JustPearlyThings - October 25, 2023


Modern Woman EXPOSES Herself In 4k


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Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

175.746

Word count

1,227

Sentence count

130

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Hate speech

1

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the impact of social media on sexualisation and promiscuity in the modern world, and the impact it has had on our society. We also discuss how social media has changed the way we look at sex and sexuality.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I mentioned promiscuity, you all pretty much spoke about social media.
00:00:04.880 So I want to delve more into the social media aspect.
00:00:08.900 Does social media promote promiscuity, do you think?
00:00:12.460 Do you think it encourages people to be promiscuous online?
00:00:14.980 Absolutely.
00:00:15.700 I mean, when you look at the history, sex has always sold, right? 0.99
00:00:18.620 Anything that's been sexualized, even, let's say, in the 50s with cigarettes,
00:00:22.800 the majority of the adverts had sexy ladies smoking 1.00
00:00:26.420 because it's associated with an oral form.
00:00:29.620 Do you know what I mean? Smoking.
00:00:31.320 So sexuality has always been a part of, let's say,
00:00:36.620 cells or driving a motive or changing our minds or perspectives.
00:00:41.280 Now, social media, when that came into place, gradually,
00:00:45.600 in the beginning it wasn't.
00:00:46.580 I mean, I'm 30 years old.
00:00:47.700 In the beginning, we didn't really post that many saucy photos.
00:00:51.040 And all of a sudden, when the business aspect became a part of Instagram,
00:00:55.340 and I'm sure we all remember when Instagram was just simple,
00:00:58.860 posting things.
00:00:59.600 Now you've got ads, you can sell things.
00:01:01.560 It's changed completely.
00:01:03.580 Now, it's marketed on vulnerable women, in my opinion,
00:01:07.980 that have now come on social media.
00:01:11.240 They've grown up with, let's say, a young mindset.
00:01:14.000 They are young.
00:01:14.740 They're seeing older women, more attractive women doing,
00:01:17.860 and having a certain behavioral pattern.
00:01:19.360 And they've thought that's okay because their parents don't know what they're looking at
00:01:24.000 or their friends and their peers have the same mentality.
00:01:27.240 So I think each generation has grown up with normalizing showing your body on social media.
00:01:33.240 And now it's obviously capitalized and Instagram, Facebook, everything is now making money
00:01:39.940 from women posting sexy photos.
00:01:41.700 And then you can argue, yes, women want to do that. 1.00
00:01:45.540 But unfortunately, they're not realizing that they're teaching the next generation the wrong thing.
00:01:50.720 Yeah, I think it's been capitalized hugely.
00:01:53.200 What is it that's wrong about it, in your opinion?
00:01:55.860 I mean, what's selling your body online?
00:01:59.860 What's wrong with that?
00:02:01.360 I mean, I think it should be, I mean, there's a lot of things wrong with it.
00:02:06.980 I think morally, it's not correct.
00:02:08.540 And that's my simplest answer, just morally, it's not correct.
00:02:11.720 Okay.
00:02:13.260 Yeah, definitely.
00:02:14.080 I think so, like, based on what she said just then, like, sex sells.
00:02:17.940 So I think, especially now, because Instagram is a lot of people and businesses
00:02:21.960 promote a lot of their, you know, brands and so forth on it.
00:02:27.440 Sex sells, so they're going to want to have good-looking people or, you know,
00:02:31.000 girls that are kind of, you know, attractive and so forth.
00:02:33.840 May not be to that extent.
00:02:34.940 And obviously, we're not speaking about business in this.
00:02:37.720 We're speaking about promiscuity.
00:02:39.440 But since when I was a child to now, the way that, you know, social media is,
00:02:45.440 it's, yeah, there's a massive, massive change in what people actually generally share.
00:02:51.100 And even if you just go in your, like, even if you count 10 posts,
00:02:55.400 8 out of 10 posts, there's someone naked or there's someone, you know,
00:02:58.660 showing something.
00:02:59.740 Even if it's not themselves, it's something that's a bit more, you know,
00:03:04.720 on the sexual sides of anything.
00:03:07.900 So...
00:03:08.300 And what do you think of that?
00:03:09.360 Do you think that that's a good thing or a bad thing?
