JustPearlyThings - June 05, 2023


Modern Society Is Openly Misandrist

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Andrew Tate Kanye Ruga Jess
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

204.35

Word count

1,645

Sentence count

130

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss domestic violence, divorce, and why women are more likely to commit domestic violence than men. We also discuss why men are often overlooked when it comes to domestic violence and how they are discriminated against in society.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Men and women both are equally entitled to complain about what is going on because both are messing up. 0.89
00:00:06.360 A lot of women, they are not fit to take care of their children, but because of the bitterness and anger they have towards the relationship that didn't work out, they make their child suffer. 0.98
00:00:16.840 They take advantage of the fact that they're a woman and they mark their man. 0.97
00:00:20.200 That is not okay.
00:00:21.220 And there's, like women, let's just be honest, like women are spiteful. 1.00
00:00:25.220 When they hate a man, they hate, and I'm not saying all women, I'm not saying every person does this.
00:00:30.040 But it's like women will use the kids as a pawn. 1.00
00:00:33.380 And what happens is a lot of times, even Kanye, that happened in front of us, another thing they'll do is they can move states, and the father has no say if they gave the woman's primary custody.
00:00:46.120 And I'm not saying I know all the ins and outs of the laws.
00:00:48.760 This is just from talking to divorce attorneys.
00:00:51.760 And it's just like men, their issues are not brought to the forefront.
00:00:58.240 And it's really sad that, like, you know, a lot of times a big issue is men committing suicide after divorce.
00:01:04.840 There is a guy, I just learned this the other day, so I'm probably going to butcher it, but most of the domestic violence laws are based off of a system that automatically assumes that the woman's the victim in the U.S. 0.97
00:01:16.760 And so it's like a lot of men, like most, when you talk to people that have actually worked in domestic violence, most domestic violence situations are mutually abusive, where the man and the woman are hitting each other.
00:01:27.320 And the men still get put away and the woman don't. 1.00
00:01:31.500 A woman can just call the cops and, like, a cop will come in and automatically, based on their training, assume that the woman's the victim. 1.00
00:01:40.240 Okay, wait.
00:01:41.560 Again, advocate for women that go through these situations.
00:01:46.200 I don't know what the stats tell you.
00:01:49.660 I don't know what the stats are not telling you because these things you cannot actually regulate because a lot of things go unsaid.
00:01:55.600 It's from, can I just, just to give you perspective, it's from people that work with these couples and that work at women's shelters will tell you this.
00:02:03.500 So much, so much, so much so that they're like, there is the three feminists that came up with the system that the justice, and I'm butchering this, but it's like the system that the justice system is built on that automatically assumes the woman's the victim. 1.00
00:02:16.420 They were saying that even in their practice, it wasn't what they saw, that they were saying, you know what, it's actually mutually abusive.
00:02:22.800 Sorry, go ahead, go ahead.
00:02:23.620 Well, I was just going to say that when it comes to domestic abuse, I believe that women are inherently more vulnerable to be in that situation because when a woman does commit, and this is why men get upset that women cheat, because when a woman commits to a man, she gives herself emotionally.
00:02:43.200 When you attach to yourself to somebody emotionally, now you are a victim to all of these things.
00:02:47.100 Whereas men, as Andrew Tate very quietly said, he's got the decision whether he wants to make you 10 out of 10 happy or 5 out of 10 happy and keep you crying here and there.
00:02:55.720 Because it is true that once men get a woman to fall in love with them, they've got the power. 0.63
00:03:00.820 That's also what men don't understand, and that's how they mess about. 0.63
00:03:03.520 And that's why domestic violence, I believe, is so prevalent amongst women being the victims instead of being the perpetrators. 0.83
00:03:10.640 Although there are cases, of course, that women do take the piss and everything. 1.00
00:03:13.500 And I'm saying people that work in these environments are saying usually it's mutual.
00:03:18.340 So people that work with the couples that try to help them out at women's shelters are saying it's mutual.
00:03:24.820 Yeah, it becomes mutual, and this is the thing, again, I haven't experienced that myself.
00:03:28.980 So I'm saying, sorry, I'm just going to finish.
00:03:31.460 So I'm saying this is a way that men are discriminated against.
00:03:35.500 If a woman's abused, there are women's shelters everywhere. 1.00
00:03:38.640 There are no men's shelters.
00:03:39.840 And there's all these little things in society that once you see it, you can't unsee it.
00:03:44.140 Where I genuinely believe that men are the most discriminated against group in society.
00:03:49.460 In terms of emotionally, I do agree with that, just because I do think there's not really much safe space for a lot of men to talk about how they felt.
00:03:57.180 Like there was a video that went viral of Ruga.
00:04:00.360 He was performing at a show, and a woman grabbed his private parts. 0.97
