JustPearlyThings - May 09, 2023


Modern Woman Equates a BUS DRIVER to a CORNSTAR


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Length

9 minutes

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191.2806

Word count

1,891

Sentence count

3

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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3

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In this episode, we talk about what it's like to date a bus driver, what it s like dating a woman in your 20s and what it would be like to be in a relationship with a man in your 30s.

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00:00:00.000 my first question would you date a bus driver no no if you're on the bus what
00:00:09.420 she said no I'm joking um that's it's just so surface level to arcs that though
00:00:17.460 isn't it no there's bus drivers that are trying to take women on like like you 1.00
00:00:22.240 guys on dates and they want to know if you would you know you would date them
00:00:25.500 how much do bus drivers I would this probably that levels though isn't that
00:00:34.740 like I mean I'm just gonna look it up bus driver's salary London ah 15 pounds an
00:00:41.160 hour so like I mean that's like 18 US dollars 15 pounds an hour so yes no I'm
00:00:51.480 gonna say no now but come back to me okay so no no I think I very much agree
00:00:58.860 with with what she said like if you're passionate and what you do a lot of
00:01:03.360 people earn way less than 15 pounds an hour you're you're grafting and at the
00:01:09.420 end of the day you might be able to change that later on down the line so yeah
00:01:13.020 if I get along with you well you're presenting yourself or you're treating me
00:01:16.100 well 100% yeah yeah no I would I used to before I went out with with my my now
00:01:22.220 partner who's a man I went out with two females and if I said that obviously when 1.00
00:01:28.520 it was when I was with a woman obviously you know like we was 50 50 in and things
00:01:33.720 like that so if I would do that with a woman then kind of sort of not I'm saying
00:01:37.760 like I don't like being treated by a man but for me personally as someone who's
00:01:41.360 been out with both females and males how can I hold a man to a higher standard of
00:01:45.560 having to look after me when my previous partner who was a female didn't have to 0.99
00:01:50.160 earn as much it would be for me personally stupid to say well yeah my
00:01:54.940 man's got an X amount because I never asked that of my female partner so what 0.84
00:01:58.820 I'd have to ask that of my male partner are your standards exactly the same when
00:02:02.540 you look at men and women yeah I think so I think so I think so I think so I
00:02:05.780 never saw myself with a man so and so I think it took me by surprise so I think
00:02:10.760 it's it's it's not you never so you were always like yeah yeah yeah and then you
00:02:15.800 found this guy and he was an exception yeah yeah yeah I don't think it was an
00:02:18.620 exception because now I like obviously apart from I'm so sorry babe you are the
00:02:22.700 only man I find attractive but like that obviously I'm like it's I wouldn't rule
00:02:26.960 out ever like be just be like he's the only man ever do you know what I mean if
00:02:31.200 that makes sense um but um yeah but I can't hold one in a certain respect without
00:02:37.220 holding the other in the same respect so if I said to my female partner like you
00:02:41.600 know yeah it's fine for you to earn the same as me and put 50 50 and then how
00:02:45.140 can I not be like that with my mom but that's just that's just I think a
00:02:48.440 personal thing of them going through that experience you know it's interesting
00:02:51.500 because I've had other girls that were by on the show and they actually said they
00:02:55.000 had like higher standards for the guys and they do for the way I just I'm just
00:02:58.720 realistic like I'm just logical like yeah I think it's just logic that you
00:03:02.420 know if you're gonna go out with both and you can't have different standards can you
00:03:05.620 because at the end of the day you're asking for the same thing which is love
00:03:08.680 in the same capacity that I would ask love from a woman is the same capacity
00:03:12.700 that I would ask love from a man so how can I ask for different materialistic
00:03:17.020 things if what I'm asking for is the same is the relationship dynamic the same
00:03:22.060 when you go for men and women for me personally like the the females I went out 0.99
00:03:27.500 with were kind of tomboyish so I'd say that the dynamics were more similar than I
00:03:33.820 expected okay and I've always just been attracted to kind of like the leader of
00:03:39.160 the group whoever that is whatever color ethnicity religion sex you know what I
00:03:45.400 mean I've always just been attracted to someone but not a leader as it makes the
00:03:48.720 most money more as in character you know the kind of brightest the bright star in
00:03:53.420 the room the the brightest character so for me that's that's the most important
00:03:57.220 thing rather than job mm-hmm okay would you date a bus driver yeah is there any
00:04:05.440 profession you wouldn't date um like I don't start playing a like oh F stuff oh
00:04:11.860 no no I need any that type of stuff and anything that's like when they have to
00:04:17.680 dress promiscuously or anything like this okay no like as you guys have Hooters
00:04:22.540 here no Hooters is like a booty shorts chain in the u.s. where it's like it's
00:04:29.080 like a weight like they're waitresses but they dress I would they wear like the 1.00