00:03:12.120 Just in your personal opinion, not whether it's, you know, the public opinion.
00:03:16.460 What do you make of that?
00:03:17.800 Again, I think it is, it does play on morals as well.
00:03:21.760 Some people may feel confident to show a lot.
00:03:24.220 Some people may not.
00:03:25.060 It's insecurities as well.
00:03:26.280 You have to remember, women, we all have a lot of insecurities.
00:03:28.800 So I think a lot of younger women are going out their way for validation through likes, 0.99
00:03:34.520 through, of course, you know, people wake up and they're like,
00:03:36.640 oh, how many likes do I have?
00:03:37.800 And that, for me, is absurd.
00:03:39.320 For me, it's absurd that someone can rely their happiness or their self-confidence
00:03:44.100 on the amount of views and lines that they have.
00:03:45.860 That, for me, is a very alien thing, but it's a real thing.
00:03:48.460 Yeah, definitely.
00:03:49.180 So the motive is now connected with views and likes and posting more.
00:03:53.800 So it's correct.
00:03:54.880 So it's basically like awarding, unconsciously, a woman's being awarded by likes,
00:04:00.680 by posting more and more and more.
00:04:02.160 So it carries on in a way.
00:04:04.900 Yeah.
00:04:05.280 I also think in a way, a lot of this generation's self-worth comes from social media.
00:04:11.900 So it's like, I want to see how much I can get.
00:04:15.520 I want to see the likes, the views, whatever I can get.
00:04:17.160 And that, if I can hit this amount, or if I can get, change my mood.
00:04:20.620 But if I get, if I post something that gets 50 likes, that won't be like.
00:04:25.360 Wow.
00:04:25.960 That's low?
00:04:26.460 Well, in this generation, it is.
00:04:28.960 When you're seeing other people, other celebrities, other influencers, or just even normal people
00:04:32.280 getting six, seven hundred, and you're posting a photo that you think you look nice in, and
00:04:37.000 you're getting 50, and you're comparing it to someone else who's got a different photo,
00:04:41.700 they're going to be like, oh.
00:04:43.520 Girls especially love to compare themselves. 0.99
00:04:46.000 Unfortunately, that's just how it is.
00:04:47.240 They're always going to compare themselves to Kylie Jenner, or whoever.
00:04:51.100 So I think it's just even just a subconscious thing that we just genuinely will always compare.
00:04:55.600 Yeah.
00:04:56.120 Adiola, you're laughing along there.
00:04:57.980 What's your thoughts?
00:04:59.220 No, it's just because I couldn't really relate with this.
00:05:03.500 But, yeah, I understand.
00:05:05.640 Because, yeah.
00:05:06.440 But what do you think?
00:05:07.500 I do not compare myself with Kylie Jenner.
00:05:10.520 I believe we're two different people.
00:05:11.560 But, unfortunately, the majority of women are. 1.00
00:05:13.600 I don't either.
00:05:14.300 I don't follow celebrities.
00:05:15.540 I don't really care about that world.
00:05:17.420 But, unfortunately, you have to think about other people.
00:05:19.940 And, unfortunately, it's become a real thing of our society where what Kylie Jenner says
00:05:24.060 and does affects people.
00:05:25.320 That, for me, is absurd.
00:05:26.560 But it is the reality that we live in, unfortunately.
00:05:28.880 Yeah.
00:05:29.860 So can I ask you one more time what is the question?
00:05:32.880 So the question is, does social media promote female promiscuity? 0.92
00:05:37.540 Does it encourage it?
00:05:39.400 Of course, yeah.
00:05:40.260 Social media is definitely a platform to promote a lot of things, businesses, or whatever you
00:05:47.320 want to promote.
00:05:48.660 And, I mean, I believe that when it comes to sexuality, it is a great way to do publicity
00:05:57.020 whenever, whatever topic it is.
00:06:00.480 So, yeah, I believe that the social media is becoming more and more sexual.
00:06:07.200 And do you think that's a good or a bad thing?
00:06:10.260 Yeah.
00:06:14.000 Obviously, there is some danger in that because some people will say that it's good because
00:06:20.140 there is body positivity in that.
00:06:23.360 But, at the same time, it will come as well with some recuperation or how do you say it?
00:06:28.520 With some bad repercussions.
00:06:30.380 Exactly.
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00:06:31.940 Итак, absolutely.
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00:06:34.100 Thanks, guys.
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