JustPearlyThings - June 05, 2023


Modern Woman Claims That Men Aren't Accountable


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9 minutes

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19

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In this episode, we discuss cheating and sexual promiscuity in the modern era. Is cheating wrong? Is it ever wrong to cheat? Why do men cheat and why do women cheat? What is the difference between a promiscuous woman and a cheater?

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00:00:00.000 i would also argue that it would be hard for a woman to stay faithful if every day she was 1.00
00:00:05.120 approached by high value men so but yeah like you've been in that position it's yeah it's if
00:00:11.440 every day you're getting messages from like the top men in society i i think that's hard for women
00:00:19.280 to turn down we're hypergamous so it's not really about the quantity of men that approach you it's
00:00:24.880 the quality i think just morally i think everybody knows that cheating is wrong you know like tate
00:00:30.960 even said it himself when a woman cheats on a man the pain that he feels so they know it's wrong
00:00:37.400 innately but they think that they have that path to do it because i'm a man i'm a high value man and
00:00:43.800 it's like do you know that pain that you felt she feels that it's yeah no i and i i agree with you
00:00:49.380 i've i've i've been cheated on it was really hard but but at the end of the day it's just not the
00:00:54.460 same because like at the end of the day like i could get past it because i was like you know
00:00:59.980 what it was just a random it wasn't like he wasn't in love with her but like the way we would feel if a
00:01:05.020 man was in love with someone else that's how men feel about us cheating on them sexually like there's
00:01:10.540 just uh do you think it's because there's just like how do i want to say this do you think it's
00:01:16.100 because men are weaker in that department to where it's like oh you can't even i can't believe you had 1.00
00:01:22.580 sex with guys before you even met me because that's my pussy you know what i mean like i almost 1.00
00:01:26.520 feel like it's because there's such a gap in where women really are and where men are emotionally and 0.99
00:01:31.780 mentally i no i just think it's like men and we can't undo biology right so like we can't undo the
00:01:38.660 thousands of years of biology and how how did you pass on your genes to the next generation for women 1.00
00:01:43.640 it was getting the best man that they possibly could the strongest tallest biggest highest status
00:01:49.080 because then your kid would survive that meant he could protect you he could pass on resources to
00:01:54.280 you and your kid would be strong and would be able to protect itself for like vice versa for men 0.82
00:02:00.440 it was i don't want to pass on resources to a kid that's not mine so it was i can't have a
00:02:06.440 promiscuous woman because the kid might not be mine my genes might not even get yeah my genes might not 0.87
00:02:12.040 get passed down so even though like we're in 2022 and we have like different things that offset this stuff
00:02:17.800 you can't undo our biology but i also think it's accountability i think like britney was saying
00:02:25.800 take you're literally like the male version of me and you're praised and i'm shamed i think it's because
00:02:33.320 we are not holding these men accountable like you would say you basically called britney or her before
00:02:38.120 you met her that is so unfair and i think if we started to say no britney not just britney in that
00:02:44.520 situation not calling you her or anything not in that situation say tate's a hoe britney's a hoe 0.99
00:02:49.960 actually hold each other accountable and it's just it's just but here's here's the thing like on the
00:02:57.400 other side on the other side when you were what eight what was the first time you got messaged by
00:03:02.040 someone with a blue check mark or like any attention probably when i was like 2021 okay 2021 she got the
00:03:09.640 world at her fingertips like just just by being beautiful right she can get messaged from like 0.97
00:03:15.480 the top men in society it's not the same for men when a man's 2021 no woman's checking for him 0.84
00:03:21.240 maybe maybe a very select few but even even if they're very good looking like they're not they're
00:03:26.200 not getting from rich girls no but what i'm what i'm saying is the men are getting those women like
00:03:33.080 actually saying that it's because it's not right at the end of the cheating is wrong men or women
00:03:37.160 biology or not it's wrong and i think if we actually start to say you know what this man has 0.94
00:03:42.280 got three baby mamas you're ridiculous you're playing with and here's the thing is it's such 0.99
00:03:48.360 okay it's such a who who's at fault when most 80 of women 90 of women are sexually active but only 0.99
00:03:56.520 roughly five to ten percent of guys can do what you're saying so it's with the women are more 1.00
00:04:01.560 promiscuous than the men it's like the problem you're talking about is so minuscule it's so small
00:04:07.080 like maybe 20 of men can women are more promiscuous women have more sexual partners now what are you 0.75
00:04:16.120 doing i'm coming for you today now i'm your auntie jenny trust me you swore at me this respect i did
00:04:20.760 way too much i did not accept disrespect why are you doing this is why men will cheat because somebody's
00:04:25.400 talking to you and you're still cutting them off for no reason pal please continue so it doesn't even
00:04:29.640 need to be high value but do you do what i'm saying so i'm saying like okay they're predicting that 45
00:04:35.240 of women will be single and childless that's that's so much so that the big banks are predicting
00:04:40.040 this these women that are going to be single and childless and are on the path to that it's not 1.00
00:04:44.040 like they're not sexually active they're probably sleeping with someone there's not a plethora of
