JustPearlyThings - May 07, 2023


Modern Woman Pulls The Gender Card On Sneako


Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

232.85675

Word count

2,291

Sentence count

4

Harmful content

Misogyny

12

sentences flagged

Hate speech

21

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss racism in the black community and how it affects the way we navigate the world in order to justify our opinions and beliefs. We also discuss the value of motherhood and the role of black women in raising children.

Transcript

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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 It's given that you guys hate women. That's that's the vibes right now
00:00:09.720 We have to do one at a time stop
00:00:12.720 Can I say something? It's not a thing where they hate women if anything they love women for a mind to tell you to think positively
00:00:18.720 How was that hatred the people are literally telling us that what we think is what's going to manifest?
00:00:23.520 So therefore think positive thoughts and positive things will happen to you you guys on this table who are talking about feminists 0.96
00:00:29.280 You're all negative because why would you focus so much on comments?
00:00:32.480 Why would you focus so much on who's looking at your hairstyle your accent or whatever?
00:00:35.920 And then someone comes to tell you actually focus on the positive and you guys are saying they hate, you know
00:00:40.660 Be funny, but you can't focus on it
00:00:42.280 Just the other day a man
00:00:44.640 Applied for a job and they told him he can't get the job because of his afro
00:00:47.520 So you can't tell us to not focus on it when it is the focus
00:00:49.920 Yeah, but he could get a job and watch the news it literally happened the other day
00:00:53.320 Yeah, but that's his experience, but if he was smart. He's not gonna let that hold him back
00:00:57.320 That's the whole point
00:00:59.320 That's why he went on the news and he spoke up about it
00:01:01.320 But you can't tell us to not focus on it when if I walk into a certain place of my afro
00:01:05.320 The first thing people are gonna do is stare at me and certain places won't want to give me the job just because I have an afro
00:01:09.320 Yeah, but that's your mindset
00:01:11.320 You can't tell me to my mindset if they have told me I am not giving you the job because of my afro
00:01:15.320 Do you know why? Then go to another job
00:01:17.320 My point is that should have happened point blank period
00:01:19.320 That is my point
00:01:21.320 Okay, okay, okay
00:01:23.320 Guys guys guys guys guys guys wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait stop wait thank you
00:01:35.320 Do you know why you saw that in the news?
00:01:37.320 Because they want you to believe that racism is a real problem
00:01:39.320 It wasn't even on the news so you're lying
00:01:41.320 She just said that it was in the news
00:01:43.320 It went viral on Twitter
00:01:45.320 Let's fact check though
00:01:47.320 I said it was on the news
00:01:49.320 No, but you're saying why you saw it on the news
00:01:51.320 Yeah, that's why I saw it so you're adding to it
00:01:53.320 They share these stories like George Floyd
00:01:55.320 And like that afro nonsense that you saw on the news 1.00
00:01:57.320 In order for you to believe that there's a system that's holding you back. It's not
00:02:01.320 And you saw here we're talking about race
00:02:03.320 So the man went online and was like I didn't get the job sat there and didn't have it at this point
00:02:07.320 They pick and chose to run that story because it gives people like you a reason to feel
00:02:11.320 Not people like me
00:02:13.320 Exactly people like you
00:02:15.320 They used to want to give my mom free food in the market 1.00
00:02:17.320 Because they didn't believe that white woman could have three little kids with afros
00:02:21.320 They used to give her food because they used to think that were little African children that suffer
00:02:25.320 These times we were quite wealthy
00:02:27.320 So for example
00:02:29.320 Okay, my overall point is that people like to have a victim mindset
00:02:31.320 It's not a victimization, I'm just saying it exists
00:02:33.320 Okay, that's it
00:02:35.320 That's my point is that we hear this victimized mindset right now
