JustPearlyThings - June 28, 2023


Modern Day Feminism Is A SCAM!!!!


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Length

11 minutes

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190.5464

Word count

2,111

Sentence count

151

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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10

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In this episode, we talk about the role of women in society and how they are being outsourceed to other industries. We talk about how women are being replaced with other women and how this is going to affect our society in the future.

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00:00:00.000 Well, and you know what I was thinking about? We're almost outsourcing families because it's like, you know, like what, what was a therapist before you would talk to like, cause I was thinking like women would have an average of five kids a hundred years ago. So if you have a problem, you would go to your mother, your father, or one of your siblings or one of your million cousins is your dad, like your mom and your dad. And then you all had a vested interest in not letting that information get out to the public.
00:00:26.140 Where now it's like some therapist will go to the press, like the Kardashian therapist, you know? Yeah. And so it's like, but you don't want your sister to look too crazy. Cause then everyone's going to associate you with the crazy sister. And you have a vested interest to tell her the truth too, where the therapist is just going to tell you what you want to hear because vested interest is for you to keep coming back and paying them. But I have a vested interest in my family, not looking crazy to the world because then I look crazy.
00:00:55.700 It's like, what do they say? The apple doesn't fall far from the, I saw like 1920s dating advice. And the woman, like one of them to women was like, don't tell the guy if your mom's crazy.
00:01:06.480 Right. Because then he'll be afraid that you're going to be crazy. Yeah. Or he'll have a crazy mother-in-law.
00:01:12.120 Yeah. Yeah. And I was thinking like in a way where a lot of like new industries is us outsourcing like families.
00:01:19.140 Yeah. Well, and this is the other thing that's so insane to me that I say to feminists in debates. I do a lot of online debates and you know, they'll say, well, I should be able to have a career and follow my dreams. And first of all, all women think that they're going to have the high paying office job with the corner window office. And they're going to be flying off to Paris or New York to have power lunches where they're going to, you know, close the deal and make all this money. They think they're going to have this exciting career. 1.00
00:01:46.140 And if you look at careers for women from 2020 and 1920, they're almost exactly the same. The only thing we did was swap out farm labor for HR work. So the vast majority of working women, this is what they do. They're a waitress, a teacher, a bookkeeper, a retail worker, a nurse, all the same stuff they did in the home, right? Nursing, childcare, daycare, bookkeeping, all the things you would have done for your family. 0.73
00:02:14.060 But now you're doing it for a corporation, you're paying taxes, and you have to pay daycare if you do want to have kids. So then let's think about daycare.
00:02:22.840 You want independence, you want to be able to go have your career. But what about the woman you're paying to raise your kids? What about her independence? You're just swapping out one woman who's the mother for a random other woman who's not the mother. 0.87
00:02:36.960 And you think she is going to do as good a job as you would do for 10 bucks an hour for kids that don't belong to her? What about all those women? 1.00
00:02:45.040 Some of the Marxist feminists do have a point when they critique capitalist feminism because they're like, wait, it's just very classist. You just want to move up a class and you don't care if these lower class women have to take on all the burden of childbearing and child raising. 0.99
00:03:00.920 And that is what happens. So it's like, you've just swapped mom for some other random lady. And you're still doing the same types of work in most cases that you would have been doing if you were in the home.
00:03:14.140 It's just that now the corporation gets to profit off of you and the government gets to take a bunch of your income and you have to pay out to daycare.
00:03:21.960 So what do you outsource? We outsource motherhood and family life. You're exactly right.
00:03:29.280 What do you what do you think of like a lot of women will say, well, I have to work because you need two incomes to survive today. 1.00
00:03:35.720 Yeah. Feminism created that situation. We used to have men would have a family wage. 1.00
00:03:40.780 In fact, in pre-World War Two Germany, they did have to put some laws on the books to restrict mothers from working outside the home.
00:03:48.840 And the reason was because they found this huge new labor pool of women was displacing men. 1.00
00:03:54.580 And so men's employment in factories, because this is a very industrial and agricultural economy still at the time, men were getting displaced.
00:04:02.040 So men's unemployment was going up. Depression and suicide among men was going up and their wages were going down.
00:04:10.380 So it was also at that time in Germany depressing the birth rate, which they didn't want.
00:04:14.520 So they had some laws on the books where if you were married or if you were a mother, you weren't supposed to work for a certain amount of time unless there was an exception.
00:04:23.300 So we've created an economy that is based on an individual wage, not a family wage, because all of the women are in the workplace. 1.00
00:04:32.880 Right. I never thought of it like that. It's based on an individual wage instead of a family wage. I never thought about it like that.
00:04:39.960 That's why in the that's why in the 30s, 40s, 50s, you could have a man who was a janitor at a school could afford to have a family with four kids and support them.
00:04:49.140 You can't have that now because of what doubling the market pool has done to wages.
00:04:55.500 That's why wages haven't gone anywhere really since like the 70s.
00:04:59.160 And we've had very depressed wages.
00:05:01.640 And now also because we've pushed women into academia so much, women are getting most of the degrees. 1.00
00:05:08.240 They're earning more. So it's very hard to find a man who can make more than you and support a whole family.