00:04:48.360 virgins around that are women but there is one in three men under 30 are virgins so who's more
00:04:54.520 promiscuous if the women aren't virgins the body counts are getting higher the the and where on the 1.00
00:04:59.960 and where on the other hand men it's a very small percentage that can actually get sex and father a 0.91
00:05:05.320 bunch of kids so that's why i say like i know tate tries to he's he's like don't make it he said she
00:05:10.440 said but but just by and large it's more on the women because one we're in control of sex we pick 1.00
00:05:15.560 who we sleep with and we're more sexually active than them in a sense i agree because on average yes
00:05:21.960 you're right um women are having sex a lot more however when we're talking about promiscuity 1.00
00:05:28.760 men have three times more sexual partners than women so when men have i think it's like 24 and
00:05:36.760 where did you see that the last the last i google it google it right now i made sure because i thought
00:05:41.800 my research before coming back i was like okay i need to i need to know so if if that's true again
00:05:47.320 it goes back to the predo principle right so let's say the average number is higher for for men typically
00:05:53.400 it's because the top five twenty percent even we'll even say thirty percent of men let's give
00:05:58.040 them thirty like they they sleep with 50 60 100 150 girls but one out of three are virgins or haven't 0.99
00:06:04.040 had sex in the past year historically historically exactly that's why i agree with that but that's
00:06:08.680 why i'm saying like by and large women are sleeping with a very small percentage of men but like how
00:06:14.120 many percentage are ruining it for the other men so they keep sleeping with so many women 1.00
00:06:20.120 they're ruining it for okay okay okay okay so actually it's that harsh you could argue that
00:06:25.240 but you could also say it's more on the women because we're in control of sex most men like if
00:06:31.000 you went to a biological level their biology is to sleep with whoever they can right by like most men 0.98
00:06:37.880 if you get if you get if you get if you get right but but for the men right where we have to be more
00:06:43.640 selective and sacred with who we give it to right like we we value sex more like emotionally than men
00:06:48.680 do they'll just and like most men you get butt naked in front of them but they're not and so it's like
00:06:56.520 you're telling that small percentage of men like oh don't don't do that okay fine but at the end of the 0.79
00:07:02.440 day i think it's more on women because there's more sexually promiscuous women than there are sexually 1.00
00:07:07.640 promiscuous men and it's men's mating strategy to do that that's their biology where it's not an 0.99
00:07:13.880 arm biology to be promiscuous but we're the ones doing it but we have this like feminism empowerment 1.00
00:07:18.920 you can do whatever you want and still be fine where it's like i feel like as as women if if like
00:07:24.440 you should come back and say you know what wait for someone that loves you you know wait for some
00:07:28.920 wait for this wait for that um that's that's just my opinion on it i just think it's more on the
00:07:33.640 women because there's more of us doing it than the men yeah i mean i don't promote promiscuity
00:07:41.480 but i just think that there's just a double standard where like men are just seen as it is what it is
00:07:49.560 it's just biological you should like sex more but women enjoy sex i they do like it's okay would you know 0.98
00:07:56.360 what the biggest problem i would say is really really really really and truly is the fact that all of a
00:08:02.520 sudden for one for one reason or the other everybody wants to talk about who they are having
00:08:07.400 sex with and who they take to bed to the point that you disclosing your sexual orientation is
00:08:12.600 something that is even important at the end of the day listen you may know that i'm not a virgin
00:08:18.120 because i like i told you i was in a relationship for five years you're not whatever i do
00:08:21.800 but wait shut up i know shocking right but what i thought you were saving yourself my sister listen 0.80
00:08:28.120 whatever i do or don't do is not for people to know right it's not for people to want to discuss 0.97
00:08:32.920 it's not for people unless i'm going to show you my body my naked body i don't need to talk to you 0.63
00:08:37.240 about whatever i do in bed with someone else and then i think that's one of the problems that also
00:08:41.160 people are having you know they're going to be like listen as a woman you can have sex fine what matters 1.00
00:08:46.680 mostly first and foremost is how you handle yourself how selective you may be at the end of
00:08:50.920 the day they look for purity to a certain extent but if you're not a virgin don't worry my sister
00:08:55.400 has yourself well don't be there expecting men to accept women to to just be sexually open and move
00:09:01.400 in certain ways that are mad and not get the repercussion that is why when i dress myself i am a
00:09:07.320 beautiful woman with a good body i am and i know and i don't need anybody else to tell me i got a mirror 1.00
00:09:11.640 but guess what when i walk around i dress in a certain way why because i want to display myself
00:09:17.640 in a way that brings back the attention that i am looking for so when men approach me they don't
00:09:22.760 approach me like i'm a hoe when men approach me they approach me with respect everything comes
00:09:27.800 down to how you choose to portray yourself a lot of women want to portray themselves as hoes and be 1.00
00:09:32.200 like yeah i'm that girl hot girl summer what do you think that's going to do to you what is that
00:09:35.720 going to do to your other sisters handle yourself with more care i stand here like i said i want to be a
00:09:41.080 role model to every single woman be powerful be strong be intellectual be educated but don't 1.00
00:09:45.960 forget respect yourself don't be saying i who i want to know be selective