Modern Woman DISGRACES Herself With This Statement
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between being a feminine woman and a masculine woman, how to be a good woman, and how a good man should be good enough for modern women. We also discuss how to deal with being a bad woman in a relationship.
Transcript
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You want this, you remember you said earlier, you want this in a woman, right?
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And the woman that I want is definitely not an alpha woman.
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We don't talk about feminine women no more because women want to be men.
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When's the last time we had a conversation about femininity?
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When are we going to get back to talking about femininity?
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When are women going to get back to talk about femininity?
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Women will always blame our shortcomings on men.
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And I'll say it was because of my decision to play sports from a young age.
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And, you know, I could whine and be like, oh, boo-hoo.
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But it's like, all right, pick your battles in life.
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And what I cannot stand is women blaming the men instead of just looking at ourselves and
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From, I worked hard in my life to make a living and support for my family.
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I don't give a f*** about what you had to go do in your life.
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If you can't be that, then you got to kick rocks.
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Sometimes a woman can talk her f*** out of a relationship.
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I don't think just being a good man is enough to be, to stay in a relationship with them.
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When I say a good man, I mean, like, he's good all, that means all around.
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That means himself, spiritually, mentally, physically.
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These are the same women that will cry about being a good woman and not being treated right.
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It's the same women that will say, oh, being a good man isn't enough.
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It's the same women that will say, I can't be a good woman or I can't be too feminine
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because I give him all the power and he might abuse me.
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Motions of getting to know him, you're realizing, okay, he's a great person, but honestly, he
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Like, he could be funny, but he's not funny to me.
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And that's why a lot of modern women are getting 40 with, with, with four cats and no f***ing
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man, because he's a good, he's a good man, but because he not funny, you gotta, you gotta
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So, getting to the first topic, is being a good man good enough for modern women today?
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So, I mean, it's like contextual, what good is in a man, what certain female might want
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I personally think, um, I think, I think you're right.
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It does depend on the person, but when it comes to her, I think she was shy.
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I, I, I get where she's coming from, where it's like, you know, there's, there's more
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to it, but it's like, what more should there be?
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You know, if he's a good person, he takes care of you, he provides, like, what else do you
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So then, but being, what, I feel like she has to figure out what's a good man for her.
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Like, what, like she says a good man is not enough.
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This, I think this is another big problem we have in society today.
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Everyone wants to figure out what a, a word means for them when words have general meanings.
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Because they literally just said is, is having a good man good enough?
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Really and truly, if you understand English, there's, what is subjective about that?
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That's what women do when they don't like the answer they have to give.
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When the answer makes them look bad, they say, well, it depends.
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Because really she, she wanted to say, well, no, if having a good man is not good enough,
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but then she might have thought, that might sound weird.
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That might sound bad, might make me look somehow.
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Like, what is like, what is he doing that's not enough?
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If you want something, if you don't want a genuine, like, and I'm not saying that you can't
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get something genuine out of, you know, another type of relationship, but if you don't
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want a genuine, be straightforward, you want fucking money, you want this, you want that,
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I feel like personally, she was just rambling on from saying what she really wanted.
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Because she mentioned his humor, but, um, do you feel like, you know, women move the
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goalposts when, uh, when it comes to, you know, potentially having a successful relationship
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as far as wanting more, like, uh, like she, she mentioned, he's a good man.
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He does everything, but his humor was the only thing that was lacking.
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And that just, and that's so super, like, okay.
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Even I've dated, I've dated a funny guy before.
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Like, is that going to be a make or break in a marriage?
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You know, it's like, you can only be funny for so long.
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If that's a big thing for her, then she will move the goalpost.
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If it's like, whatever, then, you know, she's going to override it.
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I want a guy that's funny or no, it's not enough.
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Again, it depends on like, it depends on what she's looking for.
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I just want to, I want to stay with Ju, Tucker.
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Ju there make a good point, um, about women moving the goalposts, right?
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Because oftentimes on the show, we will hear women say,
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So now that y'all found that good man, now it's like,
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well, he has all of these, he has 98% of what I want.
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But because he doesn't have that 2%, man, he's just not for me.
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So you were willing to risk that 2% in hopes to find a man,
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anybody's going to find that 100% person that's compatible with you,
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you know, men or women, like, you know what I mean?
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So for you to try to keep holding out to find that,
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and that's what, that's what I'm finding what's happening a lot with women
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Like, oh, um, I'm going to keep looking for that unicorn
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And you're going to keep getting older and older.
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Like, you know, now that guy that you did find,
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And because of, obviously, biology and all these other factors
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that, you know, these guys that have made enough of themselves
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as far as, you know, if they are successful and productive in society,
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So I just, that moving to goalpost thing that Jew was talking about.
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I just feel like everyone thinks they have options.
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who do you think realizes that more, men or women?
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If you don't find her attractive, are you going to compromise?
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women need to compromise on attraction more than men.
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that we want, but if he doesn't have the sixth thing,
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where men find, like, half of women attractive.
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Like, imagine, men find half of women attractive
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more on attraction because we're the pickier sex.
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So I don't, the reason why I think men compromise
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a lot of the time, the looks is gonna change anyways.
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see, men aren't, like, attracted to work ethic,
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but I think, like, even when my brothers were dating,
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the way women are, but it's, like, a good quality.