JustPearlyThings - October 13, 2023


Modern Woman Tries To Justify her Actions


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Length

36 minutes

Words per minute

226.94919

Word count

8,290

Sentence count

891

Harmful content

Misogyny

98

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Hate speech

56

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about women being aggressive towards men and how to deal with it. We also talk about the difference between being aggressive and being bitch-like and how women can call a man a bitch even though they have never met him before.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 It's giving sassy! It's giving sassy! 0.94
00:00:02.800 Are you using bud words? Are you speaking like an Instagram comments?
00:00:05.760 It's giving sassy! 0.92
00:00:06.640 It's giving bitch! 1.00
00:00:08.080 It's giving bitch! 1.00
00:00:10.640 And this is the thing guys! This is the thing guys right?
00:00:12.640 This is modern women. This is how they feel. 1.00
00:00:15.120 They can call a man a bitch that they've never met before
00:00:18.240 because they feel that safe. They feel that safe.
00:00:20.320 You can just call...
00:00:21.760 And guys, you see that there?
00:00:24.320 What are you going to do?
00:00:25.840 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:00:29.040 I'm giving you an example.
00:00:30.880 Would you ever tell me right now what you're going to do to me?
00:00:34.080 Why would you not do that?
00:00:35.840 I just think it's not necessary.
00:00:37.840 But what could happen if you tell me that?
00:00:39.120 You get punched.
00:00:40.000 Wait, wait, no, hold on a second. Hold on a second.
00:00:41.280 You get punched.
00:00:43.040 Yeah, if there is a fact.
00:00:44.080 King, King, what would happen if I just said that to you?
00:00:47.200 What would you do?
00:00:48.160 Bro, it's on.
00:00:48.960 It's on.
00:00:49.440 Hold on a second. Hold on a second.
00:00:50.720 Security, what would happen if I just said that to you?
00:00:54.240 So this is modern women, right? 1.00
00:00:55.840 They feel safe.
00:00:56.560 So what are you going to do then?
00:00:57.840 I'm not going to do anything.
00:01:00.320 Okay, just say that then.
00:01:01.120 No, hold on a second.
00:01:01.840 Stop.
00:01:02.160 No, no, hold on a second.
00:01:02.960 I'm saying you, you are threatening a man.
00:01:05.040 No, hold on a second, hold on a second, hold on a second, hold on a second. 1.00
00:01:08.720 Well, his whole point is you've been incredibly disrespectful to him the whole entire podcast.
00:01:12.160 Are you calling me aggressive?
00:01:12.960 You just called me a bitch. 1.00
00:01:13.680 He started it though.
00:01:14.560 He started it.
00:01:15.680 He didn't start anything.
00:01:16.720 But there's a double spin.
00:01:17.920 You guys just haven't ever had a guy tell you no.
00:01:22.080 Like, that's it.
00:01:22.800 You've never had a guy who was done.
00:01:24.240 You can't tell people to me.
00:01:25.680 I'm sorry for calling you a bitch. 0.99
00:01:27.760 But in that moment, I felt like you was being bitch-like. 1.00
00:01:30.000 But see, this is it.
00:01:30.960 Yeah, but the thing is, the thing is, the thing is, I'll be honest with you.
00:01:33.520 If I was bitch-like, yeah, and the types of guys that are bitch-like, they will get up and slap you. 1.00
00:01:38.080 Because I'm raised by, because I'm raised by my mother and my father, I have three sisters and nieces.
00:01:42.000 I would never do such a thing.
00:01:43.200 But let me tell you something.
00:01:44.800 You see with that, um, the last, we had that woman with the brick in the face. 1.00
00:01:47.760 Apparent brick in the face, not brick in the face, yeah?
00:01:50.000 And one of the things was, everyone's talking about women going up in man's faces, yeah?
00:01:53.760 You don't know me from anywhere.
00:01:55.440 You have just disrespecting me.
00:01:56.720 Let me tell you something.
00:01:57.920 Just like women know, yeah? 0.73
00:01:58.960 You say that to the wrong guy, I come up and I box you now.
00:02:00.960 And that says a lot about his upbringing.
00:02:02.080 No, wait, hold on a second.
00:02:02.960 But what is this?
00:02:03.680 Wait, stop, stop.
00:02:04.720 He's giving you a scenario.
00:02:06.400 What does it say about your upbringing?
00:02:08.080 How was you raised to speak disrespect to a man you have never met?
00:02:10.800 You say you're in university.
00:02:11.760 You say you're doing singing.
00:02:12.800 You say you're doing all these things.
00:02:14.160 All you've come and done is being so aggressive towards me.
00:02:16.480 I've been aggressive.
00:02:17.280 See, you just call man a bitch. 1.00
00:02:19.120 Like, seriously.
00:02:19.840 That's not aggressive.
00:02:20.880 It's giving sassy. 0.89
00:02:21.600 That was rude, but not aggressive.
00:02:22.240 See, the thing is, you don't, and because of men-
00:02:24.000 So what you're going to do is aggressive.
00:02:25.520 See, the thing is, men understand aggression.
00:02:27.280 There's different forms of aggression.
00:02:29.520 It's giving sassy. 0.89
00:02:30.400 It's giving bitch. 1.00
00:02:30.960 See, all of these things are aggressive.
00:02:32.080 Yeah, it's antagonizing.
00:02:34.080 It's antagonizing.
00:02:34.720 That's aggression.
00:02:36.080 Because this is the thing.
00:02:38.560 This is the thing.
00:02:39.200 We've lived such easy lives as women that she doesn't even understand there's consequences
00:02:43.600 for her actions because it goes back to it.
00:02:45.440 We get away with everything.
00:02:46.800 You can talk however you want and nothing will happen because men 1.00
00:02:50.160 built the society that lets us do damn near whatever we want.
00:02:53.120 No, that's a lie.
00:02:54.320 And then we disrespect men as a thank you.
00:02:56.240 What's a lie about it?
00:02:57.280 Funky for all.
00:02:58.000 Funky for all.
00:02:58.640 That's a big lie.
00:02:59.440 Okay, okay.
00:03:00.000 Who built the building?
00:03:01.200 It doesn't matter who built it.
00:03:02.160 It does.
00:03:03.200 You said there's no consequences.
00:03:04.160 Yes, it does.
00:03:05.200 There's zero consequences for women. 1.00
00:03:07.680 Zero consequences.
00:03:08.480 Women to women, very little. 0.99
00:03:09.600 Little to none.
00:03:10.560 I happen to agree with you.
00:03:11.680 Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
00:03:13.280 There's consequences.
00:03:14.320 100%.
00:03:15.280 You're telling me if I stop the man right now.
00:03:16.880 Shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh, shh.
00:03:19.680 Do men and women get equal sentencing for the same crimes for the same crimes?
00:03:22.960 No.
00:03:23.520 No, it's not even.
00:03:24.160 Every situation is different at the end of the day.
00:03:26.160 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:03:27.440 They never have.
00:03:28.160 They haven't for a hundred plus years.
00:03:29.680 So you're telling me every man gets the same sentence and every woman gets the same sentence. 0.93
00:03:32.560 Men get four times the amount of sentencing for the same crime as a woman. 1.00
00:03:36.160 That's not true, though.
00:03:37.120 Yes, it is.
00:03:38.080 Yes, it is.
00:03:38.720 Okay, you can shh, shh, you can, you can, you can, yes, you can shh, shh, you cannot,
00:03:43.200 you cannot believe it, right, but it's true.
00:03:47.200 Men absolutely get higher prison sentencing for the same crime, and you see all these women 1.00
00:03:52.560 killing their babies, killing their children, right, throwing them in dumpsters. 0.71
00:03:55.680 How many have we seen get off?
00:03:56.960 None of them.
