Modern Woman Keeps Avoiding Accountability
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Summary
On this episode of Thick & Thin, the boys talk about masculinity. They talk about the benefits of masculinity, the dangers of feminization, and what it means to be a man in the 21st century. They also talk about why it s important to be masculine.
Transcript
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Okay, we are the most useful, deadly force on this planet.
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When you look at the government and all this bullshit they say about, like, you know, violence is not the answer.
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If you don't pay your taxes, they'll drag you and lock you in a cell.
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If you don't follow the laws, they'll fucking kill you.
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And Pearl, you talk about studies all the time that you do, right?
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Men are the ones that are the most disagreeable in society.
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And men are the ones who consistently lead revolutions.
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When was the first time you did something masculine and were shamed for it?
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Like, when's the first time either, like, a woman or, like, society, like, you noticed, like,
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Somebody sucker punched my friend in a pizza joint in Orlando after we were drinking, and
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I whooped that guy's ass, and I whooped his friend's ass, and then there's a girlfriend
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of mine, which is just like, you shouldn't have done that.
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Sometimes I get set up to have to be the bad guy.
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Like, it could be a thing of if I go for this way of doing it or the complete opposite
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of way of doing it, I still look like a bad guy regardless.
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Like, I think that's just like, I think the reason why that gets put on us a lot more
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is because we're seen as the top heads of things, it's easier to put more responsibility
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But I think to some degree, people misbalance it, and then they can end up, like, putting
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And, like, what's happening with this role that Tomasi says this often, and it's pretty
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true, when he says, right now, they're trying to push responsibility on men while stripping
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The responsibility and authority needs to come hand in hand because, you know, like,
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if you get reprimanded at your boss, reprimanded at work by your boss, right?
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But your boss can't fire you, you'll be like, yo, fuck you, bro.
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But the fact that he has the authority to demote you or transfer you to fucking Uganda
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or whatever and ruin your situation with your income or your livelihood, his authority is
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And that's why it's hilarious, too, when I go to the States and I go to Fresh and Fit
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and I talk to all these psychotic American feminist women, and they're just like, no matter
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what, it reminds me of the episode of Fresh Prince of Bel-Air when Will was in trouble,
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and they're like, that's his family's motto, when in doubt, blame Will.
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It's like in American women, when in doubt, just blame men.
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When have you ever heard, when have you ever heard an American woman or a woman in general
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be like, you know what, things didn't work out with me and my ex, but let me first tell
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And she said all the things that she did wrong, and it made the news.
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They said women said she was the problem in a relationship.
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Front page of the New York Times, woman takes accountability.
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On that, like, response, I think Andrew Tate said this, responsibility without authority
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What you just said before about women taking accountability and stuff, I literally just
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I literally leave my life here, and I just said to myself, my love life didn't work out,
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I have good guys, bad guys in between, but I get entertained by the ones that are more
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It's just like we're playing mind games on and off, all this toxic.
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I do want to say it because it still hurts, but it's like, I've definitely entertained
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people that had red flags written all over them for no reason.
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When girls, when we take accountability, I gotta say this, it's always, I choose toxic
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How is it, how is it, how is it, how is it, how is it, how is it accountability if you're
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Because no, I'll be like, it takes, it takes two to tango.
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And I've been, I've been in a toxic relationship before, and I was toxic.
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I was absolutely, you can't, you can't be with someone for more than maybe a month or
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two, three months tops without being toxic together and blaming it on them and saying
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Because it's a kind of like, it's a, it's a half sort of admitting.
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Like, yeah, you know, I, I kind of entertained the wrong guys, but then it's just because
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Okay, basically the first guy I've gotten to know and been with was, um, I was 18 and
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So he already had a one up on me because he knew about.
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What was wrong, what was one thing you did that you could have done differently to make
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And then after that, we're going to put your Instagram on the, on the main screen.
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I've learned a lot, but, um, the red flags, I could have definitely paid attention to
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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
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no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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Whoa, whoa, right back, right back, right back, right back.
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I'd like to say, this idea that we're so naive and stupid at 18 when.
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I know, but the thing is, I definitely felt like I was naive a bit because I...
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It was on and off because instead of him communicating with me,
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he would punish me with silent treatment and blocking,
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Okay, okay, pause, pause, pause, pause, pause, pause, pause.
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and I told him, communicated everything to him.
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Okay, wait, okay, wait, so you're seeing a girl...
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Yeah, okay, so wait, did you ask him if you could go on the girl's trip?
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So I now went, I said with one girl, I spoke to him before that,
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And I found out when I got back, he hacked my phone.
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like I'm looking cute, look at me, look at this, look at that.
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He was giving me off behavior, he was being a bit standoff-y-ish.
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It just, I, I, usually when girls tell this story,
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It doesn't seem like he would just block you out of nowhere.
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Can I, can I, can I, can I, can I, can I, can I, can I,
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Like, you see, when it comes to like, um, like, obviously,
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I'm not saying that, oh, you know how your situation went in it.
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But I'm saying in general, yeah, when it comes to like,
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relationships, a man will normally leave or block a girl
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Let's say that you catch a guy at cheating, yeah.
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And he's like, oh, he pissed me off, he cheated.
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Like, he's not going to be like, okay, let's just block each other
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Yeah, like, nine times out of ten, he's going to tolerate,
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you know, whatever you've got at him because, you know,
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like, so then it's like, in this, you know, when you say that,
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Like, you know what it's like to be a guy in it.
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You know what it's like to be an emotional guy, though,
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because I feel like this guy was very emotional.
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And I've been in that, like, I've been in a toxic relationship,
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like, not that same, maybe he wasn't hacking my phone,
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but like, you cannot, like, until you get through your head
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that you cannot be in a toxic relationship without being toxic,
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because there's no way that he, you're just the victim.
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Like, there's things that you did that were probably drama-filled,
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Basically, I don't think I should share this information with people
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He can do something to my phone, put his number in, then he will receive all my phone calls.
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He's done that, and I think what I've done is, um, I was just always looking good, posting
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my snaps, looking cute, and I think that was triggering him.
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
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But let me, let me just say, like, this is, this is how this translates to guys.
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There's no skin out, it's just face, like, it's my head, makeup, like, now, and my skin
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Listen, listen, listen, it's still advertising.
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You might not like it, and, you know, a lot of us have never been taught this stuff, okay?
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But, so, you, to men, this is, you're acting like a hoe, and then you get blocked.
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And what you wanna do as well at the same time?
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And this is the thing like like we can't move forward in life unless we could see where we went wrong in certain situations
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I'll tell you this from like personal experience
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Like there's times I've been listening to a guy on the show and I'll think wow
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I like did like this is where I went wrong. I like I've apologized to people before you know
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I'm always open-minded to learn. I never looked at it from that aspect the way I see
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It's like from when my boobs and everything is not out on this screen
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Yeah, and you can just see my face and my head you said he's an emotional guy
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But you said that you you told him the day before you were going on the girls trip, right? Yeah
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Is it okay? What's your Instagram right now? Let me look at it. I'm just honey
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Can we put it on the screen? I want to I want to react
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I am on a journey of like becoming more religious. I am gonna rebrand my Instagram
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I like how you don't say I'm gonna get closer with God
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Listen listen listen listen this is the gram this Instagram is absolutely haram
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I haven't changed right now, but I'm on the journey to I am actually
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Becoming more modest and more religious, but it's a journey
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Okay, wait, what is it? If I grew up back home in Somalia
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And then your honor the evidence I'd like to present to the court is uh picture number five from the top
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Why are you showing your backside to the world?
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Do you see how your gut reaction isn't to listen?