JustPearlyThings - June 19, 2023


Modern Woman REVEALS This Fact About Her


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Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

186.58133

Word Count

1,409

Sentence Count

144


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Transcript

00:00:00.000 The people that you guys go on dates with, where do you typically meet them?
00:00:08.680 So you can start.
00:00:10.140 Horditch, I'm in Shoreditch.
00:00:13.280 I went there last night, I understand that reference.
00:00:15.900 I get that reference.
00:00:17.420 My tongue slipped.
00:00:19.280 Yeah, I mean, I guess I'm dating apps, you know, it's kind of like sales, always sourcing.
00:00:24.080 And, you know, I'm in like music and entertainment, so you're just always around people.
00:00:28.220 So, yeah, just from being out, I guess.
00:00:31.520 What would you say is the number one place?
00:00:33.720 Is it dating apps, mutual friends, or Shoreditch?
00:00:39.080 Well, that's a tough question.
00:00:40.960 Well, do you know what?
00:00:41.920 I mean, I think dating apps are pretty long.
00:00:46.420 I would say probably Shoreditch.
00:00:50.200 Wow, I should hang out there more.
00:00:52.620 Well, I mean, to be fair, I live there and I do a lot of work there, so I guess that's why.
00:00:55.860 But, yeah.
00:00:56.760 So, is there a difference in the quality of women you meet through each place?
00:01:00.820 Like, where would you say is the highest quality?
00:01:02.720 Quality in terms of short-term or long-term potential?
00:01:05.640 Long-term potential.
00:01:06.700 Long-term potential, I mean, I would say probably somewhere, like what you said, yeah, more like low-key and relaxed.
00:01:12.920 I think girls who, you know, let's say aren't constantly looking for a lot of attention all the time, I think they tend to be better, like long-term partners.
00:01:22.420 So, just anyway, I don't know, maybe like a library or something.
00:01:25.300 I'm rarely in libraries, you know, but I'm just using my imagination.
00:01:28.700 So, have you ever gotten a date from a library?
00:01:33.480 Actually.
00:01:33.760 You're never there.
00:01:35.420 Actually, you meet some people.
00:01:37.360 I went on a date with a really wholesome girl and she's like, would you like to see this library?
00:01:42.580 And, like, she showed me her book collection and we went to this library.
00:01:45.680 Yeah, she was actually a really, really sweet, beautiful, nice girl.
00:01:48.520 I was surprised.
00:01:49.740 First time in my life.
00:01:50.380 Yeah, I mean, they've been few and far between, but it's happened before.
00:01:54.780 You just said it like you met girls there and I'm like, wait, you just said you don't go there.
00:01:58.140 No, no, I'm just using my imagination.
00:01:59.780 It's actually because a friend of mine said this to me, like, the kind of girl you meet in Shoreditch is different, you know, on a night out to the kind of girl you'd meet, let's say, at a library.
00:02:06.900 Oh, is Shoreditch not a high quality?
00:02:08.740 I mean, I'm not just saying that, like whatever, just being out.
00:02:11.080 I was attacked in Shoreditch once.
00:02:12.400 Oh, yeah, I saw that.
00:02:13.080 Yeah, I was attacked.
00:02:14.260 So, I don't know, the women, I haven't been impressed with Shoreditch women, but that was my sample size.
00:02:21.000 It was like midnight, you know.
00:02:22.780 Yeah, that's fair enough.
00:02:24.040 Okay, what about you?
00:02:26.460 Sorry.
00:02:28.200 Don't worry, you're next.
00:02:29.940 Don't worry, you're coming.
00:02:31.740 Like, places where I've met.
00:02:32.940 Yeah, where do you typically meet?
00:02:34.760 I know you said you have a boyfriend now.
00:02:36.140 Where did you guys meet?
00:02:38.000 In the street.
00:02:39.720 Shortage?
00:02:40.460 No, no, no.
00:02:42.300 He just saw me in the street.
00:02:44.740 Oh, he approached you?
00:02:45.740 Yeah, like, he just approached me and then...
00:02:48.080 And before that, where did you typically meet, guys?
00:02:50.960 Like, where was the biggest...
00:02:51.940 In the street?
00:02:53.660 I'm noticing a pie.
00:02:54.680 Where do you...
00:02:55.720 Where do you...
00:02:56.840 Where are you walking?
00:02:59.080 I don't know, like, when you're walking in the street and then someone's like,
00:03:05.360 Yo, can I have your number?
00:03:06.780 I don't know, like...
00:03:07.980 Okay, so he asked you for your number?
00:03:10.260 Yeah, no, yeah, yeah.
00:03:11.960 He was very weird of it.
00:03:13.340 He kept on seeing me, like, in the street.
00:03:15.140 So every single time he saw me, would, like, speak.
00:03:17.600 And then he eventually asked for my number.
00:03:19.400 Okay.
00:03:19.880 Like, did you walk by him on your way to somewhere?
00:03:22.560 Yes, often?
00:03:23.320 The area that I lived in, it was, like, a very tight-knit area.
00:03:27.400 Like, I would see him if I come out again.
00:03:29.460 Oh, I see.
00:03:29.820 So, yeah.