00:02:37.320 In order to give you a way to navigate the world that justifies a lot of your thoughts and beliefs
00:02:41.320 We're talking about race and you're like it's giving misogyny
00:02:45.320 It is
00:02:47.320 What is calling out the victimization of the race
00:02:51.320 I feel the vibration
00:02:53.320 You feel the vibrations of misogyny
00:02:55.320 Of your mentality
00:02:57.320 Your mentality is one of
00:02:59.320 You're a type of man
00:03:01.320 So they're just here trying to make you look stupid
00:03:03.320 That's what their job is
00:03:04.320 It's not that hard
00:03:05.320 It's not that fucking hard
00:03:07.320 So don't take it personal
00:03:08.320 They literally just want to catch you out
00:03:10.320 I'm asking you
00:03:11.320 I'm trying to get to what she really believes
00:03:13.320 King Richard trains me for this
00:03:14.320 Alright, what are the vibrations that I'm giving you that
00:03:17.320 Just give them misogynist
00:03:18.320 Why?
00:03:19.320 What did we say?
00:03:20.320 I'm not being funny
00:03:21.320 What value do you see?
00:03:23.320 How do you value women?
00:03:25.320 Do you see the value of women? 1.00
00:03:26.320 Are you for or against feminism?
00:03:27.320 I explained it five minutes ago
00:03:28.320 You didn't
00:03:29.320 I'm against feminism and I said that 0.99
00:03:31.320 Yeah, but if you're gonna call him a misogynist
00:03:33.320 She asked me a question
00:03:34.320 I'm finished
00:03:35.320 I said the value of a woman is motherhood 0.94
00:03:36.320 Is in raising children
00:03:37.320 I said that we respect mothers
00:03:39.320 I opened the show by saying that
00:03:40.320 Okay, go on
00:03:41.320 So what did I say that makes you think that I'm a misogynist?
00:03:43.320 That's a serious allegation
00:03:44.320 I said it's giving misogynism
00:03:46.320 What is giving misogynist?
00:03:48.320 Your vibration
00:03:49.320 My vibrations?
00:03:50.320 Yeah, the vibes
00:03:51.320 You're vibrating misogyny right now?
00:03:52.320 The vibes, no
00:03:53.320 So are you vibrating with racism too?
00:03:54.320 No, you're moving a little bit mean though
00:03:55.320 What goes on?
00:03:56.320 We're moving a little bit mean, that's why
00:03:58.320 I'm moving me
00:03:59.320 A little bit
00:04:00.320 No, you're trying to put your masculinity into
00:04:02.320 Yeah, you become a bit aggressive
00:04:03.320 Insertive and I don't like that
00:04:04.320 That's a bit misogynist
00:04:05.320 It becomes a bit aggressive, right?
00:04:06.320 Yeah, it is
00:04:07.320 It's the masculinity
00:04:08.320 I can feel it
00:04:09.320 And it's like you're trying to suppress my feminine
00:04:11.320 It's not
00:04:12.320 No, he's not
00:04:13.320 He needs to be a bit more specific
00:04:15.320 He's trying to suppress your dickhead 0.99
00:04:17.320 Like, come on bro
00:04:19.320 Y'all look, y'all are all smart, pretty young women
00:04:22.320 You can do anything you want to in this fucking world
00:04:24.320 That's fine
00:04:25.320 And my message is this, Oprah
00:04:26.320 Listen
00:04:27.320 Fucking
00:04:28.320 Here's the thing
00:04:29.320 I'm not
00:04:30.320 And you swear a lot
00:04:31.320 I do, a lot
00:04:32.320 I'm sorry
00:04:33.320 I do, I know
00:04:34.320 I do, I'm gonna keep doing that
00:04:35.320 So, here's the thing
00:04:37.320 I just, there's no planet where I'm gonna allow
00:04:39.320 Particularly a young black man to think 1.00
00:04:41.320 That he can't go out
00:04:42.320 What about a young white man?
00:04:43.320 Young white man?
00:04:44.320 Yeah, go on
00:04:45.320 No, basically sister, don't worry
00:04:46.320 Because they're
00:04:47.320 No, no, no
00:04:48.320 No, it's because
00:04:49.320 They're just saying that
00:04:50.320 White and black, we didn't see 1.00
00:04:51.320 No, because we're talking about race particularly
00:04:53.320 Right now
00:04:54.320 And I, like
00:04:55.320 No planet
00:04:57.320 Do I want to ever put out into the universe
00:05:00.320 Or allowed to be put out in the universe
00:05:02.320 That a young black man is going to not be able to be successful 1.00
00:05:04.320 In his life
00:05:05.320 Because of his skin colour 1.00
00:05:06.320 There's no chance
00:05:08.320 And I will sit here
00:05:09.320 And you can call me whatever you want
00:05:11.320 But I just know too many of them