00:04:04.700 He was so upset by it.
00:04:06.800 Like he couldn't perform, like he just dropped the mic and just walked off, and nothing would have happened to that woman.
00:04:12.260 Like to me, that is so unfair that he would probably just think, oh, you know what, that's a show.
00:04:16.780 But he got violated.
00:04:18.760 That's sexual assault. 0.97
00:04:20.120 And I think there's not a space for men to talk about how they feel and actually what they go through as well, because we hear about women a lot, but not men.
00:04:27.980 So I do agree with that in that sense.
00:04:29.540 But even, and I talk about this, like a lot of times women, we're just like bailed out of bad decisions we make.
00:04:37.200 And it's like, if you're bad with money and you get homeless, you have a women's shelter.
00:04:41.460 Men are just homeless.
00:04:42.260 There's a homeless shelter down the street.
00:04:43.840 I want to do an interview there.
00:04:45.820 Like 90% of the homeless people there are men.
00:04:48.700 But it's like nobody cares unless it's a woman. 0.99
00:04:50.860 You know, there was, I can't remember, it was somewhere in the Middle East.
00:04:54.560 There was a group of women that were like kidnapped and it was like national headlines or whatever.
00:04:59.200 There was a group of men that were kidnapped and slaughtered and they didn't even talk about.
00:05:03.420 It's like, they only care when it's women. 1.00
00:05:05.260 It's like once you, and when I first heard this stuff, I was like, no.
00:05:08.720 But then once you see it, it's like, you can't unsee it.
00:05:11.440 No, it's true.
00:05:12.000 But men are, I think that, I understand what you're saying, but because men have so much power in society, if a man is homeless, it'll be like, you have so much power.
00:05:23.320 Like, what percent of, what percent of men have power? 0.59
00:05:27.180 That's like me saying, that's like me saying, okay, like when they, when they say, oh, you can get flown out to Dubai and all this stuff.
00:05:35.180 And I'm like, a lot of girls, I'm like, I've never been offered anything. 0.97
00:05:39.600 Like, I haven't been offered shit. 0.95
00:05:41.440 Like, like, and it's an even smaller percent. 0.98
00:05:43.820 It's like two, one percent of men that really.
00:05:46.000 Like the workplace.
00:05:47.200 So.
00:05:47.500 Right.
00:05:47.660 Because women have to take maternity leave already. 1.00
00:05:51.040 They are already.
00:05:51.900 But you'll be of the choice standard.
00:05:53.880 You can choose.
00:05:54.800 But you can't remember.
00:05:55.960 You can't, you can choose to be a boss.
00:05:58.560 You could choose not to have kids.
00:06:00.200 And under 30, a lot of women are out earning men in cities.
00:06:02.980 So what do you say to that?
00:06:04.680 But a lot of women want to have kids though. 1.00
00:06:06.760 So.
00:06:07.080 Which is.
00:06:07.560 That's what I'm trying to say in society.
00:06:09.500 Society like favors men really.
00:06:11.980 So it's.
00:06:12.580 How.
00:06:12.980 It's a bit unfair to just say.
00:06:14.440 How does.
00:06:14.820 How does.
00:06:15.280 Okay.
00:06:15.440 Can I, can I have an example?
00:06:16.560 How, how does society favor men?
00:06:18.920 Well, like the high paying jobs.
00:06:20.240 I know you're going to say women don't want to do the, the high paying jobs, but most of 1.00
00:06:25.220 the high paying jobs, they favor men. 0.98
00:06:27.860 Like a woman has to work most. 1.00
00:06:30.780 Let me, let me ask you a question.
00:06:32.380 If she wants those roles. 0.88
00:06:33.500 Let me, let me ask you a question.
00:06:34.960 Um, the NBA, it's, it's mostly, it's mostly, it's like what?
00:06:40.440 60, 70% black, roughly.
00:06:42.520 Do they discriminate against Asians?
00:06:44.280 There's like no Asians in the NBA.
00:06:46.540 Oh no, but that.
00:06:47.580 Oh, so you're saying that better.
00:06:48.860 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:06:50.780 I'm saying, does the NBA discriminate against Asians?
00:06:53.920 There are very few Asians in the NBA.
00:06:56.020 What I'm saying is in any group, you, you're never going to find true equality when of outcome
00:07:00.960 because different groups like different things.
00:07:04.160 So I think Asians make up like 90 something percent of like, I don't, they're like typically 1.00
00:07:10.260 in the U S sorry, please don't come at me for stereotyping, but, but, but they, they make 0.87
00:07:15.220 up a higher percentage of like, like higher education admissions.
00:07:18.780 Yeah.
00:07:19.480 So you're never going to have true equality and it's like me personally.
00:07:23.700 So, but I'm saying, I'm saying we shouldn't, no, no, I'm saying we shouldn't fight for true
00:07:30.280 equality because people want to do different things in different groups.
00:07:33.120 And I'm saying in the top 1%, I've seen what it takes to get there.
00:07:37.980 I've seen firsthand.
00:07:39.000 I've seen my dad like grow up.
00:07:40.540 He, he worked 60, 70 hours a week.
00:07:44.000 He didn't have a life.
00:07:44.760 He didn't have friends.
00:07:46.140 Most women value, like we value a social life. 1.00
00:07:49.000 We value having fun.
00:07:49.820 Like what I've had to do the last three years to build this.
00:07:52.520 Like Jess, most, most girls would not do it. 1.00
00:07:55.180 Oh no, not at all.
00:07:55.960 Oh no.
00:07:56.620 And it's like, it's like, and that's okay, but that doesn't mean women are being discriminated 1.00
00:08:01.340 against.
00:08:01.720 It means they don't want to work.