Modern Woman Gets SHUT DOWN For Saying This
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, I speak to one of my good friends and former stripper, about her experience in the stripper industry. We discuss the difference between men and women who have slept with strippers and strippers in the UK, and the impact it can have on a man s chances of settling down with a woman.
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i'll tell you something though and i all do respect to you right but men will find it at
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least the men that i'm surrounded by and i'm 32 and i i'm surrounded by loads of men especially
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how quality men coaches blah blah blah but anyway men will find it very difficult to get married to
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a prostitute just because of her work period and other way around i think woman is the same
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right some men will marry a prostitute but on the promise of like okay she will change her job blah
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blah blah but you will find it very difficult for a man to settle down with a prostitute
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i've dated a lot of strippers for instance like they were like reversing it but did you get married
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to them no but like i had a lot of stripper girlfriends in different places yeah girlfriends
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is different when you're married and having children to a stripper or a prostitute now listen
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there's there's a lot of prostitutes that are amazing girls then they're out there doing that
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job to support their families and their circumstances is just different a hundred percent now but they do
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get pushed down or like not looked at because they're prostitutes or strippers it's the same
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for men the quality of men and he can make a lot of money whatever it is wait you think it's the
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same for men when they've slept around when they slept around and openly sharing about it and it's
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just everyone knows about it the quality you go for it are women skeptical and reluctant to sleep with
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drake now here is the thing right this is the thing um definitely i will just answer your question
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it's a no-no right and they're not yes what about i'm gonna ask you another what about rappers
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ballers nick cannon look at nick cannon he's got all the baby but here's the thing who are they going
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for yeah listen if they're going for a certain type of girls that's like unknown they earn less than
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them um they kind of like structure yeah they will not hesitate in two seconds and drake had a kid
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with a stripper but high quality women will definitely not sleep with drake and so many
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other rappers and they'd be i don't know if i would agree you don't have to you don't have to high
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quality women like let's say what is but that's the thing like what is a high quality i will tell
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you like i'm sorry i'm just like people from the parliament people in the in the in the politicians
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they won't do that they would don't want their names associated with what they just keep it
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they keep it low-key but here's the thing the other men they keep it low-key you there's a respect
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put respect on the name you realize like and put the respect on my name as well nba players have
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women that like actively pursue them to the point they'll like buy hotel rooms like at the places
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look to look for where they hang out and also like know everything about like they literally
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pursue them this is what they do i'll tell you what they do right
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watch out this info because i okay i know i know about this info because i have personal assist a lot of
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influencers and some celebs in the uk so i've seen some behind the scenes of what goes on and how it
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works is that i don't know like an artist or an nba player so i've never worked with mpa but i'm just
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saying someone of that status will go through someone else and say i'm requesting a girl that's
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this age this and this they will scout for the girl oh yeah they will say call this person um
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wants you for the night they require x y and z and that's how it works it's not even always it
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wouldn't be just drake himself they all do it they all do it contracts and all that right there's so
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many contracts and that contracts will have nda to not mention their names that's what i'm saying
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yeah but this is what i'm saying about it sharing about it openly does damage your partner name
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and their you know quality of who they are now not necessarily it depends on your lane right but if
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you're going to so many serious i would say um position it will impact you you know i'm not saying
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man don't cheat woman cheat most of the time you don't know about it and just life keep going on and
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you said you're okay with that right like not not to like use him as an example but like if he
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were to cheat and you didn't know about it would you be okay with it would i listen logically right
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i come from a culture when right i would i'll be angry if i knew but like i will accept it i will
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accept it i have to say there's so much qualities about my partner if he done one mistake in so many
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years i'll just keep a blind eye i get one pass can i ask you a question do you feel like
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do you feel like you respect your i don't know how long ago your previous girlfriends were when
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you was living together but did do you think you respect them the same as you do your now girlfriend
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yeah why no equally her a lot more okay because she's changed she's like everything i'm looking for
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like in terms of you know like she's very intelligent she's hyper analytical like me so are these other
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girls just fantasies sorry babe no go on these other girls just fantasies like fat you're like like your