00:03:58.240 Not too many.
00:03:58.880 I have not.
00:03:59.600 Oh, there's, there's, there's, there's, there's multiple, yeah, oh, no, it's pretty common.
00:04:03.840 It's pretty common.
00:04:04.560 There's multiple cases in the, I can't remember the name off the top of my head, but it's,
00:04:08.080 Well, baby people are gonna get off. 1.00
00:04:09.520 What do you mean they get off?
00:04:10.480 Like, it's cool.
00:04:11.440 They don't, they don't, they don't go to jail a lot of the time.
00:04:14.080 In where, America?
00:04:15.120 And this is, this is, this is even America, UK.
00:04:17.040 Every single one.
00:04:18.160 I'll give you one stop from the UK.
00:04:20.080 Okay, okay, I'll give you.
00:04:21.120 Lucy Leppi, she was a nurse for seven years before they suggested her.
00:04:24.640 You think if a guy was doing the same thing, he wouldn't have been questioned?
00:04:27.040 That was a race thing.
00:04:28.320 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:29.520 It doesn't, but she was a woman, right?
00:04:32.400 I didn't say it was just because she was a woman.
00:04:34.880 I didn't say it was that, like that was the only factor.
00:04:37.280 Also the sentencing as well, the sentencing, it's not just gender, it's also race as well.
00:04:41.920 My whole, my whole point is women do not have the same consequences that men do.
00:04:46.240 Neither do white people against black people.
00:04:48.080 This is just, this is just, you keep, you keep, you keep moving it, right?
00:04:52.080 We're talking about gender, right?
00:04:54.160 Women, women do not have the same consequences. 1.00
00:04:57.120 How many women's shelters are there? 1.00
00:04:59.520 Loads.
00:05:00.240 How many men's shelters are there?
00:05:02.080 Few, few.
00:05:02.960 Because there's only, okay, okay, okay.
00:05:04.960 There's not as many men that need shelter.
00:05:05.520 Okay, what makes you think that?
00:05:07.600 What makes you think that?
00:05:08.880 The majority of the homeless are men.
00:05:10.640 Why would you think then?
00:05:11.280 Purely because obviously.
00:05:12.640 Why would you think that men don't need shelter? 0.94
00:05:14.960 How many homeless women do you see as compared to homeless men?
00:05:17.680 Exactly.
00:05:18.320 Quite a lot of where I live, for example.
00:05:20.080 That is such a biased view.
00:05:23.200 No, but don't make that all.
00:05:24.640 No, I'm going to, I'm going to have to interject, but really like, come on,
00:05:28.640 you're letting your ignorance show you. 0.60
00:05:30.320 Like, if you want to come against the point, at least be sure of what you're saying.
00:05:34.640 Literally everywhere you go, Whitechapel alone, you can go downstairs right there.
00:05:38.240 I can, you, we will literally count way more than 30 homeless men right there on the street, right there.
00:05:43.280 Well, but the shelters are not only for homeless people, they're also for women that are abused as a single mother.
00:05:49.280 Do you not, do you not think, do you not think that men are abused?
00:05:52.880 Of course they are.
00:05:53.600 Okay, okay, so why are there only women's abuse shelters? 0.99
00:06:00.000 Why aren't there men's abuse shelters? 1.00
00:06:01.600 So I interviewed Erin Pizzi. 0.78
00:06:03.120 She started the first abuse shelter in the UK.
00:06:06.160 So it all started with her.
00:06:08.000 And she'll tell you that women are just as violent as the men. 1.00
00:06:11.680 So where are the men's shelters?
00:06:14.560 Oh, crickets, nowhere.
00:06:15.760 Okay, because women, because again, women do not have the same consequences that men do. 1.00
00:06:20.080 There's all of these government programs for women. 1.00
00:06:22.480 We have quotas, you know, we, we get special jobs.
00:06:25.440 I've even talked to recruiters about this.
00:06:27.440 For high paying jobs, they discriminate against men and they, they pick women over men.
00:06:32.480 Because women are marginalized. 0.99
00:06:33.680 Women are marginalized.
00:06:34.240 Women are not marginalized.
00:06:35.360 Women are just, okay, okay, okay, okay. 1.00
00:06:38.320 So I have a question, I have a question.
00:06:40.880 How are women marginalized? 1.00
00:06:42.160 Women are marginalized because women are abused at higher rates.
00:06:45.760 No, they're not.
00:06:46.400 That's not true.
00:06:50.720 It's roughly the same.
00:06:51.840 No, it's not.
00:06:52.560 It's roughly the same.
00:06:54.320 Okay, okay.
00:06:55.200 If I go out at night at 2 a.m. in the morning, my mom, my mom is going to tell me,
00:06:59.920 don't go outside.
00:07:00.880 You know, you're a woman. 0.74
00:07:01.760 A man is not going to be. 0.98
00:07:02.880 Why are you, why are you entitled to safety?
00:07:05.360 I need to address that point.
00:07:06.720 So this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, this is, no, no, no.
00:07:11.440 I need to address a point.
00:07:12.080 I have such a juicy point.
00:07:13.200 Hello guys.
00:07:13.760 I need to address a point.
00:07:14.800 And this is, this is a misconception you women have. 1.00
00:07:17.920 Now you think that women are told, oh, don't go out because it's dangerous at night. 0.97
00:07:23.600 Men don't get told that because men know that innately.
00:07:26.640 Okay.
00:07:27.280 Yeah, but I'm not going to go out.
00:07:28.560 A lot of men are stronger.
00:07:29.280 Hold up.
00:07:30.560 Yes.
00:07:31.120 A lot of men are strong, but there are also other men that are stronger than you.
00:07:33.840 Exactly.
00:07:34.480 That's the point.
00:07:35.040 I didn't.
00:07:35.440 Exactly.
00:07:36.160 Just because I'm strong doesn't mean there are not 50 men stronger than me that are ready
00:07:39.600 to kill me outside as well.
00:07:40.800 Exactly.
00:07:41.120 I'm dying to speak.
00:07:41.600 I'm dying to speak.
00:07:43.600 My point is, my point is, she made a point, she made a point that.
00:07:47.280 Men are 88% about homicides.
00:07:49.280 Yeah.
00:07:49.680 She made a point that her mom tells her, oh, be careful.
00:07:52.160 Don't go out at night.
00:07:53.280 This is something every man has been told from when we're young.
00:07:56.560 You don't go out at night unless you're ready to face whatever consequences you're going
00:08:01.040 to meet outside.
00:08:02.080 Listen, the streets are more dangerous.
00:08:04.960 Okay.
00:08:05.920 For a man to go out at night.
00:08:07.520 Of course.
00:08:07.920 That is delusional.
00:08:08.720 That is delusional.
00:08:10.560 Actually, I have a question.
00:08:14.560 We have, as women, a perceived danger.
00:08:18.240 I agree with you.
00:08:19.760 Because if we go out at night, something can definitely happen to us.
00:08:23.920 And therefore, if we were to take an Uber rather than walk the streets.
00:08:27.680 Okay.
00:08:29.760 Two o'clock in the morning, three o'clock in the morning will hopefully be safer.
00:08:34.320 But young men going out right now on the streets.
00:08:37.760 Do you know how panicking it is for them in terms of whether they'll meet up with some other
00:08:42.160 guys, a gang, stabbings, et cetera, et cetera?
00:08:44.560 But that's, again, about choice if you're in a case.
00:08:46.880 Right.
00:08:47.120 So let's say a normal woman. 1.00
00:08:47.440 No.
00:08:47.920 No.
00:08:48.400 No.
00:08:49.360 Okay.
00:08:49.520 Okay.
00:08:49.760 I have a question.
00:08:50.160 I have a question.
00:08:50.720 I have a question.
00:08:52.000 Who is more likely to get help if they're attacked?
00:08:54.880 A man or a woman? 0.98
00:08:55.840 A woman.
00:08:56.320 A woman.
00:08:56.720 Exactly.
00:08:58.240 You know what's so funny?
00:08:58.960 Yes.
