JustPearlyThings - July 11, 2023


Modern Woman Makes This Confession Live On The Show

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Courtney Ashton Harry Dick
Woman EXPOSES Her Gold Digging Tendencies Pearl SCHOOLED Her With A Red Pill TRUTH

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10 minutes

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2,221

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268

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Misogyny

11

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Toxicity

31

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between a bad boy and a good boy when it comes to a woman s needs and wants in a relationship. We also talk about the value of a woman who is willing to wait a long amount of time for a man to give her a chance.

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00:00:00.000 So a sense of maturity if the woman actually knows what she wants 1.00
00:00:04.460 and she's matured in her mind.
00:00:07.600 A lot of us girls are delusional and immature
00:00:09.540 and we like to go for bad boys because we're in our immature state.
00:00:15.000 That's a fact.
00:00:16.440 As once you've matured and you know what you like
00:00:19.760 and you value within yourself.
00:00:24.400 I don't know if I'm explaining this correctly.
00:00:26.240 You're doing good.
00:00:27.100 Yeah.
00:00:27.860 You're good.
00:00:28.240 I personally don't like bad boys anymore
00:00:32.520 and I think I was in an immature era.
00:00:35.480 Yes, you did.
00:00:37.520 You're telling me right now, yeah?
00:00:39.840 You have a go for a guy that's not a bad boy.
00:00:41.900 Right now, a guy with ambition and drive
00:00:47.400 and knows himself and knows how he looks after a woman
00:00:50.740 is so attractive than a bad boy that doesn't know himself
00:00:54.840 and only disrespect a woman. 0.91
00:00:57.600 Who do you sleep with faster? 1.00
00:01:02.320 What do you mean?
00:01:03.080 Who do you sleep with faster? 1.00
00:01:04.320 That's a good point.
00:01:05.160 That's a very good point.
00:01:06.260 The bad boy or the good guy?
00:01:08.500 Courtney's very different though.
00:01:09.920 She holds herself back a lot and I have huge respect for this girl.
00:01:13.480 Okay, but could you answer the quote?
00:01:17.960 Because you said you've dated cheaters in the past, right?
00:01:21.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:01:22.820 And so the way men will see it is the younger you are,
00:01:26.000 the higher value you have as a woman, right? 1.00
00:01:29.760 You know the sense of love.
00:01:31.300 If you're 50 and you're 20, you're more valuable to men at 20, right?
00:01:34.320 When it comes to looks, like what they're attracted to.
00:01:36.360 So it's like when you have the most to give
00:01:39.180 and you have the lowest body count, you choose the bad boys.
00:01:41.940 You're kind of seen as like leftover to the nice guys.
00:01:45.100 And it's kind of like, okay, imagine if you found out,
00:01:49.180 if you're dating a guy and you found out for their anniversary,
00:01:52.480 his ex-girlfriend, he spent a ton of money on it,
00:01:54.820 took her on trips, did all this stuff.
00:01:56.600 And the most he's ever done for you is taking you to Taco Bell.
00:01:59.760 You'd be pissed, right?
00:02:00.640 A hundred percent.
00:02:01.380 But that's how men feel when they find out you slept with Tom, Dick,
00:02:05.180 and Harry after one night, but you made him wait a month or a week.
00:02:08.880 That just shows that you're different, right?
00:02:10.600 No.
00:02:11.180 Okay, but what if he said that to you?
00:02:14.780 Like, oh, it shows you're different.
00:02:15.980 I took you to Taco Bell. 1.00
00:02:18.480 You're a prick. 1.00
00:02:19.860 But that's how guys see it. 1.00
00:02:22.480 So they see it as, oh, when you were younger, fitter, like hotter,
00:02:26.320 you gave your best years to the bad boys.
00:02:28.920 And now it's like to them now, and like they, and it seems like,
00:02:33.420 and I genuinely believe those are the guys that women really want.