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playground oh the the side girls yeah yeah because i i enjoy going through almost like someone that got
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good at chess and it sounds i just have one question for you when you was looking for a wife
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did you want to be with someone that was bisexual to allow those things yes that's a requirement yeah
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that's that was like your requirement yeah there's like a whole list of it has to come from a good
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family that's why it works so if you're happy yeah and i was up front with it and she could have left
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yeah i like the fact that you're up front with it yeah i think there's authenticity i think everyone's
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relationship is going to work for them i just wonder how it would work sorry i'm curious girls who who
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would sign up for something like that anyone i personally wouldn't in that exact dynamic but i would
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like to say i respect you so much because you had to in a way lower your ego to be able to have
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him happy if he's happy then that's what makes you happy and i feel like in our society now that's
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women's problem including myself the fact that we don't want to lower our ego in order to make our
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partner or our boyfriend or our husband happy because we're always trying to level level up even
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be on the same level as them or be even higher and that's ruining our relationship for me it's not
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like lowering my ego i don't feel like that i feel like i don't i don't i i'm sorry if i don't
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understand you properly but i don't see this as lowering my ego whatsoever because it's like
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i'm seriously okay it's like because i believe that for men that's my concept that's my belief
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i believe for me like oh no you like to bang go bang that makes it happy so go be happy she's like
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very selfless as well like she it's not something that's gonna be like oh my god is
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oh you are talking to no sometimes like like you see a girl like a beautiful girl walking and say
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oh my god she's so beautiful it's like i think sometimes it it's like uh we miss empathy it's
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like you know when you go like to nightclubs and like someone is like doing bad like he's in a bad
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moment i always see like something that i like to see i always see like girls coming up to that person
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and say hey dude are you fine yeah hey can i get you something or someone in the bathroom can you
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know and like you see in that environment because people are like relax you know and so when i say
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like oh go be happy it's not that i'm trying to like make a learning but it's like i believe like
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if you're both like in the same page like what do you like we can like do things together and keep like
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easy because i think like the world outside is already so hard yeah it's like it's already gonna
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try to beat you to beat you so much if you cannot get home and like be with a person that like truly
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like like understands you like have you by your side you know to be like peaceful is gonna be really
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hard you know yeah i think you can be like more like empathic like this you know so if he if he was um
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banging other girls and accidentally he maybe got one impregnated i have a vasectomy
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oh okay since 2014 so almost 10 years okay question answered that solves that problem yeah stds
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oh um i mean i've run you know like most of the guys i know that i've been you know with a lot of
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girls like usually it's like chlamydia like one to five times or something i'm not like bragging about
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it but like gone in a week with a pill not that big with you i've done videos on stds one and two
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people get that yeah it's pretty common but like she also gets like turned on like hearing about me
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with girls and she wants to see like what would the girl look like and stuff like that i i think
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the way you've gone about it i say more power to you you know i think there's a lot of men will be
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watching this thinking this guy's a little he found a good one really the honesty and coming to to terms
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with like the rules and stuff like that like i'm not getting emotionally attached with these other
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girls yeah i'm not taking them how do you stop that though what if you just meet someone that's
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incredible and you know but men can easily detach but people think that men don't have emotions you
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do what if you just met somebody just thought i just want to spend time with her more and more
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we've had that we've had that happen a couple times so it has like the argentina there was an argentinian
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girl that was like she was like argentinian polish and ukraine ukrainian so like eastern european with
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the south american yeah she was like great so you fell in love with her no i didn't fall in love but like
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i was like seeing her a bunch and like she got jealous of liz because she liked me a lot yeah
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the thing is usually they get jealous of me not me getting jealous i open my house it's like you
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want to come like yeah it's like no not because of this because i believe like dude if they are both
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cool so okay you're very powerful you've clearly done a hell of a lot of work on yourself to be that
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powerful emotionally and then like she got there and i was like okay like but she knows at the end
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of the day like like we have we have like a very loving relationship and like all the stuff that you'd
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expect like with from a partner we have all that i know there's like this other thing on the side
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but it's not but it doesn't really detract it's just like something it's a special circumstance it's