00:03:31.100 What about you?
00:03:32.020 Where do you...
00:03:32.540 It sounded like dating apps earlier.
00:03:34.300 Yeah, so dating apps, I think 50-50, because I get approached quite a lot on the street
00:03:38.800 as it is.
00:03:39.700 And Brighton, I mean, we've got, you know, nights out.
00:03:42.920 There's a lot of, like, clubs and stuff.
00:03:44.220 So when I walk down the street to get to the beach, to hang out with friends, there's
00:03:48.080 always a lot of different guys coming up and stuff, you know?
00:03:51.620 So mainly this, but I think, yeah, I would say, yeah, more on an app, because I think
00:03:58.100 it's just more automatic.
00:04:00.080 But, yeah, but I think meeting people in person is more organic, and you can actually tell,
00:04:04.900 you know, what they're like, kind of the first impressions and everything straight away.
00:04:08.460 So, yeah.
00:04:09.020 So you prefer...
00:04:09.700 You think the quality is higher when you meet in person?
00:04:11.740 Quality is much higher when you meet in person.
00:04:13.040 You can feel them out.
00:04:13.940 You can't feel them out through the apps.
00:04:15.560 Right.
00:04:15.900 You can't put a filter in real life, too.
00:04:18.040 Yeah.
00:04:19.060 What about you?
00:04:20.860 To tell the truth, I don't do so much of the app thing at the moment, but so it's more
00:04:27.440 daily life and things like work.
00:04:29.960 So for the firm I work for, we're always hiring and firing people.
00:04:33.740 So I'm always meeting tons of people.
00:04:36.920 I was off for a month a couple of weeks ago when I came back.
00:04:40.940 There was tons of new girls and stuff.
00:04:43.100 And because I don't know if they have bad taste or I'm genetically gifted, I tend to get
00:04:48.780 a lot of attention and whatnot.
00:04:50.440 So when I have time, I sift through the potential suitors and whatnot.
00:04:56.420 So I work in the street pretty much.
00:05:00.880 So wait, let me get this straight.
00:05:02.700 So the place you work will hire girls and you'll date them and then they'll get fired?
00:05:07.780 I don't know.
00:05:08.500 I don't know.
00:05:11.500 Not in that order.
00:05:12.500 Definitely not going to mention where I work anymore.
00:05:14.440 But I mean, I don't have to say where, but I'm like, it's kind of convenient if it doesn't
00:05:19.580 work out.
00:05:20.160 You're like, oh darn.
00:05:21.940 For instance, so it's summer right now.
00:05:24.160 So we just had a ton of uni students come in for summer jobs and whatnot.
00:05:28.840 Ladies in the ages of 21 to 27 and stuff.
00:05:32.560 And a lot of them like older guys and stuff like that.
00:05:35.940 So we end up talking and stuff.
00:05:38.740 And yeah, sometimes it goes further.
00:05:40.500 Sometimes it doesn't.
00:05:41.580 And where did you meet your best relationship at?
00:05:44.620 Oof.
00:05:44.980 I don't think I've had that yet.
00:05:49.860 No number one draft pick?
00:05:52.160 Like tomorrow, you got to get married.
00:05:53.980 You got to pick an ex.
00:05:55.360 Oh, God.
00:05:57.200 That might have come from a dating app.
00:05:59.840 Dating app.
00:06:00.500 Okay.
00:06:00.760 Yeah.
00:06:01.840 What about you, MLD?
00:06:03.740 I think the majority of women I've met and dated came from dating apps.
00:06:09.500 But recently with my newfound internet fame, it's been Instagram.
00:06:13.720 So Instagram is a little bit, I don't know.
00:06:17.060 I think dating apps now are just flooded with shit people.
00:06:19.880 Yeah.
00:06:20.080 Like I think early dating apps, it was good times.
00:06:22.680 But like now it's Whale City and craziness everywhere.
00:06:27.920 Yeah.
00:06:28.480 That or bots.
00:06:30.160 So.
00:06:30.380 Yeah.
00:06:30.660 But I definitely agree like meeting them organically in the real world is probably the best way.
00:06:35.580 Okay.
00:06:37.100 And where did you meet your best relationship?
00:06:39.980 She was the secretary at my job.
00:06:42.560 Oh, no way.
00:06:43.720 Yeah.
00:06:44.400 You know, I have a friend that said, you know who it is, but I have a friend, Allie.
00:06:49.180 She says, if you want to date a certain type of guy to try to work for them.
00:06:52.740 Yeah.
00:06:53.020 Oh.
00:06:53.320 Yeah.
00:06:54.140 She's like, if you want a dentist, go be like a dental assistant.
00:06:57.260 No, she was the best girl I ever dated in my life.
00:07:00.180 What about you?
00:07:00.940 Now it would be dating apps, but it wasn't always like that.
00:07:06.180 I think when you're a bit younger, it's easier to get on with people.
00:07:10.660 Friends of friends, associates, things like that.
00:07:12.960 That's where it was when I was younger, but now dating apps working okay for me.
00:07:19.580 That's where it goes.
00:07:20.880 Okay.
00:07:21.720 Yeah.
00:07:22.120 Yeah.
00:07:23.000 Yeah.
00:07:24.360 You're a bit older.
00:07:27.400 You're a bit older.
00:07:28.980 You're a bit older.
00:07:29.200 You're a bit older.
00:07:31.260 Okay.