00:00:00.000Yeah, no, I would. I used to, before I went out with my now partner, who's a man, I went out with two females. And if I said that, obviously when I was with a woman, obviously, you know, like we was 50-50 in and things like that.
00:00:16.340So if I would do that with a woman, then kind of, sort of, not I'm saying like I don't like being treated by a man, but for me personally, as someone who's been out with both females and males, how can I hold a man to a higher standard of having to look after me when my previous partner, who was a female, didn't have to earn as much?
00:00:33.400It would be, for me personally, stupid to say, well, yeah, my man's got to earn X amount because I never asked that of my female partner. So what, I'd have to ask that of my male partner?
00:00:43.120Are your standards exactly the same when you look at men and women?
00:00:45.840Yeah, I think so. I think so. I think so. I never saw myself with a man. So, um, so I think it took me by surprise. So I think it's, it's, it's not.
00:00:54.740You never, so you were always like a lesbian before and then you found this guy and he was an exception?
00:00:59.640Yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't think it was an exception because now I, like, obviously, apart from, I'm so sorry, babe, you are the only man I find attractive.
00:01:06.400But like, obviously, I'm like, it's, I wouldn't rule out, like, just be, like, he's the only man ever. Do you know what I mean? If that makes sense.
00:01:14.360Um, but, um, yeah, but I can't hold one in a certain respect without holding the other in the same respect.
00:01:20.880So if I said to my female partner, like, you know, yeah, it's fine for you to earn the same as me and put 50-50 in, then how can I not be like that with my mom?
00:01:29.520But that's just, that's just, I think, a personal thing of going through that experience.
00:01:33.140You know, it's interesting because I've, I've had other girls that were bi on the show and they actually said they had, like, higher standards for the guys than they do for the women.
00:01:40.140I, I just, I'm just realistic. Like, I'm just logical. Like, I think it's just logic that, you know, if you're going to go out with both, then you can't have different standards, can you?
00:01:48.040Because at the end of the day, you're asking for the same thing, which is love in, in the same capacity that I would ask love from a woman is the same capacity that I would ask love from a man.
00:01:56.640So how can I ask for different materialistic things if what I'm asking for is the same?
00:02:02.480Is the relationship dynamic the same when you go for men and women?
00:02:06.180For me personally, like, the, the females I went out with were, were kind of tomboyish.
00:02:11.800So, um, I'd say that the dynamics were more similar than I expected.
00:02:17.900Um, I, I've always just been attracted to kind of like the leader of the group, whoever that is, whatever, colour, ethnicity, religion, sex, do you know what I mean?
00:02:27.920I've always just been attracted to someone, but not a leader as in makes the most money, more as in character, you know, the, the, the kind of brightest, the brightest star in the room.
00:02:36.180So for me, that's, that's the most important thing rather than job.
00:03:33.600Like, you know, if someone like worked in a zoo as well, cause I don't, I don't like the thought of like some animals in captivity against their will and stuff, I think that's a bit mad.