00:02:36.180 But once you realize you can't tame them, then you go to the nice guys.
00:02:39.000 I don't know how to feel about that analogy, you know?
00:02:41.400 What do you, what do you not feel about it?
00:02:44.100 I don't know.
00:02:45.100 Like the Taco Bell thing.
00:02:47.920 No, what she's basically saying is, all right, imagine I'm dating her.
00:02:53.880 Layla.
00:02:54.460 Layla.
00:02:55.320 And I take it to a five-star hotel, five-star dining.
00:03:02.240 And you've seen this.
00:03:03.220 You've seen this on my stories.
00:03:04.300 I post it.
00:03:04.820 We break up, whatever.
00:03:05.860 And then when I take you to Taco Bell, what would you think you're worth
00:03:10.360 when you've seen me take a woman and treat her right? 1.00
00:03:13.780 You understand?
00:03:14.560 Are you dating?
00:03:16.240 We're just, we're just.
00:03:17.300 Maybe, maybe not.
00:03:17.720 It doesn't matter what you've seen.
00:03:19.580 Okay.
00:03:19.980 But you've seen me take women, whether you don't know who we're dating or not. 0.95
00:03:23.260 Yeah, I'd be pissed.
00:03:24.420 Exactly.
00:03:24.880 So how do you think a man would feel when he knows that you've given up in a day or two
00:03:29.060 and then you're sitting here demanding like, oh, you got to do all this.
00:03:31.180 You got to jump through this loophole.
00:03:32.540 You got to take me on this amount of dates.
00:03:34.380 You got to wait this amount of months.
00:03:36.160 What are you talking about?
00:03:37.200 The sad reality is, yeah, the girls that will give it to a guy in an instant,
00:03:41.620 it's not the same thing as like if they'll give it to a guy that waits for like three months,
00:03:46.980 four months, you know what I'm saying?
00:03:48.640 It depends on his value.
00:03:49.280 A guy's not going to wait three, four months.
00:03:50.520 It depends on his value, bro.
00:03:51.500 Listen, it depends on his value.
00:03:53.180 Let's say he's a proper valuable guy.
00:03:55.120 Yeah?
00:03:55.480 She'll give it to him quicker than a low value guy.
00:03:57.840 Do you understand?
00:03:58.660 Because in her instinct, it makes more sense to give it to him quicker.
00:04:02.360 Do you understand?
00:04:03.400 For a low value or high value?
00:04:05.020 Huh?
00:04:05.560 You said for a low value or high value?
00:04:07.300 That's true.
00:04:07.880 I agree with you.
00:04:09.220 Like women sleep with the men like we like more quicker. 1.00
00:04:11.880 But that's the whole point we're making.
00:04:13.760 It's like when for the bad guy, you sleep with him quick and you make the nice guy wait.
00:04:18.840 Attractive and arousal.
00:04:19.640 But the issue, and that's why I'm like, I don't know if I would encourage women to go 1.00
00:04:22.780 for bad boys because it's like, what are your odds of actually getting one?
00:04:27.440 At the end of the day, they're more protective.
00:04:29.280 They'll protect them more.
00:04:30.760 They'll look after them more.
00:04:31.860 They tend to have money because they're aggressive.
00:04:33.620 They're aggressive in life.
00:04:34.740 They know what they want, so they get money.
00:04:36.800 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:04:37.140 That comes with getting bitches easier. 1.00
00:04:39.580 There's nothing to do about it. 0.99
00:04:41.040 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:42.060 Cool. 1.00
00:04:42.400 Except the fact that they're as bitches. 1.00
00:04:43.660 He's going to love you for the rest of his life. 1.00
00:04:45.500 He's going to have kids with you.
00:04:46.380 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:46.780 It's a beautiful thing.
00:04:47.860 It makes me smile.
00:04:49.080 When, like, let's say I'm imagining myself having kids with my girl.
00:04:51.960 Oh, it's very cute.
00:04:53.140 That's so good. 0.80
00:04:53.840 So what if I just fucking scared, like, just, like, whatever? 0.89
00:04:56.720 You know what I'm saying? 0.64
00:04:57.420 Could you guys deal with that?
00:04:59.320 A guy that you're having kids with, a family with.
00:05:02.640 You're his wife, but he has girls from time to time.
00:05:05.620 I think men cheating is the new norm.