00:08:59.280 Exactly.
00:09:00.080 If I'm walking down the street, like if I'm walking down this white chapel, yes, you might 0.91
00:09:03.760 look at me, I'm this big, tall guy, I'm strong and all that.
00:09:06.800 Even when I'm walking past 14-year-old kids, my spider sense is literally tingling because
00:09:13.360 at any second, anything could happen.
00:09:16.000 You women don't even realize that. 1.00
00:09:17.360 You women could just be walking down the street. 1.00
00:09:18.640 Yeah, you might have the perceived danger of, yeah, a man might cat call me or a man might
00:09:22.160 try to touch me, but you don't have the danger.
00:09:25.440 Not just try to touch you though.
00:09:26.640 Like, I'm sorry, every single man in this room, if they wanted to, could put force on
00:09:30.960 all of us and we could do nothing about it, but they would not be the other way now.
00:09:33.200 Exactly, I agree with that, but every single man in this room could also potentially come
00:09:38.880 to your aid.
00:09:40.000 We don't have that logic.
00:09:40.960 Men rarely come.
00:09:41.920 Men rarely come to your aid.
00:09:43.120 Okay, wait a minute.
00:09:44.160 Okay, I have a question.
00:09:45.920 Men are the bystander feeling. 0.93
00:09:47.120 Okay, I have a question.
00:09:49.440 I have a question.
00:09:50.400 So, you call the police.
00:09:51.840 Who's coming?
00:09:54.080 Most likely.
00:09:55.120 Okay, well.
00:09:55.920 Who's coming?
00:09:57.520 Who's coming?
00:09:58.400 Who's coming?
00:09:59.440 No, no, no.
00:10:00.480 It's not your show.
00:10:01.680 No, no, who's coming?
00:10:02.880 Answer the question.
00:10:04.400 Who's coming?
00:10:05.040 Okay, okay, for that, wait, wait, for that.
00:10:07.200 But see, this is what I mean.
00:10:08.080 You're entitled.
00:10:09.280 Women live such good lives. 1.00
00:10:10.560 You feel entitled to safety.
00:10:12.640 That has never happened in all of the history.
00:10:14.880 I don't feel safe when I go alone at night though.
00:10:16.480 In all of the history.
00:10:17.120 I don't feel safe.
00:10:18.080 But see, but that going alone at night is a luxury.
00:10:20.400 Why do you do it?
00:10:21.200 Well, you said that.
00:10:22.080 I don't because I do not feel safe.
00:10:23.920 I wouldn't do that personally.
00:10:26.400 But men don't feel safe at night.
00:10:28.480 But they don't feel safe because of other men.
00:10:30.480 Yeah, but women don't feel safe because of other men as well. 0.87
00:10:33.040 So who's the problem here?
00:10:34.560 One thing you need to realize is...
00:10:36.400 I'm not afraid of a woman.
00:10:38.400 Women won't attack me. 1.00
00:10:41.360 She might, but statistically, you will be a man.
00:10:43.520 Oh, I've only been attacked by women. 1.00
00:10:45.280 I'll tell you that.
00:10:45.920 Well, once again, that's the first one.
00:10:50.720 Okay, so if we go, if we go, I'm gonna go back to this.
00:10:53.280 If we go to war, who's going?
00:10:57.440 Okay, okay, okay.
00:10:58.560 So again, how are we oppressed when the men are the ones that have to risk their lives
00:11:06.240 to protect us?
00:11:07.120 We're oppressed in a different way.
00:11:07.680 There's women in army though. 1.00
00:11:08.720 There is women in army. 0.99
00:11:09.520 Exactly.
00:11:10.000 No, there's selective service.
00:11:11.920 They're not on the front line because they wouldn't put them on the front line.
00:11:15.280 Imagine there was out in Afghanistan and we put all our women on there. 0.97
00:11:17.840 I can't wait to see the comments on this.
00:11:20.560 Will you go to Afghanistan to fight?
00:11:27.360 Let's just go in this room.
00:11:28.640 Let's just go in this room.
00:11:29.600 For my country, I would.
00:11:30.480 All right, some crazy person walks in with a gun just into this room.
00:11:34.880 And all the men run away.
00:11:36.320 How would you feel if all the men actually run away?
00:11:38.560 Are you gonna run away or not?
00:11:39.520 No, no, that's not the question, but if all the men actually run away, how would you feel?
00:11:45.280 I wouldn't expect you to do anything.
00:11:46.720 I would protect myself.
00:11:47.760 I wouldn't be like, I'm just gonna sit here waiting for your husband to do something.
00:11:51.440 I have a question.
00:11:53.920 This is my security guard.
00:11:55.200 You're gonna protect yourself against this.
00:11:56.880 No, you said with a gun.
00:11:57.520 No, no.
00:11:57.840 You said with a gun.
00:11:58.640 Not if someone physically bigger than me physically attacks me.
00:12:01.840 What's the difference?
00:12:04.240 There is a difference because if it's a woman with a gun. 1.00
00:12:06.720 So let's get rid of the gun.
00:12:10.560 He comes at you.
00:12:11.200 What are you gonna do?
00:12:11.760 No, no, no.
00:12:12.080 Don't get rid of the gun.
00:12:12.960 What you think?
00:12:13.840 So you really think that if he walks in here with a gun and you have a gun, you're gonna
00:12:17.040 get the best of him?
00:12:17.600 Oh, I'm running.
00:12:18.640 So what the hell are you talking about then?
00:12:20.000 Your point was, how would you feel if older men would start running?
00:12:24.160 Yeah.
00:12:24.960 Everyone's protecting themselves.
00:12:26.000 Literally, everyone's on their own.
00:12:26.880 Okay, okay, okay, cool, cool.
00:12:28.880 What I said is I don't expect you to protect me.
00:12:30.560 So generally, you don't expect men to protect women?
00:12:33.760 Yeah, because they don't.
00:12:34.960 They don't.
00:12:36.160 They don't.
00:12:37.360 They harm them.
00:12:38.080 Can I ask you this line?
00:12:38.880 Okay, okay, okay.
00:12:39.760 Do you expect your husband to protect you when you eventually get married if you want to?
00:12:44.400 Yes, because I chose that husband for a reason because I know that specific man will protect
00:12:48.240 me.
00:12:48.400 That's why I choose him.
00:12:49.040 Why do you think that he should protect you then?
00:12:50.800 I want to protect him as well in different situations.
00:12:52.800 They made a vow.
00:12:53.840 So do we not make vows?
00:12:55.120 Why don't women make vows to protect men? 1.00
00:12:57.040 A strong man would want to do that.
00:12:58.960 It's not an exception.
00:12:59.840 Why do you want them out?
00:13:00.480 I have a question.
00:13:04.640 I have a question.
00:13:05.200 Do you think, do you think, do you think protection is a luxury or do you think you're entitled to it?
00:13:10.400 Luxury.
00:13:11.120 Everyone's a luxury.
00:13:11.840 It's a luxury.
00:13:12.800 Some things are innate.
00:13:14.720 Okay, okay, okay.
00:13:15.920 So what have, what have you done to deserve protection?
00:13:18.800 If we're humans, it's a fundamental.
00:13:19.680 No, no, no.
00:13:20.240 It's a human right.
00:13:21.040 It's to be safe.
00:13:21.680 No, no, no.
00:13:22.800 It's not.
00:13:23.680 It's not.
00:13:24.480 It's not.
00:13:25.680 It's not.
00:13:26.480 That is an idea.
00:13:27.520 Okay, shh.
00:13:28.480 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:13:29.920 No, no, I have a question.
00:13:31.280 You said it's a fundamental human right.
00:13:33.360 When in Eastern America, shh.
00:13:35.040 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:13:36.720 When has it ever been a fundamental human right that you did not have to protect?
00:13:41.680 What do you mean you have to protect?
00:13:42.720 Because even in America, right, people will come.
00:13:46.400 They come.
00:13:46.880 That's why we've had wars, right?
00:13:48.480 We fought a whole war over this.
00:13:50.560 So it's not just something given.
00:13:51.920 You have to earn it and protect it.
00:13:54.480 You're unhoused.