00:04:32.300 orange stuff yeah bring it to okay okay I do so outside of just like promiscuous is
00:04:46.060 there any other industry you wouldn't date um do you know what like you know if
00:04:51.580 someone like worked in a zoo as well because I don't like I don't like the
00:04:54.520 thought of like some animals in captivity against their will and stuff I think
00:04:57.400 that's a bit mad okay and if they were like pro that I'll be like okay morally
00:05:00.880 it might say a bit bad that's like a very random I don't really think about
00:05:05.080 answering the question yeah okay what about you would you date a bus driver I
00:05:09.160 would as she said if he's passionate and he's a family man and he respects his
00:05:13.040 mom absolutely I it's fine because I think the goal is to find a respectful man
00:05:18.220 that can treat you well other than a job we could fix that later on it's fine if
00:05:22.900 you haven't what no no no no fixing it it's like he's a bus driver the rest of
00:05:26.380 his life that's mine that's fine are you does that switch your answer bus driver
00:05:31.000 the rest of his life no it doesn't know here's your slow datum okay what about
00:05:36.280 you if he had plans to leave the bus driver job then I would date him but if
00:05:41.020 he's planning to stay there for the rest of his life unfortunately I couldn't date
00:05:44.440 him because I feel like 15 pounds an hour for the rest of your life isn't
00:05:48.160 really good plus the long hours and I'm gonna be completely honest with you like
00:05:53.560 ask me if I would date a bus driver is like ask him a man would you date like a
00:05:58.120 porn star like in society this is a little bit like you know the equivalent of a
00:06:03.960 porn I mean obviously like is a more like we need bus drivers yes it's actually a
00:06:08.500 very needed role yeah yeah but like to do a queen a bus driver to the like to 1.00
00:06:14.680 bottom like 10% of females yeah but we need porn as well men need porn so 1.00
00:06:20.200 that's how I survived for most of history without corn so corn yeah for me
00:06:27.220 personally I'm not gonna sit here in line be like oh my gosh I would personally I
00:06:30.460 just feel like if he had plans to leave it then yeah because it's just like 15
00:06:34.380 pounds an hour for the rest of your life isn't really it I'm not gonna lie um
00:06:40.560 would you rather date a musician or a bus driver well my boyfriend's a rapper so I'll
00:06:51.300 say a musician how successful is the musician though um they're both average
00:06:56.220 bus driver average musician so however successful I could look up the average
00:07:01.080 salary musician I feel like musician would be more fun I feel like bus drivers like
00:07:06.240 I might get in the music video I might have like a say but with a bus driver is
00:07:10.020 like you're just taking the same route all the time I can't really come with you
00:07:13.340 either um but if it's an average musician then yeah if it's like a big musician and I
00:07:19.680 don't really know because they're a bit here and there you know what about you I'm
00:07:26.520 guess we're talking about people at the start of their music career that are like you
00:07:30.000 know the guys are like yeah I want to be I'm an aspiring rapper and they're like
00:07:33.780 starting out and it's like they're gonna stay that way it could be a country
00:07:37.200 singer I don't know okay but but they're gonna stay at average right that's the
00:07:40.920 question forever I think I'm in this case I think actually rather the bus
00:07:48.420 driver because at least nobody's seeing him all the time I think I'm gonna say
00:07:56.640 bus driver because I understand the industry and I'm just yeah I'm way too
00:08:00.720 jealous of a person to even get with someone who who does music is around
00:08:05.940 women all the time etc it's a lot to take on so yeah bus driver I'm gonna have 1.00
00:08:11.520 to say musician otherwise I'm gonna get some really bad Texas I'll say I'm a
00:08:18.720 musician you know if it's like an average musician there's like like not saying
00:08:21.840 that people do wedding ones are like I'm average but I mean it gives you more
00:08:25.400 freedom but I want to just do my stuff and go on holidays and this and that if
00:08:28.980 they're bus driver they go ask a boss how are you gonna fund the holidays if me
00:08:31.900 can't oh yeah you yeah I'm sorry I'm forgetting that you're a guy
00:08:34.920 answering it depending are they making the same by the way the average musician
00:08:41.520 and average bus driver is it the same income salary salary average salary of a
00:08:49.100 musician London I got you saw that with musicians you don't make money in the
00:08:58.080 beginning 44,000 pounds a year but if it's like kind of the same salary then I
00:09:10.860 think this one says 29,000 that sounds more right yeah I think if it's the same
00:09:15.540 salary I wouldn't mind I think with a musician I would have more quality time
00:09:18.960 than the bus driver but I don't mind a bus driver either just at least with the
00:09:24.480 musician I think I would have more quality time in this case I will actually
00:09:28.620 date the bus driver only because I like peace and I feel like musicians let's be
00:09:34.140 real we know what they're about out with girls you know they cheat him all the time
00:09:38.480 the more money a man makes the more likely he is to cheat and me I am too
00:09:43.380 emotional for all of that like I like my mental health to be steady so yeah it
00:09:48.660 would have to be the bus driver but I still wouldn't