00:05:15.180 And men don't have a lot of incentive to do that, you know, so it's we just that's what I was saying, because what do they get at the end of it?
00:05:22.740 And like, you know, like, because it's not like they get they get like the average is in the UK anyway.
00:05:28.720 It's a 31 year old. Right.
00:05:32.080 So you maybe get one or two kids.
00:05:35.000 She's been doing God knows what the last 10 years. 0.98
00:05:38.100 And the women will always come at me. I'm like, look, there's exceptions to every rule. 1.00
00:05:41.700 Sure. Of course. Right. I know it's not not every woman, but it's like, let's just like, you know, guys, like because because I'll say, you know, women in 2023, you know, the purity is gone. 0.97
00:05:52.480 Like, let's just call spade a spade.
00:05:54.320 Like, only 85 percent of us were virgins on our wedding nights 100 years ago.
00:06:00.080 Well, you can't you can't say that we bring like we don't bring that anymore.
00:06:04.480 And then, of course, everybody's familiar with the stats that women initiate the vast majority of divorce among college educated couples. 0.79
00:06:12.140 It's even higher. And then the marriage failure rate is very high.
00:06:16.220 And a lot of people just aren't even bothering to get married anymore at all.
00:06:19.720 The rate of marriage has gone down. So it's like, why would they like to be honest, I'm doing a documentary on the court system in the UK.
00:06:27.540 And I know it's similar in the US. It's like, yeah, I'm looking at it from a guy's point of view.
00:06:32.040 Like marriage isn't marriage anymore. It's not marriage.
00:06:34.700 If you if it ends after eight years on average, right, that's not like marriage is supposed to be we're stuck together forever.
00:06:42.720 And there's nothing you could do. And guys could even get over women like, you know, you know, I think men would honestly accept the women not being as pure, you know, not being as hot because we're fatter.
00:06:57.480 Like, I think, honestly, if we couldn't leave, but it's like they'll get but it's like they'll get into marriage and then leave, take the kids and take all their money.
00:07:08.520 Why would you do it? And the sad part is they can't even avoid it by not getting married because I spoke to a divorce attorney and he's like, you know, I could get married tomorrow.
00:07:18.100 Marriage does not scare me. That's what he told me. He's like, I'll get a prenup.
00:07:21.860 It'll be fine. What I'm afraid of is children, because when you have children, those are not your kids.
00:07:28.160 They're her kids. Right. And then you have no control over what other scumbag men she's dragging into the house like that happened with my parents, where my mom left for no good reason. 0.99
00:07:41.280 She just wanted a younger guy. She found a younger guy, kicked my dad out of the house, moved to this younger person in who was closer to my age than her age. 0.98
00:07:49.000 And my dad could do nothing about it. He had no rights because this is the 80s.
00:07:53.640 And there's this and the guy was creepy. Right. So it's like now there's this creeper dude in the house with my dad's kids.
00:08:00.580 My dad's fighting like with everything he's got in the court system. And they're just like, sorry.
00:08:05.640 And there's like nothing he can do about it. It's like beyond heartbreaking. It's beyond horrible.
00:08:11.860 And another thing that I like to talk about when we're talking about feminism and how the world that we've created with it. 1.00
00:08:19.000 Is that there was a natural balance of power that people don't talk about prior to feminism. 1.00
00:08:24.900 So throughout history, yes, men have had the monopoly on force because they're physically bigger, stronger.
00:08:34.340 And prior to technology, especially they they did dominate in that way.
00:08:39.380 However, all throughout history, now that we have genetic studies, we now know that every living human being right now has twice as many female ancestors as they do male ancestors.
00:08:51.260 That's because historically, 80% of women were able to reproduce because all you had to do historically to reproduce was be fertile for the most part. 1.00
00:09:00.800 Right. And then only 40% of men ever got to reproduce because even historically men had to compete for women.
00:09:08.440 They had to compete for mates. And a lot of them died in wars.
00:09:12.540 Men are very expendable. They've always been seen as very expendable all throughout history.
00:09:17.360 So only about 40% of men who've ever lived have gotten the chance to reproduce.
00:09:21.740 So just by that, women have a huge genetic advantage. 1.00
00:09:25.740 We have a big advantage in passing our genes on.
00:09:29.900 Then you're looking at men might have the monopoly on, you know, force and money and maybe like government.
00:09:37.020 But women had tremendous power prior to feminism because we're generally the gatekeepers of sex, right? 1.00
00:09:44.040 We're we're still women. We're still kind of the choosers and the gatekeepers of sex.
00:09:49.480 And we get to select the mates. And we have a tremendous amount of power during our fertile years.
00:09:54.920 We have a ton of influence. We had influence on the way children were raised, on the way society was run.
00:10:01.680 They were still the community organizers. If anything was happening, you know, with church life, school life, community life.
00:10:08.040 Historically, women were doing those things. We were the caretakers and the ones doing the nursing. 1.00
00:10:12.900 So we had a lot of influence socially. Like we were still the ones that were kind of running social life for the most part.
00:10:19.940 Now what has happened is that we don't have equality. We have massive inequality.
00:10:24.660 So now we see women dominating in family courts that, like we already mentioned, they have the majority of degrees now. 1.00
00:10:33.400 They do better in school from the time they're in preschool.
00:10:37.620 Girls always do better in school than boys do. 1.00
00:10:40.120 If a man and a woman get convicted of the exact same crime with the same circumstances, the woman usually gets 40 percent less jail time.
00:10:48.760 They get less harsh punishments in criminal courts.
00:10:51.760 They win in family courts. They control 80 percent of consumer spending.
00:10:56.740 And they're still the mate selectors. They are still the gatekeepers of sex.
00:11:01.460 They're still the ones that get to decide who procreates and they own. 0.99