00:13:54.960 Yes.
00:13:55.440 How would you earn it?
00:13:56.560 It's a fundamental human right now, literally.
00:13:58.400 How did we earn it?
00:14:00.080 Historically, we went to war and the winners won and the losers lost.
00:14:03.600 Have you been in a fight before?
00:14:05.280 Oh, hell no.
00:14:05.920 I have security.
00:14:06.800 Okay, so this is my point.
00:14:07.680 So I've got eight brothers, yeah?
00:14:10.720 When I'm out with my little brother, for example, yeah?
00:14:13.680 And if I saw somebody approaching him, I will literally go mad on whoever it is.
00:14:19.680 I will protect my brother.
00:14:20.480 You protect your own at the end of the day.
00:14:22.160 That comes from what's inside.
00:14:23.360 That's nothing you've earned.
00:14:24.320 Irrespective of gender.
00:14:25.440 And that's not- you ain't got to force me to do that.
00:14:27.680 Yeah.
00:14:28.000 And I don't care if it's my older brother or my little brother or his brother or whoever.
00:14:31.520 But- but where did that- but it's because you guys are family, right?
00:14:35.760 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:14:36.960 If I know the person as well, if I see something going on-
00:14:38.960 You know, those men naturally want to protect.
00:14:40.160 But that's the point, right?
00:14:41.840 You know them.
00:14:42.560 You're not just going to go and get in-
00:14:43.440 No, no, no, it doesn't matter.
00:14:44.000 It doesn't matter.
00:14:44.480 If you're not- come on.
00:14:45.600 No, no, no, it doesn't matter.
00:14:46.160 So I've been in it.
00:14:46.720 Have you been in it?
00:14:47.200 No, you haven't.
00:14:47.680 I'll speak from my perspective.
00:14:49.120 I've seen when something has gone down and I know when something's wrong.
00:14:51.440 I get something inside here.
00:14:52.640 If you ain't got that inside you, that's something different.
00:14:54.080 But my point is you're still- you're still a chick. 0.94
00:14:56.880 You can't- you can only do so much.
00:14:58.320 Yeah, exactly.
00:14:59.120 You said it.
00:14:59.520 But let's address this.
00:15:02.000 That's why.
00:15:02.560 She said you can only do so much as a woman to protect.
00:15:04.720 But I want to address what you said.
00:15:07.280 You kind of made this wonderful statement of how you are a woman and you protect a man.
00:15:12.720 No, no, I didn't say as a woman.
00:15:14.400 I'm talking about just as myself in general.
00:15:16.400 But you are a woman.
00:15:19.040 So my point is, yes, as lovely as that sounds,
00:15:23.760 yes, in an idealistic world, we might look at you as a hero,
00:15:26.480 but I'm not even trying to be rude.
00:15:28.480 That is literally the worst thing you can do as a woman. 1.00
00:15:31.040 Trying to go out in the world, trying to protect men because you think-
00:15:33.520 So I'm Batman now.
00:15:34.320 I'm Batwoman, sorry.
00:15:35.120 I'm going out in the world.
00:15:36.000 Are you going to listen to me?
00:15:37.440 I said if something happened then and there, my instinct is to protect-
00:15:40.720 My point is-
00:15:41.760 Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:15:43.680 Guys, guys, guys.
00:15:44.720 Let him talk for a minute without interrupting him.
00:15:47.200 Jesus.
00:15:47.840 When you were speaking about your younger brother, I could even understand that.
00:15:50.480 Yeah, he's your younger brother.
00:15:51.680 Yes, you should protect him because he's more vulnerable than you are.
00:15:55.120 But when you start bringing in the part of, even if it's my older brother,
00:15:57.600 I think that is coming from a very masculine standpoint.
00:16:00.720 And you might think it's not, but that's the reality.
00:16:03.360 You might think it's not gender-based for you to protect others, but it actually is. 0.97
00:16:07.040 It's a masculine trait.
00:16:08.080 I don't-
00:16:08.560 Can I say one thing?
00:16:09.520 The reason why you feel like you should do that is exactly because of what you said,
00:16:13.600 because you grew up around so many boys.
00:16:16.320 So you've picked up a lot of masculine traits without even realizing it.
00:16:19.280 Then tell my mum that as well.
00:16:20.400 It's not about that.
00:16:22.160 I'm just telling you the facts.
00:16:24.320 I'm telling you, it doesn't matter.
00:16:25.280 Okay, so listen to this fact.
00:16:26.080 The fact is that, the fact is that, as a woman, you shouldn't go out in the world 1.00
00:16:29.680 when you see men getting at it physically and trying to inset yourself.
00:16:32.480 All right, so did you hear that?
00:16:32.880 Because you're going to-
00:16:33.680 He's contradicted everything.
00:16:34.720 Yes, because you're-
00:16:34.880 What do you believe?
00:16:35.760 He's contradicted everything.
00:16:36.720 I'm telling you because you're more than likely going to be the one to come out with worse injuries.
00:16:42.240 I'm glad you said that.
00:16:42.560 It's just common sense.
00:16:43.760 It is common sense.
00:16:44.640 And that's why women feel like if there was a situation where there's a man involved, 1.00
00:16:48.560 they feel like, oh my God, well, what could I do to this person versus this person here who's a man?
00:16:54.560 But my point is that men built the entire world and they give us protection.
00:17:01.840 It is a gift.
00:17:03.120 And we are super rude and disrespectful to them in return.
00:17:06.960 How do we disrespect them?
00:17:09.120 You were very rude to him.
00:17:10.640 He was rude first.
00:17:11.280 Like 10 minutes ago.
00:17:12.320 He was rude first.
00:17:13.360 So should I tolerate someone being rude?
00:17:15.120 No, he wasn't.
00:17:16.320 He would.
00:17:17.280 Even if he was a woman, it would have been the same person. 0.99
00:17:19.440 Hold on a second, hold on a second.
00:17:19.680 Sorry, what's your name?
00:17:21.520 What happened in the lift when we came up with the lift together?
00:17:23.280 Because you said about I won't protect people.
00:17:24.480 What did I do?
00:17:25.120 No, I'm talking about when she said come in with a gun. 0.99
00:17:27.280 Hold on, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:17:28.960 Forget that.
00:17:29.680 Because if I, what did I do in the lift?
00:17:32.080 That's not a protection thing.
00:17:33.840 Okay, we stood in the lift.
00:17:34.960 I've got a lift-phobia and he very kindly got in the lift with me and just said breathe, breathe, breathe.
00:17:38.880 I counted up.
00:17:39.600 Hold on a second, I met you for the first time.
00:17:43.040 I told you to come to the lift.
00:17:43.920 You said to me, wait, hold on a second.
00:17:45.440 You said to me, you've got a phobia.
00:17:47.040 I told you we're going up to the 21st.
00:17:48.240 And I said, thank you.
00:17:49.440 This is not about, this is not.
00:17:50.560 I appreciate it.
00:17:51.280 Can you let me speak up, please?
00:17:52.640 Can you let me tell the story, please?
00:17:54.560 I've met you for the first time.
00:17:56.000 Yes, we've come through the door.
00:17:57.040 You was with your partner.
00:17:58.080 You told him you don't need to follow you upstairs.
00:17:59.600 Yes, you have a partner, kiss you upstairs. 0.99
00:18:00.960 And you came inside, right?
00:18:02.400 You said you're going to go up to the 21st floor.
00:18:04.320 Yeah, I told you, that's got a lot of steps.
00:18:06.000 We couldn't, he's got a swipe card.
00:18:07.120 You can't come in.
00:18:07.600 I said, come in the lift.
00:18:08.240 She said she's got a phobia.
00:18:09.360 We counted up the lifts.
00:18:10.400 I told her to look at her floors, look at her toes, to breathe with me.
00:18:12.720 I told her not to look at anything.