00:05:09.860 As sad as it is.
00:05:10.880 Yeah.
00:05:11.380 I really do, like, dislike.
00:05:14.220 I don't agree with it at all.
00:05:16.820 But I think all men do it, to be honest.
00:05:20.400 Whether it's physically or mentally, it could be, like.
00:05:22.640 All men? 0.95
00:05:24.020 To be honest, we've got too much choice in the world. 1.00
00:05:26.520 All men or just the men that you fuck with? 1.00
00:05:29.580 I've got too much choice, bro. 1.00
00:05:31.400 Majority of the men.
00:05:32.780 I have not spoken to one.
00:05:35.060 You've got to understand.
00:05:36.080 The privilege is invisible to those that have it.
00:05:38.480 So you've got to understand.
00:05:39.280 Your beauty is extremely valuable.
00:05:42.140 Yes.
00:05:42.320 So let's say you're.
00:05:43.680 I'm not judging you.
00:05:44.500 I'm just saying.
00:05:45.040 Just exaggerating.
00:05:46.480 Say you're eight or a nine.
00:05:47.780 You're a beautiful woman.
00:05:48.700 Yeah.
00:05:48.900 You've got to understand that your value is extremely more than a girl that's six or seven.
00:05:53.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:54.920 So the type of men that you're going to entertain is going to be a different type of level.
00:06:00.240 You're going to get a lot more attention.
00:06:01.800 You're going to get a lot more interest.
00:06:03.080 You're going to get a lot more, like, chasing than the average man.
00:06:05.860 All right, guys.
00:06:06.360 Think about this, yeah.
00:06:07.000 Think about this.
00:06:07.900 Cool.
00:06:08.600 Think about the time he was most in love with a guy.
00:06:10.700 The most, yeah?
00:06:11.800 The most.
00:06:12.640 Do you think he had, like, he was higher value than the guys that he didn't fall in love with?
00:06:16.200 Like, more money, more protection, more respect from other people, higher status.
00:06:21.640 Did you feel like that?
00:06:22.360 Like, you was in love with him more than the other guys that you was in love with?
00:06:25.800 No, you don't think about the money or anything.
00:06:28.320 If you're fully in love with that guy, that's all that matters.
00:06:31.700 Yeah, but what makes you, like, in love with him? 0.98
00:06:33.660 Do you find that a guy that's more high value, you love him more than a guy that's some dickhead, 0.99
00:06:39.780 broke boy, puss-yo? 0.99
00:06:41.640 Someone who's got stability.
00:06:43.560 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:06:44.140 Yeah.
00:06:44.340 Do you think you love that guy more or the guy that's some broke boy that doesn't offer anything to your life?
00:06:48.080 I think it depends how they treat you.
00:06:49.420 I think women fall in love with, like, words and how you're treated. 1.00
00:06:52.440 All right, cool.
00:06:52.700 So let's say, let's say, let's say, let's say some homeless guy, peasant, yeah, who charmed you with his words, yeah?
00:06:59.400 He's like, oh, my baby, you're so beautiful.
00:07:00.940 But you've got to be physically attracted to him as well.
00:07:03.120 Cool, he had muscles. 0.99
00:07:03.920 He had these push-ups in his fucking street. 0.99
00:07:05.560 Okay. 1.00
00:07:06.540 Yeah?
00:07:06.860 Let's say, let's say, let's say he spoke his words to you, yeah?
00:07:09.740 Yeah.
00:07:09.920 He's like, my baby, Ashton, you're so beautiful. 1.00
00:07:12.660 Why the fuck you look beautiful? 1.00
00:07:13.940 Do you know what I'm saying? 1.00
00:07:14.920 Like, oh, my days, I can't stand you.
00:07:17.420 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:07:18.220 Yeah. 1.00
00:07:18.740 Would that fucking make you fall in love with him? 1.00
00:07:21.100 Well, no. 1.00
00:07:21.900 I wouldn't fall in love with just one conversation anyway.
00:07:25.300 It's the consistency of it.
00:07:28.560 Consistency.
00:07:28.960 Because any guy at the start, they'll tell you what you want to hear, they'll pick themselves
00:07:33.640 up, they'll do all of this.
00:07:34.620 So you're telling me.
00:07:35.280 Or the game here.
00:07:36.060 You're telling me, cool.
00:07:36.760 Exactly.
00:07:37.280 They'll love on you.
