go up and he doesn't have a clue how to fix it himself.
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And he'll go out there and fucking try and find a way because as a man you need to be useful.
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You have no idea the amount of pressure that we're under from society and from the women
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You see what you just said about, yeah, the top G that if they had money, you can fly planes
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Drop it down to if you were earning like say 50,000 a year.
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Couldn't you be that same person amongst your peers?
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If you're a dork and you get rich, you're a rich dork.
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If you're a G and you get rich, you're a top G.
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And once again, when I say these things, I'm not looking to be attacked for being misogynist.
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It's commenting on how I view the world and how I see things.
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Traditionally, a man primarily gives his attention to a female to get sex and she gives him sex back to get the attention.
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So if I'm a dude and I want sex from a girl, I give her attention.
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But the higher value you are as a man, the more valuable your attention is, the more valuable your time is, the less you have to give.
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And that's worth two weeks of some other dude's time.
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So where you are on the scale is just basically how much of your time you have to give.
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Now, you can still give all your time to a woman, treat her like a queen, be respected by your peers.
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In fact, I'll argue she'll be happier with that man than she'll be with a fucking guy like me.
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I'm not even out here saying I'll make chicks happy.
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I'm saying that she'll get the amount of time that she's going to want from that man.
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The amount of attention is linked to his status.
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But at a true high level status of man, it's two DMs.
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Do women prefer to be monogamous with a low value man or share a high value man?
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I left a situation where I got the Bentley, I had all that, I had the kids, I had that.
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And to me, what monogamy means to me is someone who's committed to themselves.
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And to be honest, I feel like, again, sex has been lost in translation and what it means.
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So for me, I have kind of taken those blinders off where I'm like, okay, he has to be here.
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I'm okay with dating the trainer in Austin, Texas.
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Like, I don't need a certain thing because I know what I'm wanting.
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Most guys in that percentage are not going to give me.
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So I would rather have a monogamous man than someone who can do whatever.
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Wait, so you think the personal trainer is going to be monogamous?
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Like, I don't generalize people because I'm one of the most misunderstood people online as
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And I don't like to just put everyone in a box.
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So no, I'm not going to just say, oh, of course he's going to cheat on me.
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Would you take a guy that makes $35,000 a year and had a dad bond?
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I feel like for me, I would want someone who...
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I pour into myself and I'm accountable for my shit.
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So I would want someone who can match at least the work ethic.
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Now, when it comes to money, I know for me, I want to be able to...
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Because what happens is you get the rug ripped from under you and then now you fucking get out,
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So for me, the lifestyle I want, I am responsible for.
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So I don't look for a man to make X amount of dollars because anything that I want, I'm going
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Well, because in my head, I feel like a guy's just as likely to cheat if he's in the top 20% of looks.
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Let me ask a quick question just so I can clarify something.
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You're saying you want a partner, a life partner.
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Are you sure, and I'm not accusing, I'm genuinely asking.
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Are you sure you're not confusing the amount of time the man spends with you with his monogamy?
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Because what happens a lot of the time if a man's out here chasing chicks, he's barely home.
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But imagine you had a man who was home seven nights a week.
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Like during his work lunch, you don't even notice.
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Then would you even give a shit about monogamy if you had all of his time effectively?
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I still would care because I feel like it's still just an hour a day.
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I feel I really have been in so many different situations.
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Again, the trainer in Austin to the NBA player, baby daddy.
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And it's just my personal experience and perspective to where I want someone that sees the value in the Grand Canyon.
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The realization you've come to is an interesting one.
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It is something that happens, especially to females as they mature.
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Don't you think it's strange or why do you think that zero women on earth choose those kind of men who they perhaps have slightly lower status, but are more likely to be loyal to them and be monogamous, etc.
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In the modern world, because like I said, the world's changed.
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Why do you think zero women choose them when they're at the peak of their choices?
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So when a woman is 19 and she can go anywhere she wants, every man wants her.
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She can get flown out to Dubai, which has all the choices in the world.
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Why is she completely uninterested in those kind of men?
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And then when she gets to a certain age of maturity and all, there's a whole new generation of girls who have all the choices.
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And they all of a sudden want to grow up and mature.
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Why don't does why does no woman decide that when she actually is at her most valuable?
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I feel like for like I said, I don't like to speak for all women.
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But I know for me that I was looking for a man for a lifestyle, something that I was not able to do individually by myself.
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So that's why it's like, well, yeah, I want to be able to do this, do that.
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I want to go for the football player that was just on GQ.
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And in reality, now I realize, well, OK, there's a lot that comes with that.
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I don't necessarily need that type of guy for the happiness that I'm looking for.
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Again, seeing value in the Grand Canyon is a lot different than like, OK, here's money for this.
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You're asking why a man that is 20, 21, 23 is not a top G like a 30, 40 year old man.
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Your age actually dictates your sort of maturity to a large extent.
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The point I'm trying to make is that what I actually think happens, especially in the modern world, because the modern world's all fucked up and nothing's the way it's supposed to be.
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The traditional life path of a female is she's 17.
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Imagine being 19 years old, have achieved exactly fucking zero in your life, knowing nothing.
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You put makeup on and and sports stars, billionaires, actors, the most important, famous people on the planet, the richest man on the planet are begging for your attention.
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The ego you're going to develop, let's all be honest, right?
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The ego you're going to develop is gonna be monumental.
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And then what happens as they grow older, as new generations come along, because the truth is most women are at their peak attraction, let's say in their early 20s.
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As they grow older, what they what women become is far more fearful of competition.