00:18:14.000 And we did this.
00:18:14.480 We got to the 21st floor.
00:18:15.440 Then she gave me a hug.
00:18:16.400 Now, I just met her.
00:18:17.680 Now, if this-
00:18:18.160 That's common decency.
00:18:19.040 So wait, hold on.
00:18:20.160 Stop it.
00:18:21.440 A second ago, you said that men won't do something.
00:18:23.360 Now you're talking about common decency.
00:18:24.560 It's not common decency.
00:18:25.520 I'm saying you're protecting her.
00:18:32.400 The issue is it's so entitled.
00:18:43.360 This is so entitled.
00:18:44.800 Men built this entire world for women. 0.99
00:18:47.280 They have the wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:18:53.440 Wait, Jesus Christ.
00:18:55.360 It's like, you feel entitled to talk on the podcast.
00:18:57.680 Wait, wait, wait.
00:18:59.520 See, that's what I mean.
00:19:00.720 Okay, so it's like men built this entire world.
00:19:03.680 They're the majority of the police force.
00:19:05.280 They're the majority of the military.
00:19:06.800 They're the ones that are going to step in if somebody hurts you outside.
00:19:09.840 But who's the one having men? 1.00
00:19:11.200 More likely, wait, Jesus.
00:19:12.880 Wait.
00:19:13.360 And so it's like, because you don't know how to listen for five.
00:19:18.240 Wait, wait.
00:19:18.960 See, there.
00:19:19.680 What are you, five?
00:19:20.960 Shh.
00:19:22.080 My God.
00:19:22.720 It's like, they build this world for us.
00:19:24.320 They build the buildings.
00:19:25.280 They do all of the hard jobs.
00:19:26.720 45, half of men do a job that runs the infrastructure of society.
00:19:31.920 45% of men.
00:19:33.120 That means they're building the buildings.
00:19:34.960 They're doing the plumbing.
00:19:35.760 They're doing the electricity.
00:19:36.720 They're on a power grid.
00:19:38.000 Men built society and give us these useless jobs. 1.00
00:19:40.960 So we think we're more important than we are.
00:19:42.560 Because we're on OnlyFans are singing.
00:19:44.160 And we think that's equally important.
00:19:45.840 Is there no male singers?
00:19:46.640 Is there no male singers?
00:19:47.600 Is there no male singers?
00:19:48.640 Is there no male singers?
00:19:49.600 Is there no male singers?
00:19:50.640 Can I just say what I want to say?
00:19:51.600 Because it's really important.
00:19:52.560 I say what I want to say.
00:19:53.440 And see, and the thing is, we can't even, you can't even listen to it.
00:19:56.320 No, but you're talking about protection.
00:19:57.520 Wait, wait, wait.
00:19:58.480 You can't even listen without hearing the information, without getting mad.
00:20:02.880 Because you're changing that law.
00:20:03.920 Wait, wait, wait.
00:20:04.480 No, no, no, no, no.
00:20:05.360 I've got a question.
00:20:05.760 All I was trying to say is.
00:20:06.880 No, because I have looked at the data.
00:20:09.680 I've looked at the jobs that women are mostly, and it's mostly nursing, 1.00
00:20:13.600 administration, teaching.
00:20:15.440 These are not as useful, objectively.
00:20:18.080 Society is.
00:20:19.120 No, it's not.
00:20:19.680 Society is a society.
00:20:22.080 Wait, see, see, you guys.
00:20:23.280 Do you see?
00:20:23.840 You can't listen.
00:20:25.040 Two minutes.
00:20:25.680 Just wait.
00:20:26.640 Jesus Christ.
00:20:28.400 It's like, teaching is not as important because they used to homeschool.
00:20:33.120 And our IQ test, you know, it's funny.
00:20:35.200 And it's so funny.
00:20:35.840 I'll tell you.
00:20:36.400 In the 80s, women infiltrated education. 1.00
00:20:38.560 Meaning before it was mostly men.
00:20:40.160 Now it's mostly women. 1.00
00:20:41.200 There's a teacher and a teacher's aide.
00:20:42.640 Two women cannot teach as well as one man used to. 1.00
00:20:46.320 Yup.
00:20:46.960 Yup.
00:20:47.280 Meaning men can do our jobs better than us in general.
00:20:49.840 You said used to though.
00:20:50.640 So back in the 80s, right?
00:20:51.920 Yes.
00:20:52.480 So obviously times change.
00:20:53.680 So now a man.
00:20:56.160 I think we should go back.
00:20:57.520 I mean, shit, we can't do it, right?
00:20:59.200 And so that's not true.
00:21:01.920 There's always that right now.
00:21:03.200 You said that.
00:21:03.920 And I want to actually wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:21:06.720 And you know, it's funny.
00:21:07.840 It's actually, you're wrong.
00:21:08.880 You're not even correct.
00:21:09.760 There have always been influential women in history.
00:21:12.880 There's always been women leading political movements 1.00
00:21:15.680 in the 1800s, 1900s, 1600s.
00:21:18.560 There's Cleopatra, Joan of Arc.
00:21:20.960 No, women have not historically fought in world wars.
00:21:23.440 What did Cleopatra do? 1.00
00:21:24.080 Historically, in general, there's been exceptions,
00:21:26.640 but not the rule.
00:21:27.680 Occasionally, occasionally, there have been women queens. 0.97
00:21:31.440 And you know what they're more likely to do?
00:21:32.720 Wage war.
00:21:33.280 Because typically, they don't have a consequence.
00:21:35.200 So you shouldn't be running a podcast then?
00:21:36.640 Exactly.
00:21:37.520 A man should.
00:21:39.120 You can't do that properly then.
00:21:40.160 According to your logic, you shouldn't be running a podcast.
00:21:42.640 You know, and here's the funny thing.
00:21:44.720 Here's the funny thing.
00:21:45.680 You know, there's smart men that do what I do too.
00:21:47.680 There are.
00:21:48.640 I would say.
00:21:49.440 So do you have a bear at home?
00:21:50.960 You know, it's so funny.
00:21:52.160 You know, it's so funny.
00:21:52.880 It's like, you guys try to go personal
00:21:54.320 because you don't like the information.
00:21:55.680 It's not that, but you're making it seem like
00:21:57.200 women should just be making babies and cooking food. 1.00
00:21:58.560 No, that's not what I said, that's not what I said though.
00:22:03.360 You guys don't listen to what I said.
00:22:04.960 There have always been women in political movements. 0.99
00:22:08.960 Yeah, okay.
00:22:09.520 But we're talking about ratios though.
00:22:10.880 Okay, okay.
00:22:11.840 Based on your point, if women can't basically do anything 1.00
00:22:14.800 that men can do.
00:22:15.600 That's not what I said.
00:22:18.080 That's not what I said.
00:22:19.120 I said, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what I said.
00:22:22.640 Except there's always been high IQ, influential women in history, 1.00
00:22:27.600 but they're not the rule.
00:22:29.200 They're not, they're not the rule.
00:22:30.400 It's the exception.
00:22:31.200 It's not the rule.
00:22:31.920 What do you mean they're not the rule?
00:22:32.720 They're because, okay.
00:22:34.480 For every 10 smart men there are, there's one smart woman. 1.00
00:22:37.440 Okay.
00:22:37.920 So occasionally, so occasionally, I'm giving you,
00:22:40.800 you asked what it means to be an exception
00:22:42.720 and what it means to be the rule.
00:22:43.920 How do you know who does bear at school, men or women?
00:22:46.000 So, and I'll tell you why.
00:22:47.760 They switched the IQ test and they switched the school system
00:22:51.120 to make it more feminine.
00:22:52.160 How?
00:22:53.120 So I'll give you an example, the writing section.
00:22:55.040 A lot of times that's ideological,
00:22:57.040 meaning that if you don't put the right ideological talking points
00:22:59.760 that are more leftist, you get points taken off.
00:23:03.120 So you're saying women are dumb women. 1.00
00:23:04.560 So, yes, yes, I am.
00:23:06.560 And I'll tell you why, and I'll tell you, I'll tell you why.
00:23:09.200 See, I'll tell you why.
