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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between a bad boy and a good boy when it comes to a woman s needs and wants in a relationship. We also talk about the value of a woman who is willing to wait a long amount of time for a man to give her a chance.
Transcript
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So a sense of maturity if the woman actually knows what she wants
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and we like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state.
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As once you've matured and you know what you like
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and knows himself and knows how he looks after a woman
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is so attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself
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She holds herself back a lot and I have huge respect for this girl.
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Because you said you've dated cheaters in the past, right?
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And so the way men will see it is the younger you are,
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If you're 50 and you're 20, you're more valuable to men at 20, right?
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When it comes to looks, like what they're attracted to.
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and you have the lowest body count, you choose the bad boys.
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You're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice guys.
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And it's kind of like, okay, imagine if you found out,
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if you're dating a guy and you found out for their anniversary,
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his ex-girlfriend, he spent a ton of money on it,
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And the most he's ever done for you is taking you to Taco Bell.
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But that's how men feel when they find out you slept with Tom, Dick,
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and Harry after one night, but you made him wait a month or a week.
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So they see it as, oh, when you were younger, fitter, like hotter,
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And now it's like to them now, and like they, and it seems like,
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and I genuinely believe those are the guys that women really want.
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But once you realize you can't tame them, then you go to the nice guys.
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I don't know how to feel about that analogy, you know?
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No, what she's basically saying is, all right, imagine I'm dating her.
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And I take it to a five-star hotel, five-star dining.
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And then when I take you to Taco Bell, what would you think you're worth
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when you've seen me take a woman and treat her right?
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But you've seen me take women, whether you don't know who we're dating or not.
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So how do you think a man would feel when he knows that you've given up in a day or two
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and then you're sitting here demanding like, oh, you got to do all this.
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The sad reality is, yeah, the girls that will give it to a guy in an instant,
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it's not the same thing as like if they'll give it to a guy that waits for like three months,
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She'll give it to him quicker than a low value guy.
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Because in her instinct, it makes more sense to give it to him quicker.
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Like women sleep with the men like we like more quicker.
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It's like when for the bad guy, you sleep with him quick and you make the nice guy wait.
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But the issue, and that's why I'm like, I don't know if I would encourage women to go
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for bad boys because it's like, what are your odds of actually getting one?
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At the end of the day, they're more protective.
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They tend to have money because they're aggressive.
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He's going to love you for the rest of his life.
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When, like, let's say I'm imagining myself having kids with my girl.
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So what if I just fucking scared, like, just, like, whatever?
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A guy that you're having kids with, a family with.
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You're his wife, but he has girls from time to time.
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Whether it's physically or mentally, it could be, like.
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To be honest, we've got too much choice in the world.
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The privilege is invisible to those that have it.
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You've got to understand that your value is extremely more than a girl that's six or seven.
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So the type of men that you're going to entertain is going to be a different type of level.
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You're going to get a lot more, like, chasing than the average man.
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Think about the time he was most in love with a guy.
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Do you think he had, like, he was higher value than the guys that he didn't fall in love with?
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Like, more money, more protection, more respect from other people, higher status.
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Like, you was in love with him more than the other guys that you was in love with?
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No, you don't think about the money or anything.
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If you're fully in love with that guy, that's all that matters.
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Yeah, but what makes you, like, in love with him?
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Do you find that a guy that's more high value, you love him more than a guy that's some dickhead,
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Do you think you love that guy more or the guy that's some broke boy that doesn't offer anything to your life?
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I think women fall in love with, like, words and how you're treated.
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So let's say, let's say, let's say, let's say some homeless guy, peasant, yeah, who charmed you with his words, yeah?
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But you've got to be physically attracted to him as well.
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Let's say, let's say, let's say he spoke his words to you, yeah?
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He's like, my baby, Ashton, you're so beautiful.
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Would that fucking make you fall in love with him?
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I wouldn't fall in love with just one conversation anyway.
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Because any guy at the start, they'll tell you what you want to hear, they'll pick themselves
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You're telling me, so a homeless guy that stays consistent in telling you, my baby, I love
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And if he's consistent, you're going to fall for it.
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And there's some crackheads down the street I can introduce.
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You can have Romeo spitting the most beautiful poetry you've ever heard to you every single
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day, showing up on time to dates, giving you gifts.
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If that man doesn't have something outside of words, you will not give him the time of
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Like, that is, if you had a daughter, you would not tell her to date a guy that's completely
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I think this whole ambition, but what is the ambition?
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Like, that's what you mean, because he only has so much time.
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Like, when we say ambition, that's all it means.
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Now, I'm not saying that women, like, we all need to date a guy that makes like a shit ton
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of money, but like, it's like, to say we can't gold dig a little bit.
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It's just like, we don't want to get this broke.
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If a rich man wants to take me out and love me and marry me, yeah.
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And the thing is, I don't even think it's about this money, bro.
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Whether, like, you obviously got to have some sort of money.
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Like, because you can't just be broke and have ambitions and you just don't, you know
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You're just a bit lost and you don't know yourself clearly.
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But, like, if you have drive, I will be ambitious with you and I'll make sure you get to that
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Because a man can have ambition and do nothing.
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If you do nothing, then you're just giving me words.
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As like, let's just say, oh, I want to do this and that.
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And I'm making action and I'm trying to make it happen.
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So ambition is sort of a temporary acceptance for you.
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I'll accept ambition as long as it leads somewhere.
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But if I'm in with you for six months to a year and you haven't transformed this into
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Some men just aren't destined to do anything with their lives.
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And I ask for the question of the respect, the lack of respect for a man.
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If you want something bad enough, you'll go get it.