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This is why you'll see a woman who's a bit older go, oh, you know, I really want monogamy.
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What she's scared of is her dude getting a 21 year old.
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But basically, that's what the truth is, because she knows a 21 year old is gonna be more desirable, higher status, more fertile.
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I'm telling you the shift in the female mentality, because when a female is 20, she doesn't give a fuck about any of this.
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Now she's trying to, like you're saying, chasing a lifestyle, chasing Mr. Promiscuous, chasing Mr. Famous.
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Doesn't give a shit until she starts getting scared.
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When men like these two and me, when we walk through the mall, people just move.
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It's like you can sense when you can sense when the big animals turn up, right?
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If you have a very attractive 45 year old woman, she's gorgeous.
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Because women understand, unfortunately, but you're innately, your age is a massive indicator
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In an inverse way to men, men are more valuable as we get older.
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Every woman will sit here and go, yeah, I know a man who's older than me.
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But if I sit the other way around, I'm misogynistic.
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So, so then we have to go into the other point.
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When you were at your peak value, you had zero interest in monogamy.
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But then you find a man who's 35 at his peak value.
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He's finally struggled and worked because when he was 19, no girl spoke to him.
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He finally gets to the point where he's now at his peak value.
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And then you're sitting there saying to him, no, you should be a monogamy.
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And now you're telling me I need to fucking settle down and behave and grow up.
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You're assuming that the journey is a man that starts with nothing to something.
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That is exactly the journey of every man on earth.
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Because that's not how it should be for everybody.
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And not for every woman either as well, may I just say.
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You know, like, you've learned in the past, and now you want to find someone to settle down.
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With hindsight now, would you have reversed it and started young looking for someone to settle down with?
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Well, I actually, from 18 to 22, I was in a relationship.
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I've always actually been a lover girl despite what I put out online for, you know, views.
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And I feel like I was so delusional in thinking that, oh, I'm, like you said, like, I have value.
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Like, when I was talking to these relationships or just, like, I'm sorry, just people, my goal was always to get commitment.
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I'm pouring into you because I want commitment.
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And the reality is I'd never had, I'd never really understood my value.
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So I was going through guys, giving up sex, doing this, and it didn't make sense.
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So I believe in, like, I stay on everything I do.
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And I think that's where I feel like when they talk about women being delusional and all these other things, it is true.
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Because what you have to understand is that there are repercussions to your decisions, which is fine.
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So then you're talking about, okay, well, I want this type of guy.
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So your window is really, really small for what you're looking for.
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And even to go on to the point you said where you were talking about it's like a subconscious fear.
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I think it's, like, for me, I feel like if it was more of a fear, I would have just stayed in my situation.
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I left because I believe that there's something else on my heart when it comes to love, and I'm just going to have to trust that.
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And if that means being alone, having a dog, I have to take that chance because the Bentley, the ring, the house, and still getting, again, deceived, right?
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Disrespected because deceit is disrespect, right?
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And that is where a lot of people don't like my views and what I represent because it is something new.
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So what would you tell your 17, if you had to, like, what would you tell your 17-year-old self, knowing what you know now?
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Looking back and you had to meet yourself at 17, what would you tell your, what would you tell yourself?
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Like, lock it down and wait for the right man, don't have sex.
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That the answers aren't outside of you because I feel like I'd always look for men to answer all of my questions that I've ever had.
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I thought when I had a man, it would complete me.
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And I feel like, too, especially with, like, my dad not being in my life, you look for somebody to guide me.
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Like, so that's where, for me, I put too much value in someone else having the answers for me.
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So that's why I'm really big on accountability.
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So I would just tell myself, like, to be patient, to take your time, because I was always quick.
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So I feel like, for me, it would be to slow down and to really get to know people,
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instead of just blindly banking on potential that most likely would ever be tapped into,
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or selling myself short because there's a fear of, well, I don't know, this could be the best that I could get.
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And that's what I meant about women nowadays, because exactly what you'd be telling your 17-year-old self is what happened back in the day.
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So when I'm repeating these things, I'm going, oh, you're old-fashioned.
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But it seems like women do what they like, and then they hit a certain age and say, oh, well, I've got to settle.
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But it's not settling, you're just getting whatever you can, or whatever you deserve.
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Because if you think back now, you'd be telling people now, rather than say that auntie's old-fashioned,
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or auntie don't know what she's talking about, look what she'd be telling her 17-year-old self,
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Because really and truly, really and truly, let me finish, let me finish, because what I've always said,
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and you can check, I'm an older version of you.
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So where you've been, I've already been an upper comeback.
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So that's why I asked you, what would you tell your 17-year-old self?
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Because me telling you is, I'm telling my 30-year-old self.
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It's just that women hit a certain age and then realize, oh my God, it wasn't that old-fashioned.
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But there's no point in waiting until you're a certain age to start thinking about it.
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You know, even if you hold your own accountability.
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So it's like if you meet somebody and they were like 17, 18, and you saw the match in a certain way,
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they asked you for advice, you wouldn't say do as I do.
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You would say, listen, this is what happened to me, and this is what I thought,
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and what I recommend you do is blah, blah, blah.
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I think that no matter what you decide to do, you have to accept whatever repercussions come behind that.
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So any advice that I give to anybody is do what you want, but just know there are repercussions,
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good, bad, or indifferent, that are going to come behind it.
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So, I mean, and I think that's just where I'm at.
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I think it's like, in reality, I have a son, and you really start asking yourself questions.
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And again, I hate that it took having a child to really look into my life and call myself out on my bullshit.
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If you got pregnant earlier, if you got pregnant at 18, 19, would it?
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