00:23:10.400 I'm actually quite smart, but I do think it's pretty idiotic.
00:23:13.280 And I do think it's pretty idiotic when you can do anything
00:23:16.800 and you go on OnlyFans.
00:23:18.320 Yeah, it's like...
00:23:19.440 It's choices at the end of the day.
00:23:21.040 You can do anything and you're on a podcast.
00:23:22.720 Oh, that's what I'm saying.
00:23:23.840 It's your personal choice at the end of the day.
00:23:27.040 And I'm not even talking about you personally.
00:23:28.880 We have more OnlyFans models than teachers now.
00:23:31.520 So, so, so, so, so, yes, it is, yes, it is.
00:23:33.920 People choose to do it.
00:23:34.640 But women, women clap for OnlyFans models 1.00
00:23:38.240 than they do for teachers.
00:23:39.600 I clap for teachers.
00:23:40.640 But a lot of modern women actually clap for OnlyFans. 1.00
00:23:43.280 No, no, no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:23:46.960 She said something initially.
00:23:48.160 She said, who respects people who work at test school?
00:23:52.080 But people respect, quote unquote,
00:23:54.080 according to possibly what she was actually saying.
00:23:57.600 If you are actually, you know, an OnlyFans model
00:23:59.520 and you're making a lot of money,
00:24:00.640 then you are respectable than the woman.
00:24:02.560 Clearly not.
00:24:03.360 Clearly not.
00:24:04.320 Hold on, hold on.
00:24:04.960 If we went to Tesco now,
00:24:06.240 see that you're using the Tesco as an example.
00:24:07.840 I'm just going to stick with that.
00:24:08.960 If we went to Tesco now
00:24:10.080 and asked any of the women,
00:24:11.280 who are single at women,
00:24:12.560 would you rather do OnlyFans?
00:24:13.760 Or what do you think about women who do OnlyFans? 1.00
00:24:15.520 Do you think any one of them is going to be like,
00:24:16.960 yeah.
00:24:17.760 They do all the time.
00:24:18.160 Because they could be doing it too.
00:24:19.360 They do all the time.
00:24:20.080 They will.
00:24:20.880 I mean, okay, okay.
00:24:22.000 Where are you?
00:24:22.640 Are you on Instagram?
00:24:23.360 A lot of women do. 1.00
00:24:24.720 They had an entire, they had an entire parade
00:24:27.920 that was dedicated to slut shaming. 0.95
00:24:29.680 Are you kidding me?
00:24:30.400 There's a lot of parades for a lot of things.
00:24:32.480 You can't, you can't say they won't parade it
00:24:34.400 when they literally did.
00:24:35.920 You know what?
00:24:37.200 I think, I think we're missing something.
00:24:38.800 I don't think we should make this about,
00:24:41.280 I'm sorry, I don't remember your name.
00:24:42.800 Gemma.
00:24:43.520 Right.
00:24:43.920 Because the first thing she said
00:24:45.440 is she wants to get out of it.
00:24:47.360 But women are being sexualized 1.00
00:24:50.240 and social media is programming our young women.
00:24:53.760 As far as I'm concerned.
00:24:55.520 And that programming, they think
00:24:57.680 that if they put their bottom out
00:24:59.920 and their breasts out, 1.00
00:25:01.680 they're going to get more,
00:25:03.040 what is it?
00:25:03.760 Likes and views.
00:25:04.480 Money.
00:25:05.040 And they do.
00:25:06.320 Right.
00:25:06.880 You can have somebody who
00:25:09.200 maybe is dressed a certain way
00:25:11.600 and it's not going to get the sort of traction
00:25:13.920 as someone who might put their nipples out. 0.95
00:25:15.760 Facts.
00:25:16.400 That's just facts.
00:25:17.680 So then, therefore,
00:25:19.600 young people's minds think,
00:25:21.520 okay, well, I'll show a little bit of this
00:25:23.360 and I'll go like that.
00:25:24.640 And it works.
00:25:26.000 So we have to remember that society also,
00:25:29.760 there are influences.
00:25:31.600 And unless people are brought up
00:25:33.440 by certain types of parenting,
00:25:34.960 that doesn't always work
00:25:36.160 because, I mean,
00:25:36.640 you can do your own thing.
00:25:38.240 But when you look at
00:25:39.840 even Netflix or streaming,
00:25:41.760 excuse me,
00:25:42.400 and maybe I shouldn't talk about
00:25:43.760 any particular streamer,
00:25:46.080 but you understand my point.
00:25:48.320 So, and going back to your point
00:25:50.080 in terms of education,
00:25:52.160 how are our children being educated?
00:25:53.840 Can I just say something?
00:25:55.040 You're saying that women 1.00
00:25:56.000 are being sexualized modern.
00:25:57.120 That's not true
00:25:57.760 because if you look at stars
00:25:59.120 like Marilyn Monroe,
00:26:00.720 Cleopatra, all these,
00:26:02.000 you're 60,
00:26:02.560 so you should know.
00:26:03.360 Marilyn Monroe.
00:26:04.160 I didn't say that she wasn't.
00:26:05.280 I'm just saying that women 1.00
00:26:06.160 are being sexualized.
00:26:06.880 It's not just a modern thing.
00:26:09.120 With the onset of social media,
00:26:11.840 it is so much more.
00:26:12.800 Can I just say,
00:26:13.600 it's not just social media.
00:26:14.880 And a hundred years ago,
00:26:16.560 85% of women were virgins,
00:26:18.320 or at least that's what they claimed.
00:26:19.440 But let's say they're lying
00:26:21.680 and we double it,
00:26:22.320 that's still two-thirds.
00:26:23.520 Yeah, we've moved on from that.
00:26:24.720 That's the...
00:26:25.280 This is 2023, babe.
00:26:26.560 So what should happen then,
00:26:28.320 in 2023?
00:26:29.280 I just disproved your point.
00:26:31.680 That what?
00:26:32.560 Because you said that this is a,
00:26:33.920 like this time it's,
00:26:34.880 this isn't new.
00:26:35.600 And I'm saying, yes, it is.
00:26:36.480 It's actually super new
00:26:38.160 at this time in history
00:26:39.200 to be this promiscuous.
00:26:40.880 There's always been,
00:26:41.520 there's always been a class
00:26:42.400 of concubines. 1.00
00:26:43.200 Yeah, there's always been
00:26:43.840 a class of concubines, 1.00
00:26:44.880 but it's been really small
00:26:46.480 in, in compared to the rest
00:26:48.720 of the population.
00:26:50.160 But then could it be argued
00:26:51.200 that men are the issue then
00:26:52.320 because who's sexualizing? 0.56
00:26:53.920 So I actually have thought
00:26:55.120 about this a little bit
00:26:56.080 and I kind of, I kind of go back.
00:26:57.680 I used to think that too,
00:26:59.040 but then I thought about it.
00:27:00.240 I think women take off 1.00
00:27:01.200 their clothes first,
00:27:02.400 before the men ask for sex. 0.99
00:27:04.080 And the reason I think this
00:27:05.280 is because I go to Vegas
00:27:06.400 and there's literally women 1.00
00:27:07.520 walking around
00:27:08.400 with stickers on their boobs. 0.58
00:27:10.080 But wait, sorry, I need to,
00:27:11.760 I need to draw attention
00:27:12.720 to something.
00:27:13.200 So it's funny how,
00:27:14.560 like you keep saying,
00:27:15.440 the language we use is very important.
00:27:17.040 Language is a tool of communication.
00:27:19.440 And if we don't use it properly,
00:27:20.880 we tend to pass on
00:27:21.680 the wrong information.
00:27:22.720 Now, you said women 1.00
00:27:23.600 have been sexualized.
00:27:24.960 Now, maybe that was true
00:27:25.840 in the past, but today,
00:27:27.520 I actually think women 1.00
00:27:28.480 sexualize themselves.
00:27:29.680 Yeah, that's one.
00:27:30.560 I don't disagree.
00:27:31.440 That's one.
00:27:32.080 Yeah, two.
00:27:32.800 My point was,
00:27:36.160 was the programming.
00:27:37.280 Yeah, no, but,
00:27:38.400 but that's what I want
00:27:39.360 to come to now.
00:27:40.160 So the point is,
00:27:40.720 you said there's a programming
00:27:42.000 that is now making women 1.00
00:27:42.880 sexualize themselves.
00:27:43.760 More so.
00:27:44.240 And then on this direct-