00:07:38.400 You're telling me, so a homeless guy that stays consistent in telling you, my baby, I love
00:07:43.680 you.
00:07:44.540 And if he's consistent, you're going to fall for it.
00:07:46.900 But he's homeless.
00:07:47.220 But he's homeless.
00:07:47.820 Be realistic, girls.
00:07:48.840 But he's homeless.
00:07:49.680 Build with him.
00:07:50.840 Oh, my days, bro.
00:07:51.980 Oh, girl, come on. 1.00
00:07:53.640 Where are you going to build with him?
00:07:54.700 I need to know homeless, man.
00:07:56.240 I'll be like, get out.
00:07:57.460 And there's some crackheads down the street I can introduce.
00:08:02.060 No, I'm serious.
00:08:03.380 I was like, there's a homeless something.
00:08:04.180 I'll give you a bit of money.
00:08:05.280 You can do what you want with it.
00:08:06.420 You can have Romeo spitting the most beautiful poetry you've ever heard to you every single
00:08:10.520 day, showing up on time to dates, giving you gifts.
00:08:14.420 Right, yeah.
00:08:14.900 If that man doesn't have something outside of words, you will not give him the time of
00:08:18.800 day.
00:08:19.540 You will dry up.
00:08:20.740 And let's just be honest.
00:08:21.920 I hope you don't.
00:08:24.500 Like, come on.
00:08:25.080 We should not be dating broke, man.
00:08:26.620 Like, that is, if you had a daughter, you would not tell her to date a guy that's completely
00:08:30.860 broke.
00:08:31.400 I think this whole ambition, but what is the ambition?
00:08:35.680 It's money later.
00:08:36.640 Like, that's what you mean, because he only has so much time.
00:08:39.120 Like, when we say ambition, that's all it means.
00:08:40.560 You have to make money eventually.
00:08:41.840 You're going to do something eventually. 0.99
00:08:42.980 Now, I'm not saying that women, like, we all need to date a guy that makes like a shit ton
00:08:47.220 of money, but like, it's like, to say we can't gold dig a little bit.
00:08:51.780 It's just like, we don't want to get this broke.
00:08:53.420 If a rich man wants to take me out and love me and marry me, yeah.
00:08:58.040 Baby, I'm here.
00:08:59.180 You know?
00:08:59.760 And the thing is, I don't even think it's about this money, bro.
00:09:01.780 I don't think it's about money.
00:09:03.580 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:03.940 Listen.
00:09:04.380 Go on.
00:09:04.760 Go on.
00:09:05.060 This is what I'm saying.
00:09:06.020 Like, I like a man with ambition.
00:09:08.560 Whether, like, you obviously got to have some sort of money.
00:09:11.100 Do you know what I mean?
00:09:11.540 Like, because you can't just be broke and have ambitions and you just don't, you know
00:09:16.200 what I mean?
00:09:16.500 You're just a bit lost and you don't know yourself clearly.
00:09:18.940 But, like, if you have drive, I will be ambitious with you and I'll make sure you get to that
00:09:24.920 place.
00:09:25.500 But how long does that last?
00:09:27.400 Because a man can have ambition and do nothing.
00:09:29.620 That's what I'm saying.
00:09:30.440 If you do nothing, then you're just giving me words. 0.99
00:09:33.380 You're not actually showing me shit. 0.99
00:09:35.660 As like, let's just say, oh, I want to do this and that. 0.99
00:09:38.680 And I'm making action and I'm trying to make it happen.
00:09:42.840 So the man still has to perform.
00:09:44.700 So ambition is sort of a temporary acceptance for you.
00:09:49.900 I'll accept ambition as long as it leads somewhere.
00:09:53.100 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:53.460 But if I'm in with you for six months to a year and you haven't transformed this into
00:09:58.100 something else, then I'm going to leave you.
00:09:59.640 So, again, men...
00:10:00.280 Just not working hard enough.
00:10:01.600 That's not about working hard enough.
00:10:02.600 Some men just aren't destined to do anything with their lives.
00:10:05.100 That's the average man.
00:10:07.900 And that's what this podcast talks about.
00:10:10.280 The acceptance of the average man.
00:10:12.240 And I ask for the question of the respect, the lack of respect for a man.
00:10:16.680 If you want something bad enough, you'll go get it.