00:05:13.320 And I know too many that have been successful
00:05:14.320 Yeah, but you're one of a few
00:05:16.320 You're not
00:05:17.320 But you have to understand
00:05:18.320 How many people watch his show
00:05:19.320 And how many people watch his channel
00:05:21.320 It's important
00:05:22.320 No, you're not
00:05:23.320 Can I challenge you guys?
00:05:24.320 I understand that
00:05:25.320 But in general
00:05:26.320 It does, it doesn't stop you
00:05:27.320 But it does make a little challenge
00:05:28.320 A bit harder in the world
00:05:30.320 Just a little bit
00:05:31.320 Can I?
00:05:32.320 He's like
00:05:33.320 One of the first white men that I've met
00:05:35.320 Who have this mentality
00:05:36.320 Maybe it's
00:05:37.320 No, not one of the first
00:05:38.320 You know what I honestly
00:05:39.320 I think most white men
00:05:40.320 True to my experience
00:05:41.320 True to my experience
00:05:42.320 No, not most white men
00:05:43.320 True to my experience
00:05:44.320 Prejudice exists
00:05:45.320 Maybe not racism
00:05:46.320 Let's adjust the word
00:05:47.320 Not racism
00:05:48.320 Prejudice is something different
00:05:49.320 I do
00:05:50.320 I believe that
00:05:51.320 All over the world
00:05:52.320 There you go then
00:05:53.320 In addition
00:05:54.320 I was just a little bit strong
00:05:55.320 And a bit more negative
00:05:56.320 And a bit lowly
00:05:57.320 Sure
00:05:58.320 And in countries like Japan
00:05:59.320 That are very, you know
00:06:00.320 Homogenous 1.00
00:06:01.320 Homogenous 1.00
00:06:02.320 They won't even let you in the restaurant
00:06:04.320 Unless you're Japanese 1.00
00:06:05.320 Like
00:06:06.320 You guys
00:06:07.320 You think you've seen racism
00:06:08.320 Bro
00:06:09.320 There's some places in this world
00:06:10.320 I've been that are
00:06:11.320 Turbo racist 0.99
00:06:13.320 Outwardly
00:06:14.320 And get away with it
00:06:15.320 I think a black person today
00:06:17.320 Has a better chance
00:06:18.320 Than they've ever had
00:06:19.320 Is it completely fair?
00:06:20.320 No, I don't think so
00:06:21.320 But I don't think life is completely fair
00:06:23.320 At all
00:06:24.320 And there's no way
00:06:25.320 I'm gonna let somebody
00:06:26.320 Mentally handicap themselves 1.00
00:06:27.320 From the jump
00:06:28.320 You know
00:06:29.320 Don't assume that about me
00:06:30.320 I don't think it's an impairment to me
00:06:32.320 I know it made me
00:06:33.320 It made me a bit stronger
00:06:34.320 But I know it exists
00:06:35.320 And it actually was an obstacle
00:06:36.320 Then for you it's a super power
00:06:37.320 Yeah
00:06:38.320 That's it
00:06:39.320 I just want to reframe it
00:06:40.320 Thank you
00:06:41.320 And have a different relationship with it
00:06:42.320 But for me
00:06:43.320 Being a black independent woman
00:06:44.320 Is a super woman 0.99
00:06:45.320 Because she led with it
00:06:46.320 I'm leading with my super power
00:06:47.320 What do you want me to do?
00:06:48.320 Yeah, as she said
00:06:49.320 I agree with that
00:06:50.320 Yeah, but it didn't sound like a super power then did it?
00:06:51.320 No, because you didn't allow me to finish
00:06:52.320 You start saying
00:06:53.320 You're leading with that
00:06:54.320 What does that have to do?
00:06:55.320 You became challenging
00:06:56.320 And this is the problem
00:06:57.320 This is why she said
00:06:58.320 You guys are feeling a little bit like misogyny
00:06:59.320 But that's not what she means
00:07:00.320 No, no
00:07:01.320 You're gonna be very aggressive
00:07:02.320 And very challenging
00:07:03.320 They're just talking
00:07:04.320 They're just talking with passion
00:07:05.320 Because it's important
00:07:06.320 It's important
00:07:07.320 It's important
00:07:08.320 Because
00:07:09.320 You have to go out into the world
00:07:10.320 With the absolute mindset
00:07:11.320 That regardless of your circumstances
00:07:13.320 Regardless of your background
00:07:14.320 Or your racial ethnicity
00:07:16.320 Or anything
00:07:17.320 That you can go out
00:07:18.320 And you can make a success of your life
00:07:19.320 That's it
00:07:20.320 We all have to do that 100%
00:07:21.320 And that's why they're getting so passionate about it
00:07:22.320 You know what real love
00:07:23.320 Because it's really important
00:07:24.320 Exactly
00:07:25.320 No, he's dead on