00:27:45.840 The whole reason OnlyFans
00:27:47.120 exists is because of men.
00:27:47.680 One second, please.
00:27:48.560 One second, please.
00:27:49.520 Yes, I agree.
00:27:50.800 But on the parallel,
00:27:52.240 you say that now
00:27:52.960 and then on the parallel,
00:27:54.080 some women will also come out 1.00
00:27:55.360 and try to argue Pearl's point
00:27:57.920 that women are just as smart 1.00
00:27:59.520 as men.
00:28:00.000 Okay, if that were true
00:28:02.320 and if we were to put in
00:28:04.080 accountability into this equation.
00:28:06.480 Now, let's put an analogy.
00:28:08.320 There is a push
00:28:09.920 to make young men 0.78
00:28:10.960 go into the street
00:28:11.680 and sell drugs.
00:28:13.600 Now, do we come out and say,
00:28:15.360 oh, yeah, but the society
00:28:17.200 is trying to make men 0.86
00:28:18.160 go out and sell drugs.
00:28:19.120 So now we should feel sorry
00:28:20.080 for the men that go out
00:28:21.040 and do it.
00:28:21.680 Of course not.
00:28:21.760 But we do, do we not?
00:28:22.640 No, we don't.
00:28:23.280 I 100% do ask for them.
00:28:24.880 No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:28:26.960 But let me finish my point.
00:28:28.160 I actually believe we don't
00:28:30.080 and I believe men don't.
00:28:31.360 So, and if women are doing that, 1.00
00:28:33.840 you are contributing to the problem.
00:28:35.120 I don't let men on a lot.
00:28:36.480 No, I'm telling you.
00:28:37.360 Men are more empathetic.
00:28:37.840 Men are a lot under the pressure.
00:28:38.560 But you see, that's the thing.
00:28:39.440 That's, this is,
00:28:40.160 this is what you call
00:28:40.880 virtue signaling.
00:28:41.600 When you say women are more empathetic, 0.99
00:28:43.200 how is it more empathetic?
00:28:44.400 How is that virtue signaling?
00:28:45.920 Can you let me make my point?
00:28:47.680 How is it more empathetic for you
00:28:50.800 to think that tackling a problem
00:28:53.120 is by trying to cuddle it?
00:28:55.920 How does that make any sense?
00:28:56.960 No, no.
00:28:57.360 That is, that is the female. 1.00
00:28:58.320 It's not cuddling.
00:28:58.960 It is, it really is.
00:29:00.240 You wouldn't see it that way
00:29:01.120 because you're a woman and I understand.
00:29:02.800 Men treat things completely different. 0.65
00:29:04.720 A man is not going to come out 1.00
00:29:05.840 and see a boy selling drugs and shit 0.82
00:29:07.120 and come and tell him,
00:29:07.760 oh, I'm sorry.
00:29:08.480 I think it's because of your upbringing.
00:29:09.920 No, I'm going to point out
00:29:11.440 the facts of the matter.
00:29:12.320 I'm going to point out where he's heading to,
00:29:14.480 which is probably going to be jail or his grave.
00:29:16.000 Me too.
00:29:16.640 I never said that.
00:29:17.440 The way I would just...
00:29:18.400 But you see in OnlyFans, yeah,
00:29:20.480 the owners of OnlyFans actually wanted to,
00:29:22.320 wanted to shut it down.
00:29:23.520 They wanted to clean it up.
00:29:24.320 And then there was a campaign by women
00:29:26.800 to stop it.
00:29:27.200 So they're...
00:29:27.760 Because they're the ones making money out of it.
00:29:29.360 Can I just say why that happened?
00:29:30.960 Wait, wait, wait.
00:29:31.920 Because of the banks,
00:29:32.800 that was nothing to do with them wanting to be like,
00:29:34.560 oh, we don't agree with this anymore.
00:29:36.000 No.
00:29:36.480 Okay, okay.
00:29:37.040 But what I'm going to say to you,
00:29:38.160 it wasn't,
00:29:38.880 it was women that went marching, 1.00
00:29:41.040 saying that you're taking away
00:29:42.080 the way I write.
00:29:42.400 It was women that... 1.00
00:29:43.040 No, it's the money you're taking away.
00:29:44.320 No, but I'm saying,
00:29:45.440 but I'm saying,
00:29:46.160 I'm saying men own OnlyFans. 0.80
00:29:47.360 Hey, McDonald's is hiring.
00:29:49.600 Men own OnlyFans, right? 0.72
00:29:51.200 So...
00:29:51.680 Oh, what, should I homeschool my daughter 1.00
00:29:52.800 on a McDonald's wage?
00:29:54.720 Maybe just don't have kids outside of wedlock. 1.00
00:29:56.960 But that's a child.
00:29:58.560 But you know what it is?
00:29:59.520 But this is like,
00:30:00.160 it's like the,
00:30:00.720 oh no, the consequences of my own actions.
00:30:02.960 The thing about OnlyFans girls is like, 1.00
00:30:04.800 you always act,
00:30:05.360 there's so many jobs.
00:30:06.320 Like, I don't know what everybody else does here,
00:30:08.480 but I take it there's only one OnlyFans person here.
00:30:10.320 I take it you're at university studying
00:30:11.920 because you're not going to do OnlyFans.
00:30:13.520 So I take it that wherever you're studying...
00:30:15.200 I've actually thought of doing OnlyFans though.
00:30:16.800 How many girls do OnlyFans? 1.00
00:30:17.440 Okay, that's fine.
00:30:18.000 That's fine.
00:30:18.800 But I take it,
00:30:19.680 but I take it you're not in university studying
00:30:21.600 to be OnlyFans girls, yeah? 0.98
00:30:23.280 No, of course not.
00:30:23.840 Okay, so wherever you're studying is worth,
00:30:25.920 it's gonna, it's worthy of studying,
00:30:27.760 it's gonna pay for your life, right?
00:30:29.040 But OnlyFans is a business.
00:30:30.080 No, no, no, no.
00:30:30.960 Okay, okay.
00:30:31.440 I'm studying business right now.
00:30:32.560 Yeah, okay.
00:30:33.440 You know what, sometimes,
00:30:34.880 so if OnlyFans,
00:30:35.680 sometimes as women,
00:30:36.480 we don't want to make it.
00:30:37.440 If OnlyFans is a business, yeah?
00:30:38.960 And then the same with men, 0.70
00:30:40.080 it's about sacrifice.
00:30:41.680 Are you willing to sacrifice?
00:30:43.680 Or are you going to go the easy road?
00:30:45.600 Or the long road?
00:30:45.840 But sometimes you are willing to,
00:30:47.200 then you might realize that you're not.
00:30:48.560 I'm not condemning it.
00:30:49.680 I'm not condemning it.
00:30:50.880 Do you know what's crazy?
00:30:51.200 I'm just saying that let's deal with the facts.
00:30:53.040 You know what's so crazy?
00:30:53.680 Sometimes we decide that I'm gonna do this
00:30:56.720 because it will reap me a reward,
00:30:59.200 hopefully in a given amount of time, right?
00:31:01.920 That's it.
00:31:02.640 So it's facts.
00:31:03.680 You gotta respect people's hustle, man.
00:31:04.560 No, they want the rewards.
00:31:05.920 They want the rewards without the consequence
00:31:07.680 and the backlash.
00:31:08.400 That's what usually happens.
00:31:09.200 So that's why when you pull up receipts
00:31:12.480 or you try to question their logic on why they do it,
00:31:15.600 then it's always like,
00:31:16.480 oh, you're attacking me.
00:31:17.360 No, no one is attacking you.
00:31:18.720 It's just life comes with consequences.
00:31:20.560 I'm not even speaking to you.
00:31:22.400 I'm just saying in general, yeah.
00:31:23.680 I'm saying like, as an OnlyFans person,
00:31:25.440 I attack myself every day for what I do.
00:31:27.280 I don't like it.
00:31:27.920 You shouldn't even have to do that, babe.
00:31:28.640 Don't let these people think that they're not above you.
00:31:29.840 What are you saying?
00:31:30.960 Because they're not above you.
00:31:31.840 No, but I'm just saying the truth.
00:31:33.200 I'm the honest person.
00:31:34.160 I'm telling you.
00:31:34.880 We're not against her.
00:31:37.440 We're not against her.
00:31:38.880 No, no, no.
00:31:39.840 But I'm saying a couple people in here,
00:31:41.200 they do think that they're better than you.
00:31:42.400 A couple people who, man?
00:31:43.600 You came in here or something?
00:31:44.880 I don't think.
00:31:45.520 Don't let people think that you're pressure
