00:00:00.000When a single woman reaches the age of 30, the statistical probability of her successfully finding a long-term relationship and having just one child falls below 50%, it then declines rapidly by 3.5% to 5% each year.
00:00:15.080This is based on the average fertility rates in developed countries, of course, but it's also based on the average amount of time it would take a single 30-year-old woman to find a good mate and progress their relationship to the point of pregnancy.
00:00:24.640A little messed up is what you consider the average age of first child is 29 for women.
00:00:30.540It varies slightly by country, and most women start taking the idea of a family seriously in their late 20s and 30s.
00:01:17.880Yeah, it was something that came out earlier this year that there are now more female binge drinkers than males, and it's the first time in history this has happened.
00:02:35.920According to the average span of committed dating relationships, the average and the average interval of time women take between relationships,
00:02:43.700the average woman has a maximum of five serious relationships, five swings at the bat,
00:02:48.640before her chances of starting a family drops to zero.
00:03:33.420Like, how did you count how many rocks before they were even?
00:03:35.540Okay, this is, this doesn't make any sense.
00:03:38.620I'm just saying, what really makes sense nowadays is the stats, like, who are these people that put out these reports?
00:03:44.260They do, they do, they do, they do, they do surveys, it's self-reported in different countries around the world, and they all have similar numbers.
00:03:51.560So, so they, they start to have a similar conclusion and a similar trend.
00:03:55.180So, when we, when we tell women, oh, it's going to be okay, it's like, my DMs are full, this, this, this.
00:04:00.320For a lot of women, for a lot of women, it's not going to be okay.
00:04:03.160And out of women that don't have kids, 80% of them wish they had them.
00:04:08.120It's going to be okay to record this, though, like, at the end of the, that's what I'm saying, sometimes these conversations could also go to the other side of this spectrum.
00:04:18.680I think that these sort of conversations we have, they can sometimes be very strategic and stats have stated and these people, yeah, but there's a whole group, community of people who don't do surveys and just love their life and love people and talk to people and are real and they don't give their reports back.
00:04:37.180Okay, okay, so, okay, okay, some, some, some, some people, you're right, some people don't take surveys, but if we're doing surveys in different places and they're all concluding the same thing, it's like, if you don't want to believe numbers, you don't have to.
00:04:51.940You can just live in the, in the land of feelings, but, but it's, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're good.
00:04:59.500And I think, and it's quite hard, it's quite hard to do that when you're living in the land of logic.
00:05:04.760Should we, should we do an episode that's just like statistics and just teaching people statistics, we can say you're, you're, what you're talking about is self-selection bias, but once you get over about 1,400 people, you kind of have a pretty standard distribution, which is statistically significant.