00:07:26.320 You know what real love looks like?
00:07:28.320 In my opinion
00:07:29.320 Real love is dark
00:07:30.320 And real love takes risks
00:07:31.320 So let's say you're fucking up
00:07:33.320 Let's just say it was racism
00:07:35.320 I'm willing to step in front of you
00:07:37.320 And have you be angry with me
00:07:38.320 So I can somehow change
00:07:40.320 Where you're fucking up
00:07:41.320 And you can be mad at me if you want
00:07:42.320 Because most people
00:07:43.320 People that don't give a shit about you
00:07:44.320 Will let you leave
00:07:45.320 And be like
00:07:46.320 That bitch is fucking up 1.00
00:07:47.320 I would much rather
00:07:48.320 Get into a heated argument with you
00:07:49.320 And have the courage to sit in front of you
00:07:51.320 And tell you my truth
00:07:52.320 And have the thought of somebody
00:07:53.320 Thinking that I'm racist on the internet
00:07:55.320 I'd rather do that
00:07:56.320 Than let the young men that follow me 0.83
00:07:58.320 Believe they don't have a shot
00:07:59.320 I'd much rather sit in that
00:08:01.320 And to me
00:08:02.320 That's the only kind of friends I want
00:08:04.320 It's people that are gonna tell me the truth
00:08:05.320 And when I'm fucking up
00:08:06.320 So you get mad at me
00:08:07.320 But I just hate to see it led that way
00:08:09.320 I'd much rather hear about the skills you have
00:08:11.320 And I'm with you Pearl
00:08:13.320 I'll triple the 200
00:08:14.320 And then are you gonna say well done to my skills?
00:08:15.320 Or are you gonna say
00:08:16.320 Go be in the kitchen?
00:08:17.320 Fuck yeah
00:08:18.320 Fuck yeah
00:08:19.320 No
00:08:20.320 You know how much
00:08:21.320 You know how much women privilege you have? 1.00
00:08:22.320 You just got offered a thousand dollars
00:08:23.320 To see if you could fix a car
00:08:25.320 I know
00:08:26.320 And that's what I'm saying
00:08:27.320 It's a superpower
00:08:28.320 Should I take it black
00:08:29.320 Cause you're a black girl 1.00
00:08:30.320 No, no, don't take it back
00:08:31.320 I'm a hustler
00:08:32.320 Actually do you hear the black privilege too
00:08:34.320 I peeped a little bit earlier
00:08:35.320 Black people
00:08:36.320 And minorities in general
00:08:37.320 Have more freedom of speech
00:08:38.320 Than white people 0.54
00:08:39.320 Because you just said that
00:08:40.320 In my experience
00:08:41.320 White people 0.90
00:08:42.320 Aren't like this
00:08:43.320 And he's the first white guy
00:08:44.320 You've ever seen
00:08:45.320 Act that way
00:08:46.320 You're able to say
00:08:47.320 That's pattern recognition
00:08:48.320 If we
00:08:49.320 If a white person
00:08:50.320 Said the same thing
00:08:51.320 That would be seen as racist
00:08:52.320 You can't make judgments
00:08:53.320 About other minorities like that 1.00
00:08:55.320 White people have the least amount 1.00
00:08:56.320 Of freedom of speech right now
00:08:57.320 Because immediately
00:08:58.320 And especially
00:08:59.320 Right now you call it
00:09:00.320 Saying that you're vibrating
00:09:01.320 With misogyny
00:09:02.320 Because I'm speaking aggressively
00:09:03.320 Towards you
00:09:04.320 That victim mentality
00:09:05.320 Gives you a lot more free speech
00:09:06.320 Than you're really aware of
00:09:07.320 Well if I say something
00:09:08.320 That upsets you
00:09:09.320 It's misogynistic
00:09:10.320 You see patterns
00:09:11.320 In different races
00:09:12.320 That's just seen as your
00:09:13.320 Your world view
00:09:15.320 If he said the same thing
00:09:16.320 Oh you're the first black girl 0.99
00:09:17.320 That talked that way
00:09:18.320 In my experience
00:09:19.320 You would call him a racist
00:09:20.320 Yeah he makes a good point
00:09:21.320 Because if somebody
00:09:22.320 If one of us guys said
00:09:23.320 Oh this woman over here 1.00
00:09:24.320 She's she's
00:09:25.320 I can feel the vibration
00:09:26.320 Of her toxic femininity 1.00
00:09:27.320 You know we'd just be
00:09:28.320 Like cancelled immediately
00:09:30.320 Not really
00:09:31.320 Nah they would just call us retarded
00:09:32.320 That's just a retarded thing to say 1.00
00:09:34.320 As many of you know
00:09:35.320 I was just banned on TikTok
00:09:37.320 And we are demonetized
00:09:38.320 On a daily basis
00:09:40.320 On this platform
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