00:31:46.720 because you are pressure.
00:31:49.120 But we can talk about better and worse choices.
00:31:53.200 I'm not talking about you as a person.
00:31:54.400 Yeah, exactly.
00:31:55.840 Okay, if I had a drug dealer in here
00:31:58.480 and we said, why do you do that?
00:31:59.680 You have a kid.
00:32:00.320 Nobody would have the same backlash.
00:32:01.840 What about if you were not on OnlyFans?
00:32:03.600 No, they wouldn't.
00:32:04.880 No, because that is a crime.
00:32:06.400 No, they wouldn't.
00:32:07.680 That's a very different analogy.
00:32:09.520 It's a crime.
00:32:10.640 Wait, I'm saying,
00:32:11.520 what if the man was on OnlyFans
00:32:13.040 and he had a daughter?
00:32:14.000 Same thing.
00:32:14.800 It's the same thing.
00:32:16.640 It's worse, worse, worse, worse.
00:32:19.040 If you say something.
00:32:20.400 Imagine a man having a daughter 1.00
00:32:21.440 and being on OnlyFans.
00:32:22.480 He didn't take that daughter away from him, man.
00:32:23.680 There's a lot of dads out there on OnlyFans.
00:32:24.960 And if they got daughters,
00:32:26.560 they take them away from him.
00:32:27.360 I talked about Adam 22 for like two weeks.
00:32:30.080 And what's wrong with that?
00:32:31.040 Can I say what's wrong with that?
00:32:32.160 It's selfish.
00:32:33.040 Selfish how?
00:32:33.840 It's absolutely,
00:32:35.120 and I need you to not respond when I talk.
00:32:37.280 I need you to shh.
00:32:38.320 Thank you.
00:32:38.880 Thank you.
00:32:39.760 So it's selfish because it's not supposed to be about you.
00:32:43.520 Like what is money?
00:32:45.040 Kids want good parents.
00:32:46.640 It is absolutely selfish to put your kid in a position
00:32:50.000 where now they're going to have to see their parents having sex on the internet. 0.93
00:32:52.960 But how are they going to see that?
00:32:54.160 I cannot, because one day, because, because wait, wait, see.
00:32:56.880 Don't do that.
00:32:57.760 Because kids, you know, because the truth comes out eventually
00:33:01.760 and one day kids grow up and people talk.
00:33:03.920 And there's been, there have been, wait, wait, there have been,
00:33:07.360 wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, thank you.
00:33:10.480 And there have been, there have been so many accounts of kids
00:33:13.520 that are getting bullied because of their mother or their father is on OnlyFans.
00:33:17.360 And it's, and it's, and it's wrong.
00:33:20.480 And it's, and it's, and it's, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:33:24.160 I got bullied for being black.
00:33:25.440 And that's what I got.
00:33:26.160 So I'm not getting bullied by not having people that don't have enough money.
00:33:29.280 So kids that have very cheap.
00:33:30.640 But this is, you can't make comparisons.
00:33:32.320 You know what's so interesting?
00:33:33.680 Come on.
00:33:33.920 You can't make comparisons about when you see your mum or your dad out there
00:33:38.720 compared to being bullied for being black.
00:33:40.560 That's not a comparison.
00:33:41.440 Yes, it is.
00:33:42.000 No, it is.
00:33:42.800 Because at the end of the day, it's being bullied.
00:33:44.000 I don't have a choice.
00:33:45.840 I can't be black today and then not black tomorrow.
00:33:47.760 Exactly.
00:33:48.240 It's not logical.
00:33:49.520 So you can't make the comparison.
00:33:51.360 You can.
00:33:52.400 What are you saying?
00:33:53.200 That's a choice.
00:33:53.920 No.
00:33:54.480 Can I ask you a question?
00:33:55.440 Can I ask you a question?
00:33:56.800 Are you black by choice?
00:33:58.560 No.
00:33:59.040 That's what I just said.
00:34:00.000 But are you, can you actually become a prostitute by choice?
00:34:02.720 No, no, no, no.
00:34:03.360 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:34:04.320 Yes or no?
00:34:05.040 Yes or no?
00:34:05.920 Yes or no?
00:34:06.640 No.
00:34:07.360 Don't call, don't call her a prostitute. 1.00
00:34:09.360 So, so guys, no, no, no, no, I, no, I wasn't calling her.
00:34:13.040 He's generalising, he's just generalising.
00:34:14.320 No, no, I wasn't calling her.
00:34:15.200 It's not her.
00:34:16.320 All right, listen, listen.
00:34:17.440 For all the man that did PE and stuff, that went to school, that did sports, yeah?
00:34:20.480 You guys remember what it was like in the PE room, yeah?
00:34:22.240 All right, I want to ask everyone, because you know how us guys, how did, how did boys
00:34:26.000 violate each other in football when we go out?
00:34:28.880 How did, what, what happens in the changing rooms?
00:34:30.880 Now, the reason I say this, yeah, is because that, a man would just say, oh, your mum before,
00:34:34.880 or your mum's a whore. 1.00
00:34:35.600 That would be enough to make you start beefing and scrapping just in the playground.
00:34:38.960 Yeah.
00:34:39.440 Let alone someone be able to come and show, oh my God, you have no idea what that's going to do to a man.
00:34:46.240 But this is more hypothetical.
00:34:47.760 No, no, no, no, no, no, it's not, it's not hypothetical.
00:34:50.080 No, no, no, it's not his thing.
00:34:52.480 This is reality.
00:34:53.520 Okay, that is reality.
00:34:54.400 Let's deal with reality.
00:34:55.920 Shh, you were just guessing.
00:34:57.600 No, I'm not guessing, and the thing is, the thing is, you guys want to do everything,
00:35:01.040 and you guys want to live in a world where there's going to be no consequences.
00:35:04.000 But I'm telling you something, they are consequences, particularly when you have young men.
00:35:09.920 See, a lot of women, so we speak about, you spoke, you said I always speak about single mothers.
00:35:15.200 And the reason why I do is because, is because we have a lot of stats for single parent homes,
00:35:19.280 and what they produce and the upbringings of it.
00:35:20.960 It doesn't mean all, it's never all, it's never all.
00:35:23.440 It's majority, but it's never all.
00:35:25.520 So some people were raised by a single mother
00:35:27.360 and they were going to be amazing,
00:35:28.480 they're going to be like Marcus Rashford
00:35:29.920 and feed the kids.
00:35:31.120 But for every Marcus Rashford on the estate,
00:35:33.440 there's loads of people that are not going to make it out
00:35:35.120 to be Marcus Rashford.
00:35:36.080 So all I'm trying to say is,
00:35:37.280 sometimes when we speak as well,
00:35:38.960 you take it so literally, it's not always all.
00:35:41.440 It's not always all, that's all it is.
00:35:42.960 And the reason I want to go back to what I was saying
00:35:45.600 to you, Jem, earlier on,
00:35:46.320 the reason I'm trying to talk about protection is because
00:35:48.080 you don't understand that sometimes us men
00:35:50.640 will do protection in a different way.
00:35:51.760 You didn't see what I was doing in the lift as protection.
00:35:53.760 Wait, wait, wait, just hold on a second.
00:35:55.360 Just hold on a second.
00:35:56.080 But she didn't, she was talking about a gun.
00:35:57.600 But I was trying to say the type of character
00:35:59.280 that you meet a man, he does not know you.
00:36:01.360 He's witnessed you kissing another man.
00:36:03.040 Yeah, saying goodbye to him.
00:36:04.320 So I'm not trying to move to you.
00:36:05.680 He's going to sit in the lift with you and count.
00:36:07.360 I should be very good that you're just nice.
00:36:08.720 No, no, he's making an example.
00:36:10.960 Get the point, get the point.
00:36:12.480 I've got the point, I've got the point.
00:36:14.160 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:36:18.480 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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